The Importance Of Being Inauthentic: Mark Bowden at TEDxToronto
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ต.ค. 2013
- The fifth annual TEDxToronto conference took place on September 26, 2013 at The Royal Conservatory of Music.
For our 2013 TEDxToronto Conference, all talks, performances and demos were rooted in our selected theme, "The Choices We Make."
About the Speaker:
Mark Bowden is an expert in human behavior and body language, and creator of TRUTHPLANE™, a communication training company and unique methodology for anyone who has to communicate to an audience with impact. Mark gives keynote speeches worldwide on persuasive verbal and nonverbal language and communication structures to stand out, win trust and profit when you speak. Mark's publications are bestselling Winning Body Language (McGraw Hill 2010); Winning Body Language for Sales Professionals (MH 2012); and Tame the Primitive Brain (Wiley 2013).
For more information visit www.tedxtoronto.com
In the spirit of ideas worth spreading, TEDx is a program of local, self-organized events that bring people together to share a TED-like experience. At a TEDx event, TEDTalks video and live speakers combine to spark deep discussion and connection in a small group. These local, self-organized events are branded TEDx, where x = independently organized TED event. The TED Conference provides general guidance for the TEDx program, but individual TEDx events are self-organized.* (*Subject to certain rules and regulations)
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this is low key one of the best ted talks I've heard
it's wrong though lol all of the neurobioloy is wrong
@@niceguyy3815 Could you argue, make a case, or give the sources?
Mark is so charismatic, brilliant, and entertaining. Just love him and the rest of the Panel.❤
I've become acquainted via TH-cam with Mark Bowden from his participation on The Behavior Panel. I think he's really smart, funny, and thoughtful. All of these qualities are displayed well in this TEDx Talk.
I find Mark and the Behavior Panel really interesting too. The only problem is that Mark is lying in this speech. One of the things he is forever pointing out on the Panel is when someone is showing a smile that they don't really mean and how it still registers on their face and that we can spot it at an instinctual level. Here (no matter what he states to the contrary) he truly likes people and his smile is authentic. Busted, Mark!
@@Laura-Lee or he did a really good job.
Mark is an astonishing communicator. It's almost as if you could switch the sound off and make out what he's saying.
I also think that Mark's consistent congeniality, his sense of humor, and great listening skills really enhance any dialogue in which he participates, and make for enjoyable listening.
Same! It's a pleasure to see him moving in a physical space outside zoom. Great talk.
I LOVE the head nod without the usual “Thank you” at the end. It gives off “magician after he nails his magic trick” vibes (and so do the arms he uses as he walks off the stage). I love it! He is as much a performer as he is an intellectual, or at the very least, he has most definitely chosen to appear that way to us. Bravo.
Wow. Masterful. I'm at 16:15 and watching Marks descension from displaying competence, vulnerability and empathy in body language and facial expressions, to the opposite was awesome. Suddenly, no smile, minimal eye contact, hands down or in pocket, agitation, aggressive stance. Love it.
Amazing to watch isn't it .
In my opinion... He is right! I used to be authentic and realized that is was taking me nowhere. Being "inauthentic" does not mean being dishonest but changing our mindset for our own betterment.
Cesar.. DITTO... COMPLETELY Agree with your observation
Yes. Your "OWN" betterment. That says volumes about you without seeing your body to interpret it. The greatest advancements made by humans throughout history was, in the overwhelming majority of times, to help someone other than the creator and usually involved them making a huge personal sacrifice. But those who acted for themselves history has recorded as tyrants ... or not at all. When we compare Mark Bowden and Madame Curie in 100 years, which one will people still know about?
The more views this video gets, the more brilliant the world becomes.
I can't believe this hasn't made it onto the TED director channel. This is utterly amazing and groundbreaking, completely against the grain thinking and a revelation to me personally.
tdreamgmail I totally agree with you. Mark Bowden's presentation is one of the BEST I have seen on TEDx youtube videos. The mere 46,000 view is even more shocking! Mark is absolutely spot-on about how us humans act "indifferently" most of the time to protect ourselves; yet Mark effortlessly breaks our barriers and lets us into his big ideas. What a great presenter, even better message... (he should try out acting career too!)
I totally agree with you! Everyone has to see this. His presentation inspires me everytime when i see this TEDxTalk
ahhah exactly!
@@wlkf.727 He already did a stint as an actor. He now trains people how to speak in public, including G7 leaders.
Stay away from anyone who tells you "to succeed, you have to be fake".
This is a great counter-balance to the conventional messages of this era that being authentic and real is a one-way ticket to betterment. As with all betterment ideas, balance and intention is the often the best approach. Perhaps being inauthentic - but with good intentions - can become our authentic self with practice.
Not a good comparison. He is not talking about being authentic in the same way.
This speech made, me want to be a better human.
Given that mankind is the most dangerous beast, Mark’s message of inauthenticity is a good one.
mark Bowden is amazing. one of the best ted talk ever for me
Mark Bowden? I thought it was Colin Cowherd
June 2016: 98K views? This should have 98 Million views - it's brilliant!
His work on the TH-cam Behavior Panel is interesting and fascinating as well!
If you broadcast friendliness, you will find the world a much richer and beautiful place.
I broadcast happiness when I visited places and found the locals to be absolutely charming. I’ve also been places where I’ve been more guarded and found it indifferent.
Mark is so right. Doors will open for the friendly that don’t exist for the indifferent.
Mark trained as an actor. It tells. He knows how to manipulate and play an audience. He proved this when he did the Nike super bowl streaker advert. Can't be unseen.
My teacher forced me to watch it
Your teacher is great
What course ? Let me guess psychology ? Or sociology?
Mark! I think you are wonderful! ❤
Mark has wonderful charisma, definitely friend category 😁
Totally agree with you 😃
Ditto
Love mark!
❤❤❤
When he was doing the predator bit towards the end, I could tell that I was on alert. I could tell what he was doing, but It was still working on me lol
I love Mark so much. He has a brilliant mind and way of communication. This was a great speech!
holy moly! I totally just stumbled across this one when looking for body language videos! He is amazing! and that was brilliant! and ive watched Ted talks for years.
its also ironic how many teachers, lecturers, politicians and even public speakers have the body language that Mark intentionally adopted half way through the talk, and don't realise why nobody listens to them!!
Wow I remember him in our middle school play...always was destination ed for the stage 😉
Just finished reading his book and already using these techniques with great success. I am a corporate trainer and am always speaking to people.
Did this guy become my new hero?
I guess we shouldn't go around letting people know how authentic we are. Excellent TEDx Talk.
That was brilliant!! ate it up!! loved it! and thank you Mark Bowden
Wow..................MIND BLOWN.....I can already see me applying this to my life and making a big change in it.
i should watch this every day before i go teach
I watch it every once in a while
Great way to demonstrate the paradox and bring us back to our choices. We all yearn for connection but wait for others to start it or notice us. This brings home the profound effect of reaching out to the person near us. Well said
Wonderful talk; I just read his book "winning body language" and Vloged about it.It was worth the time it took to read it! Thank you for all the great content Mark!
I don't agree that I am indifferent, but I DO agree that talking to everyone changes your day.
A brilliant talk, implemented in my every day life and it's amazing the difference it makes.
One of the best TED talks I've seen!
After being in several abusive relationships and friendships because of people who exploited this kind of stuff to deceive me, I feel very weird watching this
the importance of this talk is incredible. thank you for uploading this :)
I have been watching quite a few of Tedx videos today, and I must say Mark Bowden gives me the most pleasant "feel". He comes off as interesting, funny and genuine (even if he pretends to be). I am surprised the views of his video is so low comparing to some of the videos with very mediocre content and communication.
Brilliant. I normally don't get through the first 5 minutes of any TED talk......bravo. And thanks.
I study body language for the same purpose you are trying to tell us .
Thanks a lot for this . i really get motivated.
This is a TEDx Talk, that doesn't only speak to those searching for authenticity, but also to the people who have seemingly found it. What a perfect guide to self reflection.
Knowledge, humor, and charisma. Thank you, Mark.
I always joke that sincerity is the main thing: if you can fake that, you've got it made.
I am surprised this has such less and biased views. Beautifully explained and enacted.
This man is so bright and funny ..wow thumbs up i love his work and act !!!
I saw Mark at a recent Conference at Humber College - what an incredible speaker and such interesting content. Loved it then and again watching this today.
bought his book and it's even better!!
When he said "so..." in 16:03 I immediately burst with laughter and clapped for him while I'm watching on my laptop!!! He's brilliant in acting being authentic ''a predator''..
@gerald geriaafter he said he was manipulating us and he went straight to the aggressive tone saying that was his authentic behavior, I was like "hes about to pull the o'l switch-o-dic ko on us.
Hes got all the mannerisms of a magician and a hypnotist I dont trust him. Havent even got to the part where he switches in the video.
Mark, Thank you very much for this insightful and intelligent talk. This is something I have been trying to explain but of course, I have never been able to explain with articulation and expertise. There are so many times when we must be a bit fake to become a better community and become closer. I have a very dominant and aggressive personality but I am also very caring and loving. They can appear to be contradictory so I must do exactly what you did in the video just to make sure that the listener feels safe receiving my message. It does work.
As I am developing my business I will make sure that this TedTalk is required watching. You are brilliant and I am thrilled I found you and all of the group through The Behaviour Panel whom I found through Spidey. This kind of information is life-changing.
This is like the best Ted Talk i’ve ever watched
Wonderful talk. Have shared with my whole team
So talented and I laughed so hard, but even more so, I was moved by the ending. Thank you!
You legend Mark. This speech literally saved my life ❤️
one of best Ted talk i've seen
Eye opening and funny! Wow, I never really looked at our "authenticity" that way. 'Loved this. Thanks Mark!
I've needed this video for a while. Completely remarkable. Frees up some cognitive dissonance. Thank you to Mark!
He kinda authentically just spoke to my soul. A life lesson for me.
This is one of the BEST TED TALKS EVER!!!
great speech, just great
Love this talk. Very informative.
If you turn the sound down on your tv/hulu/Netflix you will still be able to follow what is going on - even without words. Hollywood and politicians live and breathe this stuff. Body language can even be used for stress relief.
How interesting , this is so true I have experiance this so many times . This presenter was extremely entertaining and enlightening at the same time .
amazing information,this video should be more popular
This is beautiful. Thanks Mark!
This is the best TedTalk I have seen - thank you Mark
Brutal unskippable ad!! Grr!
Idea is completely true and performance is just perfect!
Just awesome, thank you Mark.
One of the greatest presentations I've ever seen 🙏
the Brits' greatest contribution to humanity: self depreciating humor. thanks.
Deprecating* sorry, I’m a spelling nerd
Loved your presentation...will implement!
Excellent topic and delivery!
Mark! That’s was FANTASTIC! Obviously love you on TBP and in interviews but wow you’re a wonderful public speaker. ❤🤟🏻
Wow! Thank you....
Brilliant, dramatic and inspiring - oh yes and funny. You don't want much more in a TED talk do you.
This is by far the best performance on Tedx i've ever seen and I have benefited, BY FAR, the most from this particular Ted Talk
An amazing talk , I like the way the first 19 minutes set the framework for the last minute .
Brilliant message and execution!
So beautiful! Thank you Mark.
Honestly, the majority of this I already knew, sorta common sense I suppose, not all of it though. It's just sort of fascinating to hear someone put it all into just 20 minutes. Really good way of presenting too, I really follow it all and will be researching some more of Mark's work. Mark Bowden
Watch the hands. His gestures are all in what he is saying. Good talk.
Awesome! Learned of this talk from The Behavior Panel and shared.
This is awesome! I'm surprised it didn't get more attention.
I adore this man! Behavioral panel for the win 👯♀️
Actually I just heard her right and she seemed solid and down to earth. Keep you doing what u r doing girl. I appreciate ur courage to speak out! Really ! I do girl!
Much love!!
Thanks for this amazing content!
In my feeble teaching of rapport and conversations I've always told my students rapport begins at the speed of sight! With Mark's permission I will include this great Talk in my teaching from here on.
Wow. Wow. Wow. I love it Mark. Genius! Great talk!
really inspiring talks. you can be not yourself so as to make a world a btter place and better position yourself and create more opportunity for yourself. make the conscious choice of who you want to be and how ppl like to potray u as.
Great talk! Very insightful.
Love this. Thank you.
I found Mark through The Behaviour Panel on TH-cam. What a Ted. So informative and a comedian too ❤
What a powerful ending!
Amazing talk - I loved it!
loved it! thank you! ❤
This guy is awesome!
Loved,loved,loved this....best Ted talk ever!!!
Hi Shey Stolz I hope you're okay
outstanding i will be looking into all his work.
Mark! Great talk! Thanks!
Excellent talk!
Tedx Talk is a place of knowledge ForFREE. I was smiling and could not help it! Thank you Mark!
ahmed ouajib Me too!!!☺
That's nice, and I am happy to see someone having the same feeling as I have had.
That's nice, and I am happy to see someone having the same feeling. Keep it up Suzanne!