This resonates with me so well at this time. I was listening to another stoic message yesterday. It’s as if God brought this message to me just at the right time. Someone keeps trying to come back into my life who turned out to be a con, crook, and a very narcissistic person. The problem was they put a mask on just to get money out of me. He had our whole future planned. He made me fall in love with him. I was at a very vulnerable time in my life when he originally found me. He disappeared for a while. Now he wants back in but it’s like he’s a different person and not in a good way. I am going to practice this. It’s only been 48 hours since he’s tried to reach out again. He will never make me weak again. He knows what he did. It’s hard not to respond but this person is poison and toxic. I pray daily for Gods strength to keep this door closed and give me the strength to stay strong. It’s time for us all to take our lives back. We are all special, valued, and worthy of Gods blessings and goodness. God Bless you
Thank you for sharing your story. It takes immense strength to recognize when someone is toxic, especially when emotions are involved. Your awareness of the situation and your commitment to staying strong is truly inspiring. Remember, you are not alone in this journey. Every step you take towards reclaiming your life is a testament to your resilience and worth. Trust that God is guiding you, and continue to pray for the strength to keep that door closed. You deserve all the blessings and goodness life has to offer. Stay strong, and God bless you too!
Yes! Keep the door closed if he’s toxic to you and doesn’t respect you! I know it’s hard but you know him and that it’s toxic and you deserve so much better so keep that door shut tightly! Someone worthy will come!
I have been listening to, taking notes and following stoicism for over a month and have experienced this. Stepping back was challenging yet the most powerful thing I’ve done for myself. Doing this showed me how I was being taken for granted yet I can’t go back because I’m much happier now.
That’s a profound realization and a testament to the power of Stoic principles. Stepping back and focusing on your own well-being often reveals the true nature of relationships. By choosing to prioritize your inner peace and self-respect, you've reclaimed your power and found greater happiness. Keep walking this path-it’s clear you’re aligning more with your values and finding strength in what truly matters.
@@powerfulstoichabits Everything mentioned in this video is exactly what happened to me and I was disappointed to see this. I even questioned if they cared and why didn’t I see this before? Yet I had to accept what I was seeing and the nerve for them to question what am I doing like it’s my fault . Following stoicism has helped me tremendously, yes there’s still a lot I am working on yet what I’m seeing thus far is astounding. Listening daily is bringing about a peaceful change in me. Thank you and keep encouraging everyone to be their best self. This is life changing….something money can’t buy.
Wow, this video really hit home. I've been in a situation where I felt my presence was taken for granted. I'm considering taking a step back. Has anyone else tried this strategy? I'd love to hear your experiences.
My husband of 10 years told me that he’s not happy with me,and left me 😢…I went above and beyond for this man… I bailed him out from jail few times , I helped him financially since 2015! My heart is bleeding😢😢😢I feel so used and discarded like a trash 💔💔pray for me guys please 🙏🏽
Absolutely! Silence can be a powerful response, showing strength and self-respect. Loving ourselves and claiming our power is essential, and we deserve so much more than just the bare minimum. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful perspective! ❤️
okay i've been with this man for 15 years and for the life of me i feel like im stuck for some reason he is mexican and im black not that makes a differance. when we first got together we use to talk to each other all the time.then i went to the hospital for almost a month. know when i get home ,i start to see a little change in him i would ask him to get something for me because i had just came home from having my toe cut off and he would get in a bad mood for me just asking.we can go somewhere and we be talking but as soon as we get in he house he stop talking to me. i be talking to him i get no response. so i end up talking to myself and this been going on for at least7years and i ask myself is it me or what. i think that i'm not attrative to him any more. and i also want to say to you that your program is awesome i listen all the time please keep up the good work.
I like your word 'fools'. But still difficult for me to say it like that, after deccades beïng loyal to a friend. Your meme fits 💯 in my situation. Thank you for your support! ❤
I know my silence made an impact, this silence remains and always will. I am growing away from a person who is a narcissist, who will never change. My peace and my health come first.
That’s such a powerful realization. Choosing peace and prioritizing your well-being is the most important step toward healing. Sometimes silence speaks louder than words, and distancing yourself from toxic people is an act of self-love. You deserve peace, and it’s inspiring to see you put yourself first. Keep moving forward and protecting your energy. 💪✨
Am leaving this comment here so that when someone like it il still be reminded that this video made n help me to stop chasing the unknown n know the value of my life....💪💪💪💪
Have been chasing my boyfriend who left me 2yrs back, I failed to let go, I kept looking for him until I found him on Facebook once again this very week after that period of 2yrs, I felt so broken when he told me that he got married with in that time 😢, and at the same time he's telling me that he missed me yet he never looked for me! Praise God for this video it has taught me a lesson, I should stop chasing him, let me step back though it's going to take me time to heal and forget about him.
I'm truly sorry to hear what you've been going through; I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you. It’s incredibly brave of you to share your story, and I’m glad the video could offer some guidance. Remember, healing takes time, and it's okay to feel the emotions you're experiencing. As hard as it may be, stepping back is a powerful step towards regaining your peace and self-worth. You deserve someone who will cherish and value you without hesitation. Stay strong, and give yourself the grace and patience you need on this journey. You're not alone, and you will get through this. 💪💕
I have walked in similar shoes,you are not alone. I am growing stronger everyday. Please keep the faith be strong. I know it’s not easy. Sending you prayers love & light
Lesson #1 the fact he left u speaks volumes about him, so never chase a man, never, you shouldn’t have to Lesson #2 a man will never leave a woman he really loves or wants, so move on
The 10 stoic secrets to make them miss you! 1. The shock of silence 2. Realization of your value 3. The void of your presence 4. The rise of curiosity 5. The growth of longing 6. The sting of regret 7. The intrigue of mystery 8. The power of reflection 9. The magnetism of self-sufficiency 10. The desire for re -connection
I want to say Thankyou for this video, I'm am two months not chasing anything but I'm focus on myself. I ghosted people and cut ties with people. I don't also bothering someone to reply their dramas. I live with No caring of what people say. I just focus on my self.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience! It’s incredibly inspiring to hear that you’ve committed to focusing on yourself and cutting out the unnecessary noise. Staying true to your own path, and not getting caught up in others' dramas, takes a lot of strength and self-awareness. Keep up the amazing work-you’re embodying the essence of true Stoicism! Your journey is a powerful reminder that the best way to grow is by prioritizing your own well-being and peace of mind. Keep shining, and know that you’ve got a community here cheering you on! 💪✨
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
@DennisDelap I understand you. so sorry bout that. but I can tell she doesn't need you anymore. pls move on coz there's lots of fishes in the ocean. one day you will find one & maybe much better to your ex. I believe, we all have a person match with you. I hope you find a better girl for you. goodluck🎉
Over a month into exploring Stoicism, and I'm amazed by the impact of simply stepping back. It's made me realize how much I was allowing myself to be taken for granted. The journey hasn't been easy, but the newfound happiness and self-respect make it all worthwhile.
Thank you for your kind words! I'm thrilled to hear that you're finding value in both Stoicism and your Bible. It's amazing how these teachings can enrich our lives and offer different perspectives. Keep exploring, and I appreciate your support on this journey!
I've been still kind to them, ..but yet ,my silence has been my voice speaker. All i have ever wanted was to maintain a balance with them....but they didn't appreciate my present, so, I simply gave them a gift of my absence.. self reliance...by cutting that energy with a continuous drainage system. They didn't value my worth...thanks for the support of stoic knowledge... prioritizing myself to maintain my well being. Isolation myself , took me to greater heights of peace and elevates my spiritual growth....to becoming a better version of myself.
Your words resonate deeply, and it’s clear that your journey of self-reliance and prioritizing your well-being has brought you immense peace and growth. Silence can indeed be a powerful voice, especially when it’s a reflection of your inner strength and self-respect. By choosing to give them the gift of your absence, you’ve reclaimed your energy and focused on what truly matters-your own spiritual elevation and becoming the best version of yourself. Thank you for sharing your experience and for embracing the wisdom of Stoicism. Your story is a powerful reminder that self-worth is non-negotiable and that sometimes the best way to maintain balance is by prioritizing our own well-being above all else. Keep shining on your path!
I can agree that it would hurt to feel that your presence doesn't mean nothing to somebody but you need to ask yourself do you really want to be around somebody that doesn't even acknowledge or even care that you're there the present is a gift that's why they call it the present and we need to value ourselves and know that we are a gift.🎉
I can agree that it would hurt to feel that your presence doesn't mean nothing to somebody but you need to ask yourself do you really want to be around somebody that doesn't even acknowledge or even care that you're there the present is a gift that's why they call it the present and we need to value ourselves and know that we are a gift.🎉
Exactly! You’re absolutely right. If someone doesn’t acknowledge or appreciate your presence, it’s a clear sign that they don’t value the gift you are. Self-worth is key, and when you recognize your own value, you’ll attract those who truly appreciate you. You are a gift, and you deserve to be treated as such! 🎉💖
I am betrayed, trust broken.I cried for a week felt a sensation of nausea. Someome I trusted, betrayed me, knowing that I will be shattered. After listening to your videos, I have started feeling confident again. I have realised that, I did my best. After all the care and attention that I gave to the person. He left me shattered, the person doesn't deserve me. I will move on and will become more better and best version of myself.
I’m so sorry to hear what you’ve been through. It takes immense strength to recognize your worth after such a betrayal. You did your best, and it's clear you have a heart of gold. Remember, every challenge is an opportunity for growth. Keep focusing on becoming the best version of yourself, and brighter days are ahead!
Probably in response to your mind games. So lucky men are waking up. I’m glad he’s awake and ghost any girl the moment she starts playing games. With ZERO explanations. 👌🏽👊🏽 keep playing mind games with men then playing the victim like you don’t know what happened. He came back cause he was horny and weak. He should’ve stayed gone.
Men never appreciate what they have while they still have it. Then, once you are gone because you're done being taken for granted, instead of realizing that it was their own doing and expressing their regret at not having valued you, they feel sorry for themselves. And if you take them back, they will simply fall back into the habit of taking you for granted, and you're right back where you started. Unfortunately, leaving for good is the only solution. They may one day finally get it, but it won't benefit you. You will have made them a better partner for someone else. This is the story of my life. Wash, rinse, repeat. And I remain alone.
I'm so sorry you've had to experience this, but I truly admire your strength in recognizing your worth and refusing to settle for less than you deserve. It’s incredibly painful when someone doesn’t value you until it’s too late. But remember, by walking away, you’re creating space for the right person who will appreciate and cherish you. It’s difficult, but your self-respect and peace are worth more than anything. Stay strong-sometimes the hardest decisions lead to the most beautiful transformations. 💖
Someone suddenly did this to me. It's been a couple of months now, and yes, I felt everything in that order too. I miss seeing him so much. I just don't know what to do.
It's natural to feel that way, but remember that in Stoicism, our focus should be on what we can control-our thoughts and actions. Allow yourself to feel, but don't let those emotions control you. Instead, redirect your energy towards your own growth and well-being. Reflect on what you value and let that guide your path forward.
I’m really sorry you're feeling this way. It’s hard to let go, but remember, you deserve someone who truly values you. Take care of yourself, focus on healing, and trust that better days are ahead. 💖
I have thoroughly enjoyed listening to you. So much of what you have shared has resonated with what I am going through, and experiencing in my life. You have helped me understand and grow. I am no longer a part of this relationship. He decided to walk away because he said I was too needy. I gave all of myself to him but it wasn't enough. Thank you. This has truly helped me get through the rough times. ❤
When you're with the RIGHT person, none of these games are needed. Just being yourself is sufficient. After all, we want to get to know YOU not your games. If you're with the wrong person, using all these games will work.
My absence will speak for me!! I'm the best, I'm a loving and gorgeous woman ❤️ I am happy with my own company. I am the chosen one. I am loved. I am important. I have God who loves me unconditionally and I thank you God for what I am and what I have in life and it's all because of You. Thank you Lord, universe angels and spirits guides for loving me and protecting me, in Jesus name Amen 🙏🙏❤
What a powerful affirmation! 🙌 Your words radiate confidence, self-love, and gratitude. Embracing your worth and being content with your own company is truly inspiring. Keep shining, knowing that you are loved, protected, and guided every step of the way. Thank you for sharing this beautiful message-stay blessed and unstoppable! ❤️🙏✨
My absence will speak for me. My absence will make them feel vulnerable and alone my absence will make him yearn for me with a thirst only I can quench in Jesus name Amen
Thank you for sharing such a powerful affirmation! 🙏 Your words resonate deeply, and it’s true that sometimes our absence speaks louder than our presence. By stepping back, you’re allowing them to realize your value and creating space for them to truly appreciate what you bring into their life. Keep holding onto that strength and faith. Stay blessed! 🙌✨
To anyone who feels stuck right now, remember this: every setback is a setup for a comeback. Your potential is limitless, and brighter days are ahead. Keep going-you’re closer to success than you think.
I have been told to limit my time spent at his house. He also needed time to himself. I had the opportunity to see attention being given to another women. When I confronted him,he said he noticed her trying to talk to him.This was only after I told him I saw him confronting Her. She is also married. 😢
I'm so sorry you're going through this. It sounds incredibly painful and confusing, especially when boundaries start shifting and your feelings aren't being fully acknowledged. Remember, your worth isn't defined by someone else's actions or where their attention goes. It's important to take a step back and evaluate what you truly deserve in a relationship-honesty, respect, and mutual care. If he's pulling away and giving attention to others, it may be time to focus on yourself and your needs. You deserve someone who values you without hesitation. Stay strong, and give yourself the love and respect you're seeking. 💜
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm thrilled to hear that the video resonated with you and gave you that extra push to stand up and take charge. Remember, you've got all the strength you need within you, and sometimes it just takes a little reminder to unleash it. Keep standing tall and embracing your power-I'm cheering you on every step of the way! 🙌✨
Do it for yourself. Respect and love yourself to move in. Stand in your power and don't wait to see if it affects them. You are way more valuable on your own than settling for bits of crumbs❤
This so beautiful. My silence, my power. my freedom a real beauty to behold after shackles are broken and scales in the eyes fallen. Deep insight eye opening.
Thank you for sharing. It sounds like you’re in a reflective space, and prayer can bring a sense of peace and grounding. Sometimes, taking a moment to connect within, whether through prayer or reflection, can provide clarity and calm. Wishing you strength and peace on your journey! 🙏
My wife of 25 years divorced me after I was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and left me to fend for myself after surgery I had to struggle with chemotherapy and healing I think she would never miss me. I don’t think I would ever want her back. She 71 years old and she said she’s not a nurse and doesn’t want to take care of of a sick person she wants to have fun.
I'm truly sorry to hear about what you've been through. Facing such a serious health challenge is difficult enough without the added pain of someone you loved leaving during your time of need. It’s understandable that you feel hurt and disappointed by her actions, especially after so many years together. Remember that your worth is not determined by someone else's ability to stand by you during tough times. Focus on your healing, both physically and emotionally, and surround yourself with people who truly care and support you. You deserve to be valued and appreciated for who you are. Stay strong.
Absolutely! Silence allows us to reflect deeply on our feelings and the dynamics of our relationships. It can reveal so much about our needs and priorities, helping us gain clarity and perspective. Thanks for sharing this insight!
Thank you for this information it is so true and I appreciate the time the creators made this for everyone. If I had one wish, it would not be for material winnings. It would be to know god the ultimate 💥 power of the universe. To be at the right energy, frequency and vibration. ❤
Thank you for such a thoughtful and inspiring comment! It’s beautiful that your wish centers on connecting with a higher power and aligning with the universe’s energy. That’s a profound goal, far more meaningful than material gains. Wishing you strength and clarity on your journey toward that higher frequency and vibration. Stay blessed! ❤
What happens when you stop looking for them: 1- The sock of silence. Step back and create a space so they can appreciate and not take you for granted.. “ the quieter you become the more you hear”. 2- Realizations of your value, you are not just there to fill a space for them. they will miss your value of friendship. 3- The void of your presence, “ your presents brought a light warmth “. deep down they will miss you. 4- Rise of the curiosity, “ they start to be curious about you “. They took you for granted. 5- The growth of longing, “the more they wonder about you the more they will miss you “. 6- Sting of regret, “ they took you for granted , and assumed you would always be there for them “. You should have valued me when you had the chance. 7- Mystery, not sharing, and being unpredictable. 8- Power of Reflection, “ what they have over looked”. What they missed out. 9- Self sufficiency is incredibly powerful, “ you have grown & evolved , independent “. 10- They desire to reconnect with you, due to new version of you, and your
If you run into them and they ask why you’re ignoring them, respond calmly and honestly. You might say something like, "I needed to focus on my own well-being and found it was best to take a step back." This keeps the conversation respectful and true to your intentions without getting drawn into unnecessary conflict or explanations.
Am leaving this comment here so that when someone like it il still be reminded that this video made n help me to stop chasing the unknown n know the value of my life....💪💪💪💪
That’s a powerful realization! 🙌 It’s amazing to hear that this video helped you recognize your worth and refocus your energy. Keep embracing your value and letting go of what doesn’t serve you. Your journey is inspiring! 💪💯
It’s like having an abundance of wealth and losing it all and then realizing how much you regret not having the wealth you once had when you are at your lowest moment of financial need.
It’s true, sometimes we don’t realize the value of what we have until it’s gone. But just like wealth, we can rebuild and rise again, stronger and wiser. The key is learning from those moments and using them as fuel to create something even better.
I’m the one going through this. She is the one giving me the silence, It’s hitting me. I’m scared there’s nothing I can do to heal it. I took for granted of what I had. I wish I knew.
I hear you, and I feel the weight in your words. The fact that you recognize what you took for granted is the first step, awareness is powerful. It might feel like there’s nothing you can do right now, but healing starts with focusing on yourself. Use this silence as fuel to become the best version of you. People often notice what they lost when they see you thriving without them. Keep going, day by day, you’ve got this. 'I’m unstoppable.'
This resonates with me so well at this time. I was listening to another stoic message yesterday. It’s as if God brought this message to me just at the right time. Someone keeps trying to come back into my life who turned out to be a con, crook, and a very narcissistic person. The problem was they put a mask on just to get money out of me. He had our whole future planned. He made me fall in love with him. I was at a very vulnerable time in my life when he originally found me. He disappeared for a while. Now he wants back in but it’s like he’s a different person and not in a good way. I am going to practice this. It’s only been 48 hours since he’s tried to reach out again. He will never make me weak again. He knows what he did. It’s hard not to respond but this person is poison and toxic. I pray daily for Gods strength to keep this door closed and give me the strength to stay strong. It’s time for us all to take our lives back. We are all special, valued, and worthy of Gods blessings and goodness. God Bless you
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Thank you for sharing your story. It takes immense strength to recognize when someone is toxic, especially when emotions are involved. Your awareness of the situation and your commitment to staying strong is truly inspiring. Remember, you are not alone in this journey. Every step you take towards reclaiming your life is a testament to your resilience and worth. Trust that God is guiding you, and continue to pray for the strength to keep that door closed. You deserve all the blessings and goodness life has to offer. Stay strong, and God bless you too!
Yes! Keep the door closed if he’s toxic to you and doesn’t respect you! I know it’s hard but you know him and that it’s toxic and you deserve so much better so keep that door shut tightly! Someone worthy will come!
Quit being selfish
It takes a lot of strength to recognize toxic people and stay firm in your decision. You deserve respect and peace. Stay strong
I have been listening to, taking notes and following stoicism for over a month and have experienced this. Stepping back was challenging yet the most powerful thing I’ve done for myself. Doing this showed me how I was being taken for granted yet I can’t go back because I’m much happier now.
That’s a profound realization and a testament to the power of Stoic principles. Stepping back and focusing on your own well-being often reveals the true nature of relationships. By choosing to prioritize your inner peace and self-respect, you've reclaimed your power and found greater happiness. Keep walking this path-it’s clear you’re aligning more with your values and finding strength in what truly matters.
@@powerfulstoichabits Everything mentioned in this video is exactly what happened to me and I was disappointed to see this. I even questioned if they cared and why didn’t I see this before? Yet I had to accept what I was seeing and the nerve for them to question what am I doing like it’s my fault . Following stoicism has helped me tremendously, yes there’s still a lot I am working on yet what I’m seeing thus far is astounding. Listening daily is bringing about a peaceful change in me. Thank you and keep encouraging everyone to be their best self. This is life changing….something money can’t buy.
My absence will speak for me
Well done
Wow, this video really hit home. I've been in a situation where I felt my presence was taken for granted. I'm considering taking a step back. Has anyone else tried this strategy? I'd love to hear your experiences.
My husband of 10 years told me that he’s not happy with me,and left me 😢…I went above and beyond for this man… I bailed him out from jail few times , I helped him financially since 2015! My heart is bleeding😢😢😢I feel so used and discarded like a trash 💔💔pray for me guys please 🙏🏽
Wife back door not allowed ect
He was trash since he was in jail. Sorry for your hurt
@@Namelessly554 Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified
You deserve better always remember that
@@SunshineKhumalo your god is one God Allah
Silence is the best reply to fools. Love yourself claiming your power, respect and peace.
Not settling for " bare minimums" . ❤
Absolutely! Silence can be a powerful response, showing strength and self-respect. Loving ourselves and claiming our power is essential, and we deserve so much more than just the bare minimum. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful perspective! ❤️
@@wendydaniel1110 very well!👏👏👏👏 Great thoughts!💗
okay i've been with this man for 15 years and for the life of me i feel like im stuck for some reason he is mexican and im black not that makes a differance. when we first got together we use to talk to each other all the time.then i went to the hospital for almost a month. know when i get home ,i start to see a little change in him i would ask him to get something for me because i had just came home from having my toe cut off and he would get in a bad mood for me just asking.we can go somewhere and we be talking but as soon as we get in he house he stop talking to me. i be talking to him i get no response. so i end up talking to myself and this been going on for at least7years and i ask myself is it me or what. i think that i'm not attrative to him any more. and i also want to say to you that your program is awesome i listen all the time please keep up the good work.
I like your word 'fools'. But still difficult for me to say it like that, after deccades beïng loyal to a friend.
Your meme fits 💯 in my situation. Thank you for your support! ❤
My Absence will speak for me.
I know my silence made an impact, this silence remains and always will.
I am growing away from a person who is a narcissist, who will never change.
My peace and my health come first.
I hear you xxxx hugs
@hibbertsh I'm in the same spot rn. Rebuilding gives instant energy, congrats man 💪
The narcissist I once knew is now all alone and has no one to control, because everyone stepped back.
That’s such a powerful realization. Choosing peace and prioritizing your well-being is the most important step toward healing. Sometimes silence speaks louder than words, and distancing yourself from toxic people is an act of self-love. You deserve peace, and it’s inspiring to see you put yourself first. Keep moving forward and protecting your energy. 💪✨
I'm happy for you that you got away from your Narc
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Am leaving this comment here so that when someone like it il still be reminded that this video made n help me to stop chasing the unknown n know the value of my life....💪💪💪💪
No man has ever been betrayed by his silence
Wife back door not allowed ect
Have been chasing my boyfriend who left me 2yrs back, I failed to let go, I kept looking for him until I found him on Facebook once again this very week after that period of 2yrs, I felt so broken when he told me that he got married with in that time 😢, and at the same time he's telling me that he missed me yet he never looked for me! Praise God for this video it has taught me a lesson, I should stop chasing him, let me step back though it's going to take me time to heal and forget about him.
I'm truly sorry to hear what you've been going through; I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you. It’s incredibly brave of you to share your story, and I’m glad the video could offer some guidance. Remember, healing takes time, and it's okay to feel the emotions you're experiencing. As hard as it may be, stepping back is a powerful step towards regaining your peace and self-worth. You deserve someone who will cherish and value you without hesitation. Stay strong, and give yourself the grace and patience you need on this journey. You're not alone, and you will get through this. 💪💕
@@powerfulstoichabitsyou give good advice and support
I have walked in similar shoes,you are not alone. I am growing stronger everyday. Please keep the faith be strong. I know it’s not easy. Sending you prayers love & light
Lesson #1 the fact he left u speaks volumes about him, so never chase a man, never, you shouldn’t have to
Lesson #2 a man will never leave a woman he really loves or wants, so move on
Powerful content
Often Stepping back lets the right connections come to us. ❤
Very much
The 10 stoic secrets to make them miss you!
1. The shock of silence
2. Realization of your value
3. The void of your presence
4. The rise of curiosity
5. The growth of longing
6. The sting of regret
7. The intrigue of mystery
8. The power of reflection
9. The magnetism of self-sufficiency
10. The desire for re -connection
Thank you very much for having converted the 10 stoic secrets into text format...❤
Thank you 😊
Thank you Esther!
The shift of communication.
I want to say Thankyou for this video, I'm am two months not chasing anything but I'm focus on myself. I ghosted people and cut ties with people. I don't also bothering someone to reply their dramas. I live with No caring of what people say. I just focus on my self.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience! It’s incredibly inspiring to hear that you’ve committed to focusing on yourself and cutting out the unnecessary noise. Staying true to your own path, and not getting caught up in others' dramas, takes a lot of strength and self-awareness. Keep up the amazing work-you’re embodying the essence of true Stoicism! Your journey is a powerful reminder that the best way to grow is by prioritizing your own well-being and peace of mind. Keep shining, and know that you’ve got a community here cheering you on! 💪✨
My Absence Will Speak For Me
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Dog not allowed ect
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
If someone you love leaves you it means it open the door for someone even better. God is amazing 🙏
Best of luck!
@DennisDelap I understand you. so sorry bout that. but I can tell she doesn't need you anymore. pls move on coz there's lots of fishes in the ocean. one day you will find one & maybe much better to your ex. I believe, we all have a person match with you. I hope you find a better girl for you. goodluck🎉
Over a month into exploring Stoicism, and I'm amazed by the impact of simply stepping back. It's made me realize how much I was allowing myself to be taken for granted. The journey hasn't been easy, but the newfound happiness and self-respect make it all worthwhile.
My absence will speak for me. Amen, praise God.🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️
@@LAB8863 your god and our god is one God Allah
I made a mistake b4 meeting you Mr stoic habit in my love journey, very sadness thing but, by this moment the dynamic shifted!
I have learned so much from this channel I'm now addicted to stoicism as I'm addicted to my Bible.
Thank you for your kind words! I'm thrilled to hear that you're finding value in both Stoicism and your Bible. It's amazing how these teachings can enrich our lives and offer different perspectives. Keep exploring, and I appreciate your support on this journey!
Believe in yourself fix your problems for each one of us has the power to do it believe your life will transform to the life you dream of
My absence will bring her back to me thank u God for giving me the strength to remain silence and do my own job ❤❤❤
I've been still kind to them, ..but yet ,my silence has been my voice speaker.
All i have ever wanted was to maintain a balance with them....but they didn't appreciate my present, so, I simply gave them a gift of my absence.. self reliance...by cutting that energy with a continuous drainage system. They didn't value my worth...thanks for the support of stoic knowledge... prioritizing myself to maintain my well being. Isolation myself , took me to greater heights of peace and elevates my spiritual growth....to becoming a better version of myself.
Your words resonate deeply, and it’s clear that your journey of self-reliance and prioritizing your well-being has brought you immense peace and growth. Silence can indeed be a powerful voice, especially when it’s a reflection of your inner strength and self-respect. By choosing to give them the gift of your absence, you’ve reclaimed your energy and focused on what truly matters-your own spiritual elevation and becoming the best version of yourself.
Thank you for sharing your experience and for embracing the wisdom of Stoicism. Your story is a powerful reminder that self-worth is non-negotiable and that sometimes the best way to maintain balance is by prioritizing our own well-being above all else. Keep shining on your path!
@powerfulstoichabits thank you for the share!
Thanks for sharing this video
It’s incredible that you’ve found peace and growth through prioritizing yourself.
Silence is my power
My presence is powerful seeing me is a privilege
My absence will speak for me. Thank You Lord. Thank you universe
It gives you a an advantage to know exactly what kind of people they were
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The only way lefto go 😢 by yyyyf c b
Thisssss 💯💯💯
My absence will speak for me,I claim all the result of my absence will come true.and that the reconnection will bring maturity to all.
I can agree that it would hurt to feel that your presence doesn't mean nothing to somebody but you need to ask yourself do you really want to be around somebody that doesn't even acknowledge or even care that you're there the present is a gift that's why they call it the present and we need to value ourselves and know that we are a gift.🎉
I can agree that it would hurt to feel that your presence doesn't mean nothing to somebody but you need to ask yourself do you really want to be around somebody that doesn't even acknowledge or even care that you're there the present is a gift that's why they call it the present and we need to value ourselves and know that we are a gift.🎉
Thank you for your edifying videos.
Exactly! You’re absolutely right. If someone doesn’t acknowledge or appreciate your presence, it’s a clear sign that they don’t value the gift you are. Self-worth is key, and when you recognize your own value, you’ll attract those who truly appreciate you. You are a gift, and you deserve to be treated as such! 🎉💖
My Absence will speak for me!
I am betrayed, trust broken.I cried for a week felt a sensation of nausea. Someome I trusted, betrayed me, knowing that I will be shattered. After listening to your videos, I have started feeling confident again. I have realised that, I did my best. After all the care and attention that I gave to the person. He left me shattered, the person doesn't deserve me. I will move on and will become more better and best version of myself.
I’m so sorry to hear what you’ve been through. It takes immense strength to recognize your worth after such a betrayal. You did your best, and it's clear you have a heart of gold. Remember, every challenge is an opportunity for growth. Keep focusing on becoming the best version of yourself, and brighter days are ahead!
My ex put me through hell, with the silent treatment so when he came back I told him to keep me in silent treatment FOREVER!
Probably in response to your mind games. So lucky men are waking up. I’m glad he’s awake and ghost any girl the moment she starts playing games. With ZERO explanations. 👌🏽👊🏽 keep playing mind games with men then playing the victim like you don’t know what happened. He came back cause he was horny and weak. He should’ve stayed gone.
Men never appreciate what they have while they still have it. Then, once you are gone because you're done being taken for granted, instead of realizing that it was their own doing and expressing their regret at not having valued you, they feel sorry for themselves. And if you take them back, they will simply fall back into the habit of taking you for granted, and you're right back where you started. Unfortunately, leaving for good is the only solution. They may one day finally get it, but it won't benefit you. You will have made them a better partner for someone else. This is the story of my life. Wash, rinse, repeat. And I remain alone.
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I am in the same situation as you. Same experience.
I'm so sorry you've had to experience this, but I truly admire your strength in recognizing your worth and refusing to settle for less than you deserve. It’s incredibly painful when someone doesn’t value you until it’s too late. But remember, by walking away, you’re creating space for the right person who will appreciate and cherish you. It’s difficult, but your self-respect and peace are worth more than anything. Stay strong-sometimes the hardest decisions lead to the most beautiful transformations. 💖
This really resonated with me. Sometimes, we have to walk away to show our worth. It’s hard, but worth it in the end.
My absence will speak louder than words and speak for me!
My absence will speak for me 🙏🏽💯💪🏽❣️All Praise to the most high
Someone suddenly did this to me. It's been a couple of months now, and yes, I felt everything in that order too. I miss seeing him so much. I just don't know what to do.
It's natural to feel that way, but remember that in Stoicism, our focus should be on what we can control-our thoughts and actions. Allow yourself to feel, but don't let those emotions control you. Instead, redirect your energy towards your own growth and well-being. Reflect on what you value and let that guide your path forward.
@@powerfulstoichabitslearn to love yourself and know your self worth!! Never settle or be an option!! Never
I’m really sorry you're feeling this way. It’s hard to let go, but remember, you deserve someone who truly values you. Take care of yourself, focus on healing, and trust that better days are ahead. 💖
I’m in the company of being made to feel invisible, yet my strength is lingering in channels like this and it feels so good 🦋💞🦋
Wonderful!
I went above and beyond for my ex narcissistic ex boyfriend of four years but, he discarded me as if I was nothing!
I know what u mean ❤
I have thoroughly enjoyed listening to you. So much of what you have shared has resonated with what I am going through, and experiencing in my life. You have helped me understand and grow. I am no longer a part of this relationship. He decided to walk away because he said I was too needy. I gave all of myself to him but it wasn't enough. Thank you. This has truly helped me get through the rough times. ❤
Glad it was helpful!
Yes and Amen. My abscense will speak for me 🔥
Thank you! I listen everyday!!
This is perfect motivation for self-love
Love this video great day ❤😊
When you're with the RIGHT person, none of these games are needed. Just being yourself is sufficient. After all, we want to get to know YOU not your games. If you're with the wrong person, using all these games will work.
My absence will speak for me!! I'm the best, I'm a loving and gorgeous woman ❤️ I am happy with my own company. I am the chosen one. I am loved. I am important. I have God who loves me unconditionally and I thank you God for what I am and what I have in life and it's all because of You. Thank you Lord, universe angels and spirits guides for loving me and protecting me, in Jesus name Amen 🙏🙏❤
What a powerful affirmation! 🙌 Your words radiate confidence, self-love, and gratitude. Embracing your worth and being content with your own company is truly inspiring. Keep shining, knowing that you are loved, protected, and guided every step of the way. Thank you for sharing this beautiful message-stay blessed and unstoppable! ❤️🙏✨
Stepping into my power. My absence will speak for me🔥
MY ABSENCE WILL SPEAK FOR ME
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You are a gift from God,embrace your worth!
Longing and reflecting the space grows wider and not easy to reconnect
My absence will speak for me. My absence will make them feel vulnerable and alone my absence will make him yearn for me with a thirst only I can quench in Jesus name Amen
Thank you for sharing such a powerful affirmation! 🙏 Your words resonate deeply, and it’s true that sometimes our absence speaks louder than our presence. By stepping back, you’re allowing them to realize your value and creating space for them to truly appreciate what you bring into their life. Keep holding onto that strength and faith. Stay blessed! 🙌✨
To anyone who feels stuck right now, remember this: every setback is a setup for a comeback. Your potential is limitless, and brighter days are ahead. Keep going-you’re closer to success than you think.
My absence will make them feel alone and they will be vulnerable
MY ABSENCE WILL SPEAK FOR ME.😎✨✨✨✨💯💯💯📌
This is a best revelation on absence
My absence and silence will speak for me. .. I know my worth.
My Absence will speak for me, Im stepping up for my own worth!
My absence will speak for me‼️
Silence is golden.❤😊
Thank you needed to hear this!!!! My absence will speak for me!!!!
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My absence will stands for me.. I affirmed it. 🙏🙏🙏
My absence will speak for me.
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It's amazing how much I've developed listening to stoicism.
I'm blessedly enjoying these audios
Glad you enjoy it!
My Absence I will speak for me ❤️
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Dog not allowed ect
I have been told to limit my time spent at his house. He also needed time to himself. I had the opportunity to see attention being given to another women. When I confronted him,he said he noticed her trying to talk to him.This was only after I told him I saw him confronting Her. She is also married. 😢
I'm so sorry you're going through this. It sounds incredibly painful and confusing, especially when boundaries start shifting and your feelings aren't being fully acknowledged. Remember, your worth isn't defined by someone else's actions or where their attention goes. It's important to take a step back and evaluate what you truly deserve in a relationship-honesty, respect, and mutual care. If he's pulling away and giving attention to others, it may be time to focus on yourself and your needs. You deserve someone who values you without hesitation. Stay strong, and give yourself the love and respect you're seeking. 💜
My absence will speak for me
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Vanessa, my absence will speak for me!!! 🙏🏽✨️🙌 Amen 🙏🏽
My absence will speak for me.Amen
I love this, it's like talking to me directly either encouraging me to stand up thanks.
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm thrilled to hear that the video resonated with you and gave you that extra push to stand up and take charge. Remember, you've got all the strength you need within you, and sometimes it just takes a little reminder to unleash it. Keep standing tall and embracing your power-I'm cheering you on every step of the way! 🙌✨
MY ABSENCE WILL SPEEK FOR ME
THANK YOU
Remains to be seen ...if my absence means anything..
Do it for yourself. Respect and love yourself to move in. Stand in your power and don't wait to see if it affects them. You are way more valuable on your own than settling for bits of crumbs❤
This is very powerful true facts of life
This so beautiful. My silence, my power. my freedom a real beauty to behold after shackles are broken and scales in the eyes fallen. Deep insight eye opening.
My absence will be felt deeply
My absence will speak for me. I am stronger then tomorrow and divinely guided 🙏🏾
My absence will speak for me..
I talked to him in morning and tonight just now while listening to this. He said pray which i have
Thank you for sharing. It sounds like you’re in a reflective space, and prayer can bring a sense of peace and grounding. Sometimes, taking a moment to connect within, whether through prayer or reflection, can provide clarity and calm. Wishing you strength and peace on your journey! 🙏
My wife of 25 years divorced me after I was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and left me to fend for myself after surgery I had to struggle with chemotherapy and healing I think she would never miss me. I don’t think I would ever want her back. She 71 years old and she said she’s not a nurse and doesn’t want to take care of of a sick person she wants to have fun.
I'm truly sorry to hear about what you've been through. Facing such a serious health challenge is difficult enough without the added pain of someone you loved leaving during your time of need. It’s understandable that you feel hurt and disappointed by her actions, especially after so many years together. Remember that your worth is not determined by someone else's ability to stand by you during tough times. Focus on your healing, both physically and emotionally, and surround yourself with people who truly care and support you. You deserve to be valued and appreciated for who you are. Stay strong.
You are a kind and intelligent person God Bless you @powerfulstoichabits
Damn that's cold. You deserve way better. Wishing you all the best on your healing.
The truth is seldom pure and rarely simple.
MY ABSENCE WILL SPEAK FOR ME.
I send inncent prayer HUGE HUGS
My Absence will Speak for me!!!
My absence will speak for me. Amen 🙏
My silence will speak for me
My Absence Wil Speak For Me!
My absence will speak for me!
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My absence will speak for me!
Silence is a strong form of communication, and it helps you internalize on key aspects of the relationship
Absolutely! Silence allows us to reflect deeply on our feelings and the dynamics of our relationships. It can reveal so much about our needs and priorities, helping us gain clarity and perspective. Thanks for sharing this insight!
My absence will speak for itself
Thank you for this information it is so true and I appreciate the time the creators made this for everyone. If I had one wish, it would not be for material winnings. It would be to know god the ultimate 💥 power of the universe. To be at the right energy, frequency and vibration. ❤
Thank you for such a thoughtful and inspiring comment! It’s beautiful that your wish centers on connecting with a higher power and aligning with the universe’s energy. That’s a profound goal, far more meaningful than material gains. Wishing you strength and clarity on your journey toward that higher frequency and vibration. Stay blessed! ❤
What happens when you stop looking for them:
1- The sock of silence. Step back and create a space so they can appreciate and not take you for granted.. “ the quieter you become the more you hear”.
2- Realizations of your value, you are not just there to fill a space for them.
they will miss your value of friendship.
3- The void of your presence, “ your presents brought a light warmth “.
deep down they will miss you.
4- Rise of the curiosity, “ they start to be curious about you “. They took you for granted.
5- The growth of longing, “the more they wonder about you the more they will miss you “.
6- Sting of regret, “ they took you for granted , and assumed you would always be there for them “. You should have valued me when you had the chance.
7- Mystery, not sharing, and being unpredictable.
8- Power of Reflection, “ what they have over looked”. What they missed out.
9- Self sufficiency is incredibly powerful, “ you have grown & evolved , independent “.
10- They desire to reconnect with you, due to new version of you, and your
Its called knowing my self worth.
My apsence is powerful
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My ABSENCE WILL SPEAK FOR ME !!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽
This is excellent!
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It's called maturity.
What if you run into them what and they ask you why you're ignoring them what do you say?
Shut mouth catch s no fly's the only power you have is say nothing
Ignore them
If you run into them, be cordial, don't ignore. Ignoring them is childish. Just acknowledge them and move along
Just offer to buy them coffee and have an adult and candid conversation about it.If you have nothing to hide,have a heart to heart.
If you run into them and they ask why you’re ignoring them, respond calmly and honestly. You might say something like, "I needed to focus on my own well-being and found it was best to take a step back." This keeps the conversation respectful and true to your intentions without getting drawn into unnecessary conflict or explanations.
Am leaving this comment here so that when someone like it il still be reminded that this video made n help me to stop chasing the unknown n know the value of my life....💪💪💪💪
That’s a powerful realization! 🙌 It’s amazing to hear that this video helped you recognize your worth and refocus your energy. Keep embracing your value and letting go of what doesn’t serve you. Your journey is inspiring! 💪💯
Dog not allowed ect
@@TasiyanaChinula I totally agree with you, I’ve chased this guy for 3 years, I now know my true value of myself, no more chasing
@@Lynny1651hi,please can I get in touch with you??
My absence will speak for me! ❤
It’s like having an abundance of wealth and losing it all and then realizing how much you regret not having the wealth you once had when you are at your lowest moment of financial need.
It’s true, sometimes we don’t realize the value of what we have until it’s gone. But just like wealth, we can rebuild and rise again, stronger and wiser. The key is learning from those moments and using them as fuel to create something even better.
@@powerfulstoichabits we can rebuild on wealth that’s true, but if the mindset is still the same, the results will be the same.
So profound...i love the stoic
MY ABSENCE WILL SPEAK FOR ME!❤
My absence will speak for me Amen Thank you Lord
My absence speaks for me! Love this so much. I feel empowered. Thank you🙏🏽❤️
I’m the one going through this. She is the one giving me the silence, It’s hitting me. I’m scared there’s nothing I can do to heal it. I took for granted of what I had. I wish I knew.
I hear you, and I feel the weight in your words. The fact that you recognize what you took for granted is the first step, awareness is powerful. It might feel like there’s nothing you can do right now, but healing starts with focusing on yourself. Use this silence as fuel to become the best version of you. People often notice what they lost when they see you thriving without them. Keep going, day by day, you’ve got this. 'I’m unstoppable.'