WHY I LIED ABOUT MY AGE // Finally Answering Your Age Questions | The Stalwart Lovers
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ก.ค. 2024
- In this video, we're spilling all the tea on our age, age difference, and age timelines alongside some insecurities around the age factor.
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I’m 5 years older than my husband. He did lie about his age to get my attention. But he’s a great leader and I love submitting to him. ❤️
I'm encouraged by this.
Thank you
I am surprised ... Sista bae is 24..and the ways she dishes wisdom ..💕
Myself and hubby got married at 26&23 and we have been dripping Glory. This is our second year in marriage, we have an amazing Baby Boy now.
Age is just a number. I’m 5 years older than my Husband and today our marriage is twenty years plus. God has bless us with children and happy marriage. Once you follow the Manual of the one that instituted marriage it will surely work. Woman should be submissive and Man should love his wife and submit to God. When you submit to God your wife will submit to you. God bless you.
I raised my brow when Bro Boo mentioned his age (I was surprised) BUT I PAUSED the video immediately Sis Bae said she was 24years (I was damm Amazed).
But I will just say you guys should keep the ball rolling and don't drop the banner. Know that you have 30, 35 and above learning from you, caused God has called you into this and has blessed you both with the knowledge and wisdom needed to do this. So I still hold you in high esteem. Kissees
This is not even a joke the insecurities that comes with age and age bullying. Takes courage to share this thank you sir.
Exactly! I work for high profile people, hence I keep my age private. I look younger than my age but because this people are quite older so I choose to keep them wondering while I earn my money. I rather not tell my age than lie. I celebrate you two. More Grace.😊💃
This is really cool. Owning up to one's age and how mature one is is a really big step towards absolute self confidence. Keep the love flowing my stalwart people.. One Love 💕
For someone who's suffered the same fate, I'm grateful for this video. God bless you🙏🏽
Thank you for being vulnerable enough to share. You're honest and always true to what you believe.
Oh my God!!! I love how relatable this is, I just had to comment. This is literally me! I've always been age-shamed and sometimes I'm four years older 😂 it's so important that we find purpose in where we're at. God bless you guys so much!❤️
Waw am so delighted and shocked. Am 26 and my bae is 23 we hope to get married soon , your videos have been an inspiration to us we love you guys.
I don't used to like talking about my age too at a point.
But I broke through that barrier in my mind.
Thank you so much for sharing this uncle boo and sister bae.
To be honest, this is the very first time I am commenting on this page and it's because I am literally in shock. I have always been in this category of "observers". I am super surprised coming to the knowledge of sister bae's age. So young but yet so mature. Big thumbs up guys. I love your love.
I'm more than being surprised at Sister bae's age. The level of maturity is so high. I'm also on this table. People think I'm older probably because of the things or I do as well. I love you both❤
You guys are doing well 🥰🥰. Thanks for being vulnerable with us by sharing this 🤗. Starting out early with the right person is good. Love you guys
Video is getting more frequent, pls keep it up. Love it
Woòooooooooooooww!!!!! Im stilll shocked after she said it my eyes were opened till the end 😳.
I envy( like in a good way, i admire them) people that are young and are doing great things already.
God!!!! I’ve not related to anything like I related to this video!!! Thank you for the video we didn’t know we needed! There was indeed a shift!
Surprised about sister Bae's age.
Thanks for the amazing content you guys dish out. GOD bless you immensely.
Thank you so much for sharing. I used to have an identity crises with my age too. I dreaded that question a lot. Thank God for God, I'm getting better at it. Being younger is an advantage too.
I'm shook 😲😲😲
Sister Bae, you're my new sista from another mother... Being following here for a while and I've been learning at each point. Please keep doing what you do👍👍. God bless you for us🥰😁
I'm not exactly shocked because of Uncle Boo's birthday age announcement. And I could tell Sister Bae should be nothing less than 3 years younger even though the wisdom you both have is greater. I don't believe age determines wisdom and growth in life. Age is a biological clock and we don't all have it equal self. I absolutely love that you revealed your ages at a time like this. It seems wise to me because now many people would have built a certain level of confidence and trust in you and with all you've taught today, they should do better and not let age affect how they see you both. You are the perfect ages for your purpose and as long as you are walking in itn everybody else will be fine. I love and respect you both. Keep doing God's work❤
I admire your courage and boldness in sharing this. This is a topic many people wouldn't discuss in public for any reason. Age doesn't define you, but your values and morals. Keep up the good work.👍
About my reaction to your age experience I'm actually amazed about how you are doing exploits at a young age and seriously I am encouraged because I'm at the stage where because of my level of maturity so much is given both in church and socially and imagine being in charge of people you can call "aunty" . Sometimes I just sit down and I am asking God why me at such tender age but your videos do bless and encourages me anytime I come around. God bless you always keep doing God ❤️❤️❤️
I am really shocked especially with sister Bae's age...wow with your maturity,one could have easily seen you to be about 27! I tap into your anointing of great Wisdom 🔥
Wow . so proud of you guys ,there is Godly wisdom in what you unleash keep it up more grace
Nice one Guys. This is an unveiling session and getting to know you both deeper. You're both a young, happy couple. 😊🥰🥰❤❤🌹✨
Oh! Vulnerable video here. I didn't guess the ages but l definitely knew you guys were so young but packed with wisdom.
Awwwn I like the fact that you guys began your marriage at such a young age . I hope to find the right one early too🥰🥰
wow Faith is so young . I got into uni at 15 , ironically I looked younger than 15 . I couldn't even hide or mask been older so I had to bear the burden of been the smallest In class. my love goes to the both of you again
Awwnn, wow, I'm happy to hear this🥳✨.
I like to watch your videos not because of anything but because of how vulnerable you are in your videos TRUTH ONLY!
I'm so surprised these amazing couples are actually young.. Wow!.
I love you both so much, I wished I had known you for long, but the period I've known you is sure amazing!.. #keeplovingandkeepbelieving
Really enjoyed your video. I had been looking forward to this video. What do you say to people who look small but are actually older. Sometimes they way we look physical is a big deal on whether or not we can publicly tell others about our relationship plans. They will quickly judge base on size or age even though the person is responsible.
It's the way faith look at mike for me...so sweet
I can attest to this bro. This battle didn't start today for me even in my high school days when I was looking and acted more matured than my age compared to some of my mates. Currently, I know what I am still facing because of this same age issue but people should stop comparing and accept that everyone is not the same. God will help us 🙏.
Wow! "Surprised" is an understatement sis bae.😅
Now I understand why you mentioned in a previous video that your parents had a hard time accepting the fact that you wanted to marry early. I guess any parent would have been really nervous releasing their daughter to make a lifetime commitment at that age. Thank God for your life. You've been a great example.
I can totally relate! I would have been sk scared to make a lifetime commitment at that age too
I was surprised o!!!😂😂 God bless you guys so much 💞💞
I enjoyed this video!! I love you both😍
Wow, Sister Bae looks so mature 🥰🥰 Early marriage is cool, But Getting married to the Right partner is the Best 🥰🥰
Did you watch Pastor Emmanuel and Laju Iren's video on marrying young?😊
God bless you both for sharing. Honestly, this age hiding /curiosity is Nigerian mentality. In Europe, eg., Italy, first thing an Italian asks you on meeting you for the first time is your name, 2ndly your age and finally, your nationality. He/she will also tell you his/her age. Woe to you if you lie about your age. Everything is done with your documents and any lie ruins you forever.
Congratulations to you both & for helping some people passing through low self esteem /confidence due to age curiosity /talks.
I wasn't shocked 😀😀. Thankful for the lessons
I think am still experiencing that, because my roommate or people always sees me as the youngest because of my comic personality, for me I always add to my age. Thanks for this video bro boo and sis bae, more grace.
Lol...this episode is interesting! I was just laughing all through. I can relate a lot to Michael's part. That "Nixodam" part ehn?! Got me laughing so loud.
Well done guys! Big fat thumbs up!
I've had this age wahala... I'm not shocked but I'm really impressed at sister bae's maturity and level of wisdom. I love how you knew God early and started pursuing life early enough. Much respect ma
Woooooow, I'm so shocked, the kind of wisdom aunty bae spills is so high for her age.
Much respect to you ma.
I really love this video and happy to know you finished from Futa.
I was shocked at sister bae's age... I thought she was younger than you by a year or so. Even uncle boo looks older than his age... People don't believe my age. When people guess my age, it's always my age plus 3 or 4 years... I feel bad sometimes cos I feel like I have an older face or something. The good part is I get some kind of respect bcos of what they think. Thanks for this video. I have to come to terms with my self, age, appearance... Plus challenges has a way of making one look older than his or her age, like financial challenge so you can't take care of your self as you ought to and many others like that. In all God has a purpose for everything and anything. Whether I am older than my age or younger or more knowledgeable than what my age mates have, it all for the praise and glory of his name. Nothing is done by mistake.
Thanks again for this video. I love you guys. I haven't written this long comment before. I can relate in a way that's y...
Wow, you guys are very brave. Starting so young. ☺️ it’s beautiful
I can relate to this age issue... May God help me too. People tend to disrespect you when they know your age even those that respected you before. You too were so young when you got married. Sis Bae really looks and behaves more mature than her age.
God bless you both
Never ever commented here before. I love you both so so much 💕
I'm a bit shocked tbh... I never experreded it
It just shows that if you can start dating someone then you're not too young to have a meaningful relationship. God bless you both 😊
I don’t even know how I missed this video but glad I watched it and yes I’m shocked..but it’s beautiful to see😍😍
This episode burst my brain 🤣🤣🤣 I was just laughing all through 😂 But it's your wife's age that shocked me the most 😩 You guys are doing a great job 😊 Welldone
Glad to be back here after a while
I can relate to Mike's story because at some point, my age bothered me. I even wanted to do a diploma in the university before a degree so I could finally match up with my mates 🤣🤣 My close friends were 16-20 year olds while I was 14 in 100 level. I was always honest about my age in school, with friends and in documents but with guys, I used to add 2 years and some would say I even look older and speak with maturity than the fake age 😃
I realised it was a gift. Paul's advice to Timothy that no one should despise his youth made a difference in my life.
Thanks for sharing your story.
Life is just an irony. I also have security issues abt my age but the opposite of yours. I wouldn't tell you my age cos I look younger (like 2 - 3yrs) than my age. I'm still working on feeling secured self. Love the video so much ❤️
Shocked 😮
Sis Bae does not look her age. I love your spirit fellow Architect!
Wow! Age is truly part of ones identity.
I am/was really proud of my age. Maybe cos I act and look more matured than my age.
I'm surprisedddddd. Good job guys!
It’s the Nixoderm for me😂😂😂😂😂
Age is quite a big deal in Nigeria really. I was always the smallie in my group of friends too but I’ve never really been age-conscious though but I started declaring publicly around 2 years ago.
I always thought Uncle Boo was 30 years and wifey 26/27 though. It’s a beautiful thing to be young and blessed 💕
I wasn't really surprised becus mine people think I'm 3 years younger than my actual age becus of my baby face. But I'm always truthfully concerning it and dey are thrilled wen dey hear it.
I don't judge people concern their age I'm actually happy wen I see younger people achieving alot. That's also my aim to achieve so much at a young age. Thanks alot for dis video ma and sir
This video!
I agree that most people tend to project their insecurities to others trying to make themselves feel better by making a younger person feel less
Enjoyed watching because these are real life issues
Uncle Boo,Thanks for this... I'm also in this 😞😞I look older than my age and I think older than my age,I do things above my age,so to avoid a whole lot of questions I decided to either lie about my age or not answer you at all ...I will make changes from today henceforth...Thanks sir and Ma
Thank God for that brother that saved our uncle boo from insecurity 🙂😄 and lies 😜😄
I am so surprise that sister bae is young, she's just so full of wisdom.. awwwn 🙂 😍🥰
🤭 it is really great u Know, U guys are young and you are fulfilling destiny. That is the most amazing thing. God bless your Union.
I celebrate you both. I was shocked at your age especially sis bae's. For me I look 5 years younger. I love the idea of early marriage so I'm always blushing when I see you both. I look forward to getting married soon so I always come here to tap anointing for a beautiful home even though I've moved from the early marriage circle already🙂. God bless you both
Meanwhile the "I'm treating pimples" got me🤣🤣🤣
Trust me, bro, I can relate. All my friends are older, yet they accord me respect, thinking they are just a few years older than I am, yet they all are much older. I was 22yrs old when I got married, though I finished secondary school at the age of 16, but didn’t get into university until 5yrs after……yea, I use to add 2yrs to my age too, I just wanted and wish I was older.
I am 42yrs old now. Thank God for Grace. I love you guys
I had and still have this insecurity issue, everyone looks down on me cuz of my age and I have still not overcome it cuz I feel if I do, I'll loose the respect I have earned.
Wow I never knew sister bae was that young.
I love you two regardless😍😍
Anyone who would stop respecting you because they suddenly find out you're younger is not worthy of you. Fight the insecurity and stand strong with your head up high. You don't have to tell people your age, but by all means don't lie. We love you too ❣️😘
I was not really surprised about uncle boo's age, but you see sis bae own ehn.
Also, I was once in your shoes, but thank God for my partner. Always giving me the ginger and boosting my self-esteem.
Surprised is an understatement, you guys are so mature for your ages I seriously thought uncle boo was 27 before the birthday and sister bae was 26 all this time
I always enjoy watching you guys❤️
Thank God for this video.
I'm a twin and because I act very mature than my twin brother, no one believes that that's my twin.
They say I'm older than him.
Thank God I'm not alone in this.
God bless you guys.
I have twin boys and really one of them act maturely than the other
Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable with us..
Thank you so much for this videos. Speaks a lot to me because that is still my struggle. I pray I overcome it soon😅
I love young people doing big stuffs 🥰
I could relate 100% to Uncle Bae's story. I was way much younger in secondary school because I had a double promotion and skipped a class in primary which really affected my self esteem. I was 14 also when I finished secondary school but everyone thought I was 16. I also made that same mistake on my WAEC certificate because of this age insecurities. But thank God, I'm over it now and consciously trying to make corrections with my data even though I'm yet to correct my WAEC certificate.
Loved this conversation
Yea sister bae is my agemate. I wasn't necessarily shocked because you guys remind me of people around me. For instance when I saw uncle boo I could place his age easily and sister bae wasn't sure I thought she's 1 year younger but it's all cool. You both are beautiful. I learn a lot from you as we'd be giving a lot of younger people advice eventually and your marriage is like the dream marriage.
Okay I was actually surprised at your husband's age but much more surprised at sis bae's age 😲
It's so beautiful fulfilling your dreams at such young age. ❤️❤️
I am not surprised ,😀😀😀😃 about you both age because one thing I don't stress about is being inquisitive about anything age, but I was able to learn about building a self esteem from this video ,so thank you for that 🙏🏾🙏🏾, I got married at 23 and will be 28 in October and myself and my husband were faced with the Same situation of people seeing us has young couples but no one has the confidence to ever ask because we don't ask people such questions because we know definitely out off 100% may be 80% will be older than us.
😂😂
I just knew sister bae was looking older than her age.
Guys, I am so shocked. 4years difference and you act all nature are sweet together awnnn❤️❤️
Wow like I can really relate to how uncle boo felt about his age especially when you are about to be looked down on because you are younger. Similar experience right from sec school I had always looked and thought like someone older and it was a problem because some persons felt intimidated by how much growth I had mentally and wanted to intimate me, since then I had rather not say my age.
Well am a new subscriber and have watched a quite numbers to your videos. They are really interesting. Well early marriage is good when you know God's purpose for your life. Sis Bae looks more matured than her age. God bless you both
For some one who has gone to pressure like this I am so thankful for this video 😘
I was so shocked when I saw his birthday pictures last month been 28,I was wow and be like,me n this guy is of the same age sha, the same year and month,just that I use days senior you😂 but still,I honor the grace of God in your life and am very proud to be one of your followers 😍💃💃💃💃💃💃
So truee, could really relate
Also not surprised😁❤❤
I will have been shocked at Sis. Faith age bcoz of her sense of maturity but Darasimi Mike bamiloye high sense of maturity with a very tender age had opened my eyes to the lesson that age is just a number. Darasimi Mike bamiloye is just your exact age Sis Faith
I was shock sir 😄
And I used to be a victim of the age thing 🤦🤣 but glory to God I'm free now 🙌
Thanks for this fun lecture time my favourite couple, the more I see your videos the more I want more 💌
It's everywhere. I work with some ladies here in the UK that are not Nigerians or Africans that thought I was younger than them and treat me like that. Immediately we had a conversation around age and they knew we are all age mate, their attitude changed. The most important thing is to work on our self esteem not matter our age.
Waooooo. I celebrate grace upon you too. Brother, I believe now when you say you look older than your age. God bless and keep you both for fulfilling purpose.
Thanks for sharing❤
I was only surprised about sister bae's age
Amazing!!!!!this really challenge me alot,even at 24 I have no idea of what a serious relationship looks like,thanks for been sincere always 🤝
Wow! This video is really an interesting one. I look older than my age too so I even find it difficult to mingle with my peers in my varsity days I had to walk with people much older than I am.
Please at what stage of a relationship should one get to know their age difference?
I love the way you are so real mehn. I am presently at this stage. I love your logo by the way
As much as I love you both and know age is but a number, I honestly wish I did not know Sister Bae was this young😂😂... Coz d Nigerian in me is raising eyeballs... I'm shocked coz she's so graced....
All the same , I'll keep loving, believing nd learning setting the age aside
Thanks for your transparency and vulnerability
You guys are just so cute! 😍😍
Wow ...yeah you can be young and be wise. Keep on loving
Thank you so much. I really enjoyed the video. I did learn a lot.