Opening Up About Our Mental Health.

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  • @Cashandmaverickbaker
    @Cashandmaverickbaker 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +6868

    This got sad…

  • @christinecallahan762
    @christinecallahan762 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1511

    👇🏼people who think Kate would be an amazing mom

    • @ldsquad1322
      @ldsquad1322 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Yesss

    • @betsyferg458
      @betsyferg458 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      She doesn’t wanna be a mom stop asking

    • @user-kn9uz9fn4v
      @user-kn9uz9fn4v 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yesssssssssssss

    • @user-kn9uz9fn4v
      @user-kn9uz9fn4v 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yesssssssssssssssssss

    • @user-kn9uz9fn4v
      @user-kn9uz9fn4v 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      @@betsyferg458 OK you could be nice about it she’s just asking a simple question like this is not even going to happen

  • @emoriestice-fm1ul
    @emoriestice-fm1ul 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +196

    i love how mav and kate opens up about christianity and gives advice and talk about it. love this podcast so much

    • @theyluvvnataliee
      @theyluvvnataliee 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      same!!!

    • @Soapy02
      @Soapy02 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Same!

    • @Thegayquietemokid
      @Thegayquietemokid 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      As someone who doesn't really believe. I like that they do that.

  • @Vlogswsel
    @Vlogswsel 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Harper actually opening up is very good i struggle with bad mental health i can definitely relate to her but her actually opening up is not on my level i never open up to people that i keep in it an it’s never good but Harper has made feel like i can do it thank you so much Harper 💕💕

  • @Honeybeee532
    @Honeybeee532 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3027

    Harper crying made me cry!!!!! Her reaching for Kate is the sweetest!!! 😭😭😭😭

    • @Honeybeee532
      @Honeybeee532 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

      25:31

    • @audriacarroll
      @audriacarroll 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Sameeee

    • @MarkCarlson-cu7kq
      @MarkCarlson-cu7kq 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      SAME

    • @teresaspurlock6161
      @teresaspurlock6161 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

      I was crying when she reached for her also 😭😭

    • @music_nation898
      @music_nation898 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      i was just about to comment that ❤️ it was so sweet and really showed how much they really love eachother ❤

  • @TheeMakennakaylaa
    @TheeMakennakaylaa 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1562

    Props to Mav for taking how Harper was feeling seriously, Giving her advice and respecting her enough to say it could be cut if she wanted it. Seeing the soft side of him makes me look at him differently. Love you guys ❤️

    • @sadieslayss12
      @sadieslayss12 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

      I know! His relationship with Harper is everything❤

    • @Charlie-vl6ld
      @Charlie-vl6ld 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      Fr though! ❤️

    • @aumar1
      @aumar1 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Fr it was so wholesome ❤

    • @Mushroom_gal
      @Mushroom_gal 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Fr❤ and btw 900th like

    • @Hetypicallovesbenson
      @Hetypicallovesbenson 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Fr though support for Harper

  • @CharlieWilliams11
    @CharlieWilliams11 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +60

    This episode made me cry. I'm so happy they opened up to ppl. I love your guys' channel so much and am so glad of how relatable it is. I used to constantly live in fear of like a shooting or bombing while out in public like Kate was explaining. It's way better now, but I still get scared sometimes. Thank you guys so much for being relatable and spreading your love! 💗

  • @roxdog7754
    @roxdog7754 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    i acctually cried while harper was crying, i was 13 when i got severe OCD to the point i didnt want to live anymore, im now 15 and still struggle with it

  • @LilyDee96
    @LilyDee96 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +468

    The way kate hugged and comforted Harper had me in tears
    Kate will be a amazing mum to any of her furture children

    • @Hetypicallovesbenson
      @Hetypicallovesbenson 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      It had Me in tears to ngl

    • @Ives_ur_f4v17
      @Ives_ur_f4v17 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For real ❤

    • @broxton_dream85
      @broxton_dream85 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I cried when she cried 😭

    • @ville__
      @ville__ 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Who asked + my content is better and beyond Marvelous. The opinion that you have does not matter, Cry me a river!! LOLL

    • @Hetypicallovesbenson
      @Hetypicallovesbenson 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ville__ buddy no one cares your annoying and your 'content probably sucks

  • @AudreyRose-py4wq
    @AudreyRose-py4wq 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +663

    “This is so embarrassing” no this is real. This is what every teen girl needed to see. Someone that is so fun and energetic. Tell her actual story.

    • @randoms.vidsxx
      @randoms.vidsxx 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      Yes Fr every teen girl will relate to Harper it’s totally normal to cry

    • @Vortex-8989
      @Vortex-8989 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@randoms.vidsxxand teen boy

    • @Hxp4rxpreppy
      @Hxp4rxpreppy 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      True

    • @princessnaeemahakilabarnes7159
      @princessnaeemahakilabarnes7159 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      True like frrr I relate to her so much

  • @user-hg5eb5do5y
    @user-hg5eb5do5y 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

    I just wanted you guys to know this podcast meant soooo much to me!! I can relate sooooo much to what Kate said!! I’m 15 and 3 years ago my dad passed away to a brain tumor… I was completely devastated and so mad at God… I juts felt like it was so unfair how God chose to take him away from me instead of letting him stay… about a year after he passed it really sunk in that I only had one more parent left and that if something ever happened to my mom I wouldn’t have anyone left… this thought cause me soooo much anxiety that I wasn’t even ok to go to school cuz I would sit in my desk and freak out that something was going to happen to my mom and I would nvr see her again… these feeling went on for so long and I went into a sort of depression… my mom found a counselor for me and I went to her for a while… after this I went on anti depressant which really helped… I started to seek God out more and slowly got off the medication… it’s about two years later and with Gods help I am no longer trapped in those thought patterns!! I juys wanted to thank you especially kate for what you shared!! It meant a lot to me and I just want you to know keep trusting in God even when everything feels unclear he love you and cares!! Thanks again❤

    • @aminathumniyya10
      @aminathumniyya10 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Aww I'm glad that u are good now god bless you❤❤❤

    • @brandonthomas8648
      @brandonthomas8648 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Good for you i feel so happy for you 💜💜

  • @ZZV011
    @ZZV011 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I really love how Kate comforted Harper like a big sister❤

  • @ollibobsblogs6023
    @ollibobsblogs6023 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2025

    Harper:crying
    Kate:comforting her
    Mav:comforting her
    Cash: "Is ThIs ThE WrOng TimE tO bE wEaRiNg aToIlEt SeAt?"

    • @urfavvirgoo
      @urfavvirgoo 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +138

      tbh cash was doing too much 🥱

    • @Nena2024-wf3fv
      @Nena2024-wf3fv 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +50

      But he was tearing up so

    • @ItzTocaLov3
      @ItzTocaLov3 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

      Cash is soo ummm something 😂😂😂

    • @ElizaL-td7sj
      @ElizaL-td7sj 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

      Of course you had to make it about him

    • @ljenny5
      @ljenny5 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      You are so so funny 😂🎉😅😊

  • @user-ei2cu2qy3m
    @user-ei2cu2qy3m 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2044

    You can just tell by the way Kate comforted Harper when she was crying that she is going to be an amazing mom
    Edit: tysm for 1.5k likes! Never mind it’s 1.8k now

  • @Road-0npaws
    @Road-0npaws 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    I completely agree with Harper. Everyone has their own, sometimes completely different mental health journeys and experiences. I don’t suffer with ocd, but so many other people do and appreciate this episode for spreading awareness and making a safe place for anybody. Everyone has struggles. For example I suffer with adhd, anxiety, and depression. But there’s so much more out there and so many experiences and different people and challenges. Love you guys!!

  • @Alexis-ft4oq
    @Alexis-ft4oq 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    My favorite epesode… I struggle with multiple mental illnesses and this makes me feel so good that people are talking about their mental heath in such a public place and feeling safe sharing it

    • @catslayy13
      @catslayy13 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah same ❤

    • @catslayy13
      @catslayy13 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I hope you’re doing alright

  • @Maddieslays3
    @Maddieslays3 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +770

    the way the second harper put her arms out kate instantly pushed her mic aside and ran to harper to comfort her warms my heart.

    • @Jan-vp8jz
      @Jan-vp8jz 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

      I love Kate for that

    • @Undercoverbat95
      @Undercoverbat95 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@Jan-vp8jzJesus loves you ❤️ and the only way to heaven

    • @Swiftie_forever686
      @Swiftie_forever686 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      ​@@Jan-vp8jzikr but I js love Kate in general (and harper)

    • @Hetypicallovesbenson
      @Hetypicallovesbenson 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I love Kate for that fr she is so kind and ngl I got emotional and cried when she was hugging Harper

    • @Toonz_blox
      @Toonz_blox 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yea

  • @Pr3pPyxas
    @Pr3pPyxas 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +169

    I'm not kidding but Kate, your so kind. If you ever thought to have children, you'd honestly be the sweetest mum :)

  • @xoxo_vlogs-ug6ub
    @xoxo_vlogs-ug6ub 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    I love how Mav references to so many Bible verses showing his knowledge of how Jesus loves each and every one of us. ❤

  • @user-wg1fg5ql9q
    @user-wg1fg5ql9q 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    When harper started crying i started like balling my eyes out i feel so bad for her and i rlly do hope u get better harper and we all love u for who u are ❤

  • @MyrandaMarcotte
    @MyrandaMarcotte 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +160

    when i tell you i bawled. the way Harper wanted that hug from Kate. Don’t ever think it’s embarrassing for crying, you are so strong and i’m so so incredibly proud of you Harper you have come so far and i’m so glad ur doing better now. Glad u have a good support system🩷

  • @Sophie-uf3cp
    @Sophie-uf3cp 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +814

    Dear kate and harper,it is fine to cry on the podcast!it shows that we all cry and I always think as their influencers they don’t cry but now I realise that everyone cry’s and it is fine to do so!love you guys❤❤❤❤

    • @Purplefan_02
      @Purplefan_02 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      I love this comment ❤
      Thank you for telling them❤

    • @helenparsons4542
      @helenparsons4542 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I love when influencers open up about this stuff. It makes me feel so much more comfortable with my problems ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
      Love you guys so much❤❤❤❤❤

    • @HesiTrav
      @HesiTrav 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      respect 🫡

    • @Bailey-ti4if
      @Bailey-ti4if 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      This comment should have more likes❤❤❤

    • @comfy_boom7
      @comfy_boom7 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      bro wrote all this for them not to see it😂😂😂

  • @Katiesworld20
    @Katiesworld20 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    16:15 cash needs to shut up.

    • @amyunruh1959
      @amyunruh1959 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So u do

    • @Katiesworld20
      @Katiesworld20 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@amyunruh1959 what.

    • @OogieBoogie-or4dc
      @OogieBoogie-or4dc 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@amyunruh1959he’s the one that made himself the center of attention. you’re in denial.

  • @rileymartin1616
    @rileymartin1616 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    I love how Harper shared her story. I know that things like this hard. I have a similar situation. I have dyslexia and am in 10th grade and still struggle when it comes to reading. It takes all of my classmates 30 minuted to read a chapter that has about 20-25 pages, but takes me almost an hour. We often read in class and snake around the classroom and every time it's my turn to read I get really anxious and scared. I'm to scared to tell the teacher that I don't have to read in front of the class because of my accommodations, but its to embarrassing to do. I've been struggling with this all year and only have 3 weeks of school left and still haven't told my teacher anything. I feel like I'm constantly being made fun of. I have one close friend that also has Dyslexia and we are always trying to help each other. I wish I had a friend that is older than me that is like Kate. That was so sweet of Kate and I just know how much Harper needed that right their in that moment. Kate is going to be the best mom one day.

    • @Lemon-AdeYT
      @Lemon-AdeYT วันที่ผ่านมา

      It takes me like 2 hours to read 25 pages 😞

    • @rileymartin1616
      @rileymartin1616 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Lemon-AdeYT ya. It depends on how many words but something like that

  • @brunnete36
    @brunnete36 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +677

    45:18 omg, the way mav could just recognize their struggles, and just easily remember the perfect verses makes me so happy as a christian. Mav truly is very mature and though we usually see his funny side it was so endearing to see him treat both of them like younger sister

  • @Its_LuluJ
    @Its_LuluJ 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +333

    I love how Kate just comforted Harper when she was crying. It’s just so wholesome!❤️❤️❤️

    • @vlogsbykayy
      @vlogsbykayy 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Lulu_the_gamer_girldon’t give personal info please!!

    • @LeanahNau
      @LeanahNau 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What part of that was given personal info?

    • @vlogsbykayy
      @vlogsbykayy 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@LeanahNau she deleted the comment

  • @LeviRukenya
    @LeviRukenya 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This was just magical considering am dealing with anxiety, severe depression and schizophrenia and the moment i saw Harper break down it really broke me down and the way Maverick is quoting the Bible scriptures is just heart warming. I have opened up about this but i cant really see the results but i believe that God will do miracles sings and wonders to all who are struggling for we are all his creation and his Children.

  • @annazucker6806
    @annazucker6806 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Kate and Harper opening up about their mental challenges really helped me. I think the same things as Kate and it help me realize im not alone and other people are going through the same thing. God has helped me so much throughout this and to know he is helping others to is amazing to me. Thank you all for opening up about this.

  • @girlsyoutube9458
    @girlsyoutube9458 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +265

    I love how Mav cares for Harper like a sister

  • @anabelaram4355
    @anabelaram4355 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +202

    I have such horrible OCD, and Harper talking abt her OCD made me feel so much better. Knowing im not alone is making me feel stronger. OCD really affects my everyday life in school 😭

    • @jennakrimson
      @jennakrimson 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I’m so sorry that happens to you! I hope it’ll get better the older you get (idk if it works like, that) nut I hope that❤️

    • @anabelaram4355
      @anabelaram4355 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@jennakrimson thanks 💕

    • @candicechikanma9285
      @candicechikanma9285 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Would you like prayer?

    • @Andssssleyyyyy
      @Andssssleyyyyy 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Your not alone I have it really bad

    • @gisellebriseno5
      @gisellebriseno5 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@candicechikanma9285I think we should pray for her anyways❤

  • @klharvey4
    @klharvey4 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    When she started talking I started thinking about what I’ve experienced and how it relates to her. When she started crying I was crying and the way Kate went to hug her made me cry more. Harper is so loved by all of y’all and all of her friends,family and all of us

  • @Hollie_is_amazing
    @Hollie_is_amazing 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I think it’s amazing that they opened up about there mental health and I hope you all are good love you❤❤❤
    I love how Kate was like “I love you” and was hugging her.

  • @user-qf3nm1im8l
    @user-qf3nm1im8l 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +432

    25:27 the way Harper Signaled to Kate to come was so cute and hope you get better Harper love you guys ❤

    • @iley7096
      @iley7096 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      I had to go back and watch it when I saw this comment because I didn't see it the first time. So cute❤

    • @OfficialEclipseGtag
      @OfficialEclipseGtag 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      How did it even lead up to that point 😂😂

    • @Alex_E13
      @Alex_E13 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      It was so sweet

    • @JustALivie00
      @JustALivie00 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@OfficialEclipseGtagbc she was talking ab something that hurt her…

    • @Kaceyyoulater_3511
      @Kaceyyoulater_3511 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      25:33

  • @maayanoron4913
    @maayanoron4913 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +184

    25:33 when harper reaches out to kate - cutest big sister moment

    • @chickyfelix
      @chickyfelix 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      this is why i love kate she knows how to comfort

    • @Ur.girl.abi.
      @Ur.girl.abi. 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They’re not sisters?..

  • @RaylynnKnighton
    @RaylynnKnighton 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    honestly kate is mom material

  • @ah_oh_no
    @ah_oh_no 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Thank you Harper, honestly... I personally don't struggle with OCD although I have a boyfriend of 4 years who does. When we first got together I didn't really understand, we would get into arguments about it because he needed to do certain things... sometimes those things involved me (having me touch something again, or spin around in the other direction) there was a lot of small things that genuinely effected our relationship, I just didn't understand. I blame myself for it, I didn't educate myself enough. I had no idea the extent of OCD and how it can effect individuals differently. Most people think "oh its about keeping things in the same spot or cleaning excessively".. No it's really not, I have mad respect for you speaking out, especially being so young. Society doesn't know how much impact it really has on individuals along with their loved ones.. Until you're going through it, have it you don't understand what it's like, I can try but I don't know what it's like to live with it.

  • @Cotten_club
    @Cotten_club 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +587

    The intro is so sad 😭 idk if I can watch this without crying
    edit: I love how Kate is making sure harper feels comfortable

    • @annabrowningg
      @annabrowningg 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      Sameeeee. I’m tearing up😭😭

    • @rogerstone8569
      @rogerstone8569 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      FR 😭😭

    • @MiaCutts-mo1ro
      @MiaCutts-mo1ro 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Same I’m going to cry I no it 😂 xx

    • @skaulitzz
      @skaulitzz 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      same :/

    • @Ellaneely-wf5mc
      @Ellaneely-wf5mc 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      same

  • @josephkelly8371
    @josephkelly8371 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +252

    honestly, after the first bit where he wouldn't shut up, this was one of the best episodes. really appreciated the opening up. people do relate.

    • @riedafry
      @riedafry 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

      Bro he literally wouldn’t shut up it was annoying af

    • @alhanoufalqaydi6581
      @alhanoufalqaydi6581 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      I don't think it's actually annoying because like he may be like just needs to know the answer to the question someone was talking about a story and I have a question come up in my mind. I have to say it or else I'll keep thinking about it for the rest of the day I wouldn't be able to sleep. I wouldn't be able to do anything until I get the answer to it and he always gets in his mind maybe he has something where he can't just function without having a joke in his mind and it's not his fault

    • @ViannetheVlogger
      @ViannetheVlogger 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@alhanoufalqaydi6581agreed

    • @rockstar.marceline
      @rockstar.marceline 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@alhanoufalqaydi6581no it's annoying. extremely. he needs to pay attention to social cues and needs to learn when not to make jokes. he did it over and over and over throughout the podcast. the questions were unnecessary and like they said Harper was going to cover that when she told her story.

    • @alhanoufalqaydi6581
      @alhanoufalqaydi6581 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@rockstar.marceline no he literally mentioned that talk because every time he spoke, they would come jokes in his mind like he can't control it like I have ADHD. I am dyslexic and I don't mind anybody making jokes cause it's OK. Like I appreciate them opening up about their mental health and whatever but it's not like you should go so like oh cash wouldn't shut up this is my opinion about this and I feel like it's wrong to say he was annoying

  • @Yourgirlmarz
    @Yourgirlmarz 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    16:20 cash is so annoying here she's just trying to tell y'all about her trouble cause they're her friends Kate slays so hard here tho this is a real girls girl☺️☺️☺️

    • @amandataylorversion1989
      @amandataylorversion1989 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      It’s so annoying when people try to be funny like him, cause he doesn’t notice how annoying it is FR, like I understand Harper

    • @Hetypicallovesbenson
      @Hetypicallovesbenson 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I know like tbh he doesn't know when to stop fr

    • @Hetypicallovesbenson
      @Hetypicallovesbenson 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@amandataylorversion1989 I get that as well fr I understand how Harper feels as well

  • @adelynnykit
    @adelynnykit 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you Harper for having the confidence to post this to reach everyone including me it does in fact help and relate to me so thank you and just know ur loved and put ur faith in god

  • @meghanegruber
    @meghanegruber 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +206

    As a person who was diagnosed with ocd at 5 and I’m almost 15 it’s been a hard journey it’s nice to not feel alone. I completely relate to everything Harper said. OCD has made my life difficult in so many ways and it’s so nice to hear someone not just talk about how they panic when their room isn’t clean but actually talk about real ocd and everything I have experienced because it is truly deeper then just stressing over having a messy room.

    • @slayddi86
      @slayddi86 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      me tooo ive had it since 4th grade and i relate so bad

    • @Hetypicallovesbenson
      @Hetypicallovesbenson 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Dang sorry you live like that

    • @chelseavivero4328
      @chelseavivero4328 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I’m so sorry but what is ocd

    • @slayddi86
      @slayddi86 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@chelseavivero4328 obsessive compulsive disorder is a mental disorder driven by anxiety usually and it makes u get intrusive thoughts and urges to do “compulsions” which aren’t rational so u feel like ur fears won’t come true (someone fill me in if u have more info idk how to explain ahahahh) :)

    • @chelseavivero4328
      @chelseavivero4328 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@slayddi86 thanks 😊

  • @selmalundqvist3729
    @selmalundqvist3729 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +88

    The way Harper reach for Kate😭 such a sis/bestie moment,
    Truly a special episode, bless all of you! ❤

    • @Victoria-playss
      @Victoria-playss 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sowskslslalslalslslsls❤😂😢😮😅😊

  • @Walkingclowneliastreetagain
    @Walkingclowneliastreetagain 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Harper genuinely thank you for this. I understand exactly what you mean even when you didn’t explicitly saying it…..because same. The constant intrusive thoughts that make your skin crawl, the compulsions, god it’s so awful. Harper you aren’t alone. Remember the reason your intrusive thoughts scare you is because you don’t want to do them. They say nothing about you, your values or what you actually want to do. I love you and genuinely thank you ❤️‍🩹🫶🏻

  • @AlexiaTaboas
    @AlexiaTaboas 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’ve never cried watching a video. This was my first time I literally cried so much for both Harper and Kate

  • @paetongunn8803
    @paetongunn8803 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +85

    Harper we would never judge you for crying about something like that. You are allowed to feel, especially when it’s something that affects your everyday life. Your story will help people.

  • @maggie_loves_14
    @maggie_loves_14 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +132

    the way kate was comforting harper is like they've known each other their whole lives

  • @Ghostinbutpostin
    @Ghostinbutpostin 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I totally understand Kate and Harper it happens to me all the time I also have severe ocd and I just wanted to say that Mav is the most heartwarming human and I just can’t explain it and I love how he calmed Harper and Kate down it was very beautiful and I love the way he felt so bad and u could tell he wanted to hug Harper and I also felt like Kate deserved a hug while she was sad but I wanted to just say u guys are amazing and thank u for opening up this episode really helped I’m so grateful that u shared your feeling and felt comfortable.❤ I just wanted to add that Kate would be an amazing mother and I’m so grateful for u guys❤

  • @Eliza_xo
    @Eliza_xo 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    "and also Kate might Cry" 🤣

  • @deannahafidi7044
    @deannahafidi7044 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +144

    Mavericks the type of guy to comfort his sister in law and friend when there going through a very tough time ❤😊

  • @Mia.Moo231
    @Mia.Moo231 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +114

    When Harper said, "People think OCD Is abt oh u have to clean up ur room and stuff like that, but it's not that at all." I could relate soo much! I have really bad OCD and I want people to understand that its not about cleaning and having to have things neat all the time because my OCD I'd say its quite serious and it affects what I do, like the tapping or somethings gonna happen, or closing the door again or triple checking everything, and there's things I shouldn't be thinking about but I do think about them because I can't help it. and being constantly worried about things is the main problem with my OCD, but I'm so glad I watched this video since I could relate to what Harper said.

    • @bloxygamergirl2998
      @bloxygamergirl2998 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I agree. I also have very severe ocd, when I tell people I have ocd they’ll be like ‘oh, why isn’t your desk organised then?’ (That’s just an example) and it leaves me so pissed because ocd isn’t just obsessively cleaning on needing thing to be neat! It can mean that in some circumstances, but that’s not all :(

  • @LovelyPaisXx
    @LovelyPaisXx 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    harper when you open up abou ocd and stuff i really relate cause i have a similar story about it and ur so god damn brave talkng about it and ts amazing tha you talk about it it helps me and many othes sososo much and like OCD,ADHD and anxity is serious and i have it an many others thak you for helping me m really roud of you for openng up

  • @luana-dw5hp
    @luana-dw5hp 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you so so much kate for sharing out what you've been feeling because i have been feeling the same way so deeply. It's so hard to get through but you sharing your story helped me to remember that God has my back and that it's all part of Gods plan. Thank you for reminding me i'm not alone❤ 36:17

  • @GodsLittleBookWorm
    @GodsLittleBookWorm 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +183

    Just the intro made me cry I love how Cash Mav Kate and Harper are just a little family and support each other.

  • @lindseyseverino7366
    @lindseyseverino7366 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +242

    Hi Harper. I’m Lindsey‘s daughter. I found this episode and I was like OMG I relate to every single word she’s saying right now. It means everything to me that you are opening up about it and it really encourages me to follow my dreams and to keep going because we know that it’s going to get better and it’s not real. I was diagnosed with OCD this year and have dealt with the exact same thoughts and compulsions. It’s so hard but we can get through this. I’m literally crying right now. Thank you so much Harper. I love you! Follow your dreams girly. Keep going!

    • @amber_sims
      @amber_sims 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      Who’s Lindsay?

    • @AzariaAdrianna
      @AzariaAdrianna 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@amber_simsthe username

    • @selene7966
      @selene7966 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      A five year old on her mom’s phone 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Nicole-574ktm
      @Nicole-574ktm 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      @@selene7966 thats good writing for a five year old

    • @Pramada-nm6oc
      @Pramada-nm6oc 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@amber_sims she is trying to open up about something. you don't have to comment that.

  • @Dancemomsxclaire
    @Dancemomsxclaire 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    haper ur so brave to open up to people like that. You definitely shouldn’t be ashamed about it, everyone has something going on in there life like, OCD or ADHD, I have a very hard time focusing because of my ADHD it’s hard. And the fact that you can keep it so cool and make lots of people laugh and smile during ur shorts tik toks and etc, is so amazing! Me and many other people are here for you and it’s going to be okay! And ur definitely not alone it’s totally fine! ❤️❤️

  • @analisamartinez4786
    @analisamartinez4786 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This made me cry and feel so many emotions at the same time it reminded me of my past and the stuff that I was going through

  • @Brooklynsoccer
    @Brooklynsoccer 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +146

    I’m glad that Kate and Harper opened up about this because I thought I was the only one. I’m always nervous and scared like Kate. It just makes me feel more comfortable to talk about my feelings inside me.

    • @Noah32355
      @Noah32355 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Same

    • @user-jw8fc7dj5r
      @user-jw8fc7dj5r 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I can relate to them but not to the same extent

    • @user-xc7of2yw6i
      @user-xc7of2yw6i 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Same bcuz I have OCD and ADHD I don't take medicine for either of them

    • @user-jw8fc7dj5r
      @user-jw8fc7dj5r 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@user-xc7of2yw6i ya small is think I have adhd and ocd but I've never been tested and of I do I don't to the s,as extent as harper I feel so bad for her. 💗💕💖

  • @yourrobloxgirlyy
    @yourrobloxgirlyy 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +137

    harper this is not not embarassing, everybody cries!! i actually relate to this with social anxiety & ocd. i can’t even go to a friends house without having anxiety about it or missing home ( getting home sick ) you are loved by so much people, just because u cry doesn’t mean ur depressed, if somebody makes fun of you for crying, they are stupid. everybody cries! we love you harper 💓💓

    • @StridewaySophie
      @StridewaySophie 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Ikr crying is literally a bodily function. I cry when I see a cute dog or if I even see a stranger upset, it's literally an everyday occurrence for me and I'm sure many others❤❤❤

    • @user-ew5up6lk2o
      @user-ew5up6lk2o 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I can relate

    • @TTPD_Loverr13
      @TTPD_Loverr13 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I can relate your not alone ❤

  • @urfavedog_ROXI
    @urfavedog_ROXI 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I have ocd to and it has been very hard for me to open up and watching this has helped me so much❤❤❤❤a

  • @ashni..376
    @ashni..376 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    You know how u've known someone for so long and that person is like an angel so happy happening and like such a positive happy soul always tryna make people happy with their words their actions just being surround them makes u happy and for the 1st time u see them cry IT HURTS DEEP !! Like harper crying just broke my heart 😢 harper your the purest soul and I love you just Stay Strong sad times will pass ! 🤍 Love you kate u too Stay Strong

  • @keiiii.noelle
    @keiiii.noelle 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +132

    i love how harper wanted to share even though it was a sensitive subject so people wouldn't feel alone. im her age and even though i don't have ocd i struggle with things it was incredibly encouraging. i absolutely sobbed when mav started talking about God and started reciting the scripture. i also sobbed when kate hugged harper. we all need someone in our lives like those too. harpers so lucky to have you all. thank you harper for sharing this and thank you mav cash and kate for being so supportive to her. i love y'all so much i hope you all have a blessed day and ill be keeping harper in my prayers. 💗

  • @Peyton_225
    @Peyton_225 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

    Mav what you were saying to Harper was really sweet and I am a Christian and I hope that Harper’s mental health gets better. I love y’all’s channel so much.

  • @semhalberhane2143
    @semhalberhane2143 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i appreciate harper talking about her ocd so much because i relate and i always felt so alone but this made me feel so seen ❤❤

  • @Julca_652
    @Julca_652 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    29:53 I relate to Kate so much don’t worry you’re not alone I always am so scared to sleep because I’m scared that I won’t wake up and I’m so scared of what happens when u die.

  • @shannonmcdonald6896
    @shannonmcdonald6896 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +94

    Maverick is literally the best person. I freakin' Love him. He's just such a good comforter and he Truly cares for everyone. God Bless y'all. Also Kate. I understand what your saying.

  • @simplyashleyy
    @simplyashleyy 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +108

    I don’t know if you guys will see this or anyone will, but i just wanted to say that this episode was so sad yet so refreshing at the same time. We get told all the time that we are not alone and other people struggle as well, but it is very hard to understand without seeing it. Just knowing and seeing that these people that seem very perfect and always happy have struggles too is relieving. I also wanted to say they made me feel very very heard and less alone. I relate to Harper because i have a health issue and every time i try to talk about it, it brings me to tears. I don’t know what it is but the way it affects my life just makes it very hard to speak about. I also have not really shared it with any of my friends so seeing how brave she is sharing it with the world makes me less afraid to talk about it considering that may help me cope. Next i completely relate to kate. My biggest fear is death. There was this huge period of time where every night before bed I would start thinking of bad situations and ecspecially relating to school. I would pray every night that something bad wouldn’t happen. If I heard the slightest noise outside of my room my heart would beat so fast and I would try to become as quiet as possible. I still get this feeling sometimes and im still really scared of death ecspecially the unknown of what’s after it. I know God is there yet my brain like Mav said can’t comprehend that there is more than just Earth. Finally I wanted to say the way they showed their faith in this episode really spoke to me. I have always struggled a bit with my faith and a few months ago I was in a dark area and I really believe it brought me out. Just like Kate though, when it got better I noticed I wasn’t praying or focusing on it as much anymore which i definitely am trying to work on. People say that God is always with you and there for you but it almost felt like he wasn’t. I believe in him but this made me feel doubtful. I appreciate them and their stories a lot and I hope they know how much of an impact they just made and how special they are in my heart. I really believe I needed to see and hear this today. Thank you guys💗

    • @Moth_Wing381
      @Moth_Wing381 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      The same things happen to me too. I understand it

    • @alikagindez
      @alikagindez 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      i also a treible fear of death i can never sleep at night and get scared im gonna die in my sleep. it could be in the middle of winter and i just start sweating and shaking.

    • @Moth_Wing381
      @Moth_Wing381 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@alikagindez mhm

    • @LeahBurkovskiy
      @LeahBurkovskiy 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I can relate like ik I shouldn’t be scared of death but sometimes I’ll have these random thoughts about it and like sometimes I have it at night and I get so anxious abt it and I start praying to god to get these thoughts out of my head.

    • @JezzielAntoinette
      @JezzielAntoinette 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Me too for sometime ❤❤❤❤😢

  • @lizs8267
    @lizs8267 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    cash actually pissed me off when he kept interrupting

  • @Cheyenne09
    @Cheyenne09 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You can just tell how big of a heart Kate has comforting harper she is an amazing person and has a amazing relationship with the lord i cried this episode and prayed right after

  • @libbydatema2105
    @libbydatema2105 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +47

    Mav is such a good listener, I’m always trying to be the most supportive I can and listen with open ears. It’s very thoughtful of you guys to be sharing your stories and it’s greatly appreciated ❤ I have type 1 diabetes and it’s not easy. I’ve had it since I was 6 and it’s been a struggle keeping up with it, sometime I just feel like I can’t do it, or I’m just not good enough at taking care of myself. You girls are amazing people and wish you all the best❤

  • @LunaBlue-ts5yv
    @LunaBlue-ts5yv 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +96

    Hello, this is mainly toward Kate. I am a little younger than Harper, but I can relate to Kate so, so much. When this started, I was moving 226 mile away from the people that I felt the safest with. My parents used to fight regularly and my best friend’s place was the only place I could escape from home. I’m not best friends with my mom/dad because of this, so I still haven’t told my parents I need help. When I was finally moved in to my new house i started school. In about the middle of the school year I would get panic attacks regularly due to my parents and the “pressure” my teachers would put on me. The reason why I say “pressure” is because they wouldn’t actually put pressure on me, but they would assign assignments and I would feel that everyone expected everything of me and if I didn’t do well something bad would happen. At the time there were shooting threats sent to my school. It happened about 7 times which didn’t help.Also at the time my friends at the old place I lived, was going through a hard time too and would constantly FaceTime me in tears. I would push all my hard feelings down for them, so they’d think I was okay and that I was strong. After all the build up of emotions I would constantly think that they were going to also build up all their emotions and ☠️ themselves. I ended up talking to them about it and they told me that they had thought of it and that just broke me. We are now much older and are able to see each other more. ❤

    • @dragonlover328
      @dragonlover328 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I’m so sorry

    • @noradevoti
      @noradevoti 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I'm around harpers age and I have really bad anxiety, when I was a kid I cried and got sick before my birthday parties. I have a problem with storing my emotions in the back of my mind and eventually I just explode. You guys are not alone, as well as people having similar experiences the lord will maintain as our savior and will always take care of us no matter the situation

    • @TayTab-ed3bk
      @TayTab-ed3bk 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I get what you are going through

    • @annec7235
      @annec7235 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Iv never related more to Harper storie than anything in my whole life I’m so sorry y’all had to go through that and I wish you all the best❤

  • @chrysalieditss
    @chrysalieditss 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    15:24 I’m sorry but cash just talking over harper while she’s opening up about something so serious and important to her was so annoying I felt so bad for her you can tell she’s struggling and trying to explain

  • @brantley2224
    @brantley2224 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What ever Kate is going through is what I’m going through to! I always worry about lockdowns and what will happen if I don’t come home. I always worry about something that my parents go somewhere and I can’t see what is happing to them scared me. 😢 So I thought this would be a good place to tell ! Love yall and have an amazing summer🎉😢😮😅❤!

  • @CarolynBoudreaux-je3gf
    @CarolynBoudreaux-je3gf 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +115

    I relate to Kate's story.
    I Think I have undiagnosed misophonia, there are certain sounds that make me feel
    so... wretched that I hated my life. I live in Louisiana, and there is a huge part of the
    bayou in my backyard. I sat on the bank that leads to it and thought of jumping in and drowning myself.
    I wanted to end my life for almost 1 week straight.
    I finally asked my mom for help and during that week before I asked my mom for help
    I wrote in my prayer book like Kate. And I just kept writing poems to God and I wrote more
    than I ever have to talked to God before. I so desperately wanted to be with Jesus where
    my suffering would end. I still have lines I wrote memorized.
    "Sometimes I see a rope and wish it was around my throat, so that I may not groan because
    I have not seen Your throne."
    "When I feel the wind blowing or the sun showing, I hope it's a sign that You're taking me with
    you where Your going."
    "Or I could wait for the sun as I wait for Your Son."
    I hope Kate Baker sees this comment and I hope you guys know that I am fine now
    I still hate the sounds but I don't have as much suicidal thoughts any more. Kate, Mav, Harper, Cash
    and the chicken sandwich in the video with Gina (poorly timed laughter.) I hope you know that I
    deeply hope to see you in heaven.

    • @Nustlily-so2lt
      @Nustlily-so2lt 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I also live in LA. Sorry for your story

    • @Flowergirl363
      @Flowergirl363 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Im so sorry and I’m so happy that your still alive and fighting

    • @Tehehehehehehehehehe
      @Tehehehehehehehehehe 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same I always feel this way especially cause i go to a school that’s so close to covenant( the school that got shot) and I always fear that and I can’t sleep most of the time

    • @user-ud5ug7kl3c
      @user-ud5ug7kl3c 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m so sorry honey, you are never alone. I know a lot of people say things like this but there are always helplines too. I’m so proud of you for asking for help from God and your mom. If you ever need a reason to live, just know that I am praying for you and want you to live a long and happy life. Love you ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊

    • @kajalandtianatheteampatel9895
      @kajalandtianatheteampatel9895 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Me too😔 sorry and hope you’re doing better

  • @Lilli_TS12
    @Lilli_TS12 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +107

    Not many things make me cry but when Mav started talking abt god and stuff I started tearing up but I really started crying when Kate starting comforting Harper. I don’t have ocd or anything like that and I knew that ocd isn’t just cleanliness and stuff but I never knew it could be that bad. Kate will be an AMAZING mom. I ❤️ you guys so much🫶

    • @SchuylerSis51
      @SchuylerSis51 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      That is so true I cried during all of those I’m so glad they r talking about God because not many people who r content creators believe in him and I’m so glad they r open with their Christian faith. ❤️✨❤️

    • @MARIE.M.A73
      @MARIE.M.A73 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      if you wanna see him talking about christianity, mav has another podcast with other people and it’s a christian podcast so you can go watch it it’s called truth and love

    • @Lilli_TS12
      @Lilli_TS12 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@SchuylerSis51 same there really aren’t that many

    • @Lilli_TS12
      @Lilli_TS12 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@MARIE.M.A73 thank you so much🫶🫶🫶 I will definitely check that out!!!

    • @teresaspurlock6161
      @teresaspurlock6161 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Same 😭😭

  • @jamiericketts5045
    @jamiericketts5045 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Harper - crying
    Kate - comforting her
    Mav - comforting her
    Cash - “ThIs LoOkS LikE tHe WrOnG mOmEnT tO bE wEaRiNg a ToIlEt SeaT”

  • @theyluv.sophia.
    @theyluv.sophia. 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I love this it’s about opening up and not being scared of you Harper i love you im here for you and you all are like a family ily all so much ❤❤❤❤

  • @Malin-qq4nx
    @Malin-qq4nx 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +153

    Please tell Harper this:
    You are so strong, pretty, smart and talented in so many ways. So many people love you. The people that don't love you just dont know you. And it is ok to cry. But you dont have to put it on the Internet if you dont want to. You dont need it for views or so that people can relate. But if you do it for the people that can relate it is so nice and brave to put this on the internet. The important thing is that you choose what you want. And it is so strong and brave to talk about everything about you so open. You just need to remember that you are a beautiful human.
    You make me feel better about myself. Thanks ❤ ilysm

    • @preppymarieXx
      @preppymarieXx 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Make this top comment

    • @Malin-qq4nx
      @Malin-qq4nx 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@preppymarieXx ❤️

    • @lavenderelephant
      @lavenderelephant 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      PIN THIS COMMENT THEY SPITTING STRAIGHT FACTTSSSS
      everything they were saying made me think about my life so much. This podcast makes me happy, thank you so much for this episode. You all deserve everything you wish for and I hope you all receive your wishes.

    • @starbrooks
      @starbrooks 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I literally love how they talked about Jesus and praying to help with Harper, dude I love how they even through our Bible verses, I love this podcast so much! ✝️👏

    • @itsyourgirlpaisly6692
      @itsyourgirlpaisly6692 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Pin this comment pls lol club / podcast

  • @poppycoulson6512
    @poppycoulson6512 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +138

    I love how you are getting comfortable talking about things such as mental health on TH-cam. Makes me feel so much better about being able to talk about my mental health aswell ❤❤. Love you guys. Aswell as like mav is liek her second dad and kate her mum how they were both reassuring her and telling her its ok and not embarrassing and the way kate hugged her and wiped her tears😢. I feel you harper
    Also not to be that girl but yes I liked my own comment 😊

  • @LisandraIng
    @LisandraIng 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I have been dealing with the same thing as Kate so I am so happy to hear that I am not alone

  • @peytonkinder9712
    @peytonkinder9712 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hi Harper, I have ocd and I got diagnosed at the age of 4 and I’m 13 now but I struggle in school cause I have similar issues but I am blessed to have my aunt as my principal! I do understand and I thought I was like alone before this mad me feel so better. I’m just glad I’m not alone and neither are you

  • @Ell611_yt
    @Ell611_yt 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +258

    omg I just saw Harper crying I was in shock I felt so bad omg
    85??? Y’all make me happy ❤

    • @rovenasota4831
      @rovenasota4831 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      ME TOO😭☹️

    • @Ell611_yt
      @Ell611_yt 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I am watching them go up this is amazing lol I have never gotten this many likes on a comment

    • @Ell611_yt
      @Ell611_yt 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      95??? Plz get this to 1k y’all

    • @Daniela-zr4xs
      @Daniela-zr4xs 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Ikr

    • @user-pe5ul1yv8m
      @user-pe5ul1yv8m 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Galatians on 100 likes❤

  • @Elnooodle
    @Elnooodle 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Harper hugging Kate gave Anna and Elsa vibes ❤️❤️

  • @jolie6002
    @jolie6002 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    right now i’m at the part where harper is talking about her mental breakdown in class in FIRST PERIOD class and literally im so happy that she said this because yesterday i had such a bad mental breakdown too that i had to bring home my test because i was so stressed with the test
    i love how they keep talking about god and how you need to pray to god at this moment 28:59

  • @767uh
    @767uh 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    Kate would be such a good mom!!!
    I love the way she comforted Harper when she was crying! She’s so kind

  • @Jan-vp8jz
    @Jan-vp8jz 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +80

    Harper and kate, just remember that crying on podcast or any video in general does not define who you are, and it doesn't make you weak. It good to tell people about how your feeling because the longer you hold on the more its gonna hurt. Crying does not mean your weak it just means you been really strong and held it in for to long. We love you!❤

  • @rebekahfinocchiaro
    @rebekahfinocchiaro 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    harper! i’m 17 and was diagnosed with ocd this year. looking back i’ve realized how much it has been evident in my life. you’re so brave to have opened up about it and have touched so many people! i’ve been doing erp therapy also. it’s hard when your ocd is telling you things you know in the very back of your head aren’t true but you feel like you HAVE to do them because of the ocd. i know it’s hard and scary but you can do it! also God loves you so much! like mav said you’re his daughter and there’s nothing you have to do to earn his love!!

  • @Miley_strideway_offical
    @Miley_strideway_offical วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I can relate to Kate so much. I have anxiety and I can relate to Kate so much it happens to me alot I’ll just think about my parents or a loved one dying. So I’m glad to hear other people experience the same things as me

  • @imwom11
    @imwom11 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +47

    i started crying when harper was crying because i felt like she is such a sweet girl and doesn’t deserve to be going through that

  • @Lifewithlauryn1
    @Lifewithlauryn1 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

    The way I ugly cried listening to Harper because I can relate in such a way and reaching for Kate is so sweet

    • @yo9979
      @yo9979 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Same I related so much 😭

  • @IsabellePerutelli
    @IsabellePerutelli 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love the way Kate went to hug harper 😊

  • @Ep2711-vl1vy
    @Ep2711-vl1vy 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this video was so relatable about the mental health i always have thoughts about how i can fix things and how i should do better and i always find a way to put myself down and I never feel safe talking to people about it because i think that someone will judge me or make fun of me honestly when harper and kate shared their experiences it was very relatable and i also have had experience with therapists and bad mental health insidents where i have done bad things to my self and broke down because i didn't know what to do i didn't know how i could fix it how long it would last how long i would be like this and all the thoughts honestly just kept flowing tru my head and i felt like no one would be able to relate to me and I was the only one ging thru it and when my therapist's would tell me things about how to handle it , it would make me frustrated because I didn't think that any of it would help but watching this video made me cry because you guys could actually relate and i felt like i was surrounded by people like me who can relate and like share their experience with the public so that you

  • @T.S-girlys
    @T.S-girlys 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +95

    The way kate helped harper and comforted her when she was sad just shows what such a good mom she will be, we are all here for you harper!!❤❤❤

  • @Okayig499
    @Okayig499 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +59

    Kate really help me because I have been dealing with the same thing for at least 3 years and she helped me get through it and think of anxiety a different way

  • @Isabellasiky
    @Isabellasiky 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I relate to Kate on so many different levels in this podcast. I’m always thinking about myself or my family members dying and it terrifies me. I honestly thought I was the only one who thought like that.

  • @terrystuart3294
    @terrystuart3294 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Last year at my school we went on lockdown and couldn't go outside because they thought someone really bad was around and i cried because i was so scared. We ended up all being fine he never came to our school, but i was scared. Kate, when you brought up mass shooting, the memories came back, and i started crying

  • @Mads..526
    @Mads..526 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +40

    Kate and Harper’s stories were both super relatable. I cried so hard.

  • @Spicey618
    @Spicey618 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +59

    As I was recently saved I loved how Kate and mav was able to bring Jesus into the conversation and it meant a lot to me 28:53 also Kate is so nice about everything and cash funny! Harper is so nice funny and enthusiastic about everything we all have tough times and there is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about

    • @botpurposes
      @botpurposes 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      i agree but cash was not really funny because it was a little rude

  • @livvy.d211
    @livvy.d211 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    mav is so wise 😂😂

  • @kids4justesen825
    @kids4justesen825 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I understand Harper I have OCD and it ruins a lot of things. even if your mind starts thinking one thing it just never stops and it's hard but I promise you once you get in a good habit of what you can do when you feel kinda attacked and overwhelmed it gets better I promise. It is a lot of hard work but it's so worth it once you get to your goal I will be praying for you Harper cause I do understand I have anxiety and OCD and they don't mix well so I understand. love you guys! it was nice to kinda hear part of Harper's Testimony and it was an amazing feeling to know I'm not alone and that there are other people who struggle with the same problems so thank you for telling all of us what you go through, that takes strength!

  • @This-eden-world
    @This-eden-world 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +46

    I love how Kate went straight to Harper when she started crying and started wiping her tears and told her that if she doesn’t want that clip in they don’t have to add it it was so sweet❤ and also how mav was telling her to know that there is also someone who loves her and that person is god and there won’t be a time where no one will love you❤