How I Overcame Emotional Numbness |
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ก.ย. 2024
- For a long time in my life, I felt "numb" emotionally. I went through A LOT... but eventually overcame these feelings. Stay tuned while I share my experience with you!
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It's not that nothing matters, it's just I am so emotionally traumatised that I find it hard to stay calm without zoning out
I feel like a subway cashier working at 2 am
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I'm not ok with this feeling!😢
😭so well put😭
1) Connect yourself to something. Use that to do some teaching.
2) redirect the numbness somewhere. How can I affect others In a positive way.
Let me go down path that give good results cuz I don't care. You'll do stuff in the purest form. Speak in a way that you know others won't speak in. Whatever comes back to me, comes back. Use your emotional numbness to your advantage and make the world a better place. ❤️ Thank you so much, this is a tangent I can go off
Feeling like a Zombie is the best analogy when it comes to this. The one thing that keeps me going in this existence is my art. Sucks that life has made you like that. At least you are doing something before your time comes.
Thanks man , i feel that same ,due to my childhood trauma of emotional negligence.I have strong sense for singing songs but I fail due to negative validation from others . I don't feel emotion but I feel humiliation and disrespect 😢
I went through hell for 18 years of my life and i cant cry about it anymore I don’t feel like myself anymore because i cant put my emotions out there
you merely adapted the dark, i was born in it
This is so AWESOME. I really thought that when people would say, they didn't care what people thought or said about them that they had put on a mask of pretense and they really did care or they were dead inside. I guess it could have been both. I understand emotional numbness now better than I have ever. Thank you so much for your testimony.
I built this mindset thinking it would make me unbreakable which I guess it did but it makes me not human
Worst trade ever made
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@@ariwrxout mind explaining
@wuhhlfarg5578 It's all learning, you start to understand you can craft your life however you want you can be happy when you want to be happy you can create friends when you want to befriend someone you can be aggressive you you feel you need to be aggressive. You have full awareness of what works and what doesn't in your own mind spirit and body. Everything you do raises your mind control and spirit energy. By numbing yourself your cutting off the most important and strongest part of you or "I" which is your spirit energy. Become a proffesional at using the English language and never curse yourself always positive Affirmations and realise you is you. I is named ari but I am I. Never scroll always watch full length videos if you need some sort of video input. If you scroll you pick up other people's opinions fast and can confuse your mind. Watch full length videos and you can think in your head while watching the video projecting your own thoughts and views. This all bit all over the show but I hope it helps in projecting the way you hear see talk.
@@ariwrxout Im still not sure I understand. If you chose numbness and detachment what type of life are you trying to experience? Personally, I have lived in numbness for so many years and never really noticed because it just became my normal. I can be in social situations and go through the motions of happiness, or what people would perceive as happiness, but inside there is actually nothing. I struggle to see the benefits of this that you speak of because what is there to actually live for? What's the point in going through existence with no feelings about anything? I want nothing more than to be able to have the feeling of actually wanting something and feeling joy and happiness. When I accomplish things to be happy and proud of myself instead of just blankness because again, what's the benefit otherwise?
Thank you so much for this message. Not to reignite or put fuel to my story but i was in a situation where i was framed. It was in a workplace where i dated someone. Someone said something about me and to this day i have no idea what they said but it destroyed my reputation and was no longer welcomed back. So not only i did not hear their side but no one wants to hear my side.. my social situation is a small town so leaving was hard. Leaving the house was difficult because all i can think about was running into one of those individuals that didnt want to hear my story and doing the worst to them. As time went on that anger turned to apathy and nearly corrupted who i was and what i was about. Which previous before was all about making the world a better place. This experience has taught that there is good and evil in this world and to be mindful. But if you really want to make the world a better place you gotta be ALL about it.. no stone left unturned. Every mannerism must be in alignment with making the world a better place including when the doors are closed and no one is watching. Every fiber of your being must be that person you wish to be. And a very important question to ask yourself is: if this is the person i plan on being 5, 10 years from now, what would he be doing right now?
Hi, I would like to share if you're open enough to hear... that I had depression, addiction, and suicidal thoughts. I wanted to let you know that there is hope because when I prayed and cried to God for help, He answered, came to my rescue, and took it all away. I never felt so light and so free.
God is real, everyone, and He can heal you from emotional numbness. There is only so much we can handle ourselves. If you feel there is no way, cry out to Jesus. He will heal you and take you out of your suffering. He loves you and He cares. ❤
I feel like the people who have had emotional numbness went through traumatic experiences and events in life. So I must have something else then because I had the flu and then was overthinking about my symptoms and then had anxiety and then felt numb but I don’t think I had emotional numbness because every time I have gone through this experience what helps me is the Sun and then I start feeling better again.
Trauma can also happen to the body. Sickness. Overload of stress to the body. It’s all connected.
Surprising video. Less about overcoming numbness than using it for a positive end. Interesting perspective. It might not exactly be ideal, but it is a way of seeing numbness as a gift.
Thank you brother, and sorry for my english, I'm from France.
I'm a 25 years old black man, I love make music. My family menbers and a lot of people I dont't know, telling me that's my music is good.
But out of nowhere, I've become emotionaly Numb, I can't even feel my own music anymore. And music is the only think I really love in life.
So it's help me A lot to know, you were in that kind of situation too. But finally get out of It.
Keep pushing to the greatness Bruh;
Thanks
Me too I use to love muzic but now I cant feel anything, I wish I could get my feelings back...
Interesting idea bro! This helps!! Thank you for this 💡
My view is, I have to fill the time with something anyways, may as well be heading the direction I want to go
Thank you so much for this POWERFUL information presented clearly, with understanding and actionable advice. I find the word "despite" to be powerful as well. I am going to do what is good for me, the people around me, and my community despite (feeling numb, depressed, that it's hopeless, that these people don't deserve it, etc...). Be well and best wishes!
Love this video the realization that good things could come out of my numbness was really eye opening
This helped me and gave me an idea of how I can help myself, thank you.
A wise man. I’d never thought of it like this. I know that I wanted to bring something positive out of traumas that I have experienced but didn’t know how to.
Thank you for posting this video. I’ve found it invaluable. 👍
Even as a muslim, I believe that detachment from the materialist things that can disappoint u and redirecting it to God or goodness is important to deal from numbness.
Really great, it never occurred to me that emotional numbness could be viewed as a assert, and I do like your calm presence and talk. The way you are talking is really comforting as though having a one on one conversation with a friend 👍
Cyrus thanks for sharing your story.
Knowing Correct from Incorrect; especially with so many incorrect actions going on around you, is what a King does with or without a Kingdom. Help the masses. Connecting to Kings before your time (ancestors) is what God's Children/ (Earth's) Pharaoh's do! Ur a Royal Soul 👑from the Kingdom of Stars (Heaven). Keep Shinning Brilliantly C.A.
Thank you for posting this Cyrus
i absolutely love you man. for making this videoooo.😭 and I so damn meannnn it😭🤍
Monika how are you feeling now😭😭
@@nazmalnazim9154 I feel muchh better now, hun. It gets better, day by day. It gets better.
Thx man you motivated me so much keep going love you brother 👊
Thank you, brother.
I oscillate between this and melting down rn
Help otw!
I’m the same. It’s like im all cared and cried out. Between 2013 and 2021 all manner of stress and emotional pain. It’s like I’ve run out. Well I care about my dogs and Parter but care is the only emotion. It’s not love and excitement or other emotions. I work I make enough to scrape by. So stuck. I turn to anything to get a mode change like alcohol etc. but it’s not who I was. I feel like the old me is a shell.
Thank you 💙💙
Im sorry u went trough all that
Yo thank bro I was looking for something like this
Any supplement or herb that reverses EMOTIONAL BLUNTNESS?
Anyone know here?
great job
Thank you
Okay 👍
I am no teacher, i barley graduated highschool.
Me:
If it’s my time , it’s my time
🤍don't stop the motions.:) when in bed, you are dead, as Morrie says.
❤
Did u also not feel aroused(physially) when u r emotionally numb
You are soooooo funnyyyy 😂😂😂
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