Real talk. I honestly felt a little weird about this show set up. After a few months, I see this is great emotional development for Harper and the teens who watch this. They see what a positive relationship with friends look like.
@@emma_blaykecash is there but he was rude the whole time when Harper was trying to tell her story he was speaking over her make joke in a serious moment and asking stupid questions(no hate to cash)
@@tahishavidama9353 Ohh. I just didn't see him. I just started watching, so I'm on the 15th episode, I think. I didn't know if he was sick or smth and couldn't make it.
@@urfavcrybaby2 sorry that you didn’t watch the episode I did and he keep making it as a joke and his facial expressions were making it look like and sounded like he was not serious they explain already 2 episodes ago
Everyone is saying that men cry too. And they know that. But what she meant is that most men can pretend they are okay or hold back their tears better than women. Or they don’t even have the need to cry. I hope that people know what I mean
No it’s that we have to or women lose attraction. Y’all love the fantasy that men can protect and everything will be ok, but once the fantasy is broken the the attraction fades.
A good message but men can and are built to have strong feelings too but don't always show it because of the pressure to be "manly" just know your feelings are valid man or woman ❤
Your feelings ARE valid. She never said they weren’t. Just that men and women express emotions differently. Women are more outwardly emotional and men feel it inside more, but are outwardly composed
The only problem I have on this matter is that she said women are mental to have and feel emotions... Can we break some stigmas here? Men and women are equally able to feel, show and express emotions... And still be so very strong
Yes and no. Of course a man has to be somehow stronger or intimidating…at least for the ego. Me, as a man, I wouldn’t want to cry in front of a camera, strangers or friends. Parents and maybe girlfriend, but otherwise no.
@@DaftyBoi412 That’s just the way men are supposed to be…yes, men can cry, I did cry a lot of time too. But it’s not something a man should be proud of…I am already ashamed of saying that I cried on internet.
@chikiboon No. They meant, little girls are HARDLY ever told not to cry societally. Only if her parents were seriously irregular to societal standards would that occur. Men growing up are the ones SOCIETALLY pressured not to cry. Completely normalized. This video for instance. "We're women, we're supposed to have emotions like that", which directly implies in contrast that men aren't societally expected to have emotions like that.
It’s not just women who have strong emotions it’s just that guys feel the need to hide it because the world makes guys out to be so tough and emotionless
Well I think it’s just in our nature to not let other people see our emotions, not like it’s bad that we don’t let everyone see them. It comes across as weak which is not something any real man wants to experience.
@@theyungvecThere will never be something called a "real" man becuase the way men are viewed over the years changed , back in the 1800s-1700s it was seen as manly to cry even depicted in plays, in the bible (if you're religious) there is a verse that says "Jesus wept" meaning that if the 1800s men saw the men now they'd wonder why these men aren't "real" men, crying is an emotion and it shouldn't be seen as weak especially when it has to so with struggles or issues within one's life. When you cancel out emotion in a human , essentially you just become nothing (imo) like a robot. In my opinion a real man isn't afraid to show emotions, they're able to control their emotions but when things get tough they know when it's time to reach out for help , or cry to a close friend. This is just my opinion though
As a man we both men and women have the same emotions and capacity but women express because people will listen to them but men won’t because they know that society never really cares about our feelings so we see no need to express it because it could just get worse. Society needs to stop giving men crap because we aren’t robots, we have feelings too
Men and women have the same capacity for emotions! It’s very harmful to insinuate men shouldn’t cry, or that they are unlikely too. Some men cry more than some women.
yeah. its mostly men who dont cry nowdays because theres so much lgbtq so straight men have to "be tough and not cry" like bruh, they think gay people and stuff are pussies
i love how sweet maverick and kate are to harper. kate is always just so loving and sure mav makes jokes and teasing harper but when it matters he is always there for her.💗
@@realpanterafan ha, yeah if you see someone cry one time and then reference it constantly it is a bitch thing to do, you’re just glazing a little girl.
Emotion is not based on gender. As a man, there have been many times I was curled up in the fetal position bawling my eyes out on the inside but felt that if I broke, everything around me would too. We do feel. We do care. We do hurt. We do cry. It just won’t be in front of you.
Yea, I'm sure Kate gets that, but women and girls tend to have many hormones that will contribute strongly to emotions, especially in adolescence, which is one factor but also women tend to express emotions more as well. I'm not saying guys don't get emotions and don't cry. Of course they do.
it’s so sweet that harper was so set on releasing the episode so that other people would relate and feel known. just shows how much she truly loves and appreciates her followers🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
Kate and Mav are such whole hearted people. Mav is like a brother to Harper, he “bullys” her but when she’s upset he’s there for her. Kate is so kind and would be such an awesome mom. This is so sweet!!! ❤😊
As much as I love the support they offer her, I don’t like the idea that “women are more emotional than men” which simply isn’t true. I feel like women tend to cry more often than men, but that’s due to the pressure put on boys/men to be “strong” and to not show your emotions because you’ll be seen as weak. So it gets bottled up until they can’t take it anymore and release it as a different emotion; anger. I only say this because I hope we can all do the work to break these ideas and to allow men the breathing room to have a good cry here and there without being judged.
I totally agree with you because this is how I think of it. whoever says that men created the society is heartless. At this point, we all contribute even the woman in this video is pushing those ideals. You can always focus on blame. It’s like Bojack Horseman. You can’t just say you’re sorry and expect people to forgive you. You have to do better. You can’t blame men because you’re in pain because men are too. We have to do better. At this point in our society, it doesn’t matter who created it. It only matters who continues and perpetrates it. And those are the people we truly need to blame!!
No women are more emotional than men in the sense that woman feel obliged to cry anytime thier sad but men dont really feel the need to cry but they still feel sad. men really only result to crying when they are sad extremely upset
@@Miniuslacko that’s not necessarily true lmao everyone is different. I can be very sad and not cry, I can also cry over little shit. I’ve seen a 17 year old boy cry after stepping on a ladybug. It just depends on the person.
Men have emotions too, just like us. They are more than capable of expressing those emotions they just have to let go of the idea that men aren’t emotional.
@@Flambago.Stories I didn’t twist my words. I twisted yours. Have fun being miserable and thinking that part of the human experience isn’t completely normal!
I love how they’re all comforting her, it’s so so sweet, and Kate also says “we probably won’t ever see them cry” even tho in a later episode they did ❤❤
As a guy, i’ve cried at work in front of customers and my coworkers, i’ve cried in school in front of all my classmates, i’ve cried in front of my family, so what i’m trying to say is make or female, you express your emotions. It doesn’t matter what someone else thinks, they’re not going through whatever you’re going through. You don’t have to please anybody or hide how you feel for anybody.
@@Flambago.Storiesno, you are. Showing your emotions makes you strong. Hiding them makes you weak and nothing but a scared little boy who think he’s “strong”
@@Kennedy28_ im sure, imagine being a man and crying in front of the people who rely on you to get them and yourself through stressful situations thats called weakness
@@Flambago.Stories no, it takes strength to be able to do that. Not crying and acting like a “tuff man” is pathetic. You guys think it’s strength but it’s generally you guys being scared.
Don’t be embarrassed we love you Harper and the podcast is like your family and I don’t have family so watching you have a family like your podcast is beautiful
@@wardenrhyphit’s true, women are more sensitive and cry more than most men. u can show ur emotions and cry it’s just not considered “manly “ do as u please tho. if u wanna cry in front of others go for it!! just doesn’t seem like it would be very pleasant. i don’t think men OR women like crying in public or in front of others.
Facts!!! 🔥totally agree with you because this is how I think of it. whoever says that men created the society is heartless. At this point, we all contribute even the woman in this video is pushing those ideals. You can always focus on blame. It’s like Bojack Horseman. You can’t just say you’re sorry and expect people to forgive you. You have to do better. You can’t blame men because you’re in pain because men are too. We have to do better. At this point in our society, it doesn’t matter who created it. It only matters who continues and perpetrates it. And those are the people we truly need to blame!!
@they.love.claire yes but they were saying that they were acting the same as the probably didn't watch the full pod cuz cash saying he's gonna be quiet isn't in a short
Men should be sometimes if they cry too much. They lose respect when they cry which causes the social stigma, the social stigma is not the cause of them losing respect when they cry though. Men should know this at least
@@LinksQuest I haven't seen someone lose respect I have heard people saying to stop crying tho, like respect is something that can't be taken away that easily (if u do lose respect for someone that quickly it's not normal, the problem probably is the mentality)
@@call_me_Rnaturally women prefer masculine men but when a man seems more vulnerable and feminine it really does turn most females of and due to modern day society crying is seen as a feminine thing
@@Shamique-i7m ? Crying isn't seen as feminine or not masculine most of the time, but I gotta ask where are you geting the information that women prefer dudes who don't cry? How bad is the situation where u live that u can't even cry without being called "feminine"? I don't recommend staying with those groups of people or if they are family I don't recommend believing in them, in modern day I have met alot of people who don't think crying is feminine , I haven't met more than 2 people who think it's feminine. Just don't believe these and nobody should be embarrassed over thier emotions regardless of gender.
@@call_me_R well you're wrong looking from a scientific perspective it is more common for women to pick more masculine men and naturally by biological and social standards succumbing your own emotion is more femine and that would include crying which is why women don't prefer men who don't cry also I don't live around a bad environment and its impolite yo assume so from a comment that is based on MY own research, research that I've headed into for multiple nights. I don't have a gf or anything like that it's based on proven science
This ep got so deep and mav was lit so sweet and encouraging and Kate was so so comforting but idk if it's j me but I woulda liked it better if cash wasn't even there cuz he added absolutely nothing to the convo and he made it all abt him saying "well yall got mad at me so im not going to talk" while Harper was lit crying and they were all being so sweet and mature and talking abt real life issues and sensitive topics while cash was acting like a kid and could only think of jokes to say
He literally said his way of coping was making jokes. To him he was coping but to everyone else he was being insensitive. Maybe you keep your opinions to yourself if your not gonna pay attention to what’s actually going on
@@EastonNash I get it if that’s his way of coping with his own problems but he needs to read the room bc they weren’t talking abt him they were talking abt Harper. So it’s very different when it’s somebody else’s problems and the only thing he can think to say is a joke. It’s not rly coping if it’s not even abt him it’s more like trying to be comforting. And fr I mean know hate towards him like in most ep he’s sooo funny and entertaining but j in this one as I said he didn’t rly add to the convo
some people get uncomfortable or just awkward when they deal with other people's emotions. he's not special, he probably felt awkward or out of place. many people who just joke around all the time don't know how to be serious or vulnerable because they themselves don't understand it. You eventually work on it but it's better to just listen and not add to the convo then force yourself to comfort if your not comfortable. He isn't obligated to always talk or comfort someone even if you feel like he should. People have different styles of comforting others, and maybe some are better than others but it's just something you work on.
This part of this episode was SO SAD I ACTUALLY cried for Harper because she was struggling with her condition! It's not an easy thing, which I don't think I would've EVER suspected she has)goes through. I don't have what she has, but in a similar but not really similar living scenario I was born with that's been very difficult for me to live and deal with for such a long time. But it's good Harper wants people to know and relate to jt, like opting not ro exclude it on the podcast. Also when Kate talked about she and Cash were having difficulty getting pregnant!
Remember when mav was talking about his spine and cash started crying and harper ate the lipstick for mav cash should eat it for Harper😂 ( but not really eat it harper but into it but spit it back out) KIDS DONT EAT LIPSTICK
she never said that all she said is that most women show there emotions more than men she never said they are emotional wrecks or anything it’s a true scientific fact that with hormones and things women are more emotional then men sometimes
I‘m a psychotherapist. NO, women are NOT more emotional. Women show emotions because they have the basic capacity taught of understanding, that emotions aren’t bad. Men limit themselves in unhealthy ways, taught to them by most probably other men. I always have found it paradoxical that men are responsible for their biggest health issue - emotions.
I wish I had friends like these when I was younger very caring and considerate plus they know how to have a laugh I suffer with mental health issues as well, always speak of how your feeling as your friends and love ones close to you can give you a shoulder to cry on and don't worry about crying as I have my moments and I'm 40🙏
Men aswell as women are able to feel sad and should be allowed by society to cry. Holding in emotions is very painfull. Edit: I just wanted to let you all know that i don’t want to hate on the video, neither do i think the video is bad. I’m just a stupid sad guy who want’s to, uhh idk. If this comment hurt anyone, feel free to let me know, so i don’t repeat the same mistake again. I really don’t want to hurt someone. Wish y’all a great day.
@@mais33333 She is saying women are built to have emotions, and they’re allowed to cry. But men are not, she doesn’t mention anything about men in her sentence, but the thing she says implies that women are allowed to cry, and expected to cry but men are not.
let’s talk about why you won’t see a man cry like that. let’s talk about men’s mental health. let’s talk about the public harassment when a man does show his emotions
For real though,as a person with bad ADHD it is really tough because I would be asked multiple times if I could stop wiggling or fidgeting and I would say that I can help it so Harper girlie,I relate to you.I also have thoughts like that sometimes and,listen,you aren’t alone.❤️
It’s good to see how they really feel about things and for people to know that there life is just about the same as everyone else we all have feelings and there have been times that everyone cried on the pod I think it’s wholesome seeing them help each other past it
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I love how Mav is like a big brother to her. He teased her like she's his sister, but is also there for her and is really sweet when she needs it.
Frrrrrr his words when I watched the pod were so encouraging and beautiful 🥲🥹
Fr ❤
Exactly that’s what I was thinking
Nice no one cares
@Undercoverbat95 lol I’m a Christian but thanks 🙏
I just love how loving and caring Kate is with Harper
And Mav he is like a brother to her even though he teases her sometimes
Nice I guess 😊
Real talk. I honestly felt a little weird about this show set up. After a few months, I see this is great emotional development for Harper and the teens who watch this. They see what a positive relationship with friends look like.
yesss we all need a Kate in our life 😭❤️
i love harper
The fact that mav stepped in and comforted Harper saying, “you’re loved” was so sweet.
Me to❤
Fr
@@Chloe_lovergirlme too? the comment didnt say an opinion. they just said it was sweet
Maverick and Kate were both so kind and comforting to Harper. They would both be amazing parents!❤
Yeah! Where was Cash in this?! I would've thought he'd be the first to comfort and joke around with her.
@@emma_blaykecash is there but he was rude the whole time when Harper was trying to tell her story he was speaking over her make joke in a serious moment and asking stupid questions(no hate to cash)
@@tahishavidama9353 Ohh. I just didn't see him. I just started watching, so I'm on the 15th episode, I think. I didn't know if he was sick or smth and couldn't make it.
@@tahishavidama9353he didn't joke around harper story he just asked a F-question live this man alone
@@urfavcrybaby2 sorry that you didn’t watch the episode I did and he keep making it as a joke and his facial expressions were making it look like and sounded like he was not serious they explain already 2 episodes ago
Her smile at the end says it all❤❤ she knows that’s her safe space too say her truth
Everyone is saying that men cry too. And they know that. But what she meant is that most men can pretend they are okay or hold back their tears better than women. Or they don’t even have the need to cry. I hope that people know what I mean
i havent cried since highschool when someone died, im 27 now and havent had the urge to cry since. Tf is there to cry about anyway
That's why men kill themselves more than women.
No it’s that we have to or women lose attraction. Y’all love the fantasy that men can protect and everything will be ok, but once the fantasy is broken the the attraction fades.
I love how Kate is explaining like no it's ok let your emotions out your loved like that's the definition of a good friend right there.
They are so supportive and kind to her ❤ I love that
Mav and Kate are like a brother and a sister to Harper. loves you guys
A good message but men can and are built to have strong feelings too but don't always show it because of the pressure to be "manly" just know your feelings are valid man or woman ❤
she didn't say mens feelings were invalid, all she said is that its valid as a girl to cry because of our hormones
Dont be weak
@@Flambago.Storiesthat’s so alpha male of you to not show your emotions
Your feelings ARE valid. She never said they weren’t. Just that men and women express emotions differently. Women are more outwardly emotional and men feel it inside more, but are outwardly composed
in the podcast episode, Kate was hugging Harper and saying “aww it’s okay don’t worry i love you so much” she’s gonna be a great mom
You can tell how serious the took it by the episode’s thumbnail….
@@yourlifeisagreatstoryfrr tho they turn everything into views
@@Willow-fk4kpwhat?
@@Youthoughtyouate11 they couldn’t care less about how everyone’s been struggling they just do it for views
@@Willow-fk4kpthey do..
The "your okay" had me crying
Fr he like "your okay" "your good" and I cried inside he's so sweet
you’re*
@@Clairethemusic13you’re*
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@@samu-chanyour not funny so shut up
The only problem I have on this matter is that she said women are mental to have and feel emotions... Can we break some stigmas here? Men and women are equally able to feel, show and express emotions... And still be so very strong
EXACTLY
Yes and no. Of course a man has to be somehow stronger or intimidating…at least for the ego. Me, as a man, I wouldn’t want to cry in front of a camera, strangers or friends. Parents and maybe girlfriend, but otherwise no.
But she is right in a way. Women are just typically more emotional than men.
@@CafLichy And that is precicely because of the stigma of it, as the OP was pointing out...
@@DaftyBoi412 That’s just the way men are supposed to be…yes, men can cry, I did cry a lot of time too. But it’s not something a man should be proud of…I am already ashamed of saying that I cried on internet.
Glad to see people comforting a little girl and not telling her it's wrong to cry❤❤❤
Why would they? Only men are tole not to cry...not teenage girls
@@YampaYak-vd1xo I'm confused, do you mean why wouldn't they comfort a little girl?
yea. I wish my family did that to me. everytime I cry my mom just huffs and rolls her eyes 🥲
@chikiboon No. They meant, little girls are HARDLY ever told not to cry societally. Only if her parents were seriously irregular to societal standards would that occur. Men growing up are the ones SOCIETALLY pressured not to cry. Completely normalized. This video for instance. "We're women, we're supposed to have emotions like that", which directly implies in contrast that men aren't societally expected to have emotions like that.
@@infernalsorcery7923that’s untrue lmao u know nothing about being a woman or a girl.
I love watching them its always relatable and they treat each other like a family a bond that can't be broken
It’s not just women who have strong emotions it’s just that guys feel the need to hide it because the world makes guys out to be so tough and emotionless
I'm glad someone caught that. We are emotional too! We just hide it, exactly for that reason!
Well I think it’s just in our nature to not let other people see our emotions, not like it’s bad that we don’t let everyone see them. It comes across as weak which is not something any real man wants to experience.
@Chooseashorterhandle2exactly but we don’t have to translate or convey them the same as women.
@@theyungvecThere will never be something called a "real" man becuase the way men are viewed over the years changed , back in the 1800s-1700s it was seen as manly to cry even depicted in plays, in the bible (if you're religious) there is a verse that says "Jesus wept" meaning that if the 1800s men saw the men now they'd wonder why these men aren't "real" men, crying is an emotion and it shouldn't be seen as weak especially when it has to so with struggles or issues within one's life. When you cancel out emotion in a human , essentially you just become nothing (imo) like a robot. In my opinion a real man isn't afraid to show emotions, they're able to control their emotions but when things get tough they know when it's time to reach out for help , or cry to a close friend. This is just my opinion though
@@ConnorEtchmen made that rule, blame it on yourself
I love how Mav is so kind to her. Their friendship is so precious to watch! ❤
You guys are soo comforting to her I’m going to cryy❤
As a man we both men and women have the same emotions and capacity but women express because people will listen to them but men won’t because they know that society never really cares about our feelings so we see no need to express it because it could just get worse. Society needs to stop giving men crap because we aren’t robots, we have feelings too
Men and women have the same capacity for emotions! It’s very harmful to insinuate men shouldn’t cry, or that they are unlikely too. Some men cry more than some women.
yeah. its mostly men who dont cry nowdays because theres so much lgbtq so straight men have to "be tough and not cry" like bruh, they think gay people and stuff are pussies
Facts
Blame society not a podcast clip 🙄
YASSSS I WAS WAITING FOR SOMEONE TO SAY THAT
Frrr I found that Girl's comment so weird
I love how open they are about literally everything ❤
Maverick is so good to Harper and always comforts her. ❤
i love how sweet maverick and kate are to harper. kate is always just so loving and sure mav makes jokes and teasing harper but when it matters he is always there for her.💗
I agree
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Harper on every episode:
“I’ve seen mav cry”
That’s kind of a 🐩 thing to do
@@Iloveamerica465it is in fact not a poodle thing to do
@@realpanterafan it’s a bitch thing to do, that’s what I mean, and yes it is.
@@Iloveamerica465 it’s not a dog thing to do
@@realpanterafan ha, yeah if you see someone cry one time and then reference it constantly it is a bitch thing to do, you’re just glazing a little girl.
Emotion is not based on gender. As a man, there have been many times I was curled up in the fetal position bawling my eyes out on the inside but felt that if I broke, everything around me would too. We do feel. We do care. We do hurt. We do cry. It just won’t be in front of you.
Gay
LOUDER !
@@jordanb1759he's gay and weak lol
@@jordanb1759 ur wrong
Yea, I'm sure Kate gets that, but women and girls tend to have many hormones that will contribute strongly to emotions, especially in adolescence, which is one factor but also women tend to express emotions more as well. I'm not saying guys don't get emotions and don't cry. Of course they do.
it’s so sweet that harper was so set on releasing the episode so that other people would relate and feel known. just shows how much she truly loves and appreciates her followers🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
Kate and Mav are such whole hearted people. Mav is like a brother to Harper, he “bullys” her but when she’s upset he’s there for her. Kate is so kind and would be such an awesome mom. This is so sweet!!! ❤😊
As much as I love the support they offer her, I don’t like the idea that “women are more emotional than men” which simply isn’t true. I feel like women tend to cry more often than men, but that’s due to the pressure put on boys/men to be “strong” and to not show your emotions because you’ll be seen as weak. So it gets bottled up until they can’t take it anymore and release it as a different emotion; anger.
I only say this because I hope we can all do the work to break these ideas and to allow men the breathing room to have a good cry here and there without being judged.
Trust me if men are being judged for crying it isn’t by women
@@MFV1222 it comes from both sides, but I agree that it more often than not comes from generational toxic masculinity
I totally agree with you because this is how I think of it. whoever says that men created the society is heartless. At this point, we all contribute even the woman in this video is pushing those ideals. You can always focus on blame. It’s like Bojack Horseman. You can’t just say you’re sorry and expect people to forgive you. You have to do better. You can’t blame men because you’re in pain because men are too. We have to do better. At this point in our society, it doesn’t matter who created it. It only matters who continues and perpetrates it.
And those are the people we truly need to blame!!
No women are more emotional than men in the sense that woman feel obliged to cry anytime thier sad but men dont really feel the need to cry but they still feel sad. men really only result to crying when they are sad extremely upset
@@Miniuslacko that’s not necessarily true lmao everyone is different. I can be very sad and not cry, I can also cry over little shit. I’ve seen a 17 year old boy cry after stepping on a ladybug. It just depends on the person.
Aww..Harper :( ❤🙏
I love how Mav and Kate were being so nice 😭😭😭💗💗
@vlogsbykayybc he said that his way of coping is like make jokes, and so he was js gonna stay quiet bc he didn’t want to make any jokes
@vlogsbykayy fr
@Undercoverbat95 wha-
@Undercoverbat95amen! Jesus loves you too!
I love how sweet and loving they all are for her ❤❤❤
Men have emotions too, just like us. They are more than capable of expressing those emotions they just have to let go of the idea that men aren’t emotional.
please stop yapping, women are generally more emotional because of the hormones they produce
Dont be weak
@@Flambago.Stories exactly what I’m saying! Not being comfortable with your very human emotions is a huge weakness.
@@Gothpumpkin dont twist your words, all i see is a weak man trying his hardest to cope with him self, man up
@@Flambago.Stories I didn’t twist my words. I twisted yours. Have fun being miserable and thinking that part of the human experience isn’t completely normal!
Mav is such a big brother to her and he is so sweet and kind and he is very supportive and I love their relationship ❤
I love how they’re all comforting her, it’s so so sweet, and Kate also says “we probably won’t ever see them cry” even tho in a later episode they did ❤❤
As a guy, i’ve cried at work in front of customers and my coworkers, i’ve cried in school in front of all my classmates, i’ve cried in front of my family, so what i’m trying to say is make or female, you express your emotions. It doesn’t matter what someone else thinks, they’re not going through whatever you’re going through. You don’t have to please anybody or hide how you feel for anybody.
Your weak
@@Flambago.Storiesno, you are. Showing your emotions makes you strong. Hiding them makes you weak and nothing but a scared little boy who think he’s “strong”
@@Flambago.Stories you know being a MrBeast fan I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t like you to hear you say that
@@Kennedy28_ im sure, imagine being a man and crying in front of the people who rely on you to get them and yourself through stressful situations thats called weakness
@@Flambago.Stories no, it takes strength to be able to do that. Not crying and acting like a “tuff man” is pathetic. You guys think it’s strength but it’s generally you guys being scared.
Omg Harper is so sweet I love her❤❤ and that Mac and Kate are trying to make her feel better it’s so heart warming ❤🥺
Kate and Mav are so supportive and sweet! This video is so adorable!
Don’t be embarrassed we love you Harper and the podcast is like your family and I don’t have family so watching you have a family like your podcast is beautiful
Y’all talking about how cute this is being so supportive, but bro is literally shutting down male emotions
Fr tho
fr
Well, I think they meant women are more outwardly emotional, which is true. Because of societal pressure, but still true.
@@T_on_top That is true, but saying that women have more emotion than men and are “allowed” to show it is still messed up
@@wardenrhyphit’s true, women are more sensitive and cry more than most men. u can show ur emotions and cry it’s just not considered “manly “ do as u please tho. if u wanna cry in front of others go for it!! just doesn’t seem like it would be very pleasant. i don’t think men OR women like crying in public or in front of others.
i love how caring mav is not just with harper but with everyone! he cares about health, emotions, and everything he is such a great person
When Mav said your okay in the sweetest tone I actually started crying he is the sweetest man alive and such a good friend to Harper and all of them❤❤
The “you’re ok.” I swear healed me a bit hahaha
@@hannahpoirier3 I know righttt
😂
As man im 100% as emotional as women i just can hide it better
Facts!!! 🔥totally agree with you because this is how I think of it. whoever says that men created the society is heartless. At this point, we all contribute even the woman in this video is pushing those ideals. You can always focus on blame. It’s like Bojack Horseman. You can’t just say you’re sorry and expect people to forgive you. You have to do better. You can’t blame men because you’re in pain because men are too. We have to do better. At this point in our society, it doesn’t matter who created it. It only matters who continues and perpetrates it.
And those are the people we truly need to blame!!
True
Gae
@@AdaptedBrainCell thank you
@@n0name have you seen the suicide rates ??? Definitely not funny to just say gae
It made me so sad to see her getting emotional❤Don’t worry you look absolutely gorgeous as always
It is so sweet how mav and kate treat her like there her daughter!
42 sec 😮
um cash n kate r married
@they.love.claire yes but they were saying that they were acting the same as the probably didn't watch the full pod cuz cash saying he's gonna be quiet isn't in a short
Aww.. I’m really sry on what ever reason your crying we love u ❤❤❤❤
THE WAY HE SAID YOUR OKAY TO HER IS SOOOO SWEET I NEED THAT
We love harper! Kate and Mav are so nice
No way crying at a 30 sec vid😭
They’re too sweet❤
Mav is literally so sweet! I can’t right now!🥹🥹
Bro is really saying that Men don’t have emotions and women do💀
literally not at all what she said
she said men cry on rare occasions which is true
@@yahzkorochealso said women have more emotion then men but no one talks about the suicide rate
@@yahzkoroche” women generally have more emotion then men”
@@Josh-dv2js yeah? thats true? Testosterone prevents men from crying as much as women do?
The way he said your okay
“Ur okay.” Was so sweet 😭😭
Poor harper❤❤❤❤ just know lots of people know what your going though I feel so bad the new episode made me cry😭😭😭
mavs “your okay” was so sweet 🥲
Mav is so good and Kate is such a mom I love them
“I’ve seen Mav” got me
The fact that mav was there for her and said: “your okay, your loved” it’s just ❤
Harper we all have emotions it’s ok we all love you ❤❤ do not feel judged
I personally do not love her she's childish for writing a song about a text💀
Guys are just as emotional as women you just don’t see us…
Oh
Wrong
@@stuslamright
Women have more hormones that make them more emotional
I'm happy that she tells safe around them and that she can share her emotions around us and the world
Nobody should be embarrassed about their emotions. I also love how they are all there for her and support her.
Men should be sometimes if they cry too much. They lose respect when they cry which causes the social stigma, the social stigma is not the cause of them losing respect when they cry though. Men should know this at least
@@LinksQuest I haven't seen someone lose respect I have heard people saying to stop crying tho, like respect is something that can't be taken away that easily (if u do lose respect for someone that quickly it's not normal, the problem probably is the mentality)
@@call_me_Rnaturally women prefer masculine men but when a man seems more vulnerable and feminine it really does turn most females of and due to modern day society crying is seen as a feminine thing
@@Shamique-i7m ? Crying isn't seen as feminine or not masculine most of the time, but I gotta ask where are you geting the information that women prefer dudes who don't cry? How bad is the situation where u live that u can't even cry without being called "feminine"? I don't recommend staying with those groups of people or if they are family I don't recommend believing in them, in modern day I have met alot of people who don't think crying is feminine , I haven't met more than 2 people who think it's feminine. Just don't believe these and nobody should be embarrassed over thier emotions regardless of gender.
@@call_me_R well you're wrong looking from a scientific perspective it is more common for women to pick more masculine men and naturally by biological and social standards succumbing your own emotion is more femine and that would include crying which is why women don't prefer men who don't cry also I don't live around a bad environment and its impolite yo assume so from a comment that is based on MY own research, research that I've headed into for multiple nights. I don't have a gf or anything like that it's based on proven science
This ep got so deep and mav was lit so sweet and encouraging and Kate was so so comforting but idk if it's j me but I woulda liked it better if cash wasn't even there cuz he added absolutely nothing to the convo and he made it all abt him saying "well yall got mad at me so im not going to talk" while Harper was lit crying and they were all being so sweet and mature and talking abt real life issues and sensitive topics while cash was acting like a kid and could only think of jokes to say
He literally said his way of coping was making jokes. To him he was coping but to everyone else he was being insensitive. Maybe you keep your opinions to yourself if your not gonna pay attention to what’s actually going on
@@EastonNash I get it if that’s his way of coping with his own problems but he needs to read the room bc they weren’t talking abt him they were talking abt Harper. So it’s very different when it’s somebody else’s problems and the only thing he can think to say is a joke. It’s not rly coping if it’s not even abt him it’s more like trying to be comforting. And fr I mean know hate towards him like in most ep he’s sooo funny and entertaining but j in this one as I said he didn’t rly add to the convo
some people get uncomfortable or just awkward when they deal with other people's emotions. he's not special, he probably felt awkward or out of place. many people who just joke around all the time don't know how to be serious or vulnerable because they themselves don't understand it. You eventually work on it but it's better to just listen and not add to the convo then force yourself to comfort if your not comfortable. He isn't obligated to always talk or comfort someone even if you feel like he should. People have different styles of comforting others, and maybe some are better than others but it's just something you work on.
This part of this episode was SO SAD I ACTUALLY cried for Harper because she was struggling with her condition! It's not an easy thing, which I don't think I would've EVER suspected she has)goes through. I don't have what she has, but in a similar but not really similar living scenario I was born with that's been very difficult for me to live and deal with for such a long time. But it's good Harper wants people to know and relate to jt, like opting not ro exclude it on the podcast. Also when Kate talked about she and Cash were having difficulty getting pregnant!
Now imagine the boy said the same thing reversed . *Emotions Shut FOR MEN BECAUSE OF GENDER* . This shows the state of our society
Honestly dude
@@vrplays1232 😤
Fr cus she just said basically "men shouldn't cry"
@@reubenbarber2672no she wasn’t
🤨she was saying that woman are just more emotional because that’s how woman are built
@@Audrey12373except thats totally not true
Remember when mav was talking about his spine and cash started crying and harper ate the lipstick for mav cash should eat it for Harper😂 ( but not really eat it harper but into it but spit it back out) KIDS DONT EAT LIPSTICK
Kate is literary made to be a mom the way comforts Harper is so sweet and maverick he’s like the big brother so sweet
Trust me Harper. Future is a mystery, past is history, present is a gift. The present is a present from God
the sexism 😭🙏
im NOT reading all these goofy replies i gotta finish ep 69 of skibidi toilet
Wdym
@99Em07I blame Kate
@99Em07 acc mine did
@99Em07it’s not men’s fault lol? It’s other peoples fault. And yes unless you have a super nice mother they’ve most likely said “men/boys don’t cry”
@99Em07and the people saying “men don’t cry” or “men shouldn’t cry unless something serious is happening” are the ones to blame
I live the fact that they are pretty much all family and I find that awesome to have support like that. I hope that Harper gets better.❤
Bless her I felt bad for Harper we love you Harper xxx😍😍😘😘
It’s okay everyone has issues sometimes
Omg I love that Podcast their so caring and loved for people I wish my family was like that 😊
found it minorly offensive that kate made it sound like all women are just emotional wrecks, saying women are made more emotional.
Me too. Was just a little icky.
she never said that all she said is that most women show there emotions more than men she never said they are emotional wrecks or anything it’s a true scientific fact that with hormones and things women are more emotional then men sometimes
she was bigging up women tho, while making men seem like weird people without emotions
@@hakone1841 yeah it made me feel icky
You’re proving her point 😢
I‘m a psychotherapist. NO, women are NOT more emotional. Women show emotions because they have the basic capacity taught of understanding, that emotions aren’t bad. Men limit themselves in unhealthy ways, taught to them by most probably other men. I always have found it paradoxical that men are responsible for their biggest health issue - emotions.
They are 100% more emotional 😅
I wish I had friends like these when I was younger very caring and considerate plus they know how to have a laugh I suffer with mental health issues as well, always speak of how your feeling as your friends and love ones close to you can give you a shoulder to cry on and don't worry about crying as I have my moments and I'm 40🙏
Mav is going to be a good dad
Harper you will always be loved ❤
Mag and Kate were being so kind to her
I love her ❤
It’s OK every night before I go to sleep, I cry It’s really OK.❤❤
Men aswell as women are able to feel sad and should be allowed by society to cry. Holding in emotions is very painfull.
Edit: I just wanted to let you all know that i don’t want to hate on the video, neither do i think the video is bad. I’m just a stupid sad guy who want’s to, uhh idk. If this comment hurt anyone, feel free to let me know, so i don’t repeat the same mistake again. I really don’t want to hurt someone.
Wish y’all a great day.
Gay
well she didn't say that men couldn't feel sad, go cry about male emotions elsewhere
@@mais33333 no
@@coltmcevers3817 i get called gay too, but i’m not.
@@mais33333 She is saying women are built to have emotions, and they’re allowed to cry. But men are not, she doesn’t mention anything about men in her sentence, but the thing she says implies that women are allowed to cry, and expected to cry but men are not.
Poor Harper ❤
Mav has the hots for her.
What happend why she crying
I love how they like supported harper and let her know it was ok to cry ❤
let’s talk about why you won’t see a man cry like that. let’s talk about men’s mental health. let’s talk about the public harassment when a man does show his emotions
yesss yess yesss !!
anyone here after cash cried on he podcast?
👇🏻
The fact that MAV stepped up consorted Harper saying your loved was so sweet
Cash cryed on the pregnancy episode 😢
No hate but men have feelings to you saying “they would cry from something serious” is just a thing everyone wants men to be but men has feelings to 😢
At least you are being nice about it some people are being mean❤
@@TJAH7036 ur right
I love that connection between y’all
Anyone here after Cash cried on the podcast
Wait why is she crying? 😢
They were talking about their mental health and Harper got emotional when she started saying how bad hers was.
@@christinacunningham9305 oh ok thanks 🫶🏻
harper is the little sister mav never got❤️🔥
Who else needs a maverick in their life 👇
Womp Womp
I love how everyone’s comforting her and they all act like siblings it’s so cute❤❤
WE NEED NICK WILKINS ON THIS POD CAST
i hate this show
same
Fr
Fr
I couldn't agree more. Just a buncha dropouts lmao.
same its so cringe😭
This is so stupid 😭😂
😂 yep
This shits so corny
fr
I agree
AT LEAST SHE WONT ROAST US LOL
Wdym corny what’s corny about Harper opening up about her mental health like she can’t help it
For real though,as a person with bad ADHD it is really tough because I would be asked multiple times if I could stop wiggling or fidgeting and I would say that I can help it so Harper girlie,I relate to you.I also have thoughts like that sometimes and,listen,you aren’t alone.❤️
I hate Harper she is so annoying 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬😡😡😡😡
I love how they're both so sweet to Harper! ❤
It’s good to see how they really feel about things and for people to know that there life is just about the same as everyone else we all have feelings and there have been times that everyone cried on the pod I think it’s wholesome seeing them help each other past it