I can't Spiritually Trust People on Tinder & Bumble

I have tried Tinder and Bumble a few years ago, but I always felt strange on these dating apps. What are the values that people walk around with if they can just swipe left or right whenever something goes wrong or needs a little more time. Maybe my view on these platforms is strange, feel free to correct me, but hear me out!
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Thanks for watching, more to come!
Love, Mischa
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[@med.i.tations]

I have so much less anxiety walking around bc
when I used to use those apps I felt like everybody who was using the app,
and saw me in person, automatically viewed me in a certain light.
I like meeting people naturally and "old fashioned" now,
and I agree that we will meet certain right positive people if we attract it from within first!
It also makes you feel actually more special that you're not on those apps anymore because if people on those apps see you in person,
They will think "I have never seen them on the apps!" And then if they want to pursue you,
It forces them to be more courageous / confident to go up to you in real life lol 😂
I don't regret my time when using those apps I learned lessons but I am definitely happier without them now 😊❤

[@post.mischa]

That is an interesting view indeed! I didn't think of it like that.
Haha it's true tho, might take a little extra effort to meet some people.
Tho will that prince/princess be even on that app 🙈
Same, I don't regret it, those 3 memorable dates are easy to be forgotten haha!

[@drphilisalwayswatching5993]

It’s funny that this video showed up on my timeline just as I’ve been questioning my use of Tinder…I had taken a break from it then decided I wanted to see what it was like while I was travelling in Japan. Even in a different country; the same type of men were on there. Unavailable; literally some literally had girlfriends and wives as well as emotionally. Bad tempered and would unmatch me if I didn’t reply fast enough.
I went on a “date” with a guy for him to just tell me he was looking for friends with benefits which confused me because he was the one who suggested the date(s), which in my opinion implies some romantic inclination.
All of these interactions have really been unsettling and misaligned with my emotions, sense of self and worth. It’s definitely not the place for me!
I’d rather meet someone organically, build and connection and feel mutual respect and attraction, not just be used as a quick dopamine hit and easy sex.
Thank you for this video!

[@post.mischa]

Thank you for your view on it, actually teaches me something as well, really appreciate that