The KEY To Style is Knowing Who You Are

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  • Here is the secret that nobody is telling you about gaining confidence and developing your personal style.
    Confidence and personal style go hand-in-hand. Being well-dressed, having timeless style, even the quiet luxury movement: actually all these concepts are temporal. They change based on the culture, the era that you live in. They are open to interpretation to a certain extent.
    However, CONFIDENCE is truly timeless.
    Some people get caught in the trap of not buying good enough quality clothing because they think they’re not worth it. The lack of confidence can cause this misconception about shopping and buying clothes - it takes a little bravery to choose to do things differently and step into the fullness of who we are as women.
    Timestamps
    00:00 The Secret
    00:54 Confidence is timeless
    01:44 How it Impacts our personal Style
    03:49 The fullness of who we are as women
    04:52 The voice of doubt
    06:04 Choose to shine
    06:41 There’s a Difference…
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  • @AlannaLightheart
    @AlannaLightheart  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Fashion you can buy, but style you possess. The secret to style is knowing who you are, which takes years. There's no how-to road map for style. -Iris Apfel

  • @catarinasimoes3886
    @catarinasimoes3886 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Hi, Alanna! Thank you for this video, what a great way to start the week. 😊You are very wise and have a lovely vibe! ❤

    • @AlannaLightheart
      @AlannaLightheart  26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks Cat 🥰 the other day I realized since I have 2 little kids I'm totally allowed to give "motherly advice" haha 😄 I do feel like a wise old owl sometimes

  • @disappearingink1354
    @disappearingink1354 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Between your soothing voice and the chirping birds (plus the imagined smell of bread baking 😅), this may have been the most relaxing video about style I've ever seen! And a truly lovely sentiment, one that came just when it was needed most for me. It's so easy to get swept up in the self-criticism, picking our bodies apart for the silliest reasons. All of those outside voices are just a distraction. 💓

    • @AlannaLightheart
      @AlannaLightheart  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The house smelled amazing 😆 the oven alarm nearly gave me a heart attack, haha.
      It's such a good way to put it: it's a distraction! Not who you truly are 🥰

  • @alannacatherinei2746
    @alannacatherinei2746 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Your channel is a breath of fresh air... thank you for this! I'm with you in turning up the volume of our own voices and wearing whatever the hell we want!🦁

    • @AlannaLightheart
      @AlannaLightheart  27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yesssss, oh yes! I am so passionate about it 😝 so fun to meet another Alanna, too, by the way x

    • @alannacatherinei2746
      @alannacatherinei2746 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@AlannaLightheart So fun! 🥰

  • @jodik9167
    @jodik9167 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have just fallen in love with you and your channel! Keep the positive vibe and great content coming! Thanks for the lovely sentiment!

    • @AlannaLightheart
      @AlannaLightheart  7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's so sweet of you ❤️ thanks so much for being here!

  • @shirleytx7
    @shirleytx7 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Such wisdom. I wish I had implemented this earlier in my life.

    • @AlannaLightheart
      @AlannaLightheart  28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's a journey for sure. I've had so many "a-ha" moments

  • @agelessglamournotyourmamas688
    @agelessglamournotyourmamas688 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Lovethe quote!! Thank you❤😊

    • @AlannaLightheart
      @AlannaLightheart  21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Iris is absolutely iconic. I found many of her thoughts by searching for info on some ideas I was also having around confidence/ being true to yourself/ finding yourself through style... I resonate with so much. 🤩

  • @sharelle7307
    @sharelle7307 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

  • @lu_re7198
    @lu_re7198 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great topic. However, I don’t want to blame my self doubt or lack of knowledge about style development on “the patriarchy”. 🤔 - Because it’s not just women who struggle w/ these issues. Thanks to social media and people like yourself, we can all learn and improve. ✨

    • @AlannaLightheart
      @AlannaLightheart  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Absolutely. We are all sovereign beings with multi-dimensional lives and influences can come from many places - for better or worse. Blame is never a healthy state because it takes the responsibility out of our own hands and places it outside of ourselves.
      Confidence in oneself and one's image is, of course, highly nuanced and situational. (And can strike anyone)
      I still stand by everything I said!
      And I hope that social media can continue to be a force for empowerment at time in spite of it all 🤸‍♀️🙏

    • @lu_re7198
      @lu_re7198 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @AlannaLightheart. I agree with you that “Blame is never a healthy state because it takes the responsibility out of our own hands and places it outside of ourselves” and this is why it’s unhealthy to blame “the patriarchy”.

    • @AlannaLightheart
      @AlannaLightheart  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@lu_re7198 Not blaming, simply highlighting that this is the reality of our society and has a huge impact on how women view themselves 💁🏻‍♀

    • @lu_re7198
      @lu_re7198 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @AlannaLightheart. Saying someone/something else is somehow responsible for your feelings/actions is blaming. And that’s unhealthy.