How Could You Leave Us (NF): UK Psychology Professor Reacts.
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- In this video, I'll delve into the emotional depths of NF's powerful lyrics and the raw vulnerability he expresses. The song addresses NF’s profound grief and anger over his mother's departure and her battle with drug addiction. I’ll explore how these themes are presented and what they reveal about the impact of such loss on both a personal and psychological level.
I’ll also reflect on how NF's storytelling and emotional delivery highlight the complexities of addiction and its devastating effects on family relationships. It’s a heart-wrenching piece that not only showcases NF's immense talent but also serves as a poignant commentary on the struggles faced by those dealing with similar experiences. I’ll be analysing how this song can resonate with viewers who have experienced similar pain and loss in their own lives.
Throughout the video, we’ll examine how NF’s grief and anger intertwine and the psychological implications of his narrative. Addiction and its aftermath are challenging to understand, and NF’s song provides a deeply personal perspective that can help us better grasp these issues. I hope this analysis sheds light on the emotional weight of the song and offers some solace to those who might relate to NF’s story.
We would love to hear your thoughts and any shared experiences you have with this song.
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Great reaction. Great insight.
If you'd like to hear the resolution to "how could you leave us"
You should listen to his song "mama"
There's no music video for it but it's a great song.
How could you leave us = the conflict
Mama = the resolution
Can't wait to watch it!
I subbed for more nf
need an immediate follow up with “mama”
Just subscribed can't wait until you get to his newer album and stuff like therapy session it only gets better
love the video!! nf is a great musician
NF spits lyrics with a vexing sadness. Great reaction. Love your NF reactions. The closing of this pain we see in the song "Mama" where NF forgives her. Such a great observation Dr. Nic that a lot of the images NF showed us was great memories and love. If you react to the song "Happy" it is just as hard to watch. In that video we see the protagonist recalling her life of pain, but she makes a wish and I some say she dreams of a different better life, but I say she recalls better memories of her Mom, not a fantasy. This underscores what I really believe is happening in the video which is how the devil affects our mind with negative memories and even false ones, and God has a way of taking us back in our memories and reminding us of His faithfulness and goodness.
Great comment - thanks Dennis for taking the time to give me this perspective. I think I'll add Happy to the list now! Nic
Fantastic review! Thank you!
Love this song but breaks my heart as close to home for me. Seen NF last year, hes amazing 💙🤍
Love from Scotland
New Sub, Great Reaction. Please Do NF - Happy
I was waiting for this one. Absolutely love your NF videos. I really feel like you hear every word of his lyrics and you see the depth in them and you're not tip-toeing around subjects.
It's easy as adults to rationalize and think about things from a logical perspective, but it's surprising how often we then catch ourselves "acting out", sort of like a toddler with a temper tantrum, because something triggers within ourselves, sometimes because of things we don't even really remember. And sometimes we get caught trying to mediate between those outbursts caused by "irrational" feelings and our "rational" thinking brain.
I think NF now as an adult knows that his mom didn't choose to leave, but that there's still a part of him that is stuck in that time and that child-like way of thinking, which I think is totally valid. A child shouldn't have to question whether their parents will be there. I love that he doesn't downplay how much it affected him, and that he feels the right to express that anger and hurt, even if it to some people may sound like he's oversimplifying a very complicated subject. Bu truth is that children can't see how complicated it is. To them it IS simple.
Still despite the anger, we can hear every now and then in the song, especially at the end, his adult understanding and longing expressing itself. It's just all disguised as anger. Not intentionally, but because being angry is easier than feeling hurt and abandoned. Especially for a child. It's easy to get stuck in that way of thinking. And sometimes adults get too caught up in defending the adult's actions rather than really listening to the child's view of the situation, even when that child is grown up.
I loved hearing your thoughts on this. I've seen some people completely side with NF and some people completely side with his mom's situation, but that shouldn't be a thing. Both experiences are equally as valid. He has the right to feel angry and hurt, at the same time as we can acknowledge that his mom's situation was complex and experienced as out of her own control. And I think you acknowledged that beautifully.
NF has another song about his mom called "Mama", but it's pretty new, so if you intend to listen to his songs sort of in order then it'll have to wait a bit. But I definitely recommend listening to it at some point. :)
Looking forward to more of your videos!
You several times said that it was so long after her death that he recorded this. It was not that long. She died in 2009, and this was on Therapy Sessions, which was released in 2016, when he was 25. At most this was done 7 years after her death, probably no more than six, since it has to be written and recorded well before the album can come out. These feelings were at the time still quite raw.
Only just stumbled across your videos and I love your approach!
I have a quite underrepresented artist to recommend you - Elliott Smith (you may have heard of him, 90s folk/rock artist, who also tragically died young) - I’d recommend to start with something like A Fond Farewell which deals with the relationship people have with addictions (in this case, most likely heroin).
Keep up the good work! :)
Ah that's very kind of you, thank you! And thanks also for the suggestion! Nic
In a 2017 interview with Idolator Nate said:
"It’s real. I mean, that’s really me crying. My producer left the room. For like five minutes I just talked on the microphone. There’s so much stuff people didn’t hear that we took out, of me just bawling and talking about memories. It was very therapeutic for me. We picked through the stuff that we felt was the most important." Thankfully he had an outlet for that grief.
This doesnt surprise me at all. It felt real.
Do Nate And Mama
On the list now, thank you!
It's been over a year since I first suggested you should react to NF-Mansion on one of your Ren reactions. I'm very impressed with how much you've grown in your presentation of these videos Nic. I'm glad you've stuck with Nate over these videos and I look forward to seeing you continue that journey. There's soo much to unpack in his songs. I always end up coming out of your videos with extra context I'd missed. Thank you.
Hello Mike!!! Thanks so much for that guidance Mike, and for your encouragement. NF was a perfect steer for me. I hope all is well, Nic.
Now you need to react to “mama” and see the amazing growth he’s accomplished.
Thanks for the comment - Mama is now on the list!
Can we take time to appreciate how he says “I hope you like what I go for” much love brother
: ) I say that because Im just trying my best and so will never be able to do a good job always!