No close friends, no family, no house, no car, no boat, a little debt..been invisible to women for 20+ years..at 61, it's time to start a new chapter in life..🇩🇴🏝
Few close friends, no family, no house, 17yo car, no boat, NO debt.. been out with 12 ladees in the last 23 years ..at 69, it's time to start a new chapter in life
I lived overseas for years and one thing I noticed when I returned home was that no one ever asked one question about what i was doing in Bangkok. Americans often have such little curiosity about things outside of their present situation. It was always strange to me.
Exactly and not just other countries but small town USA. I bike around western Pennsylvania and most people in this state have a major ordeal just driving 50 feet to the bus stop. I ride from Pittsburgh to Altoona at least 1 a month to watch trains and just see the gentle mountains and sun rising and setting over them - The Johnstown flood museum, portage RR, and Horseshoe curve are my favorites.
Medicines, that's a big one. My favorite experience was on a business trip in Kuwait. I went into the pharmacy across the street from my hotel and told the pharmacist I was diabetic and had pneumonia, which att I would get a few times a year. He came out with a grocery-sized bag of medicines including cough syrup (w/opium derivative for sleep), ciprofloxacin and other meds. All in one go and for a total cost of $42 US. It not only cured me but I used the leftovers for the rest of the year. My best healthcare experience ever! By comparison in the States it takes at least 3 weeks, $400 and several days of missed work to get the same end result even using a dedicated doctor and health insurance. That's the system in the States
I don’t know why Americans take so many meds ! I don’t think I’m especially healthy .. just a regular guy ? But I’m 61 and have managed to go my whole life with just a few occasional prescriptions!
Yes it's a pleasant surprise to be cared for without all the "Gate Keeper" and admin costs. I had a recurring inflammation that was probably stress related but a lovely old pharmacist give me modern and traditional treatment. It hasn't recurred in 7 years ❤ if i was cynical one might think money is a motivation in the west
I had the same medical experience in the Philippines. I have bronchitis and get a flare up once a year. In the states it takes about two weeks to get treatment. In the Philippines I was in and out with prescriptions in one day. Cost difference $500.00+ (US) vs $40.00 (at a super nice hospital in PH). Dental and vision prices are also rock bottom cheap in PH. No need to have medical insurance if an individual has minimal savings in US dollars.
What about the loneliness in America of going to a job you hate… buried under a mountain of debt. Stuck with a wife you can’t stand …who’s too expensive to divorce. You have no idea how many men are in a situation like that in a western country.
I bailed out ten years ago. Yes it was costly, but worth it. I once told her you will work me until I die. She just laughed. After ten years I have money in the bank and ready to retire at 62. I don’t know how long I have to live, but I do know I will enjoy every minute of it.
@@toma1846 Hey thats awesome! good for you realizing the dire situation you were in and you took action. Reminds me of the Janis Joplin song that went "freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose"
I worked Overseas on rotation for 40 years in the Oil industry, traveled to mid east and far east, lost everything I had in common with friends growing up as they couldn’t relate and it was difficult not to sound like showing off, in the end grew apart from previous life. Sadly wife passed after 47 years and I need to travel as that’s what I relate to. Currently a work in progress. Age and health become a major consideration yet the mind and drive is still present.
My dad used to say to me some 50 years ago the mind is willing the body is lagging - you think you can still do things but your body simply can't cope. The reality of getting old. Sorry for your loss.
I have a similar story. I've been back in the states for a few years now... came back to be near family during Covid. Wasn't sure how bad it would be and wanted to be near. But now feeling that itch. Heading to Thailand in September to conduct due diligence for a possible retirement move.
@@Basman59 how very true but will give it my very best Holiday booked Paid for Thailand mid July Bkk/ then south motorbike tour Did it 18 month ago loved it Never too old to try Not sitting in the house wishing and dreaming until grim reaper calls Love life God bless
@@realpropertymangement7640 Hope you have a great time My restriction is pets I would have retired there 2 years ago but respect the dogs as had them 8 years Really wouldn’t hesitate been to the land of smiles many times all that’s needed is good sensible life management
I've always compared travel to education. After, years and years of travel, it's like you have a PhD. and all the friends you left behind are high school graduates. You have so little in common with them now. You were pushed in new directions and your mind was expanded to worldly levels and new perspectives. Not to brag, just stating fact.
Hi, Guys great insights that ex-pats should be aware of. Sorry, not being around for the past four months. I was fighting for my life and spent 3 months in the Intensive care unit and two weeks in high dependency ward. They have labelled me the miracle man as no one in the history of the hospital has ever survived what I went through. Living on borrowed time now living as each day could be my last. Once I regain strength I still intend to come to the Philippines. Everyone says I'm crazy. I want my last days on a beach. Then a local funeral. I just hope and pray I get fit enough to travel. I still enjoy your videos they give me hope and something to me a goal and Purpose. Thank you, keep up the great work. Take care GOD Bless you and yours. M
I’ve never read anyone apologizing for not commenting on digital media, as a consumer. I believe the focus on presence is the responsibility of the digital content CREATOR. I suppose it would be akin to a reader apologizing to a newspaper for not reading their content, a listener apologizing to the host for being absent, or a patron apologizing to a shop for no longer shopping there. Perhaps what the OC really wanted to say in what could be read as an atypical introduction, is to confess their own health concerns, but why not mention this unrelated offload directly?
I ended up selling nearly all my stuff and moving to Ecuador. Great decision, but it will be the best of times and the worst of times. So just be mentally prepared for weird things and you'll land on your feet and love it.
To me, the worst, most awkward thing about visiting a foreign country is listening to a local venting at me in resentment over the U.S........Especially when they're right.
What I really appreciate about you two is that you always give us pretty profoundly thought-out content. Your thoughtful approach is very flattering to a viewer
You two are an inspiration. Thank you for sharing! My advice for overcoming these is to invest in the people, community and friendships you make. Invest in learning the language and the culture. invest in yourself by trully allowing yourself to fully experience it all!
I suffered reverse culture shock when returning home having lived as an expat for 13 years in Asia. In some ways there is no going back after living abroad for extended periods. Going back to your old life isn't always an option. I'll probably live abroad for the rest of my life, just spending a few months of the year with family and friends back home.
Hi @garrygrant2394, Would you like to be a guest start on one of my videos? Here is an example guest star video: th-cam.com/video/ySM_2jAC4v4/w-d-xo.html Your interview could be just your voice or we could do a zoom call showing your face. If you would like to be a guest star and share your story please leave a personal message here: vagabondbuddha.com/contact/ Thank you for your comment. The detail of your comment makes this real for people. If you have a business, service, or TH-cam channel, you could share that on the interview. Best, Dan
The Philippines has a potential for major natural disasters. From cyclones(hurricanes), earthquakes, flooding even volcano eruptions. I already live in a hurricane prone area in the US and after experiencing a few damaging hurricanes I live in fear each year of the next one. It is no way to live but I can't afford to live anywhere else. The US is reduced to worse than a developing country after one hits and we only then appreciate all the things we take for granted. I have had to go without electricity for 6 weeks and it was unbearable in the middle of summer. I would reach out to a fan, unable to sleep and realize I don't have any electricity. I used to go to the mall to take a nap and charge my phone. I would sit in lines for gasoline with the few gas stations that were open. When you get to the pump they would run out of gas. It was frustrating. Getting repairs done was impossible. Unless you go through it, one would not know. I experienced a 5.4 earthquake and it shook me up for months. Thailand has a potential for tsunamis on their western coast, but no cyclones or earthquakes.
Hello. I’m a Canadian expat living in Japan. One uncomfortable truth here in the Japan countryside is social isolation. I’ve been living here for over 12 years now and do not have a single Japanese friend or even fellow expat friend here. Several people I met and made friends with over the years have all returned to their home country or moved to Tokyo, Osaka or Kyoto. I’m planning in leaving Japan for the Philippines 🇵🇭 once I sell my house here. Important topic today. Thanks!
@@maxflight777 Thanks! I’m managing fine, but I realize I’ve sacrificed a lot to live here. I’ve got a lovely, traditional Japanese-style home and small farm for growing fruit and vegetables. But, I spend 95% of my time on my own. The only things missing are: friends, family, a job as of 2023 and single women 😝. Preparing to finally leave once my house sells.
I’ve traveled all over the world for years and it surprises me too that no one asks a single question about any of the countries or experiences that I have gone through. 😮
@@JonnieShipbaugh-dc9wk Hello Jonnie. Here’s a question for you: which countries have been your favorite places to visit? Where are you living now? Have you decided where you wish to retire?
I hear it quite often that it is difficult to make friends with Japanese. For me that was true in Vietnam. But thats totally differend in the Philippines. I hope you'll have a great future with great people around you :)
Excellent advice! I retired overseas and I agree! You definitely have to make room in your budget just in case of emergencies! Me personally I recommend 10 thousand and up if you are single! 20 thousand and up if you have a wife and kids!
I love how nuanced your points and sub-point are. Original, as usual. It’s interesting how one can be simultaneously traveling and feeling so stimulated but also may experience difficult feelings like loneliness and alienation. I think many people underestimate how important having a sense of community is to them, and also how important is it to spend time - IN REAL LIFE AND ON A REGULAR BASIS - with people you know and love, and who know and love you. Especially when one of you is going through a hard time like depression, identity crisis, relationship struggles, financial hardship, illness, death of a loved one, etc. ❤ I think a lot of travelers also end up self-focused and neglect their family and friends at home, and end up feeling surprised that many of those relationships may atrophy due to distance and/or neglect. It can actually go both ways if friends and family at home don’t make an effort to stay in touch and express care and interest in you once you are traveling. I also think it can sometimes feel exhausting to be in a country where you cannot easily connect and express yourself in your native language, which is also embedded in your native culture. It can take a lot more energy to bridge that language and cultural divide.
Being an expat is not new. I read a lot about it in W. Somerset Maugham’s short stories. I moved to USA as a teenager, now retired. I can choose to find a nursing home there and move back as an option. It does feel like life circling back. I moved to US with 2 suitcases. To move back, I may have to reduce my life down to 2 suitcases again. It feels so much harder after decades as an old lady.
@@Steven-t9s Yes and I decided I prefer paracetamol now. However, medical supplies is a category where I wanted to stick with what I know when I first moved overseas.
Great topic today! I finally felt like SOMEONE understands. Thank all of you for your comments 💌 This really made my day! (People in SC aren't even aware that other countries have their own currencies...Lost in the South)
Thanks for sharing. Great advice. I've found the most important thing is to form social friends based on particular things we like to do. In my badminton, squash, sports and entrepreneurship. Facebook groups are a good source of local connections.
You missed one topic: healthcare. You mentioned medicine but not healthcare. The Philippines is currently no. 89 in terms of healthcare in the world. Plus, it's expensive to get treatment for serious conditions. I know some Filipinos in the States who are holding back from coming there to retire, because they have friends or family members afraid of or actually bankrupted by the steep costs of healthcare treatments there. If I am correct, you have to pay upfront when going to an emergency room before a doctor can see you. I don't know if that is still true. So I would like your perspective on this. Healthcare checkups are cheap there, but that's different from an actual sickness or accident where you need to spend more. It's the only thing holding back some Filipinos from retiring there.
Most developing countries do NOT have any obligation to treat you if you do not have a way to pay the bill. In the West, a foreign tourist could walk off the plane and get into an accident and any hospital he is taken to, has to treat him no questions asked. However in the Philippines or even in India it is scary if you don't have means to pay for any potential treatment, they will refuse to treat you. I remember a British guy talked about getting into a motorcycle accident in India. They assumed he was dead and he woke up in a morgue. It was a nightmare waking up in very dirty morgue with bodies all over the place and blood and other bodily functions all over the walls. They took him to a government hospital and he waited for hours for treatment. He was able to speak a little by then, and asked to be taken to a private hospital. When he got there they refused to treat him until they were able to verify he had insurance. In the meantime he was in incredible pain with his pounding headache and begged them for anything for the pain but they refused to administer anything. The doctor kept yelling at him that they need his insurance information. He was finally was able to recall his parents phone number and they reluctantly called his parents in the UK and got what they needed and only then did they start treating him. Since he had excellent NHS coverage with a cheap travel insurance policy he got the best treatment the hospital could offer. He was stabilized and then put on a direct flight in First Class, with a large bottle of Valium and Oxicodone. Since his insurance was paying for every thing they gave him all the medications his insurance would pay for. Since he was in a wheelchair customs never bothered to search him. Everything was covered by NHS and a cheap travel policy he had. He was thrilled to have a year's supply of "happy drugs" from India. This is the only reason I have not been able to leave the US as I also have a few chronic illnesses. I find it strange that a lot of YTer barely mention it and then you hear of lots of horror stories.
Haha that's why you see so many people on gofundme trying to get enough to pay their bills. I try to consider health care which is why countries like Thailand and Malaysia are so popular. Best is to self insure or having good health/travel insurance
Love your content but the background dog barking is the biggest reason I couldn’t live there long term. It’s just too noisy for my preferences. I could maybe do a high rise in Cebu or Manila.
To be honest, I don't think I ever see myself living in the Philippines due to the noise issues. It's not something that I adjusted to in my month long trip several years ago.
Sometimes a restaurant or bar can be a total different experience depending on when you go in. One night there might be a birthday or wedding party and you enjoy the music and the next night you might not like the music or experience.
Great points made - both by Dan & Qiang as well as in the comments. My uncomfortable truths: being in new surroundings (both exciting and a little anxiety inducing), sorting out my essential needs once I decide where to be, and social engagement. Some family/friends give a perplexed look when I tell them I'm considering retiring overseas, with comments like "why would you leave?" or "I could never do that!" I would surely miss loved ones as well as some conveniences and efficiencies in Western world living, but there's much to discover out there and the experiences mean more to me than material "things." What may work well for someone else may not be ideal for you. Just find your happy place as soon as you can and enjoy your new life.
All great points. But what some people (not all) discover is that they can maintain tight relationships after decades. You will be surprised what a week or two every other years and a few phone calls a year buys you overseas. You might find that people don't really need constant contact to feel loved.
That's our goal. To live simple and moderately at the same time not having to work til we are 70. But our situation is different from some others at that my wife is a Filipina who's been working and contributing to her retirement and SS here in the states. So we won't be solely living off one income/retirement when we move to the Philippines in 3 years.
I’ve thought about moving overseas for years but never pulled the trigger….one of my friends in the USA insisted that if I moved and became an expat I would have my social security payments rescinded…..
good advise, one thing that I would like to add is having pets. We all love our pets, but sometimes there is a big problem, lots of countries have rules and regulations regarding transport of animals on public transportation which can be a major pain. A good friend of mine here in Thailand is heartbroken ,that in order for him to return to his home country he would need to abandon his beloved dog. this is actually a common problem quarantines etc. Another thing that people need to think about is gardening, it's hard to leave yourplants behind also! As soon as my Thai retirement visa expires in November I will be coming Dumaguete, how is the walkability? Would Valencia be better
I am looking forward to that big adventure, i am explorer been too 27 states and 2 countries, i am frugal and considering i am living on 1100 a month atm i think i can survive on that over there lol. I rarely drink except for coffee that's my addiction hahaha and considering i have been single over 20 years i think loneliness is the least of my worries.
Retotrd expat from the US. Lost my Wife of 44 years to cancer 3/2017. Had to regroup. Moved to Thailand 7/2018. Met a great Thai women, we've been together ever since. Haven't missed the US for a moment. Every day is great and an adventure.
Some good points made here. Of course, as an American, living in America, it's very easy for me to solve any kind of a problem because I know how the system functions and I know who to contact. Being somewhat technical, I can also solve technical issues, such as phone, TV, computer etc. on my own, without having to call tech support. Dealing with bureaucracy is also easy, when you know what is expected. Even abroad, if I need answers, I can Google them or go to TH-cam for answers. When I am traveling, I don't usually hang out with expats unless I need an answer to some specific question that I can't get from locals. Part of understanding different cultures is hanging out with locals and eating their foods. I certainly wouldn't go to Macdonald's. I don't go to Macdonald's when I am in the States. I think their burgers suck. Give me Fuddruckers any day, What's funny about Macdonald's is that in the States it's considered poor man's food but when you to China, for instance, it has a Starbucks vibe and is visited by middle class Chinese and the prices are three times higher compared to good Chinese food. As far as communication is concerned, one has to be on the same frequency to communicate well, even speaking mother tongue. If you don't speak other languages, you can still communicate with people that are on the same frequency. You may need a few hundred words in that language, but it's ok. As to the past, it's about having established roots. People that grow up together and stay in the same community normally understand each other better but even that changes with time. People change and get immersed into their lives and new problems. The key is to have an open mind and be curious about the world and others. Learning is a never-ending process. The thing about loneliness is that you have to believe in yourself and your ability to stay busy and have enough interests that you have no time to feel sorry about yourself. Sure, it's more enjoyable to watch a sunset together but I rather watch it by myself rather than share it with just anybody. I rather be alone but I am not lonely. When the right person comes along, I'll be happy to embrace that new role. If you move around a lot, you learn to be a sponge and a chameleon, you develop certain routines, no matter where you are at and you will be fine. Half of my life I spent with women and the other I have spent alone (not chronologically) and I feel just fine. I just watched Arnold, the documentary, and was reminded how an extrovert can become an introvert. As far as medicine is concerned, in most of Asia and South and central America, you can get stuff over the counter, as long as you know what you need. Tylenol is a brand but all you have to say is the generic root for it, paracetamol ( Spanish speaking countries ) or acetaminophen ( English speaking countries ). No matter where you are, it's good to find an affordable health insurance and you will be covered for more serious things. Anyway, no fear, face into the sun and the wind and Bon Voyage!
I recently got into a hard time in Mexico: At a "drug" store, medicine, not drugs, are sold. USA has medicare part d: Drugs, not medicine. Perfectly understandable, except it was me traveling. it was on me to have known culture.
I lived in India for five months. My (at that time) fiancé was working six days a week and I did get very lonely. I decided to go to a school there to learn Tibetan. It gave me a purpose and a little social experience. I spent a lot of time on my own. I loved it though. I am back in the states and my (now) husband arrived last year.It's been an adjustment and we miss India. I like living in Asia.English with Hindi accent is really difficult so Learned simple words that helped. I do agree that if you see new countries as an experience of adventure and curiousity, you will do better. I have found the world is a friendly and welcoming place once you open up.
I'm an American expat sitting here in Vietnam (18 years away from California) watching this, and re learning some gems from you guys. Thanks for these vids.. I hope I will one day meet a lady like Chung. She's a really intelligent openminded and hip lady, as well as beautiful. ;-)
Hi Mike here from Uk. Have been travelling short holidays for 12 years. This time 6 weeks away. Learning on the way new tricks. I jot down on my phone every day my experiences, not everything just the big things.And each time i exchange cash or ATM. now in ubon spending spending 800 baht a day. Also gives me a record of my travels.
Good Food for Thought as We plan to Retire in PI in 4 to 5 years from now!! I will have an adventuristic attitude and with some of my Wife’s family around lean on for advice. But im prepared to have fun being immersed intoa new culture. Life’s A Garden, Dig It!
You both are giving great content and advise for people like myself now 67 years old who want to make the changes in my life for the future to enjoy with a life partner. This is one of your best videos that I’ve seen that will directly relate to me and my planning purposes. I wish you both the best for your futures, and hope to see you both one day and and share this time to cherish together. Best always Steven
You two are wonderful. Your videos are excellent. Keep it up. Thank you very much for your awesome content. I hope to one day join you in your exploration of this beautiful world.
I have watched some other "retire cheap" channels and they are not nearly as comprehensive or open as you are. I do not spend spend spend when I travel to more affordable places. In fact I save up money so I can afford to travel back to the US and visit/help family. Thank you Dan for all your down to earth realisic videos that don't mislead people into making bad decisions. I too have found that by being away I am disconnected with friends and family. I am not always up to date with currentl local affairs.
Hello George, thank you for your personal note of encouragement. It really does make a difference for us when we know people appreciate what we are doing. Your comments also cause TH-cam to show our video to more people so your note is like paying us a small tip $$ for our time. Thank you, Dan
For instance I'm Spanish speaker as a mother tongue. I've been in most south America and Central, and now in Cadiz (deep Andalusia) I had to learn Spanish from scratch Great content All the best to all
Great video thank you. I found when I returned home to Australia recently after 2 years and 7 countries a reverse culture shock. I had been in no western countries and realised things are not quite as great at home as I thought before I left. Inflation, politics and social norms were fairly negative from my point of view. For budget we have savings at the moment but live as though we're on the Australian pension which is very low. We live in the countryside south west of Bangkok out with the cows and chickens. I found the topic of personal care and medicines very interesting too. Each country finding the things that you need and make you feel at home anywhere 😊
australian pensions are low? with the prices of things in oz you would think otherwise. Perhaps thats why there are so many aussie retiree's in thailand? I've seen a few people complain of aussie govt regulation regarding retirement abroad and having to come back to australia to prove you're alive to the pension office or something like that. I also just saw on Foreigner Joe's youtube channel where an aussie couple had their bank seize their accounts with no written warning. The bank had a problem or didn't like transactions coming from thailand so they moved the money offline. This is even when they told the bank that they were in thailand. I hope that guy was the exception perhaps because he had a big bank balance
Ciao. Nice video. honest and helpful. Thank you. I am retired and with my wife we love Asia, We have been to Asia many times but never for more than 3 or 4 weeks We would like to live part of our retirement in Asia, but one of the things that worries us is our basic and poor English. Our English is good for short conversations, but not good for having relationships or not good for something serious for a native English speaker it is never a problem, but for others mediocre English language can be a restraint Grazie del video. Ciao from Italy
I was born and raised in Germany and moved to France 30 years ago. What happens a lot, and I've had other people who live abroad confirm it, is that sometimes I think that after all these years in France I'm still *so* German but whenever I return to my home country for a visit, I realize how French I have become. I have lived in two different worlds and I feel like I'm a part of both countries, but at the same time I feel like I belong to neither one of them. I don't know if this makes sense.
Dan and Qiang, that was just a great vlog; such important points you mentioned. And who would have thought you were in PH? (didn't hear any crowing roosters or barking dogs! well done!)
Great video as usual! How flexible you are will determine how easily you transition living in a new country and culture. Living in Thailand I think there must be a mountain of paperwork somewhere as everything is multiple pages signatures etc. Just go with the flow give them what they want and accept it's just a different way of doing things. Then enjoy the wonderful benefits of living in a new country.
I have the feeling, when you are both talking, that the two of you have merged into one entry. Such wonderful agreement! Congratulations!!! May your love last forever.
I would call it a variable, not a major concern - depending on where your originating funds come from, and where you are living. Low income countries will never accelerate at a rate fast enough to catch up to more advanced economies. Inflation can go crazy in some countries, but as an expat or someone living away - you can always look for other places to live.
I am from Brazil and lived outside for 32 years and I have been back for 7 months. I used to come back every 2 years or so. Nobody asked anything about the US. If anything was interesting about some product I could bring it back and sell it cheaper.
You are right about which perspective you choose upon entering anything, such as retiring abroad. Regardless of situation we have a choice how to perceive it and there are really only 2 ways. They are either positive or negative (or intoxicated as I have witnessed so many time with expats) And that creates no change except organ failure. 🤕 Learning the art of perceiving change in positive light means you can make it enjoyable. The fact is living stress free and in contentment with what is rather than complaining must create for you much more curiosity, wonder, delight, joy. If one isn't familiar with how to employ things like "feel the fear and do it anyway", gratitude, self-forgiveness, patience then it's probably time to learn as it reveals your existence the miracle that it is. The world awaits💚🤩😍
Hi Dan, have you ever visited England? I’ve looked through your videos and couldn’t find anything on a visit to the UK. I live on the south coast of England in the seaside resort of Worthing. The cost of living here is quite high, but I have found a flat where all the bills are included in the rent. My parents are living in my house and I have said they can stay there until the end. I don’t want to live with elderly parents so renting suits me fine as we both have different schedules. I retired at 55 and love living by the sea. The good deals are out there, you just have to look for them and I think that applies to anywhere in the world. Very often the best deals are not advertised and sometimes you can find them by accident. Thanks Alan 😊
Hey Dan, love your content! I was wondering if you have a video or could make a video about your luggage and packing for slow travel? I know this can vary widely, but I’m planning an extended tour through Southeast Asia and am struggling with the right way to pack. I won’t be my first Trip like this, but in the past, I’ve traveled super light and ultimately regretted not bringing some creature comforts with me. Also wondering about keeping your passport, bank cards, computers and camera equipment safe when you’re out and about. Thanks in advance!!
You two are looking fabulous. Looking 28 and 48 respectively, lol. Life is good for you like always. I look forward to meeting you again whether there or another local. You there two months, that's great. I will likely meet you in Dumaguete. Loneliness won't be a problem for me as I make new friends every day when I travel abroad. Flexibility and adaptability is key. See you soon! As you know I will be in Manila, Makati and Baguio first, then Puerto Galera, all based on your recommendations! then perhaps south to your area by the end of July. So radical that our Bali interview has nearly 500,000 views so far. Amazing!
Pleasure to listen to your comments and mutual respect for esch other. Yes, native country friends/relatives unable to understand your experience living overseas due to inability to see outside their reslity. After 40 yrs marriage to Thai I blessed that she was wise enough to tolerate my slow learning on relationship. You two are great. My buddy married to Filipina also shared common sense afvice: "Remember where you are" on my confusion visiting PI. So do not judge reality overseas to your original country ! Easy does it?
Thanks for sharing. I have experienced some of those uncomfortable truths, even for short trips. Like you said, trying to find a replacement for Tylenol. I take my own now. It can be a little ruff sometimes, but you have to take a deep breath. Every thing will be fine.
Great format, love the experience shared from you! I also made it to other countries a lot and have now family ties to South America - right now I live still in Europe and over there, same time. But the next step planned is to completely move over. So it's very interesting to hear your experiences.
I’ve enjoyed foreign travel but the thought of moving overseas like a fish out of water outsider repels me. My retirement dream would be local small town where I belong close to my children and hopefully future grandchildren
Living in the country like phil throw bad things and your ego bring along with you are positive life just live a simple life, you have this freedom, freedom to choose, family is our first priority i just saw some have mental and social issues sometimes we have to get relax in some slow pace of life no need to get rush if you have a freedom, love, respect you will be happy...
Hi guys. Where exactly in Duma are you staying? I'm moving there late July. And how much is your rent? Thanks, been following you for a long while. I was going to be a vagabond until meeting a lovely philipina and as I have been going to PH for 40 years, decided to choose it as my new home
Have watched many of your videos and have not always greed with some things, but today the first thing that we 100% agree on is this notion of saving each month even 10% of a retirement income if for no other reason to offset inflationary costs or exchange rate fluctuations. I for one think this is a no brainer. Even renting a place that's 10% less is a way to save. Another thing to consider is say Thailand cooking home the cost of electric and gas versus eating out you may find it's cheaper to eat out than to buy groceries and have higher utilities. I think you have to have something to do to keep your mind and body occupied. For me I love the exercise/gym, learn the language, and find time to read books I always wanted to; that's plenty in any day. Forget gardening, golf, or fishing, limit your activities retirement is not a 100% holiday.
It depends how easily you meet people. How many interests you have. How good you are at learning languages and adapting to a new culture. Who cares about what goes on back home? I see men in America, married to fat, bossy women …who spend all their money. If they were in other countries they wouldn’t even talk to a woman like that. In lots of foreign countries there are younger women who are nice, feminine and easy going. In western countries they are like a unicorn.
I love your honesty. It’s very refreshing and insightful. I feel imposter syndrome even when I go back to Kentucky after living in Las Vegas for 30 years…can’t imagine what it will be like when I retire (soon?!) and travel the world!
Please don’t get to drugs, Mixed up aspirin and Panadol. completely two different things and use for different ailments. One is a blood thinner as well.
I've been watching you for a couple of years now. Just turned 40. 5 more years and I'll be on the move. Thank you for all the information, both of you.
I know EXACTLY what you mean with the imposter in your own life thing when you go back home. You explained it very well and it's good to hear someone else talk about it.
Thank you two for leading this topic to consider. It helps me to frame some of the things I notice as I travel and see that I have to adjust in different circumstances. Big help🎉
No close friends, no family, no house, no car, no boat, a little debt..been invisible to women for 20+ years..at 61, it's time to start a new chapter in life..🇩🇴🏝
Few close friends, no family, no house, 17yo car, no boat, NO debt.. been out with 12 ladees in the last 23 years ..at 69, it's time to start a new chapter in life
I lived overseas for years and one thing I noticed when I returned home was that no one ever asked one question about what i was doing in Bangkok. Americans often have such little curiosity about things outside of their present situation. It was always strange to me.
Live long, and prosper.
I noticed this too. (Us) Americans have to be the least motivated to see new countries, or hear about your experiences lol
That would be my first question. I always want to know how make a living .
@@jakea3398 This is reflected in the terrible state of foreign language education in America, which may contribute to the insularity.
Exactly and not just other countries but small town USA. I bike around western Pennsylvania and most people in this state have a major ordeal just driving 50 feet to the bus stop. I ride from Pittsburgh to Altoona at least 1 a month to watch trains and just see the gentle mountains and sun rising and setting over them - The Johnstown flood museum, portage RR, and Horseshoe curve are my favorites.
Medicines, that's a big one. My favorite experience was on a business trip in Kuwait. I went into the pharmacy across the street from my hotel and told the pharmacist I was diabetic and had pneumonia, which att I would get a few times a year. He came out with a grocery-sized bag of medicines including cough syrup (w/opium derivative for sleep), ciprofloxacin and other meds. All in one go and for a total cost of $42 US. It not only cured me but I used the leftovers for the rest of the year. My best healthcare experience ever! By comparison in the States it takes at least 3 weeks, $400 and several days of missed work to get the same end result even using a dedicated doctor and health insurance. That's the system in the States
I don’t know why Americans take so many meds !
I don’t think I’m especially healthy .. just a regular guy ? But I’m 61 and have managed to go my whole life with just a few occasional prescriptions!
Yes it's a pleasant surprise to be cared for without all the "Gate Keeper" and admin costs. I had a recurring inflammation that was probably stress related but a lovely old pharmacist give me modern and traditional treatment. It hasn't recurred in 7 years ❤ if i was cynical one might think money is a motivation in the west
I had the same medical experience in the Philippines. I have bronchitis and get a flare up once a year. In the states it takes about two weeks to get treatment. In the Philippines I was in and out with prescriptions in one day. Cost difference $500.00+ (US) vs $40.00 (at a super nice hospital in PH).
Dental and vision prices are also rock bottom cheap in PH. No need to have medical insurance if an individual has minimal savings in US dollars.
@@maxflight777 pneumonia and diabetes are serious conditions and require medication
What about the loneliness in America of going to a job you hate… buried under a mountain of debt.
Stuck with a wife you can’t stand …who’s too expensive to divorce.
You have no idea how many men are in a situation like that in a western country.
Yes, all of my friends. LOL! However, I'm single.
That’s when you need to bite the bullet & bail out, otherwise it’s just more of the same. You only live once .
I bailed out ten years ago. Yes it was costly, but worth it. I once told her you will work me until I die. She just laughed. After ten years I have money in the bank and ready to retire at 62. I don’t know how long I have to live, but I do know I will enjoy every minute of it.
@@toma1846 Hey thats awesome! good for you realizing the dire situation you were in and you took action. Reminds me of the Janis Joplin song that went "freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose"
JUST LEAVE
I worked Overseas on rotation for 40 years in the Oil industry, traveled to mid east and far east, lost everything I had in common with friends growing up as they couldn’t relate and it was difficult not to sound like showing off, in the end grew apart from previous life.
Sadly wife passed after 47 years and I need to travel as that’s what I relate to.
Currently a work in progress.
Age and health become a major consideration yet the mind and drive is still present.
My dad used to say to me some 50 years ago the mind is willing the body is lagging - you think you can still do things but your body simply can't cope. The reality of getting old. Sorry for your loss.
I have a similar story. I've been back in the states for a few years now... came back to be near family during Covid. Wasn't sure how bad it would be and wanted to be near. But now feeling that itch. Heading to Thailand in September to conduct due diligence for a possible retirement move.
@@Basman59 how very true but will give it my very best
Holiday booked Paid for Thailand mid July
Bkk/ then south motorbike tour
Did it 18 month ago loved it
Never too old to try
Not sitting in the house wishing and dreaming until grim reaper calls
Love life
God bless
@@realpropertymangement7640
Hope you have a great time
My restriction is pets
I would have retired there 2 years ago but respect the dogs as had them 8 years
Really wouldn’t hesitate been to the land of smiles many times all that’s needed is good sensible life management
I've always compared travel to education. After, years and years of travel, it's like you have a PhD. and all the friends you left behind are high school graduates. You have so little in common with them now. You were pushed in new directions and your mind was expanded to worldly levels and new perspectives. Not to brag, just stating fact.
After living overseas 27 years, one uncomfortable truth is -you’ll never be accepted as a local no matter how long you stay there.
Saying “overseas” is too general. There are soo many countries out there and people have different experiences.
Hi, Guys great insights that ex-pats should be aware of. Sorry, not being around for the past four months. I was fighting for my life and spent 3 months in the Intensive care unit and two weeks in high dependency ward. They have labelled me the miracle man as no one in the history of the hospital has ever survived what I went through. Living on borrowed time now living as each day could be my last. Once I regain strength I still intend to come to the Philippines. Everyone says I'm crazy. I want my last days on a beach. Then a local funeral. I just hope and pray I get fit enough to travel. I still enjoy your videos they give me hope and something to me a goal and Purpose. Thank you, keep up the great work.
Take care GOD Bless you and yours. M
Me too 🙏 can't wait to escape! Wishing you healing and a long, satisfying life 🏖
Hoping your wish will come true. Sending prayers and ❤️ love your way. Ludy from New York.
I’ve never read anyone apologizing for not commenting on digital media, as a consumer. I believe the focus on presence is the responsibility of the digital content CREATOR. I suppose it would be akin to a reader apologizing to a newspaper for not reading their content, a listener apologizing to the host for being absent, or a patron apologizing to a shop for no longer shopping there. Perhaps what the OC really wanted to say in what could be read as an atypical introduction, is to confess their own health concerns, but why not mention this unrelated offload directly?
I've been living alone for 8 years now on my 8 acres farm here in South Carolina. I love it.
I ended up selling nearly all my stuff and moving to Ecuador. Great decision, but it will be the best of times and the worst of times. So just be mentally prepared for weird things and you'll land on your feet and love it.
To me, the worst, most awkward thing about visiting a foreign country is listening to a local venting at me in resentment over the U.S........Especially when they're right.
and now the USD is collapsing................
What I really appreciate about you two is that you always give us pretty profoundly thought-out content. Your thoughtful approach is very flattering to a viewer
You two are an inspiration. Thank you for sharing! My advice for overcoming these is to invest in the people, community and friendships you make. Invest in learning the language and the culture. invest in yourself by trully allowing yourself to fully experience it all!
You nailed it!
I suffered reverse culture shock when returning home having lived as an expat for 13 years in Asia. In some ways there is no going back after living abroad for extended periods. Going back to your old life isn't always an option. I'll probably live abroad for the rest of my life, just spending a few months of the year with family and friends back home.
Hi @garrygrant2394, Would you like to be a guest start on one of my videos? Here is an example guest star video: th-cam.com/video/ySM_2jAC4v4/w-d-xo.html
Your interview could be just your voice or we could do a zoom call showing your face. If you would like to be a guest star and share your story please leave a personal message here: vagabondbuddha.com/contact/
Thank you for your comment. The detail of your comment makes this real for people. If you have a business, service, or TH-cam channel, you could share that on the interview. Best, Dan
The Philippines has a potential for major natural disasters. From cyclones(hurricanes), earthquakes, flooding even volcano eruptions. I already live in a hurricane prone area in the US and after experiencing a few damaging hurricanes I live in fear each year of the next one. It is no way to live but I can't afford to live anywhere else. The US is reduced to worse than a developing country after one hits and we only then appreciate all the things we take for granted. I have had to go without electricity for 6 weeks and it was unbearable in the middle of summer. I would reach out to a fan, unable to sleep and realize I don't have any electricity. I used to go to the mall to take a nap and charge my phone. I would sit in lines for gasoline with the few gas stations that were open. When you get to the pump they would run out of gas. It was frustrating. Getting repairs done was impossible. Unless you go through it, one would not know.
I experienced a 5.4 earthquake and it shook me up for months.
Thailand has a potential for tsunamis on their western coast, but no cyclones or earthquakes.
Good god, get a grip, you could get killed crossing the road. I have been in the Philippines 14 years, no way am I going back to the UK...
Hello. I’m a Canadian expat living in Japan. One uncomfortable truth here in the Japan countryside is social isolation. I’ve been living here for over 12 years now and do not have a single Japanese friend or even fellow expat friend here. Several people I met and made friends with over the years have all returned to their home country or moved to Tokyo, Osaka or Kyoto. I’m planning in leaving Japan for the Philippines 🇵🇭 once I sell my house here. Important topic today. Thanks!
Sorry to hear that. Best wishes.
@@maxflight777 Thanks! I’m managing fine, but I realize I’ve sacrificed a lot to live here. I’ve got a lovely, traditional Japanese-style home and small farm for growing fruit and vegetables. But, I spend 95% of my time on my own. The only things missing are: friends, family, a job as of 2023 and single women 😝. Preparing to finally leave once my house sells.
I’ve traveled all over the world for years and it surprises me too that no one asks a single question about any of the countries or experiences that I have gone through. 😮
@@JonnieShipbaugh-dc9wk Hello Jonnie. Here’s a question for you: which countries have been your favorite places to visit? Where are you living now? Have you decided where you wish to retire?
I hear it quite often that it is difficult to make friends with Japanese.
For me that was true in Vietnam.
But thats totally differend in the Philippines.
I hope you'll have a great future with great people around you :)
Re: medicines, my traveling partner (and husband) is a pharmacist and navigates foreign drug stores for us. I don't ever take that for granted.
Excellent advice! I retired overseas and I agree! You definitely have to make room in your budget just in case of emergencies! Me personally I recommend 10 thousand and up if you are single! 20 thousand and up if you have a wife and kids!
I love how nuanced your points and sub-point are. Original, as usual. It’s interesting how one can be simultaneously traveling and feeling so stimulated but also may experience difficult feelings like loneliness and alienation. I think many people underestimate how important having a sense of community is to them, and also how important is it to spend time - IN REAL LIFE AND ON A REGULAR BASIS - with people you know and love, and who know and love you. Especially when one of you is going through a hard time like depression, identity crisis, relationship struggles, financial hardship, illness, death of a loved one, etc. ❤
I think a lot of travelers also end up self-focused and neglect their family and friends at home, and end up feeling surprised that many of those relationships may atrophy due to distance and/or neglect. It can actually go both ways if friends and family at home don’t make an effort to stay in touch and express care and interest in you once you are traveling.
I also think it can sometimes feel exhausting to be in a country where you cannot easily connect and express yourself in your native language, which is also embedded in your native culture. It can take a lot more energy to bridge that language and cultural divide.
Being an expat is not new. I read a lot about it in W. Somerset Maugham’s short stories. I moved to USA as a teenager, now retired. I can choose to find a nursing home there and move back as an option. It does feel like life circling back. I moved to US with 2 suitcases. To move back, I may have to reduce my life down to 2 suitcases again. It feels so much harder after decades as an old lady.
Just hold dear memories in your heart and welcome the peace & freedom that come 🙏🙏
I just got back from the US. I brought aspirin with me. You can’t get aspirin in Thailand.
They have Paracetamol.
@@Steven-t9s Yes and I decided I prefer paracetamol now. However, medical supplies is a category where I wanted to stick with what I know when I first moved overseas.
Great topic today! I finally felt like SOMEONE understands. Thank all of you for your comments 💌 This really made my day! (People in SC aren't even aware that other countries have their own currencies...Lost in the South)
Thanks for sharing. Great advice. I've found the most important thing is to form social friends based on particular things we like to do. In my badminton, squash, sports and entrepreneurship. Facebook groups are a good source of local connections.
Exxellent guys.
On relationship glue, I don't adhere to this either at home or away.
It gives me total freedom.
That is the area in the Philippines that I would like to retire.
You missed one topic: healthcare.
You mentioned medicine but not healthcare. The Philippines is currently no. 89 in terms of healthcare in the world. Plus, it's expensive to get treatment for serious conditions. I know some Filipinos in the States who are holding back from coming there to retire, because they have friends or family members afraid of or actually bankrupted by the steep costs of healthcare treatments there. If I am correct, you have to pay upfront when going to an emergency room before a doctor can see you. I don't know if that is still true. So I would like your perspective on this. Healthcare checkups are cheap there, but that's different from an actual sickness or accident where you need to spend more. It's the only thing holding back some Filipinos from retiring there.
Most developing countries do NOT have any obligation to treat you if you do not have a way to pay the bill. In the West, a foreign tourist could walk off the plane and get into an accident and any hospital he is taken to, has to treat him no questions asked.
However in the Philippines or even in India it is scary if you don't have means to pay for any potential treatment, they will refuse to treat you.
I remember a British guy talked about getting into a motorcycle accident in India. They assumed he was dead and he woke up in a morgue. It was a nightmare waking up in very dirty morgue with bodies all over the place and blood and other bodily functions all over the walls. They took him to a government hospital and he waited for hours for treatment. He was able to speak a little by then, and asked to be taken to a private hospital. When he got there they refused to treat him until they were able to verify he had insurance. In the meantime he was in incredible pain with his pounding headache and begged them for anything for the pain but they refused to administer anything. The doctor kept yelling at him that they need his insurance information. He was finally was able to recall his parents phone number and they reluctantly called his parents in the UK and got what they needed and only then did they start treating him. Since he had excellent NHS coverage with a cheap travel insurance policy he got the best treatment the hospital could offer. He was stabilized and then put on a direct flight in First Class, with a large bottle of Valium and Oxicodone. Since his insurance was paying for every thing they gave him all the medications his insurance would pay for. Since he was in a wheelchair customs never bothered to search him. Everything was covered by NHS and a cheap travel policy he had. He was thrilled to have a year's supply of "happy drugs" from India.
This is the only reason I have not been able to leave the US as I also have a few chronic illnesses. I find it strange that a lot of YTer barely mention it and then you hear of lots of horror stories.
@@Dan-xx5jq Thanks for sharing. That's the ugly reality we don't see on YT. For me, healthcare is the top priority when I move around.
Haha that's why you see so many people on gofundme trying to get enough to pay their bills. I try to consider health care which is why countries like Thailand and Malaysia are so popular. Best is to self insure or having good health/travel insurance
@@AuntyJack123 I'm curious to know what kind of healthcare THailand has.
So trueand yes you have to pay first at least 50k pesos before someone moves to do something.
"I'm not as drawn to it as before" Yes! that's exactly what happened for me also.
Love your content but the background dog barking is the biggest reason I couldn’t live there long term. It’s just too noisy for my preferences. I could maybe do a high rise in Cebu or Manila.
Locals just don’t hear it, used to tuning out.
Those high rise are a pain, when there is an earthquake.
Mabuhay
To be honest, I don't think I ever see myself living in the Philippines due to the noise issues. It's not something that I adjusted to in my month long trip several years ago.
Sometimes a restaurant or bar can be a total different experience depending on when you go in. One night there might be a birthday or wedding party and you enjoy the music and the next night you might not like the music or experience.
Great video, looking to experience all those and grow while traveling! New experiences, new adventures, new wonderful people!
Great points made - both by Dan & Qiang as well as in the comments. My uncomfortable truths: being in new surroundings (both exciting and a little anxiety inducing), sorting out my essential needs once I decide where to be, and social engagement. Some family/friends give a perplexed look when I tell them I'm considering retiring overseas, with comments like "why would you leave?" or "I could never do that!" I would surely miss loved ones as well as some conveniences and efficiencies in Western world living, but there's much to discover out there and the experiences mean more to me than material "things." What may work well for someone else may not be ideal for you. Just find your happy place as soon as you can and enjoy your new life.
All great points. But what some people (not all) discover is that they can maintain tight relationships after decades. You will be surprised what a week or two every other years and a few phone calls a year buys you overseas. You might find that people don't really need constant contact to feel loved.
That's our goal. To live simple and moderately at the same time not having to work til we are 70. But our situation is different from some others at that my wife is a Filipina who's been working and contributing to her retirement and SS here in the states. So we won't be solely living off one income/retirement when we move to the Philippines in 3 years.
thanks for visiting us again enjoy!👍👏🇵🇭
I’ve thought about moving overseas for years but never pulled the trigger….one of my friends in the USA insisted that if I moved and became an expat I would have my social security payments rescinded…..
good advise, one thing that I would like to add is having pets. We all love our pets, but sometimes there is a big problem, lots of countries have rules and regulations regarding transport of animals on public transportation which can be a major pain. A good friend of mine here in Thailand is heartbroken ,that in order for him to return to his home country he would need to abandon his beloved dog. this is actually a common problem quarantines etc. Another thing that people need to think about is gardening, it's hard to leave yourplants behind also! As soon as my Thai retirement visa expires in November I will be coming Dumaguete, how is the walkability? Would Valencia be better
I am looking forward to that big adventure, i am explorer been too 27 states and 2 countries, i am frugal and considering i am living on 1100 a month atm i think i can survive on that over there lol. I rarely drink except for coffee that's my addiction hahaha and considering i have been single over 20 years i think loneliness is the least of my worries.
Retotrd expat from the US. Lost my Wife of 44 years to cancer 3/2017.
Had to regroup. Moved to Thailand 7/2018.
Met a great Thai women, we've been together ever since.
Haven't missed the US for a moment. Every day is great and an adventure.
Congratulations! I prefer Thailand over the Philippines more each day. The language is my challenge. Where are you located?
@scottytv1 we're in Trang. Few foreigners. Ok with me. People here are great.
Some good points made here. Of course, as an American, living in America, it's very easy for me to solve any kind of a problem because I know how the system functions and I know who to contact. Being somewhat technical, I can also solve technical issues, such as phone, TV, computer etc. on my own, without having to call tech support. Dealing with bureaucracy is also easy, when you know what is expected. Even abroad, if I need answers, I can Google them or go to TH-cam for answers.
When I am traveling, I don't usually hang out with expats unless I need an answer to some specific question that I can't get from locals.
Part of understanding different cultures is hanging out with locals and eating their foods. I certainly wouldn't go to Macdonald's.
I don't go to Macdonald's when I am in the States. I think their burgers suck. Give me Fuddruckers any day,
What's funny about Macdonald's is that in the States it's considered poor man's food but when you to China, for instance, it has a Starbucks vibe and is visited by middle class Chinese and the prices are three times higher compared to good Chinese food.
As far as communication is concerned, one has to be on the same frequency to communicate well, even speaking mother tongue.
If you don't speak other languages, you can still communicate with people that are on the same frequency. You may need a few hundred words in that language, but it's ok.
As to the past, it's about having established roots. People that grow up together and stay in the same community normally understand each other better but even that changes with time. People change and get immersed into their lives and new problems.
The key is to have an open mind and be curious about the world and others. Learning is a never-ending process.
The thing about loneliness is that you have to believe in yourself and your ability to stay busy and have enough interests that you have no time to feel sorry about yourself.
Sure, it's more enjoyable to watch a sunset together but I rather watch it by myself rather than share it with just anybody. I rather be alone but I am not lonely. When the right person comes along, I'll be happy to embrace that new role.
If you move around a lot, you learn to be a sponge and a chameleon, you develop certain routines, no matter where you are at and you will be fine.
Half of my life I spent with women and the other I have spent alone (not chronologically) and I feel just fine.
I just watched Arnold, the documentary, and was reminded how an extrovert can become an introvert.
As far as medicine is concerned, in most of Asia and South and central America, you can get stuff over the counter, as long as you know what you need. Tylenol is a brand but all you have to say is the generic root for it, paracetamol ( Spanish speaking countries ) or acetaminophen ( English speaking countries ).
No matter where you are, it's good to find an affordable health insurance and you will be covered for more serious things.
Anyway, no fear, face into the sun and the wind and Bon Voyage!
I recently got into a hard time in Mexico: At a "drug" store, medicine, not drugs, are sold. USA has medicare part d: Drugs, not medicine. Perfectly understandable, except it was me traveling. it was on me to have known culture.
I lived in India for five months. My (at that time) fiancé was working six days a week and I did get very lonely. I decided to go to a school there to learn Tibetan. It gave me a purpose and a little social experience. I spent a lot of time on my own. I loved it though. I am back in the states and my (now) husband arrived last year.It's been an adjustment and we miss India. I like living in Asia.English with Hindi accent is really difficult so Learned simple words that helped. I do agree that if you see new countries as an experience of adventure and curiousity, you will do better. I have found the world is a friendly and welcoming place once you open up.
I'm an American expat sitting here in Vietnam (18 years away from California) watching this, and re learning some gems from you guys. Thanks for these vids.. I hope I will one day meet a lady like Chung. She's a really intelligent openminded and hip lady, as well as beautiful. ;-)
Hi Mike here from Uk. Have been travelling short holidays for 12 years. This time 6 weeks away. Learning on the way new tricks. I jot down on my phone every day my experiences, not everything just the big things.And each time i exchange cash or ATM. now in ubon spending spending 800 baht a day. Also gives me a record of my travels.
Good Food for Thought as We plan to Retire in PI in 4 to 5 years from now!! I will have an adventuristic attitude and with some of my Wife’s family around lean on for advice. But im prepared to have fun being immersed intoa new culture. Life’s A Garden, Dig It!
Great observations. I have experienced much of this (but to a lesser extent) just moving from small town midwest to other parts of USA.
You both are giving great content and advise for people like myself now 67 years old who want to make the changes in my life for the future to enjoy with a life partner. This is one of your best videos that I’ve seen that will directly relate to me and my planning purposes. I wish you both the best for your futures, and hope to see you both one day and and share this time to cherish together. Best always Steven
You two are wonderful. Your videos are excellent. Keep it up. Thank you very much for your awesome content. I hope to one day join you in your exploration of this beautiful world.
I have watched some other "retire cheap" channels and they are not nearly as comprehensive or open as you are. I do not spend spend spend when I travel to more affordable places. In fact I save up money so I can afford to travel back to the US and visit/help family. Thank you Dan for all your down to earth realisic videos that don't mislead people into making bad decisions. I too have found that by being away I am disconnected with friends and family. I am not always up to date with currentl local affairs.
Hello George, thank you for your personal note of encouragement. It really does make a difference for us when we know people appreciate what we are doing. Your comments also cause TH-cam to show our video to more people so your note is like paying us a small tip $$ for our time. Thank you, Dan
SHOUT OUT FROM GERONA TARLAC I DONT FIND IT DIFFCULT WE BUILT A HOUSE AND RETIRED HERE LIVING THE DREAM HAVE NO REGRETS WE DID OUR RESEARCH
For instance
I'm Spanish speaker as a mother tongue. I've been in most south America and Central, and now in Cadiz (deep Andalusia) I had to learn Spanish from scratch
Great content
All the best to all
Great video thank you.
I found when I returned home to Australia recently after 2 years and 7 countries a reverse culture shock. I had been in no western countries and realised things are not quite as great at home as I thought before I left. Inflation, politics and social norms were fairly negative from my point of view.
For budget we have savings at the moment but live as though we're on the Australian pension which is very low. We live in the countryside south west of Bangkok out with the cows and chickens.
I found the topic of personal care and medicines very interesting too. Each country finding the things that you need and make you feel at home anywhere 😊
australian pensions are low? with the prices of things in oz you would think otherwise. Perhaps thats why there are so many aussie retiree's in thailand? I've seen a few people complain of aussie govt regulation regarding retirement abroad and having to come back to australia to prove you're alive to the pension office or something like that. I also just saw on Foreigner Joe's youtube channel where an aussie couple had their bank seize their accounts with no written warning. The bank had a problem or didn't like transactions coming from thailand so they moved the money offline. This is even when they told the bank that they were in thailand. I hope that guy was the exception perhaps because he had a big bank balance
Love this style of vlogging! Love this channel! Thank you for all you both do! ❤
Ciao.
Nice video. honest and helpful. Thank you.
I am retired and with my wife we love Asia,
We have been to Asia many times but never for more than 3 or 4 weeks
We would like to live part of our retirement in Asia, but one of the things that worries us is our basic and poor English.
Our English is good for short conversations, but not good for having relationships or not good for something serious
for a native English speaker it is never a problem, but for others mediocre English language can be a restraint
Grazie del video. Ciao from Italy
I was born and raised in Germany and moved to France 30 years ago. What happens a lot, and I've had other people who live abroad confirm it, is that sometimes I think that after all these years in France I'm still *so* German but whenever I return to my home country for a visit, I realize how French I have become. I have lived in two different worlds and I feel like I'm a part of both countries, but at the same time I feel like I belong to neither one of them. I don't know if this makes sense.
I ❤this couple, Their teamwork and perseverance were impressive.keep it up guys!
Love the blue that you guys were wearing in the video 😊
Dan and Qiang, that was just a great vlog; such important points you mentioned. And who would have thought you were in PH?
(didn't hear any crowing roosters or barking dogs! well done!)
Great video as usual! How flexible you are will determine how easily you transition living in a new country and culture. Living in Thailand I think there must be a mountain of paperwork somewhere as everything is multiple pages signatures etc. Just go with the flow give them what they want and accept it's just a different way of doing things. Then enjoy the wonderful benefits of living in a new country.
I have the feeling, when you are both talking, that the two of you have merged into one entry. Such wonderful agreement! Congratulations!!! May your love last forever.
Another major concern is currency fluctuation.
True. And the potential for political upheaval.
I would call it a variable, not a major concern - depending on where your originating funds come from, and where you are living.
Low income countries will never accelerate at a rate fast enough to catch up to more advanced economies. Inflation can go crazy in some countries, but as an expat or someone living away - you can always look for other places to live.
I am from Brazil and lived outside for 32 years and I have been back for 7 months. I used to come back every 2 years or so. Nobody asked anything about the US. If anything was interesting about some product I could bring it back and sell it cheaper.
You are right about which perspective you choose upon entering anything, such as retiring abroad. Regardless of situation we have a choice how to perceive it and there are really only 2 ways. They are either positive or negative (or intoxicated as I have witnessed so many time with expats) And that creates no change except organ failure. 🤕
Learning the art of perceiving change in positive light means you can make it enjoyable. The fact is living stress free and in contentment with what is rather than complaining must create for you much more curiosity, wonder, delight, joy. If one isn't familiar with how to employ things like "feel the fear and do it anyway", gratitude, self-forgiveness, patience then it's probably time to learn as it reveals your existence the miracle that it is. The world awaits💚🤩😍
Hi Dan, have you ever visited England? I’ve looked through your videos and couldn’t find anything on a visit to the UK. I live on the south coast of England in the seaside resort of Worthing. The cost of living here is quite high, but I have found a flat where all the bills are included in the rent. My parents are living in my house and I have said they can stay there until the end. I don’t want to live with elderly parents so renting suits me fine as we both have different schedules. I retired at 55 and love living by the sea. The good deals are out there, you just have to look for them and I think that applies to anywhere in the world. Very often the best deals are not advertised and sometimes you can find them by accident. Thanks Alan 😊
10 times. I don't share England. Too expensive.
Good info! Y’all make a great team
Hey Dan, love your content! I was wondering if you have a video or could make a video about your luggage and packing for slow travel? I know this can vary widely, but I’m planning an extended tour through Southeast Asia and am struggling with the right way to pack. I won’t be my first Trip like this, but in the past, I’ve traveled super light and ultimately regretted not bringing some creature comforts with me. Also wondering about keeping your passport, bank cards, computers and camera equipment safe when you’re out and about. Thanks in advance!!
Google this "TH-cam Vagabond Awake Packing"
You two are looking fabulous. Looking 28 and 48 respectively, lol. Life is good for you like always. I look forward to meeting you again whether there or another local. You there two months, that's great. I will likely meet you in Dumaguete. Loneliness won't be a problem for me as I make new friends every day when I travel abroad. Flexibility and adaptability is key. See you soon!
As you know I will be in Manila, Makati and Baguio first, then Puerto Galera, all based on your recommendations! then perhaps south to your area by the end of July. So radical that our Bali interview has nearly 500,000 views so far. Amazing!
You guys are amazing, thank you so much for sharing these uncomfortable truths
Our pleasure!
Pleasure to listen to your comments and mutual respect for esch other. Yes, native country friends/relatives unable to understand your experience living overseas due to inability to see outside their reslity.
After 40 yrs marriage to Thai I blessed that she was wise enough to tolerate my slow learning on relationship. You two are great.
My buddy married to Filipina also shared common sense afvice:
"Remember where you are" on my confusion visiting PI. So do not judge reality overseas to your original country ! Easy does it?
Great video guys- definitely challenges when you travel let alone move to a foreign country!
Thanks for sharing. I have experienced some of those uncomfortable truths, even for short trips. Like you said, trying to find a replacement for Tylenol. I take my own now. It can be a little ruff sometimes, but you have to take a deep breath. Every thing will be fine.
I can’t wait to retire- in 2 years! Maybe we will even meet? My first stops are Bali, Cambodia, possibly Georgia?
Good content thanks for sharing 👍
Lot of good points Dan and Qiang
Great format, love the experience shared from you! I also made it to other countries a lot and have now family ties to South America - right now I live still in Europe and over there, same time. But the next step planned is to completely move over. So it's very interesting to hear your experiences.
Thanks Dan... BTW, curious what type of camera you are using ⁉ It is excellent video quality...
I’ve enjoyed foreign travel but the thought of moving overseas like a fish out of water outsider repels me. My retirement dream would be local small town where I belong close to my children and hopefully future grandchildren
If I was you, I would go to the intended retirement place many times before retiring there. Spend significant time there first before you commit.
Good info. Anything and everything maybe suit or good for anyone but not for everyone.
Living in the country like phil throw bad things and your ego bring along with you are positive life just live a simple life, you have this freedom, freedom to choose, family is our first priority i just saw some have mental and social issues sometimes we have to get relax in some slow pace of life no need to get rush if you have a freedom, love, respect you will be happy...
Love this. Thanks!
Hi guys. Where exactly in Duma are you staying? I'm moving there late July. And how much is your rent?
Thanks, been following you for a long while. I was going to be a vagabond until meeting a lovely philipina and as I have been going to PH for 40 years, decided to choose it as my new home
Have watched many of your videos and have not always greed with some things, but today the first thing that we 100% agree on is this notion of saving each month even 10% of a retirement income if for no other reason to offset inflationary costs or exchange rate fluctuations. I for one think this is a no brainer. Even renting a place that's 10% less is a way to save. Another thing to consider is say Thailand cooking home the cost of electric and gas versus eating out you may find it's cheaper to eat out than to buy groceries and have higher utilities. I think you have to have something to do to keep your mind and body occupied. For me I love the exercise/gym, learn the language, and find time to read books I always wanted to; that's plenty in any day. Forget gardening, golf, or fishing, limit your activities retirement is not a 100% holiday.
It depends how easily you meet people. How many interests you have. How good you are at learning languages and adapting to a new culture.
Who cares about what goes on back home?
I see men in America, married to fat, bossy women …who spend all their money. If they were in other countries they wouldn’t even talk to a woman like that. In lots of foreign countries there are younger women who are nice, feminine and easy going.
In western countries they are like a unicorn.
Wow! Qiang has never looked better! 🤗
Aguacate is sometimes "palta". Even 'verde pino' which is most fun!!!
Great video - very helpful. Thanks so much for sharing your info.
I love your honesty. It’s very refreshing and insightful. I feel imposter syndrome even when I go back to Kentucky after living in Las Vegas for 30 years…can’t imagine what it will be like when I retire (soon?!) and travel the world!
Great video, thank you. 💚
Thank you too
Please don’t get to drugs, Mixed up aspirin and Panadol. completely two different things and use for different ailments. One is a blood thinner as well.
In Australia we call Paracetamol Panadol which is a brand name, and the same for ibuprofen we call Nurofen also a brand name.
I've been watching you for a couple of years now. Just turned 40. 5 more years and I'll be on the move. Thank you for all the information, both of you.
"Say Hi" phone app is an awesome translator.
Great information folks! It's good to see you back in the Philippines again!
wow that looks familiar Camlann Cottages at the back corner? My asawa and me were there in March awesome place
Awesome- love ❤️ Dumaguete mate!
I am laser focused on early retirement and moving to The Philippines!! I love Davao and should live easily on $2000. Per month. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you guys, great presentation.
My San Diego rent is $3,100. Somehow, I think I'll be just fine in the Philippines. I'm an old hand at overseas life.
Very valuable video! New subscriber! Thank You both!
I know EXACTLY what you mean with the imposter in your own life thing when you go back home. You explained it very well and it's good to hear someone else talk about it.
Great video Chung and Dan.
Thank you two for leading this topic to consider. It helps me to frame some of the things I notice as I travel and see that I have to adjust in different circumstances. Big help🎉
Quite enlightening, thank you both.