My daughter taught me this. She would say she had plans and then do nothing and I would be confused. She taught me i didn't need to lie to have time by myself. And I didn't need to feel guilty either.
Craaaappp! My life consists of 3-5 weeks straight away from home working and one week off in which I have other people planning what to do with my time. Sometimes I simply need to frustrate them!
IKR! I then have to say I will be doing something soon though. Technically I’m usually doing something that’s just not important so I just say nothing though. ❤
I usually respond with "Why? What's up? What are you up to?" to see if it sounds like they want to invite me to something and whether I want to do it. :D
whats the deal with norms and making last minute plans anyway? doesnt matter if i'm doing nothing it still takes time to build up to wanting to change what I'm (not?) doing.
Doing nothing are my plans. Please don't impose on my recoup time. It's necessary and needed.
Yep, doing nothing is what I am already busy with!
I hate when people say “hey what are you doing later”
No. I’m going to need a full explanation before I tell you whether or not I’m free.
I sometimes just pretend I’m busy 😂
yep, sociality is stressful
My daughter taught me this. She would say she had plans and then do nothing and I would be confused. She taught me i didn't need to lie to have time by myself. And I didn't need to feel guilty either.
Spoonie hours
Craaaappp!
My life consists of 3-5 weeks straight away from home working and one week off in which I have other people planning what to do with my time. Sometimes I simply need to frustrate them!
IKR! I then have to say I will be doing something soon though. Technically I’m usually doing something that’s just not important so I just say nothing though. ❤
This needs to be a GIF 🤣
Let's do nothing, take it really easy and slow.... And call it "self care", then you can do whatever you want.. 😮😅
I usually respond with "Why? What's up? What are you up to?" to see if it sounds like they want to invite me to something and whether I want to do it. :D
Literally ❤😂
Olivia, I’m not sure why this has to do with ADHD
KLAUS - do not trust.
too reallll
whats the deal with norms and making last minute plans anyway? doesnt matter if i'm doing nothing it still takes time to build up to wanting to change what I'm (not?) doing.
😂
My answer... Why? What do you have going ?
That’s actually so true. Like my friends ask me if I’m busy, and if I say not they immediately ask I wanna hangout.🩷