I wouldn’t even punish her. I would let her rock the new style and share with her how to communicate what her needs are going forward. It’s these new children.
This consequence here is me for sure!!! I used to hand those out with my four and it definitely matched the crime & they did stuff but not too many repeats … accept my son … chiiile we had repeats on top of newbies with him 😂😂❤❤
@@deewms1236 as much as Love my people, some of the ways in which we have been taught to work through life’s lessons need to be revamped. It’s time for us to be able to openly communicate with our elders respectfully if there is a problem. I appreciate you for understanding where I am coming from. 😊
I would've also been thirsty... From dehydration due to the tears I would've cried from the whooping that was laid upon me after my mother "spent her hard earned money in my hair"... Chillllleeeeeee
Indeed! My mama would have taken a water bottle to my head...let's just say, the state would have taken me and there would have been mandatory anger management classes
Both my mother and I would have been in the hospital... She would have been admitted because her blood pressure would have been out of control and I would have been admitted with the hopes that I will awaken from the coma she put me in. #oldschool
🤣My daughter had the nerve to have a lot of hair but didn't want it combed. She would get mad at me because at bedtime we washed hair and all. She concluded that washing/ watering her hair was the culprit that made it grow.🤦♀️
The braids were probably too tight but I wouldn’t even be mad. That’s her new hairstyle all summer & for the 1st few months of school in the fall. If she had the audacity to ask about getting it redone, I’d say I don’t have $85, ask Lo Ma.
This reminds me of the time my mom spent 3 or 4 hours straightening my younger sister’s hair for the first time and when she was finished, my sister said she was hot so she jumped in the shower _and washed her hair_ 😱 “I thought it would stay straight!”🤣
Right? And anything but “Grandma”/“Granny”/“Mema” + the more standard grandmother names. Now, it’s all Gigi, Gaga, Glam Ma, YaYa, FiFi, etc. I am baffled. I guess the “grandma” ones make them feel old? Idk
I had a Big Mama ( Great Grandmother), a Ma V ( Grandmother Veola) and my Mom was Grammy ( because she was an award). I'm trying not to be called anything. I stay telling my kids to keep it on lockdown!
@@davizshawilliams1787 We added the first or last name after granny/grandma/granddad to know who was who. Lol. My great granny and grandparents were old old (all born between 1914 and 1930) though. That might make a difference. My mom likes NaNa though. 😂 IDK if I've ever met someone who doesn't want grandkids. I can understand that a bit.
EJ, your commentary always has me rollin'! For anyone who was a kid in the 70s or 80s...good luck coming home like this! That water would have been slapped back to the ocean to say the least! 😹😹😹
When my mother decided I was old enough to start combing my own hair, I was pretty upset because my hair tangles easily and my scalp is very sensitive. I would keep a pair of scissors handy and just cut out the knots. Years later, my mom takes me to my first hair stylist who cut my mid-back length hair to my chin trying to even it up. I was ecstatic not to have hair on my neck anymore but when my mom saw me, she burst into tears. She was mad. My aunts were mad. My cousins were mad. My boyfriend was mad. The only happy person was me.
I don't know why black people feel like black women that have long hair have to keep it long for the culture. I usually keep mine long, but when I get the urge, I'll cut it all off. I've done this for years and it amazes me how angry people get about "my hair" being cut and why they feel the need to tell me about it. 🤷🏾♀️
My heart dropped. I don't even know what id do if I picked my child up like this! I'd probably snap 🫰 I'd start crying, yelling, laughing, cursing and praying all at the same time. Momma overload kuz I don't wanna put my hands on her and go to jail!! 😂
I am having a tough day so thank you for the laugh!!! I "restyled" my hair only once as a child! One beat down from my mom made sure I was not a repeat offender 😂😂
The thirst she is experiencing is to avoid answering questions. She gonna get asked, “why did you do it?” If she drinking water it gives her time to think of an answer before her mother snatches her… how do i know??? ohhh I’m just speaking experience…. From a former thirsty child 😂😂😂
That baby probably thought it was a game😂 And, she seemed so unbothered as was she drinking her water😂😂😂 that's the level of "unbothered-ness" I'd like to have to stressful situations 😂❤😂😂
I remember cutting my hair in first grade. My mama asked me if i cut my hair, i said No. She said I SEE THE HAIR IS GONE...SO WHO DID?!?! And only the 2 of us was home 👀🤦🏽♀️
The way the child continued to drink the water has me in my feelings, too! 😆 🤣 😂 Also, I just got Box Braids, and it cost me $250. Where she get $85 box braids?! 😢
It was too tight. She told them and they ignored her and now mom wants to be angry. Sometimes we go to the wrong braider. I've taken braids out that were too tight. Pain for beauty isn't a cross every woman is willing to carry and no child should have to.
Amen. Other races of children don't have to suffer for beauty in the way of hair like how Black girls do. There's a specific trauma with hair that only Black girls experience. And then people wonder why there's so much talk around hair as we get older.
I understand and can relate. I was in that "cut one out of two ponytails off" club. I was at my grandmother's house. My mother was pissed. My grandmother just said, " That's her hair". smh😆🤣😂🤣
"If it was me, I would've had the something and a whooping" 🤣🤣🤣 This video was hilarious!! I want a little girl but so thankful and going to enjoy being a boy mom right now. I think she was bored and the person watching her wasn't "watching her"...when you hear silence, that is the time to run and see what they're doing!!! Clearly, she was giving herself a makeover or something. I don't know!! But this video was funny!!! I love you!! 🤣🤣🤣
Ohh that's cute, 😂 hunney 🍯 just wait that lil boy gon' show you in many different ways that this bliss is only shortlived. Imma pray 🙏🏾 for your future patience, your nerves and your sanity.❤ Be Blessed sis❤
My daughter cut her cornrows on one side of her head. She kept telling me they were bothering her and before I got around to moving them she found scissors I left out and cut them off. I wasnt mad because she let me know it was bothering her. But it’s overwhelming because kids don’t realize your hair don’t just grow back like that. I had to be very creative when doing her hair.
That little girl is too old for that. I’m a gen X, so let me say what would have happened to me ( I say this without hyperbole. ): I would not be here to tell this story. Either because I was no longer topside, or someone saw me before my mother and I would be in witness protection.
My cousin got gum in her hair. My grandfather took her to the barber shop and told the barber, cut the gum out. She came home with a little afro! Her mother was mad as hell. Totally different scenarios but this story made me think of that memory. 😂
I did the same thing. I had braids in my hair. My mom was pregnant with my sister at the time, so she told me to take my braids out myself. Well I knew my hair was mid back long. I was tired of cutting the ends and working up. Lets just say my aunt who had been doing my hair since I was little was more upset with my mom than me.😂
@@debramoody4695 That was more than two decades ago. Update: My Aunt is really going to freak when she know I cut all my hair yesterday pray for me. Seeing her later today before I head back home from vacay.🙏😂
Oh my smh......so I, too, was a child "hair cutter". I haven't really grown out of it. It all starts with the thought "I'm just gonna trim a little bit off". I really shouldn't be allowed to have scissors in my home without a chaperone or an accountability partner. The bangs that I have messed up on myself, my daughter and my granddaughter.....OH LORD HELP US!!😂
These kids are definitely built different because she felt secure enough and bold enough to shear her head like a sheep and walk away unscathed, lol. When I was about her age I snipped a few scraggles off the ends of my hair (so little they were probably just the split ends) and my father grabbed me by the arm and brought me to my mother in a rage. We wouldn't think to cut the whole thing off because our parents always had us in a disciplinary chokehold of doing the most for the smallest indiscretion.
Oh no! When I got my braids done I was given Motrin and told to go home put my head under really warm water and lift my eye brows up and down, so it moved my scalp. It loosened the tension a little bit. Next time she wants her hair done now you know to say no. At least until she gets to a particular age. My mom would make me go to school like that.
My mother paid a lady to press our hair . We sat in the kitchen next to the stove and it was hot , the iron and the stove. It never even dawned on me to flinch or complain. That’s what we did back then .
She thirsty cause she tryna recoup from that whooping we missed her getting before Mama started the live! 😂😂😂 She ain't gone see Lo-Ma for a good minute.🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
She probably made it known to the adults that her braids were tight and because the style was new they didn't do anything about it so she came across some scissors and took matters into her own hands, now the only thing to do is get her a good haircut and start over. Cute hats and baseball caps from now on! 😮😮
My daughter did sumthing like this when she was like 5. She cut 3 of her twist out in the front of her hair! They were long and her real hair. I saw her and immediately thought i must have been hallucinating cuz i just KNOW i aint seeing what i think im seeing. I was fighting mad. Then i go thru her backpack and see her teacher sent me a note saying her and 2 other lil girls did it( they were white by the way) but what almost took me out was the teacher taped those 3 twist to the note!! I was so mad i couldn't even whip her cuz i would've hurt her. My hubby just got her out my sight n took her to diary queen...its hilarious now but i was big mad!😂😂😂
LISTEN, when I cut my full head of natural hair into an TWA my first year of college away from home, my mom had a FIT over the phone! And that was at 18! All that nursing up and end protecting she did all my childhood lol. I cannot imagine what would've happened if I cut braids out at the big age of the girl in the video. WHEW!
Wow, I think I would have to give her what she tried to accomplish and cut it all off and hope it grows back. The water bottle would probably be in the trash. However, my granddaughter cut a patch out of her hair but reason was sweet, her mother had to cut her hair because of chemo and she said she wanted to be pretty like her mom. So we couldn't be mad at her and thankfully we could hide the short part in her other hair and I kept it braided for a while. I agree with EJ the children of today are truly different
I secretly got a relaxer at 13 and my Mother was UPSET! She waited until I needed a touch up, and told the stylist to cut all the relaxed hair off ( and my hair was shoulder length) and give me Jheri Curl...😮 I looked like a boy for the next 3 months...😂
This would never happened. My mother would not have spent $80 and I didn’t spend $80 on my daughter’s hair. We would have found a kitchen beautician to do it for $35😂😂😂
The “kitchen beauticians” are $85 now. The professionals are around $150 here. If she did it because it was too tight, I feel bad for her. She still shouldn’t have done it. Any other reason and she needs to rock that look long enough to learn to never do it again.
One time my daughter was complaining to the school - not to me - that her hair was too tight. She went to the nurse crying and everything!!!! They asked me to come pick her acting tail up. (It was so pretty). I took her hair down and made her wear it like a troll doll the rest of the time she would have had braids. She never complained again…by the time she dealt with those looks and whispers, she figured out that wasn’t the way to go. This video reminded me of that.
My son did something like this. He used a grooming clipper (lighter and easier to manipulate than regular clippers) to shave off a chunk of his front hairline. I was so mad cos all I did was ask him to go brush for bedtime. How did that end up in a self haircut? I was tempted to send him to school like that, but I'm trying not to be like our parents. I had to give him a proper haircut that night when we were supposed to be sleeping on a school night.
I wasn't crazy enough to cut it out, but I had gotten my hair done for $40, and I realized the braids could just slip right out. So, I started sliding them bad boys down. My Mom was mad at me *and* the braider. Overall, my Aunt who took me to the appt was the most mad. I had to figure it out, so I used the parts to redo it myself. There were a few braids that had to be combined, but it came together.😅 That was the last time I got my hair professionally braided, and surely the last time my Mom paid. At 14, I was officially my own hair dresser. 😂
She needs to take that child to a counselor, have a strong conversation with LoMa , the doctor, pastor or whoever First!!! This is before deciding the punishment! She's old enough to know better! I would get to the root of it first!
Back in the day, my grandmother took my cousin and me to the hair salon one morning (finger waves in the front…French roll in the back). That same afternoon we played outside in the rain and ruined our hair…on purpose too. I can’t remember if we got a spanking or not but grandma was PISSED!!!! Lol! 😆😆😆😆
I'm in tears!😂😂 Last week, I asked my stylist for goddess braids. She looked at my very short fro and yelled across the packed salon, "Your hair is too short to be a goddess!"😂😂 That baby was trying to create a braided mohawk! Depending on who does the braiding, grabbing a bottle of water to take a pain killer after your soul has been lifted is a sign of relief.😢😂😂
I can’t even say nothing I did this before. I hated how long it took to take the braids out so I started cutting them the moment my momma left me alone. I got to like two or three before she caught me. I’m surprised I’m still alive to this day😂
as this is not a safe space, I'm just gonna say when my kids were growing up, they would never have THOUGHT of doing that, without loosing something to go with that lost hair 🤣🤣
The first time I cut my hair (bangs) because I wanted them and the scissors were available 🤷🏾♀️ the second time I cut my hair was because my cousin kept braiding my hair every day and it was tight. I was sick of it. I feel little sister’s pain.
😂😂😂 So, when my sister was abt 7 she twisted a comb up on her hair. I was supposed to be watching her. I'm 13, so I was paying her any attention. So we cut the comb out. MY MOM! Wore US out! I'm telling you the wooping of my life. It was horrible..
This one I have to disagree with. I got my hair braided all the time growing up but only with my own hair which was fine. I know people will get mad at me but I hate seeing kids with hair braided in anything that's not their own (i.e. buying hair and braiding it into your own). It hurts adults so I know it hurts kids. I never thought it was a big deal until I was getting my hair braided one day and this lady brought her daughter in to get box braids and the girl started crying because it hurt and the mom was telling her to be quiet and stuff (I started crying too because that broke my heart). The braider was trying to make it less painful but for many people its just going to hurt for a few days. So yea, maybe the girl was trying to relieve the pain? And yes she could have communicated it but kids don't always think logically. However, if the pain was the reason, the parent should have maybe not forced that hairstyle on her kid just yet.
I agree. I just saw a TikTok with a woman complaining that her one year kept pulling on her braids. Why in the h#ll are you getting braids for a one year old and then not understanding that baby is uncomfortable.
All of this!!! I agree 100%. It just teaches the kids their hair isn't good enough and needs to be hidden under fake hair braids. It's really sad. When I was growing up, my mom did our hair every day.
@@apara2005 Absolutely! Plus, if you take care of it and tend to it, that child's hair will grow and be healthy! Don't go messing up their edges and hair now but putting weave in it at that young of an age
I agree. I don't do braids and I didn't allow my daughter to get them until she was later in her teens. There was a specific person that I would allow to do her braids so that her hair wouldn't come out. I'm more old school. In my opinion children shouldn't get braids or chemicals in their hair. What happened to washing and conditioning and greasing the hair? Take out time to comb the child's hair every morning. Take the child to the salon/barber and get their hair done regularly.
I think if she was a little special her mother wouldnt have posted this video bc that would just be wrong. I need Ms Jackie to talk to the little girl because "this is upsetting to me" 😂😂😂
My daughter is autistic and I’m not on social media but I do take pics of the wild sh!t she’s done and send it to family members and I laugh lol you have to otherwise you’ll go crazy. You can’t be sensitive about it. My thought was the opposite, she probably IS special needs because of how calm her mom is
Baby girl is me last weekend . Paid $200 for some braids and cut them out the next morning . I didn’t cut my own hair but I get it baby girl . Had a cool drink in my hand the entire time
First off I would have knocked that thirstiness out of her hand. BUT ‘lol mom’ or whatever her name is would have had a gooooooood talking before I drove off with my child who has a brand new hairstyle under her care.!!!! Yes she would have to wear that style for a few days. We would go everywhere and dare her to cover head AND all she’ll get is a water bottle to keep drinking 😂. No soda or juice.
The mom is more mad about the $85 than her hair being cut! But I understand her with how tough things are these days.😅 And the water is all she would be having for the next couple of months.
My daughter called herself getting ready on her own and doing her hair. She had little pigtails all over her head. She wanted to rock her fro. So she cuts out the rubber bands in the back (she'd seen me do this). Needless to say hair was missing 😩. She learned a valuable lesson that day 😂
To the comment below: ‘’share with her how to communicate what her needs are going forward’’. sounds like a job interview! its a kid! she took it out because it was hurting her, its very common, sometimes they do it too tight. Her ‘needs going forward’ are wisen up 😂
The thought never crossed my mind to cut my hair because my mama would have knocked me out
Sho nuff!!
CLEAN out.
And would've dared me to ask for Anything the rest of the summer😅💯🎯⚜️
That and I’m not about to mess my hair up . I love my hair 😂
Mess around and wake up with my hair FULLY grown out
Ej really can’t stand her bein’ thirsty 😂🤣😂🤣
I know right 😂
...ʼcause that's a lot of nerve.🤣
With a big cut you work up a big thirst!
I agree - PUT THE WATER DOWN. be thirsty
If she's drinking anything but water after that stunt, I know who and what the real problem is. LOL
I wouldn’t even punish her. I would let her rock the new style and share with her how to communicate what her needs are going forward. It’s these new children.
Preach!!
This consequence here is me for sure!!! I used to hand those out with my four and it definitely matched the crime & they did stuff but not too many repeats … accept my son … chiiile we had repeats on top of newbies with him 😂😂❤❤
Yeah going to school like that is definitely it’s own punishment
My guess is autism
@@deewms1236 as much as Love my people, some of the ways in which we have been taught to work through life’s lessons need to be revamped. It’s time for us to be able to openly communicate with our elders respectfully if there is a problem. I appreciate you for understanding where I am coming from. 😊
I would've also been thirsty... From dehydration due to the tears I would've cried from the whooping that was laid upon me after my mother "spent her hard earned money in my hair"... Chillllleeeeeee
Indeed! My mama would have taken a water bottle to my head...let's just say, the state would have taken me and there would have been mandatory anger management classes
85!! If I did that as a child, I’d just be waking up now - 40 years later.
@@Iprsmrk right 😂😂
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If she wanna look like the Cynthia doll from Rugrats then so be it. She will look like that all summer. But she prolly wanted the shaved side look.
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The way you nailed that comparison!😂
Both my mother and I would have been in the hospital... She would have been admitted because her blood pressure would have been out of control and I would have been admitted with the hopes that I will awaken from the coma she put me in. #oldschool
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She watering herself hoping her hair grow back before her and Low-Ma get taken smooth out. “Lord please let this hair sprout back like a plant”
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GROW MY LITTLE BIG COLLAR GREENS!!
🤣My daughter had the nerve to have a lot of hair but didn't want it combed. She would get mad at me because at bedtime we washed hair and all. She concluded that washing/ watering her hair was the culprit that made it grow.🤦♀️
That’s so funny!!!
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The braids were probably too tight but I wouldn’t even be mad. That’s her new hairstyle all summer & for the 1st few months of school in the fall. If she had the audacity to ask about getting it redone, I’d say I don’t have $85, ask Lo Ma.
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Ask Lo ma 😂😂
She would be rocking that style for a good while. She ain't my child, and I was mad when I saw what she did.
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@@jes4891 😂😂
She needed some SCALP relief!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
My mama would've hit me with that, "now you gone need ASS relief" 😢
That little girl was relieved 😂 drinking that water after taking some of the pressure off those edges lol.
This reminds me of the time my mom spent 3 or 4 hours straightening my younger sister’s hair for the first time and when she was finished, my sister said she was hot so she jumped in the shower _and washed her hair_ 😱 “I thought it would stay straight!”🤣
Noooo!😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 is your sister still alive
😂😂the way i just screamed
Ohhhh my gawwwd no she didn't lol
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That would be her hairstyle for at least the next month 🤣🤣
I wouldn't be surprised if Lo Ma is grandma. 😂 They be coming up with all kinds of names these days.
Right? And anything but “Grandma”/“Granny”/“Mema” + the more standard grandmother names. Now, it’s all Gigi, Gaga, Glam Ma, YaYa, FiFi, etc. I am baffled. I guess the “grandma” ones make them feel old? Idk
I had a Big Mama ( Great Grandmother), a Ma V ( Grandmother Veola) and my Mom was Grammy ( because she was an award).
I'm trying not to be called anything. I stay telling my kids to keep it on lockdown!
@@eobrien1 I think feeling old is the reason, too. Glam Ma has grown on me because it is very fitting for bougie grandmothers. Lol.
@@davizshawilliams1787 We added the first or last name after granny/grandma/granddad to know who was who. Lol. My great granny and grandparents were old old (all born between 1914 and 1930) though. That might make a difference. My mom likes NaNa though.
😂 IDK if I've ever met someone who doesn't want grandkids. I can understand that a bit.
85 dollars? Somebody gon' catch a case!
That's cheap. Here in Oakland ,CA they charge $300- 400 in some salons for box braid.😢
@@Tb-tl4ni Right 😂
@@Tb-tl4ni We on our way to federal court!
"I just don't understand why she so thirsty though!" Got me cracking up BAD 😂😂😂
“I would’ve had the something and a whooping” 😂😂😂 me too! 😳
EJ, your commentary always has me rollin'! For anyone who was a kid in the 70s or 80s...good luck coming home like this! That water would have been slapped back to the ocean to say the least! 😹😹😹
😂😂 THAT was my First thought.... On how hard my parents would have slapped that bottle of water out of my hands, while also slapping me LoL
“…i keep coming back to this thirst.”😂😂😂
I woulda had "something" and a whoopin😂😂😂😂
Her hair would stay just like that for the 6-8 weeks AND she’d be paying me back my $85.
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Add a Lil bow on top.. Bye go to school
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When my mother decided I was old enough to start combing my own hair, I was pretty upset because my hair tangles easily and my scalp is very sensitive. I would keep a pair of scissors handy and just cut out the knots. Years later, my mom takes me to my first hair stylist who cut my mid-back length hair to my chin trying to even it up. I was ecstatic not to have hair on my neck anymore but when my mom saw me, she burst into tears. She was mad. My aunts were mad. My cousins were mad. My boyfriend was mad. The only happy person was me.
Honestly the last sentence is the only one that matters to me 😅
Thank you for sharing. I’ll keep this in mind when my daughter gets older.
I don't know why black people feel like black women that have long hair have to keep it long for the culture. I usually keep mine long, but when I get the urge, I'll cut it all off. I've done this for years and it amazes me how angry people get about "my hair" being cut and why they feel the need to tell me about it. 🤷🏾♀️
@@teenacherry4958 right! Their favorite line: “you done went and cut off all yo hair!”
SHUT UUUPPP!! 😂
In this case, the only happy person SHOULD be you!! 🙌🏾
I love your "disclaimer": "Don't admit to any crimes that you have done...."😂😂😂😂😂
My heart dropped. I don't even know what id do if I picked my child up like this! I'd probably snap 🫰 I'd start crying, yelling, laughing, cursing and praying all at the same time. Momma overload kuz I don't wanna put my hands on her and go to jail!! 😂
I am having a tough day so thank you for the laugh!!! I "restyled" my hair only once as a child! One beat down from my mom made sure I was not a repeat offender 😂😂
The thirst she is experiencing is to avoid answering questions. She gonna get asked, “why did you do it?” If she drinking water it gives her time to think of an answer before her mother snatches her… how do i know??? ohhh I’m just speaking experience…. From a former thirsty child 😂😂😂
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Thirsty adult here agrees. Water buys time to think up strategies and propaganda 😂😂😂😂
That baby probably thought it was a game😂 And, she seemed so unbothered as was she drinking her water😂😂😂 that's the level of "unbothered-ness" I'd like to have to stressful situations 😂❤😂😂
I remember cutting my hair in first grade. My mama asked me if i cut my hair, i said No. She said I SEE THE HAIR IS GONE...SO WHO DID?!?! And only the 2 of us was home 👀🤦🏽♀️
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You committed to the lie. Respect.
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I love that "i am leaving space for" them kids have "disorders... disorders... this... that."
The way the child continued to drink the water has me in my feelings, too! 😆 🤣 😂
Also, I just got Box Braids, and it cost me $250. Where she get $85 box braids?! 😢
That's what I wanna know, cause I'll be in line right behind you!
The baby girl has a small head, Kid Prices $$$, Adult prices are probably double or more
It was too tight. She told them and they ignored her and now mom wants to be angry. Sometimes we go to the wrong braider. I've taken braids out that were too tight. Pain for beauty isn't a cross every woman is willing to carry and no child should have to.
If it was too tight, the style definitely should have been taken down. It's not healthy.
Amen. Other races of children don't have to suffer for beauty in the way of hair like how Black girls do. There's a specific trauma with hair that only Black girls experience. And then people wonder why there's so much talk around hair as we get older.
“I spent $85 & you cut off $76 of it”😂😂😂😂
I can’t with EJ
I understand and can relate. I was in that "cut one out of two ponytails off" club. I was at my grandmother's house. My mother was pissed. My grandmother just said, " That's her hair". smh😆🤣😂🤣
"If it was me, I would've had the something and a whooping" 🤣🤣🤣 This video was hilarious!! I want a little girl but so thankful and going to enjoy being a boy mom right now. I think she was bored and the person watching her wasn't "watching her"...when you hear silence, that is the time to run and see what they're doing!!! Clearly, she was giving herself a makeover or something. I don't know!! But this video was funny!!! I love you!! 🤣🤣🤣
Ohh that's cute, 😂 hunney 🍯 just wait that lil boy gon' show you in many different ways that this bliss is only shortlived. Imma pray 🙏🏾 for your future patience, your nerves and your sanity.❤ Be Blessed sis❤
@kiki bigbangfan Oh, he's already keeping me and his dad going!!! 🤣🤣🤣 I never knew little legs could move so fast!! Thanks for the prayers, sis!! 🫶🏾💕
😂🎯🎯🎯to quite in there!
@@FransLife1 🤣 small but mighty 🏃🏾 there one second and gone the next 😂
Yes! When the kids get quiet, it's time to check on them lol. Also boys have their own challenges but hair isn't one of the thank the lord!
The something AND a whipping!😂 Facts!!!!
And THAT is why I do my own braids today. Poor baby, them thangs were too tight and she couldn’t take it any more!
That's exactly what I think!!!
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My daughter cut her cornrows on one side of her head. She kept telling me they were bothering her and before I got around to moving them she found scissors I left out and cut them off. I wasnt mad because she let me know it was bothering her. But it’s overwhelming because kids don’t realize your hair don’t just grow back like that. I had to be very creative when doing her hair.
I'm sorry... but at her BIG AGE she knew better 😒😒😒
If she'd been 3 1/2 I'd give her a pass, but kids 8 & over should definitely know better! 😂😂😂
She bout to be big embarrassed if her mama makes her roll with that style until it grows out.
@@ceb2544 😂😂😂 EXACTLY
Maybe she was born on a leap year, leap day (BDay Feb 29), so she *_IS_* 3.5 years old
@@missladyanonymity 😂😂😂😂😂
Maybe she has a condition....autism??
That little girl is too old for that.
I’m a gen X, so let me say what would have happened to me ( I say this without hyperbole. ): I would not be here to tell this story. Either because I was no longer topside, or someone saw me before my mother and I would be in witness protection.
My cousin got gum in her hair. My grandfather took her to the barber shop and told the barber, cut the gum out. She came home with a little afro! Her mother was mad as hell. Totally different scenarios but this story made me think of that memory. 😂
Stop it, that’s wild …they knew better
I bet she never got gum up in that head again. Lol
😂😂😂😂 Bet she STILL doesn't chew gum to this very day😂😂😂
🤣 "I would advise you not to admit to any crimes that you have done" 😂
I did the same thing. I had braids in my hair. My mom was pregnant with my sister at the time, so she told me to take my braids out myself. Well I knew my hair was mid back long. I was tired of cutting the ends and working up. Lets just say my aunt who had been doing my hair since I was little was more upset with my mom than me.😂
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Eez
I WEEP @ THE MEMORY LOL
Wow, you lived to tell us! 🥳🤣
@@debramoody4695 That was more than two decades ago. Update: My Aunt is really going to freak when she know I cut all my hair yesterday pray for me. Seeing her later today before I head back home from vacay.🙏😂
She’d have to wear it just like that until I got tired of looking at it, and if the kids at school laughed at her then oh well. 😂😂😂😂
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Forreal!😂😂😂
Damn straight!!!
😂😂 man I would be so mad I wouldn’t be able to take it.
Exactly
Oh my smh......so I, too, was a child "hair cutter". I haven't really grown out of it. It all starts with the thought "I'm just gonna trim a little bit off". I really shouldn't be allowed to have scissors in my home without a chaperone or an accountability partner. The bangs that I have messed up on myself, my daughter and my granddaughter.....OH LORD HELP US!!😂
These kids are definitely built different because she felt secure enough and bold enough to shear her head like a sheep and walk away unscathed, lol. When I was about her age I snipped a few scraggles off the ends of my hair (so little they were probably just the split ends) and my father grabbed me by the arm and brought me to my mother in a rage. We wouldn't think to cut the whole thing off because our parents always had us in a disciplinary chokehold of doing the most for the smallest indiscretion.
Oh no! When I got my braids done I was given Motrin and told to go home put my head under really warm water and lift my eye brows up and down, so it moved my scalp. It loosened the tension a little bit. Next time she wants her hair done now you know to say no. At least until she gets to a particular age. My mom would make me go to school like that.
She'd be going to school just like that too. CUT ANOTHER BRAID! I DARE YOU!
"So they just called us BAD" that part! 🤣🤣🤣
My mother paid a lady to press our hair . We sat in the kitchen next to the stove and it was hot , the iron and the stove. It never even dawned on me to flinch or complain. That’s what we did back then .
Right?
She thirsty cause she tryna recoup from that whooping we missed her getting before Mama started the live! 😂😂😂 She ain't gone see Lo-Ma for a good minute.🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Listen I’m with you EJ because why was little miss so thirsty!
🗣️🗣️Put it downnnnnn
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I'm knocking the bottle out of her hand on general principle (Moms Mable words)
Sis lookin like the new Cenobite in the Hellraiser franchise 🤣
Yeah idda STILL be on punishment to this very day, and I’m 57 yrs old 😂
EJ loved your show in ATL!!!❤❤❤
I'm with you, EJ. She got the gall to be thirsty. 😂😂😂😂
Ain't no thirst happening 'round here!! 😂😂
She probably made it known to the adults that her braids were tight and because the style was new they didn't do anything about it so she came across some scissors and took matters into her own hands, now the only thing to do is get her a good haircut and start over. Cute hats and baseball caps from now on! 😮😮
I guess she wanted to big chop 😭 Either let it be twa or a low cut with some designs, idk 🤷🏾♀️🤭
She gone have a cute lil fade though . Maybe a Mohawk !?!
My daughter did sumthing like this when she was like 5. She cut 3 of her twist out in the front of her hair! They were long and her real hair. I saw her and immediately thought i must have been hallucinating cuz i just KNOW i aint seeing what i think im seeing. I was fighting mad. Then i go thru her backpack and see her teacher sent me a note saying her and 2 other lil girls did it( they were white by the way) but what almost took me out was the teacher taped those 3 twist to the note!! I was so mad i couldn't even whip her cuz i would've hurt her. My hubby just got her out my sight n took her to diary queen...its hilarious now but i was big mad!😂😂😂
The three taped twists 🤣🤣🤣
@@nca4794 yess omg I was so outdone. Lol
LISTEN, when I cut my full head of natural hair into an TWA my first year of college away from home, my mom had a FIT over the phone! And that was at 18! All that nursing up and end protecting she did all my childhood lol. I cannot imagine what would've happened if I cut braids out at the big age of the girl in the video. WHEW!
When you pulled out the water bottle at the end… 😂😂😂☠️☠️☠️
Forget the $85! Do you know how long it took me to grow this hair?!!?! I'd a got the whoopin' of my life!
Wow, I think I would have to give her what she tried to accomplish and cut it all off and hope it grows back. The water bottle would probably be in the trash. However, my granddaughter cut a patch out of her hair but reason was sweet, her mother had to cut her hair because of chemo and she said she wanted to be pretty like her mom. So we couldn't be mad at her and thankfully we could hide the short part in her other hair and I kept it braided for a while. I agree with EJ the children of today are truly different
I secretly got a relaxer at 13 and my Mother was UPSET! She waited until I needed a touch up, and told the stylist to cut all the relaxed hair off ( and my hair was shoulder length) and give me Jheri Curl...😮 I looked like a boy for the next 3 months...😂
And she just drinking that water like ain’t nothing wrong ..🤣🤣🤣like whatttt🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This would never happened. My mother would not have spent $80 and I didn’t spend $80 on my daughter’s hair. We would have found a kitchen beautician to do it for $35😂😂😂
The “kitchen beauticians” are $85 now. The professionals are around $150 here. If she did it because it was too tight, I feel bad for her. She still shouldn’t have done it. Any other reason and she needs to rock that look long enough to learn to never do it again.
What Hazel said. $80 is the new $35. Welcome to inflation.
One time my daughter was complaining to the school - not to me - that her hair was too tight. She went to the nurse crying and everything!!!! They asked me to come pick her acting tail up. (It was so pretty). I took her hair down and made her wear it like a troll doll the rest of the time she would have had braids. She never complained again…by the time she dealt with those looks and whispers, she figured out that wasn’t the way to go. This video reminded me of that.
I took a break from work to watch this video. EJ had me hollering and the comments have me crying!! 😂😂😂
My son did something like this. He used a grooming clipper (lighter and easier to manipulate than regular clippers) to shave off a chunk of his front hairline. I was so mad cos all I did was ask him to go brush for bedtime. How did that end up in a self haircut? I was tempted to send him to school like that, but I'm trying not to be like our parents. I had to give him a proper haircut that night when we were supposed to be sleeping on a school night.
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I wasn't crazy enough to cut it out, but I had gotten my hair done for $40, and I realized the braids could just slip right out. So, I started sliding them bad boys down. My Mom was mad at me *and* the braider. Overall, my Aunt who took me to the appt was the most mad. I had to figure it out, so I used the parts to redo it myself. There were a few braids that had to be combined, but it came together.😅 That was the last time I got my hair professionally braided, and surely the last time my Mom paid. At 14, I was officially my own hair dresser. 😂
She needs to take that child to a counselor, have a strong conversation with LoMa , the doctor, pastor or whoever First!!! This is before deciding the punishment! She's old enough to know better! I would get to the root of it first!
Back in the day, my grandmother took my cousin and me to the hair salon one morning (finger waves in the front…French roll in the back). That same afternoon we played outside in the rain and ruined our hair…on purpose too. I can’t remember if we got a spanking or not but grandma was PISSED!!!! Lol! 😆😆😆😆
I'm in tears!😂😂 Last week, I asked my stylist for goddess braids. She looked at my very short fro and yelled across the packed salon, "Your hair is too short to be a goddess!"😂😂 That baby was trying to create a braided mohawk! Depending on who does the braiding, grabbing a bottle of water to take a pain killer after your soul has been lifted is a sign of relief.😢😂😂
I can’t even say nothing I did this before. I hated how long it took to take the braids out so I started cutting them the moment my momma left me alone. I got to like two or three before she caught me. I’m surprised I’m still alive to this day😂
as this is not a safe space, I'm just gonna say when my kids were growing up, they would never have THOUGHT of doing that, without loosing something to go with that lost hair 🤣🤣
The first time I cut my hair (bangs) because I wanted them and the scissors were available 🤷🏾♀️ the second time I cut my hair was because my cousin kept braiding my hair every day and it was tight. I was sick of it. I feel little sister’s pain.
I heard sniffling, so it sounds like the little girl was just taken to the wood shed, and the lady was diagnosed with I'm not having it disoder.
😂😂😂 So, when my sister was abt 7 she twisted a comb up on her hair. I was supposed to be watching her. I'm 13, so I was paying her any attention. So we cut the comb out. MY MOM! Wore US out! I'm telling you the wooping of my life. It was horrible..
Over hair???? Thats so sad!
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Its the 'Something PLUS a whopping' for ME 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 because those are FACTS!!!🤦🏿♀️
I be having a DAY and my girl EJ always come through and makes it better ✨💓
Ej those eyebrows are giving so much…I just couldn’t stop staring while listening to you talk❤️❤️❤️
So she cut all her own length off 😂wow todays kids just wild out here .
EJ!!! You craaaazzzyyyyy! She spent $85 and she cut off $76!!! I'm so done!😂😂😂
Ej i enjoy watching your content you are so hilarious!😂
"Put the water down" Lol😂😂😂😂
This one I have to disagree with. I got my hair braided all the time growing up but only with my own hair which was fine. I know people will get mad at me but I hate seeing kids with hair braided in anything that's not their own (i.e. buying hair and braiding it into your own). It hurts adults so I know it hurts kids. I never thought it was a big deal until I was getting my hair braided one day and this lady brought her daughter in to get box braids and the girl started crying because it hurt and the mom was telling her to be quiet and stuff (I started crying too because that broke my heart). The braider was trying to make it less painful but for many people its just going to hurt for a few days. So yea, maybe the girl was trying to relieve the pain? And yes she could have communicated it but kids don't always think logically. However, if the pain was the reason, the parent should have maybe not forced that hairstyle on her kid just yet.
I agree. I just saw a TikTok with a woman complaining that her one year kept pulling on her braids. Why in the h#ll are you getting braids for a one year old and then not understanding that baby is uncomfortable.
All of this!!! I agree 100%. It just teaches the kids their hair isn't good enough and needs to be hidden under fake hair braids. It's really sad. When I was growing up, my mom did our hair every day.
@@apara2005 Absolutely! Plus, if you take care of it and tend to it, that child's hair will grow and be healthy! Don't go messing up their edges and hair now but putting weave in it at that young of an age
@@HerLovesBooks See this bothers me because I be feeling bad for these babies 😟
I agree. I don't do braids and I didn't allow my daughter to get them until she was later in her teens. There was a specific person that I would allow to do her braids so that her hair wouldn't come out. I'm more old school. In my opinion children shouldn't get braids or chemicals in their hair. What happened to washing and conditioning and greasing the hair? Take out time to comb the child's hair every morning. Take the child to the salon/barber and get their hair done regularly.
Not only do I love EJ but her comment section / community send me just as muchhhh. The creativity and shadeee
I think if she was a little special her mother wouldnt have posted this video bc that would just be wrong. I need Ms Jackie to talk to the little girl because "this is upsetting to me" 😂😂😂
My daughter is autistic and I’m not on social media but I do take pics of the wild sh!t she’s done and send it to family members and I laugh lol you have to otherwise you’ll go crazy. You can’t be sensitive about it. My thought was the opposite, she probably IS special needs because of how calm her mom is
And she gone wear this style for the next 6 weeks. You want it, you got it.
If it was me, momma would have whopped my behind!!!!
That's that new age Cynthia hairstyle! 😂
Baby girl is me last weekend . Paid $200 for some braids and cut them out the next morning . I didn’t cut my own hair but I get it baby girl . Had a cool drink in my hand the entire time
EJ said "l spent 85.00 and she done cut off 76 of it "!! 🤣😂😆😃😀 l'm dead and that's exactly how l would have been found....😅
These kids need counseling for real. We would have NEVER thought to do this. Wow. 😢
She said 🗣🎶Dem braids were way too tight, that's why I cut iiiiitttt! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂
I would let her walk around like this for the next 2 days. Repercussions to your actions.
I never got styles as a kid. I would have been too happy.
First off I would have knocked that thirstiness out of her hand. BUT ‘lol mom’ or whatever her name is would have had a gooooooood talking before I drove off with my child who has a brand new hairstyle under her care.!!!! Yes she would have to wear that style for a few days. We would go everywhere and dare her to cover head AND all she’ll get is a water bottle to keep drinking 😂. No soda or juice.
🤣🤣🤣 I straight HOLLERED at your comment! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
“Yo hair too little” be having me so weak😂😂😂 I feel so seen😂😂😂
The mom is more mad about the $85 than her hair being cut! But I understand her with how tough things are these days.😅
And the water is all she would be having for the next couple of months.
My daughter called herself getting ready on her own and doing her hair. She had little pigtails all over her head. She wanted to rock her fro. So she cuts out the rubber bands in the back (she'd seen me do this). Needless to say hair was missing 😩. She learned a valuable lesson that day 😂
To the comment below: ‘’share with her how to communicate what her needs are going forward’’. sounds like a job interview! its a kid! she took it out because it was hurting her, its very common, sometimes they do it too tight. Her ‘needs going forward’ are wisen up 😂
Put the water down!😂
EJ makes me laugh so hard!!