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Until people realise that it takes 2 people to make a marriage work, the better for us. It’s not solely a woman’s responsibility. For those judging her for leaving, you are not in her shoes please let her be.
So true because the responsibility has fully, officially and permanently been placed on women not reasoning that the woman may be making effort to make the marriage work while the man will be at the corner frustrating it/her then the breaking point comes. Some Netizens will now play the role of her judge and crucifer
I am a widow of 60 years, I can tell you for free that the fact that married people are still living in the same house doesn't mean they are happily married.,more married people are just cohabiting cohabiting. That's the truth 💯
People need to understand that not every woman who leaves a marriage is looking to get into another. For some women, one marriage is enough for a lifetime. So, they stay until they feel able to live alone, then, they leave. Saying, “Nothing dey for street,” is irrelevant because they are not in the streets or looking for anything there. Their next chapter is God, children and self. Yes, women can stay celibate. Oftentimes, the marriage was so traumatising that they just want to stay single and get on with God’s purpose for their lives.
Cheating is never a mistake. Infidelity ones, is enough to break a marriage. Then chronic infidelity 😢. May God not allow a man to bring shame to our name all in the name of marriage.
Hahaha, you are not alone, my dear. I told my hubby about Neze and shared Neze's videos with him, and he is clued into Neze. And every time there is no Neze video coming forth, he will say to me, Baby, has Neze yet to post any report? Neze, this is what you have caused my family. May God continue to bless you and increase your endeavours. Amen. LOVE YOU FROM THE UK.
I see a lot of women walking away from their marriage and leaving their children to be managed by friends, nannies and helpers! Dangerous plan. You must sacrifice and be there for your children. Relationships can come later. You want to see your children are stable after being in a dysfunctional home! You want to make sure you know their negative thoughts and correct them early in life, so they do not walk into relationships with negative thoughts and ideas. Men are not great in raising kids, trust me. Raising children, adolescents and adult kids is a full time job.
@@beautyistifanus8794 oh wow!! I’m highly disappointed in AY. He’s from my village in Ondo state and we used to be quite proud of all he’s achieved but not any longer 😞😞
Loving you to the moon & back, my dear Neze. Women are first human with flesh & blood before becoming a wife. They, therefore, can feel pains, have emotions & can recoil or even run away from the situations that want to immortalise them. "He who fights & and runs away lives to fight another day." [Bob Marley].
Mabel obviously made it work and obviously, there's nothing more to give than to walk away alive so she can stay alive for her children and family! I salute her courage and it's about time women rise above societal norms of staying in an abusive marriage for the sake of children and what the world will say! Knowing when to walk away and say enough is enough is your super power!
All I know is that Mabel is too fine for AY. I've always thought this but I said "I guess they are happy". Now that they are splitting, she's way above his league.
@@JoyA.-yg4gcand would it have been prevented Weda you got yourself a "better" man in your terms does not mean some of these things will not pop up Weda better or not, it all boils down to the values such individuals hold
I have come to realize that those who counsel others and those who make people laugh do not have the best of homes, it just takes the grace of God, I know a comedian who is on antidepressants drugs,he is a childhood friend,see how they make people happy, heal homes and yet they go through the opposite in their homes no matter how they try to cover up, I pray for peace for any family going through this kind…so sad thou 😞
We pray for God's mercy, if not, marriage can develop problem any time even after 90 yrs of marriage some thing can happy , When you are lucky , cool down and don't talk carelessly , infidelity is a very dangerous home breaker
Women should realized that men are polygamous in nature and they should always have that at the back of their mind even before going into tying the knot with any man. Not to talk of MEN who are celebrities especially front line one like the guy in question. Being a celeb is what i called TEMPTING TEMPTATION as a man the temptation is there already now to doubled as a celebrity not just anyone but a successful one for that matter and good looking, even if a celeb is as ugly like Chimpanzee or have y ok k leg no matter how ugly he is, is a big temptation women would flood around him. Most women who wants to marry Cebel are not always prepared for this reality the better for them to face this fact. You see when they understand this fact it won’t create or be a problem in their marriage. The only thing they can do under this is to manage the man or help the man stop the flirting. You may be asking help the man, how yes the man can be helped. (come for counseling).
I'm not Nigerian and I don't know all these people that you were talking about but your storytelling kept me hooked right to the very end. Personally, once is more than enough when it comes to cheating and if I find out that a partner is cheating, I'm out
A mistake repeated over and over again is a choice. Plain and simple. I've always said it Neze brings many stories with a genuine touch. Always love your content my sister. Love from Tanzania 🇹🇿
I beg where can i give a triple or more thumbs up on this video and put my name on it…i don’t know how express and quantify my deepest gratitude to you barrister Neze..for the very first time in my whole life as a married woman have I heard a woman of my generation speaking the precise truth and taking a stand with few of us that are married and going through a lot in our marriages,why i used the word few is because only few agree with this your submission as it concerns women and marriages from this part of the world..in-fact you gave the most precise,accurate and holistic evaluation of what most married women go through in our society and yet a few of them chose to see or rather admit to this reality..they go into self denial and rather choose to seek solace with so called tradition and societal norms,they glaring knows the truth but choose to turn the other way..and the most unbelievable and offensive part is that,its the same sex,the same married women that throws in the knife first to murder you if you dare to complain or walk out..women that have been brainwashed by men and fellow women that we are born to fed the ego of men,they have their brains muddled,passing it out to their generations,worse still now women give empirical evidence that men are born to cheat and women just have to deal with it..i have gone through a lot in my marriage of 28 years and still going i did same as this woman did..i did exhaust all options that i could possibly think of I stepped out a few times..came back after apologizes and promises and repentance,but even at that i had to put some measures in place to keep my sanity,though am still in the marriage but with only one eyes closed and my knees on the ground,not many of us has the balls to bail out because of societal bullying mostly from same sex,..am not an advocate for divorce or polygamy but I advocate for self preservation mentally,physically and in all ramifications..that should be top most in all,there is so much to say ..i commend the comedian’s wife for the bold step to listen to her self,but if there be any iota of remorse and efforts on Oga’s side for a fresh start and williness to fight for the marriage and maintain proper decorum,then i would pleas with her to give the marriage another hope of survival..it’s so painful to see a beautiful marriage like this crumble..i pray 🙏 the good lord will intervene and His will be done.(amen). Barrister Neze i deeply appreciate you and I love your ideologies,evaluations of issues,and mostly your impeccable,undiluted attention catching storytelling,you are a full package,my love ❤️ and administration straight from the hear❤❤❤thank you.
I always tell folks that what married people display in public domain is not the reflection of what happens in their home. If your Christianity does not begin at home, don't border to export it.
My dear that’s how life is. Everyone is broken in Nigeria; hurting people hurt others. We have so much to fix; public laughter is only a coping mechanism, it doesn’t heal brokenness inside
Trust me, no matter what you do for a woman they're never ever satisfied. Do you think he's not making his family happy after all these years and she stays with him? That's just the way it is.
@@taiwoidowu2854 Nawa oo, you’re probably doing what will satisfy your conscience not what will satisfy the woman. What real women want from men are very few, but very important. If you refuse to listen to your woman, you may not satisfy her. Anyway if you can’t satisfy yourselves then go your separate ways, it’s not by force
A lot of people are ignorant of this facts Proverbs 6:32 - But the man who commits adultery is an utter fool, for he destroys himself. Hebrews 13:4 - Give honor to marriage, and remain faithful to one another in marriage. God will surely judge people who are immoral and those who commit adultery. Exodus 20:14 - You must not commit adultery. Please be committed to your spouses. God bless you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@jackiedike4077 being married to an emotionally abusive man is what you wish on single women? Theres no gain there. A woman can be single and fufilled
Yes she did the right thing.She doesn’t need him bec she is a successful business woman and that is all she needs. Self respect and love for herself above all
Cheating destroys a woman self esteem, mental health, emotional balance and worthiness. A man should understand the damaging effect it has on a spouse. She 2nd guesses herself everyday of her life. Though I am not an advocate for divorce but I recommend separation. That was exactly what she did. Women please build your lives. We get carried away to build with a man in marriage. Whatever you do, what ever support you give, don't leave yourself behind.
We have a high infertility in Nigeria. Being with a husband with several women is a risk of infertility, risks of cancer , low self esteem, losing your femininity and dignity is the most disgraceful thing to a women . it leads to self harm and suicidal ideation. It is a shame African culture is supporting men to continue to degrade and not respect the body of a woman. I bleed for a Nation that is lost. STD blocks fallopians tubes and cause infertility. Running from one church to the other and blaming other people. I weep for African where a woman is not recognise.
Infidelity is a slow killer of marriage, it’s not easy to know and see your spouse cheating on you and just accept it, it’s actually mentally draining, don’t judge others if you don’t wear the shoes and until it’s your turn you may never really know how to react, takes a lot to overlook a cheating spouse.maybe at the verge of loosing each other they will realize and come back to each other again,marriage nor be wedding o! And men please be content na. I hate to see beautiful homes and family break 💔💔😠
Who else notices how Anti Neze now adds picture/video on her video narations. It really makes the stories easy to understand and interesting to watch.... Have you registered for her story telling mastet arts class. Please do ohh..
I believe all women have this tendency to support, cover up all negative vibes from their husband until they are pushed to the wall . Always being take for granted. Strange society.,
No woman would leave a comfortable zone for a desert..For a wife to step out or walk away from her sweat home, SHE DON SEE ENOUGH ORISHI RISHI ABUSE. SOME STAY BECAUSE THEY AREN'T FINANCIALLY CAPABLE... SOME STAY DUE TO BLACKMAIL, SOME STAY TO IMPRESS CHURCH AND SOCIETY. SOME DIE IN SILENCE.
It's essential to note everyone has a breaking point! And whenever it reaches that stage, they will chose to do what they feel is best for them. Only the one wearing the shoes knows where it hurts. Let everyone do what is right in other to avoid regret. God will help us all, none of us is perfect.
I told you, Nez, i will always be here for any video you drop. We love ❤️ you. Another example of no one knows what happens behind closed doors. God help us...
I’m not sure what your definition of being brainy is but brainy means intelligent. You can be an actress and be intelligent. You can be a tailor and be extremely intelligent and this will show itself in the quality of your work, strategies, negotiation skills etc. So being brainy is not limited to the academic sphere. I don’t quite know what kind of circles you move in to have believed that fallacy. You need to move out of your circle. Anyway I’m sure with all the comments you’ve learnt one or two things!
While working sometimes during slow days I have a wireless earbud in my ear.. guess who I'm listening to? Queen Neze makes my job less tedious and entertaining just by listening to her amazing storytelling skills. Everyone should try it at work. Trust me ❤
Enough of peoplr saying it's a man's world. No woman wants to be traumatised all in the name of marriage. A mother is of no use to het children for continuing to stay in an abusive marriage. She'll be a wreck that her children may even be taken away from her. Jesus luck to Mabel. May her light continue to shine brighter and brighter.
Well done Neze. Only Mabel knows how the shoe hurts...she is the one wearing em. I think good mental health and happiness are better than pretending to endure a bad or abusive relationship. Separation may be better for them to re-evaluate their lives and choices.
Of all that has been said no one is talking about most men not being able to be with only one woman.Most African men aren't wired to be with one woman it's only the society that makes it so.Even in the days of the Bible many men had more than one wife
@@ndukaanyim6466But God was not wise enough to give Adam just one woman knowing men were wired to have several women abi? Continue justifying selfishness, Women are gradually getting tired of your brainwashing, you will suffer from your own actions soon.
This is the most brilliant analysis I have seen anywhere. Very calculative, detailed and brilliant. For AY, I do not feel sorry for him, he threw his beautiful family and pride under the bus. He disrespected that woman for so long. Women, don’t just walk away, they endure until they exhaust every room of endurance. I pray she finds peace. She must have chosen to do her own to balance the equation of infidelity, since AY no wan get sense. It’s so sad to see that union disintegrate like that. May God forgive them for their inadequacies. Amen!!!
I always look forward to hearing about any trending issue from you. You dont beat about the bush, you are thorough, and your sense of humor is outstanding. Welldone. You are the best.
We love you Neze. My husband is glued. He’s always looking forward to the crazy week that was. Thank you Barrister. He is also your learned colleague. ❤️💜❤️❤️💜❤️
No woman prays to leave a marriage of 20 years! For her to leave means she didn't want to die on top man matter. Some husbands can torture their wife by their irresponsibility. Her daughters have to know that there are better men and not have daddy issues because of their father.
If Ay is a known womanizer then the wife did not move close enough to God with her burden. She has made the matter worse for herself and the kids. Her decision make end up making her loose too cos she may have to search for a better man than Ay and it involves risk. She has also denied their kids 100% fatherhood cos of her selfishness. I'm sure now she's single all her bad advisers are laughing at her. For sure she lost something. Can she swear she never knacked a man all the time Ay was fooling around. I bet she was not 100% faithful. Is there a guarantee she'll really find a better man than Ay? So why pull the divorce string and destroy yourself? Makes no sense to me. Women still remain women. Poor analytical skills.
I am with the second school of thought. STD marriage is a NO! If that is what was going on then good on her for walking. I really like how you ended the video. We really need to do better on this big continent of ours, the better for all of us. Both men and women deserve happiness.
If I started to agree with you with proofs it would be endless....I wasted 15years lost so much but my freedom and able to finally breathe was worth everything everyone days I lost...but guess what IT WAS WORTH IT !!!! YOUR OPINION WAS WELL DELIVERED AND SPOT ON!!! WELL DONE!! GOD BLESS US ALL.
Mabel, choose you. Pave a way for girls, your daughters that there is life after divorce. You don’t have to keep suffering to adhere to the norm. Praying for your family
He obviously loved cheating more than he loved his wife and kids. I think it is a disgrace that a man can openly cheat on his wife for many years and the wife is expected to suck it up The embarrassment, the humiliation and the constant worry eventually takes its toll. Sleeping with many women and in doing so effectively putting his wife’s life at risk . The hurt he has caused his children( who will read about their father’s sexual escapades on the internet ) cannot be denied. A man with two daughters has treated another man’s daughter with disrespect. He better pray that his daughter’s do not suffer the same fate as his wife. Life has a way of teaching us a lesson. The sad thing is that he is unlikely to ever find someone who loves him like his wife Sad
Love your write up,the mental health of every woman is important ,wen a mother is not ok mentally it also affects the children,as I always say, it's a woman that make the marriage works but there's a limit to what she can take she always needs help, the moment she is exhorted 😢marriage don end,God bless women ❤
Nigeria and Nigerians makes cheating look like a normal thing. I beg to differ, cheating is a deal breaker, even when done only once but to do it continously and expect d woman to keep swallowing it without complaining . It's a sad thing to see
Pretty women get cheated on. That’s why I hate the advice women get about how they can improve themselves when their husbands cheat. It’s not about them.
@@obn1459that is still no reason to cheat, if you feel your partner is not meeting up to your standards and you have tried to sort the issues, then you walk away!!!
Beauty isn't an outward thing. Most women lie to each other and themselves about what beauty is. Sadly most women don't ask their men what they actually want or need.
Many beautiful women don't possess what it takes to keep a marriage. Most people think a woman or man that's beautiful or handsome on the outside is the same on the inside and that is when the first mistake is made when it comes to marriage. They both should have done this a long time ago but were trying to save face because they are public figures.
Barrister Never, if I had to follow only one person on social media, it would be you. Your analysis on the stories you share and your unbiased comments provide amazing lessons to your audience and helps immensely to either prevent similar problems or manage them in a better way. May God richly bless you with more wisdom and grant you the grace to continue serving humanity in the various functions that you have.
This is so hurting o😢😭, we re still praying for yul, Nino now AY. Make we play o and more o. May God heal all this marriages in Jesus mighty name amen 🙏
Hey Neze! I just wanted to say that your storytelling is absolutely amazing! I was totally hooked from the moment you mentioned the rumors about her having to treat various STDs and infections that were supposedly given to her by her husband. Your storytelling skills are seriously top-notch! Keep up the fantastic work!
Good lessons and advice from you Ma'am....So many people don't understand that Mental illness is real and the issue of infidelity in marriage is capable of driving anyone whether man or woman crazy. It is quite unfortunate to see marriages of Society's role models in quote crash because of infidelity....Let us all learn and live peacefully because we're all answerable to God Almighty.
I’m seeing your video and blogs for the first time and I’m impressed at the way you do yours. You are very objective. May God bless you with more energy level to continue to becoming the best in this job.
How come I patiently waited to hear this news from you 😮. Shows that your channel is verified and certified for only True and authentic. Congrats and keep it up 👍
I did enjoyed this one. It's well articulated for anyone to digest and understand. Personally, i do not thing infidelity is enough reason to leave a marriage of 20 years however, if the wofe has been battling this together STDs and all that,it only shows the husband has been disrespectful to her and this completely unacceptable. Most men cheat but your remains your queen,and her respect and safety remains paramount .
I say to myself that i will never watch this particular topic on any other channel apart from Neze nwa channel oooo, because she will give us the real gist👌
Thank you Nezevile for being the top best narrator in the world . I so much love and cherish you. My point is If working away from her marriage of 20 and + is the only way she can get her sanity back then, it's fine. Her mental health is very important. Not only domestic violence that African's should recognize but it's time that the society should consider the women's mental being as well. Endurance of infidelity from our men should seize henceforth.
Barr Neze, thanks for making a difference in what you do.Your fluency, diction and on point descriptive prowess bring me over and over again to your channel. Your simple, clear and engaging narrative technique keeps one glued and captivated. Am usually lost in the narration of some channels due to poor delivery but you deliver with dexterity. Back to the main topic, 20 years of being hopeful is really a long time of long-suffering. Women are strong and don't give up easily. So when she quits,that's it !
Cheating is a valid reason to leave a marriage.I know old school women always advice young women to endure abuse but modern women we have options,leaving is one of them.
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A woman who walks away from a 20 year old marriage is a strong woman. Walking away is never easy.
Must have strong reasons to do so.
Well said, sis!
It's true....ooo
Imagine what that woman has seen to do this😢
Everything a woman do is about her feelings
Until people realise that it takes 2 people to make a marriage work, the better for us. It’s not solely a woman’s responsibility.
For those judging her for leaving, you are not in her shoes please let her be.
Thanks 👍
So true because the responsibility has fully, officially and permanently been placed on women not reasoning that the woman may be making effort to make the marriage work while the man will be at the corner frustrating it/her then the breaking point comes. Some Netizens will now play the role of her judge and crucifer
Personally dont like stress so the moment the burden is placed on me to make the marriage work, im out
People are so quick to judge. There's 2 sides to every story.
This is so accurate
Cheating on ur woman makes the woman feel like she's not good enough...its so painful 😢
Yeah
It affects her self esteem
Sometimes if you see tge poeple he is having affairs with you will weep for shame.. some sidekicks are just refract
STDS including AIDS infection rates are highest amoung married women.
True
True thats y these women that can afford to start doing bbl
I am a widow of 60 years, I can tell you for free that the fact that married people are still living in the same house doesn't mean they are happily married.,more married people are just cohabiting cohabiting. That's the truth 💯
Fact. Mum said same thing
Sad but true
Best comment I ever came across. Most married people are indeed single but still there cos of society.
You are right
I’m married and I can say it’s 💯true
People need to understand that not every woman who leaves a marriage is looking to get into another. For some women, one marriage is enough for a lifetime. So, they stay until they feel able to live alone, then, they leave. Saying, “Nothing dey for street,” is irrelevant because they are not in the streets or looking for anything there. Their next chapter is God, children and self. Yes, women can stay celibate. Oftentimes, the marriage was so traumatising that they just want to stay single and get on with God’s purpose for their lives.
You're 100% correct dear, this is it.
So true! Some marriages will traumatise you and sour marriage for you forever
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What do you say when she leaves her first marriage, after giving birth to five children and remarries under five months after divorce?
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You know, we pack our bags years before we actually leave. The time of endurance is most often the time of strengthening.
May they find peace
You are correct oooooo
Gbam
Ditto!👏👏👏
Hmmmm
So accurate. A woman leaves long before she actually leaves
Barrister Neze is such a likable lady online.. is she so hilarious and lit in person 😅
Just so you know, she's taken.😂
@@chinwenwofor3057are you the taker😂😂😂
@@chinwenwofor3057 Ah ! I’m taken too : Contrary to the woke culture , it’s ok to admire and like another female cause she’s so likable.. 😬
Cheating is never a mistake. Infidelity ones, is enough to break a marriage. Then chronic infidelity 😢. May God not allow a man to bring shame to our name all in the name of marriage.
Amen 🙏
Amen. That’s exactly my stance. Once is enough to walk away.
Neze my dear your story dey give me vibes
Amen!
I had to tell my husband about you. I told him to follow you if he needs details about specific issues. You are indeed a good story teller
Hahaha, you are not alone, my dear. I told my hubby about Neze and shared Neze's videos with him, and he is clued into Neze. And every time there is no Neze video coming forth, he will say to me, Baby, has Neze yet to post any report? Neze, this is what you have caused my family. May God continue to bless you and increase your endeavours. Amen. LOVE YOU FROM THE UK.
I see a lot of women walking away from their marriage and leaving their children to be managed by friends, nannies and helpers! Dangerous plan. You must sacrifice and be there for your children. Relationships can come later. You want to see your children are stable after being in a dysfunctional home! You want to make sure you know their negative thoughts and correct them early in life, so they do not walk into relationships with negative thoughts and ideas. Men are not great in raising kids, trust me. Raising children, adolescents and adult kids is a full time job.
Question!! Anybody give Queen Neze video BIG LIKE before finish Watching it?? Because I Most Definitely do !!! We love you Neze !! ❤️❤️❤️
Sure we do, and we love her❤
I did and always do❤❤
I give it before watching 😂
Yes I always do 😍
I did like before watching too oh.
Yes chronic infidelity is a reason to leave a marriage, it’s better to leave with one’s sanity.
He beat her too
@@beautyistifanus8794😢😢😢
and life and health
When they didn't beat her at home.
@@beautyistifanus8794 oh wow!! I’m highly disappointed in AY. He’s from my village in Ondo state and we used to be quite proud of all he’s achieved but not any longer 😞😞
Loving you to the moon & back, my dear Neze. Women are first human with flesh & blood before becoming a wife. They, therefore, can feel pains, have emotions & can recoil or even run away from the situations that want to immortalise them. "He who fights & and runs away lives to fight another day." [Bob Marley].
Mabel obviously made it work and obviously, there's nothing more to give than to walk away alive so she can stay alive for her children and family! I salute her courage and it's about time women rise above societal norms of staying in an abusive marriage for the sake of children and what the world will say! Knowing when to walk away and say enough is enough is your super power!
Absolutely
All I know is that Mabel is too fine for AY. I've always thought this but I said "I guess they are happy". Now that they are splitting, she's way above his league.
@@tamiausten873 way above his league o
She is a beautiful woman. Truth be told, she could have got herself a better man than AY
@@JoyA.-yg4gcand would it have been prevented
Weda you got yourself a "better" man in your terms does not mean some of these things will not pop up
Weda better or not, it all boils down to the values such individuals hold
I have come to realize that those who counsel others and those who make people laugh do not have the best of homes, it just takes the grace of God, I know a comedian who is on antidepressants drugs,he is a childhood friend,see how they make people happy, heal homes and yet they go through the opposite in their homes no matter how they try to cover up, I pray for peace for any family going through this kind…so sad thou 😞
True talk. Ask basket mouth himself. A failed marriage because of pride, infidelity and attitude is nothing to write home about
@@patriciacaroline6978 so sad
We pray for God's mercy, if not, marriage can develop problem any time even after 90 yrs of marriage some thing can happy , When you are lucky , cool down and don't talk carelessly , infidelity is a very dangerous home breaker
It's about the lifestyle he chooses to live there has been scandals
Women should realized that men are polygamous in nature and they should always have that at the back of their mind even before going into tying the knot with any man. Not to talk of MEN who are celebrities especially front line one like the guy in question. Being a celeb is what i called TEMPTING TEMPTATION as a man the temptation is there already now to doubled as a celebrity not just anyone but a successful one for that matter and good looking, even if a celeb is as ugly like Chimpanzee or have y ok k leg no matter how ugly he is, is a big temptation women would flood around him. Most women who wants to marry Cebel are not always prepared for this reality the better for them to face this fact. You see when they understand this fact it won’t create or be a problem in their marriage. The only thing they can do under this is to manage the man or help the man stop the flirting. You may be asking help the man, how yes the man can be helped. (come for counseling).
I'm not Nigerian and I don't know all these people that you were talking about but your storytelling kept me hooked right to the very end. Personally, once is more than enough when it comes to cheating and if I find out that a partner is cheating, I'm out
All that glitter isn't gold. Don't ever believe everything on the Internet. Thank you, Nezeville, as always.
I don’t believe anything untill I hear from you you are a true queen ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
A mistake repeated over and over again is a choice. Plain and simple. I've always said it Neze brings many stories with a genuine touch. Always love your content my sister. Love from Tanzania 🇹🇿
I beg where can i give a triple or more thumbs up on this video and put my name on it…i don’t know how express and quantify my deepest gratitude to you barrister Neze..for the very first time in my whole life as a married woman have I heard a woman of my generation speaking the precise truth and taking a stand with few of us that are married and going through a lot in our marriages,why i used the word few is because only few agree with this your submission as it concerns women and marriages from this part of the world..in-fact you gave the most precise,accurate and holistic evaluation of what most married women go through in our society and yet a few of them chose to see or rather admit to this reality..they go into self denial and rather choose to seek solace with so called tradition and societal norms,they glaring knows the truth but choose to turn the other way..and the most unbelievable and offensive part is that,its the same sex,the same married women that throws in the knife first to murder you if you dare to complain or walk out..women that have been brainwashed by men and fellow women that we are born to fed the ego of men,they have their brains muddled,passing it out to their generations,worse still now women give empirical evidence that men are born to cheat and women just have to deal with it..i have gone through a lot in my marriage of 28 years and still going i did same as this woman did..i did exhaust all options that i could possibly think of I stepped out a few times..came back after apologizes and promises and repentance,but even at that i had to put some measures in place to keep my sanity,though am still in the marriage but with only one eyes closed and my knees on the ground,not many of us has the balls to bail out because of societal bullying mostly from same sex,..am not an advocate for divorce or polygamy but I advocate for self preservation mentally,physically and in all ramifications..that should be top most in all,there is so much to say ..i commend the comedian’s wife for the bold step to listen to her self,but if there be any iota of remorse and efforts on Oga’s side for a fresh start and williness to fight for the marriage and maintain proper decorum,then i would pleas with her to give the marriage another hope of survival..it’s so painful to see a beautiful marriage like this crumble..i pray 🙏 the good lord will intervene and His will be done.(amen).
Barrister Neze i deeply appreciate you and I love your ideologies,evaluations of issues,and mostly your impeccable,undiluted attention catching storytelling,you are a full package,my love ❤️ and administration straight from the hear❤❤❤thank you.
Even though I didn't read your epistle I had to hit the "like" ❤the effort and time !!!🎉
@@Ifedinmanowji I don't understand this your veiled disrespectful comment in the name of complement it would have been better you didn't respond.
@@truethots3088exactly my sentiments. That’s rude
I agree with you, each one of us knows our limits, when the cup is full it can not take in anymore it will overflow such is life
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@ifedinmanowji is trying to know maybe the guy is part of those that wrote Encyclopedia.. 😁😁
How can Ay say he's making others laugh without making his wife and family happy. Na wa o
I always tell folks that what married people display in public domain is not the reflection of what happens in their home.
If your Christianity does not begin at home, don't border to export it.
My dear that’s how life is. Everyone is broken in Nigeria; hurting people hurt others. We have so much to fix; public laughter is only a coping mechanism, it doesn’t heal brokenness inside
Trust me, no matter what you do for a woman they're never ever satisfied. Do you think he's not making his family happy after all these years and she stays with him? That's just the way it is.
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Nawa oo, you’re probably doing what will satisfy your conscience not what will satisfy the woman. What real women want from men are very few, but very important. If you refuse to listen to your woman, you may not satisfy her. Anyway if you can’t satisfy yourselves then go your separate ways, it’s not by force
@taiwoidowu2854 it's a big lie please, if you say some people, including men, I would have believed you
A lot of people are ignorant of this facts Proverbs 6:32 - But the man who commits adultery is an utter fool, for he destroys himself. Hebrews 13:4 - Give honor to marriage, and remain faithful to one another in marriage. God will surely judge people who are immoral and those who commit adultery. Exodus 20:14 - You must not commit adultery. Please be committed to your spouses. God bless you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Your use of queen’s English, and grammar articulation is just so seductive ❤
Neze the story teller striving to become the national amebo 🤣🤣🤣🤣. The way you tell the stories fascinates me you know.
Gbam! @STDs and the infertility. It is 💯 possible that baby was by IVF at the end of the day.
Love this lady ❤
@@pdm8446the most ignorant comment ever. So if the baby came through IVF, what's wrong with that? Smh
She not amebo ,she tells her stories with fact
I really love this your Amebo channel, Neze hmmm I love watching your channel
Auntie Mays situation has given many of our sisters the courage needed to leave their abusers
Goodluck to them. At least let other single women marry too
@@jackiedike4077 being married to an emotionally abusive man is what you wish on single women? Theres no gain there. A woman can be single and fufilled
@@jackiedike4077 lol. there is nothing outside. a lot of Lions are out there wanting a piece of the prey. Women be wise!
@@jackiedike4077And they will endure they Same thing, they can have him
Lies. There is PEACE out there. There is sanity and self respect
STDs are probably why she had difficulty conceiving
Thank God Mabel is taking care of herself
It's painful what men do 😢😢😢
@@giftedchild9490 very 😢
Very true honestly. Some stds are said to cause fallopian tube blockages
Exactly. She may even get cervical cancer.
How did person make such a horrible comment ? You must be with this man 24/7 you seem to have first hand information.🙆🙆🙆🙆
Yes she did the right thing.She doesn’t need him bec she is a successful business woman and that is all she needs. Self respect and love for herself above all
Cheating destroys a woman self esteem, mental health, emotional balance and worthiness. A man should understand the damaging effect it has on a spouse. She 2nd guesses herself everyday of her life. Though I am not an advocate for divorce but I recommend separation. That was exactly what she did. Women please build your lives. We get carried away to build with a man in marriage. Whatever you do, what ever support you give, don't leave yourself behind.
You have not balanced it ,what about a man whose woman has turned herself to a general comforter of every man !
Thank you
We have a high infertility in Nigeria. Being with a husband with several women is a risk of infertility, risks of cancer , low self esteem, losing your femininity and dignity is the most disgraceful thing to a women . it leads to self harm and suicidal ideation. It is a shame African culture is supporting men to continue to degrade and not respect the body of a woman. I bleed for a Nation that is lost. STD blocks fallopians tubes and cause infertility. Running from one church to the other and blaming other people. I weep for African where a woman is not recognise.
How can a woman who used to sleep with married men complain that her husband is cheating?
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Infidelity is a slow killer of marriage, it’s not easy to know and see your spouse cheating on you and just accept it, it’s actually mentally draining, don’t judge others if you don’t wear the shoes and until it’s your turn you may never really know how to react, takes a lot to overlook a cheating spouse.maybe at the verge of loosing each other they will realize and come back to each other again,marriage nor be wedding o! And men please be content na. I hate to see beautiful homes and family break 💔💔😠
Who else notices how Anti Neze now adds picture/video on her video narations. It really makes the stories easy to understand and interesting to watch.... Have you registered for her story telling mastet arts class. Please do ohh..
I believe all women have this tendency to support, cover up all negative vibes from their husband until they are pushed to the wall . Always being take for granted. Strange society.,
U are 💯 percent right
A lot of women do this, God knows I can't, I am currently learning to be wicked. I need a master's class. This goodness does not pay😂
@@tierraokonkwo6671men luv the wicked gehs who don’t send them
Any husband cheating on his wife does not deserve her love.
No woman would leave a comfortable zone for a desert..For a wife to step out or walk away from her sweat home, SHE DON SEE ENOUGH ORISHI RISHI ABUSE. SOME STAY BECAUSE THEY AREN'T FINANCIALLY CAPABLE... SOME STAY DUE TO BLACKMAIL, SOME STAY TO IMPRESS CHURCH AND SOCIETY. SOME DIE IN SILENCE.
Exactly. I concur absolutely.
Correct
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U have said it alll
This is what is called suffering and smiling
It's essential to note everyone has a breaking point! And whenever it reaches that stage, they will chose to do what they feel is best for them.
Only the one wearing the shoes knows where it hurts.
Let everyone do what is right in other to avoid regret. God will help us all, none of us is perfect.
You are 100% correct
I told you, Nez, i will always be here for any video you drop. We love ❤️ you.
Another example of no one knows what happens behind closed doors. God help us...
Some men are so arrogant that they assume the their wives could never leave them.
Fools indeed.
My thoughts exactly..and he actually looks like one of those men.
Very true
This is true
🙋♀My ex-husband
How can you be soo beautiful and soo brainy at the same time?
We were made to believe that a woman can only be one of them 😊
She needs her own daytime talk show 😂😂
There are many beautiful women that are very brainy. Too numerous to mention.
I know many beautiful and brainy women.
Who "made" you to believe that fallacy?
I’m not sure what your definition of being brainy is but brainy means intelligent. You can be an actress and be intelligent. You can be a tailor and be extremely intelligent and this will show itself in the quality of your work, strategies, negotiation skills etc. So being brainy is not limited to the academic sphere. I don’t quite know what kind of circles you move in to have believed that fallacy. You need to move out of your circle. Anyway I’m sure with all the comments you’ve learnt one or two things!
Neze you do an amazing job you are the combination of beauty and brain. I am a faithful follower all the way from Cape Town SA
While working sometimes during slow days I have a wireless earbud in my ear.. guess who I'm listening to? Queen Neze makes my job less tedious and entertaining just by listening to her amazing storytelling skills. Everyone should try it at work. Trust me ❤
That's distraction. Give your patients full professional attention please. Listen to Neze after the session
Have you tried listening to Neze while you feel so sleepy driving???
The sleep will absolutely vanish like magic. Try it and thank me later…😂😂😂
Me too😂
Hmmmmm, what keeps marriage is when both know that TWO FORGIVERS MAKES A HAPPY HOME.
Neze, a ponytail makes you look 10 years younger and very beautiful
This hairdo fits you best, pretty NEZE ❤
When a woman is FED up, she just is!
What about men?
@@taiwoidowu2854be quiet
@@taiwoidowu2854vice versa
@@taiwoidowu2854 Same thing!
@@maryoladipupo2777 👍👍
Enough of peoplr saying it's a man's world. No woman wants to be traumatised all in the name of marriage. A mother is of no use to het children for continuing to stay in an abusive marriage. She'll be a wreck that her children may even be taken away from her. Jesus luck to Mabel. May her light continue to shine brighter and brighter.
Well done Neze. Only Mabel knows how the shoe hurts...she is the one wearing em. I think good mental health and happiness are better than pretending to endure a bad or abusive relationship. Separation may be better for them to re-evaluate their lives and choices.
I don't know why these guys even bother to get married knowing full well that they can't be faithful.
Na waaa oo
E pop
Society pressure
Exactly! I think it is because of pressure from the family.
Of all that has been said no one is talking about most men not being able to be with only one woman.Most African men aren't wired to be with one woman it's only the society that makes it so.Even in the days of the Bible many men had more than one wife
@@ndukaanyim6466But God was not wise enough to give Adam just one woman knowing men were wired to have several women abi? Continue justifying selfishness, Women are gradually getting tired of your brainwashing, you will suffer from your own actions soon.
This is the most brilliant analysis I have seen anywhere. Very calculative, detailed and brilliant. For AY, I do not feel sorry for him, he threw his beautiful family and pride under the bus. He disrespected that woman for so long. Women, don’t just walk away, they endure until they exhaust every room of endurance. I pray she finds peace. She must have chosen to do her own to balance the equation of infidelity, since AY no wan get sense. It’s so sad to see that union disintegrate like that. May God forgive them for their inadequacies. Amen!!!
Honestly, it is not as an African, but to the detriment of one's life, sanity, mental health or self-worth & existence , it is 100% worth leaving jor!
no one should stay with a cheating partner, period. New subby, loved this ❤
I forgot to mention u r a beautiful and intelligent woman…. God bless u for ur works
I always look forward to hearing about any trending issue from you. You dont beat about the bush, you are thorough, and your sense of humor is outstanding. Welldone. You are the best.
We love you Neze. My husband is glued. He’s always looking forward to the crazy week that was. Thank you Barrister. He is also your learned colleague. ❤️💜❤️❤️💜❤️
No woman prays to leave a marriage of 20 years! For her to leave means she didn't want to die on top man matter. Some husbands can torture their wife by their irresponsibility. Her daughters have to know that there are better men and not have daddy issues because of their father.
One thing stands out - your choice of words. A true lawyer making good commentary. Great job.
Ay is a very known womaniser.This woman has tried putting up with his madness.
let her leave if it gives her peace
But why she didn't know. Woman should know that only God changes someone 🙏 you cannot change him so allow him to go.
😂😂😂😂😂 Your so funny@@anitaappiah5595
Let him go ahead and sleep with the devil.
My goodness that is very sad
If Ay is a known womanizer then the wife did not move close enough to God with her burden. She has made the matter worse for herself and the kids. Her decision make end up making her loose too cos she may have to search for a better man than Ay and it involves risk. She has also denied their kids 100% fatherhood cos of her selfishness. I'm sure now she's single all her bad advisers are laughing at her. For sure she lost something. Can she swear she never knacked a man all the time Ay was fooling around. I bet she was not 100% faithful. Is there a guarantee she'll really find a better man than Ay? So why pull the divorce string and destroy yourself? Makes no sense to me. Women still remain women. Poor analytical skills.
I am with the second school of thought. STD marriage is a NO! If that is what was going on then good on her for walking. I really like how you ended the video. We really need to do better on this big continent of ours, the better for all of us. Both men and women deserve happiness.
If I started to agree with you with proofs it would be endless....I wasted 15years lost so much but my freedom and able to finally breathe was worth everything everyone days I lost...but guess what IT WAS WORTH IT !!!! YOUR OPINION WAS WELL DELIVERED AND SPOT ON!!! WELL DONE!! GOD BLESS US ALL.
Mabel, choose you. Pave a way for girls, your daughters that there is life after divorce. You don’t have to keep
suffering to adhere to the norm. Praying for your family
He obviously loved cheating more than he loved his wife and kids.
I think it is a disgrace that a man can openly cheat on his wife for many years and the wife is expected to suck it up
The embarrassment, the humiliation and the constant worry eventually takes its toll.
Sleeping with many women and in doing so effectively putting his wife’s life at risk .
The hurt he has caused his children( who will read about their father’s sexual escapades on the internet ) cannot be denied.
A man with two daughters has treated another man’s daughter with disrespect. He better pray that his daughter’s do not suffer the same fate as his wife. Life has a way of teaching us a lesson.
The sad thing is that he is unlikely to ever find someone who loves him like his wife
Sad
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Hmmmm am tired of all sad news
This is superb, I really love your write up, many women are going through a lot
Love your write up,the mental health of every woman is important ,wen a mother is not ok mentally it also affects the children,as I always say, it's a woman that make the marriage works but there's a limit to what she can take she always needs help, the moment she is exhorted 😢marriage don end,God bless women ❤
Nigeria and Nigerians makes cheating look like a normal thing. I beg to differ, cheating is a deal breaker, even when done only once but to do it continously and expect d woman to keep swallowing it without complaining . It's a sad thing to see
Gosh I love this girl nah❤... watching from Kenya
Once cheating is enough for me to take a walk. The dangers in infidelity is too much to overlook
Pretty women get cheated on. That’s why I hate the advice women get about how they can improve themselves when their husbands cheat. It’s not about them.
Pretty for outside, you sabi inside?
Amen
@@obn1459that is still no reason to cheat, if you feel your partner is not meeting up to your standards and you have tried to sort the issues, then you walk away!!!
Beauty isn't an outward thing. Most women lie to each other and themselves about what beauty is. Sadly most women don't ask their men what they actually want or need.
Exactly
I don’t understand what he was looking for. I’ll say he has such a beautiful woman he doesn’t deserve her.
Many beautiful women don't possess what it takes to keep a marriage. Most people think a woman or man that's beautiful or handsome on the outside is the same on the inside and that is when the first mistake is made when it comes to marriage. They both should have done this a long time ago but were trying to save face because they are public figures.
@@thomasagorhom1139 God bless you. Most people look at outward beauty and that is the first error
@@thomasagorhom1139You write with conviction. Pardon me, do you have proof of these claims?
I'm new to this channel and I must say I'm hooked , the narration of the controversies, facts and reviews are breathtaking 😅
At least someone else is taking the limelight instead of Yul,May, and Judy saga..
😂😂 you can say that again my sister 😂
I'm tired.
Barrister Never, if I had to follow only one person on social media, it would be you. Your analysis on the stories you share and your unbiased comments provide amazing lessons to your audience and helps immensely to either prevent similar problems or manage them in a better way.
May God richly bless you with more wisdom and grant you the grace to continue serving humanity in the various functions that you have.
This is so hurting o😢😭, we re still praying for yul, Nino now AY.
Make we play o and more o. May God heal all this marriages in Jesus mighty name amen 🙏
It's not by force. Please let women be happy we shouldn't force women to be with people making them unhappy. Let women be at peace!
@@chizzy-y7s smh...
@@chizzy-y7sI can tell you love being a single mother,mumu.
How do you heal a cheating marriage?
@@kele5036 with the word of God!!! That's why I said heal not cure.
Hey Neze! I just wanted to say that your storytelling is absolutely amazing! I was totally hooked from the moment you mentioned the rumors about her having to treat various STDs and infections that were supposedly given to her by her husband. Your storytelling skills are seriously top-notch! Keep up the fantastic work!
Good lessons and advice from you Ma'am....So many people don't understand that Mental illness is real and the issue of infidelity in marriage is capable of driving anyone whether man or woman crazy. It is quite unfortunate to see marriages of Society's role models in quote crash because of infidelity....Let us all learn and live peacefully because we're all answerable to God Almighty.
Well said Josh.
I love you Nezeville we will work together to abandon shameless men hurting us to grave 💔
I pray God to reunite them. This is so touchy. Ay why nah? Pls go beg ur wife & amend ur ways.
God wil never answer that prayer; because God does not like adultery
I’m seeing your video and blogs for the first time and I’m impressed at the way you do yours. You are very objective. May God bless you with more energy level to continue to becoming the best in this job.
My beautiful Neze, you are the big deal when it comes to story telling.... Thumbs up 👍👍💯🥰🥰🥰
Mabel did the right thing for her sanity. Thank you Bar. Nze.
How come I patiently waited to hear this news from you 😮.
Shows that your channel is verified and certified for only True and authentic.
Congrats and keep it up 👍
I did enjoyed this one. It's well articulated for anyone to digest and understand. Personally, i do not thing infidelity is enough reason to leave a marriage of 20 years however, if the wofe has been battling this together STDs and all that,it only shows the husband has been disrespectful to her and this completely unacceptable. Most men cheat but your remains your queen,and her respect and safety remains paramount .
😮my question is what do men really want
They want to have their cake and eat it.
However,, the wives are supposed to be satisfied with crumbs
ask u father first
Nothing hshahshs
So you're happy when men treat women any how
They want other men
I can only pray that they both sit down and work things out. I am not here to mud sling anyone, but to pray for a quick return to normalcy
When infidelity is too much for me i will take a walk,i can't continue to endure it, my mental health and of my kids are very important to me
Bravo to Mabel, mental health is key for the well being of your kids.
Many women are surfing the same thing, even me myself ❤
You are a very wise lady very very smart and beautiful. Love you a lot.Merci bcp❤
I say to myself that i will never watch this particular topic on any other channel apart from Neze nwa channel oooo, because she will give us the real gist👌
I like the way you're looking at me as you're smoothly telling the story....🙈
Hey Neze! The best story teller there is ❤
Thank you Nezevile for being the top best narrator in the world . I so much love and cherish you. My point is If working away from her marriage of 20 and + is the only way she can get her sanity back then, it's fine. Her mental health is very important. Not only domestic violence that African's should recognize but it's time that the society should consider the women's mental being as well. Endurance of infidelity from our men should seize henceforth.
If you get to treat STDs in marriage then how are you different frm an ashawo?
Ay clearly is at fault here and her leaving him is justified
My story teller u never fail us. It is a pity that we can't be true n real own up to our actions.
Who ever is married to u? Is lucky Neze❤❤
I love this lady. Her narrative is a whole movie. She keeps u glue to the end. ❤❤❤❤😊
You're really professional TH-camr😔👏👏👏👏👏✅💯
Who else noticed the change in cloth and hairstyle of Barr. NEZE. You are a great story teller and video editor❤
Mental abuse in marriage is the absolute worst😭. Very damaging. I just feel like she is telling the truth cus this is so relatable.
Some men think as long as they are not physically abusing their wives they are good husband. Mental abuse is also as damaging as physical abuse
Sister Neze you are simply the best♥️♥️ I’m proud of her for choosing herself🙏🏿
What a strolling shoe Mama Neze 1:58, what a humongous strolling shoe.
I love the way you tell stories 🥰🥰🥰
That’s why I watch you NEZE. I waited for your view. You have been objective, the facts. Thank you. No one as you. Love from the USA!😃
Barr Neze, thanks for making a difference in what you do.Your fluency, diction and on point descriptive prowess bring me over and over again to your channel. Your simple, clear and engaging narrative technique keeps one glued and captivated. Am usually lost in the narration of some channels due to poor delivery but you deliver with dexterity.
Back to the main topic, 20 years of being hopeful is really a long time of long-suffering. Women are strong and don't give up easily. So when she quits,that's it !
Cheating is a valid reason to leave a marriage.I know old school women always advice young women to endure abuse but modern women we have options,leaving is one of them.