Yes, without a shadow of a doubt. Thanks for this video. A few of the points I realised, but most I didn't. Keep them coming as they're well thought out and informative. A suggestion for next time would be how to use these strengths for best effect.
I had no idea us introverts were considered attractive...I was made to feel I/We didn't even matter in the slightest. Thank you Melannie so much for introducing Me/Us to this new outlook on things 😊 BTW, gonna add "Beatboxing with Melannie" to my playlist 😅 Great vid and thanks again!!!
lol I'm glad you liked my beatboxing 😂 It needs work but I'm pretty proud on it lol I'm so glad you liked my video! I'll be sure to make more on this topic soon!
Introverts are often misunderstood as quiet and aloof. We don't crave attention and don't need validation from people. When we meet the right people, we open up and can be extremely attentive and enjoy sharing our lives.
Introverted men need to be careful when it comes to listening to women talk at length. Some women will take advantage of this tendency in order to be heard, while having no real intention of being romantically involved with him.
That is very true! Unfortunately toxic women who are only interested in using a man will take advantage of him. I actually did a video on some signs a girl is using you that you might find interesting. Here's a link th-cam.com/video/mEH1DZFTolY/w-d-xo.html Thanks so much for watching!
I needed to hear this because I tend to feel down on myself at times due to being heavily introverted. I added you on Facebook and I noticed that you sing also. You have an amazing voice by the way. I got back on my drums again about a month ago.
Thank you so much! It's so fun that you found my music! I haven't been able to spend the time on it that I want to recently but I'm looking forward to getting back into it soon. It's great that you play the drums! Thanks for watching 🙏
I am very introverted person. With that in mind, I have to say I really appreciate your words! We are often unaware about what people like about us. It's hard for us not to see our introversion in a negative light. So, Yes! I would like to see other videos like this.
I am a single father of two little girls. I've been viewing your videos for a little over month I think. I just love the way you tell it. Unlike other coaching videos where it only talks about mind games and tries to teach you how to play along I'm not down with it. I know god has plan for me and my daughters Melanie & Esther. Thank you for your videos I want to see more!!😍
You're absolutely right. us introverts we are really good listeners because we don't really talk a lot, so we are mostly listening to the other person so that's how we get to know the other person a lot better. Yes I want to see more videos like this .
I'm definitely an introvert and I actually do find some introverts to be fascinating and attractive as well. That being said, I think ladies who have YOUR personality Melannie are absolutely wonderful! Thank you for being an amazing person! ☺️ If I ever find my special someone, I hope she has your incredible persona and beautiful looks!
Okay, earlier this week I spoke out of frustration and said some things about just speaking up and such. First I apologize, I was wrong. I just was in a situation with the girl I was interested in. And I used the advice (anyway) I got from you. And you were dead on. So thank you. I'll be watching your videos about how to keep her.
Thank you for this, this was very reassuring. It’s definitely true about us being more observant and loyal, and thinking about what we say. I myself am very observant and quite picky about who I associate with but I love those whom I do associate with something fierce. Better to have four quarters than a hundred pennies. And yes, I would love to see more videos on this particular subject. God bless!
Although I am not Christian (nor do I follow any other specific religion), these tips apply to everyone. I am such an introvert, and this video is a huge self esteem booster. Thank you.
A lot of introverts do! Don't worry though, dating and relationships are simply skills we learn. There are so many things attractive about each of us that we don't even realize. It's just about learning how to rock what you've got 💪 You've got this my friend!
YES! This video was awesome and it definitely felt like deja vu during the whole video as you mentioned every reason because I can definitely relate to them all. I would love to see videos on applying ourselves as introverts in our dating relationships and relationships in general. Thanks again for this awesome video!
You are very welcome! And it's most definitely reassuring to know that there is hope for us introverts out there! Especially when you yourself have found introverts attractive as well! 😊
Hi Melannie. Thank you very much for this so interesting material about Being extrovert and loyal at the same if we're Meeting someone to romantic purpose especially. I wish you a great day! My wonderful friend and may God bless You all your life long!
Yes. I am kind of an introvert. And since I have the traits this video shows, maybe that's why the girl I like had no problem sharing her recent struggles, such as losing her best friend over a disagreement. I am hoping to be her new best friend soon. I have wondered if I should tell her that her next best friend should be someone loyal and maybe a God fearing Christian. I don't really like being sensitive though. Even though the girl I like says there's not enough people like me around.
Are you really just want to be her friend or something more? If you want to be only her friend great if you want her as a woman then just being her friend won't be enough but that's just my opinion
Coach - Thanks for your replies elsewhere. But do extrovert female lead character actually share their innermost hearts to introvert lead characters? Can you offer some examples, please? Would be helpful to see this dynamic in action. Thanks!
You're very welcome! Yes, extrovert women frequently share their innermost hearts with introvert men. This only happens however when they feel safe emotionally and physically with the man. I believe the show I'm referring to in this video (it's been a while since I filmed this one LOL) is called The Christmas Contract with Hilarie Burton and Robert Buckley. She's definitely more of an extrovert and opens up in a lot of ways as they get closer together and she learns she can trust him.
The girl I 💘 is an introvert and I have known her for ten years but about 4 years ago I started falling in 💘 with her! I am 12 years older than her but once she told me that age is just a number and I feel the same way, she is Russian and she treats me better than any American woman ever has! She likes her alone time and I do to and we do go out sometimes to eat but we like to go where there quiet places where there are not many people where we can relax and talk! She is divorced and her and her ex husband share joint custody of a girl who will be 18 soon! I have seen her ex husband treat her badly a long with many other people in her life! I treat her the way she should be treated, I 💘 opening doors for her and driving her where she needs to go and doing anything that I can to make her life easier and better for her all the time! I was driving her to a doctor's appointment that was far away from where we both live and we both don't like driving on freeways but we were on this one freeway in bumper to bumper traffic when I saw several emergency vehicles including a fire truck screaming up right behind us! I was just able to move right to our off ramp right before he would have hit us, any way we got to the top of the over pass and the doctors office called her so she explained to them what had happened and that we were almost there! When we got there she told me if she would have went by herself she would have been so scared but that when I am with her she never feels scared and I told her that I didn't ever want her to feel afraid of anything and that I would always be here for her when she needs me! She also fainted at her church one Sunday, they were fasting and she had not ate or drank anything, she always texts me when she gets home from church around 1pm but on this day I was starting to worry, I finally got a text from her at 1:45pm it said I fainted at church, I am in the hospital! I texted back What hospital? Someone texted me from her phone telling me what hospital! I set my GPS on my phone and took off to be with her, but the GPS took me to a clinique that was no longer opened for business! So I said to myself let's try this again and it got it right the second time but I had to change freeways 3 d I different times to get there but I finally got there and she was resting so they took me over to her and I lightly tapped her on the shoulder she turned and opened her eyes and said you came, and I said I am here! Then she said that she didn't text me what hospital but somebody did! Then she whispers to me could I let the attendant know that she needed to use the restroom! So I let them know and they unhooked the things that they were rehydrating her with and they brought me a chair so I could sit by her bedside! Then this cute but very angry woman doctor started yelling at her, and I gave that doctor a nasty glare them she started to yell at me well I stood up and I can be very intimidating when I want to be at 6foot 1 and 270 pounds and she was a small woman and I told her This isn't going to fly with me, then I told her if she treats people like this she is going to lose a lot of patients! She yelled back at me as she was leaving I want to keep her overnight for observation! After the woman left she told me I don't want to be here over night that hospitals scare her and I told her they scare me too! She got a call from Amazon when another doctor came so I talked with him and he said that they knew what caused her to faint, then he said we are getting a 4 page packet of instructions for her to go by so this won't happen again! I asked him will she have to spend the night here and he said no she can leave when we get the packet together for her! When she got off the phone she asked what I found out! I told her that she didn't have to spend the night there then she got happy then she asked me what would I have done had they kept her over night and I said I would stay here with you she told me that I could leave if they did that and I told her that I wouldn't leave her there where she knows nobody and I want to make sure they would treat you good! After she made 2 more trips to the restroom another doctor came into the room and her face lit up he asked her if they offered her anything to eat or drink she said no! So he went and came back with yougert and a Powerade then he told her that she was going to be released soon! After he left she said did you notice anything about the doctor I said no why do you ask! She said that he looked like the icon of Jesus! She is an orthodox Christian and they have a lot of icons, and after I thought about it She was right he did look like the icon of Jesus! She gave me a present it was the icon of my saint, saint James! I am done!
Thanks for this! I’m one and I’ve always never knew why I’m not wanted and why I find it hard to get on with women even my mother it’s hard to open up to her
Honestly, I’m an introvert and I’m just not the best at talking honestly. Because any little thing you do can make or break a relationship. So, usually I keep my mouth shut so I don’t say something stupid. 🤣
Wow, thank you so much! I've never had anyone ask me that before. You are so kind! I'm afraid I don't have anything set up for that right now. I do have some services that will be up on my site within the next week that you may be interested in though. Thank you so much for being so sweet! You made my day 😀🙏
I dont know if this is on confidence I'm thinking consistency like a lot of times as an introvert I'm not as consistent because I'm not sure what to do when things are going good or bad
That happens to a lot of people, you aren't alone. It just takes practice to get past it. I'll see if I can make a video on it soon! Thanks for watching 👍
I am an introvert, I feel i'm not attractive, but others feels otherwise LOL. Weirdly, I was told by one of my colleague, someone mysteriously having a crush on me (few women LOL), I took is as a complement.
Glad you liked it!! I'll keep them coming! In the meantime here a re a few that I think you will like! th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WB_2WePxCTNjixTYkLW8fg.html
Hey it's not popular or encouraged but I know some well known (on t.v) christian couples that love each other & that pastor churches & they love God.Think one day you could do a episode on why age gap relationships can work?
Women may like an introvert that listens to them, but women aren't SEXUALLY attracted to him. Plenty women have said I'm a good listener, meanwhile I can't get a girl to even have drinks with me, or return a text message. We don't want to hear women complain about the boyfriend that they're screwing only to say "I like talking to you, you're such a good listener", then go right back to the same boyfriend they were just complaining about! Sorry my dear, but most people think introvert men are weird and therefore we tend to stay even more inside our heads because we're misunderstood by most..
“It all comes down to skills” … ok, so I just suck? :) but really my experience tends to go the wrong way when it comes to the ones I have fallen for so far. Then they have also acted oddly around me - then going for someone else.
@@MrCjchamp I … didn´t. Maybe you ought to take your own “advice” to heart and not put words in other peoples mouth, when I was adressing myself at the time.
Ok. A lot of this made me me feel better but to be honest two things. One I have seen garbage trucks that look better than me and two I have terrible communication skill to the point where I am pretty much silent in many conversations.
Thank you Melannie you helped me so much. i do this but i am never out, to have a relationship i am trying to just talk to strangers i mean a dream girl i am so shy i do not talk to women. I PRAY that the Lord JESUS will help me in this. Thank you. yes
My methods definitely apply! Everything I teach leads to a happy and healthy relationship no matter you age. I just released my online course, How to Get a Girlfriend, that goes more in depth with my methods. I was actually talking over email with one of my clients today who is in your same situation and he has found it very helpful. Here is a link coachmelannie.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend/ There are certainly many women who find introverts attractive at all stages of life 😀 You got this my friend!
Is being stoics are attractive? Because i'm introvert and not that quite sensitive .. and i always say the truth no matter if they get hurt or not "when someone talking to me (argue specifically)..
Melannie, the reason why you find "the introvert" to be so attractive is the exact same reason why the introvert finds "the extrovert" to be so attractive. The introvert and extrovert have this strong and necessary complimentary trait going for them. It goes well beyond this as every introvert and every extrovert are not created equal. You happen to be the ENFP Extrovert and all of the traits mentioned in this video are very specific to the INTJ Introvert. The ENFP female and the INTJ male is a very rare discovery. Two additional complimentary traits are included in this match as well as the absolute imperative shared Language of Intuition. A Myers-Briggs expert would love to share with you the many details with a simple gmail to 1967INTJ. Don't be bashful;;
So, I've noticed in several of your videos, you use the term "Deal Breaker" to refer to a desirable trait. I understand what you were saying, that the lack of that trait would be a deal breaker, but it sounds wrong to me the way you've been using it. I appreciate the content, and just thought I'd bring it to your attention.
i wonder if you are large and in charge type personality in your everyday or just their videos .I learned tons from people by not saying much, but offer some unique material others might not.
The traits in this video are common traits that introverts have that are attractive. Extroverts also have many attractive traits, a Google search can help you know which personality trait you identify with the most. Thanks for watching!
I'm an introvert and an empath or are they the same? I'm very quiet and don't talk much but do get quite a few looks from the ladies which I love (seems to more intense now since I've hit 36) so I must be attractive but I don't feel attractive.
It's great that you get looks from the ladies! One of the best skills you can learn is how to approach them now. When you have the right strategy and confidence it's easy. If you never make a move though women move on. You want to act when they are interested. Have you heard about my program How to Get a Girlfriend? I teach you exactly how to stop feeling unattractive and instead ROCK at getting the girl.I'm giving away 3 paid lessons for FREE right now so you can test drive it. Here's a link coachmelannie.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend-free-preview/ I'd love to hear your thoughts on it!
I actually get turned down in favor of introverts all the time as of the 2020s. No exceptions. :/ You may or may not realize this, but recently, extroverts are out, introverts are in. Extroverts are now commonly considered childish, effeminate, and just plain stupid, just because you are outgoing and like to talk. Outgoing is considered "not aware of how bad the world is" and talking is considered immature and insecure overcompensation. Males are often considered patriarchal these days, and the emotionalism associated with them is often considered the epitome of this. People assume that because I like to talk, I am not a deep thinker, and will refuse to let me attempt at deeper conversation. Man and women have told me this over and over and over again to the point where I have been driven to an almost suicidal depression. But people assume that because I'm an extrovert, I've got no problems. Everybody thinks I'm dumb. Everybody thinks I'm insecure. Everybody thinks I have it easy and/or I must be somehow taking advantage of others, just for that reason alone. Nobody really tries to reach out to me unless I ask. I sometimes just want to leave this world forever so I can stop dealing with these negative stereotypes. That's being an extrovert in 2021. So how about extroverts? How can an extrovert become attractive?
Thanks for watching! Question of the Day: Would you like to see more videos on introverts and dating/relationship? 🤔
Yes, without a shadow of a doubt. Thanks for this video. A few of the points I realised, but most I didn't. Keep them coming as they're well thought out and informative. A suggestion for next time would be how to use these strengths for best effect.
yes please
Yes, Please. I already had some idea about what traits an Introvert had but didn't know about the others.
@@kristiannoel4866 I'm glad you liked it! Thanks for the suggestion, I'll work on it 😀
@@CitizenInWonderland Awesome! I'll keep making them 😀 Thanks for watching!
I had no idea us introverts were considered attractive...I was made to feel I/We didn't even matter in the slightest. Thank you Melannie so much for introducing Me/Us to this new outlook on things 😊 BTW, gonna add "Beatboxing with Melannie" to my playlist 😅 Great vid and thanks again!!!
lol I'm glad you liked my beatboxing 😂 It needs work but I'm pretty proud on it lol I'm so glad you liked my video! I'll be sure to make more on this topic soon!
Cause throw they self at me I see it but not interested in them bad energy
Like one guy said, "I am an introvert, and people treat me like a god - they completely ignore my existence until they need something from me."
Lol, I always notice trying to not get attention always makes me get attention!!!! Lol
A lot of women are very attracted to introverts so that's great! Thanks for watching 😀
Lol yeah that is pretty cool...
@Pavan Kumar same here....
Agreed
@@fernandocastro4107
Hi
As an Introvert, I feel like a rockstar now 😂
Thank you, Melannie for this fantastic video.
I'm so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching! 🙏
Introverts are often misunderstood as quiet and aloof. We don't crave attention and don't need validation from people. When we meet the right people, we open up and can be extremely attentive and enjoy sharing our lives.
Introverted men need to be careful when it comes to listening to women talk at length. Some women will take advantage of this tendency in order to be heard, while having no real intention of being romantically involved with him.
That is very true! Unfortunately toxic women who are only interested in using a man will take advantage of him. I actually did a video on some signs a girl is using you that you might find interesting. Here's a link th-cam.com/video/mEH1DZFTolY/w-d-xo.html Thanks so much for watching!
For sure. You don't want to be used as an emotional tampon.
@@CoachMelannie Thank you. I'll watch it.
In my experience, listening to women, especially when they're talking about their feelings, is a fast track to the friendzone.
it depends on what you do with it
Usually Yes you are correct
I needed to hear this because I tend to feel down on myself at times due to being heavily introverted. I added you on Facebook and I noticed that you sing also. You have an amazing voice by the way. I got back on my drums again about a month ago.
Thank you so much! It's so fun that you found my music! I haven't been able to spend the time on it that I want to recently but I'm looking forward to getting back into it soon. It's great that you play the drums! Thanks for watching 🙏
I am very introverted person. With that in mind, I have to say I really appreciate your words! We are often unaware about what people like about us. It's hard for us not to see our introversion in a negative light. So, Yes! I would like to see other videos like this.
I'm glad you enjoyed it! I'll keep move videos like this coming 😀 Thanks for your comment!
Coach Melannie You’re Welcome!
Yes. As an introvert I appreciated this video. Thank you
I am a single father of two little girls. I've been viewing your videos for a little over month I think. I just love the way you tell it. Unlike other coaching videos where it only talks about mind games and tries to teach you how to play along I'm not down with it. I know god has plan for me and my daughters Melanie & Esther. Thank you for your videos I want to see more!!😍
Wow, thank you so much! It makes me so happy to know you are enjoying my videos!
I often got "I feel so safe and relaxed around you"
listening to relationship advice while my parents argue in the car gave me a little giggle
So its not just me doing that. nice man
@@NinetyLegos Lol
I feel like I've been struggling with this aspect of my life, this is extremely uplifting 💖
You're absolutely right. us introverts we are really good listeners because we don't really talk a lot, so we are mostly listening to the other person so that's how we get to know the other person a lot better. Yes I want to see more videos like this .
Listening is SUCH an important skill! Good for you 😀 I'll keep making more videos like this one!
I learn to be quiet, loyal and confident around people and I tend not to be in the spotlight. I love children and I tend to laugh around people.🌞🌞🌞
Rather than talking, I enjoy listening and observing more. Spending time alone is actually pretty awesome.
Thank you Melannie 😊 so much .
As an introvert I have one thing to say....
How did you know???? 😄😄 You almost perfectly described my character. I have to commend you for that! 👏👏👏
Yes I’m an introvert and I want more videos like this one.
I'm 58 but I enjoy these videos. Alot of warmth and personality.
I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏
I'm definitely an introvert and I actually do find some introverts to be fascinating and attractive as well. That being said, I think ladies who have YOUR personality Melannie are absolutely wonderful! Thank you for being an amazing person! ☺️ If I ever find my special someone, I hope she has your incredible persona and beautiful looks!
Wow, thank you so much for your kind words! And thank you for watching 😀 I really appreciate it!
I thought that you Melannie kind of thought that introverts are shy. But thanks for this video. Yes.
Here are some other videos that I've done that will explain even more. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WB_2WePxCTNjixTYkLW8fg.html Have a great weekend!
That’s some amazing beatboxing there!! Impressive. Thanks for sharing the information as well :)
Okay, earlier this week I spoke out of frustration and said some things about just speaking up and such. First I apologize, I was wrong. I just was in a situation with the girl I was interested in. And I used the advice (anyway) I got from you. And you were dead on. So thank you. I'll be watching your videos about how to keep her.
3:20 I am an introvert and I might have something interesting to say but because I’m an introvert I don’t say it!
lol That happens a lot!
Thank you for this, this was very reassuring. It’s definitely true about us being more observant and loyal, and thinking about what we say. I myself am very observant and quite picky about who I associate with but I love those whom I do associate with something fierce. Better to have four quarters than a hundred pennies. And yes, I would love to see more videos on this particular subject. God bless!
Great! I'll be sure to make more 😀
Tbh, as an introvert, I’ve never felt I couldn’t attract or succeed in the dating game. Just want to make sure I find someone who is down for chilling
It is very doable!
Although I am not Christian (nor do I follow any other specific religion), these tips apply to everyone. I am such an introvert, and this video is a huge self esteem booster. Thank you.
I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏
You got that right, I feel that I am super awkward.
A lot of introverts do! Don't worry though, dating and relationships are simply skills we learn. There are so many things attractive about each of us that we don't even realize. It's just about learning how to rock what you've got 💪 You've got this my friend!
Coach Melannie thanks for the confidence boost.
YES! This video was awesome and it definitely felt like deja vu during the whole video as you mentioned every reason because I can definitely relate to them all. I would love to see videos on applying ourselves as introverts in our dating relationships and relationships in general. Thanks again for this awesome video!
I'm so happy you liked it! Thank you for your kind words 🙏 I'll for sure make more!
You are very welcome! And it's most definitely reassuring to know that there is hope for us introverts out there! Especially when you yourself have found introverts attractive as well! 😊
I spent 6 yrs in Houston TX and your voice...love that yankee accent....
as an introvert talking for hours is my worse nightmare.
These videos will help you with this. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-Vg7g_huxM6KRbr1KTmITuK.html God bless 🙏
yes we right we will be good listener , and love to listen when beautiful woman like you speak in interesting things your right!!
I'm happy you found it helpful! Thank you for your kind words 🙏
Watching people EVERY SECOND is very dark practice… reading their every thought and hiding in secret - DARK
Yes! Love this! Keep them comin’
Thank you so much! I'll keep them coming 😀
Oh your such a good listener, you are like a brother too me. Friend Zone City my friend
Im a intovert but i will open up after a while
Same whit me dude. I need to know and trust people first.
Really good examination on us "Innies" Melannie! ❤
Thank you so much! I'm glad you enjoyed it 🙏
Hi Melannie. Thank you very much for this so interesting material about Being extrovert and loyal at the same if we're Meeting someone to romantic purpose especially. I wish you a great day! My wonderful friend and may God bless You all your life long!
Thank you for your comment! I'm happy you liked the video 😀 God bless!
I am a introvert and I'm attractive
Hi melannie, i am an introvert and this was a big help to me,thank you and God bless.
I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏
I have all of these traits, although have never considered myself to be an introvert but a realist.
I’m an introvert Melannie.
Yes. I am kind of an introvert. And since I have the traits this video shows, maybe that's why the girl I like had no problem sharing her recent struggles, such as losing her best friend over a disagreement. I am hoping to be her new best friend soon. I have wondered if I should tell her that her next best friend should be someone loyal and maybe a God fearing Christian.
I don't really like being sensitive though. Even though the girl I like says there's not enough people like me around.
Are you really just want to be her friend or something more? If you want to be only her friend great if you want her as a woman then just being her friend won't be enough but that's just my opinion
I'm glad you enjoyed the video! Thanks for your comment and for watching 🙏
Coach - Thanks for your replies elsewhere.
But do extrovert female lead character actually share their innermost hearts to introvert lead characters?
Can you offer some examples, please? Would be helpful to see this dynamic in action.
Thanks!
You're very welcome! Yes, extrovert women frequently share their innermost hearts with introvert men. This only happens however when they feel safe emotionally and physically with the man. I believe the show I'm referring to in this video (it's been a while since I filmed this one LOL) is called The Christmas Contract with Hilarie Burton and Robert Buckley. She's definitely more of an extrovert and opens up in a lot of ways as they get closer together and she learns she can trust him.
The girl I 💘 is an introvert and I have known her for ten years but about 4 years ago I started falling in 💘 with her! I am 12 years older than her but once she told me that age is just a number and I feel the same way, she is Russian and she treats me better than any American woman ever has! She likes her alone time and I do to and we do go out sometimes to eat but we like to go where there quiet places where there are not many people where we can relax and talk! She is divorced and her and her ex husband share joint custody of a girl who will be 18 soon! I have seen her ex husband treat her badly a long with many other people in her life! I treat her the way she should be treated, I 💘 opening doors for her and driving her where she needs to go and doing anything that I can to make her life easier and better for her all the time! I was driving her to a doctor's appointment that was far away from where we both live and we both don't like driving on freeways but we were on this one freeway in bumper to bumper traffic when I saw several emergency vehicles including a fire truck screaming up right behind us! I was just able to move right to our off ramp right before he would have hit us, any way we got to the top of the over pass and the doctors office called her so she explained to them what had happened and that we were almost there! When we got there she told me if she would have went by herself she would have been so scared but that when I am with her she never feels scared and I told her that I didn't ever want her to feel afraid of anything and that I would always be here for her when she needs me! She also fainted at her church one Sunday, they were fasting and she had not ate or drank anything, she always texts me when she gets home from church around 1pm but on this day I was starting to worry, I finally got a text from her at 1:45pm it said I fainted at church, I am in the hospital! I texted back What hospital? Someone texted me from her phone telling me what hospital! I set my GPS on my phone and took off to be with her, but the GPS took me to a clinique that was no longer opened for business! So I said to myself let's try this again and it got it right the second time but I had to change freeways 3 d I different times to get there but I finally got there and she was resting so they took me over to her and I lightly tapped her on the shoulder she turned and opened her eyes and said you came, and I said I am here! Then she said that she didn't text me what hospital but somebody did! Then she whispers to me could I let the attendant know that she needed to use the restroom! So I let them know and they unhooked the things that they were rehydrating her with and they brought me a chair so I could sit by her bedside! Then this cute but very angry woman doctor started yelling at her, and I gave that doctor a nasty glare them she started to yell at me well I stood up and I can be very intimidating when I want to be at 6foot 1 and 270 pounds and she was a small woman and I told her This isn't going to fly with me, then I told her if she treats people like this she is going to lose a lot of patients! She yelled back at me as she was leaving I want to keep her overnight for observation! After the woman left she told me I don't want to be here over night that hospitals scare her and I told her they scare me too! She got a call from Amazon when another doctor came so I talked with him and he said that they knew what caused her to faint, then he said we are getting a 4 page packet of instructions for her to go by so this won't happen again! I asked him will she have to spend the night here and he said no she can leave when we get the packet together for her! When she got off the phone she asked what I found out! I told her that she didn't have to spend the night there then she got happy then she asked me what would I have done had they kept her over night and I said I would stay here with you she told me that I could leave if they did that and I told her that I wouldn't leave her there where she knows nobody and I want to make sure they would treat you good! After she made 2 more trips to the restroom another doctor came into the room and her face lit up he asked her if they offered her anything to eat or drink she said no! So he went and came back with yougert and a Powerade then he told her that she was going to be released soon! After he left she said did you notice anything about the doctor I said no why do you ask! She said that he looked like the icon of Jesus! She is an orthodox Christian and they have a lot of icons, and after I thought about it She was right he did look like the icon of Jesus! She gave me a present it was the icon of my saint, saint James! I am done!
Thanks for this! I’m one and I’ve always never knew why I’m not wanted and why I find it hard to get on with women even my mother it’s hard to open up to her
I'm so happy this was helpful! If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀
Great insights! Thanks so much!!!
Thank you for your kind comment! I really appreciate it 😀
Honestly, I’m an introvert and I’m just not the best at talking honestly. Because any little thing you do can make or break a relationship. So, usually I keep my mouth shut so I don’t say something stupid. 🤣
I can help you with that! Have you seen these videos? th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-Vg7g_huxM6KRbr1KTmITuK.html
Yes, I’m an introvert, homebody
Great! I'll be sure to make more💪
As a professional beatboxer i felt the bloopers
Melannei you're not ready for these beatboxing skills lol
lol I think it's the world that isn't ready for my beat boxing skills 😂😂 Thanks for watching!
The link to watch the "How to Flirt With Women as an Introvert" - on TH-cam it says that the video is private and I am currently unable to watch it.
Yes. I'm an introvert
Perfect! I will keep them coming!💪
Loved this one Melannie! Hey... how would one make a donation to you if they wanted to? Thanks and God bless :)
Wow, thank you so much! I've never had anyone ask me that before. You are so kind! I'm afraid I don't have anything set up for that right now. I do have some services that will be up on my site within the next week that you may be interested in though. Thank you so much for being so sweet! You made my day 😀🙏
@@CoachMelannie fyi, I would be happy to buy a cup or souvenir from you! I know there are companies out there that specialize in this service..
I mean, I've noticed i tend to draw people towards me sometimes even if i don't want to, and aren't trying.
That's great!
I dont know if this is on confidence I'm thinking consistency like a lot of times as an introvert I'm not as consistent because I'm not sure what to do when things are going good or bad
That happens to a lot of people, you aren't alone. It just takes practice to get past it. I'll see if I can make a video on it soon! Thanks for watching 👍
why can't i find that video to flirt as an introvert. that's what i need
I am an introvert, I feel i'm not attractive, but others feels otherwise LOL. Weirdly, I was told by one of my colleague, someone mysteriously having a crush on me (few women LOL), I took is as a complement.
If Delilah from the radio had a daughter, that would be you. Thanks for all the good content :)
nice video❤️ yes! yes! yes!
Glad you liked it!! I'll keep them coming! In the meantime here a re a few that I think you will like! th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WB_2WePxCTNjixTYkLW8fg.html
Hey it's not popular or encouraged but I know some well known (on t.v) christian couples that love each other & that pastor churches & they love God.Think one day you could do a episode on why age gap relationships can work?
That's a good idea! I've had a lot of people ask for that. I'll see what I can do!
Why thank you Melanie 😁
I can relate to all the above😘
Not xtian but I like taking advice where it comes from, I am a pure introvert. Plus you got he looks of girls I usually go after.
There's a problem with the video How to Flirt as an Introvert. It's set to private. Can't see it
Women may like an introvert that listens to them, but women aren't SEXUALLY attracted to him. Plenty women have said I'm a good listener, meanwhile I can't get a girl to even have drinks with me, or return a text message. We don't want to hear women complain about the boyfriend that they're screwing only to say "I like talking to you, you're such a good listener", then go right back to the same boyfriend they were just complaining about! Sorry my dear, but most people think introvert men are weird and therefore we tend to stay even more inside our heads because we're misunderstood by most..
I can help you turn things around if you'd like to. Let me know.
yes yes and yes
Not all of us!!! Some of us have a disconnection bet. mouth and brain.
Really appreciate your videos-- you described me very well. My only problem is... how do I keep from falling in love with YOU? :-)
“It all comes down to skills” … ok, so I just suck? :) but really my experience tends to go the wrong way when it comes to the ones I have fallen for so far. Then they have also acted oddly around me - then going for someone else.
I’m sorry that happened! If you’d like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ God bless 🙏
Where did she say you sucked? Don’t put words in her mouth. Dig deep and improve your skills
@@MrCjchamp I … didn´t. Maybe you ought to take your own “advice” to heart and not put words in other peoples mouth, when I was adressing myself at the time.
Ok. A lot of this made me me feel better but to be honest two things. One I have seen garbage trucks that look better than me and two I have terrible communication skill to the point where I am pretty much silent in many conversations.
I help men in this situation all the time! Let me know if you'd like my help. melannie@coachmelannie.com God bless 🙏
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Yes!
I'm a introvert I found this interesting 😊
I'm glad you enjoyed it 🙏 Here are a few more videos on this topic! th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WB_2WePxCTNjixTYkLW8fg.html Have a great day 😀
Thank you Melannie you helped me so much. i do this but i am never out, to have a relationship i am trying to just talk to strangers i mean a dream girl i am so shy i do not talk to women. I PRAY that the Lord JESUS will help me in this. Thank you. yes
If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀
Pause at 1:36 I think coach M is winking at me
lol! Thanks for watching!
Yes. More like this.
Perfect! I will keep them coming!💪
You have a relaxing voice
Thank you! I'm so happy you enjoyed the video 🙏
@@CoachMelannie I did thanks
First thanks, and my question is as a older (retired senior) and very introverted widower, does you advice also pertain to ladies my age?
to be clear, I am a male who is looking for and enjoys the interaction of an independent spirited lady
My methods definitely apply! Everything I teach leads to a happy and healthy relationship no matter you age. I just released my online course, How to Get a Girlfriend, that goes more in depth with my methods. I was actually talking over email with one of my clients today who is in your same situation and he has found it very helpful. Here is a link coachmelannie.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend/ There are certainly many women who find introverts attractive at all stages of life 😀 You got this my friend!
more relaxed and chill? as an introvert? well unless youre shy i guess
Apparently this video has been made private?
How to Flirt With Women as an Introvert
th-cam.com/video/MnXnPptRt2Y/w-d-xo.html
Is being stoics are attractive? Because i'm introvert and not that quite sensitive .. and i always say the truth no matter if they get hurt or not "when someone talking to me (argue specifically)..
Yes yes yes
3:44 Wow.she has videos for everything
Have a great day 😀 Thanks for watching!
Melannie, the reason why you find "the introvert" to be so attractive is the exact same reason why the introvert finds "the extrovert" to be so attractive. The introvert and extrovert have this strong and necessary complimentary trait going for them. It goes well beyond this as every introvert and every extrovert are not created equal. You happen to be the ENFP Extrovert and all of the traits mentioned in this video are very specific to the INTJ Introvert. The ENFP female and the INTJ male is a very rare discovery. Two additional complimentary traits are included in this match as well as the absolute imperative shared Language of Intuition. A Myers-Briggs expert would love to share with you the many details with a simple gmail to 1967INTJ. Don't be bashful;;
Really true. ☺️
I'm glad you liked it! Thanks for watching 😀
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So, I've noticed in several of your videos, you use the term "Deal Breaker" to refer to a desirable trait. I understand what you were saying, that the lack of that trait would be a deal breaker, but it sounds wrong to me the way you've been using it. I appreciate the content, and just thought I'd bring it to your attention.
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Yes please make more similair content
Will do! Thanks for watching! 🙏
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i wonder if you are large and in charge type personality in your everyday or just their videos
.I learned tons from people by not saying much, but offer some unique material others might not.
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How can I tell if I am a introvert are attractive
The traits in this video are common traits that introverts have that are attractive. Extroverts also have many attractive traits, a Google search can help you know which personality trait you identify with the most. Thanks for watching!
You nailed it about me 😊
I'm glad you liked it! Thanks for watching 😀
@@CoachMelannie you are such a cutie 😍 but you are still single?
I'm an introvert and an empath or are they the same?
I'm very quiet and don't talk much but do get quite a few looks from the ladies which I love (seems to more intense now since I've hit 36) so I must be attractive but I don't feel attractive.
It's great that you get looks from the ladies! One of the best skills you can learn is how to approach them now. When you have the right strategy and confidence it's easy. If you never make a move though women move on. You want to act when they are interested. Have you heard about my program How to Get a Girlfriend? I teach you exactly how to stop feeling unattractive and instead ROCK at getting the girl.I'm giving away 3 paid lessons for FREE right now so you can test drive it. Here's a link coachmelannie.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend-free-preview/ I'd love to hear your thoughts on it!
I actually get turned down in favor of introverts all the time as of the 2020s. No exceptions. :/ You may or may not realize this, but recently, extroverts are out, introverts are in. Extroverts are now commonly considered childish, effeminate, and just plain stupid, just because you are outgoing and like to talk. Outgoing is considered "not aware of how bad the world is" and talking is considered immature and insecure overcompensation. Males are often considered patriarchal these days, and the emotionalism associated with them is often considered the epitome of this. People assume that because I like to talk, I am not a deep thinker, and will refuse to let me attempt at deeper conversation.
Man and women have told me this over and over and over again to the point where I have been driven to an almost suicidal depression. But people assume that because I'm an extrovert, I've got no problems. Everybody thinks I'm dumb. Everybody thinks I'm insecure. Everybody thinks I have it easy and/or I must be somehow taking advantage of others, just for that reason alone. Nobody really tries to reach out to me unless I ask. I sometimes just want to leave this world forever so I can stop dealing with these negative stereotypes.
That's being an extrovert in 2021.
So how about extroverts? How can an extrovert become attractive?
Because they know you can’t be a player and therefore they’ll have peace of mind that you can’t flirt with that hot lifeguard.