Why you need to grow up to be happier | Bruce Hood | TEDxUniversityofBristol

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  • @smorts9336
    @smorts9336 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Shout out to Bruce! I took his Science of Happiness course a few years ago, it's been my favourite unit at uni so far

  • @SeaBeeRUST
    @SeaBeeRUST ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Incredibly weird experience today: I wrote a short autobiography about all my goals and issues in my notes from a third person perspective this morning, because I thought it would be fun. This is the first time in my life I've wrote about myself in the third person.... Then this afternoon I hop on and this is the first video I watch. WTF... its almost like I manifested the action of writing in the third person from the future.

    • @killertofu
      @killertofu ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah, google just spying on you like usual

  • @jesutolaadeyemi3595
    @jesutolaadeyemi3595 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow! So educative and mind transforming. Thanks Bruce

  • @istp1967
    @istp1967 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    "Growing older is unavoidable; but growing up is a moral choice"
    -- Jordan Peterson.

    • @alfblue4734
      @alfblue4734 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ain't that the dude who sells statues of his head

  • @AyushKumar-fg4uy
    @AyushKumar-fg4uy ปีที่แล้ว +4

    thanks Bruce, i really needed to hear this. Thanks for existing.

  • @ulugbeksaipov917
    @ulugbeksaipov917 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great, very useful video for teens, parents, for every person. Thanks a million! 😄👍🙏

  • @cristybello
    @cristybello ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That’s a seriously genius tactic!👏🏾😊 Im gonna practice that

  • @sami2612
    @sami2612 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    His smile is so warming❣️❣️

  • @inspirednelevate
    @inspirednelevate ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is genius! And right on time. 🎉

  • @09070605uty
    @09070605uty ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for this video! I needed this.

  • @warrencanonigo
    @warrencanonigo ปีที่แล้ว

    Indeed, maturity can change your perspective on happiness.

  • @coppersense999
    @coppersense999 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A different perspective than I was expecting. I like that. Taken together with a powerful factor in what stops emotional development (trauma during crucial formative years) this is useful info.
    I also found CBT to be a great tool for dismantling cognitive distortions and disproving limiting beliefs.

  • @poterror
    @poterror ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fantastic content. Thank you very much.

  • @bigtam462
    @bigtam462 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He has a point...when life starts to stress me out...I look at the pale blue dot video by Carl Sagan....puts things back in perspective..

  • @tommasinibafford7272
    @tommasinibafford7272 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really enjoy that presentation. I want to know more psychological distance.

  • @niamhjennings9915
    @niamhjennings9915 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg I love this! I only recently came across Brian Cox and listening to his work has had this affect on me. Not only in the sense that my problems are smaller but how impossible life itself came to be, it is a beautiful chaotic mystery.

  • @nylonkid01
    @nylonkid01 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    what about the gifted that somehow got fearful of being successful? How is that feeling corrected?

  • @yourspranayjain
    @yourspranayjain ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How do they maintain a graph of start to end maintaining linearity of concept while describing it?
    Like when to not jump to end?

  • @henrycardona2940
    @henrycardona2940 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First sentence was a run upon repeating the conjunction 'but' at least twice.

  • @moripiepenbrink4502
    @moripiepenbrink4502 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg tyvm for this

  • @jonstewart464
    @jonstewart464 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A civilised species would put Bruce Hood in charge of everything...
    He'd probably need some help, so I reckon Robert Sapolsky and Natalie Wynn would also be great on this benign dictatorship deal. Sadly, but naturally, the people who would actually improve the lot of our species are the least likely to promote themselves to the positions of greatest influence. That's being human for you...
    But, sincerely, thank you Bruce for the important work, you're a giant.

    • @debrasnook4714
      @debrasnook4714 ปีที่แล้ว

      @jonstewart464 Would you offer a"name" or searchable video topic of Natalie Wynn? I'm unfamilier with her. Thanks 🙂

  • @littlecherub9817
    @littlecherub9817 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    truth!!!!

  • @feyipitanigbowu
    @feyipitanigbowu ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much

  • @juthmusic
    @juthmusic ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video needs a de-esser. Those S'ses are soooooo strong. Otherwise great!

  • @zooneyl2248
    @zooneyl2248 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @soumayasayegh1849
    @soumayasayegh1849 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting.. thank u

  • @Sharacasm
    @Sharacasm ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow..... That was Great 🔥🔥🔥

  • @rubychew6535
    @rubychew6535 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had a teacher in jr. high school tell me that some adults act like children and I realized this in the work world.

  • @Dragam1
    @Dragam1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He looks like Robin williams ^^

  • @sai_beo
    @sai_beo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everyone needs to watch this lol

  • @I.____.....__...__
    @I.____.....__...__ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He completely ignored the people who felt less stressed by thinking about problems in first-person instead of third-person. In my case, thinking first-person means I only have to feel bad for myself, thinking in third-person makes me feel bad for myself AND a hypothetical other person. 😒 (That's why I try to avoid hearing about other people's problems, it only makes me feel worse, adding to the total misery in the world, especially when there's nothing I can do about any of it.)

  • @BradTech.
    @BradTech. ปีที่แล้ว

    Seen 15:06 Joe Pera Takes You for a Flight?

  • @MotocrossEditor
    @MotocrossEditor ปีที่แล้ว

    When someone asks me “what’s wrong” from here on out. Well you see... Johnny he pissed off 😎👍🏼 thx Ted

  • @javohirhalimjonov8826
    @javohirhalimjonov8826 ปีที่แล้ว

    My teacher once joked about a student who talked about himself in a third person that is the first stage of schizophrenia

  • @NickAlphason
    @NickAlphason ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Him: "Smarties...M&Ms if you're American."
    Me, an American: What

    • @sandra.helianthus
      @sandra.helianthus ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you call them?

    • @NickAlphason
      @NickAlphason ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sandra.helianthus Both M&Ms and Smarties are common candy in US

    • @NickAlphason
      @NickAlphason ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sandra.helianthus how do you call them?

  • @donaldfrederick501
    @donaldfrederick501 ปีที่แล้ว

    Unfortunately have not found this to be true and found 1st/3rd person perspective just as stressful with only noticeable difference on what it is I'm stress about.

  • @How.Dare.You.
    @How.Dare.You. ปีที่แล้ว

    I google myself bc I want to ensure the info about me is actually limited and not the opposite

  • @haifahussein5962
    @haifahussein5962 ปีที่แล้ว

    💖

  • @GuentherVanRaven
    @GuentherVanRaven ปีที่แล้ว

    „Grow up!“

  • @wendyrx
    @wendyrx ปีที่แล้ว

    Or maybe we googled ourselves to make sure our information isn't out there & available to just anyone. Not everyone is egocentric.

  • @jabedahmed6093
    @jabedahmed6093 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im from Bangladesh

  • @RM-zu2nh
    @RM-zu2nh ปีที่แล้ว

    Maybe they think everyone thinks like them because they are always in a classroom where everyone does think like them. The teacher taught them all at the same time.

  • @joumaalmohammed2172
    @joumaalmohammed2172 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I could not do it because i do not know their pronouns

  • @pinoybricks1275
    @pinoybricks1275 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is there anybody here who is not egocentric?

  • @thekidsavage4511
    @thekidsavage4511 ปีที่แล้ว

    i think for adults how to remember how to be child much more important. I think we have enough with the hyper motivated jordan peterson prickle gang

  • @ANAMIKA_619
    @ANAMIKA_619 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First

  • @henrycardona2940
    @henrycardona2940 ปีที่แล้ว

    This talk is filled with negativity, and should be seen from a positive view if better said.

  • @rayannehorne3468
    @rayannehorne3468 ปีที่แล้ว

    Life strangels kindness. Lucia