After a year my dad remembered me! Alzheimer's, if you don't laugh you'll cry.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ก.ย. 2015
- My dad has Alzheimer's and hasn't remembered me as his daughter for well over a year...but every once in a very great while, for a fleeting moment, he does remember! Today was one of those magical moments to cherish!
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worst thing about growing up is seeing your parents get older
my father lived to be 93 it was hard the last few years because he was just a shell of the man he had been but i loved him so much could let him go when it was time but he was ready
Yes 🥺
I COULD NEVER AGREE MORE
Waitt... I can see my parents when im growed up?
That's if they are alive
"Hey, I just got one right:) " That was perfect
!-!
JustaBoy93 Heheh Yeah, I laughed at that too. In other words...don't push it! 😊
+Jay Pearce you are so rude
@@MariaH-th9ct how is that rude he is being kind? He never said anything wrong he only said a quote that was kind of funny that's all and it's not wrong..?
Maria H
No stop ..... not here
He got jokes
I edited this comment so people would stop arguing
Wait this video has actual dislikes? HOW THE FUCK CAN SOMEONE DISLIKE THIS?
@@diogod2347 it's bots also I feel really bad for this man hope he gets better
@@diogod2347 may they hate diseases becoz they lost someone. some times videos trigger people bringing their memories, they just forget whats going in video, they hate or love video based on thier memories
@Cameron Caines 23 (STUDENT) I know but there is a cure and it's a very low possibility but still hope he gets better
Cameron Caines 23 (STUDENT) you don’t lol
The fact that he said “I love you” to the person he forgot about shows how kind he is.
Amen!!!!!!🕯️🕯️🕯️🔔🔔🔔🔔🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌵🌵🌵🌵🌵🌵🌵🌵🌵🌵🌵🌵🌵🌵🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇
In the moment he remembered that you is his daughter, he doesn't forget to saying I love you, God bless him,.
She? Its a he dumbass
@@airehn5797 know what a typo is? dumbass
@@airehn5797 she?? Where is it?? Look again dumbass
Antok S thrs smth called editing
@@dnro off course that's what editing a comment for
"Hey I just got one right" That was so sweet
I did not expect to laugh while watching this video, but that was awesome.
@@baverfjant hahaha, me neither.
1k likes thanks to me :)
Like a boss!
Sweetest thing ever.
I’m scared of this happening to my parents, wouldn’t know how to react with them seemingly not recognizing me.
Yea me too
Stick with it, Alzheimers commonly likes to give them their memories back one last time before they pass.
@I'm A Goddamn Jerry I have the exact situation as you do.
I am handling this now with my dad. It's horrible...it only gets worse. I am scared.
Hiya FootyManagerTV: Don't you worry! My mom was on the worsening dementia side for 4 or 5 years, in a rest home then a "memory care" facility. But she always knew me. Then one day she did not recognize me at all. She went into a coma a few hours later, and died the next day looking ever so at peace.
Whoever reads this comment.
May his/her parents live a longer life without having this type of diseases.
*their
@HappyNoob Gaming thanks❤
Thank u❤
Nah, my mom could die a painful death for all I care
Thanks
Alzheimer’s and dementia is just absolutely horrible and hard to watch
Isn’t that the same thing?
No System Is Safe-NSIS Ohhh ok
Alzheimer's is a type of dementia. There are so so many different types of dementia and every type is different
Killian carragher both my nan and pop have Dementia it’s horrible and so sad to see them deteriorate :( they were so good a couple of years ago but now their in a dementia ward :(( it’s absolutely terrible
What bout cancer?
My father had cancer and alzheimer, it was just terrible, everyday telling him for the first time he had cancer/... he cried every single day.
oh that's painful It's like your own hell on the earth
I feel for you and your Dad
I hope the best for you
Why the fuck did you tell him every day he has cancer? There was no need for that.. Jesus.. It Was like torture.. My god
I'm so sorry about that 💔 wooww
@@bananko8668 Exactly what I was thinking my great grandfather had Alzheimers and he'd forget that his wife had past away so instead of telling him she hadn't come in to see him because she had died we used to say that she couldn't make it today as she was cleaning the house but she will be in tomorrow so he wouldn't have to break his heart every time. now my Nan has dementia 😢 such a horrible thing.
Why did you tell him everyday? Was he. On treatment?
I wouldve just told him on the days that the therapy was scheduled and let him be a happy man other days
Having Alzheimer’s and KNOWING you have it must be so terrible
It is likely the exact opposite. If you know you have it and are able to retain that knowledge from one moment/day to the next, there is an explanation for why you wake up in a bed and see a stranger and don't know what is going on. Coping with that is probably easier than coping with constant uncertainty and fear/doubt of what you are being told.
For my mother, the hardest part was when she knew that she didn't know, and knew what was coming. Later on, she was calmer.
Yeah, it’s sad really. When you have dementia, it’s like being in a daze all the time, even when you’re cognitive. The severity of the daze, however, does increase at seemingly-random intervals. So much so that one moment you could be at home making coffee or something similar, and then all of a sudden you find yourself wandering around in some place you don’t recognise, still in a daze, with no idea of where to find your way back or what you were doing here. Dementia is one scary disease.
My grandma passed because of this terrible disease, man I hate it.
Josiah Oliver you are messed up
Josiah Oliver Fuck u
Josiah Oliver go to a mental hospital ur messed up bro
Noah’s Ark awwww so sorry to hear that. 😖
Aww,don't worry Noah we are with you...bro be strong!:) we love u
The fact that his sense of humor still was there, man that’s beautiful
Its a *sense* ,a sense never go away....like the sense of taste,and the sense of hear...there never gonna go away
Is that make *sense* ?
@@applepie1272 yep it's something you are born with, it never goed away no matter what
She is lucky to have a father like him 🥰
@Josiah Oliver Aren't we all gonna die?
God bless you and Jesus loves you
My grandma looked at me and said "Did you enjoy the blanket I made for you?" I got the last blanket she ever made
Rae Zap How wonderful that you have the blanket to cherish as a memory of her for ever, hugs
I know this is an old comment but just wanted to share a similar experience I had... My grandma crocheted these huge detailed afghan blankets, one for each of her grandchildren. She passed away from lung cancer before I ever got mine. It wasn't until after her funeral that her roommate and best friend came to me with a beautiful red and white afghan blanket and a loving letter from my grandma. She had hidden them away, probably to give to me at Christmas, before she ended up in the hospital. It was one of the last things she did before she died.
Roommate from a hospital, not elder care center i hope
Roommate from their house. They were best friends and lived with each other for around 40 years. She's my "adopted grandmother". :)
Rae Zaps
Thats so wow ...
powerfull
when he went "hey just got one right" totaly exploded a smile on my face
Imagine having such a strong sense of humor that you manage to be witty with Alzheimer's. Reminds me of my late great-grandfather who, coincidentally, was also named Norm.
miss my mom and dad. I'm 46 and I'm still like a child needing their comfort.
YEET - You NEVER STOP MISSING YOUR PARENTS, that is, if they were good ones, and mine were GREAT!!!!
@@libertygiveme1987 I'm happy for you. We should cherris our moments. Thanks Liberty GiveMe. God bless you.
my grandma couldn't remember me for two years. I visited her and the first thing she said was, 'hi Alex,my grandson, I love you' it was amazing.
Hey man nice name
bristolcity27 i
Having my father with alzheimer also its like see him
someone else told her that you're visting her
bcfc7890 I respect even though I’m a gashead
I pray that no one in my family ever gets Alzheimer’s, that looks like the most heartbreaking, gut wrenching thing to go through. Sending love to everybody who has ever dealt with this. You are strong
I'll pray for you and for myself too ❤
But my grandparents do...
Babycake S you are in my thoughts. I hope the best for you and you family
Thank you for such a nice comment have a wonderful day!
My grandpa has Alzheimer’s and dementia it is a very heart breaking disease 💚😕
I remember my mom telling me that my grandma wished if she ever got sick, she would pass quickly so she wouldn't be a burden to us. She ended up suffering from Alzheimer's for maybe 5 years, if I remember correctly... I was still in middle school when I would help watch her while my aunt and uncle were out. Sometimes she would cry because she felt bad we had to help her do things like go to the bathroom... she was never, ever a burden to us, and I always reminded her of that. She was the one who was suffering so much for so long, but still worried more about us...
Alzheimer's is horrible...
Alzheimer's is such a horrific disease. RIP Norm, and blessings to you both.
I just feel happy for him that he remember the name of his daughter.
akiru bamiru Thank you :)
You are welcome :) Hope his memory improve, he is such lucky to have you as his daughter :)
akiru bamiru Unfortunately my dad passed away in February. There are still no cures or treatments for Alzheimer's. It's a terminal disease so those afflicted don't get better.
I am sorry for your lost! Really, that really make me thinking to go back home at new year eve's, to make a little visit to my grandmother, she has 96 years, and she may pass away, soon!
God Bless you, and God Bless your wonderful father. He is at peace now.
Its wierd why alzhiemers you forget names and events but never words
Communication and events are stored In a different parts of the brain , that’s why
Joe Paxton im not sure if a language can be forgotten but other basic survival needs like eating and such can indeed be forgotten
@@c0mplex_Ale yeah but i didnt say that 👍 names are part of a language you forget names but not words
alexandre Simões Language can be forgotten. When my grandma got it, she forgot how to speak English and just spoke her first language
My grandfather had Alzheimer and i was told that how many words they remember and what they speak of always depends on the individual and on the stage of Alzheimer they are at. My grandpa used to speak macedonian and turkish to us and even remembered a few russian words in the first few years. He then started to forget names really quickly only remembering 4.my cousin my aunt my grandma and himself. He could still talk alot tho but mainly in macedonian and rarely in turkish. As time went on he eventually forgot turkish and stuck to macedonian. The last 10-20 words he remembered were not names with exception of my aunts name. I also talked to my professors about it amd he said that because of the brain shrinking at different paces in different areas of the brain there might be a connection of what they can remember and what not so language and names that are used more often might stick woth the patience the longest but they still can be forgotten which at any time showing the irregularity of the process
They may forget their family's names, but the heart and soul remember!
Yes,that's what I think.The body gets sick & tired,but the soul... 💜
God bless his souls and whoever's reading this ❤😇🙏😌
"Hey I just got one right" goodbye I'm crying
Instagram?😕😕
U got ig
@@wolfentityz3003 she's ugly bruh
@@angelo98idem shhhhh just tryna see sum
Lol
@@angelo98idem duhh look at you. She is better than that face
"Hey i just got one right" what a legend lol😂
mordekaiser the iron revenant mordekaiser😠😠😠😠
mordekaiser the iron revenant you are a fat fortnite playing pussy
Yup he is a living legend
Yt Joe east
You made a video about fortnite lmaoo
Onii-Chan I don’t even play it any more lmao fuck you 🖕
My mom is like that she cries every night until her dad remembered her she started crying from happiness
Yes it is. My grandma had it. She was an incredible woman.
I had a grandma with Alzheimer’s who forgot everything. It was such a struggle for my mom to visit her, because she knew that she would return home wailing. As soon as she forgot who my mom was, we knew she hadn’t much longer. We told her we loved her and prayed for an easy passing. The final day we saw her, though, she was utterly euphoric; she remembered us and expressed her love to us through her beautiful, glinting eyes. She told me that she remembered me, and told stories from when I was a child and implied that my mom needn’t be worried when her time had come because she’d always be there. She even told me that my late dog had come to visit her and professed his wistful solitude, and welcomed her to the afterlife. I loved my grandmother dearly and it was quite tragic to see her suffer.
im so sorry.. that must've hurt. :(
Tanviplayz, yeah🙁. Thank you for your consolation, though.
@@tfrfatal3404 i really wish i could help. Sending prayers
Tanviplayz, it’s been a while; I’m 14 now and was nine at the time. The lacerations have mostly healed. Just hard to retouch on it. Don’t worry about me: I’ll be fine❤️❤️❤️
Tanviplayz, but thank you regardless, I really appreciate it.
My grandfather has Alzheimer's and last month he didn't recognize his wife anymore. He normally does and he still does now, but back then he had just awoken from surgery and was still a bit dizzy. So my grandmother asked him if he knows who she is and his answer was: "I mean, you seem very sympathetic, I like you" This was so cute and heartwarming, after nearly 60 years of marriage he would still fall in love with her again. :)
EscapingTheRealLife What a beautiful memory you will have to cherish forever. Sending you all hugs filled with strength and comfort as you deal with the difficult path of dementia.
Painting To Remember Thank you :) It really is difficult, but he
kept his sense of humor. I send hugs back. ^-^
Thanks for sharing that cute story. With people constantly breaking up all around me, it's great to remember love can last for so long....
This is one of the greatest life stories I've ever read
Sweet old guy, hasn’t lost his sense of humour which is fabulous in itself.❤
I cherish the moments of clarity my grandfather had. They were few and far between but I can recall each time he remembered me. Sometimes it was only a fleeting moment, sometimes a few minutes, but I'll remember each of them forever. I wish we could find a cure for Alzheimer's.
They who dislike this have no soul.
Yeah like the my dislike disco dance soul have no
If it’s not people it’s the TH-cam bots they dislike videos to make likes and dislikes equal
@@mitskisontop I think that's true
maybe if people doesn't have any soul they couldn't have disliked cause theyre dead.
DΔҜΣMISHI big brain time.
My grandmother died the day after having clarity...
She said
Oh Lord....what have I become. Please take me with you.
She was bedridden for a year but didn't realize it. She was a very active lady before that and a beautiful soul full of love.
It's already been 11 years....damn. although I was young, I remember clearly.
I’m sorry for your loss, but is sounds like she died peacefully with loving family around her. :)
Awww bless. She will always be with you.
alwaysbored47 I just lost mine last month. Same exact case.
Sorry for your loss
"hey I just got one right " Never lost his sense of humor
(Sorry for my english) My gradfather had alzahiemers and he died recently. He lived for 10 years with alezheimers and at the end, he didn’t know how to talk. A year ago he was at our place with my grandmother, who toke care of him and he didn’t know how to talk, but his smile when he saw my mother and me was priceless. This video reminds me of him soo much. I cried and laught at the same time. I wish you the best.
Alzheimer’s, and dementia, is like a ongoing game of hide and seek. One moment they’re there, and the next moment they’re not 😔
John Mchanon STOP💀
John Mchanon no one asked you either
@John Mchanon i don't remember anyone asking for you to say that you didn't ask either but okay- we all know you're just trying to act cool and it's not working lol
John Mchanon damn i hope your alzheimers will get better in the future 👊😔
John Mchanon it’s cool that you’re a virgin no need to be ashamed
In my grandfathers final months dealing with alzhimers I got to spend and entire week with him caring for him so my grandmother could take a break. That entire week he thought I was his nurse. While it crushed me for him to not recognize me he would always say I was the best nurse he had and he hoped they were paying me well lol... Knowing he felt taken care of even if not by "me" brought me such joy and it was the last time I got to see him before he passed away.
So sweet, you did amazing (-:
Oh sweetheart ❤ he loves you
You're beautiful and priceless... God bless you for being there for him...💝✝️
Rest in Peace, you are human being for being there with his final moments. Respect
I am sorry
my grandmother died with alzheimer’s and it was so painful seeing her losing more and more memory and i see her in this so much. i relive the moments over and over from this video so thank you for sharing this. sending love
It breaks my heart that he has passed away. He seemed so sweet and really had a great sense of humor. He makes me smile and my heart full. He is such a cutie too. God really took a good one here. God bless Norm. God bless you all. 💕
He sounds like a fresh old man who could still walk around and joke around
He got one name right you got to give him lots of Credit for that.🌹
@@mikloshorthy7406 yup!!
I laughed and cried. Alzheimer's is really a cruel disease.
Few months before my grandma died she starting having Alzheimer's (at the time i wasn't aware what an Alzheimer's was) she didn't know who I was (my grandma was the one who took care of me since birth and became my mother when my mom left us, I'm only 18 btw) at that moment I don't really know what to do, I kept asking her question, and pushed her to remember who I am, what hurts the most is that she knows and remember other people but not me, I started crying, she is completely clueless of who I was and thinks that I'm just some kind of stranger.
I feel so helpless at that moment and did everything to make her remember me while I was crying.
it just hurts to see the person you love the most doesn't even remember who you are. It's just plain painful, you began to treasure the memories you had together. She did remember me one time, and i was sobbing with happiness and gave her a hug, it was like some kind of reunion. I just miss her so much
Your daddy seems so sweet, I think when you show them love they can feel it. That is when they remember, even if it's just a sec. How old is your dad?
+Kelly Gunderson
Hi Kelly,
Thank you for your kind comment. My dad was 90 in this video. He was sweet and I tend to agree with you, I think many people who have Alzheimer's / dementias respond directly to how they are being treated. Unfortunately my father passed away February 27th 2016 at home with me. He made it to 91. If you are dealing with Alzheimer's / dementias with a loved one I send you and your loved one big hugs filled with strength and comfort, it's a very difficult journey. www.Facebook.com/PaintingToRemember
Yes my mother is 89 and has had it for years. It seems like she stays in each stage a very long time. She is in stage 7 now. She is the cutest thing ever. Even when she is upset and fussing. Sorry for your loss!!
+Kelly Gunderson
Thank you. Your mother is lucky to have you . Stay strong, hugs
You are such a wonderful person. With such kind words. I hope this never happens to your mother. Its not pleasant at all. Its quit sad. The mother you loved is gone. They are sick and can't help it. They don't even know who you are anymore. And no she isn't dead and is way worse. She is my mother not my grandmother.
+Kelly Gunderson , I don't know if that incredibly rude person is speaking to me or to you. Either way I'm sorry we are forced to see their ignorant post. Keep staying strong. Your mom is blessed to have you. 💜
I heard that he passed I'm sorry for your loss💜
Sheila Abrahamson Thank you, I appreciate your message
Smallest things make my day😊
Sheila Abrahamson Are you caring for someone who has dementia?
Painting To Remember so sad I am 3 years late 😭😭
Full time employee and full time care giver here. Those moments make the hard work and stress into complete happiness.
My great grandad died before Christmas and he had 2 types of cancers for over a year and wouldn’t take the treatment because he wanted to die to be with his mum who was taken away from him during world war 2! I hope he’s doing ok in heaven
Aweeeeeee
My grandfather had a moment of clarity a few days before his death. He remembered me and some long forgotten friends. Alzheimer's is a horrible horrible disease.
Sorry about your loss man. I lost my pops and my grandfathers heart transplant is failing after 20 years so he only has about two weeks at most. His severe dementia snatched him up pretty quickly towards the last year. One thing I wish I had power over was the advocacy of people with bringing light to these issues. It makes us weak to watch our families suffer and it really does change our perspective on life itself. I really hope there's something good after all this.
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your pops. I'm also sorry that your grandfather isn't doing well. Dementia is such a brutal disease for all involved. I agree that after experiencing it your perspective on life dramatically changes. Sending a hug filled with comfort to you and your grandfather while you're both having to deal with this very difficult journey.
I'm so sorry about your grandfather's passing. How beautiful that he was able to remember you, even though it may have been fleeting, and you are now blessed to have that memory to hold onto. Yes, I agree, dementia is brutal for all those it touches.
My mom has a Parkinson. Its terrible to see her when shaking . To be honest , I get really sad when I see old people . Especially if they have a disease and if they are alone.. So please keep in my mind that one day we will be old as well.. So treat them like you want to be treated in the future.
Heartwarming. My Mom had dementia for 6 years before passing. I had some amazing moments with her. When she'd remember things they'd come flying back to her in clusters. I made the choice to not mourn her until she died so I could wallow in every last moment with her, and I did.
It was so sweet I cried when I saw this, I was so stressed from school then I saw this and it made me feel so happy and calm
Fuck school, amiright
This did make me cry. He shouldn't have to go through that and neither should you. :(
They're dealing pretty well with it :)
hebince44 Sadly her father passed away February 2017. He got it to 91.
Tuna Salad
Think in more positive ways and life will be easier for you.
@@SilencedButNotForgotten oh... he was so sweet though.. why do the best ones always have to go
My grandfather was diseased with Alzheimer's in the early 2000s when I was just born. I don't really remember having an emotional connection with him, I just saw him as my grandfather but I don't even have a single conversation I can recall having with him. He got worse and worse, I cared for him with my grandmother. I just knew my sister used to be his little princess, and my mother told me he cried on the day I was born and loved me and my sister more than anything else. At some point, he lost the ability to talk, would demand to go home when he was at home and call my grandmother his mom. My mother and my sister were very emotionally bound to him, and I am kind of glad I wasn't - his mind just deteriorated over the course of 18 years. But the day he passed broke my mother as well as my sister, whereas I could just stand there and watch them cry while I felt a kind of relief for him. My grandfather wasn't able to walk, eat or even use the restroom at this point, and it was not a life worth living. (I know, I was not in his shoes, but seeing how he suffered with constant confusion and not remembering who he was or who was around him made it seem like he didn't want it anymore either). My mother and sister still haven't recovered (and probably never will) and it will be 2 years since his death day in this year. I was just glad he fell asleep and didn't wake up - I was there when he passed, and he looked like he was finally at peace.
Now my grandmother, who has been deteriorating since my grandfather's death, is showing signs of dementia - she is very agitated, forgets some things, is confused very fast. Sadly I don't live with her anymore because my uncle prevented me from moving in with her into her new flat all because my grandmother wanted me to get the bigger bedroom and he wasn't cool with that. So she moved into a flat alone which she couldn't leave because the steps were too steep, but my uncle promised he would look after her. She suffered a stroke and laid on the bathroom floor for about 12h after slipping while changing her clothes, when my mother and I drove to her flat just to find out what had happened. Now her health is getting worse by the day and my uncle has transferred her into a nursing home - don't get me wrong, she has it good there and is always in constant care. But she is letting go, and after a year of quarantine I was able to see her again. I braced myself for the worst, thinking she would've forgotten me already, but she didn't. It went very well except for the fact that she seemed a little.. absent. A week later she calls my mother, saying that I visited her with my sister. The problem with that was that neither me, nor my sister, were there. And now I am so insanely scared for what is about to come, having seen what Alzheimer's does to you, to lose my best friend who has always cared for me who I feel I have let down. And I can't imagine what my mother and sister feel like, having to go through the same process a second time.
To any of you reading this: I wish the best for you and your family, and wish you never have to experience what horror and sadness this sickness is. And always keep in the back of your head that it could be over at any moment - be kind and show love to your family.
Hello my friend I read your comment, I genuinely felt heavy hearted reading this, I know life gets really tough when our loved ones suffer In this manner,
I don't know but whatever it is, deal with it the best manner possible, and never give up, may God bless your family
@@puneettripathi740 Hello my love, thank you so much for your kind comment. I know that life gets tough, but when you experience it, you sometimes never know if you're gonna break - but we always grow stronger from what we survived. I'll pray for your family and you, thank you.
Hopefully he recovered and got healed it's 5 years now and he's too old it's a miracle that he fully recovers R. I. P.
but sadly most likly not because he is prob experiencing a thing called terminal lucidity which means that they are very close to death
When my gradma had Alzheimer' she never did reconized me however she reacted to me with kidness and love even if she did not knew me.
I know what you mean bro🖤🥺
See... Not even Alzheimer can destroy family love!
One time, like three years ago I was sitting next to my grandfather that sadly died last year, and he said my name twice while he was smiling at me, it was probably one of the most beautiful moments of my life.
Old comment but it touched me, hope you are okay wherever you are.
this is the worst thing anyone's parents could have. imagine how heartbreaking it is to have your own parents not remember you.
I love it when elderly people are badly in pain and they still crack up jokes.
My grandmother has Alzheimers, and it is just getting worse and worse. It is horrible and I pray for everyone else’s parents and grandparents to not be infected by it🙏
i will pray for you❤️
@Josiah Oliver whats funny?
@@Didi-qc3vc i think they meant Lots of Love
@@SV-bx5lr check their previous comments. this guy is just a dick
My grandfather has Alzheimer’s and just got a stoke...he didn’t remember anyone but he loved to see himself in a mirror or photo,I miss him so much ❤️
lvnxria my great grandma had Alzheimer’s and she forgot my grandma and mom and she cried but it was weird because she remembered some of my cousins
*stoke*
sorry lol English is my second language
he thought it was someone else
, because they not recognize themselves
in mirror , my father every day speaks with mirror thinking it was some man
Oh May God Bless You. I lost my husband of 42 years to Alzheimer's a little over a year ago. Every moment of every day is so precious.
Imagine your mother or father forgetting who you are, I would bust crying
my grandma has dementia 😢 this reminded me of her. she’s in her 80s now... she keeps getting hospitalized :(
Much love to you both ♡
funandlala thank you ❤️
I hope she has a wonderful life in the future
I remember when my great great granny was in a bad condition in hospital with Alzheimer’s. My dad and I went to see her. Deep down we both knew this was going to be the last time we saw her. She was able to remember the names of her daughters the previous night and was able to remember for quite some time. When we entered the hospital my dad began to talk with her. I was too focused on the person in front of me that was going to pass away soon. I talked a bit with her. After we talked for a bit she forgot about the conversation. My dad turned towards the window and looked out. He cried silent, pained tears. I wanted to tell this story to say, appreciate everyone around you. I’ve dealt with lots of grief throughout my life and my only regret is the lack of time spent with the people I have lost. Be kind to your friends and family. If someone is rude to you, respond with a smile. My sister often refers to the saying “kill it with kindness”. Being kind rubs off on people no matter how they appear to react to it. So in summary (I know this is long and I’m so so sorry). Be kind, thoughtful and spend time with the people you love.
Thank you for your words, they touched me. My dad passed of Alzheimer's just over a year ago. We were lucky in that he never forgot those close to him. Very sad to see such a lively man fade away though....he forgot what he had always enjoyed and so ended up doing nothing much in his last years. You're right, try and be kind to others and appreciate those you love.
Don't be sorry (it's a "long" comment) - it's nice that you are saying this. I agree about spending time with people we love as much as we can. When my aunt was in hospital (after a fall) and had dementia, I was so pleased that it was a hospital near me, and I popped to see her when I could (sometimes very late at night because she was poorly then and it was allowed). Just spending time together is great, whether people are sleeping or aware of you.
These older relatives we love, who were there for us, are comforted - I am sure - by our being there. As you say, it is time well spent.
Your words touched and comforted me. Thank you for sharing. God Bless you.
Like legends say your beloved family may forget you, but their heart will never forget you
My grandma had Alzheimer's I loved her so much I watched over her for 3 years let me tell you something hardest 3 years of my life it's hard because you can't get mad or upset at them you just have to love them unconditionally and help them no matter the situation
My gramps had Alzheimers. Luckily he never forgot who we were but he was incredibly unresponsive. Unfortunately we lost him in March this year and I miss him every day.
Sparkle&Pop My Grandmother has Dementia. She is 100. She is healthy. How old was your grandpa when he died?
Sparkle&Pop Im so sorry for your loss may God bless you and your family
SYNDRIC SYNDRIC My Gramps was 86 when he died so he had a long healthy life. He was in very very good health until he was 82 but unfortunately deteriorated a lot from then onwards. Your Grandma has certainly hit a milestone! It's amazing she's in good health :) I wish you many more happy years with her!
Casual Yvonne Thank you so much, it hasn't been easy losing the "glue" of the family but now instead of crying over the loss we're at the point where we can smile at all the wonderful memories he gave us :)
This didn’t make me cry. If anything it made me smile.
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ZENO It’s strange she calls him by his first name and not Dad
God bless his soul and may he receive your dad with open arms when the time is right.
What a loving family
I can imagine that in their mind they know everything that is actually happening, but they also know that when they speak it comes out in gibberish. So I can imagine that they are working really hard to save up a sentence for the PERFECT moment to drop at the perfect time. That joke he made I can tell was preplanned. ITs something he's probably wanted to say to make them laugh and assure them that hes still there, but he finally got it out.
I didn’t laugh I didn’t smile,
I smiled with joy the whole way through
So you did smile
*are you sure about that*
The Schrödinger's commenter, did he smile or not? 🤔
Bruh
I cried even i dont have a dad, im just happy for his daughter he tells her that he loves her, even he cant remember her.
my aunt had this disease , she died yesterday ..
she was my fav aunt and i didnt even get to tell her goodbye ...💔
This is the heart-breaking...and I love his smile and genuinely hope he get better. i can't even imagine what you guys are going through.....sigh
barbuty guja Thank you for your well wishes. Unfortunately my dad passed away in February 2016. Alzheimer's is a terminal disease with no cures, no one ever gets better. I appreciate your touching comments :)
im really sorry and hope you are alright.btw i cried then laughed
barbuty guja Thank you for the nice wishes. When I watch this video of my dad it still makes me cry and laugh as well :) Happy New Year!
Who ever unlikes this video is just sick and there probably thinking ‘oh I’m the best, I am so healthy I ain’t gonna catch no disease.’
I think it’s the TH-cam bots
No, some people might have just found this sad and disliked. Just because they disliked the video doesn't mean they're sick and heartless.
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I disliked even though i liked the video.
Sto ne Why?
It's such a cruel disease, it takes the person before they pass so you grieve twice.
The fact this was 8 years ago…I really hope his suffering has ended may he fly high❤❤
God bless anyone who has a parent with alzheimers.
Remember it's always better to laugh than to cry.
This reminds me of my grandad - when he had good days he would crack you up with his cheeky outbursts. One day I went in to see him (he lived with us) and he was sleeping. "Hello Bronagh!" he says, sounding so pleased to see me but he isn't actually awake... never knew who I was when he was awake but he knew I cared and loved him so much, it didn't matter. Almost a year later and I still miss him every single day...
justBronagh How lovely that you still have those beautiful memories to recall. I understand missing the person even as time moves on. I miss my dad a lot! Your grandfather was lucky to have you, hugs.
I was thinking I don’t want to see my father old but this is life 😢❤️
i hope your dad is ok, if he has passed away i hope he is having a great time in heaven
This was randomly recommended to me by TH-cam. I’m not complaining, this is wholesome
Omg i started crying yesterday when my grandpa finally remembered who I was after 16 years. I miss him so much I know how it feels for someone to finally remember you once again.
I know to feel that moment probably felt like a million stars.. It's probably hard to lose your dad for that little while... But that breakthrough after a year that's a miracle... God bless
That’s the best! He went out with his family next to him! Having small laughs while going through the pain!
My Dad can no longer talk. He only mumbles a few random words, phrases, numbers and letters that don't make sense or mean anything. Every now and then though he will shock me, he will call me by my name. Then 30 minutes later he is once again spaced out in that zombie-like state.
I'm so sorry that you and your dad are forced to travel the very difficult journey of dementia! I believe that locked deep within their brain and soul they always know who you are. Sending you both a hug filled with strength while traveling on this path.
Those fleeting moments when they do recognize us are beautiful blessings showing they are still there. Wishing you and your dad the very best during this difficult time.
absolutely they know. you can see it in their eyes even if they cant say it.
Painting To Remember He said your name, remembered you and the. said 'I love you' Wow!! What a moment to treasure. May this moment help to sustain you through this journey. G d Bless.
To be honest, none of us looked for this video. But we all enjoyed it
Lovely he remember.it made me cry.lovely sweet man.
He was PRECIOUS!!!! I've forgotten names when I was in my 30's and 40's. JUST HORRIBLE with names!!!! I hope/pray that doesn't mean anything!!!!
Almost as if even if he can’t name you, deep down he knows your a special part of his life
My grandma had dementia, she forgot everything , even her husband, son, daughters and grand kids, she couldn't recognize us at all.we have to push her and make her realise. But she remembers her father and mother name🤷♀️.During her last days, she used to say my dad's gonna come and take her with him, surprisingly at her last night she realized us, her grand kids 😭😭😭when we called her grandma she looked at us and said "Mmmmm" Since she didn't have teeth which she broke oneday by falling from bed😓😓😓. It was hard for us all, she used to be a tough, strong lady but during her last time, she became slim , got dementia, couldn't walk,talk and she couldn't even tell what is hurting her,got bed sores and wounds falling from bed, many things. She suffered a lot for last 3 years.we all used to prayed God why he is making her suffer??? Couldn't he take her with him and free her from her state. Now she is gone and I think wherever she is she'll be happy with her father and mother and be watching and protecting us. Love you granny 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
I'm sorry about your loss
An Egg What’s wrong with you?
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An Egg look, I’m a fellow epic gamer memer 420 bruh moment guy like you, but that’s kinda messed up
i'm sorry about any inconsiderate replies, i'm just here to say that you and anyone else who went through that with you are very strong. i'd hate to see any of my older relatives have to deal with a disease like that. in fact, i honestly don't think that i would be mentally strong enough to be able to get out of bed and go to school every day anymore. God bless you and your grandmother.
Bless y'all thats so beautiful and love his humour!!!! Prayers and love to you guys
Your dad is so witty and such a nice man despite his terrible ordeal it's important to think of him as still the same person. Don't let this disease take away from his human dignity. His spirit is still the same his soul ans heart. That is something Alzheimers can't undo. He deserves to be honoured and should he sense your grief it will sadden him. Praying that your family keeps strong for your sweet dad 🙏❤
My grandpa had Alzheimer’s disease... and passed away three years ago. I barely have any memories of him before he got this illness. I lived with my grandparents during the time he was at his worst, including the day of his passing. It got to a point where the only way he could consume calories was through piping liquids down a tube. For him to be able to breathe we had to suck the mucus buildup in his lungs several times a day. My grandma was heartbroken. The whole time he stayed at home (apart from the emergency visits at the hospital every 3 months), she was by his side attentively taking care of him all the time, and always thought of him. I remember the day she had to stop sleeping next to him in order to hire a helper to aid him while he sleeps (flip him every 4 hours to not get rashes, dump his urine tray etc). She would wake up daily, every 4 hours just to check if my grandpa was being properly treated, and the worker is doing what he is told. Although my grandpa lived his life on the bed for so long, he always had a great heart due to his younger active days. Ironically, he ended up dying due to a heart problem. My grandma never felt more empty afterwards, as she lost her 70 years long partner that she had spent 6 years of her waking moments entirely consumed with looking after him.
Rest In Peace grandpa. May your suffering had ended.
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I am soo proud of him, and am happy for you!
My grandmother one day said, “oh you are that sweet girl sitting in my piano”! The best day of our lives!
For my dad with dementia he always remembered all us kids. I was so grateful for that.