Men - The forgotten gender | Deepika Bhardwaj | TEDxIIFTDelhi

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  • Deepika talks about the how men in the Indian society are suffering due to the draconian Indian Penal Code which is made for the protection of women but ignores men and their issues. She addresses the Indian Dowry Act from the perspective of men. Deepika talks of men who are victimised and sustematically abused by laws that are made for women but are abused to victimise men.
    Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj is a Journalist, Anchor and a Documentary Filmmaker. Her first documentary ‘Gramin Dak Sevak’ was Jeevika All Asia Livelihood Film Festival 2009, student film winner. Her second documentary ‘Youth Count’ was broadcast on India’s leading News channel NDTV 24x7. Her third project ‘Garima’ was a commissioned, short documentary film by USAID and Counterpart International. A software engineer turned Journalist, she was one of the ten media professionals selected from around the world for ‘Future Media Leaders Course’ conducted by Thomson Foundation, UK. She is currently making documentary called “Martyrs of Marriage” which is a commentary on the issue of Men’s right and abuse of one-sided gender centric laws in the Indian Penal Code.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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  • @surajshaw9703
    @surajshaw9703 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5237

    I once told few women about all of this, and they started laughing...
    Men committing suicide and families being destroyed was amusing to them.

    • @atallsteve
      @atallsteve 4 ปีที่แล้ว +259

      @@Miikudo Isn't it for you?*
      I'm sorry, i had to do it.

    • @ensietankado678
      @ensietankado678 4 ปีที่แล้ว +378

      Satirical laugh, crying.. These are weapons women use for whatever it is against them.

    • @nidhiudi8215
      @nidhiudi8215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +199

      woman's are ruthless

    • @mireillelebeau2513
      @mireillelebeau2513 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@anikeshmidya4882 Well some are incapable but a lot are capable.

    • @raheelbelal5848
      @raheelbelal5848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +183

      @@mireillelebeau2513 nope, almost all of them. A women is a worse enemy to women more than a man.

  • @OmKar-fd7xv
    @OmKar-fd7xv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4366

    "It's about men so I have to give you some evidence cause when it's about women you don't need any evidence"- sums up the situation.

    • @saucegodnas7318
      @saucegodnas7318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +224

      She's a beast for saying that.

    • @meghanachauhan9380
      @meghanachauhan9380 4 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      That is actually legit

    • @ParulSharma-bv1kn
      @ParulSharma-bv1kn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +254

      Men are guilty until proven inoscent and women are inoscent until proven guilty 😑😑😑

    • @aperson5411
      @aperson5411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yup you got it

    • @SHADOWGaming-ks5rc
      @SHADOWGaming-ks5rc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      @@ParulSharma-bv1kn though women are proven guilty still they are welcomed in society. No matter how much dirt they have in their mind. Have you heard about any women being sent to jail for filing a false case against a man.

  • @aquahorns8995
    @aquahorns8995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3582

    *Only women, children and pets are loved unconditionally. A man is loved only under the condition that he provides something*
    --Chris Rock

    • @apurvadamdhare9541
      @apurvadamdhare9541 3 ปีที่แล้ว +177

      Unfortunately this is true😔

    • @poojashivaani3628
      @poojashivaani3628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Apurva Damdhare its not true! Wouldnt we love our father, brothers or boyfriend even if they have nothing to provide us?!

    • @poojashivaani3628
      @poojashivaani3628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Aqua Horns chris rock is wrong

    • @abhijeetranjan_neetwala
      @abhijeetranjan_neetwala 3 ปีที่แล้ว +216

      @@poojashivaani3628 and that's the limit . World shows more sympathy towards and women , pets etc than men .

    • @poojashivaani3628
      @poojashivaani3628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @Lone Wolf no. Even if my father does no work (ie, he remains at home and does household work) my love and respect will not shatter. Same goes for my brother. This is the stereotype that must change..the stereotype that says *men must work in office for their family*

  • @leodevanand9546
    @leodevanand9546 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1867

    women: * cries *
    society: * cries *
    men: * Cries *
    society: * laughs *

  • @girlwriteswhat
    @girlwriteswhat 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7541

    Thank you so very much, Deepika. Men need more women like you, who understand that justice and fairness, and most especially compassion, should be without gender. Swimming against the current can be difficult, but I hope the knowledge that your mere existence provides hope to so many gives you the strength and encouragement to keep going.
    Hugs to you.

    • @chrisrus1965
      @chrisrus1965 9 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      karen straughan This was amazing. Thanks for calling this to my attention by "liking" it.
      One thing I noticed that might be emulated by is the emphasis on specific legislation at the end of the talk.
      We would be well advised to follow that example by consistently focusing on specific legislation or other changes that we want/need in different countries. Once we've agreed on that, we've can plan and mount campaigns.
      Where on the internet is there a list or some such thing where specific legislation or other such changes advocated by the MRM are housed?
      I'm frustrated by a lack of specific legislative or other such changes and clear strategies and goals within the MRM.

    • @lavkumar420
      @lavkumar420 9 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      thanks karen , you have influenced a lot of people and presented a counter theory to the patriarchy theory which is just wonderful. Glad to see men and women standing up for each other. Cheers

    • @stasto6070
      @stasto6070 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lav Kumar
      Karen Straughan has attempted to EXTORT FIVE HUNDRED DOLLARS from her critics. She also tried to CENSOR the same critic. Look up the video "Karen Straughan vs Manhood Academy" on youtube. You will see evidence of her censorship and extortion attempts in emails she sent to the academy. She is a coward and a liar.

    • @girlwriteswhat
      @girlwriteswhat 9 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      ***** Oh for god's sake. Are you monitoring my TH-cam feed? Less than an hour, and you're here on a video replying to my comment with your "proof" of who knows what. Even lunatics like Deb Magiell and Mancheeze aren't that dedicated.
      Also, everyone knows that Sta Sto (below, commenting 4 minutes after you) is one of your alt accounts. It's really kind of pathetic that it took you 4 whole minutes to log out of your main account and into your alt to try to convince people that you have support from others.
      Also, stop sending me emails and PMs on reddit pretending to be random people asking me to debate you. You're starting to come across as a stalker.

    • @girlwriteswhat
      @girlwriteswhat 9 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      ***** HEYYY! It only took you two minutes to log out of your alt account and back into your main one this time! Bravo! You're getting better.

  • @lawrence1369
    @lawrence1369 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3529

    It is sad to notice that a woman had to tell that, in order to be listened.

    • @feminist098
      @feminist098 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      lawrence I gave you the hundredth like !

    • @feminist098
      @feminist098 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I gave 1st like to you !!

    • @tathoikosban
      @tathoikosban 7 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Why it is sad!!!? There have been so many nice deeds men did in history along with the malicious deeds. There are men who fought for women's right to education or right to vote. We don't indicate those actions as sad, right? We all are proud of such men in history who stood for women when they were caved and away from access to any basic rights. We should be happy to see women fight for men. We should not be sad about that. We should be happy as this indicates that good heart & minds from both the gender and sexes care for both. They are believers of equality who will be there for each other. That is going to be the true companionship as well. I am proud that individuals are fighting for justice and not just for gender.

    • @tathoikosban
      @tathoikosban 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      oooh... denouncing gender studies? How does that help? Gender studies is not something only about women. Then why do we need to denounce? Curious to understand the reasons you might have.

    • @feminist098
      @feminist098 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tathagata Basu well said !

  • @bhavanashahri2925
    @bhavanashahri2925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2056

    Really proud of women like you, who believe in equality for everyone

  • @abhinavsingh2432
    @abhinavsingh2432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    After a long usage of social media, I have finally found a real women.

    • @notsure1232
      @notsure1232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This one woman might be able to change the world by creating her own dating app😄

    • @Rah1381
      @Rah1381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Camille Paglia and Karen Straughn are both great too. It's hard to find but women do fight for men, and some have been for decades, media just doesnt highlight them.

    • @bigbull8582
      @bigbull8582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mee too

  • @ashwitauikey1889
    @ashwitauikey1889 7 ปีที่แล้ว +634

    This is one of my favourite Ted Talk. She showed other side of coin which is almost hidden in our country. I agree with her 100%. Huge Respect. 🙏

    • @saurabhshankhdhar6614
      @saurabhshankhdhar6614 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You are a great lady too if u are even able to think in right direction

    • @mohdazhar9932
      @mohdazhar9932 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Really you are very great tooo

    • @huna5923
      @huna5923 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good

    • @kushagrawal104
      @kushagrawal104 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You, my friend are the type of woman India needs today, who thinks about others' pains too. You are no less than the woman in the video. Hats off to u!! I bow in your respect.

  • @tommypettersson5433
    @tommypettersson5433 6 ปีที่แล้ว +667

    This happened to me with an Indian wife. The laws were totally against me but I was lucky to get help to get a divorce and leave the country. But I lost my daughter.

    • @johntravis3463
      @johntravis3463 5 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Glad you could escape. But sad that your daughter is not with you..

    • @71gaurav
      @71gaurav 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      We are with you.

    • @amlanadityamallickamlanadi7399
      @amlanadityamallickamlanadi7399 5 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Tell me who is your daughter? Her age and location so that we can avoid her. Single moms are the worst.

    • @arthurmorgan6358
      @arthurmorgan6358 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Damn, that's sad.

    • @mayanksharma3278
      @mayanksharma3278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Never ever get married to an Indian woman. All Unmarried Indian woman r Jihadi. They come to their sense in their 40s when they breed a son. Then they start repenting how much damage they have done to the society !!

  • @fantafanatykow9144
    @fantafanatykow9144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +944

    It’s gotten so bad that we need a woman to speak for us, because we aren’t allowed to speak up for ourselves.

    • @angriboi
      @angriboi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      You are allowed, but nobody will listen if you're a man.

    • @VishnuAnilkumar1
      @VishnuAnilkumar1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I dont think this is true...
      Men are not considered masculine if we show our emotions.
      And this is a very emotional topic, so most men dont talk about it, or cant talk about it effectively, unless they faced the issue themselves.
      When I discussed this fear with friends, they laughed it off, as if its not real.
      when I discussed about the issue being at our doorstep and not a far away event (since multiple men I personally know faced it), the response was "oh well, it is their fate".
      I am glad a woman spoke for us, since they can convey emotions properly.
      IMO, what we need are statisticians to get us data, if we have that, men can talk, But indian govt sux at collecting statistics.
      Until then, I dont think men can address this issue effectively, Only women will be able to and I am glad she did.
      After watching this video, I feel lucky that I didnt get a girl when I was looking for an alliance.
      I had decided not to marry before watching this video, but this video confirmed that my fears are true and valid.

    • @bradleysimpson2288
      @bradleysimpson2288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@VishnuAnilkumar1 blame the PATRIARCHY that you support 🥰🥰

    • @xavier4919
      @xavier4919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@bradleysimpson2288 This so called "Patriarchy" pampers women. Patriarchy tells men to sink with the Titanic, while women are making a safe way out with the children. Patriarchy is no friend of men, has never been.

    • @darthmaul8278
      @darthmaul8278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Glory ForFreedom his source is fact

  • @hughgraham317
    @hughgraham317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    "Legal terrorism against men" - touches a nerve.

  • @ananyanarayan8585
    @ananyanarayan8585 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2464

    I've seen men talk about these issues all the time but it's disappointing that it's taken seriously only when a woman talks about it.

    • @wahmenrespector4666
      @wahmenrespector4666 5 ปีที่แล้ว +229

      Listen if we talk women will compare their sufferings and try to shut us up.

    • @huna5923
      @huna5923 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      @@ifyourreadingthisurahugeth2810 so what u want medal

    • @tarungusain7501
      @tarungusain7501 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@ifyourreadingthisurahugeth2810 they are the reason in first place too

    • @ananthakrishnan5184
      @ananthakrishnan5184 5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Ananya Narayan If we talk about this the society will term us as male chauvinist..

    • @KingKhan-123
      @KingKhan-123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Because people just don't want to believe it.

  • @ricknmoortiii4734
    @ricknmoortiii4734 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4265

    Imagine this talk being given by a man .(thnk you everyone . My Most liked comment ever .)😘😘😁😁

    • @anikets4699
      @anikets4699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +535

      TH-cam will remove that video due to obscene contente! 🤣🤣😂😄

    • @Pred00
      @Pred00 4 ปีที่แล้ว +223

      Then no one would give f. about

    • @LoneWolf-fx9lm
      @LoneWolf-fx9lm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +344

      Feminists will start his character assassination

    • @doccock2115
      @doccock2115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      🚔🚔🚔🚨🚨🚨

    • @strikeforcealpha3652
      @strikeforcealpha3652 4 ปีที่แล้ว +167

      You would be considered a misogynist 😂😂

  • @errol484
    @errol484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    7:59
    "Now, because I told you in the beginning that whatever I'm going to talk about I'll have to give a lot of evidences for it because I'm talking about men. When we talk about women, we don't really need to give evidences." - Deepika Bhardwaj
    Did she really just say this?
    To understand just how powerful this sentiment is, did anyone really take the time to let those words simmer in their thoughts? Deepika Bhardwaj, thank you 👏

  • @samuelrahulpeter
    @samuelrahulpeter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    Dear men, a government that doesn't even care about our justice enough to change some laws, does not deserve our hardwork or taxes.

    • @casualgerm
      @casualgerm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed

    • @remiborgen8925
      @remiborgen8925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Brilliant said I'll keep this as a quote 👍

    • @altairya40
      @altairya40 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      A new Gandhi's revolution must be done around the globe

    • @albertvick3410
      @albertvick3410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Damn straight

    • @Ashish_Singh2595
      @Ashish_Singh2595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@altairya40 not Gandhi but Shaheed Bhagat Singh's way

  • @Resentius
    @Resentius 8 ปีที่แล้ว +517

    As a man, I thank you.

  • @Lat1111
    @Lat1111 7 ปีที่แล้ว +408

    Being a woman myself, you dont know how much I feel proud of you. Mistake is a mistake. Nobody has the right to destroy anybody's life no matter what. We have to take care of our men also. Kudos.

    • @ananthakrishnan5184
      @ananthakrishnan5184 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Latha 111 Its hopeful to know women like you still exist... you are blessed with commonsense to understand the exact situation Impartially

    • @mayanksharma3278
      @mayanksharma3278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Men will take care of himself. If u want to do help us at all then do one thing Don't frame frivolous charges against a man. Other than that we seriously don't need ur help!!

    • @31kiloradioraven63
      @31kiloradioraven63 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Break the spirit of a man and you have nothing, build up the spirit of a man and you have everything. 🙏

    • @thischannelhad40subscriber51
      @thischannelhad40subscriber51 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ur a true women

    • @mbangroo
      @mbangroo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mayanksharma3278 you're a chad. 😎

  • @kallepikku4991
    @kallepikku4991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +323

    This happens daily in my country, Finland, and the consequences to men are exactly like you described here. Yet nobody cares. Your speech really touched me. I almost cried watching this video.
    Deepika, you're doing a great and important job. Keep up your wonderful work.

    • @Clintsessentials
      @Clintsessentials 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sad, isn't it?

    • @kalyugon
      @kalyugon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Finland is considered to happiest country in world

    • @rahulsharma8940
      @rahulsharma8940 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Technical Hub nah it would still be less than India

    • @kallepikku4991
      @kallepikku4991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @Technical Hub Finland has highest suicide rate differential between men and women in the world. About 6-to-1, and no-one gives a damn. Imagine just how depressed men have to be to have that high suicide rates.

    • @Unknownguy060
      @Unknownguy060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Feminism is cancer for our society and world....... ...

  • @BluesbyPriyanka
    @BluesbyPriyanka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    We must act fast to bring proper justice to men. Unfortunately, very few women accept the fact that men are victims too. It's a shame.

    • @ItachixUchiha-
      @ItachixUchiha- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Atleast we have some women like u :)

    • @bobbyboi7742
      @bobbyboi7742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I've seen people say this but videos that talk about men's problems are oppressing women and degrading womens problems

    • @captainmacruff1893
      @captainmacruff1893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for your comments

    • @athribhat2243
      @athribhat2243 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hats off

    • @hobbithallows
      @hobbithallows 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      All are victims of same society rules and norms. But instead of thinking of better solutions they are resorting to downgrade others rights.
      Don’t get me wrong I totally support what lady said and towards men’s struggles and their lack of choice which I acknowledge and believe in since long back.
      I feel many women are retaliating to privileged people terms like ‘feminazi’ or ‘cancer’/‘cult’ when feminism talks are going on. These privileged people don’t realise their fight is causing heavy damage to those who need it.
      A comprehensive approach needs to be taken to co exist and to evolve laws better suited to those who need it and not for people who misuse it.
      But unfortunately privileged people are too busy dragging each other down to make any change.

  • @aarushigupta2071
    @aarushigupta2071 7 ปีที่แล้ว +875

    Sadly this is the truth.There is no justice for men.And if someone makes a movie on injustice with men in India it's probably gonna be banned cause apparently It's hurting some women .Man this video touched my heart.And a huge respect to this woman.

    • @aarushigupta2071
      @aarushigupta2071 7 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      radjanvar How the fuck do you know I don't care bout men.Why would I even pretend to care and waste my time writing this comment.I genuinely feel bad for the injustice happening in India towards men.And by writing this comment you want all the attention on you,so stop craving for it.And before jumping to any conclusions use your fucking brain dude.

    • @aarushigupta2071
      @aarushigupta2071 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      radjanvar that's what you say when you don't have anything sensible to say.Well in that case fuck you too.

    • @aarushigupta2071
      @aarushigupta2071 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Kishan Verma Then why don't you do something instead of just speaking shit.What have you done to bring a difference??You guys are such fake ass people.

    • @aarushigupta2071
      @aarushigupta2071 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Kishan Verma and nobody has the right to abuse anyone .Women shouldn't abuse men and men shouldn't abuse women.

    • @aarushigupta2071
      @aarushigupta2071 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Kishan Verma And I know there is no justice for men in India.And it's really disgusting to see how girls are taking advantages of these laws.And I am totally against all of these things.I just wanted to share how I feel on TH-cam and I got so much hate for it.

  • @HatimCyclewala
    @HatimCyclewala 9 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    Absolutely stunned, didn't know such things even took place in the country and to such extent. No media ever reports these cases.

    • @HatimCyclewala
      @HatimCyclewala 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Kit Bit to speak the truth, this changes my perception of marriage. I'm introduced to another side of it where your SO might backstab you

    • @coolpras26
      @coolpras26 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's time to wake up. Open your eyes and mind to the ACTUAL FACTS. I'm surprised you didn't know about all this. Noob much?

    • @HatimCyclewala
      @HatimCyclewala 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      coolpras26 I partly blame the media for being uninformed. I watch the news with my family almost every evening and they downgrade the men involved in cases of "violence against women" to such a low extent that I sit there in deep thought and doubt the country's future. I'm confused over taking these reporters seriously, not once have they glorified innocence

    • @coolpras26
      @coolpras26 9 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hatim Cyclewala I know. Whatever happened to journalism ethics? Basically, the media wants sensationalism. They want to appeal to the masses, spread mass hysteria to get TRPs. How can they do that? By saying all politically correct, uber liberal, factually incorrect shit. Female pandering. I use my brain and knowledge when I'm watching news or reading something. I don't blindly believe anything. They glorify victimhood and suffering as people are drawn more to that. It's all a TRP game for the media

    • @sammichheist8261
      @sammichheist8261 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The media intentionally hide those things. Just think on how they reported and still report on the Ray Rice case generally omitting that she yelled at him, spat on him, then hit him before he finally got fed up. How they ignored Hope Solo and in some cases have reframed it instead as her being attacked by her nephew (who's a minor) and paint her as the victim.

  • @LaughLounge11
    @LaughLounge11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +343

    during fire
    "Let the Women and Kids out first"
    during war
    "Poor kids and womens dying"
    during in line
    "Women and Kids First"
    no men even disagreed to that, we understand that men should be last in that situation but now that women r asking more and abusing what men gave to them. it angers me.

    • @mbangroo
      @mbangroo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      But we will still keep saving them. Just because its who we are. Men :)

    • @defender240
      @defender240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@mbangroo True but maybes its its time to save these;lves for us Men we have given everything they wanted but in this society, women need to do stuff themselves and stop relying on us men all the time.i have seen it countless times that in this society no one cares about men unless they have something that matters to society.

    • @BG-eh3gm
      @BG-eh3gm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Even in Titanic

    • @defender240
      @defender240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@BG-eh3gm Yeah and in the end it may not even matter about what you contribute you can easily lose it all just like the Titanic.

    • @chasemaster...5454
      @chasemaster...5454 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly...And if we don't do that we will be considered as a coward.......

  • @justRedDevil
    @justRedDevil 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Women like this are genuine hero's. This talk isn't something a man could do, he'd be jeered off the stage. So many men desperately need her voice to be heard.

  • @harshkamat2287
    @harshkamat2287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3911

    Deepika Padukone : My body My choice
    Deepika Bhardwaj: MEN - The forgotten gender
    RESPECT 100000 👏👏👏👏

    • @elifali7882
      @elifali7882 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      What is bad about saying my body my choice? Isn't it good to have the rights of your body? Not only for women. We should stand up for men's rights as well, but not everything 'real'women say is wrong. I love men and accept their laws but I also think that it's my body and I have to make the chooses about it. Sorry for my English.

    • @harshkamat2287
      @harshkamat2287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      @@elifali7882 The title message of the video correct in its description, however , when you hear each and every line , it's starts making less and less sense as the video progresses. It starts from feminism and ends at female domination

    • @harshkamat2287
      @harshkamat2287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@elifali7882 The first comment on that video is by Deepika Narayan Bharadwaj(lady in this video),maybe you can read that and understand what's the problem.

    • @derekd.4156
      @derekd.4156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      9A2 11 Elif Ali I don’t think the comment was being sarcastic. I think they were applauding that she held both these views points since it’s shows maturity and that she can see both sides

    • @---rf7tn
      @---rf7tn 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      .

  • @sreeramm9080
    @sreeramm9080 4 ปีที่แล้ว +474

    I was abused by a 16 yr old girl when I was only 5 and I tell everyone now, they say " awesome bruh". But the moment was still hurting whenever I think of it.

    • @Panium.
      @Panium. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Damn.

    • @sreeramm9080
      @sreeramm9080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @okay but I DON'T KNOW Thank u.👍

    • @arsalantaj2509
      @arsalantaj2509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Whoa!!! File a case mate

    • @5TimesWCC
      @5TimesWCC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@arsalantaj2509 she is a girl and when she did that she was also a minor. Nothing is gonna happen to her now

    • @Prasad-kf3rh
      @Prasad-kf3rh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Chutya hai tu abhi bhi mtlb. Ro raha hai social media pe. Usne meri maari pr muze ab bhi dukhta hai. Likes chahiye sirf.

  • @benisonmassala6346
    @benisonmassala6346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I am just a guy who is trying to show empathy to my Indian brother straight From Africa(Angola). I really admire this country, the culture, learned from the movies, and what she said was very unexpected to me, but back then. 6 years after I am wondering how India now, are there already laws protecting men´s rights, or nothing changed?
    Keep fighting, it might take longer but you are going to win.

    • @tbys1416
      @tbys1416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Things got worse

    • @nischaymiglani2617
      @nischaymiglani2617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Now things got worse.
      Now laws in India became very much biased and mainly in the favour of women.
      Now According to biased judicial laws,
      Man is guilty until proved innocent.
      Woman is innocent until proved guilty.
      And these type of laws have been oftenly misused by women in India.

    • @Anirudh.thakur
      @Anirudh.thakur 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Now things got worse more strict laws are made

    • @manubhat2922
      @manubhat2922 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It got worse.

  • @basundharapradhan9871
    @basundharapradhan9871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    It's scary when she talked about the police saying the man that they have no rules to protect the man.
    I have a younger brother and I'm horrified of this thing too.

    • @divyanshujaani
      @divyanshujaani 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't worry god is always with use

    • @timhoward5
      @timhoward5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If their isn't then these men better stop committing suicide and start protecting themselves, getting into the laws, or leaving the country to other non-western country.

    • @timhoward5
      @timhoward5 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @55 years ago What happened 55 years ago?

    • @ankitdebnath2781
      @ankitdebnath2781 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have to worry sister.If anything happens wrong the society and the people will not support your younger brother because he is a boy .And boys are always wrong. Only girls are right.

  • @swapnull_in
    @swapnull_in 8 ปีที่แล้ว +658

    I really respect women like you. Men's life is also valuable as much women's.

    • @Kaypop5199
      @Kaypop5199 8 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      +Swapnil Godambe 101% right... Crime and criminals have nothing to do with the gender. A #Rapist can be a #women too.. Bitter, but truth of our gender biased society.

    • @Kami-Sama197
      @Kami-Sama197 8 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      +Varsa Kujur well I'm an egalitarian and a man from India a Hindu. I was raped when was 5 years old by w 15 year old girl when i used to live in North East. We went to the police to complain. Nothing happened and they just laughed at me and my parents. Now after 15 years nothing has much changed. It's sad that how those trying to tell the reality and truth are told to shut up.

    • @meowsaran
      @meowsaran 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Swapnil: very nicely said :)

    • @climberisjack
      @climberisjack 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nobody deserves respect just for their existance

    • @climberisjack
      @climberisjack 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Swapnil nobody deserves respect just for existance

  • @feminist098
    @feminist098 7 ปีที่แล้ว +394

    Thank god I found and outspoken lady for the first time who is talking facts and truth. thank you mam

    • @Edbrad
      @Edbrad 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      For the first time? Look into Karen Straughan, The Honey Badgers, Cassie Jaye

    • @bluerose615
      @bluerose615 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For the first time - could you be anymore insulting to women?

    • @truegamer_007
      @truegamer_007 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      M Pinchers He said it's the first time HE found. I think you can forgive ignorance, yes?

    • @feminist098
      @feminist098 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      M Pinchers I didn't mean it literally!come on man. And see all you end up taking womens side and finding my comment insulting to them ? bravo ! you are very pusillanimous ..

    • @RomanGabayIL
      @RomanGabayIL 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      vivek patil I think pinchers is... trolling. :P

  • @manishyadav-gr3dj
    @manishyadav-gr3dj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    When I was 15 year old my classmate girl complained to the teacher that he's abusing and touching me ....she did this because I was laughing when her friends were making jokes on her

    • @KABIGON4445
      @KABIGON4445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Once a thing happened in my tution
      While returning from school i came across a girl who was in same tution as me i called girl " Namaste didi "
      Because she was older than me
      And what she did can you imagine
      After returning home i ate food and i gone for tution
      And for my surprise
      I was being accused of harassment
      She said " Ki isne ( me) muje pareshaan kiya " Soch a bad way
      And i got punished in very painful position worse than "murga bnna "
      Litterly for 30+ min
      I just cried the whole time
      And now i hate that girl and tution wali didi and tuition wali didi's mom
      I just feel like (🔪🔪) them maybe some guys will think it's very small thing but how i was being portrayed in my whole mohalla ( area) worse memories

    • @manishyadav-gr3dj
      @manishyadav-gr3dj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@KABIGON4445 in the end we're all alone my friend

    • @KABIGON4445
      @KABIGON4445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@manishyadav-gr3dj yeah vro actually in true event
      5 people complained about me on tha same day to the same tution
      I was a funny guy likes to joke
      And that was my mistake

    • @rockymental4150
      @rockymental4150 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@KABIGON4445 yea broo...I'm also changed now.. just wait that girl will be punished in God's court ...

    • @mbangroo
      @mbangroo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rockymental4150:(

  • @DRDOGGO-iu4yd
    @DRDOGGO-iu4yd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    Single men : When will I get married.
    Abused married man: Boy u are lucky.

    • @siddharthagautam9763
      @siddharthagautam9763 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      😂😂😂😂

    • @ariheready28
      @ariheready28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      *married man

    • @erosennin2162
      @erosennin2162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True

    • @ilovetzuyufromtwice2803
      @ilovetzuyufromtwice2803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same with women

    • @ronnie-qh7nc
      @ronnie-qh7nc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@ilovetzuyufromtwice2803 but you have whole media , justice system with you afterall you are the oppressed section of the society........men have nothing .....

  • @MrEstrax
    @MrEstrax 7 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    7:56 "..because I told you in the beginning. Whatever I'm going to talk about, I'll have to give a lot of evidences for it, because I'm talking about men. When we talk about women we don't really need to give evidences.."
    Yeah, that sounds about right.

    • @aravindhanveeramani6142
      @aravindhanveeramani6142 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      MrEstrax that sums up the word third wave feminism

    • @bryanwoods3373
      @bryanwoods3373 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And even then, you have to print out the articles and cite your sources with proper notation. Not that it matters anyways. It just goes to "well, I feel like this is happening." I can't help that how you feel is wrong and completely contradictory to reality. And as another person said, a lot of feminism is doing the opposite of its intent. How does being fearful of every person you pass on the street empower you as a woman? How is being angry all the time making your life better?

    • @MegamikazeMoriko
      @MegamikazeMoriko 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      well because women can get away with lying

    • @AVGyerra22
      @AVGyerra22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True on all sides

  • @Priyadarshan_Nag
    @Priyadarshan_Nag 5 ปีที่แล้ว +868

    Savage moment - 8:06 “When we talk about women, we don’t need to give much evidence” 👌
    One of the best Ted talks I have ever watched! Every man needs to watch this and be cautioned about the misuse of the Dowry Law.
    Keep up the good work sister. 👍🏻

    • @nehalsingh3094
      @nehalsingh3094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I guess more women should see it

    • @nehalsingh3094
      @nehalsingh3094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Mai ek angel hu aur main aasman se aaya hu no I meant that the women should also know about these topics..

    • @Supiragon1998
      @Supiragon1998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@nehalsingh3094 Most of them won't care.

    • @kuttysrank5
      @kuttysrank5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Unless it's Swami Chinmayanand, you don't need to give much evidence

    • @graceomalleygrimm9776
      @graceomalleygrimm9776 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Mai ek angel hu aur main aasman se aaya hu you're wrong. There are women who care. I'm just in a different country and unable to help you. I can only stand up for my own countryMEN.

  • @suchandramukherjee6049
    @suchandramukherjee6049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    As I girl I know the importance of strong men in our life,they basically lay their lives down for us... And yet this is the hard truth. Thank you for saying this out loud.

    • @sandy4013
      @sandy4013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      We want men rights too like women save innocent men and boys 😭🙏

    • @mgtowmonk7044
      @mgtowmonk7044 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      This brainwashing should stop , strong men should not sacrifice themselves for anyone, strong men should live for themselves and let the society crumble , men should be indifferent

    • @NiteshKumar-mb1ni
      @NiteshKumar-mb1ni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@mgtowmonk7044 absolutely bro ... I suggest all good men not to get involved in saving any women as they are capable enough to do it themselves, apart from old ones. If you see women asking help when their tyres get flat, if they met with an accident, if they can’t lift heavy object , please don’t help.

    • @sandy4013
      @sandy4013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@mgtowmonk7044 but this won't happen in reality more than 90% of strong men sacrifice everything for their family including their passion and dreams they don't even live for themselves

    • @mgtowmonk7044
      @mgtowmonk7044 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@sandy4013 Dude this situation can chage if people want , people just have to become more selfish and there is nothing wrong in being selfish , I'm gonna live a lifestyle without any women in my life , still 18 though but gonna study hard and get a good job and live for myself and my parents that's it and gonna enjoy the money

  • @akhilnair502
    @akhilnair502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Women like you are the sole mirror of women empowerment who are willfully fighting against the attrocities done on men. Huge respect mam 🙏.

  • @ashwinthirumurthy1940
    @ashwinthirumurthy1940 5 ปีที่แล้ว +464

    This made me cry. Brave women are not the one who files wrong cases, they are the one who are should be neutral and prepares to speak the downsides of the rule that supports them. Hats off to you ma'am.

    • @Skwod0392jebxnwo
      @Skwod0392jebxnwo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      No one is lol tbh

    • @ShivamKumar-yt4nt
      @ShivamKumar-yt4nt 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It made me cry too

    • @hackerbhau1709
      @hackerbhau1709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Skwod0392jebxnwo wait Being binod ur commenting other then BINOD that's illegal.

  • @sayyidsahal4533
    @sayyidsahal4533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1763

    5 years after nothing has changed.

    • @Bishhh777
      @Bishhh777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      You are right abhi toh aur barh raha hai😌

    • @iamadityashekhar
      @iamadityashekhar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      My neighbor is suffering some same when we see him we feel very bad

    • @melbourneopera
      @melbourneopera 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Bcos victimhood aka feminism is a powerful tools to control men.

    • @cmdrtianyilin8107
      @cmdrtianyilin8107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      5 years is too narrow slice of time, given that the 3rd wave feminism started after WWII and accelerated in 70's, it will take long time to take change. Plus, there is a social and political backlashes from the left.

    • @kollurubharathsimha539
      @kollurubharathsimha539 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      So true still one innocent kid took suicide in lacket room vedio footage case after five nothing changed and men sufferinv has been increased

  • @mageshgopi3594
    @mageshgopi3594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    On behalf of all the innocent men who suffered under this fake justice system, I would like to give her a big virtual hug. This world deserves more people like her.

  • @parupally6862
    @parupally6862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    Her husband is and always proud

  • @JoachimEriksson
    @JoachimEriksson 9 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    Had no idea this was happening in India. I think laws to protect women are important, but these Dowry laws do not seem fair.

    • @alienzenx
      @alienzenx 9 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Joachim Eriksson Why are laws to protect women important? I mean more important than a law to protect any human being? Laws should seek to protect the accused, not just the accuser. A person falsely accused of a crime is also a victim.

    • @zubindarbari4717
      @zubindarbari4717 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ***** We are not talking about 1st world country here so please don't do this.

    • @zubindarbari4717
      @zubindarbari4717 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ***** Show me one video where you have discussed legal terminalogies for people who are suffering which can seriously help them. Society is different there and here. Ask a girl out sexual harrasement case, hold onto something so that you do not fall and if that is by anyway connected to a woman sexual harrasement case. In India all cards are given to women and men don't have anything. If you are so interested in changing, make a petition on change.org and ask all your followers to sign and make a movement all of those here will support you.
      % of bitches in India are quite less than other countries [atleast in my experience] thats why I had a nice childhood with both my parents.
      All countries? Seriously? In UAE and ISIS region they are treated like things and if you think they should be treated that way you can go there too, we won't miss you.

    • @kawrno5396
      @kawrno5396 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dowry laws are similar to rape laws around the world. So...

    • @zubindarbari4717
      @zubindarbari4717 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well they aren't taken prima facie and you cannot drag a grandparents who are bedridden, kids [2 month old baby], relatives who don't live there, people who aren't present there nor dogs. [Yes even a dog is arrested for dowry law case]

  • @Menelik.videos
    @Menelik.videos 4 ปีที่แล้ว +788

    I always assumed men's rights violations were only in the Western world. Boy was I wrong.

    • @madmax3399
      @madmax3399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I always thought the other way😂

    • @k9cobra728
      @k9cobra728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      If I ruled a country then we'd be getting revenge

    • @k9cobra728
      @k9cobra728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Welcome Your Wish ikr
      Tats what ruins this speech for me is that a speech for men has to be spoken about by a woman for it to even be noticed and I don't like that

    • @soumyaoruganti9990
      @soumyaoruganti9990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@k9cobra728 well just think of it this way. The speaker is more of 'a person who noticed the vulnerabilities of men and the crimes committed against in the guise of achieving justice and someone who sympathizes and believe this must change' than just a 'woman'. I'm just happy someone is finally speaking up for men.

    • @shravansivakumar8706
      @shravansivakumar8706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Mahesh K
      Welp it's just that feminism didn't become radical or affect the Indian society I guess
      I hear less about violence against men here

  • @BoboTMC
    @BoboTMC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    That video of the man before his suicide made me genuinely cry. This is a real problem.

  • @payaldey8366
    @payaldey8366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Such a heartbreaking video.
    This is not equality or feminism.
    We need a gender equal society not a society ruled by women.
    We need justice for all the genders.
    Madam, you are doing a great job.

    • @moMdaD-fm3ng
      @moMdaD-fm3ng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Payal Dey thanks sister, at least there are some girls who understands men's problems, I wish more girls are like U, God Bless U ❤️🙏

    • @deeptibandi7963
      @deeptibandi7963 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      OK don't worry you you are already in men's world.Dont worry if someone asks you dowry and if someone abuse you and your parents only for the reason that you are a girl and if someone tell you not to look after your parents and you are born to look after his parents ,even though you are taken for granted, and if he doesn't even care for your parent.Finally Don't complain if they tell you to beget only boy child and even u work you can't

    • @nunceccemortiferiscultu7826
      @nunceccemortiferiscultu7826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @deepti bandi
      Brush up on your english before using it next lol.

    • @kohinoorbose3056
      @kohinoorbose3056 ปีที่แล้ว

      In India nothing will change female will fight like faminism is most important and men's will for patriarchy and one they will mess up and die

    • @eyeguy5679
      @eyeguy5679 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Divya Ahlawat its totally pathetic how selfish you all are
      Mgr merrko pta h tum logo ki psychology kaisi h
      Toh doesnt matter
      Try respecting a men rather than comparing like
      "Uffc Men... Oh yeah whatever"

  • @dibyendudas6288
    @dibyendudas6288 6 ปีที่แล้ว +867

    There is actually no law for men... eventually men will stop getting married, if this law goes on

    • @raheelbelal5848
      @raheelbelal5848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      Eventually? Most already have and gone MGTOW

    • @jimreimers4213
      @jimreimers4213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      It's called MGTOW.

    • @lkshpnd69
      @lkshpnd69 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      MGTOW

    • @Supiragon1998
      @Supiragon1998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@raheelbelal5848 Most is a big exaggeration.

    • @zenmonk29
      @zenmonk29 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Raheel Belal yep

  • @akshaystark1936
    @akshaystark1936 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2500

    Respect for Deepika padukone ---- 0%
    Respect for THIS LADY ---- 100%

  • @riturajsinghbais
    @riturajsinghbais 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I was framed in a fake harassment case during my 12th boards because the girl I liked from my class's boyfriend drunk called her father using my name and threatened her father in ODIA.. fun fact.. I can't speak odia, she knew it, her parents knew it.. she actually knew who that person was, but still didn't say a word and let me get arrested (my own father thrashed and took me to the cops, so you get the kind of morally straight family I come from).. I couldn't write my exams... Had to retake my
    exams a year later. This was all 14 years ago, but the wounds are still fresh. I still don't trust any woman nor do I intend to ever. No one can take that experience away from me. No one can convince me to move on, I have been scarred for life. Today that family is all jolly and happy. The girl is now married to some other guy and living in London with him, while I still can't have a conversation with my parents because even though the cops and her family finally figured out that I was innocent they all conveniently forgot to tell my parents that. My parents still believe that I was let go coz I was a kid. 😅 Some life huh?
    Oh and did I mention the part where my father was humiliated publicly by her father during his retirement ?
    Can't blame my father either... Had never seen my father cry up until that day. No wonder he hates me. No wonder whatever I do won't ever compensate for the shame he had to endure because of me. At this point I am just dead from the insides, but can't leave my parents alone either.
    Guess God is great huh? 😀

    • @tbys1416
      @tbys1416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Leave them. Live seperately

    • @maulipatel2946
      @maulipatel2946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I don’t know what to says …but bro I genuinely feels that you are strong guy😄

    • @vinayjaiswal1387
      @vinayjaiswal1387 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hope you get better bro.

    • @visarg9628
      @visarg9628 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don't worry this material world is meant for darkness and suffering. These are reactions of your past karmas, hope rises with a new day. Chant Hare Krsna n Be Happy!

    • @212letliveonearth
      @212letliveonearth ปีที่แล้ว +2

      bro i do think you should talk to your parents ...again its your choice but dont blame yourself for something you haven't done and as for the girl , trust me she will get her karma . and not all women are like that but i understand your mistrust and its ohk to not believe , its your personal choice ..just try to keep an open mind about people around you ... i hope you stay happy n healthy and your relationship with your parents improve

  • @yvtctc5161
    @yvtctc5161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I don't know wether you have experienced or not but we men were pressured by society during our teenage days

    • @sreekar.b.m4175
      @sreekar.b.m4175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes bro, but can't do anything about it, we have to accept and move on

  • @peterweb
    @peterweb 6 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    As a lawyer , i would like a big salute to you.

  • @eliasperez5693
    @eliasperez5693 6 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    I never knew of this problem India. I’ve heard of it in America, but it’s so much worse there. Thank you to deepika for showing the way laws are used to hurt men, and women too for that matter.

  • @poohwithtimbs7027
    @poohwithtimbs7027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Now this is an empowering, independent woman. God bless her 🙏

  • @cemera1599
    @cemera1599 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a brave woman. As a man i just cant thank you enough. Nowdays we need a woman to talk for us, because if we do, society doesn't take it seriously.

  • @Kaypop5199
    @Kaypop5199 8 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    Hats off to u Madam... I'm a girl, I'm proud of myself... but I'm not a feminist. We really need gender neutrality in our gender biased judiciary system. I have seen my brother, and many of my male friends crying for being accused of what they have not done. And who says you are anti-women, you are against crime and criminals, who are being protected in the name of gender. India needs women like u. So that men and women together can fight against crime and criminals. Women who are "HUMAN" and not so called "FEMINIST" will surely appreciate you and your initiative after watching this video.

    • @climberisjack
      @climberisjack 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I agree with you women who truly want gender equality/neutrailty will appreciate this video and those women who want female dominance in the name of feminism will not

    • @timserious7678
      @timserious7678 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Varsa Kujur .... thanks a lot ... i guess there are a few sane women in india.

    • @bashg8556
      @bashg8556 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Varsa Kujur exactly

    • @sayanghosh5462
      @sayanghosh5462 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Varsa kujur
      'Feminism' means equality
      There's absolutely nothing wrong in feminism. But people misusing this term which is really sad

    • @shivamdaskuldeep9711
      @shivamdaskuldeep9711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@sayanghosh5462 : feminism don't care about men

  • @VastKnowledge2023
    @VastKnowledge2023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +966

    It's funny how men stood up for women and changed things for women, eg abolish sati etc and now women stand up for men! Good karma I guess! Respect! Deepika Bhardwaj!

    • @hackerbhau1709
      @hackerbhau1709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      It's not about men or women it's about being human and In this greedy society there are very few left.

    • @tycoon8796
      @tycoon8796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@hackerbhau1709 hindustani bhai ka fan equality pe baat kra h? Nice 😀👍

    • @hideouslyugly8917
      @hideouslyugly8917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@tycoon8796 😂😂😂

    • @Watch102
      @Watch102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pranavvaishnave7648 yes u r right

    • @o5-12redacted9
      @o5-12redacted9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@pranavvaishnave7648 I have now collected enough information on you:
      You are Indian.
      You watch videos related to men's issue.
      you are a meme lover.

  • @thechaz83
    @thechaz83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Men are the forgotten gender until women need help, which is 99% of time.
    But I salute you for this talk. You’re a lovely person

    • @cottoncandykitten9802
      @cottoncandykitten9802 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Most m make sure they are the 'forgotten' gender' by masquerading as w. You do it to yourselves.

    • @fMONA94
      @fMONA94 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cottoncandykitten9802 how do they masquerade as women?

  • @bighneshbhoi
    @bighneshbhoi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    "It's about men, so I have to give you some evidence...cause when it's about women, you don't need any evidence"
    Practicality : 2021

  • @MrLDS
    @MrLDS 5 ปีที่แล้ว +542

    U r truly ,a woman which a society needs. I SALUTE U

    • @arthurmorgan6358
      @arthurmorgan6358 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She should be the next American president.

    • @nandhakishor103
      @nandhakishor103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@arthurmorgan6358 y not India?

    • @Watch102
      @Watch102 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      mee too

    • @joshithaa5596
      @joshithaa5596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      *a true human which society needs

    • @judeknowles2319
      @judeknowles2319 ปีที่แล้ว

      @nandhakishor2659 Why not the world

  • @ukdave472
    @ukdave472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    I am 41 and I must say this video is as true as the sun. Appreciate her initiative

  • @aymankhanvlogs8868
    @aymankhanvlogs8868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    A man is loved by only 2 people in this world who is
    Mom&Dad💗

    • @izack367
      @izack367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @The Destroyed yes way!!

  • @aclevercookie
    @aclevercookie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    NOVEMBER 19th is INTERNATIONAL MEN'S DAY...
    I REPEAT 19TH OF NOVEMBER IS INTERNATIONAL MEN'S DAY.. REMEMBER AND MAKE OTHERS REMEMBER IT AS WELL❤️

    • @apurvanair2056
      @apurvanair2056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Is it? Fuck....I as a man didn't know this 🥲

    • @oofbruh6149
      @oofbruh6149 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@apurvanair2056 dude me neither like during women's day everyone tells you it's women's day but why not in men's days

    • @apurvanair2056
      @apurvanair2056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@oofbruh6149 It's actually getting cringe bro. The manosphere is growing day by day and that's a good sign! So I feel our future generations will not have to face this nonsense. It has become slightly late but people are realising so that's a positive.

  • @1650tigameplay
    @1650tigameplay 6 ปีที่แล้ว +343

    Someone give this woman a NOBEL PEACE PRIZE ALREADY

    • @robinsonwright9623
      @robinsonwright9623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Nobel prize is for frauds.

    • @meghanachauhan9380
      @meghanachauhan9380 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@robinsonwright9623 This.

    • @TAPriceCTR
      @TAPriceCTR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I applaud her, but what elevates her above the honey badger bregade? I say give one to Karen straughan first. Then the other badgers and prim. Then this woman.

    • @exterminator4808
      @exterminator4808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Peace? Equality is not peace.

    • @shadowbannedmgtowman9045
      @shadowbannedmgtowman9045 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Women just need to open their ears

  • @swaraj1
    @swaraj1 9 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    she could make things more clearer , I mean the situation is worse ,I have heard many Indian men saying that they don't want to get married only because of these laws like 498A

    • @vinayake7961
      @vinayake7961 9 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      agree that a lots of Indians do NOT want to marry... but still far too many ARE marrying and that's why nothing is changing !! :-(

    • @coolpras26
      @coolpras26 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ganga Din That's sad and stupid too. Marriage market? Nieces and nephews? unmarried weirdo? Really? None of that makes sense. Marriage is a personal decision and should be only between a man and a woman. No one else. Sure, others can be consulted. But they can't force you. But yes, India is a different ball game altogether. People have a problem with someone not getting married, BUT they are ok with false allegations and people either committing suicide or spending their life in jail WITHOUT having done any crime at all.

    • @coweatsman
      @coweatsman 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ganga Din
      Still India has a history of spiritual leaders virtually going ghost, at least for a while.

    • @coolpras26
      @coolpras26 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ganga Din I'm afraid I don't know anything about India. Been living in India for quarter of a century. I know nothing I'm afraid. Awwww

    • @darknight651
      @darknight651 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      +SS_war Even animals have sex and live happily with their pair.these feminazis have spoiled india.in india you cant get laid and you not even marry.

  • @mylomodi5677
    @mylomodi5677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Brought tears to my eyes ... Tnk u mam . Its not everyday we see people talk about us .. We r alwys thought to b bold hearted and yes we r but that is what we r taught since childhood ... But nobody knows what we go through in order to act brave in order to prove ourselves as a strong man .. Its hard to b a man . Man also needs protection and support... Man also wants to feel special.

  • @KingKhan-bi7kb
    @KingKhan-bi7kb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    A women like her in a marriage would make the life heaven for the family.

    • @moMdaD-fm3ng
      @moMdaD-fm3ng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes agree with U 👍
      A Man will be lucky to get a Woman like Deepika Ma'am , really she's💎

  • @warrengouldthorpe5091
    @warrengouldthorpe5091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +789

    This is one of the reasons why I will never get married

    • @_prash
      @_prash 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😂😂

    • @flinggonza5688
      @flinggonza5688 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Just because there are a few bad women, doesnt mean all of them are

    • @bigmeatymemes3632
      @bigmeatymemes3632 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Fling Gonza still, I’m with em. I am not getting married because how are we supposed to know what kind of women it is? How are we supposed to know that she isn’t some gold digger?

    • @M0nst3rGamingyt
      @M0nst3rGamingyt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Me neither

    • @jackhudson551
      @jackhudson551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      u r super intelligent

  • @VelkPwnsAll
    @VelkPwnsAll 6 ปีที่แล้ว +416

    I thought laws in America on men were bad. I mean we get a royally bad deal here, but I never realized our brothers in India man got it way worse. I wish I had had a woman like Deepika to speak up for me when I needed it most and learning what I just learned in this video I only hope she can make a difference in other peoples lives in India so atleast no more families suffer from this injustice anymore.

    • @santoshjain5696
      @santoshjain5696 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      stay MGTOW

    • @rajeshsharmajaipur
      @rajeshsharmajaipur 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      We Indian Mens too are victim of Feminazzis....

    • @diannal2277
      @diannal2277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Shivam Nyati Wow

    • @andysibaja8666
      @andysibaja8666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      it's world wide bro, wherever there is feminism, there is a deal more of pseudo-feminism

    • @p.stephen5032
      @p.stephen5032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Most women from India that I know of have everyone thinking they have it so terrible as a woman. Even had me fooled 😳

  • @amarendramijhar8936
    @amarendramijhar8936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Girls: we need more humans like her
    Ladies: Nah! WE need to be like her

    • @CyberPunkBadGuy
      @CyberPunkBadGuy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wont happen all talk anyways
      women tend to do nothing but complain or only talk to look good or then get men to do something,
      they dont really care unless they are benefitting and they are not benefitting from men not suffering.

    • @eyeguy5679
      @eyeguy5679 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mast joke maara re

  • @swatit6394
    @swatit6394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I stand for the wonderful, husbands, working men, boyfriends, fathers, brothers, sons, male friends. You are precious for us.
    To all the Woman who are working, who are housewives, mothers, female friends, daughters sisters and girlfriends.
    I condemn man with loose thinking who objectify woman.
    I condemn Woman who are toxic, who mentally abuse their partners by false allegations.
    By pressurising their partners for more money to satisfy personal luxuries.
    lets make laws which adress man's safety, so they don't fear of false allegations.
    Lets work for everyone's progress by adressing their concerns, so none is left behind.
    Lets not degrade the other in order to keep one at higher pedestal.

  • @Rey-Nolds
    @Rey-Nolds 4 ปีที่แล้ว +660

    Women won't get until it happens to their sons, and some still won't care even then. It's good to know a quality thinking individual as you are is speaking loudly.

    • @classydays43
      @classydays43 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      "oh no.. even my own son is a worthless animal! If I had a daughter, none of this would have happened!"

    • @classydays43
      @classydays43 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @krishna op I was... Making a hypothetical quote based on Rey's original comment...

    • @anti-school6771
      @anti-school6771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@classydays43 why its so similar to what my mother said bruh

    • @classydays43
      @classydays43 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@anti-school6771 F

    • @pianoslayer2516
      @pianoslayer2516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      My mom certainly wouldn't care, so even for a son it isn't enough.

  • @jiya9warrior
    @jiya9warrior 8 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Deepika maam, hats off to you. I am a girl and i am feeling very proud of you for taking up this issue. You are standing for a right cause unlike so called 'feminists' who are doing almost everything which is feminism not about. please let me know if i can be of any help in your project

    • @weirdverma
      @weirdverma 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Jiya That rare Indian girl here. Proud of you as well ma'am. Renu Sharma and some other feminists are just here to deride the narrative coz it doesn't suit their palate. Stand up for equalism not feminism or Mennism

  • @hrishikeshananth8996
    @hrishikeshananth8996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    In my school, Our principal and teachers always tease, abuse and in front of everyone tell us that we are not trustworthy and insult us by calling us idiots compared to girls, Right now we had completed our ICSE 10 and most of the boys including me got more than 90%, and only one girl got, 93% but when our school released their annual book, in that they only mentioned names if the girls as toppers who got less than us! One of my friend got 98% yet his name was not there and I got 95%! Please help women don't curse for things we have not done!

    • @scarface1974
      @scarface1974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Brother I was in icse too it has happened in my school as well once there was this girl who called me a terrorist she said I looked like kasab that really hurt me but what could I hve done

    • @someoneyouprobablyknowandl9964
      @someoneyouprobablyknowandl9964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's sad but first off, ICSE 2020 was a huge mass of confusion. Secondly, girls do score more than boys in ICSE.

    • @toma4474
      @toma4474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@someoneyouprobablyknowandl9964 they’re given marks only for being girls. Female teachers always facilitate female students and for male teacher it’s out of their control.

    • @music_994
      @music_994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      When Any Bronchure is made about schools in front page you will Find the pictures of girls as it shows That They are More educated and Are talent. in the same way when A Re-exam Is going to be held They show the Photo of boys Like they are failure.?

    • @methcat5005
      @methcat5005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow what school is this? How can they do this so openly? I mean if they did this here all the kids would have vandalized the whole school.

  • @urmichatterjee8127
    @urmichatterjee8127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    My bro has suffered the same terror. I know what it feels

  • @OuroborosChoked
    @OuroborosChoked 8 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    Ah... that's why Western Feminism isn't needed in India: it's already there.

    • @Kami-Sama197
      @Kami-Sama197 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      yeah. And currently MRA have also started in India. Soon i guess in 10 to 20 years with continuous efforts, India will finally be egalitarian 😊😂😂 so much fucking time

    • @OuroborosChoked
      @OuroborosChoked 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***** Me or Kami?
      If me: no. I don't have any idea who that is. Unless someone was pretending to be me...

    • @Kami-Sama197
      @Kami-Sama197 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***** what interview??

    • @annanussecke9251
      @annanussecke9251 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha

  • @vijaymelodies
    @vijaymelodies 9 ปีที่แล้ว +450

    Thanks Deepika, You should be the next prime minister of India. Thanks for showing Gender equality. A True women of India. God bless you.

    • @stephaniejade7056
      @stephaniejade7056 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gender equality??? There is no gender war except the ones males believe in. Blame your patriarchal fathers if you have even an ounce of courage to do so.

    • @naochahk2629
      @naochahk2629 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Stephanie Jade patriarcy was prevalent cause its was a war time where women need protction from men ..... were no contraceptics prevailed where women need dependent from man in every step

    • @monkeymind3067
      @monkeymind3067 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Stephanie Jade patriarchy is the foundation of Society
      Your gender equality lacks family and fertility rate
      Every great Society starts with Patriarchcy and collapses with gender equality

    • @monkeymind3067
      @monkeymind3067 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Fairness is very expensive illusion created by pulling men down , when men fed up , gov will run out of money and the illusion disappears life will re-asserts itself
      Patriarchcal Society is human nature Society

    • @nathanbarucha3944
      @nathanbarucha3944 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Idiotics like Stephanie Jade is the reason why women have hard time accepting the fact that gender equality is almost achieved from women's perspective.

  • @antaripbiswas3783
    @antaripbiswas3783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    Stay Single. Stay Safe!

  • @babulalyogi1952
    @babulalyogi1952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Today I feel bad because I saw this video after so many years.....
    Hats off to you sister...🙏🙏🙏

  • @andrewshort133
    @andrewshort133 8 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    Women never realize men trials and tribulations until it effects them personally or I.e. Her Family

    • @mjhplayers6896
      @mjhplayers6896 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well sir, some do and some don't.. 😊

    • @brianbay370
      @brianbay370 8 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      +Andrew Short Unless they are victim's mothers they are benefiting from these laws so i will say most of the women won't respond for men's right. I respect Deepika Bhardwaj.

    • @nasanasa8470
      @nasanasa8470 8 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      It's not just women. It's men as well. If a man in India complains about rape, men laugh at him!

    • @stephaniejade7056
      @stephaniejade7056 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This talk is so biased.

    • @stephaniejade7056
      @stephaniejade7056 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Andrew: maybe buck the man-box patriarchal system and being communicating in non-violent ways so people can hear you? Why does it feel so good to blame women for your silence, oh right, because patriarchy dictates the you should. Very sad indeed.

  • @Shivangi1524
    @Shivangi1524 5 ปีที่แล้ว +703

    Men really do suffer a lot. They just don't speak up. But they really need to do it now.

    • @shivamdaskuldeep9711
      @shivamdaskuldeep9711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      When we do, women call it mansplaining

    • @bigtoblerone8446
      @bigtoblerone8446 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      They speak up, they just never get taken seriously becuz most people are effected by media bias like she explained.

    • @devolishash3946
      @devolishash3946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Speak up to whom ? It is a fact that women, in general, do not want to listen to men's pain and suffering. Women may say they want to but they really don't. They see men who are suffering as whinners, weak, unreliable, dependent.... . That is why men are confused nowadays, we criticize and shame them and tell them it is because of their toxic masculinity that they do not open up, but when they try to speak up no one wants to listen to them. Watch the 'red pill raw files' (with the psychologist one).

    • @hainleysimpson1507
      @hainleysimpson1507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      No one cares or listens what's the point when no one listens? I've lost all trust or faith in any authority.

    • @bigtoblerone8446
      @bigtoblerone8446 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@devolishash3946 that's absolutely true too.
      I've seen the Red Pill documentary twice now, but i haven't watched all those extra interviews not in the movie, only some of them.
      I might have already seen the one you are talking about, but if not, link please? :)

  • @amitanand6683
    @amitanand6683 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1.3m views only 50k likes that explains how much care is given to this subject!! And you are right, 95% viewers are men!!

  • @rounitbaran5371
    @rounitbaran5371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "when we talk about men ...we have to give evidences"....this hits hard

  • @hallelujah1236
    @hallelujah1236 5 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    Everyone should be respected whether man or woman. Period.

    • @DhirajKumar-do5mp
      @DhirajKumar-do5mp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Man or Woman or Animal. Every living species mUST be respected equally.

    • @bakusatou7214
      @bakusatou7214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@DhirajKumar-do5mp So if an animal kills a person or another animal they should be put down? If an animal enters in a store they should be treated like a men or a women? If an animal like some speacies out there that like shiny things or are trained for stealing actually steals something they should be in court being judge and waiting for a sentence? Also their rights and i know there are animal rights but you are saying all equally rights? So an animal can have a job and get payed, an animal can be judge, an animal can get married, an animal can have a right to vote an animal can have the right of living in a society with others, all animals can have the same rights as we right? Im not against animals btw i love animals but we gotta be realistic here not thinking that its all sunshine and rainbows.
      Also about Men and Women are totaly different both physically and mentaly, thats why certain jobs or activities are better for Men and others are better for Women, there will be always a difference and it doesn't matter if we change the laws or the system, Men and Women will always be different, we can sure be treated equally and i also defend that but at the end we will always have a barrier that seperates both and that can't be changed.

    • @LoneWolf-fx9lm
      @LoneWolf-fx9lm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Respect is EARNED,not Given

    • @niaj9341
      @niaj9341 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or anybody who identifies as neither* just trying to be inclusive of EVERYBODY!

    • @someoneyouprobablyknowandl9964
      @someoneyouprobablyknowandl9964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@LoneWolf-fx9lm You are talking about a different kind of respect. The OP talks about the basic respect of existing as a human being.

  • @Ruby543ify
    @Ruby543ify 9 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    I had witnessed a scene in a bus in Hyderabad. A 30-40 year old woman was talking rudely to an elderly man who obviously had difficulty standing for even a minute. The old man felt insulted and he gave up the fight while she went on dragging the issue. As a woman, I felt "What would a man do if he is being polite only to get insulted in return? Does he really deserve that?"
    I told her there are other places where young women are seated and she could take one of those seats and leave the seat reserved for the elderly. She said "You better keep out of it kiddo". What do we do in such circumstances? I felt petite because not even one woman standing next to me spoke in my support. Instead, they asked me to avoid it. That day I realized why men and women in our society hate to even look into each others' eyes and have friendly conversations and sadly, we don't even greet each other. Aren't we supposed to feel "They're our fellow citizens" or simply... "They're human beings"! This is just a small incident which could have been solved immediately. I'm sure that the old man would have dreaded next time to even ask for a seat!
    Times have changed and so should the laws. Wasn't justice supposed to be in favor of the right?

    • @ROHANDHARESH
      @ROHANDHARESH 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Rabia S
      @2010
      We are born in a society where marriage is treated as sacrosanct,
      something which was fixed in heaven. It is a relationship valid not only
      in this life but also in lives yet to come. Nevertheless, this
      relationship is changing and law has played a very important role in
      altering this relationship. The legislature drafted these laws to
      protect the vulnerable women in the relationship, but while doing that
      didn’t keep in consideration abuse of these laws by not so vulnerable
      women. The judiciary, while sympathizing with the tears of women, didn’t
      recognize the fact that these may be crocodile tears. Due to these
      reasons these laws has become a tool to harass husbands, extort money
      from husbands and their family, to torture hapless women of the husbands
      family. In short, these laws have made marriage more a legal
      relationship than a social relationship.
      The law presumes, everybody
      knows laws. Marriage is a voluntary relationship, in the sense that
      till this point of time there is no law which can compel a man to marry
      (although in practice some women have compel men to marry them by
      leveling false allegation of rape against them. The recent case of
      suicide by an ex-Army officer is a cse in point where the man committed
      suicide due to pressure to marriage and in case of denial threat of
      false cases.). Thus every man must know the legal provisions before he
      enters into the legal relationship of marriage. If he enters without
      knowing these provisions, he cannot blame any other persons for that.
      However, it is the duty of legal practitioners and social workers to
      make tem aware of these laws so that nobody enters into a legal
      relationship of marriage without knowing its implications. Slowly and
      steadily the number of law governing the relationship between husband
      and wife is increasing. One thing is common in all laws- they are
      prejudiced and biased against the men in the sense that they give rights
      only to the wives and imposes duties only to the husband. Further the
      language of the law is such that it facilitates abuse of these laws
      against the husband and his family members. And in fact also the wives
      are systematically abusing these laws. These laws were primarily
      designed to protect the vulnerable women in our society but the working
      of these laws suggest that they have become more a weapon of harassment
      and extortion in the hand of not so vulnerable women. The Hindu Marriage
      Act and the Hindu Adoption and Maintenance Act impose a duty upon the
      husband to maintain their wife. However a person can claim maintenance
      only if he/she is not able to maintain himself/herself. The term is
      ability or potential to maintain and not mere inability to maintain at
      any point of time. However, a survey of the judgments will clearly shows
      that even when the wife was able bodies and educated then also the
      courts have granted maintenance. Further, these two Acts are not
      sufficient and the Criminal Court is empowered to grant maintenance as
      per section 125 of the Code of Criminal Procedure. More Acts for the
      same relief means that the wife has more avenues to harass a husband
      through the process of Court. We can see that a wife has a right to
      maintenance- but what is her duty. Law says nothing. If she abuses the
      husband, then also she can claim maintenance. If she beats her
      mother-in-law, then also she can claim maintenance. Thus a wife has no
      duty, only rights. Just maintenance is not something to be very worried
      about. What is more important that the wife has been given power to send
      the husband and his family members to the prison at wish? Under section
      498A of the Indian Penal Code a wife can complain that she has been
      treated with cruelty for dowry and name anybody in the relatives of the
      husband. What is cruelty or what is dowry, nobody knows. A gift to
      husband is dowry but a gift to wife is streedhan. A husband should not
      demand any consideration for marriage, but a girl has a right to look
      for a wealthy husband with a fat pay packet; it is not dowry, it is
      pragmatism. The law says giving dowry is as criminal as taking dowry,
      the wife screams that she has given dowry, but the law does not take any
      action against her- this is women empowerment. Under this Section
      octogenarian grand mom of husbands are being prosecuted for harassment-
      this is power of wife. Just these are not sufficient. If your wife
      commits suicide, invariably you will be prosecuted under Section 304B of
      the IPC. Here, even the prosecution has not prove many thing, Section
      113A is there in the Evidence Act to presume your guilt. When men commit
      suicide, the law is silent. After all men can commit suicide for so
      many reasons- wife can commit suicide only after harassment by husband
      and his family. So what, the suicide statistics shows that more men
      commit suicide. Once any of these cases are registered against you few
      things are certain-like you are likely to loose your job. You will be
      merely suspended if you are in government service. You will spend a
      couple of months in jail before the bail. In jail too you will have full
      company of your family members. Finally, you will be granted bail and
      the trial begins. What will happen in trial, I don’t know. Indian
      Criminal Justice system is totally biased against the accused. That is
      why making allegation in India has become an industry. It is a tool of
      legal extortion in the hand of police and false accusers. Well, the
      purpose of this article is merely informing the worse half of the
      population the legal consequence of marriage and their vulnerably, if
      they decide to marry. Difficult to imagine-even now men marry. In any
      case old habits die hard. There is no solution. We are living in Rule of
      Law and when the law is tyrannical and prejudiced, you cannot have a
      solution. But, the risk can be reduced by taking recourse to written
      contract at the time of marriage. It is a good idea to enter into
      written contract at the time of marriage with your would be wife. No law
      prohibits such type of contract. The contract can make provisions for
      expenses of marriage ceremony, list of gifts received, the couple
      decision regarding maintenance, child custody and all other items, which
      the couple feels necessary to incorporate in the written contract. It
      may seem nauseating to introduce the idea of contract in marriage, but
      it is better as law has already entered into marriage. Written contract
      is just one mutually agreed way to reduce the rigor of falsehood in
      deposition before the court. It is better to catch up a lawyer before
      the police catch up with you.

    • @ethbaha6166
      @ethbaha6166 9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Rabia S it is surprising to see some women r not selfish and speak for the rights of men. people think nothing is needed for men. it went too far to a level rights of men as a human being r totally ignored. i personally like all women who speak for men. u r boy friend is lucky

    • @ankanbads
      @ankanbads 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I've been commuting on public busses for more than 10 years and never I've seen a woman gave her seat up for an elderly man. In fact they proudly claim their 'ladies' privileged seat from an elderly man if there is one.

    • @weirdverma
      @weirdverma 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      AnkG EXACTLY!

    • @stephaniejade7056
      @stephaniejade7056 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Deepika has done nothing with this talk but fuel woman-bashing. Congratulations Deepaki.

  • @chinmayihegde-jss1398
    @chinmayihegde-jss1398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She is the first person I have come across who has raised a topic like this! If a woman is abused by a man an outrage breaks out, but if a woman abuses a man there are just murmurs of it. Abuse is abuse, no matter the gender. Bcs of the stereotype that women are generally weaker than men, even the person completely on the side of gender equality will have this in their mind unknowingly, you can't get rid of it. It is drilled in our minds by the society. Most don't take in to consideration that men can be weak too. Weaker than women. Women can be be strong too. Stronger than men. This that she is speaking about, _that_ is gender equality. In the name of gender equality, don't you also think we've gone a bit far in partially supporting women alone? Don't get me wrong, all the efforts for women equality was worth it. Some women to date face discrimination too. But I fell we have mostly overlooked the true meaning of the term _equality_. Don't judge me, I'm a 13 yr old girl. I'm not male, and neither is the speaker, Deepika Bharadwaj.

  • @roshanverma4678
    @roshanverma4678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Neha dhupiya: its her choice. Who gave you the f**king right ro slap her
    And neha dhupiya on another conservation.
    Neha dhupia: so you had two boyfriends?
    Girl: no these were those whom i hit / slap and i had many boyfriends.
    Neha dhupiya:hahahaha

    • @4thwall880
      @4thwall880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Neha chutiya

    • @mgtow-strongandindependent7416
      @mgtow-strongandindependent7416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      more like neha chootiya

    • @tasin6459
      @tasin6459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She is a killer of masculine salvation. 😑😑😑

    • @tangocharlieize
      @tangocharlieize 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lol....I feel so sorry for her husband

    • @Unknownguy060
      @Unknownguy060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Neha dhupia is sick girl no one likes her........

  • @sd4534alfa
    @sd4534alfa 9 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    Its very shameful for Indian people that not a single women have written any comment here or share there views after seeing this videos.

    • @jonathansmall4573
      @jonathansmall4573 9 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      sourav dey One Ms. Renu Sharma wrote a comment. But she has tried to discredit everything that Deepika said and also has disabled the reply option. :P

    • @jonathansmall4573
      @jonathansmall4573 9 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      ***** I shared this in my FB page. Not a single woman has yet commented. A few guys have liked it though. I even tried tagging my feminist female friends. Usually when I post something about men's rights and tag them, they come and attack me vehemently and try to discredit everything shown in the video. But this time it is an Indian woman in the video and the feminazis don't have anything to say.

    • @mercyritz1311
      @mercyritz1311 9 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      I'm a woman (18 years, but still) from India. I'm a 100% with Deepika on this issue. If you're in the wrong, then you must be punished for it regardless of your gender. I have to thank Deepika for enlightening me on this issue as I have fallen trap to the thinking of how women have it worse in India than men (media outlets regurgitate this). I feel extremely bad for the men and their families who have had to go through such an ordeal and may those who have committed suicide rest in peace (although it doesn't offer much help). I support any human being who has actually been wronged in their fight for justice. I am disappointed that so many women have misused the law. At this point, the word feminism seems to have lost its meaning to me and regardless of what it stands for in definition, a more gender-neutral term must be used. We should definitely spread more awareness about this video and its message.

    • @wisdomworshipper2666
      @wisdomworshipper2666 9 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      There is a reason why misandry is becoming prevalent throughout the world, google this ( Gender Differences in Automatic In-Group Bias: Why Do Women Like Women More Than Men Like Men?) also watch this in youtube (How feminism conned society, and other not-so-tall tales) it is from karen straughan.
      There is also a very good reason why the mgtow philosophy is spreading like a wildfire in the western hemisphere.
      Översätt

    • @prabhakylas2499
      @prabhakylas2499 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Mercyritz13 "a more gender-neutral term must be used..." how about humanism?

  • @hadsha
    @hadsha 9 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Even I was accused by my maternal aunt under this 498 A .. I was just 10 years old then. She accused whole of my family of 14 members under this law .. among them there were senior citizens ageing around 85 - 90 year old and kids from 5 - 14 year old. Thank god a social activist stepped in and saved us from getting behind bars.

    • @hadsha
      @hadsha 9 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      '' A cry of wolf is made too often ., assistance and protection may not appear wen actual wolf appears ''

    • @aprilfraser3818
      @aprilfraser3818 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow. I'm glad someone stepped in to help you guys.

    • @sololife1909
      @sololife1909 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello I am now fully enjoying freedom, earning money, spending it For travel, no one bothers me.i am experiencing MGTOW is the best ever lifestyle after broken 7year of married relationship.

  • @hobbithallows
    @hobbithallows 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Empowering one section of society doesn’t mean threatening other part. Much needed video 👏👏
    If goal is empowerment, then empowering should be done. Dragging others right for rebellion is empowering no one, benefits no one.
    High time laws should be evolved, which considers everyone. It should be blind with respect to who is asking for justice.

    • @priyarajansamberi4085
      @priyarajansamberi4085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some women crying in comments section for this video....
      But it is sad truth they can't digest truth 😄

  • @pulkit0g
    @pulkit0g 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That's an example of Women, Society deserves.
    Sheer Respect!

  • @DabirAffan
    @DabirAffan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    The real woman made for the rights of men. Respect, hats off... full support to you.

  • @aleenaprasannan2146
    @aleenaprasannan2146 7 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    When I was in college, I heard one night that a guy and a girl were shouting really bad profanities at each other. We just laughed it off and went to bed. Here is how things escalated. The guy was a senior, so verbal abuse was used to frame a ragging case against him. The use of profanities were used to device rape threat accusation. Of course, nobody cared that the girl also shouted back awesome swears. Very interestingly, on the same day a students union group with mainstream political association came with demonstrations and all for expelling the guys. Almost too quickly a channel heavily biased towards the same political party, started flashnewsing this with his name, department & bach, native address and magically 'rape threat' became 'rape attempt' while reporting. Media did a very convincing job so that the whole neighborhood and extended family of the guy was informed that he was a criminal. Of course, the identity​ of the 'victim' was never revealed, so nobody (except the students in the uni) knew she (a budding young politician) was the daughter of (guess what) a very influential politician of the same party involved. These two where from the same state, so the students association of that particular state tried to make​ peace. Girls in the association started to get anonymous rape threat texts and phone calls, and boys got beaten up in the hostels. As per the Uni's law, she should have complained to university authorities first and then with their knowledge and approval should she have complained to the police. So she was also suspended along with the accused, since she didn't approach the University before approaching the police or media. This hurt her pride so much that she and the students' party started a hunger strike.

    • @timwilson4772
      @timwilson4772 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Aleena Prasannan I am sure she was having cheat meals during that "hunger strike".

    • @soubhikbiswas4420
      @soubhikbiswas4420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@timwilson4772 You right bro this happens all the time.

    • @worthstover6691
      @worthstover6691 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Aleena Prasannan hopefully they starved to death

    • @medexamtoolsdotcom
      @medexamtoolsdotcom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It would have been just as bad if she HAD approached the university as per their policy. Their own personal kangaroo court would have hung the man by his balls just as surely as the media did, it's not like it would have gone any differently, he'd have gotten no due process either way.

  • @harindranath5321
    @harindranath5321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Prahlad is always born in rakshas family to correct the wrong doings of the rakshasas. The same way Deepika is fighting for men's rights being a woman. Thank you Deepika ji. Keep it up. God bless you.

  • @shiva.r.b
    @shiva.r.b 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I m completely in support with Deepika mam👍🙏

  • @anilchandelia6667
    @anilchandelia6667 5 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    Men also human
    Gender never be a crime
    We need amendment in our constitution
    I support gender neutral law
    We need men's commission

  • @robertwiegman1
    @robertwiegman1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    So cool to see a woman stand up for men who need it.

    • @timhoward5
      @timhoward5 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      When are Men ever gonna stand up for themselves?

    • @RealestGoober.
      @RealestGoober. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@timhoward5 they try but women either call the man an incel or laugh at them.

    • @timhoward5
      @timhoward5 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RealestGoober. So...

    • @noobtextwritergamer
      @noobtextwritergamer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@timhoward5 no one takes them seriously.

    • @timhoward5
      @timhoward5 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@noobtextwritergamer When I mean by that is getting into authorative positions and start changing the laws and enforcing.

  • @asesane
    @asesane 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Omg I needed this ❤️❤️❤️ Just joined the men’s rights movement groups .. I’m joining the fight 💪🏼

  • @MrSpiritsurf
    @MrSpiritsurf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are truly courageous Madam!!! You are a true woman, a symbol of sensitivity and compassion. God bless you. You speak the truth.

  • @canadianaja8030
    @canadianaja8030 7 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Indian men need a Tom Leykis 101 course. Stop marrying period until the laws change.

    • @wonderhemi
      @wonderhemi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U r shit.

    • @jordanhart2910
      @jordanhart2910 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      9-5? What world are you in? Try 6am-9pm. Have fun.

    • @bodob280
      @bodob280 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Men shouldn't marry Even the low is nutral. It's like deth sentence

    • @MrLDS
      @MrLDS 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

  • @anthonyc70
    @anthonyc70 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I am not in a relationship. I hear these stories..and more and more each day...I'm avoiding them. I swear I will never get involved.
    Such relationships are costly. Money, assets...reputation...and yes even the burden weighed upon their relaives.
    What has happened to us as a society?

  • @SFunnyStories
    @SFunnyStories 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you very much Deepika. I'm glad to see women like you, it gives me the encouragement I need in fighting for men.

  • @MrEaziness
    @MrEaziness 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thankyou so much Deepika ji. Finally seeing someone who has the courage to show the truth.