How to: Not Let Kids Ruin Your Marriage

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  • @Stephanie-hl4fx
    @Stephanie-hl4fx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Blended families are even harder let's talk about that

    • @Prophezora
      @Prophezora 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This!

    • @jaclynh9343
      @jaclynh9343 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Prophezoraexactly

  • @righteousmasculine
    @righteousmasculine 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this video I’m taking all this in for when I get married and have kids. My pastor actually said this about not letting kids ruin your marriage. Makes perfect sense. No kids in the bed.

  • @krystallopez8461
    @krystallopez8461 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Can you do, how not to let your parents ruin your marriage?

  • @willarolen7581
    @willarolen7581 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen! No squeaky beds! That is a mood!

  • @mekadoz86
    @mekadoz86 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Chiiiillllleeeee!!! This is the topic me and my husband need, but it’s them ADULT children 🤦🏿‍♀️😂

    • @fayechamp4156
      @fayechamp4156 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My fiancé grown daughter is obsessed with me in a hateful way. I wonder sometimes if her and her dad had something else going on cause it’s to weird for her to be this invested in our relationship where she is jealous of anything he does for me she says she’s single by choice but tell her Dad she wants him to be with someone else always causing trouble and he is the same with her whenever she gets a man

    • @mekadoz86
      @mekadoz86 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fayechamp4156 chile naw, it’s just baby girls and their dads… it’s CRAZY

    • @joycewatt8289
      @joycewatt8289 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yesssss!!!

    • @Drewcat07
      @Drewcat07 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My fiance never has understood this concept fully. I’ll never forget when we first began our journey as a family. I thought it was important to make sure all the kids were actively doing their chores. Somehow that morphed into me being upset and unpleased with her and her children. Then it became “if you got a problem with my kids, then you got a problem with me.”
      We have had our differences ever since. And it wasn’t because I had an unhealthy problem with the kids…

  • @angeldent1
    @angeldent1 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is definitely a blessing and I wish you guys would have a topic where it comes to blending families because I’m having a really hard time with that with my fiancé

    • @mekadoz86
      @mekadoz86 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are not alone… me too

    • @remainpeaceful7464
      @remainpeaceful7464 ปีที่แล้ว

      Been there done that. Everything you do, do it as unto the Lord. Looking for nothing in return from your spouse or the kids. God sees your goodness ❤

    • @sheilalawson1407
      @sheilalawson1407 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same!!

  • @alexissimmons-guess5118
    @alexissimmons-guess5118 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just found this video. I love it! We haven't been blessed with our own children together yet but I appreciate this video. Glad to know that I am not alone in not wanting babies/children getting used sleeping with the parents.

  • @willarolen7581
    @willarolen7581 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The Holy Spirit Of God is the best teacher! He helped me raise my children. Children have different love languages and personalities.

  • @lindajohnson2816
    @lindajohnson2816 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We raised our children the same way as far as eight o’clock bed time and nap time everyday. Our children never sleep in our bed. It’s true

  • @Soblessed3279
    @Soblessed3279 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can relate so much to this video and laughed as I could relate to my kids doing some of these things 🤣

  • @aprilrobinson3023
    @aprilrobinson3023 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Y’all have helped my marriage so much!! Both of you are a true gift from god!♥️ so relatable….please stay obedient, keep sharing these gems 💎 and god bless your marriage and lives! Thank you so much!!!!!

  • @leeana9192
    @leeana9192 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow this is an old video but new subscriber here ☺️

  • @melstarr1864
    @melstarr1864 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We had trouble securing reliable babysitters when our kids were young.

  • @SheSharpNotFlat
    @SheSharpNotFlat ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was so good!!!

  • @bincy0110
    @bincy0110 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ty for putting these valuable/ Christian principles out here!!

  • @latanyaharris7160
    @latanyaharris7160 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm interested in taking the 30 Day Effective Communication Challenge.

  • @RenishaAllen
    @RenishaAllen 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    And they sigh all day long. Like everything just bother them lol😂

  • @breinspiredd
    @breinspiredd 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m a new subscriber and I had to start all the way from the start! I definitely needed some mentorship with life/marriage

  • @katlynsantiago1573
    @katlynsantiago1573 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love the date night idea! This is something we’ve been trying to implement into our week, but it’s so difficult. I don’t have any children, but my boyfriend does. We have his child over every single weekend and we both work all week, so week days we normally only have time to shower, unwind, and make dinner before we get to bed. Sometimes it just feels like too much to go out on a date after working all day. But weekends don’t necessarily work out either because we go to pick up his child right when he gets off of work and usually the baby mother does not come to get the child until 8 o clock at night on Sunday. If she had gotten picked up earlier on Sundays, there might be time for date night! However, I’ve tried talking to my partner about this and he doesn’t like the idea because he only sees his daughter on the weekends so he doesn’t want to feel like he is ‘sending her home early’. I really don’t know what to do. I want him to feel good and like he is being a great father, but I also feel that there is never any time for us and it makes me feel like we are very distant sometimes. Any advice?

    • @zippyblessed839
      @zippyblessed839 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dump him
      They are not your damn kids
      You are mot responsible for them
      Find someone thst doesn't have kids.
      Easy life and peaceful 😌

    • @nikolev3173
      @nikolev3173 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ask the Mom to come pick the child up earlier

  • @Nicole__97_
    @Nicole__97_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was soo good and informative ESPECIALLY kids sleeping in the bed I’m so guilty of that

  • @BGP_23
    @BGP_23 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your content. Subbed.

  • @patriciacarranza4550
    @patriciacarranza4550 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg you both are so fun!! Loved this!

  • @boolinwithbria
    @boolinwithbria ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Y’all are hilarious 😂

  • @SweetBrownGirl
    @SweetBrownGirl ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want marriage, but no children.

  • @theultimatefoodie2666
    @theultimatefoodie2666 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love how churchy that intro was! 😂 #newsubscriber

  • @TanieBaker
    @TanieBaker 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a mom of 2 with a three year old in the bed 😩 Great video!!!! Thank you!!!

  • @melstarr1864
    @melstarr1864 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Reconsider the weekdays. You might have success from the standpoint that going out to dinner would save you the time needed to make dinner at home.

  • @nyamushagibridget9853
    @nyamushagibridget9853 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really love you two.....❤❤❤

  • @melissagreene9544
    @melissagreene9544 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What to do when one parent is always having to discipline or disagreements on disaplinine?

  • @LillieReneeWheat
    @LillieReneeWheat 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How to stop letting the step kids and his parents are ruining the marriage

  • @RenishaAllen
    @RenishaAllen 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Them attitudes… Lord they come home like they been at hard labor all day

  • @seven77thunders
    @seven77thunders 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like this couple - don’t get the kids sleeping in your bed it ruins your marriage ands sets up a separation between you and husband - rules need to be set Now 3 year old still in the bed every night

  • @purposepartner9601
    @purposepartner9601 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How to not let kids prevent or distract you from dating?

  • @chinesasteward7342
    @chinesasteward7342 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yessss love Lake Eola walks

  • @IamTreyWarren
    @IamTreyWarren ปีที่แล้ว

    📝 💎

  • @chorizoyeggs8748
    @chorizoyeggs8748 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sex closet 🤔 good one, like your honesty 😁

  • @seven77thunders
    @seven77thunders 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like this two wow - Lord bless there ministry marriage needs an uplift I need this Info 🫣😩🙌🏾🤗