i wanted to get this cute aloha shirt but my mum wouldn’t let me get it because i looked like a boy. now i’m even more pissed but strangely euphoric to know that i can look masculine
My mom doesn't let me buy anything which even had a wiff of masculinity on it saying that guys will make fun of me if I wear it 😔... It's sad because wearing fem clothes give me lot of dysphoria and I feel extremely uncomfortable... like I ain't even allowed to wear a T-shirt if it's from the boys section/looks like it is from the boys section 😢
I know next to -NOTHING about dressing like this. As a Two-Spirit individual I only dress in a weird early 2000's mix of something masculine with something femmine. And something just mostly femmenine it's kind of odd for me cause rarely I ever dress NonBinary.
I don't see myself wearing a skirt anytime soon and I'm not masculine at all nor highly feminine, androgyny towards feminine-ish, But still how does wearing a skirt is masculine? (I'm not talking about traditional music clothing etc) general skirts
Dude I'm literally starting school tomorrow and I was abt to get online to go clothing shopping but I was so lost I NEED THIS THANK YOU IRIS PERFECT TIMING
I feel like femininity, masculinity and androgeny is akin to sweet, salty and umami. Umami isn't necessarily sweet or salty, its a completely different taste and can play with other flavors/tastes interchangeably to make amazing and delicious variety of food, everyone will have different preferences due to how your tastebuds perceives it as well as what food you grew up with and are used too, etc... Regardless all food can be made delicious by the right chef 😩
no but iris actually has good sponsers, like this jewellery is so cool and im about to buy some and the skirt company (i forgot the name) was so tempting. THANK YOU IRIS
as a non-binary Hawaiian person i appreciate u doing ur research and recognizing that calling it a “Hawaiian shirt” can be harmful to our culture + community! aaaahh thank you for giving us these wonderful tips n always being so kind n respectful
@@w4v2 it can be! our culture is often commercialized and branded in a "tourist-y" sense to sell to foreigners, and the rich and sacred parts of our culture are buried beneath what people "think" is Hawaiian culture (pineapples, colorful print shirts, plastic leis) when that's just not true. The Hawaiian community and Hawaii's land and people actually suffer from tourism, despite it playing an immense role economically! I hope this makes sense LOL.
Unfortunately it's just way harder to look/dress in an androgynous way (at leats in my opinion/experience) when one has a (in terms of sex) female body and is not super thin but has, like boobs and hips to some extend. I just can't seem to find any pants that fit the way I want them to and thats just the beginning of the problem. If someone has any tips I would love to hear them.
honestly same. as a short person whos body isn't stick thin I've kind of resorted to viewing myself as masculine whenever I'm wearing femme clothes and vice versa, mostly I decided I can't fully hide my shape so instead I just wear heeled shoes and either mix and match w a baggy top and skinny pants, baggy pants and skinny top. but honestly I find that a straight leg, bootcut and Bermuda style for jeans/pants work best for curvier people! but all in all I think it'll all also depend on how you style it
sport bra + oversized men shirt tucked in to create "belly sash" big enough to hide anything breast down worked quite good for me (D/E cup). But I actually hate sport bra tbh and I probably sew regency short stays instead if I find right fabric...
Unfortunately I think a lot of ppl understand androgyny to be limited to skinny white afab ppl when literally anyone should be able to look androgynous .
Not necessarily true. As someone born female with DD cup and a big butt and hips, I’m a curvy individual. But I have people mistake me for a man and call me sir.
The androgyny of skirts makes me so happy! Skater skirts are so cute and so androgynous I need to be more confident wearing them to school but I'm not quite there yet lol
jewellery wise, something i dont see a lot of ppl wearing but i absolutely adore is wooden bead stuff! i always wear a wooden bead necklace and bracelet and i find they arent tied to any gender,, they are also just rlly funky n remind me of 90s to early 2000s :)
@@raisin4521 OMG I WAS REFERENCING DAMON AND GRAHAM SINCE IM A HUGE BLUR FAN AND FHATS WHERE I GOT MY INSPO :D i found mine in charity shops (thrift stores if youre in the US) but i also found some randomly in my parents junk draw in my kitchen lmao
"Wear what you want as a celebration of yourself" I'm not androgynous or non-binary but I love the sentiment. Its good for everyone to feel they can experiment with their style
Omg I needed this so much, i recently started experimenting with she/they pronouns and even though I still look feminine and have a feminine style I really want to get some more gender neutral pieces in my style while still keeping it feeling like me
Every fit video you've released is just so 👌✨ and this one definitely followed suit! Honestly, a good majority of your points are staple parts of how I dress already (minus the doc martens bc babey, shoes b expensive!) THANK YOU and hello live chat, everyone was lovely and I thoroughly enjoyed the premiere. GOOD VIDEO, GOOD STYLE TIPS, AND FANTASTIC DAY TO YOU BEAUTIFUL HUMANS 💛
i really need to change my view of androgynous clothing. i look so naturally "feminine" that im afraid any traditionally feminine clothing at all will make me "not nonbinary enough" which is dumb and also 100% stereotypically masculine clothing looks ugly as hell so i gotta work on that and erase gendered clothing so i can truly express myself
Jade Fox's channel madeyoulooks is GOLD for any curvy afab person. I feel like my boobs "ruin" a lot of potential outfits, but she gives solid advice to work around them. Basically Jade's great and you're missing out if you're not following her !! Especially if you're afab and androgynous/masculine.
already rewatching from like 4 hours later hehe. i adore the way you talk about androgyny and gender and fashion, it’s so elegant! thank you for your wonderful content
i'm a cis girl, but i LOVE the androgynous style. i think it's super unique, looks interesting and multidimensional. thank you for this video, it was very helpful
i love and mostly wear feminine clothes but i love this video especially when you say just wear what you want and don't let the aesthetics stop you which is so true!
When it comes to shoes my absolute favorites are chelsea boots with a little bit of a high heel. Even though you didn't mention them here I think that they really fit in with the whole androgynous look. Not even gonna lie, I bought a pair only because I see BTS Jhope and Jimin wear them quite often and I think that they look divine on literally everyone.
Hi I like femininity alot but I’m a man I would even go as far as calling myself a metro man But I’m not Gay I have had gay thoughts before though but yeah I’m not but I’m as straight as straight can be
i actually dont know what this style was called and have been wearing it for a while and its funny how people think im a tomboy because of it haha, but im actually really feminine
Im transmasc/nonbinary and im starting to transition from a more binary view of my style and gender identity to a more comfortable and accurate view! I love androgyny,it makes me feel like myself! So thanks for sharing your tips!!
this is great cos my clothes didn’t come from yesstyle yet (lol) and i wanted to go to the thrift store but there’s like only girls outfits there and i’m a guy so it’s difficult to look androgynous for me. SO YEAH- i’m a first year and school starts on the 23rd AND i’m new HELP
Hi! Lucas speaking :) I'm a trans boy and i want to change my clothing style to a much more androgynous one because i can't really change it to a really masculine one like i want to- My mom doesn't want to buy me clothes from the boy's area in clothing shops becaise she says ''it looks like you're wearing a bag''. She's the only one to tell me that lol- even when i come to school with one of the oversized boy's t-shirts my dad bought for me, no one says i look bad, most of my friends loves it! Dunno why my mom doesn't really accept that i want a masculine style but whatever 🤷🏻♂️
im going to in person uni in two weeks so thank you for the fashion inspo!! after years of wearing a school uniform i’m so happy i get to experiment with fashion :)
THIS WAS SO HELPFUL!!! im ngl most of the androgynous fashion videos ive found r either afab or amab femme and this is the first amazing proper androg fashion thing ive found thank you so much!!
Can someone help me pls I‘m so confused lol: I used to dress kinda feminine until I cut my hair short(er) ~2 weeks ago. Since I cut it I noticed that I actually feel more comfortable and confident in less „feminine“ clothes. I‘ve already been wanting to look more androgynous before I cut my hair, but I can‘t figure out if I was scared of being judged if I‘m not dressing feminine but actually felt uncomfortable in feminine clothes or if I‘m just weird and suddenly questioning my gender and just think I‘m not 100% a girl. Because I have no problem with getting my period or stuff like that. But I kinda don’t feel completely like a girl and I feel comfortable in androgynous clothes and I like how I look in them. And whenever I see someone dressing androgynous I’m like „I wanna look like that person
this is what it is like to investigate and question gender! specific labels can be helpful for some people (and could be for you ❣️), but i found it confusing, difficult, and limiting which is why i tend to call myself nonbinary or genderqueer. my advice is to try not to think too hard 🥴 do what ~feels~ right 🥰❤️
gender envy gender envy gender envy gender envy aaaahhhhhh Thanks for the ideas tho. Clothing is stressing me out. I always struggle to find cool fits that give me confidence
Omg I’ve been trying to find someone who has the same style as me for sooo long ! I find that youtubers usually have a more feminine or masculine style, but you inspire me so much to be my androgynous self, so thank you 🥲😊
which video is it where you talk about your hair and then decide to go for the shorter cut? I love my long hair (want it longer) and I am AMAB so I enjoy having some more typically feminine traits to help balance my *gasp* masculinity (sorry, unnecessary) but sometimes miss shorter/med length hair!
I know this video came out quite awhile ago, but I wanted to say that it’s been really helpful coming up with wardrobe for a nonbinary (gnc??) character I’m designing. They’re a cosmic entity, so I don’t think the concept of gender we mere mortals have would fit them, but I couldn’t think of how to style them, so thank you for this!
iris where did u get the black striped sweater?? its super cute!! also i love ur vids so much thank you for the style tips!! i cant wait to try most of these out :DD
I am considered androgynous without the clothing aspect? I legit look like a little boy lol. With the dress, long hair and nails, everything, people still see me as male. It makes me feel sad/insecure but it’s also fascinating.
i'm a demigirl but questioning genderfluid, and i really want to get a binder but im scared people would get confused if i switched between wearing it day on and day off :(
Androgynous in terms of style and clothing, just means you look at someone, and go, "wtf? who are they?" and as a nonbinary person thats what I want. Androgyny for me is just destroying any assumptions about my gender someone could make just by looking at me
1:09 ok but THIS- I feel the most gender euphoria in an A shirt with a build in bra and I don’t know why- I’m very comfortable in my body but it still feels like i’m more than just a girl
Hi, I'm a cis girl (who supports any and everyone) I was wondering if it would be offensive in any way to dress more androgynous? I just like the style and it makes me feel powerful :)
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i wanted to get this cute aloha shirt but my mum wouldn’t let me get it because i looked like a boy.
now i’m even more pissed but strangely euphoric to know that i can look masculine
I wish I could look masculine😥
wait i never thought about it like that, i can look masculine!! :D
Same but I straight up wanted to shop in the men’s section 🌚🌝
My mom doesn't let me buy anything which even had a wiff of masculinity on it saying that guys will make fun of me if I wear it 😔... It's sad because wearing fem clothes give me lot of dysphoria and I feel extremely uncomfortable... like I ain't even allowed to wear a T-shirt if it's from the boys section/looks like it is from the boys section 😢
@@artzilla7453i’m so sorry :’( has anything changed in the last two years?
Starts in 12 hours:
Me at 2 am 🍿this gonna be good 👁👄👁
💗💗💗
can't wait.
(well, i mean, i will wait, cuz i have to, obviously, but ykwim-)
I'm a fellow enby as well
😇😇
I know next to -NOTHING about dressing like this. As a Two-Spirit individual I only dress in a weird early 2000's mix of something masculine with something femmine. And something just mostly femmenine it's kind of odd for me cause rarely I ever dress NonBinary.
I don't see myself wearing a skirt anytime soon and I'm not masculine at all nor highly feminine, androgyny towards feminine-ish, But still how does wearing a skirt is masculine? (I'm not talking about traditional music clothing etc) general skirts
Dude I'm literally starting school tomorrow and I was abt to get online to go clothing shopping but I was so lost I NEED THIS THANK YOU IRIS PERFECT TIMING
☝️😌 i gotchu
Love ur Langa pfp
@@evillemons0228 Awh ty
Try and thrift/ second hand shop clothes if you can. It’s more eco friendly and also cheaper🤍
@@Karolina-dr8du Ah tyyyy I'll do that
Idk why but “you can be the masculine/feminine element” just hit me really hard. Like. Woah. I needed to hear that. Thanks.
Same! It’s comforting to think that my body isn’t inherently feminine despite being afab :,)
I feel like femininity, masculinity and androgeny is akin to sweet, salty and umami. Umami isn't necessarily sweet or salty, its a completely different taste and can play with other flavors/tastes interchangeably to make amazing and delicious variety of food, everyone will have different preferences due to how your tastebuds perceives it as well as what food you grew up with and are used too, etc... Regardless all food can be made delicious by the right chef 😩
no but iris actually has good sponsers, like this jewellery is so cool and im about to buy some and the skirt company (i forgot the name) was so tempting. THANK YOU IRIS
happy to provide😌
as a non-binary Hawaiian person i appreciate u doing ur research and recognizing that calling it a “Hawaiian shirt” can be harmful to our culture + community! aaaahh thank you for giving us these wonderful tips n always being so kind n respectful
wait, its harmful?
@@w4v2 it can be! our culture is often commercialized and branded in a "tourist-y" sense to sell to foreigners, and the rich and sacred parts of our culture are buried beneath what people "think" is Hawaiian culture (pineapples, colorful print shirts, plastic leis) when that's just not true. The Hawaiian community and Hawaii's land and people actually suffer from tourism, despite it playing an immense role economically! I hope this makes sense LOL.
@@gracemoanimai1491 I didn't know this :0 Thanks for explaining that! (You weren't explaining it to me but it helped nonetheless)
:0 I didn’t know this. Thanks for educating people
@@gracemoanimai1491 thank you so much for educating me !
I literally love these vids so much as a closeted nonbinary person
it feels like they’re our big sibling helping us and i live for that comfy feeling
Like da pfp
Yesss,, anyone else here is a woman but loves to dress androgynous too?
meeeee :))))))
me :)
Me :D!!
Yup
i’m a demigirl but yes i love dressing androgynous. idk why but it kinda makes me feel powerful lmfao
Unfortunately it's just way harder to look/dress in an androgynous way (at leats in my opinion/experience) when one has a (in terms of sex) female body and is not super thin but has, like boobs and hips to some extend. I just can't seem to find any pants that fit the way I want them to and thats just the beginning of the problem. If someone has any tips I would love to hear them.
honestly same. as a short person whos body isn't stick thin I've kind of resorted to viewing myself as masculine whenever I'm wearing femme clothes and vice versa, mostly I decided I can't fully hide my shape so instead I just wear heeled shoes and either mix and match w a baggy top and skinny pants, baggy pants and skinny top. but honestly I find that a straight leg, bootcut and Bermuda style for jeans/pants work best for curvier people! but all in all I think it'll all also depend on how you style it
sport bra + oversized men shirt tucked in to create "belly sash" big enough to hide anything breast down worked quite good for me (D/E cup). But I actually hate sport bra tbh and I probably sew regency short stays instead if I find right fabric...
Unfortunately I think a lot of ppl understand androgyny to be limited to skinny white afab ppl when literally anyone should be able to look androgynous .
Not necessarily true. As someone born female with DD cup and a big butt and hips, I’m a curvy individual. But I have people mistake me for a man and call me sir.
you could always bind the chest (if you don’t have a binder simply cut a pair of form-fitting leggings)
⚠ cute hair alert! cute hair alert! ⚠
weeee 🥰
The androgyny of skirts makes me so happy! Skater skirts are so cute and so androgynous I need to be more confident wearing them to school but I'm not quite there yet lol
I know this comment is a little old now so I hope you're comfortable with it, but if not something that helped me a lot is wearing shorts underneath!
finally a reference to have before I go back to school shopping and have a break down on what I'll actually wear or not
As a tomboy girl who is uncomfortable wearing revealing clothes but wants to look genderless at the same time…I’m so here for this 😂😂
jewellery wise, something i dont see a lot of ppl wearing but i absolutely adore is wooden bead stuff! i always wear a wooden bead necklace and bracelet and i find they arent tied to any gender,, they are also just rlly funky n remind me of 90s to early 2000s :)
Like damon albarns and graham coxons from the 90s?? (Just assuming u know who they are from ur pfp lol)
Also where did u get urs cos I think they look rlly cool too
yes!! I LIVE off of wooden bead necklaces they make me feel real cool and almost like surfer-y. literally the best thing ever
@@raisin4521 OMG I WAS REFERENCING DAMON AND GRAHAM SINCE IM A HUGE BLUR FAN AND FHATS WHERE I GOT MY INSPO :D i found mine in charity shops (thrift stores if youre in the US) but i also found some randomly in my parents junk draw in my kitchen lmao
@@sbwred agreed i literally feel bare without mine
"Wear what you want as a celebration of yourself" I'm not androgynous or non-binary but I love the sentiment. Its good for everyone to feel they can experiment with their style
Literally just came out to my family about being nonbinary, thank you for inspiring me to be me. And how to look cute as heck as a nb 👀
ouu congrats on coming out!! so happy for you
Omg I needed this so much, i recently started experimenting with she/they pronouns and even though I still look feminine and have a feminine style I really want to get some more gender neutral pieces in my style while still keeping it feeling like me
same :D
Me2
your voice is so soothing I love it😩 you're amazing!!
ily 🥺
i cuff every single pair of pants just becuase im litterally 4'11 so if i dont i look like im drowning
lolololol
You spoke about recategorizing gendered stuff, and i remember doing this with nail polish and now i can use it without feeling too fem!
Every fit video you've released is just so 👌✨ and this one definitely followed suit! Honestly, a good majority of your points are staple parts of how I dress already (minus the doc martens bc babey, shoes b expensive!)
THANK YOU and hello live chat, everyone was lovely and I thoroughly enjoyed the premiere. GOOD VIDEO, GOOD STYLE TIPS, AND FANTASTIC DAY TO YOU BEAUTIFUL HUMANS 💛
just realized i'm an androgynous god without even knowing it *bites lip*
Oh I’m a bit early 👁👄👁
Lol same
iris is gonna drop more andro outfit ideas into my mind that my mom wont buy for me. Thanks, luck 🙃
i really need to change my view of androgynous clothing. i look so naturally "feminine" that im afraid any traditionally feminine clothing at all will make me "not nonbinary enough" which is dumb and also 100% stereotypically masculine clothing looks ugly as hell so i gotta work on that and erase gendered clothing so i can truly express myself
Commenting because why not?
replying to your comment because why not?
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i'm also replying because why not!
Jade Fox's channel madeyoulooks is GOLD for any curvy afab person. I feel like my boobs "ruin" a lot of potential outfits, but she gives solid advice to work around them.
Basically Jade's great and you're missing out if you're not following her !! Especially if you're afab and androgynous/masculine.
I’m gender fluid and I have always loved the androgynous style but never tried it out. Excite to try it this year
Same! But I'm also demi girl ✨ I'm gonna wear something androgynous to a fancy party
yooooooooooo
Nice pfp
@@leethestar6421 thanks :)
YOOOOOOOO
already rewatching from like 4 hours later hehe. i adore the way you talk about androgyny and gender and fashion, it’s so elegant! thank you for your wonderful content
i'm a cis girl, but i LOVE the androgynous style. i think it's super unique, looks interesting and multidimensional. thank you for this video, it was very helpful
Incorporate it, if you like it embrace the style but be confident in your preferences. Owning both will make you stand out as a person
i love and mostly wear feminine clothes but i love this video especially when you say just wear what you want and don't let the aesthetics stop you which is so true!
Im starting college next week as an openly nonbinary person and I really need to fix my wardrobe so this is very helpful. Thanku ♥️
I love your advice in these androgyny videos 💖💖💖
this genuinely helped me sm i was so lost, i want new clothes 4 school but like ,,, had no idea how to go about it
Iris can I pls have my gender back ranboo said he didn’t take it so I’m pretty sure it was you
@mika's cafe モカ I know how selfish of them 🙄🙄/j
“So wear what you want, as a celebration of yourself.” Had to be said. Thanks Iris ＜３
youre videos are such a comfort, i very recently feeling ~gender nb~ vibes and you're so helpful and sweet!!! thank you for all your content!!
When it comes to shoes my absolute favorites are chelsea boots with a little bit of a high heel. Even though you didn't mention them here I think that they really fit in with the whole androgynous look. Not even gonna lie, I bought a pair only because I see BTS Jhope and Jimin wear them quite often and I think that they look divine on literally everyone.
Me: I should start saving money
TH-cam: Here are some recommended videos for androgynous fashion
Yesss thanks for this! I use all pronouns and go from a super fem style to a super masc one and everything in-between so this was v helpful 💖
I'm so tempted to cut my hair like this but my hair is curly ;((
Do it it's gonna look so cute
@@adeleboyadjian804 i did it :)) still looks pretty fem but I like it!!
I was thinking about doc martens for a while, but I got the Mollys because of you! Your style gives me ✨gender envy✨
Cant wait! Love the new hair on you!
*smiles in genderfluid*
i’m so ready, also i love your hair it looks really nice :D !
I haven't worn any of my 'nicer' clothes in a year so I can't wait to experiment with the styles in this vid once rona let's up!
Yesterday I asked where the bathroom was and I got directions to the boys restroom and the girls restroom so I guess I’m pretty androgynous myself 😎
Um hello iris :D
What r ur pronouns ?
Just so I don't make any mistakes
O btw I think ur really pretty
Hi I like femininity alot but I’m a man I would even go as far as calling myself a metro man
But I’m not Gay I have had gay thoughts before though but yeah I’m not but I’m as straight as straight can be
ur mind 💆🏻
yayyy excited for fall so i can wear cool clothes again lol
I keep coming back to this video religiously, thanks iris for this teaching resource
💘💖💕💗💞
Trying to dress androgynous so I don’t have to come out to my mom. Thanks so much for the excellent vidd!
"Wear what you want in celabration of yourself" i love it!🤎
i actually dont know what this style was called and have been wearing it for a while and its funny how people think im a tomboy because of it haha, but im actually really feminine
I rlly wanna use they/them pronouns and im at a all girls school which sucks.
Im transmasc/nonbinary and im starting to transition from a more binary view of my style and gender identity to a more comfortable and accurate view! I love androgyny,it makes me feel like myself! So thanks for sharing your tips!!
Literally wearing the same overalls while watching this video lmao
hehe
this is great cos my clothes didn’t come from yesstyle yet (lol) and i wanted to go to the thrift store but there’s like only girls outfits there and i’m a guy so it’s difficult to look androgynous for me. SO YEAH-
i’m a first year and school starts on the 23rd AND i’m new
HELP
suuuuper off topic but your voice is sooo relaxing i feel like im on a cloud
Hi! Lucas speaking :)
I'm a trans boy and i want to change my clothing style to a much more androgynous one because i can't really change it to a really masculine one like i want to-
My mom doesn't want to buy me clothes from the boy's area in clothing shops becaise she says ''it looks like you're wearing a bag''.
She's the only one to tell me that lol- even when i come to school with one of the oversized boy's t-shirts my dad bought for me, no one says i look bad, most of my friends loves it! Dunno why my mom doesn't really accept that i want a masculine style but whatever 🤷🏻♂️
might i suggest altercore as a great sustainable doc martens alternative? theyre my favorite shoe brand the boots i buy there are so high quality
im going to in person uni in two weeks so thank you for the fashion inspo!! after years of wearing a school uniform i’m so happy i get to experiment with fashion :)
What about us men who want to be androgynous?
take the tips that make sense and leave the ones that don't! I have plenty of videos showcasing different types of androgyny :)
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AHHH
me watching this, sitting in my ripped cuffed jeans, graphic band tee, vitality choker, and doc martens: nice
THIS WAS SO HELPFUL!!! im ngl most of the androgynous fashion videos ive found r either afab or amab femme and this is the first amazing proper androg fashion thing ive found thank you so much!!
Can someone help me pls I‘m so confused lol:
I used to dress kinda feminine until I cut my hair short(er) ~2 weeks ago. Since I cut it I noticed that I actually feel more comfortable and confident in less „feminine“ clothes. I‘ve already been wanting to look more androgynous before I cut my hair, but I can‘t figure out if I was scared of being judged if I‘m not dressing feminine but actually felt uncomfortable in feminine clothes or if I‘m just weird and suddenly questioning my gender and just think I‘m not 100% a girl. Because I have no problem with getting my period or stuff like that.
But I kinda don’t feel completely like a girl and I feel comfortable in androgynous clothes and I like how I look in them. And whenever I see someone dressing androgynous I’m like „I wanna look like that person
this is what it is like to investigate and question gender! specific labels can be helpful for some people (and could be for you ❣️), but i found it confusing, difficult, and limiting which is why i tend to call myself nonbinary or genderqueer. my advice is to try not to think too hard 🥴 do what ~feels~ right 🥰❤️
@@irisolympia thx
gender envy gender envy gender envy gender envy aaaahhhhhh
Thanks for the ideas tho. Clothing is stressing me out. I always struggle to find cool fits that give me confidence
I rlly wanna look androgynous but I have a big bust 😭😭😭☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️
Omg I’ve been trying to find someone who has the same style as me for sooo long ! I find that youtubers usually have a more feminine or masculine style, but you inspire me so much to be my androgynous self, so thank you 🥲😊
which video is it where you talk about your hair and then decide to go for the shorter cut? I love my long hair (want it longer) and I am AMAB so I enjoy having some more typically feminine traits to help balance my *gasp* masculinity (sorry, unnecessary) but sometimes miss shorter/med length hair!
Youre my new fav youtuber!! Tysm 4 the advice i really needed this
I know this video came out quite awhile ago, but I wanted to say that it’s been really helpful coming up with wardrobe for a nonbinary (gnc??) character I’m designing. They’re a cosmic entity, so I don’t think the concept of gender we mere mortals have would fit them, but I couldn’t think of how to style them, so thank you for this!
Me with my hello kitty baby t, 6 inch platform boots, mini pleated denim and long pigtails… hmm yes.
😯
Thank you for this vid! I came out as non binary a few months ago and ive been trying to figure out clothes lol
Everyone hates me because I wear gold but bitch gold is so fricken pretty
I love being feminine. But some days I also want that masculine vibe… I just don’t know how
iris where did u get the black striped sweater?? its super cute!! also i love ur vids so much thank you for the style tips!! i cant wait to try most of these out :DD
i got it at a thrift store!
I am considered androgynous without the clothing aspect? I legit look like a little boy lol. With the dress, long hair and nails, everything, people still see me as male. It makes me feel sad/insecure but it’s also fascinating.
i'm a demigirl but questioning genderfluid, and i really want to get a binder but im scared people would get confused if i switched between wearing it day on and day off :(
I love my platform docs so much, especially bc I’m 5’1 and I like to be taller •_•
I’m a closeted gnederfloren person thank you bfor this
I really really want your haircut but what’s it called? If you don’t mind me asking
Androgynous in terms of style and clothing, just means you look at someone, and go, "wtf? who are they?" and as a nonbinary person thats what I want. Androgyny for me is just destroying any assumptions about my gender someone could make just by looking at me
Arrrr I hate wearing jewellery but Ibthink jewelery looks sooo attractive and I want to look attractive I'm so at odds 😆
1:09 ok but THIS- I feel the most gender euphoria in an A shirt with a build in bra and I don’t know why- I’m very comfortable in my body but it still feels like i’m more than just a girl
I am woman, but I think that I am dressing kinda androgynous. Is it okay if I do not want to put label on what am I wearing? Same with my body look.
10:52 How can skirts be styled in a more masculine way? Im genuinely curious
Hi, I'm a cis girl (who supports any and everyone) I was wondering if it would be offensive in any way to dress more androgynous? I just like the style and it makes me feel powerful :)
It would be offensive to not dress androgynous if you like it haha, just wear whatever you want :)
@@LuiAMV Thank you! I just wanted to be sure. I feel so like cool and happy when I wear androgynous clothes! :D
Get a haircut.
Wear what u want.
Layer long shirt on short T
Get a phone stand with light
Led light
Foot wear
That purple sweater looks so comfy! I also love how it drapes on you.
Hi bestie! :}
hi bestie 😌💖
I just want to dress as a lesbian soft grunge autum tree but idk how 🤷♀️