My dad worried so much if I had to leave town for my grandsons football games or if I was out at night etc. he loved me and he cherished our time together. You and Danielle are certainly doing the Lords work and whether you realize it or not your life is being so enriched. I know you get tired, but just keep holding onto the fact that he just loves you that much. My dad died in 2020 and I still can’t even go to the cemetery, he was a doctor too, and he was my hero and my confidant and my daddy.
@@susanhurlocker471yes you are so right she works hard it’s not her dad,and it’s dam hard Dan is a great son but he’s got a absolutely great wife for putting up with it,it cannot be easy for them.
I don't blame him. Dan is all that he has, and he doesn't want to leave his precious son. I don't blame him, Dan. We love you from Minneapolis❤❤❤❤❤ Dan. we love you, Danielle we love you❤❤
I know it’s hard because my mom had it but she couldn’t even talk and she was a nurse early 60s I know it gets frustrating but my mom got mean towards the end
It IS TOUGH, HEART BREAKING 💔 and you, YOU 🫵🏼 will have zero regrets…you’ve been an AMAZING SON to Dr. Salinger. Honoring your father (and mother, wife, children, etc) what a great relationship. God Bless all of you.
I work with Seniors and my Dad had Alzheimer's. When he asks if you need any help, give him a small task. It makes them feel useful and alive. Even something like empty trash, fold some towels. Having a purpose is life.
I work with seniors, too and that is so true! The ones that have pets seem to do pretty well. I always feel bad about seniors that don't have families or friends. I always try and spend some extra time and make time to talk with them. God bless all our seniors, we be one soon, too! ❤️🙏🙏🙏
It is crazy how judgmental people are who don't have to deal with this type of situation. It has to be mentally exhausting to have to repeat yourself non-stop. He is clearly loved and cared for. Caretakers need love and care too.
I was my father's caretaker for 4 years who had dementia and yes, at times it was mentally exhausting, especially at night when he would call out my name because he didn't know where he was... I have ZERO regrets tho. Me repeating myself or being exhausted is nothing compared to his disease, so I can hardly imagine what he went through. I was gladly at his service just to lessen his suffering.
Amen - been doing the same for the last 4 years. It’s exhausting and heartbreaking and cruel…but also, it really places into perspective the things in this life that matter most of all. Everything else is noise.
My father has been going thru severe changes past several months. So hard to see...fortunately his medicine this time has helped. He has 'normal' age related dementia ( he's 86)...kudos to this man's family for the relentless patience it takes. 🫡💚🙌
Dan and Danielle, your patience is beyond measure. Ed is so very fortunate to have such a caring family. Bless you all for the wonderful support and love you have shown. I pray you are inspiring to so many other caregivers.
You're doing a great job with your dad. I'm a retired nurse after 50 years. I always enjoyed working with dementia and Alzheimer patients. It makes me so happy that you and your wife have welcomed him into your home to age in place. I know how exhausting and frustrating it can be at time ❤️🙏
Dan can get him a sitter, someone who is a retired nurse who has a sense of humor and can stay calm herself. Thanks Dan for the videos and introduction to the good doctor. Love to all your family.
This why I NEVER told my aunt when I was leaving. Dan, you are one of the BEST caregivers I’ve ever come across. May God continue to fill you with His patience. ❤️
I'm confused after watching this. I thought Pop was going to DC with Dan at 8am and that Danielle was going with them lol. Pops just wants Dan's business trip to go well.
I worked as a nurse with Alzheimers patients for 15 years and this is exactly what happens..They look on us as family and would get upset when we leave at the end of our shift..We constantly have to assure them that we will return..It is sad but still very sweet..
Wow, that seems like it could be hard at times, but also a very interesting profession that clearly takes a ton of patience. I always wanted to go to school for nursing since the beginning of high school and I never ended up doing it for my own reasons but now I'm in my late 40s and I really want to go to school but I wonder if I'm too late for that. I'd love to go to school and actually work with elderly patients possibly Alzheimer patients! This particular video was almost hard to watch. Lots of emotion. Dan is such a wonderful son, just answering pop over and over no matter what the question or however many times he answered the same question. I often see Danielle isn't always as patient but I definitely could understand why. I just love Dr.Ed though and seeing him interact with his entire family❤
My daughter’s in nursing school and just experienced some of these patients. She has so much patience and compassion I think she’ll do great. It’s her third year so she sees a lot. I work with special needs students so hopefully she got her patience from me. You have to truly love both professions to do the jobs correctly. They depend on us for everything and I enjoy caring for others. Sometimes it’s a thankless job but they minute they succeed in something it’ll almost bring happy tears to your eyes I love my students and I know my daughter cares for her patients and their families very lovingly which makes me proud. ❤
Wow, I've never seen him like this! Poor guy... He does seem so concerned and sweet. I'm just curious if you take him to the T. V. Or something else to re direct him. He is really stuck in the loop! Maybe give Hime dinner early! He loves to eat...
I absolutely love that despite his dementia (which my mother passed away from) your Dad often asks if he can do anything for you and he still worries about his children.
When a dementia patient asks what they can do for you, is it ever helpful to give them some task? So that they feel useful and maybe even distract them from a memory loop like this one?
@@cgaskin00 We did with my mother in law. We gave her towels and washcloths to fold. She loved folding them and she felt useful and she was content, not so agitated or upset when she was busy
@bethoberly2825 that reminded me of the chooseday grandma... sorry for your loss. I hope to remember all the lessons we learn from people like you who go thru these experiences and share them online...
@@cgaskin00She was a lovey. My heart broke for Chris and family. I was raised by Grandparents from day 1 so I took that one hard. Weird how we attach to humans without ever meeting irl.
He keeps asking the same questions over and over again and you keep answering each time as if he only just asked for the first time. Your patience is inspiring. God bless you for your patience and loving him the way you do.
I have a close family member who seems to have dementia. My daily prayer is that her family will treat each repeated question as if it's the first time it's been asked. As far as this relative knows, it is the first time.
I admire your patience and resilience Dan. You taught me to treasure a time spent with my father. Its really an eye opener to me. Keep up the good work, you inspire a lot people Im sure.
11:16 isn’t this just the most heartbreaking 💔 thing ??? The repeatedly rapid fire questions would drive all of us crazy !!! Poor pop …. Cruel cruel disease …. My momma passed from it and it was brutal … Pop still has love in there for sure … YALL are doing a wonderful job ❤
What is my personal takeaway after watching this? Dan and Danniel are angels, they have incredible patience, they are two good kind souls. I am absolutely in awe. This is their life, day in and day out. They handle it all with humor and grace. Absolutely amazing. ❤️
@@Jetup24 I disagree. Just because she doesn’t coddle him and speak with the voice of angels and rub his feet for him, while singing church hymns, doesn’t equate to her “being mean”. All families/people have different ways of speaking, tones of voice, senses of humor, and ways of showing they care. This is THEIR family. The women’s a friggin saint if you ask me. But please….continue to clutch your pearls.
Shut up! Please just shut up!! Wait till its your turn, and we'll see what u can do for 24hrs! Good God, why are some people so inately mean!! How dare u criticize what u dint know anything about? What did Danielle do in this video, what?? She barely said a word, so what problem do u have against that! U aught to be ashamed of yourself! @Jetup24
@@Jetup24 she “yells” at Ed because he is hard of hearing. She uses a loud voice but there is no animosity or anger in her voice. I find it strange that Dan uses a loud voice and no one says a word about it. (Not that there is anything wrong with the way Dan speaks to his father) I’m saying they both “yell” (speak loudly) but it’s Danielle that is criticized. Double standard.
It’s easy to say what you would & wouldn’t do and how patient YOU KNOW you would be in every situation when you’re not living it everyday!!! I agree they are extremely patient but anyone can have a hard time dealing with this daily for years. God bless you both Dan & Danielle!!
It's amazing that he has this intense anxiety about Dan leaving, even though it seems like he forgets that Dan is the one leaving. Halfway through this, he thought it was Danielle who was leaving, even though he keeps asking Danielle if she wants to come with. A part of his brain knows what is happening, causing this anxiety. Yet he continues to ask details that part of his brain already knows.
Omg Dan... this clip twisted my heart... I'm a retired 65yr old dad of two men...37..and 32... I wanna let you know..and if I get to 92.. I hope my Son's will use ur videos to help them set a bar.. for how to deal with me... I'm a freaking mule...stubborn... opinionated.. and I'm afraid my natural will be hard for my boys to deal with..... but I'm not gonna believe that my son's will have you same journey... I love ur clips into your life...Thank u
Sir, you’re expressing my exact feelings. I’ve been having the exact thoughts! I’m 62; have 2 son’s 35 & 37 , and a daughter 22. (I never comment; but felt I had to 😅)
Poor dad , keeps on asking same thing , he wants to be make sure if Dan is safe to go away , detachment pain , he loves Dan to death of course Danielle & Mark is by his side to take care of Dr Ed when Dan goes away , grandpapa wants to be safe , secure of course . Dan I appreciate your patience , in reorienting him , caring , loving & answering to him softly Not getting tired or irritated Thnxs u all . Grandpa we all luv ur shows , real life videos .❤
Dan, you are a blessed kid. I wish all kids would be like you Am proud of you. God bless you for taking excellent care of your dad. I pray your kids if you have any do the same for you. ❤
I didn’t realize how quick his memory resets. Literally just a few seconds. Much respect to you & Danielle. It’s sweet he immediately took responsibility for taking you you to the airport, etc.
THERE YOU HAVE IT !!!!!! 😢 Dementia is NOT FAKE it is real ..... For SOME of you , NOW YOU CAN SEE HOW HARD AND TRYING THEIR PATIENCE, IT IS FOR DAN AND DANIELLE and their trying their HARDEST for Dan's Dad . I APPRECIATE ALL that they do ❤ I LOVE THE SALINGERS , EACH AND EVERY ONE ❤
@@colleenobrien8212, Sorry if I bother you but sometimes after seeing AT LEAST 100 rude things towards Danielle and Dan. I like to see a nice comments also .
This must be so tiring....my husband is healthy but when he say things over and over again i want to blow a gasket. You are such special people caring for him.
My husband does the same thing. Hope it's not a sine of demantia. Maybe I should be more patient with him. He is so stubborn though I could see he would be very difficult and hard to deal with but love over comes every thing.
Yes, you made a mistake🫣 but what you all give to him we have not and could not give to our mom when se had dementia.... great respect for you all ❤ and your father is so special, even in his disease!
My dad also had dementia and ask the same questions over and over and over and over again. It drove me craaaaazy! I admire you because, even though I adored my father, I was not able to handle his repetitive questions... so I just kissed him and leave. When I came back, even if it was a couple hours later, he told me how much he had missed me like he hadn't see me in years... It was heartbreaking to see how a privileged mind just dissolved in front of me. I miss him every day. I adore him (I still do).
You are so patient and so is Danielle. My mom had this disease for 8 yrs. After a while, she quit talking all together.. that helped to taper some of her fear. We had to stop telling her she had dr appts. She would be so fretful on how she was getting there, who would wake her up etc…. The terror their minds can conjure up is so sad.. My mom was in pretty good health other than this wicked disease. She aspirated one day and that is what took her life. She was 86. Was a nurse in WWII where she met my dad. So full of life and a social butterfly. Lost my dad 6 months later.Both in 2012. It’s so obvious the love your dad has for you and you for him, he still worries about his little boy. What an example to him ,your children, and around the world, this is how you take care of your parents! What a legacy of videos to leave to your generations to come. God bless you and your family. A virtual hug to all of you, Cindy.
People need to feel valued and helpful. When I would get busy around the house, I would give my mother a dusting cloth and she would feel included, a participant in life. It was calm and so was I.
Dan and Danielle, you guys are the best people in this world. we need more people like you, Grandpa. We love you. Hang in there. My heart is so 💔 today. I'm just crying it's a sad day😢😢😢
Separation anxiety at its peak!!!! PAPA Ed you are loved, thank you Dan and Danielle for explaining everything to him no matter how many times he asked. Thank God he is not in a nursing home where they will have given him medication to look like zombie. BLESS YOU ALL ❤❤❤
Bless you, Dan. I'm exhausted listening to this and I'm not even there. Poor Ed, he's so worried. I'm glad Mark is coming over to reassure him and help with him.
I'm an autistic grandson and I do repeat things a lot but I think I do it because I feel I haven't gotten my point across or people aren't actually listening to what I'm trying to say sometimes I think I do it for emphasis or something too idk
I wonder if dementia patients and kids with autism would have conversations together, if that could be a highly specialized daycare or respite care that benefits both groups.
Bless his heart❤. I go through this everyday with my 86 year old mom with Alzheimer’s. She asks over and over the same questions and yet you still feel the love. The same dementia affects the brain, not the love in their hearts. I have to believe that♥️🙏♥️, it’s the only way caregivers survive this heartbreaking disease. My Alzheimer’s support group leader says that any change, especially daylight savings time wreaks havoc with them as well as pets so just guessing that’s contributing to it.
My mom did not have dementia just as I call it "Old Timers". So she would ask the same question over and over then I would say mum you ask me that five times now and she would respond oh so you counting now and I would say yes. Lol😢 I miss her she was 98 when she suddenly left us and she was as healthy as a horse according to her doctor but my brother had died the week before 😢😢
@@marlenebornman1751, the same with my mom at the beginning stage of the dementia. She would ask me the same questions a few times and it began to work my nerves so I asked her why she kept repeating the same question over and over again when I had already answered her. She looked at me and said that she didn’t give a damn how many times she asked me something, but I’d better answer her because, she was my mother and not my child. 😂 All I could do was laugh and say, yes ma’am mama. We never had that conversation again. As time passed by the dementia progressed and that’s when we my siblings and myself realized that something serious was going on with her memory. It’s not easy dealing with someone who has dementia, but if she was still alive I would happily do whatever it took to be here for her. Mr. Ed is SOOO blessed to have supported children who loves him and supports him in every way possible. ❤
You guys have got it wrong . She's just as supportive for her Father in law as Dan is. You have to understand how frustrating it is for both parties dealing with dementia.
I learned to wait until the last minute to tell my ex anything because I would just be verbally harassed the entire time leading up to it. I was doing that with my grown son, but he wants to be told in advance, but when I do he just forgets anyway! 😂
From my understanding it's normal to have some change in the brain as one ages. Could be why old people can seem childish. Live and enjoy your life as much as you can. Do the things you want to do because believe me getting old is no fun all kinds of things happen to your body. No one talks about what happens when we get old I think we should.
@@Lifeletnothingholdudown At 73 I can confirm what you say is true. I can also say, that if someone did tells us what it would be like to grow old, we still probably would not get it until we got there ourself. Still, I am grateful for everyday and hope to have many more!
I haven't seen any comments regarding Danielle's patience with Ed and her amazing care for her husband's Father. God Bless her, and the whole family. Their sheer love for one another brings tears to my eyes. ❤
I’m caring for my mil. And it’s just me. Patience is a blessing! A blessing I sometimes lack. Dan, you and Dad and Danielle are actually helping me go thru this…thank you.
It’s only really the interactions between Dan and his Dad that are shown. Danielle doesn’t feature in the clips too much that I’ve seen. That’s probably why.
This is the first time it truly hit me of what u go through everyday, it’s shocking, fantastic video for people who don’t have a clue what a 24 hour day looks like for u
I think Dan, much to his credit, tries to show Ed in the best light possible. I'm pretty sure he's never shown him really angry or extremely petulant, etc. I'd need something stronger than wine if I was Danielle. Lol.
Problem is that the caretaker gets so worn down mentally and physically and the result is often that he/she gets quite sick. Dan needs to think about that and maybe consider that it's time for Dad to be in a senior home that deals with dementia-ridden patients. Hopefully he would get meds that would calm him down. Now he is very restless and energetic and that compounds the problem. If he were more docile it would be easier to deal with him. Very justifiable at this point. Or else everyone else suffers in real and serious ways.
I'm so GLAD you posted a longer video so people can actually SEE what you go through EVERYDAY SEVERAL times a day! Unless they've lived it they can't comprehend! Even then EVER situation is different. God bless ALL OF YOU!❤
For anyone who has never lived with someone with dementia or Alzheimer's it can become frustrating for lack of a better word repeating yourself over and over. Without the right demeanor things can get off track. I guess what im saying is just be prepared. I think Dan does an awesome job caring for Dr. Ed ✌️
n@@judgejenny2251this here is unnecessary. Dan didnt have to say anything. He created this what was his reason. Because he has left before. Never said a word.
I cried watching this. I remember going through this with my grandmother. You really have to be so careful what you share with someone with dementia. My mother couldn’t visit her because my mom had cancer & had lost a lot of weight & her hair from chemo. We knew that my grandmother would have a terrible time dealing with it. I’m so glad that Grandpa Ed has such a loving family & safe home to live in. Caring for a loved one with dementia is a live & learn process. Dan & Danielle are really doing such a wonderful job keeping Grandpa happy, healthy & safe. 🫶
You are a saint in my book. I love your sense of going with the flow of his mental conundrum. It takes a great deal of patience and emotional fortitude to hear and repeat the same conversation all day long, every day. My heart goes out to you, your dad, and your family.
I've never seen dementia first hand. This was heartbreaking as well as heartwarming. Thanks for sharing and thanks for kindness and patience with your old man.
My opinion, for what it's worth... My Dad was like this toward the end of his life. I realized that his role as a father and caregiver was "hard wired ' into him. He was always the one who made sure everyone had what they needed, and everything was taken care of. Even when he got to about 90 and other things started happening with his cognition, the role as Dad and caregiver and solver of all family issues was still there. I think that is happening with dear Dr. Ed. My father was a very smart man; also like Dr. Ed. Watching this episode made me believe more strongly that some things like the father and caregiver role are really deeply embedded in the brain of someone like Dr. Ed, and like my Dad. For other commenters here, I'd just like to remind them of something from the Bible that is worthy of meditation, no matter what your religion. That is: "Judge not others, lest you yourself be judged." This seems to be very difficult for human beings to do, but it's worth it to at least TRY. ❤
God bless you for having such loving patience and gentleness with your father / father-in-law Dan and Danielle. You both are adorable. Dr. Ed (paps) Is so sweet, loving and caring about his children. It gives the impression he was a very dear and adorable father. God bless him and you both (Dan / Danielle for the respectful, loving, patient care you give to him). I know, it's not easy for you, but may God continue to give you the strength and endurance to cope with the difficult situations. Thanks for sharing. Stay blessed. From Germany
Dan I’m praying for you everyday 🙏 … your emphaty and patience for your dad is amazing, learning from your experience a lot, you have an unique personality and a big heart❤
You have an awesome family. I am 70 and retired 3 years ago. I worked for over 30 years with senior citizens some with dementia and some with Alzheimer’s. I applaud your patience and the love you and your wife show to your father. You and your family set a great example for others. The dignity and respect you give to your father shows the love you have for him.
Dr. Ed separation anxiety was in full motion. There is no way we can overlook his love for his children. Such a good man!!
Dr Ed loves his family ❤❤❤❤
His heart & spirit is amazing
Yes, it’s 100% pure. Dementia cannot take away his true nature and it’s downright beautiful.
@@ahill4642 I was going to say exactly the same thing ! ❤
No matter what he may forgot,he has his fatherly instinct.❤ He's so sweet
To the fullest 😢
My dad worried so much if I had to leave town for my grandsons football games or if I was out at night etc. he loved me and he cherished our time together. You and Danielle are certainly doing the Lords work and whether you realize it or not your life is being so enriched. I know you get tired, but just keep holding onto the fact that he just loves you that much. My dad died in 2020 and I still can’t even go to the cemetery, he was a doctor too, and he was my hero and my confidant and my daddy.
Indeed he is so sweet despite of his condition
He is loving father, very polite the way he speaks.
Such a beautiful soul😂 always looking out for his family😭
I literally cried watching this! A parent's love runs so deep!
I cried too.
My Dad is also 92 with dementia and even in his state he is always asking me if I am ok, am I happy and are my kids and grandkids ok too.
This is every time. Everything is new to him repeatedly. The son never should have said he was leaving. That put him in another phase.
I think he needs a nerve pill. The more he was thinking about things the more he was forgetting. What a sad state.
This is frustrating, heartbreaking, and comical all at the same time. What a sweet man. And he has a sweet and patient son taking care of him. 🥰
And a Wonderful Daughter in-law that does a whole hell of a lot to help too😢
This made me laugh alot and I am ashamed of myself for it.
@@susanhurlocker471yes you are so right she works hard it’s not her dad,and it’s dam hard Dan is a great son but he’s got a absolutely great wife for putting up with it,it cannot be easy for them.
Full blown anxiety ..Dan's his security blanket. Respect for Dan's patience.
I don't blame him. Dan is all that he has, and he doesn't want to leave his precious son. I don't blame him, Dan. We love you from Minneapolis❤❤❤❤❤ Dan. we love you, Danielle we love you❤❤
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I know it’s hard because my mom had it but she couldn’t even talk and she was a nurse early 60s I know it gets frustrating but my mom got mean towards the end
Don’t worry about Dan. Dan is taking care of himself just fine.
Bless you Dan!! I don't know how you do it!!❤❤❤
Having a son like Dan in old age is a blessings. God bless you Grandpa, you have a great family that loves you.
He is great dad🎉
Dan is such a blessing l don't even know how he does it so sweet and patient
I lost my dad yesterday. Life will never be the same. Please cherish him 😢
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So sorry prayers
Prayers. So sorry for your loss
Take heart😢
I’m sorry for your loss 🙁
“I want you to be safe, I want you to have a good flight and I want you to be successful at whatever you’re going to do.” ❤😢
😢 that's love
I loved when he said that.
Such great blessings it shows that even after life he's gonna be watching over you guys. God bless your family Dan
Such love beats dementia. This is heart wrenching. You are so patient with your lovely father! God bless you all. 😢
It IS TOUGH, HEART BREAKING 💔 and you, YOU 🫵🏼 will have zero regrets…you’ve been an AMAZING SON to Dr. Salinger.
Honoring your father (and mother, wife, children, etc) what a great relationship. God Bless all of you.
I so love your blessings to Dan for committing to looking after his Father...no old age home. God bless him and others in the same situation ❤❤❤
This is 100% anxiety. A situation he’s not used to. 💜
Its because he still thinks they are children.
@@bojan1999 well they still are his children just adults a parent never stops worrying
100% bless Ed❤
Agreed my pops went on anxiety meds small dose first time ever 😢😂😂😂❤ ha had way more peace 😊
@@brentamania89
Very true . . . Thank you.
EVERY time a person with dementia asks the same question ,,,it’s the FIRST time for them ,,,,again & again 😵💫
It is!
Oh gosh, he is wonderfully caring even with dementia. Bless him.
He is such a loving caring father he's often concerned about his family's needs
This comment deserves all the likes ❤❤
This is so heartbreaking and at the same time shows unconditional love
What a loving and caring father he is.
I work with Seniors and my Dad had Alzheimer's. When he asks if you need any help, give him a small task. It makes them feel useful and alive. Even something like empty trash, fold some towels. Having a purpose is life.
When he's in this type of anxious state there's probably no point. He'd probably forget what was asked of him straight away.
So true.helpful♡
I thought the same about giving him something to do. Not just time when he asked.
I work with seniors, too and that is so true! The ones that have pets seem to do pretty well. I always feel bad about seniors that don't have families or friends. I always try and spend some extra time and make time to talk with them. God bless all our seniors, we be one soon, too! ❤️🙏🙏🙏
I wish my mom was here and ask me a thousand questions...
Being a caregiver of a person with dementia is so exhausting. Dan does an amazing job.
It is crazy how judgmental people are who don't have to deal with this type of situation. It has to be mentally exhausting to have to repeat yourself non-stop. He is clearly loved and cared for. Caretakers need love and care too.
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I was my father's caretaker for 4 years who had dementia and yes, at times it was mentally exhausting, especially at night when he would call out my name because he didn't know where he was...
I have ZERO regrets tho. Me repeating myself or being exhausted is nothing compared to his disease, so I can hardly imagine what he went through. I was gladly at his service just to lessen his suffering.
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Amen - been doing the same for the last 4 years. It’s exhausting and heartbreaking and cruel…but also, it really places into perspective the things in this life that matter most of all. Everything else is noise.
I agree with you ❤
It's as if he's caught in a loop. Bless his heart and y'all's heart...
He is.
That's Exactly what dementia causes - The mind is on a 2 second reset over and over - it can be endless
My father has been going thru severe changes past several months. So hard to see...fortunately his medicine this time has helped. He has 'normal' age related dementia ( he's 86)...kudos to this man's family for the relentless patience it takes. 🫡💚🙌
He’s so anxious about you traveling. Poor guy. Redirection, like giving him a shower, may help. Bless his heart.
Very heart breaking to see the Father's love.Thank you Mr.Dan for the patience and love you have shown to your Dad.God Bless your family.🙏❤
Dan has a lot of patience!
His poor father struggles to understand the situation.
God Bless this wonderful family….
Dan, you are absolutely the best son!! It fills my heart!!!!
You certainly are a patient and an amazing, wonderful son.
You and Danielle could use a little bit more patience with him, I hear the frustration in both of you 😮
Dan and Danielle, your patience is beyond measure. Ed is so very fortunate to have such a caring family. Bless you all for the wonderful support and love you have shown. I pray you are inspiring to so many other caregivers.
Danielle’s patience?…. I’m not sure.
Me too l am not sure
Dan IS‼️ Not her!!
I think Danielle has lots of patience. If you've not walked in their shoes, stop with the keyboard bs.
No patience at all. Sharp, harsh tones
His dementia has progressed for sure. BLESS HIM and the entire family. ❤❤
D.C.? Where now? D.C.?
Its getting worse
It hurts to see my Ed struggling like this. He just loves you so much that he‘s nervous with you leaving. He wants you to be prepared and safe.
The patience he shows his dad is amazing ..this is love ❤️ frfr
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You're doing a great job with your dad. I'm a retired nurse after 50 years. I always enjoyed working with dementia and Alzheimer patients. It makes me so happy that you and your wife have welcomed him into your home to age in place. I know how exhausting and frustrating it can be at time ❤️🙏
It's OK pop! Son's got this!❤❤❤
God Bless You All❤
Dan can get him a sitter, someone who is a retired nurse who has a sense of humor and can stay calm herself. Thanks Dan for the videos and introduction to the good doctor. Love to all your family.
Dr. Ed " Is there anything I can do for you? "
That is pure love❤
So sweet :)
I know 🥺 God bless them!
He is so sweet asking if he can do anything to help. He’s such a caring man.
Yes such a lovely Man his Dad is and so is Dan! Wonderful human beings! ❤
This why I NEVER told my aunt when I was leaving. Dan, you are one of the BEST caregivers I’ve ever come across. May God continue to fill you with His patience. ❤️
AMEN
What a beautiful father and son, so much love, patience and respect. We need more people like this in the world. God bless.
You have patience of a saint. I think he is worried because deep down he knows he needs you and he’s scared. 😢
He doesn't even know who Dan is
Yes he does.@Arizonaboy-fo5zl
I'm confused after watching this. I thought Pop was going to DC with Dan at 8am and that Danielle was going with them lol. Pops just wants Dan's business trip to go well.
It sad to see but also nice to see he's such a a stand up man underneath the dementia still is very polite and grateful lovely man.
@@El_Jefe47Yes he does
Holy shit buddy. God bless you. What a heartbreaking disease. You’ve got a loving father and you’re doing your best. You’re all amazing.
I think the good doctor is cute as a bug...It takes all kinds to make a world...
I worked as a nurse with Alzheimers patients for 15 years and this is exactly what happens..They look on us as family and would get upset when we leave at the end of our shift..We constantly have to assure them that we will return..It is sad but still very sweet..
Wow, that seems like it could be hard at times, but also a very interesting profession that clearly takes a ton of patience. I always wanted to go to school for nursing since the beginning of high school and I never ended up doing it for my own reasons but now I'm in my late 40s and I really want to go to school but I wonder if I'm too late for that. I'd love to go to school and actually work with elderly patients possibly Alzheimer patients! This particular video was almost hard to watch. Lots of emotion. Dan is such a wonderful son, just answering pop over and over no matter what the question or however many times he answered the same question. I often see Danielle isn't always as patient but I definitely could understand why. I just love Dr.Ed though and seeing him interact with his entire family❤
But their flying together.
My daughter’s in nursing school and just experienced some of these patients. She has so much patience and compassion I think she’ll do great. It’s her third year so she sees a lot. I work with special needs students so hopefully she got her patience from me. You have to truly love both professions to do the jobs correctly. They depend on us for everything and I enjoy caring for others. Sometimes it’s a thankless job but they minute they succeed in something it’ll almost bring happy tears to your eyes I love my students and I know my daughter cares for her patients and their families very lovingly which makes me proud. ❤
I became a Licensed nurse at 40! It's never to late as long as you can move some and breathe!😂@@lizberry5717
Wow, I've never seen him like this! Poor guy... He does seem so concerned and sweet. I'm just curious if you take him to the
T. V. Or something else to re direct him. He is really stuck in the loop! Maybe give Hime dinner early! He loves to eat...
I absolutely love that despite his dementia (which my mother passed away from) your Dad often asks if he can do anything for you and he still worries about his children.
When a dementia patient asks what they can do for you, is it ever helpful to give them some task? So that they feel useful and maybe even distract them from a memory loop like this one?
@@cgaskin00 We did with my mother in law. We gave her towels and washcloths to fold. She loved folding them and she felt useful and she was content, not so agitated or upset when she was busy
@bethoberly2825 that reminded me of the chooseday grandma... sorry for your loss. I hope to remember all the lessons we learn from people like you who go thru these experiences and share them online...
@@cgaskin00She was a lovey. My heart broke for Chris and family. I was raised by Grandparents from day 1 so I took that one hard. Weird how we attach to humans without ever meeting irl.
This was a great example of short term memory loss, intelligence, dementia and the patience required to manage. Excellent job! Poor Ed! ❤️🙏🏽
Excellent job. God bless you Dan! ❤
He’s the sweetest person ever. He loves y’all so much. He reminds me of my amazing gramps. ❤
He keeps asking the same questions over and over again and you keep answering each time as if he only just asked for the first time. Your patience is inspiring. God bless you for your patience and loving him the way you do.
I have a close family member who seems to have dementia. My daily prayer is that her family will treat each repeated question as if it's the first time it's been asked. As far as this relative knows, it is the first time.
I admire your patience and resilience Dan. You taught me to treasure a time spent with my father. Its really an eye opener to me. Keep up the good work, you inspire a lot people Im sure.
11:16 isn’t this just the most heartbreaking 💔 thing ??? The repeatedly rapid fire questions would drive all of us crazy !!! Poor pop …. Cruel cruel disease …. My momma passed from it and it was brutal … Pop still has love in there for sure … YALL are doing a wonderful job ❤
What is my personal takeaway after watching this? Dan and Danniel are angels, they have incredible patience, they are two good kind souls. I am absolutely in awe. This is their life, day in and day out. They handle it all with humor and grace. Absolutely amazing. ❤️
Danielle is a bit mean to ed at times
@@Jetup24 I disagree. Just because she doesn’t coddle him and speak with the voice of angels and rub his feet for him, while singing church hymns, doesn’t equate to her “being mean”. All families/people have different ways of speaking, tones of voice, senses of humor, and ways of showing they care. This is THEIR family. The women’s a friggin saint if you ask me. But please….continue to clutch your pearls.
Shut up! Please just shut up!! Wait till its your turn, and we'll see what u can do for 24hrs! Good God, why are some people so inately mean!! How dare u criticize what u dint know anything about? What did Danielle do in this video, what?? She barely said a word, so what problem do u have against that! U aught to be ashamed of yourself! @Jetup24
@Katsdontcare Danielle sometimes yells at ed and she seems annoyed at ed at times a😒 I like Danielle but I think she needs a break for herself
@@Jetup24 she “yells” at Ed because he is hard of hearing. She uses a loud voice but there is no animosity or anger in her voice. I find it strange that Dan uses a loud voice and no one says a word about it. (Not that there is anything wrong with the way Dan speaks to his father) I’m saying they both “yell” (speak loudly) but it’s Danielle that is criticized. Double standard.
Wow!!! Bless you guys. That was rough watching. The patience you both have is remarkable.
WHAT?!
Well, Dan does anyway! He's amazing with his Dad!
It’s easy to say what you would & wouldn’t do and how patient YOU KNOW you would be in every situation when you’re not living it everyday!!! I agree they are extremely patient but anyone can have a hard time dealing with this daily for years. God bless you both Dan & Danielle!!
Danielle not so much
@@judithryle2113she looks worn out. And she has his care tomorrow. Hard for a daughter-in-law.
That takes a lot of love and patience. Bless you all.
Intense anxiety LOOP. No matter how difficult it is to witness, it is always hardest on the person experiencing it.😢
It's amazing that he has this intense anxiety about Dan leaving, even though it seems like he forgets that Dan is the one leaving. Halfway through this, he thought it was Danielle who was leaving, even though he keeps asking Danielle if she wants to come with. A part of his brain knows what is happening, causing this anxiety. Yet he continues to ask details that part of his brain already knows.
Omg Dan... this clip twisted my heart... I'm a retired 65yr old dad of two men...37..and 32... I wanna let you know..and if I get to 92.. I hope my Son's will use ur videos to help them set a bar.. for how to deal with me... I'm a freaking mule...stubborn... opinionated.. and I'm afraid my natural will be hard for my boys to deal with..... but I'm not gonna believe that my son's will have you same journey... I love ur clips into your life...Thank u
Sir, you’re expressing my exact feelings. I’ve been having the exact thoughts!
I’m 62; have 2 son’s 35 & 37 , and a daughter 22.
(I never comment; but felt I had to 😅)
Well Gentlemen if you live to be Ed’s age you both have nothing to worry about for nearly 30 years time 🤗👍
Poor dad , keeps on asking same thing , he wants to be make sure if Dan is safe to go away , detachment pain , he loves Dan to death of course Danielle & Mark is by his side to take care of Dr Ed when Dan goes away , grandpapa wants to be safe , secure of course . Dan I appreciate your patience , in reorienting him , caring , loving & answering to him softly Not getting tired or irritated Thnxs u all . Grandpa we all luv ur shows , real life videos .❤
You have a lot of patience and love . I lost my dad without talking to him a lot. You are fortunate to talk with him alot. Keep doing loving him.
With love from Kenya 🇰🇪 🇰🇪 🇰🇪 🇰🇪 🇰🇪 you have shown the entire world how to look after our parents in their vulnerable age
Wewe lazima useme umetoka kenya kila saa😅
Well said 💯 ❤
@@byebeikibet1238 mchokozi wewe 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Well said and you are a proud Kenyan. You can say how many times you want that you are from Kenya.
Lazima kieleweke pia mimi mkenya 🇰🇪 😂😂😂
Dan, you are a blessed kid. I wish all kids would be like you
Am proud of you. God bless you for taking excellent care of your dad. I pray your kids if you have any do the same for you. ❤
I didn’t realize how quick his memory resets. Literally just a few seconds. Much respect to you & Danielle. It’s sweet he immediately took responsibility for taking you you to the airport, etc.
Oh my gosh, I am in tears. You Dad loves his family so much. Thank you for l Ioving him. Not too many adult children could handle this situation. ❤
THERE YOU HAVE IT !!!!!!
😢 Dementia is NOT FAKE it is real ..... For SOME of you , NOW YOU CAN SEE HOW HARD AND TRYING THEIR PATIENCE, IT IS FOR DAN AND DANIELLE and their trying their HARDEST for Dan's Dad .
I APPRECIATE ALL that they do ❤ I LOVE THE SALINGERS , EACH AND EVERY ONE ❤
Well said Linda!
Did someone really say dementia not real????? That’s strange.
Linda, 👏👏👏
Why are you yelling? It makes it difficult to read your comment. Please don’t yell, I like reading the comments.
@@colleenobrien8212, Sorry if I bother you but sometimes after seeing AT LEAST 100 rude things towards Danielle and Dan. I like to see a nice comments also .
He’s adorable! God bless you, you are so patient with him 🙏🏻
This must be so tiring....my husband is healthy but when he say things over and over again i want to blow a gasket. You are such special people caring for him.
My husband does the same thing. Hope it's not a sine of demantia. Maybe I should be more patient with him. He is so stubborn though I could see he would be very difficult and hard to deal with but love over comes every thing.
😮😃😄😅😂🤣😆🤣😅🤣 you 2 got me rolling..my side hurts...
Nothing but love for this Man…dementia and anxiety can’t stop the love of his family ❤
Yes, you made a mistake🫣 but what you all give to him we have not and could not give to our mom when se had dementia.... great respect for you all ❤ and your father is so special, even in his disease!
My dad also had dementia and ask the same questions over and over and over and over again. It drove me craaaaazy! I admire you because, even though I adored my father, I was not able to handle his repetitive questions... so I just kissed him and leave. When I came back, even if it was a couple hours later, he told me how much he had missed me like he hadn't see me in years... It was heartbreaking to see how a privileged mind just dissolved in front of me. I miss him every day. I adore him (I still do).
You are so patient and so is Danielle. My mom had this disease for 8 yrs. After a while, she quit talking all together.. that helped to taper some of her fear. We had to stop telling her she had dr appts. She would be so fretful on how she was getting there, who would wake her up etc…. The terror their minds can conjure up is so sad.. My mom was in pretty good health other than this wicked disease. She aspirated one day and that is what took her life. She was 86. Was a nurse in WWII where she met my dad. So full of life and a social butterfly. Lost my dad 6 months later.Both in 2012. It’s so obvious the love your dad has for you and you for him, he still worries about his little boy. What an example to him ,your children, and around the world, this is how you take care of your parents! What a legacy of videos to leave to your generations to come. God bless you and your family. A virtual hug to all of you, Cindy.
He needs something to do. Assign him a simple task that he can accomplish by himself or with you.
People need to feel valued and helpful. When I would get busy around the house, I would give my mother a dusting cloth and she would feel included, a participant in life. It was calm and so was I.
Your level of patience is beyond what I can comprehend. Praying that God gives you more grace to continue caring for your dad. 🙏
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Dr. Ed is so precious ❤😊 He sure does love his family.
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Dan and Danielle, you guys are the best people in this world. we need more people like you, Grandpa. We love you. Hang in there. My heart is so 💔 today. I'm just crying it's a sad day😢😢😢
This makes me really teary😢
He's so caring and also worried
Oh dear
Bless your soul sir
This made me cry. So much love and patience…❤ Pop is in the right place.
Separation anxiety at its peak!!!!
PAPA Ed you are loved, thank you Dan and Danielle for explaining everything to him no matter how many times he asked. Thank God he is not in a nursing home where they will have given him medication to look like zombie. BLESS YOU ALL ❤❤❤
I've never witnessed anything like this before. Poor grandpa. But thank God he's loved by his family. ❤
Bless you, Dan. I'm exhausted listening to this and I'm not even there. Poor Ed, he's so worried. I'm glad Mark is coming over to reassure him and help with him.
Aw poor papa.😢Just be glad and happy that he is still around. ❤
He's on repeat. Reminds me of my autistic grandson. God bless Grandpa
Yesss..I have 3 autistic grandsons
I'm an autistic grandson and I do repeat things a lot but I think I do it because I feel I haven't gotten my point across or people aren't actually listening to what I'm trying to say sometimes I think I do it for emphasis or something too idk
Lojobam. My grandson does that too. He says he's trying to teach me something that he sees I don't understand ❤️
I think we all have that problem, very few listen these days, too busy looking at their phone@@lojobambam2
I wonder if dementia patients and kids with autism would have conversations together, if that could be a highly specialized daycare or respite care that benefits both groups.
He is concerned that you are leaving him. Lovely father ❤
Bless his heart❤. I go through this everyday with my 86 year old mom with Alzheimer’s. She asks over and over the same questions and yet you still feel the love. The same dementia affects the brain, not the love in their hearts. I have to believe that♥️🙏♥️, it’s the only way caregivers survive this heartbreaking disease. My Alzheimer’s support group leader says that any change, especially daylight savings time wreaks havoc with them as well as pets so just guessing that’s contributing to it.
My mom did not have dementia just as I call it "Old Timers". So she would ask the same question over and over then I would say mum you ask me that five times now and she would respond oh so you counting now and I would say yes. Lol😢 I miss her she was 98 when she suddenly left us and she was as healthy as a horse according to her doctor but my brother had died the week before 😢😢
@@marlenebornman1751, the same with my mom at the beginning stage of the dementia. She would ask me the same questions a few times and it began to work my nerves so I asked her why she kept repeating the same question over and over again when I had already answered her. She looked at me and said that she didn’t give a damn how many times she asked me something, but I’d better answer her because, she was my mother and not my child. 😂 All I could do was laugh and say, yes ma’am mama. We never had that conversation again. As time passed by the dementia progressed and that’s when we my siblings and myself realized that something serious was going on with her memory. It’s not easy dealing with someone who has dementia, but if she was still alive I would happily do whatever it took to be here for her. Mr. Ed is SOOO blessed to have supported children who loves him and supports him in every way possible. ❤
Bless your heart. You're a good son. ❤
Danielle gets frustrated by his concerns and she shows it.😦
I know. I saw that. I really don't like her at all. But I love Dan and Ed, so I watch.
You guys have got it wrong . She's just as supportive for her Father in law as Dan is. You have to understand how frustrating it is for both parties dealing with dementia.
I'm glad someone else sees right thru Danielle I don't like her either she tolerates Ed is about it
I'm glad someone else sees right thru Danielle I don't like her either she tolerates Ed is about it
The wife could be nicer .Her tone is harsh....maybe she was afraid of all the responsibility
Dan, you have the patience of a saint. My mom had alzheimers and i know how hard it is to be able to deal with the constant questions. God Bless You!
It's just like with 4yr olds, you learn to never tell them anything ahead of time, because they will obsess over it with questions.
I learned to wait until the last minute to tell my ex anything because I would just be verbally harassed the entire time leading up to it. I was doing that with my grown son, but he wants to be told in advance, but when I do he just forgets anyway! 😂
From my understanding it's normal to have some change in the brain as one ages. Could be why old people can seem childish. Live and enjoy your life as much as you can. Do the things you want to do because believe me getting old is no fun all kinds of things happen to your body. No one talks about what happens when we get old I think we should.
@@Lifeletnothingholdudown At 73 I can confirm what you say is true. I can also say, that if someone did tells us what it would be like to grow old, we still probably would not get it until we got there ourself. Still, I am grateful for everyday and hope to have many more!
@@dannettepeters1507This was a beautiful and very wise comment. Thank you for sharing ❤
WOW. He's so sweet but it's so exhausting I hear it in your voice, Dan. Hang in there.
This has me crying all the love of a Dad . I lost mine and it hurts every single day. Such a sweet soul he is and you are for caring for him ❤️❤️
His surgery cuts are healing up nicely on his chin and cheek Grandpa must have very good healing skin
Dads never stop being protectors. Even through his illness the dad tries to protect his loved ones.
I haven't seen any comments regarding Danielle's patience with Ed and her amazing care for her husband's Father. God Bless her, and the whole family. Their sheer love for one another brings tears to my eyes. ❤
I agree, it must be so hard to not lose her patience. I don’t know if I could do it!
Yes I agree! Danielle is also a champ in caring for Dr. Ed! ❤️
I’m caring for my mil. And it’s just me. Patience is a blessing! A blessing I sometimes lack. Dan, you and Dad and Danielle are actually helping me go thru this…thank you.
It’s only really the interactions between Dan and his Dad that are shown. Danielle doesn’t feature in the clips too much that I’ve seen. That’s probably why.
She's doing a great job...I know it's hard but well worth it....❤❤❤❤
You taught us how to be patient with our parents when they grow old. You are just amazing keep going bro
Separation Anxiety is very common among the very elderly, dementia or not. With the dementia included, it's much worse. ❤ Sending hugs to all.
Separation anxiety and love!❤
You are a lovely man Dan,you allways speak to your lovely Father with great respect.God bless you.
You’re so patient with him. That must be exhausting 😢GOD BLESS YOU ALL🙏🏻❤️
This is the first time it truly hit me of what u go through everyday, it’s shocking, fantastic video for people who don’t have a clue what a 24 hour day looks like for u
Yeah same really hit me hard watching this video. It’s such a heartbreaking cruel disease.
I think many people dont get it. There lays the reason for the PPL who criticize Lovely Dánielle & Dan.
I think Dan, much to his credit, tries to show Ed in the best light possible. I'm pretty sure he's never shown him really angry or extremely petulant, etc. I'd need something stronger than wine if I was Danielle. Lol.
@@leanneemma87absolutely worthless disease. What could it possibly be good for?? Nothing.
Problem is that the caretaker gets so worn down mentally and physically and the result is often that he/she gets quite sick. Dan needs to think about that and maybe consider that it's time for Dad to be in a senior home that deals with dementia-ridden patients. Hopefully he would get meds that would calm him down. Now he is very restless and energetic and that compounds the problem. If he were more docile it would be easier to deal with him. Very justifiable at this point. Or else everyone else suffers in real and serious ways.
I just love it when Grandpa ALWAYS asks " is there anything i can do for you Dan, Danielle?"
#Sweet , Concerned Ed❤
The love he has for his family is an amazing gift 🎁
You are a beautiful person as a son and human being. You make me shame and I respect you so much. God bless you and your father.
I'm so GLAD you posted a longer video so people can actually SEE what you go through EVERYDAY SEVERAL times a day! Unless they've lived it they can't comprehend! Even then EVER situation is different. God bless ALL OF YOU!❤
He is very loving to his daughter in law..even through his dementia..shows what a kind heart
And his daughter-in-law is mean & nasty! So terribly sad! 😮
@@alexisvalere4095I agree. She doesn’t even bother to hide it. SO disrespectful.
@@alexisvalere4095how is she mean and nasty?
Glad im not yhe only one who thinks that@@alexisvalere4095
@@Moss_Pillowsshe’s rude in every video.
God bless you and Danielle for your patience. My Dad had dementia and it’s tough for everyone involved. ♥️
Same situation here. 😢
No wonder Ed gets tired, he never sits down or stops asking questions! God Bless you all ❤
For anyone who has never lived with someone with dementia or Alzheimer's it can become frustrating for lack of a better word repeating yourself over and over. Without the right demeanor things can get off track. I guess what im saying is just be prepared. I think Dan does an awesome job caring for Dr. Ed ✌️
I will agree. Dan is a little short today but I can see why. Ed repeating himself and Danielle pouting.
n@@judgejenny2251this here is unnecessary. Dan didnt have to say anything. He created this what was his reason. Because he has left before. Never said a word.
🤣🤣😪🤣🤣@@judgejenny2251
Painful mistake. Best wishes to you guys.
Thank you for sharing this video.
Dr Ed is very loving, decent, and a very responsible father. ❤. He is going back and forth, but his thoughtful nature is showing despite his dementia.
Your Patience is a beautiful reflection of the love that you have for your dad.
I can’t stop watching your dad he’s so sweet and you guys are patient with him with all the repeated questions wow God bless you all
I cried watching this. I remember going through this with my grandmother. You really have to be so careful what you share with someone with dementia. My mother couldn’t visit her because my mom had cancer & had lost a lot of weight & her hair from chemo. We knew that my grandmother would have a terrible time dealing with it. I’m so glad that Grandpa Ed has such a loving family & safe home to live in. Caring for a loved one with dementia is a live & learn process. Dan & Danielle are really doing such a wonderful job keeping Grandpa happy, healthy & safe. 🫶
This is a heartbreaking situation but he is lucky to have his children taking care of him!! GOD BLESS YOUR BEAUTIFUL HEARTS!!
Your love and patience is immeasurable. Your love and respect for your dad is wonderful.
You are a saint in my book. I love your sense of going with the flow of his mental conundrum. It takes a great deal of patience and emotional fortitude to hear and repeat the same conversation all day long, every day. My heart goes out to you, your dad, and your family.
I've never seen dementia first hand. This was heartbreaking as well as heartwarming. Thanks for sharing and thanks for kindness and patience with your old man.
How many of us will not have the love, support and caring that Dan and Danielle provide to Ed, when we need it? Ed is very fortunate.
My opinion, for what it's worth...
My Dad was like this toward the end of his life. I realized that his role as a father and caregiver was "hard wired ' into him. He was always the one who made sure everyone had what they needed, and everything was taken care of. Even when he got to about 90 and other things started happening with his cognition, the role as Dad and caregiver and solver of all family issues was still there. I think that is happening with dear Dr. Ed. My father was a very smart man; also like Dr. Ed.
Watching this episode made me believe more strongly that some things like the father and caregiver role are really deeply embedded in the brain of someone like Dr. Ed, and like my Dad.
For other commenters here, I'd just like to remind them of something from the Bible that is worthy of meditation, no matter what your religion.
That is: "Judge not others, lest you yourself be judged."
This seems to be very difficult for human beings to do, but it's worth it to at least TRY.
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God bless you for having such loving patience and gentleness with your father / father-in-law Dan and Danielle. You both are adorable. Dr. Ed (paps) Is so sweet, loving and caring about his children. It gives the impression he was a very dear and adorable father. God bless him and you both (Dan / Danielle for the respectful, loving, patient care you give to him). I know, it's not easy for you, but may God continue to give you the strength and endurance to cope with the difficult situations.
Thanks for sharing. Stay blessed.
From Germany
Dan I’m praying for you everyday 🙏 … your emphaty and patience for your dad is amazing, learning from your experience a lot, you have an unique personality and a big heart❤
You have an awesome family. I am 70 and retired 3 years ago. I worked for over 30 years with senior citizens some with dementia and some with Alzheimer’s. I applaud your patience and the love you and your wife show to your father. You and your family set a great example for others. The dignity and respect you give to your father shows the love you have for him.