Our Wedding Night Experience As Virgins // What YouTubers Don't Tell You

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  • Hey Stalwart Fam,
    Finally, we have it for you, our thrilling gist on how we did it for the first time as virgins. Have fun watching.
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  • @TheStalwartLovers
    @TheStalwartLovers  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1344

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    • @adaramajaomotolani8104
      @adaramajaomotolani8104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      It’s the scriptural references for me😀😀
      Much love for you guys from here🥰

    • @leahkiratu8900
      @leahkiratu8900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      9o I'm okloo I'll look î I'll oo lol I'll l9o lokook I'l klo9kl I'll kill

    • @Aysquare
      @Aysquare 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@wakeup857 WAKE UP AND KEEP QUIET, IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANY POSITIVE THING TO SAY

    • @augustaofori1754
      @augustaofori1754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We are really growing stalwart fam... the views are blowing wow 👏😍😳

    • @Pst.nancy.n7092
      @Pst.nancy.n7092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      The beauty of waiting 😍

  • @saintraphael94
    @saintraphael94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2850

    I find bliss when I listen to stories like this. I'm 27, virgin, single and searching. If you are reading this, be not ignorant of the truth that we still have Christian men who uphold purity and purpose in a world that tells them to do otherwise. Even as an advocate, it's a battlefield out here considering the events that we see and here every blessed day. Hitherto, it has been the grace of God!!

    • @natureworld295
      @natureworld295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Hi , can I have your whatsapp number .

    • @thedietdiary
      @thedietdiary 2 ปีที่แล้ว +203

      There are non Christians that are virgins because they chose to keep themselves. It not particularly a Christians thing. It is morally right.

    • @thedietdiary
      @thedietdiary 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@natureworld295 😶😶

    • @nomkhosibiyela5131
      @nomkhosibiyela5131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @maggief1851
      @maggief1851 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      I'm the same, I am 25 stories like this give me hope.

  • @TronoMusiKafe
    @TronoMusiKafe ปีที่แล้ว +313

    Wow! My wife and I had this same experience 11 years ago. We couldn't breakthrough until the 2nd day and we are happy and so proud to start our sex life as newbies ( virgins). Young people don't be deceived by lies going out there that being a virgin is outdated. It is a noble thing to keep yourselves till you are married. We did it, the Stalwart did it and many are still getting married as virgins, so join us to have such a good testimony.

  • @ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman
    @ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman ปีที่แล้ว +125

    I came across this video over a year ago and added it to my watchlist but never watched until now. I am not a virgin, but I’ve been abstinent over 7 years and I always joke about how I’m gonna feel like one again once I get married lol… I love how DETAILED yall were. I literally had flashbacks to my first time 🥴 The difference is that you both did it God‘s way and your story was beautiful and very entertaining. I can see the love between you two ❤️

    • @giftnwosu5931
      @giftnwosu5931 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But are you going to feel like it's a first time again??

    • @ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman
      @ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@giftnwosu5931 Are you a woman or a man? Have you had sex before? If you haven’t, I understand how you may not know this answer. Just to give you some context… The vagina is elastic; think of a rubber band. It is small, but stretches enough for a newborn baby to pass through during childbirth. After time passes, the vagina shrinks back to its normal size. I have a friend who is married, and she was abstinent for 7 years by the time she met and married her husband. She was married prior to that for almost 20 years and she has three grown children. On her wedding night she felt like she was having sex for the very first time because of the amount of time that had passed. So to answer your question, yes, physically it can feel like the first time again.

    • @manuella5177
      @manuella5177 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      No she won't but will have an inner peace because she did the right thing by abstaining. It's easy to stay a virgin when you are a real virgin, but for someone who has done it before to abstain for 7 years is a real deal....she tried

    • @oluwafunminijoy2488
      @oluwafunminijoy2488 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I love you❤
      Many people are insecure and believe they can't boldly stand where virgins are talking.
      Sexual purity goes inline with virginity in God's eye.
      in Christ: New and cha cha creature
      Let's encourages virginity
      It's the will of God

    • @oluwafunminijoy2488
      @oluwafunminijoy2488 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      May God keep us all standing for him not just sexually but in all aspect of our lifes

  • @debbieadeoye
    @debbieadeoye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    It’s the honesty & openness for me. Thank you for openly and boldly showing the world that sexual purity is still of great value🧡

    • @BEE_Hall_
      @BEE_Hall_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen 33 years old going on 34 I wish I waited.

    • @user-bn9hd8xs7c
      @user-bn9hd8xs7c 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Keep it up, purity till marriage is doable, it works and most importantly, it earns you hundreds of respect especially ladies, since it can never be proven in men. Girls don't give up on your purity.. Don't be robbed of your virginity.

  • @joshuaadesina5466
    @joshuaadesina5466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1845

    I'm a virgin at 29, and my generation is so messed up that everyday I feel very odd. But watching this video literally warmed my heart, you can't understand how it feels. God bless you both and God bless your marriage!

    • @appituguemi
      @appituguemi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Same here o..
      26yrs.. and people keep trying to make me feel odd for keeping it.. God will keep strengthening us till we meet our partners.🙏🙏

    • @patiencenimmoh3956
      @patiencenimmoh3956 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      At 24 and still waiting. I don't care how people will take it but yeah irriz what irriz...... I know and I can't to meet with him

    • @vcj8096
      @vcj8096 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      You have a cloud of witness cheering you on. We did it and yes you can. It's worth the joy and respect you feel for yourself throughout life. It's one of the best thing that happened to me beside salvation experience.

    • @ogbonnayaphilomina9270
      @ogbonnayaphilomina9270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Please don't feel odd, even though the world makes us feel odd.
      I am 27 and waiting for that night.

    • @likejesushere
      @likejesushere 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      I’m 28, and I’m a virgin! Whoop! Whoop!!! 🙌🏼😊

  • @ogalaali4439
    @ogalaali4439 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    Im glad to see that so many are virgins from the comments. The devil wants us to believe that everybody is doing it and if you're not, then you're odd. Love you guys. Hope the passion is still there 3 years later

  • @oluyemiblessing2646
    @oluyemiblessing2646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +520

    I will be 22 this year and I’m still a virgin. Listening to this makes me feel so good and with God by my side,I promise to keep myself till marriage
    I pray to come back here,years after to tell you that I actually kept myself till marriage 🥳🥳🥳

    • @aminajenny7868
      @aminajenny7868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How are you doing my princess?
      I'm a mum of a handsome young man looking for a virgin daughter with a good upbringing good character for my son, age between 19-22.
      If you're still interested let me know
      Thanks

    • @nnekafavour1491
      @nnekafavour1491 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Yes it gives you confidence. I was 28 when I got married and was a virgin. I never regret it till today am still cherished

    • @oluyemiblessing2646
      @oluyemiblessing2646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@nnekafavour1491 thanks for this ma’am. God bless you home in jesus name

    • @E_ESP23
      @E_ESP23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      You don't keep your self for marriage... You keep yourself beacause God said it... Holiness is for God not for a husband.

    • @oluyemiblessing2646
      @oluyemiblessing2646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@E_ESP23 true. Thanks for this sir

  • @royalprince9965
    @royalprince9965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +934

    Ma guy you're a great story teller. Talking about sex in such a clean and hilarious way. You're smart.

    • @dorcasifeoluwakiitan7990
      @dorcasifeoluwakiitan7990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      As in ehnn😀....I still don't understand how I manage to understand everything

    • @WILMA_
      @WILMA_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I truly cannot listen to what he is talking about without loving this dude! “Sister was in pain but I was still STANDING”! I love this couple!!!

    • @preciouschisom9582
      @preciouschisom9582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      As in eh!😂
      Laughed all through the video.
      Funny enough, I understood all the slangs used here.😂

    • @brightbutipemmanuel881
      @brightbutipemmanuel881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      When he said “get through dz door today”i lost it 😂🤣🤣like wtf bro

    • @marel2575
      @marel2575 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is ur problem. When someone lies easy to know. U can't just understand

  • @alenielizabeth8942
    @alenielizabeth8942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +470

    No shame, No guilt!.
    Thats the beauty of waiting.
    God bless you both.

  • @dominicdestiny2914
    @dominicdestiny2914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    I'm 20 still a virgin and am being pressured by friends, almost giving in, until I saw this video,am so encouraged Love you guys ♥️♥️♥️

    • @mariamtunkara4719
      @mariamtunkara4719 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Don’t give in
      Keep going !

    • @regnaldjulias1697
      @regnaldjulias1697 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Keep going

    • @user-xz3en1ur8s
      @user-xz3en1ur8s 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Keep pushing sis

    • @SafariDushime
      @SafariDushime 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Key pushing, I’m 27 and virgin. Waiting on The Lord for the right time.

    • @kibalibeth9717
      @kibalibeth9717 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Do not give in...it feels so good to remain in purity.Iys a peaceful space

  • @joyjohn5117
    @joyjohn5117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    No shame, no guilt, that's the beauty of waiting 😍😍.
    I'm 27 years still a virgin..
    No regrets what so ever..
    like I'm so proud of myself, in our world were premarital sex has become a norm, God has helped me to hold on to sexual purity 😍.
    My mum have birth to 3 of us all girls, my elder sister got married as a virgin, in fact her hubby threw a party literally..
    I and my younger sister are still virgins..
    I'm greatful to God for giving me godly parents who trained us in the way of the Lord. To God be the glory..

    • @yomide_naturals
      @yomide_naturals ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Awwwnnnn that's sweet 🥰🥰

    • @Pinkiebabe
      @Pinkiebabe หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m 25 and still a virgin ❤❤❤

    • @user-xi7zf5kh7s
      @user-xi7zf5kh7s หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I tap grace to be a virgin before marriage for all my children in Jesus name and so shall it be. Amen

    • @julianahadewole9849
      @julianahadewole9849 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same my sister,am grateful to God for the kind of parent he gave me and my siblings that train us in a godly way of the lord

  • @jakarahporter
    @jakarahporter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    The transparency, modesty, and HUMOR exuded in this video is priceless! You two are a beautiful couple. Blessings and favor on your God ordained marriage.❤️❤️❤️

    • @khonkhosilelihle7414
      @khonkhosilelihle7414 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      True ey. I'm loving the video.

    • @princesscauldwell7311
      @princesscauldwell7311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Omg its so good to hear young people speak about sex the way you both speak, I had hope I waited bcaz am 40years old and still not married I was in the church and came out I regret the decision I have made,nevertheless I will return to serving God hope to find a God husband and we both served God

    • @yemi5193
      @yemi5193 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m loving their content. They have similar attributes ie humour, beautiful smile, intelligence amidst many beautiful attributes they display on their channel. Keel up the good work

    • @faithFul_nheeKie
      @faithFul_nheeKie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@princesscauldwell7311 God will perfect it, just keep trusting in HIM

  • @anaskawsar1701
    @anaskawsar1701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +752

    This is my first time here. I love u guys. I’m a virgin and a Muslim. This video has taught a lot. I think there’s beauty in waiting and being patient. May the lord help us through.

  • @patiencemwine4420
    @patiencemwine4420 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +151

    I don't know how I bumped on this 10 years after our marriage. Hehe. We were virgins too at 26 both of us. 1st night, things didn't work out. 2nd day. No progress. 3 Rd day we tried again. It was during day. I clenched my teeth and allowed him to press several time. I was determined to have a break through. It was the most painful experience ever. After that. I cried but tried to be strong, there was too much fire. My hubby ran to the pharmacy and he brought pain killers. Hehe Tramadol. He was shaking and didn't know what to do. The Pharmacy person calmed him down. Unfortunately the Tramadol made me vomit non stop. I was like have I become pregnant😂😂 hehehe. With all the medical knowledge I had, we were confused. I actually remember we bought a pregnancy test kit which was negative of course. Oh my God, what an experience. I encourage.all young people to wait. Later on we went for our actual honeymoon. Every time I remember the experience, I laugh. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @mariammapunda5831
      @mariammapunda5831 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂

    • @NateTheGreat265
      @NateTheGreat265 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂That's hilarious

    • @emmadora7848
      @emmadora7848 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Chxzzy101
      @Chxzzy101 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Maybe you had vaginismus because before sex foreplay comes first to relax both you and your partner. But vaginismus it goes beyond foreplay

    • @joyceogwe3272
      @joyceogwe3272 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      After reading this, I literally had to scroll back up again to check your name so I could have a good laugh! 😂😂

  • @kemiajiboye2220
    @kemiajiboye2220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    God bless your home. I am so proud of you and your story reminds me of me about 20yrs ago. My husband was not a virgin, yet we was worried and scared that he doesn’t hurt me. We are happily married with 3 kids and still being boyfriend/girlfriend. Waiting till marriage can never be over emphasized. Keep, Keeping Faith😍

  • @deleolukotun1196
    @deleolukotun1196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    May the Lord keep you both. You're impacting the generation of young Christians. God bless you. My marriage is 36years now and still counting. You are a blessing!

    • @sharonk1730
      @sharonk1730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen! God is good!

  • @kennedykoweshunjnr8534
    @kennedykoweshunjnr8534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +394

    I'm so encouraged! Sometimes if feels like we're stupid to be virgins. This is encouraging. God bless you

    • @monicaruby8888
      @monicaruby8888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You're definitely not stupid, stay strong, keep the faith, hold onto God's word, and wait until you're married! :-)

    • @ob_isaiah
      @ob_isaiah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I'm 32 and a virgin. I'm ever proud and rather than let others shame me, I pose a challenge to them

    • @notella_ng
      @notella_ng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You're not stupid. You're in fact more sensible than them. It takes a wise man/woman to know the dangers of premarital sex. And it takes a brave and disciplined person to hold his/her grounds on being a virgin. God bless you and continue to give you the strength not to fall into lustful temptations

    • @ScissorN
      @ScissorN 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ya we are stupid

    • @esperanzawanjiru2435
      @esperanzawanjiru2435 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Only Gods opinion matters imagine. Nobody else matters

  • @MarvellousKingsley-vm8de
    @MarvellousKingsley-vm8de วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Lots of respect for this. I'm 19 and a Christian. the books I've read tell me that the pain is only for a moment,but this is s so enlightening. Thank you so much

  • @happyseth9673
    @happyseth9673 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I just turned 28 this April and still a virgin, am proud of myself after hearing you people , sometimes I get tire of waiting and wanted to give it out but thanks to God my friends advise am strong,

  • @faith_ibings
    @faith_ibings 2 ปีที่แล้ว +457

    We didn't try on our wedding night as we had to travel down the next day, as soon as we got to hubby base, we tried and tried, I cried at some point too, infact I formed tired at some point like whenever hubby is making the move, I get scared, thank God hubby was calm and gentle with me. Hubby fingers worked the magic too, the veil was torn after the 3rd day (the blood encouraged us too) and on the 6th day, we got to Jerusalem. Glory 💃💃💃💃💃 #2weeks of marriage today

    • @keldagogo5131
      @keldagogo5131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wow congrats

    • @faith_ibings
      @faith_ibings 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@keldagogo5131 thanks.

    • @adanmaezenekwe2245
      @adanmaezenekwe2245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Congratulations

    • @TheStalwartLovers
      @TheStalwartLovers  2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Congratulations on your wedding and arrival to Jerusalem 😂. We pray that you have a long and happy marriage.

    • @dorcasorogun5135
      @dorcasorogun5135 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congratulations

  • @eniolaadeyemi3303
    @eniolaadeyemi3303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    You both shared your first time experience in an amazing way. These things are not mentioned in pre marriage counselling sessions. Your advice to the groom is the best part for me. Gentleness and empathy, spot on!

  • @AudreyB_
    @AudreyB_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This video just popped up in my feed and I watched. I just fell in love with you both. The way you told your story was funny and encouraging. I’m a new fan. God bless.

    • @TheStalwartLovers
      @TheStalwartLovers  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Welcome to the family 🥰. Please watch more videos, you'd be glad. Don't forget to subscribe. We love you ❤️

  • @irankundajacob9579
    @irankundajacob9579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man I’m so glade with the information not just that but the ways y’all represented it! May Almighty Papa continue you guys and others through y’all!

  • @irisgraham7222
    @irisgraham7222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +518

    This was very well done. It sounds very similar to my wedding night. My husband and I were both virgins. My husband was very patient as well. I feel better about our experience now that I have seen this. We' ve been married almost 15 years now and we are glad we waited and did it God's way. A lifetime of happiness to you both!

    • @Masowe.
      @Masowe. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      congratulations

    • @darlingtondesire9509
      @darlingtondesire9509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Congratulations Sister. Greetings to your faithful King

    • @stellaokorie7458
      @stellaokorie7458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wow exactly the same to me and my husband

  • @DoofanHiikyaa
    @DoofanHiikyaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    This guy is crazy in a good way🤣 I absolutely love how he looks for ways to refer to something in scriptures! The blood paved the way🤣🤣 The lady has a lovely smile. Great job!

    • @victoriavicky5728
      @victoriavicky5728 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Gorgeous smile! Very infectious. May God bless their beautiful union. 🥰🥳🥰

    • @oluwafunminijoy2488
      @oluwafunminijoy2488 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Don't mind him
      So funny and detailed

  • @Fendifobs
    @Fendifobs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Her eyes , theres something about innocence, its so visible and sweet. love you sis. So happy to hear these stories. I didnt marry a virgin but that was my dream. My husband waited though, wish that for our lil one

    • @ALiveEpisodeofZ
      @ALiveEpisodeofZ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤glad to hear he waited

  • @Rm-lb7ou
    @Rm-lb7ou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awwwwn! My love for you guys just trippled! May God continue to keep you strong till the end of time!🙏

  • @VictoriaNakaraKizer
    @VictoriaNakaraKizer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    She is just beautiful, love her smile. Glad yall waited. Bless your union…!

  • @loisleke-amoo5919
    @loisleke-amoo5919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I remember that I even developed a confession about it. Saying God made this and so it's beautiful! Thank you for shooting this video

  • @rehemamiriam588
    @rehemamiriam588 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    No shame no guilt. It pays to wait. I love this couple. From Kenya🇰🇪

  • @richarddeborah3881
    @richarddeborah3881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Awwwwnnn watching this made me glad and i am so happy for you both.One thing i can see in this is that you both are friends and there’s love,friendship,empathy,i can see the understanding. Look at the laughter
    Infact am so happy you met each other cos indeed it’s meant to be. God presence will never depart from your home.
    I thank God for grace upon my life and my time is close

  • @sammycokere
    @sammycokere 2 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    Absolutely loved the video! Pheww.. this one answered my questions. Lovely. I’m 22(23 by December), virgin & proud. I can’t tell you how many times the temptations have come , but my love for God and the will to wait has helped me overcome them. Being a virgin, especially for a guy, is NOT EASY, but it can be rewarding. I get asked why I’m still a virgin, and every single time, I give one answer : I simply haven’t found the girl who deserves my body just yet. It’s not pride, it’s respecting your body. It has spiritual benefits too FYI. Still okay if you’ve already cashed in though.
    Once again, thank you guys for making this video. (I actually edited this comment to add that) you guys are so adorable together, may this union last a lifetime Amen 😊

    • @oladepotemitope5843
      @oladepotemitope5843 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow! I can relate.
      I was not just tensed, I was afraid. The veil wasn't totally broken until few days afterwards,but it was worth the waiting!
      God bless you guys!

    • @athen4725
      @athen4725 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true. I have learnt to field virginity questions anyway

  • @rasheedahabdur-rahman1508
    @rasheedahabdur-rahman1508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Excellent video! I love the chemistry between the two of you - and the practical advice you offer in such a classy way. ♥️

  • @thando_t1723
    @thando_t1723 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I am 23 years old and I am wating 😊 and i will continue waiting for my God appointedhusband. Amen. I really learned a lot from your video❤

  • @victoriaowumi3812
    @victoriaowumi3812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is educating. And I love it. Thank you for sharing your personal journey and lessons with us all. A lot of lessons were learnt.
    This is what the church is shying away from. It’s hightime Christian couples (who got married with the bed undefied) teach the upcoming couples how to go about it.
    I love you guys. God bless your home Amen 🙏

  • @eleanorayanamorgan5417
    @eleanorayanamorgan5417 2 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    I really appreciate this lovely couple's testimony; however, I would have liked to hear more from his wife and her own words about her real experience. May God continue to bless you and your marriage.

    • @Mymamayama
      @Mymamayama 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Lol I like this comment .. the wife needs to speak up ,beautiful couple tho!

    • @tyraannan3013
      @tyraannan3013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hope he brought you the icecream 🤣🤣🤣🤣 bless you both

    • @mem3769
      @mem3769 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She said she was in so much pain, she couldnt do it. She also said she had clothes in between her teeth like biting down to not scream out.

    • @beverleyhunter5174
      @beverleyhunter5174 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is beautiful

    • @manikasakala5866
      @manikasakala5866 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      me too

  • @onyemaechicharity183
    @onyemaechicharity183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Thank you so much for doing this. It's a big encouragement to every single who is still a virgin. I am glad I came across your video. God bless both of you.

  • @Crey4you
    @Crey4you 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lol the best conversation about this I've heard! So funny and light and real info, thanks!! God bless y'all

  • @estheramachree2829
    @estheramachree2829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I'm 19 and I do believe in waiting till marriage but I will be honest with you I always fantasize about doing it with some random boy in school to just know how it is but discovering you guys and watching this video it just encourages me keep the veil closed and it shows me what a beautiful moment it would be to go through this with someone I love and to get through it together (the pain and anxiety) and also knowing that what I am doing is not wrong .
    Thanks.

    • @viviananku1315
      @viviananku1315 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sure 👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️

    • @katherinenuel3827
      @katherinenuel3827 ปีที่แล้ว

      My love keep yourself…it’s a beautiful thing

    • @SarjoJasseh
      @SarjoJasseh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Girl I am 19 too. Respect from your future husband is worth waiting. Please never let it go

  • @beccab4029
    @beccab4029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    My latest favourite couple! It's evident you're best friends. Thank you for sharing freely. I must say all your biblical nuances were 👌🏽 and made the video so relatable. Love it!

    • @gwenburnette9211
      @gwenburnette9211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I wish there were others like you.

  • @sundayozioma4426
    @sundayozioma4426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1673

    This video is so hilarious, I am 36 still keeping my virginity hoping that God will bless me with my own hubby one day. Happy to see people like me in this demoralized world.

    • @nkwonkechianita160
      @nkwonkechianita160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      The God that did it for me and them will surely do yours in Jesus mighty name amen.

    • @nnamdiokwuosa9616
      @nnamdiokwuosa9616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      The LORD strengthen you and give you the husband that you deserve.

    • @estherpedro8378
      @estherpedro8378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Soonest your husband will locate you! Congratulations in advance!

    • @naomimonicah2570
      @naomimonicah2570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      😂😂very hilarious. I thought am a weird girl...At 26 keeping mine too😂😂 i honestly dread that day

    • @sundayozioma4426
      @sundayozioma4426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Thank you all. And I say amen to all that.

  • @allyson4801
    @allyson4801 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this video, thanks for sharing. It is a good resource for persons getting married to see their peers instead of listening to an old person giving advice on these matters.

  • @daisyondiege6566
    @daisyondiege6566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just came across this video and decided to check it out and oh my...
    Its so encouraging to hear your story and this affirms that it really is possible in such a generation to still keep the veil shut until the right time in marriage
    Hearing from you guys just made me desire even more than I already do to please God with my body by maintaining purity until the right time comes
    Baraka tele!!! (Or blessings, as we say it in Kenya🖤🖤)

  • @JesusMyIshi
    @JesusMyIshi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +321

    The purity of this video makes my heart smile!!!!!!! Lol May our generation go back to this. Celebrating marriage the RIGHT WAY! You guys are great. It’s sweet that you guys are being transparent like this for the sake of others. God bless your marriage. 😍💕

    • @sandraokonkwo900
      @sandraokonkwo900 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honestly sis

    • @paulnwazor588
      @paulnwazor588 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome really
      Thank God for everything. Glory to God

    • @euniceatieno-wb1uo
      @euniceatieno-wb1uo หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      God bless you for waiting till marriage. It takes patient to reach that far. Blessings

  • @rchambers1993
    @rchambers1993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Praise God this is a beautiful example for others to learn living God's way is the best way!❤️

  • @Kekes1941
    @Kekes1941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you all! Thank you for your story so candidly I appreciate it so much ❤

  • @Selenadeetigris21
    @Selenadeetigris21 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awwwe I loved this! The pure honesty, the humor it was so reassuring! I’m 26 and still a virgin waiting for my husband but I’m sooo afraid of the pain I’ll experience my first time and will I be able to make my husband happy but hearing testimonies like this makes me feel like I can overcome that fear! Amen! God is good!!!🥹🎉

  • @chidinmaigbokwe9024
    @chidinmaigbokwe9024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    You guys are really great together. I laughed my heart out watching this video, had to subscribe immediately because I need this kind of positive vibe on a regular. Can't wait to watch it again later in the morning with hubby.
    God bless your marriage tremendously!

  • @elyseetube
    @elyseetube 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    The way this was narrated was so beautiful. God is great, it was so refreshing to see "the Jerusalem" beeing spoken about in such a pure and beautiful way in the appropriate concept it was meant for by God

  • @bamikayy
    @bamikayy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You guys are so beautiful! I love that you both were being real. Thank you!❤️

  • @ifynath5050
    @ifynath5050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    It's encouraging that two people can develop a closeness that allows you to be free and open with each other even while having a non-sexual relationship. Kudos.

  • @stephthecreative6312
    @stephthecreative6312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    I don’t even you two, but I’m so proud of you! GOD is truly going to bless your marriage for staying the course.

  • @vanessaenyonam6949
    @vanessaenyonam6949 2 ปีที่แล้ว +507

    It’s so refreshing hearing a Christian couple share a realistic story. I laughed so hard watching this 😂😂😂I also learnt a lot🤗

  • @christabelemeh4257
    @christabelemeh4257 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks guys for being real that's the more reason why I stick to your channel. Shalom.

  • @estherprecious9816
    @estherprecious9816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This video personally serves as an encouragement to me to keep moving and not give up. I love the originality of the video and the vibes you guys got. I had to watch it all. Not one dull moment. At the inception of the video, what came into my mind,was "what could they possibly say in a 21mins video about this?". You blew my mind beyond. Indeed, purpose matches purpose.
    And vision with vision.
    Keep the good work up. 👏

  • @bobbiessfavs
    @bobbiessfavs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This is a beautiful story! God bless you guys for trust in God to sustain and keep you. May God bless you mightily for honoring him with your bodies, relationship and hearts. This is what TRUE obedience looks like. Blessings for a wonderful marriage and many babies!

  • @emilyagbosu4766
    @emilyagbosu4766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    I just love how your hubby explain everything deeply May God bless your union

    • @godwinkosoko7633
      @godwinkosoko7633 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so proud of you as couples 💑 the communications of both of you is real and fantastic. I wish both of you good marriage life in Jesus mighty name 🙏🙌

  • @adeleemmanuella1394
    @adeleemmanuella1394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thanks for this. I'm turning 20 and I've had Pple and friends tell me I'm just being a child when all I want is to please God and keep my promise to myself to marry as a virgin. God bless you guys for real, I feel encouraged to continue. Thanks a lot.

  • @Purityadvocate
    @Purityadvocate ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is amazing,I believe in the marriage bed undefiled,it’s a season for me to study on this and i am glad to come across yours today,thank you❤ and God bless you 😊

  • @Sandart65
    @Sandart65 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Beautiful story. I’m so glad God made you two for each other.

  • @Peace-wm7vc
    @Peace-wm7vc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thank you wonderful ppl for sharing, this helps ease off one’s mind as to what to expect when my time comes to cross over from the Free State to the United State 🙌🏽

  • @gifted7492
    @gifted7492 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow!
    Speechless at this point. I love you guys. Talking about this with so much purity is a cool one. God bless you guys

  • @Sarahpelz98
    @Sarahpelz98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It pleasing to find so many people here as virgins. I'm proud to be one.
    Not left alone... It would definitely worth the wait at the end. Thanks for sharing 😌

  • @JACOBAMAO-2
    @JACOBAMAO-2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    I would like to encourage the Marriage Counselors to download this video and show it to the would be couples during their counseling sessions.
    Bravo to this Couple. May God bless your home with divine goodness 🙏

    • @jubrilsonia6152
      @jubrilsonia6152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh my goodness I just came across this video, and I must commend you two, I love you, this video made my day completely complete, May Jehovah the originator of marriage bless your home, thanks for being transparency with us in the video, your really good to imitate.

    • @balogunoluwabukola7733
      @balogunoluwabukola7733 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jubrilsonia6152 I know you are jw...... pleased to meet you

  • @MsBdoll87
    @MsBdoll87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This was beautiful! Thanks for your humor and transparency!

  • @sandychristabell4706
    @sandychristabell4706 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am bursting out in laughter here😂😂... Very inspiring...Thanks for the hope and may your union grow in Christ eternally 🙏🙏🙏

  • @samsonojoawo9299
    @samsonojoawo9299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Quite a beautiful presentation by you guys, made me recollect similar experience my wife and I had some 19 years ago our first wedding night at Camp Young Ede Nigeria, both of us first timers too, there is dignity in waiting till the appropriate time God has designed, that pride is a strong factor keeping our love stronger by the day till this moment, we keep loving each other the more each time remember our first night and love. May God enable our younger generation to uphold the dignity of God's word, virginity, patience, godliness, and such virtues even in this end time!

    • @awowoleopeyemi
      @awowoleopeyemi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Camp Young Ede 👍

  • @Gloradiant
    @Gloradiant 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Brilliant video 👏🏾👏🏾🤣🤣🤣 I laughed!!
    Also it's fantastic that you're touching on a subject that isn't widely discussed in churches or at counselling sessions . 👌🏾👌🏾

  • @joycendem7283
    @joycendem7283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Woah, you guys are a blessing to your generation, keep this up and God would bless your union.

  • @pianolessonswithcollins8756
    @pianolessonswithcollins8756 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow ....lot of positive energy here...I'm highly encouraged...I needed to watch this video, considering all the pressure around.. I love you people so much

  • @nnedinsoabugu5640
    @nnedinsoabugu5640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just stumbled on the video, the title was what caught My fancy🥰. In a world where sexual immorality has become the norm leaving most virgins shy to own their truth, you both showed the 'Joy ' of waiting for the right time. I was honestly energized

  • @graceojirot6317
    @graceojirot6317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    A testimony of young persons who have walked with God! Thank you for courage. This is useful for counselling virgin couples!! I am so grateful to you lovebirds!!!!

  • @godsprincessinspiredanewby7929
    @godsprincessinspiredanewby7929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Thank you Brother & Sister, children of God for allowing the Lord to enable you to so clearly & objectively teach & prepare those yet unmarried & virginal to prepare for that experience. It’s very unique how you use the scriptures in such a comical way to get your point across. God bless you both in your ministry & married life. I’ve subscribed.

    • @TheStalwartLovers
      @TheStalwartLovers  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for subscribing. You are welcome

  • @adedoyinorowee3959
    @adedoyinorowee3959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Wow, such a beautiful video. I remember i was a bit angry during my honeymoon that nobody told us that we should have lubricant with us, my hubby had not penetrated but the pain was bad. we could not continue even after applying olive oil that we had with us, eventually we had to go get lubricant from a pastor friend, we didn't even know where to buy one. That was 9years ago and by the way today is our anniversary. Glory to God for Christian marriages.

    • @Chxzzy101
      @Chxzzy101 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is it that you people don’t know what foreplay is? Ha!!! Foreplay alone can get you naturally lubricated. Amazing grace children 🙄🙄

  • @tonyhalfelven376
    @tonyhalfelven376 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well done. This is spot on. I wish we would have been taught this in premarital counseling. I thank God that He guided us through this in the same way as you two.

  • @ldwoods3237
    @ldwoods3237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Loved this video! What an honor to wait to consumate your union as husband and wife to honor God 🙌🏾

  • @UniqueFood8861
    @UniqueFood8861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Your story is similar to mine,though my hubby wasn't a virgin but i was at 30 years and i still remember the first night, the memory is as fresh as ever.I can't forget the pain and i hated sex too,just didn't want to do again.Just like you guys,we stopped and had to continue later but with so much pain.To worsen it,we didn't use any lubricant, i hated that night but i glad we pull through after trying and trying.And we like it now.Next month our marriage will be 10 years. It really pays to grow with the fear of God and keep one's self till Marriage. God bless your union 🙏

    • @nakiryowaclaire7264
      @nakiryowaclaire7264 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      U have given me courage to stay keep my virginity till God say yes

  • @vinishagovender5767
    @vinishagovender5767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You guys are just crazy and hilarious, thank you for encouraging words.

  • @mayohlinda3990
    @mayohlinda3990 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so so much. Finally something real that gives me an idea on what to expect and look forward to. Thank you for keeping it real.

  • @py20
    @py20 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Beautiful story told with godly humor; blessings to you!

  • @ebenezeraina9133
    @ebenezeraina9133 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Love the groom's sincerity with diplomacy.

  • @ritaf2366
    @ritaf2366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow!!! You guys are super hilarious and amazing. You honesty in a very decent way is a lesson many should learn. God bless your union

  • @inioluwaosinaiwo200
    @inioluwaosinaiwo200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    This is so goffy yet spritual 😂😂😂.. you guys just earned a new subscriber.... I'm happy I stumbled on this.Thank you so much

    • @TheStalwartLovers
      @TheStalwartLovers  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍

  • @iTuneGee
    @iTuneGee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    I consider myself blessed to see this... you guys are a beacon of light in a dark and perverse generation. Take that from a bro who went to his virgin bride a virgin himself some 17 years ago! Kudos Stalwart lovers!

  • @bukolamodupe6263
    @bukolamodupe6263 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the fact you both were so realistic, thank you,what an interesting way to learn..

  • @casminwilliams4145
    @casminwilliams4145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow just came across your page I and had to say wow you two are a blessing congrats and continue to love and respect each cause that's the key right there!!

  • @kate4realus
    @kate4realus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +632

    I can totally relate to this.😊 My honeymoon was in a beach house just by the beach, my own kind of fairytale, but the sexy times was anything but that. We couldn't get past 'the veil', it was a terrible kind of pain everytime we got to that part, and it was like that all through the 3 nights away from home, but we kept on trying every other day, i was too tiny, at a point, i was thinking i didn't have a hole* down there. Our 1st breakthrough was 20days after (yes i was counting), it was still really painful but we got somewhere, let's just say i was sore for the 1st few months... but things got better as the days went by. I'm thankful for a patient partner, that definitely helped and i wasn't pressured. They need to teach these things at counseling o, wedding nights are usually not all that, but yeah, you have the rest of your lives together to keep stepping it up. ... I need to stop typing now.😁

    • @chizobamuomah1846
      @chizobamuomah1846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      They really need to. So many things we didn't know. It wasn't a funny experience. For some of us it took weeks. At some point we were considering going to the hospital to know if everything was okay. Thank God for a patient and considerate husband. And even after the breakthrough, it still takes months to become enjoyable.

    • @carolinewanjera6775
      @carolinewanjera6775 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      You have described my situation fully.I thought something was wrong down there.Day 25 on a Wednesday that's when we atleast managed.I was so glad and I felt like almost an expert 🥰🥰🥰🥰😆😆

    • @ndmacokereke4154
      @ndmacokereke4154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh my God, I wish I saw this before my own experience, oh, oh, am just speechless, I saw my self crying like a baaaaabbbyyyy🤔🤔🤔

    • @cutiekay1000
      @cutiekay1000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Thanks for your comment. I think we need to promote more sexual purity and chasity especially in men. I wish I would have waited. May God grant you the strength to endure. Take it from me. It is worth it. Wait patiently on the Lord. Dont be or feel pressured.

    • @ifeefee6964
      @ifeefee6964 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Thank you so much for sharing your testimony especially about a caring husband being patient with you. I am a virgin and I sometimes think about my wedding night and wonder will my husband be ok if it takes a minute and I am thankful for this video & y'all sharing your experience. It calms & encourages me!. 🥰🤗🥰🤗

  • @janaebattle8090
    @janaebattle8090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This is so beautiful 😍😍🙌🏾 and who said you can’t find or meet someone faithful and who respects you...You marriage is honorable!!! So happy for you guys...keep God first and he will increase and strengthen your marriage 🙏🏽 Love this❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @enerinjaba
    @enerinjaba 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved the video❤️ thank you for showing us that it is worth the wait and patience is key. God bless you

  • @brendonkline596
    @brendonkline596 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Thank you guys for making this video. I'm 27, engaged, and getting married to the most amazing blessing of a woman I could have asked God for. This night is something I'm very anxious about because I never want to cause my wife pain. But the way you guys described this was so biblical and beautiful. Thank you. 🙏

  • @artheyojo1966
    @artheyojo1966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is beautiful ❤️
    Thank you guys for your honest take on this.
    There is no shame in love.
    God bless you and make your friendship stronger.

  • @habeebaholoko2965
    @habeebaholoko2965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I really love the way you guys passed this message💕🥰.
    The message was clear with no bad intentions. Well done guys👏👏👏

  • @jeremiaherinola9625
    @jeremiaherinola9625 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this video really 🥰
    It pays to wait really! Thank you for explaining so well and making us laugh even as we understand what you are saying.

  • @Wapuke
    @Wapuke ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Mehhnn!! This was so amazing to watch. It takes great courage to share such an intimate part of your lives with us. Thank you. Almost clicked on the next video and realised I had to leave a comment behind.❤

  • @EzekielBb
    @EzekielBb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    The anointing broke the yoke and the blood paved the way… glory to God hallelujah 🔥😍♥️

  • @OwolabiEsther
    @OwolabiEsther 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    TH-cam recommended me this gem, I do not regret it. I love the honesty in this video!

  • @ezehadaezez7354
    @ezehadaezez7354 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow. I love this, I am 27,will be 28 in a month time and still in tact. I have been so scared on how my first night will be. Thank God for watching this.. I pray the Lord helps me and give me the strength..cos I can't endure things. Hearing of pains to feel on first day gets me nostalgia.
    Thanks alot

  • @langlaiscestfacile4375
    @langlaiscestfacile4375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really appreciate your video guys. In reality I didnt exactly know why I downloaded it. And then after school I got back to my room, I was very exhausted and I decided to watch it. I really enjoyed watching it. I am christian, I am also virgin and by watching it I am very encouraged to keep me till I get married. love you from Cote dIvoire

  • @Delicieuxable
    @Delicieuxable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I have watched many videos around this topic... But this was by far my most favorite. It was obvious how comfortable you both are with each other because the story just flowed. And it was the right amount of PG. Loved it! Yal have a new subbie 😁😁😁