@@yourregularspontie8587 Hmm... nah. I dated an abusive woman. This woman slapped me and emotionally abused me on the regular. I even texted her and told her it was over. It's not hard to do. Now she couldn't take no for an answer and kept texting me mean things. After that I just blocked her. At least tell the person it's over before blocking them so they know what's going on.
@@redrover5264 I hear you. In my case the girl was a bully and I didn't want to suffer any verbal abuse or being beaten so I disappeared. We went to the same church it got to extremes that I ended up telling the pastor as well after another girl had also came forward to report this lady of emotional manipulation and spiritual bullying, almost witchcraft
@@redrover5264I’m sorry you went through that. But that’s a different situation and I’m sure God approved of you ghosting her. You actually had a legitimate reason to
Wow! This sentence : ' When someone is telling you with their actions that your heart doesn't matter to them, than you have to believe what they are telling you : you don't matter to them' cleared things up ☺
I have finally grasped in this season, that not everyone isn't meant to be apart of your life permanently, you are not meant to be apart of their life permanently. And that is honestly okay. Some people never have your best interest or good intentions towards you from the start. Some interactions you have was to only teach you a lesson, and more often then not if we would have listened to the spirit of the Lord we wouldn't have given that person room in our lives on that magnitude from the start. We have to know that it and we will be okay regardless. And if it's God's will He can restore that relationship. Or send the person that He meant for you to be with all along. Everyone know, trust, and believe that it will be okay in Jesus name. I pray that all IS well, and I pray you all's strength, love, joy, wisdom, and hope comes from the Lord in Jesus name. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.
I pray that you feel the love from the Lord that you desire to come from someone or something else in Jesus name. Be blessed, strong, and courageous in the Lord in Jesus name. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.
That’s exactly right, but when someone is super Tech savvy, they may use 100 names so it makes me think each and every post could be theirs. I tried to go “so social contact at all,” but it leaves me completely alone.. yes, the LIRD is w me, but when someone has played tricks on me before, stopped calling, , it is hard to see or believe that “anyone’s” post is genuine anymore. I try to believe the best in people, but God will reveal to me in due time.
I have been ghosted before and it didn’t feel good but watching this helps understand more and I knew he wasn’t good for me. I was just being naive. What made it worst is that he ghosted me twice. SMH. I will not let this happen to me again. Thank you Lord for the understanding.
Me too! Twice by the same guy! I’m so much stronger now and 100% ready if he ever comes around again. Maybe I needed to go through it twice with him to make sure my armor was on nice and secure. God is so awesome 😁🙏😁
Yep happened to ME months ago......i REALLY liked him. We both have amazing dogs, He loves Christ with all his heart, so do I. But I was just a pleasant distraction to pass time once or twice and meant absolutely nothing to him. We had spent a lot of time talking, nothing romantic. Very respectful. About God and our pets, etc. But we were starting a nice friendship and then the "Ghosting" began. He stood me up for coffee. Never communicated with me again.I wasn't trying to marry him or have his children i just wanted to get to know him. None of what he did made any sense and it was hurtful and cruel. I guess it just wasn't meant to be. I will never understand people's motives. *SIGH 🙄😢🙏🏾 Nice video tho. Made me think. Still hurt. Takes time. 🤷🏾
This literally LITERALLY just happened to me with a Christian guy. He serves at church and loves the Lord. It's awkward now. Sometimes i wish he never asked me out.
Everything will work out for the best in due time in Jesus name. It will work out for the best. I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus name, and I pray that you put all of your love, trust, and hope in Him. And in turn He will bless you with what you need, and teach you how to truly love yourself and others in Jesus name. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen. Always remember that all is well, no matter what it look and feel like.
I unfriended those several ladies that have ghosted me. What is sad is that one of them is a Christian. Not my loss. I don’t tolerate it at all. We must keep our eyes on Christ. He is with us at all times. I am a widower and I know that I have the Lord with me because I trust Him.
Dude suppose you're chatting someone and in the middle, other person doesn't reply back and you don't message because you didn't receive any reply. Is it called ghosting?
Yup went through this last week with a lady from Lebanon who "leads chaplain prayers" and also is "water baptised" and reads the word. From the external look of things a great choice to date, nope, got ghosted by her. She thought I was rushing when really I was trying to get to know her, but she was making it out like I had the relationship issues when really it was her. She couldn't even say straight up that she wasn't interested, but she's a "woman of God who wants a man of God". My response was to forgive her and leave her into the hands of the Holy Ghost, that's one ghost she can't ghost or run away from. It's spooky for her if she doesn't repent.
I also believe some ppl come into our lives as distractions. We can pray for God to eliminate ppl tht are toxic out of our lives. GOD allows us free will to make decisions and for people to hurt us. We have to see the red flags and cut ppl lose. 1 Corinthians 15::33 Bad associations spoils useful habits. We don't like being alone so in addition we have to address childhood traumas ie anxoius attachment styles.
God allows the person to ghost you because that person who u like could become a bad ghost broke your heart so the holy ghost guide u might lead u to the right one
When you meet the right one, you never run out things to say , you can be in the phone for hours and you still haven’t finish. You do devotionals and try together in the word
Been there and did this very same thing recently and daily, with devotionals, verses, uplifting sayings , life with Jesus examples like hands on healing and then one day poof! No more communication on their side. Just ghosted me....I just keep trying to trust God instead of relying on my own understanding. But, it was so unexpected and they said several dif times out of the blue that "its sometimes best in certain seasons to be alone." Which granted. I understood completely and agreed but the ghosting part for 2+ weeks now really threw me off and hurt, of course. We truly were ministering to others and each other, so when this happened I just had to tell myself to let go and let God. It's out of my hands. I do not however try to get ahold of them either. I do however keep them in my prayers which I believe I should do , being the right thing also.
It's this very type of person who ghosted me though. Someone I never run out of things to say with , the two of us tried to get in the word together and lift eachother up for God. But before he ghosted me we weren't as faithful the last week's leading up. Could be why God let it happen...
Pain teaches people things: if that person comes back into your life, usually it's more of the same. God will use karma on them to experience they were onto a good thing. They'll then know what it's like to be rejected: they felt good at the time, but will regret it afterwards. God will give you thinking time of an improved life without them and put you in touch with better friends along your path. God bless!
Ghosting may be the best exit when things are better left unsaid or when there is nothing left to say; think about it (Matthew 10:14). In some incidents, people have been murdered when they told the other person they were leaving. Mark, at 06:02 you seem to make light of the ghosted being introspective; what’s wrong with questioning oneself to ascertain whether I am at all responsible for being ghosted? Mark, at 07:10 you discussed a ghoster coming back. Returning is not ghosting. Returning is pulling back, deceptive, confusing, wounding, manipulative, playing hard to get, breadcrumbing, stringing them along, weak but not ghosting. Ghosting is closure. Ironically, in your example at 00:43 you seem to approve of ghosting Person ‘A’ (“…block them and don’t give them any time…”). At 01:24 you explain that after 6 months of a mutually agreed upon committed relationship, you discover that Person ‘B’ was cheating on you. The cheater should also be ghosted. Typically ghosting occurs very early in the dating process, often after one date. To exaggerate my point, compare it to a speed dating venue when you meet 10 people within 45 minutes and you feel that none are a good fit, so instead of simply leaving after the venue you go to each one and offer a detailed explanation why you don’t want to see them again. There is nothing to explain. Mark makes a person who ghosts another person out to be weak and cowardly but the ghoster is often heartbroken, crushed and emotionally and mentally exhausted after countless efforts to reconcile with the one they may ALWAYS love (Matthew 5:44) but not romantically.
If there was truth and closure prior to then I can see justification to avoid further hurt. It’s when ghosting is used for power plays and to hide from facing the truth that it causes the most damage. This same level of immaturity will send the ghosted off spreading lies while you sit at home with a broken heart. However, god let’s all things happen for our good and that person will have to face judgement.
@@alexandrzaitsev952 never? There have been people murdered for telling their significant other that they were leaving. Give people the respect to decide for themselves whether it is safe, beneficial or in everyone’s best interest whether to ghost them or provide an explanation.
It really hurts when you get ghosted by someone you enjoyed talking to, especially a Christian who appeared to be Godly and appears to show off how much they love God online or in person. I feel there's no reason for me to ghost anyone, even if I don't find them that interesting. Sometimes though, you find out on your own or through another way that the person who ghosted you may have had serious issues that would affect that friendship, so maybe it was best for it to end sooner.
@Dj.D Omigosh! I've been in the same boat as yours. And I attest to all you said. It's True tho it hurts, it's better it ends quickly. There's a way to handle than just ghosting someone after all the mutual interests shared. God taught me that it's important to look at the heart , and I was distracted by the "Godly character."
Ummmm GOD is amazing and you brother Mark are truly a blessing thank you for speaking the truth in love to us and teaching us from GODS word thank you I praise God for you 🙏🏾❤️🙋🏽♀️
You don't need that in your life. He is just a distraction and a hindrance to your relationship with Christ. Always stick to your boundaries and be willing to say no.
I took my ex back many, many times because I got caught up in the need to forgive and was disappointed each and every time. I have learned that forgiveness doesn’t mean reconciliation and I can move on….
I was ghosted not too long ago by a church member. I’ve attended this church for a few years. Never saw this guy at church. Sis not know he even existed. he saw me in Christian mingle then saw me on Facebook. We had mutual friends on Facebook so I connected. Then out of nowhere he spotted me at church. Don’t know if he had been stalking for months. I didn’t like him bc I felt like he stalked me. After a week of talking he invited me on a vacation with him out of state. He booked a hotel and expected me to stay with him in the same room. I was uncomfortable. Initially I thought well he’s a Godly person nothing would happen. I came to my senses and said no. We had three dates. I started to like him after the third date. Anyway he planned for us to go out of town for Memorial Day and out of the blue claimed he had a rough day and cancelled. Stopped talking to me. I was so confused and angry. Anyway I’m so glad it happened. At first I was upset with God. I never thought a man from my church would do this without explanation. Im finally over it and finding peace again. Be careful. So many people portray to be Godly just to take advantage. No telling what his true intentions were. I blocked him. I have a feeling I won’t be seeing him at church since he appeared out of the blue anyway
Just follow your first instincts, be willing to say no when you need to do so in Jesus name, and set boundaries and stick to them. A man that is sold out to God wouldn't try to get you to go away on a trip with them, and stay in the same hotel with you. He could have been a rapist or anything. Always remember that individual is considered to be the church, and just because they attend services don't mean they are a Christian. Being on Christian Mingle, having mutual friends, and popping up at church don't mean anything. Be blessed and encouraged in the Lord, and know that if it's God's will. He will have someone for you at the appointed time, and they will love and respect you for you. They will not be playing these mind games, or using any type of controlling and manipulation tactics. Know that you are loved, blessed, and highly favored in the Lord. And that you have value and worth in Him in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.
Thank you! So true. It all comes down to our initial instincts and that is what we just follow. I think we get caught up on missing out on getting to know a great person possibly.
This was such a great video. Many times God's protection comes in ways that we might not understand. We shouldn't put Him in a box since He knows EXACTLy what we need, when we need, and why we need it. Thank you pastor Mark!
The hurt was more intense than I thought too.... made me feel wimpy. But still hurts less than a broken heart. Weird though, because I had already not guarded my heart well enough. I had trusted this man as a godly brother and friend and to just be ghosted and deleted instead of maturely told “hey I don’t see this going anywhere I think this is good bye” hurts.... like I would give someone more
I needed this video a month a go! I was searching on TH-cam depressed about a friend who ghosted me but God still carried me through that moment and I believe your message is still on time. Thanks for sharing♥️
Been ghosted hurts soo bad!! I can never forget!! He is back tho we prayed soo much & he changed..he did not want to tell me that due to Corona last yr he was uhm put on hold at work so he became jobless & was going thru depression. Now we r back to together & gettn married soon. Unbelievable!! ❤ I prayed soo much last yr & had given up then this yr started with this surprise.🙏🏼 He found a new job & gettn back on his feet.
Thanks Mark, as a person who has already hurt someone I cared about, sometimes you go through some things that will cause you to hurt them and you ask yourself what did I just do, so God uses the hurt to teach both the person who did the harm and the person who got hurt, cause sometimes things arent meant to be but we force it sad to say😪😔😔
Boe are y’all hurt for hurting someone else? I’m genuinely fucking confused because that makes no SENSE! Why hurt someone who care about your best self like that’s evil AF!
@@destinixshakur Hey we are not robots around here, we have feelings too, sometimes things happen without you knowing, I’m not saying I ghosted anyone, I avoided them for a day because they hurt me and that hurt them which also hurt me, I am sure you hurt someone in the past no matter how good your intentions where and if you haven’t hurt anyone at all from family to friend, well congratulations, but that’s not me, the thing is I learn from those experiences and will apply what I’ve learnt
@@destinixshakur to be honest I was depressed and if I made it sound intentional it wasn’t, but if you want to call me a bad person, egoistic or evil as you said its fine, I know what I was and know that I don’t always do the best things but I learn and I grow until I become better of a person as you are so I don’t have to hurt anyone by my passive aggressive actions (that’s why I need someone *Jesus* to save me because of me alone there is nothing good found in me👍
Mark, MANY people have been ghosted by their God-ordained future kingdom spouses. You didn’t address that. That that person or both people aren’t ready for each other yet.
My current situation. Yes it did hurt but we both weren't ready coming from previous relationships too fast and fell so hard even quicker it was scary for us both. We said many times "let's try to keep it at a friendship level" but couldn't
Please pray for me, brothers and sisters. I'm 28F and he is 29M. We talked for 4 months continuously and had zero fights or even friction for that matter. He is a man of service and is always partaking in evangelism efforts, church missions trips, printing tracts, etc. I held him in really high regard and was even excited to share the things I learned from a 2-day Apologetics Conference I went to. He said he was busy with taxes and I believed him because I had no reason not to. Then, he didn't respond to my message for over a week. I sent a follow-up text and that went unanswered as well. I was shocked and only realized he ghosted me 2 weeks after the fact. I had made it plenty clear that I appreciate transparency and open communication so if he wanted to just remain friends and not pursue courting/marriage then he was free to tell me that. So when this happened, I spiraled and faced anxiety, panic attacks, lost weight, and couldn't sleep at night. I was ruminating over what I did wrong and if I had done/said something wrong, he could've corrected me. I was SO devastated that I sent him a 5-min voice note and another couple messages trying to get closure (immature on my part but sometimes when we're hurt and betrayed beyond belief, we desperately do these things to try to find the North star and re-establish some level of sanity -- I should not have done it though and I repent of it). He continued to watch my Facebook and Whatsapp stories which confused and tormented me even more. Why would he ghost me and then keep watching my content? It just wasn't adding up. I sent him a final message expressing my hurt and said that would be my last contact with him. I apologized for the hurt I may have caused in my reaction and grief and sorrow. :'( I just never saw this coming. I probably put him on a pedestal and fantasized about how awesome he is. My pain and internal torment meant nothing to him. And I just have to accept that. I cared about him and was captivated by the life of service he led out. I do understand that he has some childhood trauma issues to deal with and that he's completely inexperienced as he has never talked to a girl before (let alone go on dates). So he's not malicious but that ignorance did cause him to leave wreckage and suffering in his wake. God bless and help us both.
Thank you for this. I am not a religious person, but something about this spoke to me. I have been acting out and reacting from my deep pain over the love of my life ghosting me in 2020. He lied to me about moving to another country. His name was Robert and I caught him in person at our local college multiple times when he said he was moving to England. Despite this, I still felt the need to try and shame him to get an apology but you are right. I know he lied, and the Lord knows that Robert lied to me. I don't need to prove the lie occured. Robert knows that he lied to me. He didn't respect me enough to tell me the truth. Lies are the greatest sin that once can commit. I have lived with this pain for nearly a year. I am slowly healing from this sin against me. I only lament the loss of the opportunity of this relationship. I feel that I will never fall in love again. This was the man of my dreams, and I am not a pretty woman. Many in society do not like black people and black women such as myself. All I know is that I am an honest person. I forgive you, Robert🙌🏾
I got ghosted and blocked by the man I believe could be my kingdom spouse, but it was my fault for acting out. Please pray God works on his heart to give me another chance
Like really why would you even say that God won't let you get ghosted by anybody God is a god of love and peace not a God to scare you I can't believe the things people post on TH-cam just to get a like you should take the word of God a little bit more seriously but the holy Spirit be the one that does the job unbelievable you shouldn't even play around saying stuff like that if you don't even know what the Bible is or you don't even know how to interpret it you should ask God for discernment of spirit because stuff like that shouldn't be playing around with grow up
I'll share some wisdom that was given to me. "The person out there isn't ready for you yet because you're not ready for you yet. How could you expect someone to get to know and love you when you don't even truly know or love yourself?" Stop expecting someone to swoop in and "save you." Too many movies and shows depict a depressed girl or guy who's life completely changes because of a sudden relationship. Not that that has never happened, but it probably won't happen to you or me. As if the sadder we act the more God will have pity on us and finally bestow upon us what we think will "fix" us. The sooner we realize everything we need to live a powerful life is already inside of us given by God, the sooner God will bestow the goodies to enrich an already abundant life, so that you may live it MORE abundantly. Remember, "For whosoever hath, to him shall be given, and he shall have more abundance: but whosoever hath not, from him shall be taken away even that he hath." Matthew 13:12 It's time to learn to love yourself now, because if you found someone right now, things might change, but as soon as the honeymoon phase is over, you're gonna be right back to your old miserable self except now in a dying relationship. Find out what it is you need to do in life, exercise, eat right, work on good habits, read your Bible and spend time with God (but don't think God will only love you if you do these things cause he always has and will) send a message to everyone around you how seriously you're taking your life and your health and people will notice, more importantly the kind of people you want to attract will notice. You don't have to figure out life or God and you never will. I don't care how cheesy this is, TRUST GOD. Wake up in the morning, sit on the end of your bed and ask what can I do right now that is good. If you sit quietly the holy spirit will usually guide you in what to focus on that day.
Wow, that explanation of how God doesn’t micromanage sin but gave us the Gospel instead really hit home, cos I often struggle with why so much bad happens. He HAS already dealt with the sin problem & it’s through Jesus 🙏 honestly, even this week I’ve been asking these kinds of questions. And while I’ve never been ghosted in a relationship sense, I’m wondering does it accurately describe how a so-called friend I’ve known over 20 years has recently treated me. Thank you so much as always ☺️👍
I’m mostly healed but she’s almost always on the back of my mind and her actions have made a ripple effect on me and my mind and I’m trying to recover and apply what I learned, while leaving the madness behind. Her actions have made me feel intolerant of people like her , I feel a disdain for people like her and I just don’t want any more of that kind of misanthropy. It’s getting better though and this helped , Thank you Mark for speaking gods word , always on time. God bless !
It's important to remember that not everyone is like her; be hopeful and optimistic, give the next person a fair chance. And never let a ghoster back in when they come back again one day. Gotta tell them "If you wanted to walk out of my life, fine, you can stay out!"
Does God let me come across this video being posted 2 days ago because Im going through the season of being ghosted by my fiance for almost 3 yrs? I cant imagine he could turn into a ghoster man of God.
I’m currently going through this. I’m sad and confused to why he would do this to me. I keep questioning why he left me like nothing like I was garbage , Red flags were there but idk I guess I really liked him a lot I chose to ignore it and well now I’m hurting. I know this is my fault lol oh well.
It’s very hard when you ignore red flags because you’re already so wounded from a broken marriage and you’re trying to heal. It’s hard even when you know someone is harmful but you become addicted to the hormonal affects of their attention. They ghost and come back and it is more devastating each time. They’re evil and cruel.
Those who ghost don’t follow the Holy Ghost! 😄 I knew a person who had a habit of coldly ghosting people then lost their faith down the line because they felt God was unresponsive to their prayers - the irony. I’ve realised that narcissistic personality traits prevent people from truthful introspection, questioning their behaviour and understanding the consequences of their actions. It’s really a shame to be so blind...and self-righteous. If you have past wounds of severe rejection and abandonment ghosting may cut deeper than the average person so stay under God’s healing hand and be honest with Him about where it hurts. Do not become a cactus in response. I see the microphone on the wall, Mark; which CCM boyband have you recently joined?
There was this girl who I liked who I started to get close with. We've known each other for 7 months, and were getting close this past month. Within the last month, I told her I liked her, but she wanted to get to know me more. As time went on, she'd show less and less interest, would spend less time with me, and would talk to me less. It's been hurting me a lot, so I told her how I felt, how hurt this has been making me and for her to express how she truly feels. Did she lose feelings for me? Or did she need more time? It's been over 2 days now, and she never responded. All the while still getting on social media and living her life. This video couldn't have come in better timing. She just showed me her true low character, and childish behavior. If there was more time for me to get attached to her, I would've been more hurt than I am. Looking back I was able to see the red flags I've been to blind to see before leading up to this. I've decided that enough is enough and im cutting all ties with this person. I wont let my emotions lead me to give them another chance. She even lied to me about being Christian, and were really catholic. I praise the lord for showing me this persons true colors, and for showing me this wasn't the one he had for me. The lord uses you well Mark, praise his holy name!
you're sharing in christ's suffering, whether you like it or not. when He was ghosted in john 6:66-67. and when judas pretty much ghosted jesus and their friendship for money. that last one is definitely still happening today. what people wont do for a dollar bill..... in exchange for their soul
God sees the future and protects us from harm. Hence ghosting is allowed by God for our own good. Remember the devil can send someone into your life to destroy you in the guise of a "perfect partner"
I'm so confused. I met this man, one time. Just for a few hours. There was an instant connection between us, undeniable, Like nothing I've ever felt. We couldn't get closer or be alone that day. I couldn't wait for us to see each other a second time and be alone and get to know each other and then he ghosted. I'm so confused. I've been hurting over it for a year and a half. It's been way too long but even though I've tried to date other people and forget about it so hard, I can't. I just want it to stop. We have no mutual friends, so I have no one to ask about it, and there's nowhere I could see him, I don't have him on social media or anything. I keep praying to God to tell me what this is but there's never an answer.
Ghosting is definetly more mainstream but still rude , ignorant and unacceptable, only cowards ghost without any explanation, ghosting should only be done when the person dosen' t get the hint and they keep messaging you and or safety issues like the person is threatning and/ or violent.
Always a blessing Mark. 😌🙏 Though I’m not actively pursuing or wanting to pursue a relationship at this time, this is why I follow your channel and watch your videos anyway. You are truly a Spirit filled man of God. This is what scripture looks like in a born again, Spirit filled believer who is [daily] walking with the Lord. I see the beatitudes Jesus taught about in His sermon on the mount. Such a tremendous blessing to be edified through your practical, yet biblical teachings. I listen because the presence of God is always shining through. Your light shines bright. I’m truly thankful for your ministry. May God continue to bless you, your family and your ministry abundantly. Thank you. 😌🙏✝️⚓️🕊🤍
Before watching this video, I came across an ad about the same topic. The man who was speaking in the video was saying it's possible guys could be getting ghosted because of boring text messages such as, good morning, what are you doing, i miss you, and other basic things. What are your thoughts on that?
Hey i'm not sure what's god's plan for me; i have a mefical issue that will last the rest of my life and cause me to feel constant pain from it and i have fender dysphoria, any advice?... i cant find any resources pr reasons why
I pray in the name of Jesus that He moves His Holy Spirit over you to bring restoration, and healing to your body, that He may give you a supernatural revelation of what to do in your particular situation. That you may be lead by the Spirit to green pastures of rest, and Living Water in Jesus name amen
@@DWPersianExcursion I super cool right now. I took my first cold shower earlier and I feel amazing! Then I went out to sit outside to get vitamin D from the sun. Texas sounds like an amazing spot too! ✝️😁And your welcome! God bless you too! ✝️🥰😌
Hey Mark, i have a question. Do you have a video on how to know if God wants you to pursue a career? Im studying IT but ive been a bit distant from it. Just not sure if that is what God wants me to do
At least the Holy Spirit won’t ever ghost me
Haha yeah Amen to that!!!!
FACTSSSS 🤣✝️‼
Or give you a fake number
Why did this comment hit me so hard lol.... Very true.... Hebrews 13:5🙏🏾💯
Yeaaa
Amen! We are not responsible for other people's character just our own. If someone is a ghoster , they are the one with the issues!💜💜💜
Some people are narcissists and emotional abusers and the only way to protect yourself is going no contact, so not everyine who ghosts is a bad person
@@yourregularspontie8587 Hmm... nah. I dated an abusive woman. This woman slapped me and emotionally abused me on the regular. I even texted her and told her it was over. It's not hard to do. Now she couldn't take no for an answer and kept texting me mean things. After that I just blocked her. At least tell the person it's over before blocking them so they know what's going on.
@@redrover5264 I hear you. In my case the girl was a bully and I didn't want to suffer any verbal abuse or being beaten so I disappeared. We went to the same church it got to extremes that I ended up telling the pastor as well after another girl had also came forward to report this lady of emotional manipulation and spiritual bullying, almost witchcraft
@@yourregularspontie8587 geez. sounds horrible
@@redrover5264I’m sorry you went through that. But that’s a different situation and I’m sure God approved of you ghosting her. You actually had a legitimate reason to
To Anyone reading this: May the almighty God pour down his blessings upon you, increase your faith and protect your paths. Amen.
I wish you well and hope you stay faithful to yourself and God.
Thank you. The same be to you, in the name of Jesus.
Thanks and the very same to you, we’ll pray for each other as well👋🙏
Thanks and be blessed too.
Amen🙏
God bless you too
Wow! This sentence : ' When someone is telling you with their actions that your heart doesn't matter to them, than you have to believe what they are telling you : you don't matter to them' cleared things up ☺
I say DELETE.....
We are protected by the
Mighty God..
Trust him he will lead you right.
In other words, ghost them.
@@mikyl-fo8rh
I did more then ghosted him
I deleted him out of my life..
I’m NOT his bank🙏🤷🏽♀️
Hands down you have one of the best channels on TH-cam right now. I'm always excited for the next video. God bless you Mark.
He really does. God bless you and him.
@@klickingkayasmr7585 God bless you!
Mark is THE MAN.
I have finally grasped in this season, that not everyone isn't meant to be apart of your life permanently, you are not meant to be apart of their life permanently. And that is honestly okay. Some people never have your best interest or good intentions towards you from the start. Some interactions you have was to only teach you a lesson, and more often then not if we would have listened to the spirit of the Lord we wouldn't have given that person room in our lives on that magnitude from the start. We have to know that it and we will be okay regardless. And if it's God's will He can restore that relationship. Or send the person that He meant for you to be with all along. Everyone know, trust, and believe that it will be okay in Jesus name. I pray that all IS well, and I pray you all's strength, love, joy, wisdom, and hope comes from the Lord in Jesus name. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.
AMEN Sister...well said and I am in agreement...Lesson learned 🙏🏾🙌🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Been there plenty of times.. It’s not so bad. People who would ghost you aren’t worth your time anyway. It’s really weak and immature.
Agreed
I pray that you feel the love from the Lord that you desire to come from someone or something else in Jesus name. Be blessed, strong, and courageous in the Lord in Jesus name. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.
Very much so!
yes
That’s exactly right, but when someone is super
Tech savvy, they may use 100
names so it makes me think each and every post could be theirs. I tried to go “so social contact at all,” but it leaves me completely alone.. yes, the LIRD is w me, but when someone has played tricks on me before, stopped calling, , it is hard to see or believe that “anyone’s” post is genuine anymore. I try to believe the best in people, but God will reveal to me in due time.
I have been ghosted before and it didn’t feel good but watching this helps understand more and I knew he wasn’t good for me. I was just being naive. What made it worst is that he ghosted me twice. SMH. I will not let this happen to me again. Thank you Lord for the understanding.
Me too! Twice by the same guy! I’m so much stronger now and 100% ready if he ever comes around again. Maybe I needed to go through it twice with him to make sure my armor was on nice and secure. God is so awesome 😁🙏😁
@@donnaami7609 Thank you my sister for your encouragement. It really helps.
Dude thank God I'm not the only one going through this 📢🔊😅😆 #ghosted
Yep happened to ME months ago......i REALLY liked him. We both have amazing dogs, He loves Christ with all his heart, so do I. But I was just a pleasant distraction to pass time once or twice and meant absolutely nothing to him. We had spent a lot of time talking, nothing romantic. Very respectful. About God and our pets, etc. But we were starting a nice friendship and then the "Ghosting" began. He stood me up for coffee. Never communicated with me again.I wasn't trying to marry him or have his children i just wanted to get to know him. None of what he did made any sense and it was hurtful and cruel. I guess it just wasn't meant to be. I will never understand people's motives. *SIGH 🙄😢🙏🏾 Nice video tho. Made me think. Still hurt. Takes time. 🤷🏾
This literally LITERALLY just happened to me with a Christian guy. He serves at church and loves the Lord. It's awkward now. Sometimes i wish he never asked me out.
I asked God to remove him if he wasn’t sent from God. He ghosted me after this prayer 😅😅
No literally 😂 me too
I thought I was the only one
God really said "I'm going to let you do what you do but no matter what you won't get them because he isn't in ur plan I have for you" yeah God Ik 😭
Yeah .. i wish u will forget him and happy 👍👍 God always gives the best😊
@@beulah.t4023 so truee I pray he gives you an amazing person!! I hope you will see them soon 😊❤
@@Panda-gq3em ☺️☺️😊 thank u
@@beulah.t4023 ur welcome ❤
Everything will work out for the best in due time in Jesus name. It will work out for the best. I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus name, and I pray that you put all of your love, trust, and hope in Him. And in turn He will bless you with what you need, and teach you how to truly love yourself and others in Jesus name. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen. Always remember that all is well, no matter what it look and feel like.
I unfriended those several ladies that have ghosted me. What is sad is that one of them is a Christian. Not my loss. I don’t tolerate it at all. We must keep our eyes on Christ. He is with us at all times. I am a widower and I know that I have the Lord with me because I trust Him.
Dude suppose you're chatting someone and in the middle, other person doesn't reply back and you don't message because you didn't receive any reply. Is it called ghosting?
“Christians” 😂 so they said
Yup went through this last week with a lady from Lebanon who "leads chaplain prayers" and also is "water baptised" and reads the word.
From the external look of things a great choice to date, nope, got ghosted by her.
She thought I was rushing when really I was trying to get to know her, but she was making it out like I had the relationship issues when really it was her. She couldn't even say straight up that she wasn't interested, but she's a "woman of God who wants a man of God".
My response was to forgive her and leave her into the hands of the Holy Ghost, that's one ghost she can't ghost or run away from. It's spooky for her if she doesn't repent.
Rejection equals God's protection, God sees the heart and motives of every man, woman and child. Don't argue with his decisions just obey.
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why and HOW! This shit is piercing my SOUL!
This literally happened today! I am in Agreement for whatever the Lord wants to do in my Life. I am GREATFUL TODAY 🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️🕊️.
@@destinixshakur ?
@@myballsitchsomethingfierce6319 look at what you said and look at my comment
I also believe some ppl come into our lives as distractions. We can pray for God to eliminate ppl tht are toxic out of our lives. GOD allows us free will to make decisions and for people to hurt us. We have to see the red flags and cut ppl lose. 1 Corinthians 15::33 Bad associations spoils useful habits. We don't like being alone so in addition we have to address childhood traumas ie anxoius attachment styles.
Video always on point...ever wondered why? That's how the spirit works🙌
AMEN 🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️
God allows the person to ghost you because that person who u like could become a bad ghost broke your heart so the holy ghost guide u might lead u to the right one
When you meet the right one, you never run out things to say , you can be in the phone for hours and you still haven’t finish. You do devotionals and try together in the word
I agree with what you say but I find your profile picture too funny
Been there and did this very same thing recently and daily, with devotionals, verses, uplifting sayings , life with Jesus examples like hands on healing and then one day poof! No more communication on their side. Just ghosted me....I just keep trying to trust God instead of relying on my own understanding. But, it was so unexpected and they said several dif times out of the blue that "its sometimes best in certain seasons to be alone." Which granted. I understood completely and agreed but the ghosting part for 2+ weeks now really threw me off and hurt, of course. We truly were ministering to others and each other, so when this happened I just had to tell myself to let go and let God. It's out of my hands. I do not however try to get ahold of them either. I do however keep them in my prayers which I believe I should do , being the right thing also.
It's this very type of person who ghosted me though. Someone I never run out of things to say with , the two of us tried to get in the word together and lift eachother up for God. But before he ghosted me we weren't as faithful the last week's leading up. Could be why God let it happen...
@@TruePathLiving I’m so sorry! How are you holding up. It happened to me, so I keep praying to find the one God has for me
@@GreenGo731 i am not doing well. I felt like he was my person.
Pain teaches people things: if that person comes back into your life, usually it's more of the same. God will use karma on them to experience they were onto a good thing. They'll then know what it's like to be rejected: they felt good at the time, but will regret it afterwards. God will give you thinking time of an improved life without them and put you in touch with better friends along your path. God bless!
There is no such thing as “karma”. God allows us to reap what we sow. That is completely different. Please be careful.
Ghosting may be the best exit when things are better left unsaid or when there is nothing left to say; think about it (Matthew 10:14).
In some incidents, people have been murdered when they told the other person they were leaving.
Mark, at 06:02 you seem to make light of the ghosted being introspective; what’s wrong with questioning oneself to ascertain whether I am at all responsible for being ghosted?
Mark, at 07:10 you discussed a ghoster coming back. Returning is not ghosting.
Returning is pulling back, deceptive, confusing, wounding, manipulative, playing hard to get, breadcrumbing, stringing them along, weak but not ghosting.
Ghosting is closure.
Ironically, in your example at 00:43 you seem to approve of ghosting Person ‘A’ (“…block them and don’t give them any time…”).
At 01:24 you explain that after 6 months of a mutually agreed upon committed relationship, you discover that Person ‘B’ was cheating on you.
The cheater should also be ghosted.
Typically ghosting occurs very early in the dating process, often after one date.
To exaggerate my point, compare it to a speed dating venue when you meet 10 people within 45 minutes and you feel that none are a good fit, so instead of simply leaving after the venue you go to each one and offer a detailed explanation why you don’t want to see them again.
There is nothing to explain.
Mark makes a person who ghosts another person out to be weak and cowardly but the ghoster is often heartbroken, crushed and emotionally and mentally exhausted after countless efforts to reconcile with the one they may ALWAYS love (Matthew 5:44) but not romantically.
Never. It means there is no respect.
If there was truth and closure prior to then I can see justification to avoid further hurt. It’s when ghosting is used for power plays and to hide from facing the truth that it causes the most damage. This same level of immaturity will send the ghosted off spreading lies while you sit at home with a broken heart. However, god let’s all things happen for our good and that person will have to face judgement.
I disagree, be a man or woman and step up tell them, yeah it hurts but ghosting Hurts too.
@@alexandrzaitsev952 never? There have been people murdered for telling their significant other that they were leaving.
Give people the respect to decide for themselves whether it is safe, beneficial or in everyone’s best interest whether to ghost them or provide an explanation.
@@alexandrzaitsev952 facts. No respect
Thankfully the Holy Ghost will never ghost you 🙏🏾💕
It really hurts when you get ghosted by someone you enjoyed talking to, especially a Christian who appeared to be Godly and appears to show off how much they love God online or in person. I feel there's no reason for me to ghost anyone, even if I don't find them that interesting. Sometimes though, you find out on your own or through another way that the person who ghosted you may have had serious issues that would affect that friendship, so maybe it was best for it to end sooner.
@Dj.D Omigosh! I've been in the same boat as yours. And I attest to all you said. It's True tho it hurts, it's better it ends quickly. There's a way to handle than just ghosting someone after all the mutual interests shared.
God taught me that it's important to look at the heart , and I was distracted by the "Godly character."
This is good TEACHING, they rejection is God PROTECTION, Thank You JESUS
Ummmm GOD is amazing and you brother Mark are truly a blessing thank you for speaking the truth in love to us and teaching us from GODS word thank you I praise God for you 🙏🏾❤️🙋🏽♀️
Somebody pray for me please. I need a miracle before this week finishes. Thank you guys.
Same here! I’m praying for you this shit hurts foreal
GOD WORK A MIRACLE!!!
GOD IS NOT A CONFUSED GOD, THEY ARE THE GHOST ERS.
Perfect timing. Ghosted yesterday 😂😂😂 In no way hurt because it was very new, I just find these ghosters funny. Thank you, Lord. 😀
My ex said he missed me I gave in again and he ghosted me after I told him how I felt he used me again he never missed me.
He was trying to manipulate you. Ghosting you to make you question yourself and comply. Stay away.
@@ricachristodoulou5997 I agree.
You don't need that in your life. He is just a distraction and a hindrance to your relationship with Christ. Always stick to your boundaries and be willing to say no.
@@ricachristodoulou5997 this the one
I took my ex back many, many times because I got caught up in the need to forgive and was disappointed each and every time. I have learned that forgiveness doesn’t mean reconciliation and I can move on….
I was ghosted not too long ago by a church member. I’ve attended this church for a few years. Never saw this guy at church. Sis not know he even existed. he saw me in Christian mingle then saw me on Facebook. We had mutual friends on Facebook so I connected. Then out of nowhere he spotted me at church. Don’t know if he had been stalking for months. I didn’t like him bc I felt like he stalked me. After a week of talking he invited me on a vacation with him out of state. He booked a hotel and expected me to stay with him in the same room. I was uncomfortable. Initially I thought well he’s a Godly person nothing would happen. I came to my senses and said no. We had three dates.
I started to like him after the third date. Anyway he planned for us to go out of town for Memorial Day and out of the blue claimed he had a rough day and cancelled. Stopped talking to me. I was so confused and angry. Anyway I’m so glad it happened.
At first I was upset with God. I never thought a man from my church would do this without explanation. Im finally over it and finding peace again. Be careful. So many people portray to be Godly just to take advantage. No telling what his true intentions were. I blocked him. I have a feeling I won’t be seeing him at church since he appeared out of the blue anyway
Just follow your first instincts, be willing to say no when you need to do so in Jesus name, and set boundaries and stick to them. A man that is sold out to God wouldn't try to get you to go away on a trip with them, and stay in the same hotel with you. He could have been a rapist or anything. Always remember that individual is considered to be the church, and just because they attend services don't mean they are a Christian. Being on Christian Mingle, having mutual friends, and popping up at church don't mean anything. Be blessed and encouraged in the Lord, and know that if it's God's will. He will have someone for you at the appointed time, and they will love and respect you for you. They will not be playing these mind games, or using any type of controlling and manipulation tactics. Know that you are loved, blessed, and highly favored in the Lord. And that you have value and worth in Him in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.
Thank you! So true. It all comes down to our initial instincts and that is what we just follow. I think we get caught up on missing out on getting to know a great person possibly.
@@victoriaarmstrong6498 No you can't be consumed by that. The Holy Spirit will never lead you in the wrong direction.
Things like getting ghosted are bad but everything in your life happens for you not to you
Love the mindset in this response!
Mannnnnnnnnn. Yes. To the Lord be the Glory. Jesus is Lord. Bless you, you beautiful soul in Jesus Holy Name.
This was such a great video. Many times God's protection comes in ways that we might not understand. We shouldn't put Him in a box since He knows EXACTLy what we need, when we need, and why we need it. Thank you pastor Mark!
The hurt was more intense than I thought too.... made me feel wimpy. But still hurts less than a broken heart. Weird though, because I had already not guarded my heart well enough. I had trusted this man as a godly brother and friend and to just be ghosted and deleted instead of maturely told “hey I don’t see this going anywhere I think this is good bye” hurts.... like I would give someone more
I needed this video a month a go! I was searching on TH-cam depressed about a friend who ghosted me but God still carried me through that moment and I believe your message is still on time. Thanks for sharing♥️
Been ghosted hurts soo bad!! I can never forget!! He is back tho we prayed soo much & he changed..he did not want to tell me that due to Corona last yr he was uhm put on hold at work so he became jobless & was going thru depression. Now we r back to together & gettn married soon. Unbelievable!! ❤ I prayed soo much last yr & had given up then this yr started with this surprise.🙏🏼 He found a new job & gettn back on his feet.
I hope I find my girl soon. Very tough to find good Christian girl now .
we out here!! God will answer your prayer!!
@@jinothomas6841 ?? get who know
Thanks Mark, as a person who has already hurt someone I cared about, sometimes you go through some things that will cause you to hurt them and you ask yourself what did I just do, so God uses the hurt to teach both the person who did the harm and the person who got hurt, cause sometimes things arent meant to be but we force it sad to say😪😔😔
Boe are y’all hurt for hurting someone else? I’m genuinely fucking confused because that makes no SENSE! Why hurt someone who care about your best self like that’s evil AF!
@@destinixshakur Hey we are not robots around here, we have feelings too, sometimes things happen without you knowing, I’m not saying I ghosted anyone, I avoided them for a day because they hurt me and that hurt them which also hurt me, I am sure you hurt someone in the past no matter how good your intentions where and if you haven’t hurt anyone at all from family to friend, well congratulations, but that’s not me, the thing is I learn from those experiences and will apply what I’ve learnt
@@davianburke why hurt someone if it hurts you . All that ego. No I DONT intentionally hurt anyone because I know what it feels like
@@destinixshakur to be honest I was depressed and if I made it sound intentional it wasn’t, but if you want to call me a bad person, egoistic or evil as you said its fine, I know what I was and know that I don’t always do the best things but I learn and I grow until I become better of a person as you are so I don’t have to hurt anyone by my passive aggressive actions (that’s why I need someone *Jesus* to save me because of me alone there is nothing good found in me👍
@@davianburke I am speaking from the other side.
Mark, MANY people have been ghosted by their God-ordained future kingdom spouses. You didn’t address that. That that person or both people aren’t ready for each other yet.
My current situation. Yes it did hurt but we both weren't ready coming from previous relationships too fast and fell so hard even quicker it was scary for us both. We said many times "let's try to keep it at a friendship level" but couldn't
You're the best sir! You make me feel good bcoz of this😊 God bless to your channel i hope it'll grow more and more
Yes God 1st✌️🙌
Please pray for me, brothers and sisters.
I'm 28F and he is 29M. We talked for 4 months continuously and had zero fights or even friction for that matter. He is a man of service and is always partaking in evangelism efforts, church missions trips, printing tracts, etc. I held him in really high regard and was even excited to share the things I learned from a 2-day Apologetics Conference I went to. He said he was busy with taxes and I believed him because I had no reason not to. Then, he didn't respond to my message for over a week. I sent a follow-up text and that went unanswered as well. I was shocked and only realized he ghosted me 2 weeks after the fact. I had made it plenty clear that I appreciate transparency and open communication so if he wanted to just remain friends and not pursue courting/marriage then he was free to tell me that. So when this happened, I spiraled and faced anxiety, panic attacks, lost weight, and couldn't sleep at night. I was ruminating over what I did wrong and if I had done/said something wrong, he could've corrected me. I was SO devastated that I sent him a 5-min voice note and another couple messages trying to get closure (immature on my part but sometimes when we're hurt and betrayed beyond belief, we desperately do these things to try to find the North star and re-establish some level of sanity -- I should not have done it though and I repent of it). He continued to watch my Facebook and Whatsapp stories which confused and tormented me even more. Why would he ghost me and then keep watching my content? It just wasn't adding up. I sent him a final message expressing my hurt and said that would be my last contact with him. I apologized for the hurt I may have caused in my reaction and grief and sorrow. :'( I just never saw this coming. I probably put him on a pedestal and fantasized about how awesome he is. My pain and internal torment meant nothing to him. And I just have to accept that. I cared about him and was captivated by the life of service he led out. I do understand that he has some childhood trauma issues to deal with and that he's completely inexperienced as he has never talked to a girl before (let alone go on dates). So he's not malicious but that ignorance did cause him to leave wreckage and suffering in his wake. God bless and help us both.
Thank you for this. I am not a religious person, but something about this spoke to me. I have been acting out and reacting from my deep pain over the love of my life ghosting me in 2020. He lied to me about moving to another country. His name was Robert and I caught him in person at our local college multiple times when he said he was moving to England. Despite this, I still felt the need to try and shame him to get an apology but you are right. I know he lied, and the Lord knows that Robert lied to me. I don't need to prove the lie occured. Robert knows that he lied to me. He didn't respect me enough to tell me the truth. Lies are the greatest sin that once can commit. I have lived with this pain for nearly a year. I am slowly healing from this sin against me. I only lament the loss of the opportunity of this relationship. I feel that I will never fall in love again. This was the man of my dreams, and I am not a pretty woman. Many in society do not like black people and black women such as myself. All I know is that I am an honest person.
I forgive you, Robert🙌🏾
AMEN🙏🙏
I got ghosted and blocked by the man I believe could be my kingdom spouse, but it was my fault for acting out. Please pray God works on his heart to give me another chance
i am in the same situation except i wasn't ready for him. Im for sure going to pray for you Erika!
Just keep walking with the Lord, whoever is for you He will give to you in His timing
Thank you to you both
Before they ghosted me.I'm ghosted them first when I see the red flags..lol
Next video: God wanted you to ghost them when ... 🤓😂
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Yes i ghosted someone so the 10 reason would be good to hear.
lol, good idea :)
Love the idea
the phrase rhymes with clucking bell 🤣😂
Why come back to hurt me again
Such a timely video. I just got ghosted a few weeks ago. I wasn’t upset by it because I trusted Gods’ purpose for me.
Beautiful! Yes, ghosted never happened to me until recently. My frustration causes me to write a book about online dating 🤣🙏😇❤️
Like really why would you even say that God won't let you get ghosted by anybody God is a god of love and peace not a God to scare you I can't believe the things people post on TH-cam just to get a like you should take the word of God a little bit more seriously but the holy Spirit be the one that does the job unbelievable you shouldn't even play around saying stuff like that if you don't even know what the Bible is or you don't even know how to interpret it you should ask God for discernment of spirit because stuff like that shouldn't be playing around with grow up
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Harsh reality but I needed this!
I'll share some wisdom that was given to me.
"The person out there isn't ready for you yet because you're not ready for you yet. How could you expect someone to get to know and love you when you don't even truly know or love yourself?"
Stop expecting someone to swoop in and "save you." Too many movies and shows depict a depressed girl or guy who's life completely changes because of a sudden relationship. Not that that has never happened, but it probably won't happen to you or me. As if the sadder we act the more God will have pity on us and finally bestow upon us what we think will "fix" us. The sooner we realize everything we need to live a powerful life is already inside of us given by God, the sooner God will bestow the goodies to enrich an already abundant life, so that you may live it MORE abundantly. Remember, "For whosoever hath, to him shall be given, and he shall have more abundance: but whosoever hath not, from him shall be taken away even that he hath." Matthew 13:12
It's time to learn to love yourself now, because if you found someone right now, things might change, but as soon as the honeymoon phase is over, you're gonna be right back to your old miserable self except now in a dying relationship.
Find out what it is you need to do in life, exercise, eat right, work on good habits, read your Bible and spend time with God (but don't think God will only love you if you do these things cause he always has and will) send a message to everyone around you how seriously you're taking your life and your health and people will notice, more importantly the kind of people you want to attract will notice. You don't have to figure out life or God and you never will. I don't care how cheesy this is, TRUST GOD. Wake up in the morning, sit on the end of your bed and ask what can I do right now that is good. If you sit quietly the holy spirit will usually guide you in what to focus on that day.
This is the realest advice
Wow, that explanation of how God doesn’t micromanage sin but gave us the Gospel instead really hit home, cos I often struggle with why so much bad happens. He HAS already dealt with the sin problem & it’s through Jesus 🙏 honestly, even this week I’ve been asking these kinds of questions. And while I’ve never been ghosted in a relationship sense, I’m wondering does it accurately describe how a so-called friend I’ve known over 20 years has recently treated me. Thank you so much as always ☺️👍
I’m mostly healed but she’s almost always on the back of my mind and her actions have made a ripple effect on me and my mind and I’m trying to recover and apply what I learned, while leaving the madness behind. Her actions have made me feel intolerant of people like her , I feel a disdain for people like her and I just don’t want any more of that kind of misanthropy. It’s getting better though and this helped , Thank you Mark for speaking gods word , always on time. God bless !
It's important to remember that not everyone is like her; be hopeful and optimistic, give the next person a fair chance. And never let a ghoster back in when they come back again one day. Gotta tell them "If you wanted to walk out of my life, fine, you can stay out!"
@@drew227 Thank you Drew , it’s been quite a ride since. God bless.
This is very timely! A guy I started talking to just seems to have lost interest and this really helps!
I finally found out that I'm awesome. They ghosted me & kids but is paying for it with his new supply, I mean wife...smh
Does God let me come across this video being posted 2 days ago because Im going through the season of being ghosted by my fiance for almost 3 yrs? I cant imagine he could turn into a ghoster man of God.
Thank Jesus for leaving us a helper i.e the Holy ghost who will not ghost us. Let Jesus be our number one.
I’m currently going through this. I’m sad and confused to why he would do this to me. I keep questioning why he left me like nothing like I was garbage , Red flags were there but idk I guess I really liked him a lot I chose to ignore it and well now I’m hurting. I know this is my fault lol oh well.
its not you its them
It’s very hard when you ignore red flags because you’re already so wounded from a broken marriage and you’re trying to heal. It’s hard even when you know someone is harmful but you become addicted to the hormonal affects of their attention. They ghost and come back and it is more devastating each time. They’re evil and cruel.
I've ghosted women because they aren't reciprocating the effort I put in to asking questions
Thank you for always showing the bright side of the things as per the scriptures as well as your own experience!! You're awesome, Mark!!
Shhhhhh
U right I need to shhhh about the one who ghost me rise my own blood pressure up talking about that Herbert the elephant lol
Bottom line is you don't want ghosters in your life. Be grateful that this person's out of your life and get excited for what's to come.
Whatsapp via him
Nah it just means that person wasn't the right one for u. I'm cool I just want God tbh
Those who ghost don’t follow the Holy Ghost! 😄
I knew a person who had a habit of coldly ghosting people then lost their faith down the line because they felt God was unresponsive to their prayers - the irony. I’ve realised that narcissistic personality traits prevent people from truthful introspection, questioning their behaviour and understanding the consequences of their actions. It’s really a shame to be so blind...and self-righteous.
If you have past wounds of severe rejection and abandonment ghosting may cut deeper than the average person so stay under God’s healing hand and be honest with Him about where it hurts. Do not become a cactus in response.
I see the microphone on the wall, Mark; which CCM boyband have you recently joined?
There was this girl who I liked who I started to get close with. We've known each other for 7 months, and were getting close this past month. Within the last month, I told her I liked her, but she wanted to get to know me more. As time went on, she'd show less and less interest, would spend less time with me, and would talk to me less. It's been hurting me a lot, so I told her how I felt, how hurt this has been making me and for her to express how she truly feels. Did she lose feelings for me? Or did she need more time? It's been over 2 days now, and she never responded. All the while still getting on social media and living her life. This video couldn't have come in better timing. She just showed me her true low character, and childish behavior. If there was more time for me to get attached to her, I would've been more hurt than I am. Looking back I was able to see the red flags I've been to blind to see before leading up to this. I've decided that enough is enough and im cutting all ties with this person. I wont let my emotions lead me to give them another chance. She even lied to me about being Christian, and were really catholic. I praise the lord for showing me this persons true colors, and for showing me this wasn't the one he had for me. The lord uses you well Mark, praise his holy name!
I’m so sorry you are going through this, you’ll be in my prayers may God bless you in this season and I hope he gives you clarity!
Rejection is God’s protection
Great video Mark! God bless everyone watching this and you too Mark! 🙂
you're sharing in christ's suffering, whether you like it or not. when He was ghosted in john 6:66-67. and when judas pretty much ghosted jesus and their friendship for money. that last one is definitely still happening today. what people wont do for a dollar bill..... in exchange for their soul
I actually prayed for God to let the guy ghost me if he’s not the one and then he did. 😢 I know that God knows better and I’m grateful, it just hurts.
God sees the future and protects us from harm. Hence ghosting is allowed by God for our own good. Remember the devil can send someone into your life to destroy you in the guise of a "perfect partner"
I'm so confused. I met this man, one time. Just for a few hours. There was an instant connection between us, undeniable, Like nothing I've ever felt. We couldn't get closer or be alone that day. I couldn't wait for us to see each other a second time and be alone and get to know each other and then he ghosted. I'm so confused. I've been hurting over it for a year and a half. It's been way too long but even though I've tried to date other people and forget about it so hard, I can't. I just want it to stop. We have no mutual friends, so I have no one to ask about it, and there's nowhere I could see him, I don't have him on social media or anything. I keep praying to God to tell me what this is but there's never an answer.
This is exactly what happened now am just focusing in my relationship with God n my studies Thank you n God bless ♥️
Lol. I don’t think you understand weeping over the world and loving s.t
Does not compare to what Abba feels. You can bottle Paine ore let it rane
God sent me here😢😢😢
Yes
Ghosting is definetly more mainstream but still rude , ignorant and unacceptable, only cowards ghost without any explanation, ghosting should only be done when the person dosen' t get the hint and they keep messaging you and or safety issues like the person is threatning and/ or violent.
Always a blessing Mark. 😌🙏
Though I’m not actively pursuing or wanting to pursue a relationship at this time, this is why I follow your channel and watch your videos anyway. You are truly a Spirit filled man of God. This is what scripture looks like in a born again, Spirit filled believer who is [daily] walking with the Lord. I see the beatitudes Jesus taught about in His sermon on the mount. Such a tremendous blessing to be edified through your practical, yet biblical teachings. I listen because the presence of God is always shining through. Your light shines bright. I’m truly thankful for your ministry. May God continue to bless you, your family and your ministry abundantly. Thank you. 😌🙏✝️⚓️🕊🤍
7 years down the drain. My marriage is broken and she found another man. 😭
Worst pain I've ever felt. But I Thank God He delivered me and set me on the right path.
I have recently been ghosted but i know its because im not ready for the relationship God has for me.
Thanks. Cuz this hurts soooo bad. Healing.
they are the one who has the problem. Hurt people hurt people. They will reap the bad consequences of their bad actions.
What do you do if you get ghosted and then you text him, and he answer. And then the next day he text you hi, like he was back again?
To my ghoster, one ghost you can never ghost, is the holy ghost
Before watching this video, I came across an ad about the same topic. The man who was speaking in the video was saying it's possible guys could be getting ghosted because of boring text messages such as, good morning, what are you doing, i miss you, and other basic things. What are your thoughts on that?
Thank you.. appreciate this video.. 💜💜💜🇬🇾🇱🇨
Just loved this message Mark ❤. Blessings to you and your family 😘❤
Right on time!
My boyfriend has depression so he ghosted me 😭
Really needed this. Thank You God for sending this video to my homepage.
Hey i'm not sure what's god's plan for me; i have a mefical issue that will last the rest of my life and cause me to feel constant pain from it and i have fender dysphoria, any advice?... i cant find any resources pr reasons why
I pray in the name of Jesus that He moves His Holy Spirit over you to bring restoration, and healing to your body, that He may give you a supernatural revelation of what to do in your particular situation. That you may be lead by the Spirit to green pastures of rest, and Living Water in Jesus name amen
Thank u brother✌😃😃😃
Hallelujah
Wasup! This is like the 2nd time I seen you on one of these! ✝️😂😌
@@presupping4eva what's up hun!🌟❗🦋🌷😇
@@DWPersianExcursion ✝️😂 I’m pretty great! And blessed. 😊 How about you???
@@presupping4eva you staying cool? It's hot here in Texas! And thank you for asking, can't complain, God bless you sweetheart
@@DWPersianExcursion I super cool right now. I took my first cold shower earlier and I feel amazing! Then I went out to sit outside to get vitamin D from the sun. Texas sounds like an amazing spot too! ✝️😁And your welcome! God bless you too! ✝️🥰😌
What’s the timeframe for ghosting?? 😱😱
God forbid if that one girl isn't the one.
This just happened to me
It’s so me😂 I do not want to be ghosted anymore
Hey Mark, i have a question. Do you have a video on how to know if God wants you to pursue a career? Im studying IT but ive been a bit distant from it. Just not sure if that is what God wants me to do
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@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger God bless you Mark! Thanks you brother!