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FUN FACT: Lost 12 pounds throughout my island travels within 28 days venturing the Philippines, without ANY consideration of diet! There was some distance walking, but nothing at the pace of fitness. Am guessing an absence of processed sugars and preservatives (minus Red Horse and Tanduay! ) but it remains a positive mystery. Keep up the good reporting!
Buster - I have an Identical experience as you when it comes to losing weight when I arrive in PH. 5 kg minimum loss, which is 12lbs. Interesting that I am not the only one. BTW, no change in lifestyle.
Diet is a choice.....you can eat meat or fish fresh caught from the sea...so as veggies grown organic from small farms......but you must live out in the country and not the unhealthy crowded city.
Pea, It is one man's opinion that your videos should be required viewing for those who are intending to either visit or plan on moving to the Philippines. Please keep up the good work.
For those that have never been to the Philippines, or other third world countries, the lack of infrastructure will probably come as a big shock. Roads that aren't maintained, regular interruptions in basic utilities, Inernet speeds that will remind you of the old dial-up days, and a general lack of amenities that you take for granted in the West. The Philippines is not just a destination, but a state of mind. 😉
Well said! I have to admit most don't talk about the lack of proper garbage collection is a big one....People treat it different than in the states. Stray animals will rip spread any trash bags open and dumpsters were not a thing....We had 1 blue trash US residential can for a 5 story apartment building that I stayed in....They simply told me to line the back of the building with my trash and it would be picked up by collectors. Different to say the least.
I live in northern europe. I have been in the Philippines a number of times. For me the great things with the Philippines is to not have freezing degrees outside 4-5 months a year, friendly people who actually talk to each other (up here people are very reserved) and that you can help people who are really in need - homeless in the street, help an orphenage or something similar.
That’s beautiful that you added the part about how you can Give back while there. Even small gestures of kindness and generosity can go a long way over there. Take care
@@matthiasherfert1342 No, if I was I would be out sunbathing wearing bathing shorts when it is -25 degrees Celcius. They are badass when it cmes to cold.
NEVER EVER tired of hearing these Pearls of Wisdom from those, such as yourself Pea, who know what they are talking about! I always apply things such as you shared here in my own life. Maraming Salamat!!
Hi Pea, good evening. I actually understand foreigners not being able to own land in the Philippines. The way I look at it is if a bunch of foreigners buy up the cheap costing land in the Philippines 🇵🇭, Filipinos may not be able to afford any land for themselves. When you have a shortage of land available the price of land skyrockets. So I agree the Philippines 🇵🇭 are doing the right thing for its people. In reality, every country should look out for their own citizens first. That's my opinion, good or bad.
My brother in law farms 600 acres there. Cheap land is a myth. He just bought another 12 acres at $8600.00 USD an acre. Higher than prime Iowa corn land.
Cheap land myth: Father in law has beachfront property next to a resort.14 acres. He turned down $340,000.00 USD offer..... In their culture land has more value than gold(it's an island nation) and is to be held for future generations. There is "cheap" land: usually on the side of a mountain and so steep you can't walk on it. Condo's are cheap: if you like crazy high population densities.Single family homes are "cheap": if you're OK with your neighbor raising 20+ pigs on the other side of your fence.....
@George My Filipina wife and I just purchased 1 Hectare for a little farm. The lawyer told me that he was adding me (American with a permanent ACR card) to the new land title along with my wife. He further explained that in the event of her passing the land would be mine. I think this would prevent any of her family from trying to make a claim on the land but I don't really know what would happen if I would try to sell it later. ps. We used the services of a land agent - think realtor - she was paid 5% of the total purchase price paid for by the seller. We spent two months together looking to find the right fit.
I love your videos. They are informative sprinkled with a dash of humor. No negativity or bashing. Keep doing the outstanding work you do. Much respect!!!!
Get familiar with the exits before you get on the plain ... I love it !!! Very good advice . I say : Victory loves preparation . ( Amat victoria curam )
My plans for when I make my first long term visit: 1. Hire a lawyer that can respond to my issues regardless of what island I'm on, as soon as I land to help handle any issues 2. Make sure my healthcare is valid and gets me the care I expect 3. Move every few weeks until I have experienced a good variety of the Philippine culture and people 4. Find a place I'd be happy to live in for 6+ months and experience it from that perspective 5. Evaluate how to move forward from here
Yes, the Philippines has a lot of variety, even on Luzon alone, let alone the southern islands. I loved Baguio, although it seems as though the town has grown quite a bit.
I love and appreciate the unique experience in the Philippines. There are rough places like any other country but out of all the countries I've been to, filipinos are the most welcoming, as long as you don't commit taboos, break laws and disrespect anyone of course. And a small unexpected gift can really make anyones day.
I left Puerto Rico and traveled for 26 hours to Puerto Rico(Phillipines). When I showed my daughter the videos via WhatsApp she said”That’s Santurce!”. Phillipines is almost the same as Puerto Rico, including the traffic jams! I felt I never left the island😂
Excellent advise from a very knowledgeable, and beatiful young lady, with a great sense of humor, and backs up advise from experts. I love this common sense approach and never tire of her new videos.
Clever perceptive "Telling it like it is" as usual. The Pea creates insightful advice that sounds plain and simple The show always has super high production and research standards behind every simple sounding word. Well done!
Just got back from 3 weeks in Cebu, Bohol and Negros Oriental. I’ll be back as much as I can. Too many people focus on the third world country aspect when the first class people and amazing beaches and jungle areas are freaking amazing!
Totally agree, seems like the ones that have money to burn are the ones that actually get burned. Before going to PI, check your ego at your country before boarding the plane.
Excellent episode. Sometimes viewers don't need to be entertained but want reliable information. I'm not interested in finding a new lover, I want to learn about the average person and their way of life. You do a wonderful job.
1. Don't fall in love with a girl you never met in person. 2. Force yourself to date at least ten girls in the Philippines before you pick one (or pick three), even if you think you already met the girl of your dreams. Don't worry, she's not going to drop you if she thinks you are meeting other girls. You may be surprised to find her trying harder to keep you. 3. Don't try to hold her hand, kiss her, or hug her in public (except maybe a dark empty movie theater). PDA is not a thing there and it will make her uncomfortable. Save the action for the hotel room, you won't be disappointed. 4. Don't take a province girl to a western or any non-Filipino restaurant. She won't know what to eat and won't like it. Best results will be had by feeding her fried chicken, rice, and more rice. 5. Don't assume the girl you met is a distinct individual. She is part of a cult-like interdependent collective known as her family. She has no opinions or feelings or thoughts that were not provided to her by her mother or other family members. It's not that they are controlling her, it's like they are all one organism and each person is an appendage of that organism.
Couldn't date more than 1 Lady at a time though...The US gals conditioning Would Give us Nightmares Needing Boxes of EAR Plugs a faster car, a pair of Nike s and a distress flare to start....
@@wayneONvolarte That's the "oneitis" Pea is warning about. If you want better relationships I recommend reading "How to be a 3% man" by Corey Wayne. It's even free if you sign up on his site. If you commit to a girl after just one date, you are, respectfully, a doormat, and she will treat you that way.
Good evening, Pea ( 7a.m. in west Texas). Wonderful advice and I hope your watchers take it seriously. Different laws and culture. Just because your an American, doesn't mean that you still have your constitutional rights, you left that behind when you left the country. I've lived in multiple foreign countries and each is different. If you can't adapt, stay where you are. Take care and I'll see you Friday.
I Love your channel, your wisdom and your wit FP. I have learned a lot from you. I'm coming, can't think of anything now that can stop me, and it's not for sex lol. I've been planning and researching this move for 6 years. I retired at a young age, 23 years ago. Have luved in 9 of America's states, mostly in Texas, mostly on the Texas Gulf Coast. But have lived in other countries also, and my final move will be there. I have no family left here in America but have a new family, a pretty large family there. I'm really getting anxious to live in your country, as the well behaved guest of the wonderful people of Philippines, enjoying a more relaxed way of life, and enjoying the hot weather, year round. I get more excited as the time nears!!!
I really love that I found your channel. Last time I was there was in 1989. It has changed a lot and have built up greatly. I'll be there next year, but my first stop will be Thailand. You are really smart for your age. You speak as if you’re in your 50’s but yet you look late 20’s or early 30’s. You’re very wise for your age.
Pea, thank you for your sincere analysis of what a foreigner might expect in the Philippines. I was there in January and encountered many of these senarios. As a vet, I encountered some of these same scenarios on active duty, the only difference being most would be resolved and life continued on. I guess my biggest concern is living on the 25th floor of a condo during a brown out with no word on when power would be restored. The next time I go, I'll bring some camping equipment purchased from an REI store here in Albuquerque. 😊
I've lived a very full life, Pea.. been blessed in so many ways. It's a long story, but I feel like most everything I've experienced has led & prepared me for life as an expat in the PH... Thank you for all you do -- your quality, comprehensive content has helped me confirm this. The time will soon arrive for me to put this to the ultimate test... I hope our paths cross -- I'd love to give you a great big hug! 🥰
As always, you're advice is really insightful & beautifully expressed Pea. The particular insight I hadn't considered is that the peoples of different islands in the Philippines behave differently because the culture is not uniform across the islands. I remember you have addressed this before but I had forgotten it. The cultural split that is always emphasised is the city/province difference and the poor/educated distinction. Now I understand that the Philippines is actually an archipelago of different cultures too & I need to be alive to this when I explore.
All Valid Points Pea. Some people are just too in a rush to do things that they can't get out of their own way fast enough to take a breath and figure out all the things that could go right, and could go wrong. The reference to the Highlander was subtle, and I thought it was great. One thing out of this list you presented that should be first on the agenda for anyone looking to migrate to another country and culture should be to take an extended vacation to the place first, to get the lay of the land, the rhythm and flow of the life in the new place. It's like running the engine without oil, without it you won't be running on all cylinders for very long. A very wise man told me once that to calculate your success for something just figure out how prepared you are for your endeavor and take the opportunity when you are prepared and you will have success. Another great topic Pea, can't wait for Friday's video already.
Great video Pea. The best advice if considering moving to the Philippines is to slow down which you emphasized right away. Arrive with no strings attached because a Filipina will distort little Johnny into thinking for you. This is what you did as a teenager. Check out numerous locations, the prople, the social construct, night life, beaches, waterfalls, nature and proximity to the activities you enjoy doing. The easiest part will be finding a good Filipina that is who you truly want. Please don't be mesmerized by the beautiful Fililpina because she easily could be a wolf in sheep's clothing. Just like in the country you are coming from all women are diffetent. Good luck to all.
This video was really good and informative. You mentioned a few things that I was pretending to ignore to myself. I am still thinking about going there, but I think I will just visit first.
Hi Pea and readers, I’m in the Philippines 🇵🇭 atm, 3 month long service leave. Listening to this, I have to say YES x 12. Spot on in every point. Trying to buy a salad or vegetables with your meal ….. hmmmmm good luck with that, sure you can go to the market and buy your own vegetables, and cook something at home, but going out to local street food or restaurants, not that easy. to expand on a couple of your points, my thoughts are: Find affordable accommodation for a month in a place that you want to explore, do day trips of 2/3 nights away from the base to learn about the area. Explore the Filipina around your base. Next month find another base and explore / repeat. Something to think about. 20:53
I really appreciate your videos. I’m moving from the US to the Philippines in the next 2 months . My plan is to stay for 6 months to give it a real try. I was in Cebu about a year ago and I enjoyed it. I know living somewhere as opposed to visiting is totally different, that why I wanted to come back for six months. Keep up the good work!
As usual, great advice! I live and own properties in Costa Rica and Panama. Your advice pertains to these countries, and any other countries! I have even adjusted to sometimes, eating beans and rice, for breakfast, lunch and dinner.🙂
Brilliant once more Pea. You reminded me of many many lessons I learned in my 4 years here. Luckily for me I adapt quickly to changes. I have also lived in Canada during some very hard times. I remind myself ot those times whenever we get into a "cash flow" situation here and adapt accordingly on our 40k pesos/month. I/we like just like all the Filipinos around me/us and simply smile and have fun, being thankful for how fortunate we truly are. ❤️
You could probably do a full video on personal safety. I've got one tip aimed at us loner types. The sooner you develop a local circle of friends that care about you staying alive, the longer you'll live. Life insurance is fairly common in the west. In a poor country, the last thing you want to do is get yourself into a situation where you are worth more to the people around you dead than alive.
You also don't know heat until you move to southeast Asia or the Philippines. It's been about 38° or so but with the humidity the feels like temperature is about 45°. Sure, the deep south in the US is similar but the summers here last much longer. Also, when driving, the roads are organized chaos.
That's exactly how I describe driving there when people would ask me about it organized chaos not to mention the deadly potholes and dogs an occasional road that just well ends or sections missing
Pea, Absolutely fantastic advice. It amazes me how many people don't plan or look into the ventures they think about. Moving from one city to another, or one state to another here in the US is nothing like moving to another Country all together. You touched on several of the biggest considerations ( economy, laws and restrictions ). I've been researching a few different Countries for a couple years and am finally down to 2, Costa Rica or the Philippines. I haven't been to the Philippines in years, but am planning a trip there this year. I'm fortunate enough to have an uncle that is from the Philippines and he and my aunt own property there ( my aunt was stationed there in the 60s ). This doesn't mean it will be easier to decide though. Only that I have some relatives there ( that I haven't seen in 35 years...lol ). So, come September, I'll be coming to visit. Thank you for the open and honest videos. It's a breath of fresh air.
Hi Pea, I totally agree that the most important thing is to spend an extended period somewhere you're planning to move to and make sure it's a good fit. I think as well travelling around your destination country is a good idea as well, those who struggle with the heat may be better off in the mountains where it's a bit cooler. My previous travels in Thailand and Cambodia suggest that I would actually be able to lose weight there as the heat seems to suppress my appetite and I tend to eat less. There are days of course where it does just seem too hot to do anything but then you can always go for a stroll in the evening when it will be cooler. I definitely agree though that cooking your own food is the way to go to avoid excess sugar and fat.
I think I'd lose weight as well. I grew up in the southeastern US, so I'm used to the heat and humidity, but would end up doing more than sitting behind a desk at work all day. I was in the PI in February for 3 weeks and lost 10 pounds.
Hi sis. Great vid!! I'll add this advice. When you first get there, have arranged an air BNB or apt already lined up. Hotels are cheaper there but the costs quickly add up if you're island hopping. Eating out is another thing that will eat up your money. Pention houses are good options. Try to stay in 1 place for at least 6 weeks to absorb the local flavor before you move on to another spot that's at least 200km away. Good luck and Holy Father bless😊 1 more thing I should add. Some things in the Philippines are indeed cheaper than your country, SOME THINGS!! For your first month or 6 weeks. Have at least 3k USD in your pocket with access to another 2 available. The first month is ALWAYS the most expensive.
Thanks, Pea very good video with a lot of helpful comments. I would say there's one you missed and that's with getting your finances in order with respect of taking money out of Filipina banks and not paying a charge for that. Like Wells Fargo has a savings plan where if you put enough money in when you go to take money out from a foreign bank you won't pay that fee. So that is something to think about as you'll be taking money out of banks quite a lot when you first get there and then throughout living there and not paying that $5 or $7 fee it adds up. Another thought I had is I know it's good to travel light but laptops phones that kind of thing. They're cheaper here in the states so buy yourself a decent phone and actually I would get one on the larger side because a lot of times Wi-Fi is not great and so you'll be using your data plan. So get a large phone even if you don't like it. You'll be glad you did. You touched on this on one of the points but I would say get in the best shape you can for your age and I don't mean all muscular but able to walk for long distances because when you first get to a foreign country you won't know the price of anything and when you go to take transportation it will cost a lot and so being able to walk can save you quite a bit of money. Anyway, it was a great video. That's my two cents about living in foreign country as I lived in southeast Asia about 20 years
I must say, this video is excellent! I am fortunate to have a couple of friends from the Philippines, both residing in Cebu, who have consistently praised it as the ultimate destination for experiencing a somewhat Western lifestyle. It's true. One thing that often goes unnoticed by many is the potential challenges one might face regarding certain rights in the country. However, the main obstacle I perceive is maintaining a steady cash flow. After watching this video, I am considering the idea of relocating to Cebu to join my friends. The only hurdle I need to overcome is finding a reliable monthly income source, as I have yet to establish a retirement fund. Once again, I want to express my sincere appreciation for this fantastic video. It has given me valuable insights and considerations as I contemplate this life-changing decision.
This is very wise advice. She knows what she's talking about. I did spend time in the Philippines. It was all with my then in- laws, a very lovely family. Going back in my own would be a very different experience.
Great advise, Pea! Having lived outside the states for most of my life, I forget how often people expect things to be like home, just with an accent. 😂 Please keep up the good work! Take good care!
Great video, Pia! My Filipina wife and I have two countries- America 🇺🇸 and the Philippines 🇵🇭. Everything you say in this video is 100% true. If you plan to live in the Philippines 🇵🇭 someday, it is best to marry your Filipina there in the Catholic Church. This provides the greatest level of legal protection possible for a foreigner in the Philippines. Marriage is considered an indissoluble union in church law and civil law in the Philippines 🇵🇭. Have your marriage license certified in the Philippines! Later you can navigate the paper work for a permanent visa more easily if you are lawfully married to your Filipina. Also, if you get sacramentally married in the Catholic Church of the Philippines 🇵🇭 you can rest assured that any court isn’t going to entertain annulment proceeding very easily… if at all. If you get married in the Philippines, you better plan on staying married for LIFE! Cultural issues, home-sickness, and diet are all negotiable over time. Those are just facts of life to be dealt with… 😊
i am INC we never have a problem with any legal papers it is interesting because wither your filipino or not we are all the same before god and government no one bothers us
@@MoochieLovesIt I assume you mean “Iglesia Ni Cristo.” Under Philippine law marriage is treated as an indissoluble union because the roots of the civil law are grounded in Catholic canon law. The Philippines 🇵🇭 are a predominantly “Catholic country.” 👍
Insight from the U.K. My brother moved to Manila in the early 1990's and founded a commercial diving business. Today, it is the BIGGEST commercial diving business in the Philippines. It can be done!
Last week I was having a drink with my cousin. We were talking about my recent trip to the Philippines and I said: "If I weren't the only one who can take care of my mother, I would be living in the Philippines now." She looked at me in disbelieve and asked: "Could you really live there?" I know she couldn't, but not everybody is the same. Interesting topic, Pea!
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Myk's Philippine journey is watching you! I hope the Pea's not mad at me du da du da!
I would not go broke in the PI because I don't date 304's or simp for women, even Filipinas!
I can sell myself, just like the bar girls!
I can start a business and call it rent a rich foreigner! I have daily weekly monthly rates, but I do have a no lady boy policy!
Wow, great comment about having an exit strategy if you have to go back home. I didn’t think of that!
27 yrs in the Philippines and I'm still learning.
At least you are 27% there....!
FUN FACT: Lost 12 pounds throughout my island travels within 28 days venturing the Philippines, without ANY consideration of diet! There was some distance walking, but nothing at the pace of fitness. Am guessing an absence of processed sugars and preservatives (minus Red Horse and Tanduay! ) but it remains a positive mystery. Keep up the good reporting!
Buster - I have an Identical experience as you when it comes to losing weight when I arrive in PH. 5 kg minimum loss, which is 12lbs. Interesting that I am not the only one. BTW, no change in lifestyle.
haha! i gained weight! i guess it was probably from going from 2 meals a day to 4-5 :-D
Diet is a choice.....you can eat meat or fish fresh caught from the sea...so as veggies grown organic from small farms......but you must live out in the country and not the unhealthy crowded city.
Not a fun fact
@@watersbey25 Oh, it was fun alrighty. you just missed out on it.
Fools rush in where angels fear to tread. Wise advice!
Pea, It is one man's opinion that your videos should be required viewing for those who are intending to either visit or plan on moving to the Philippines. Please keep up the good work.
Then I really appreciate that one man’s opinion 🤣🤣👍
Gonna have to make that 2 opinions LOL
3 to the pot for flavor. Lol
For those that have never been to the Philippines, or other third world countries, the lack of infrastructure will probably come as a big shock. Roads that aren't maintained, regular interruptions in basic utilities, Inernet speeds that will remind you of the old dial-up days, and a general lack of amenities that you take for granted in the West. The Philippines is not just a destination, but a state of mind. 😉
Yeah... it's great!
Well said! I have to admit most don't talk about the lack of proper garbage collection is a big one....People treat it different than in the states. Stray animals will rip spread any trash bags open and dumpsters were not a thing....We had 1 blue trash US residential can for a 5 story apartment building that I stayed in....They simply told me to line the back of the building with my trash and it would be picked up by collectors. Different to say the least.
@banyagadi-palawan5465 it's great...NOT !!
Very true, Mister Dave 👍👍👍
@@samual3006if you don't like it then stay where you are.
I live in northern europe. I have been in the Philippines a number of times. For me the great things with the Philippines is to not have freezing degrees outside 4-5 months a year, friendly people who actually talk to each other (up here people are very reserved) and that you can help people who are really in need - homeless in the street, help an orphenage or something similar.
That’s beautiful that you added the part about how you can Give back while there.
Even small gestures of kindness and generosity can go a long way over there.
Take care
Are you from Norrbotten?
@@matthiasherfert1342 No, if I was I would be out sunbathing wearing bathing shorts when it is -25 degrees Celcius. They are badass when it cmes to cold.
Pea says, and I quote "One man's paradise is another man's hell" Too bad I did not hear this before the FIRST and ONLY time I got married.
Thanks Pea you really are saving my life here 🙏
a good honest video , but when you understand it , the philippines is amazing im loving my time here
NEVER EVER tired of hearing these Pearls of Wisdom from those, such as yourself Pea, who know what they are talking about! I always apply things such as you shared here in my own life. Maraming Salamat!!
Thanks, my friend! I’m so glad to have you on my side 👍❤️
Very important video. Every future expat should watch it.
Hi Pea, good evening. I actually understand foreigners not being able to own land in the Philippines. The way I look at it is if a bunch of foreigners buy up the cheap costing land in the Philippines 🇵🇭, Filipinos may not be able to afford any land for themselves. When you have a shortage of land available the price of land skyrockets. So I agree the Philippines 🇵🇭 are doing the right thing for its people. In reality, every country should look out for their own citizens first. That's my opinion, good or bad.
Agreed. The US ought to adopt similar laws.
Australia needs the same laws. Every country should do the same thing.
My brother in law farms 600 acres there. Cheap land is a myth. He just bought another 12 acres at $8600.00 USD an acre. Higher than prime Iowa corn land.
Cheap land myth: Father in law has beachfront property next to a resort.14 acres. He turned down $340,000.00 USD offer..... In their culture land has more value than gold(it's an island nation) and is to be held for future generations. There is "cheap" land: usually on the side of a mountain and so steep you can't walk on it. Condo's are cheap: if you like crazy high population densities.Single family homes are "cheap": if you're OK with your neighbor raising 20+ pigs on the other side of your fence.....
@George My Filipina wife and I just purchased 1 Hectare for a little farm. The lawyer told me that he was adding me (American with a permanent ACR card) to the new land title along with my wife. He further explained that in the event of her passing the land would be mine. I think this would prevent any of her family from trying to make a claim on the land but I don't really know what would happen if I would try to sell it later. ps. We used the services of a land agent - think realtor - she was paid 5% of the total purchase price paid for by the seller. We spent two months together looking to find the right fit.
I love your videos. They are informative sprinkled with a dash of humor. No negativity or bashing. Keep doing the outstanding work you do. Much respect!!!!
Get familiar with the exits before you get on the plain ... I love it !!! Very good advice . I say : Victory loves preparation . ( Amat victoria curam )
Takes about a year to settle in here, then the memories of the west fade away, I would never go back, love it here❤️
I’ve made up my mind a year ago. I don’t have any family no wife no kids and I’m getting a little tired of the US.
You will fall in love with the people..
Yes as a man that left the USA 1 1/2 months ago, you will love the people. Male and female.
Anywhere is better than the US right now. Malaysia sounds great right now.
Go Keith. I was in Dumaguete for exploration and it is a nice place.
Make sure you are financially set before moving here ..
My plans for when I make my first long term visit:
1. Hire a lawyer that can respond to my issues regardless of what island I'm on, as soon as I land to help handle any issues
2. Make sure my healthcare is valid and gets me the care I expect
3. Move every few weeks until I have experienced a good variety of the Philippine culture and people
4. Find a place I'd be happy to live in for 6+ months and experience it from that perspective
5. Evaluate how to move forward from here
Looks like a good plan.
Hire a lawyer??? Okay...
No need for a lawyer until after the first year.
@@johnnypastrana6727Who Perry Mason 😅
@tobiasmichaels1050 Definitely I still watch the series now .
Yes, the Philippines has a lot of variety, even on Luzon alone, let alone the southern islands. I loved Baguio, although it seems as though the town has grown quite a bit.
I love and appreciate the unique experience in the Philippines. There are rough places like any other country but out of all the countries I've been to, filipinos are the most welcoming, as long as you don't commit taboos, break laws and disrespect anyone of course. And a small unexpected gift can really make anyones day.
Oh yes, we love our unexpected gifts 🤣
Weeeell, depends on what kind of unexpected gift you mean. Then again I believe those are also welcome. Free visa!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣@@TheFilipinaPea
I left Puerto Rico and traveled for 26 hours to Puerto Rico(Phillipines). When I showed my daughter the videos via WhatsApp she said”That’s Santurce!”. Phillipines is almost the same as Puerto Rico, including the traffic jams! I felt I never left the island😂
Seguro, lo veo. Ambos paises son tropicales y la gente es tranquila.
As with Mexico extremely similar with everything except the idioma.
That beginning!!!🤣🤣🤣
"I left Puerto Rico and traveled 26 hours to Puerto Rico/Philippines." 😆😆😆
Philippines still has better roads. That's the truth
I had to read the first sentence a couple times til I got it. And I DO GET IT!
my pre-move checklist was 2 pages long. For others it could be different, but I started applying my checklist about 9 months before I moved.
I really appreciate an organized and careful man 👍👍👍😊
Great information and tips Pea. Thanks for sharing.
Excellent advise from a very knowledgeable, and beatiful young lady, with a great sense of humor, and backs up advise from experts. I love this common sense approach and never tire of her new videos.
This young lady knows her stuff. Good information and thanks for posting. 💯
Wow wow wow ... beautiful information ... Thank you!
I think you should do a separate video on the challenges / problems with starting a business in the Philippines. I have some ideas that could help.
Clever perceptive "Telling it like it is" as usual.
The Pea creates insightful advice that sounds plain and simple
The show always has super high production and research standards behind every simple sounding word.
Well done!
So good.... so real.... so practical.... Fillpina Pea is the best utuber who explains the Phillipines. Salamat po...
Just got back from 3 weeks in Cebu, Bohol and Negros Oriental. I’ll be back as much as I can. Too many people focus on the third world country aspect when the first class people and amazing beaches and jungle areas are freaking amazing!
Totally agree, seems like the ones that have money to burn are the ones that actually get burned. Before going to PI, check your ego at your country before boarding the plane.
Thanks for the rental and leasing advice. I'll keep that in mind.
The biggest mistakes any one can make is not liking Pea's videos or subscribing to her channel.
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You definitely found one I missed 🤣
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Yup, that don't happen very often. Good thinking Charles!
I think I`m gonna throw up !
Great info Sweet Pea. Thanks x
Excellent episode. Sometimes viewers don't need to be entertained but want reliable information. I'm not interested in finding a new lover, I want to learn about the average person and their way of life. You do a wonderful job.
1. Don't fall in love with a girl you never met in person.
2. Force yourself to date at least ten girls in the Philippines before you pick one (or pick three), even if you think you already met the girl of your dreams. Don't worry, she's not going to drop you if she thinks you are meeting other girls. You may be surprised to find her trying harder to keep you.
3. Don't try to hold her hand, kiss her, or hug her in public (except maybe a dark empty movie theater). PDA is not a thing there and it will make her uncomfortable. Save the action for the hotel room, you won't be disappointed.
4. Don't take a province girl to a western or any non-Filipino restaurant. She won't know what to eat and won't like it. Best results will be had by feeding her fried chicken, rice, and more rice.
5. Don't assume the girl you met is a distinct individual. She is part of a cult-like interdependent collective known as her family. She has no opinions or feelings or thoughts that were not provided to her by her mother or other family members. It's not that they are controlling her, it's like they are all one organism and each person is an appendage of that organism.
Wow..I'm takeing note...and I've been there a long time ago. Thanks
Couldn't date more than 1 Lady at a time though...The US gals conditioning Would Give us Nightmares Needing Boxes of EAR Plugs a faster car, a pair of Nike s and a distress flare to start....
@@wayneONvolarte That's the "oneitis" Pea is warning about. If you want better relationships I recommend reading "How to be a 3% man" by Corey Wayne. It's even free if you sign up on his site. If you commit to a girl after just one date, you are, respectfully, a doormat, and she will treat you that way.
Best comment out of all of them! Well said! Providing for, and giving money to an entire family,,,, That is not mine, is my own private hell! 😂
Thank you. You so made me laugh. ❤
Good evening, Pea ( 7a.m. in west Texas). Wonderful advice and I hope your watchers take it seriously. Different laws and culture. Just because your an American, doesn't mean that you still have your constitutional rights, you left that behind when you left the country. I've lived in multiple foreign countries and each is different. If you can't adapt, stay where you are. Take care and I'll see you Friday.
Very true, Shar 👍😊
Yep I Agree
I will have to add that you are very correct in that. I've been to Saudi Arabia and the laws are very different than say Spain or Cambodia.
I Love your channel, your wisdom and your wit FP. I have learned a lot from you. I'm coming, can't think of anything now that can stop me, and it's not for sex lol. I've been planning and researching this move for 6 years. I retired at a young age, 23 years ago. Have luved in 9 of America's states, mostly in Texas, mostly on the Texas Gulf Coast. But have lived in other countries also, and my final move will be there. I have no family left here in America but have a new family, a pretty large family there. I'm really getting anxious to live in your country, as the well behaved guest of the wonderful people of Philippines, enjoying a more relaxed way of life, and enjoying the hot weather, year round. I get more excited as the time nears!!!
These practical advice videos are good stuff, Pea!
Friday I cannot wait
Whenever my head fills up with fantasy scenarios, you show up to let some air out. Thanks for keeping me grounded.
That’s my job - Official Foreigner Deflater
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I really love that I found your channel. Last time I was there was in 1989. It has changed a lot and have built up greatly. I'll be there next year, but my first stop will be Thailand. You are really smart for your age. You speak as if you’re in your 50’s but yet you look late 20’s or early 30’s. You’re very wise for your age.
Pea, thank you for your sincere analysis of what a foreigner might expect in the Philippines.
I was there in January and encountered many of these senarios.
As a vet, I encountered some of these same scenarios on active duty, the only difference being
most would be resolved and life continued on.
I guess my biggest concern is living on the 25th floor of a condo during a brown out with no word on when power would be restored.
The next time I go, I'll bring some camping equipment purchased from an REI store here in Albuquerque. 😊
I've lived a very full life, Pea.. been blessed in so many ways. It's a long story, but I feel like most everything I've experienced has led & prepared me for life as an expat in the PH... Thank you for all you do -- your quality, comprehensive content has helped me confirm this. The time will soon arrive for me to put this to the ultimate test... I hope our paths cross -- I'd love to give you a great big hug! 🥰
I’d be happy to receive it, Lane 🤣👍❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea Pants on fire lol 😆
One of your best videos, Pea.
I love these videos of caution. Because I want to move to the Philippines, and its good to be aware that it's not all sunshine and rainbows.
excellent,,,, especially the Exit Plan !!!!!
Thanks!
Ahhh, Keith pulls off another generosity ambush 🤣👍❤️
Gee I am broken!
Way to Go Consistant Keith.ya got a great Hart Man
you are correct in everything you say
As always, you're advice is really insightful & beautifully expressed Pea. The particular insight I hadn't considered is that the peoples of different islands in the Philippines behave differently because the culture is not uniform across the islands. I remember you have addressed this before but I had forgotten it. The cultural split that is always emphasised is the city/province difference and the poor/educated distinction. Now I understand that the Philippines is actually an archipelago of different cultures too & I need to be alive to this when I explore.
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Difference tribes, different languages and difference cultures.
Yea, she keeps it 100
Trudat, Real talk& Nuff Said! Thank you filipina Pea. Great informative video. 😊🎉
The grass is always greener….. Thanks for the honest appraisal and good advice Pea 😊
I feel like this advice will help me travelling to any country. thank you Pea, for sharing this valuable knowledge!
All Valid Points Pea. Some people are just too in a rush to do things that they can't get out of their own way fast enough to take a breath and figure out all the things that could go right, and could go wrong.
The reference to the Highlander was subtle, and I thought it was great.
One thing out of this list you presented that should be first on the agenda for anyone looking to migrate to another country and culture should be to take an extended vacation to the place first, to get the lay of the land, the rhythm and flow of the life in the new place. It's like running the engine without oil, without it you won't be running on all cylinders for very long.
A very wise man told me once that to calculate your success for something just figure out how prepared you are for your endeavor and take the opportunity when you are prepared and you will have success.
Another great topic Pea, can't wait for Friday's video already.
You caught the Highlander reference 🤣👍❤️
This video is a real Eye Opener.
The problem with us men is that we think with the wrong head and that’s what gets us in trouble😋
Great video Pea. The best advice if considering moving to the Philippines is to slow down which you emphasized right away. Arrive with no strings attached because a Filipina will distort little Johnny into thinking for you. This is what you did as a teenager. Check out numerous locations, the prople, the social construct, night life, beaches, waterfalls, nature and proximity to the activities you enjoy doing. The easiest part will be finding a good Filipina that is who you truly want. Please don't be mesmerized by the beautiful Fililpina because she easily could be a wolf in sheep's clothing. Just like in the country you are coming from all women are diffetent. Good luck to all.
By the way, Randall, how is little Johnny?
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@@TheFilipinaPea Little Johnny will eventually be in the Philippines after his surgeries and lawsuit and seeking permanent companionship.
This video was really good and informative. You mentioned a few things that I was pretending to ignore to myself. I am still thinking about going there, but I think I will just visit first.
great advice, even after living here 12 years i still am learning.
12 seconds posted ans i'm first to comment yippee! love the Pea ! there done now to watch it lol
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And yes, please do watch 😆
Hi Pea and readers, I’m in the Philippines 🇵🇭 atm, 3 month long service leave.
Listening to this, I have to say YES x 12. Spot on in every point. Trying to buy a salad or vegetables with your meal ….. hmmmmm good luck with that, sure you can go to the market and buy your own vegetables, and cook something at home, but going out to local street food or restaurants, not that easy.
to expand on a couple of your points, my thoughts are:
Find affordable accommodation for a month in a place that you want to explore, do day trips of 2/3 nights away from the base to learn about the area. Explore the Filipina around your base.
Next month find another base and explore / repeat.
Something to think about. 20:53
Yes, very good idea! Find a place to use as a base, and explore! And take your time 👍😊
I really appreciate your videos. I’m moving from the US to the Philippines in the next 2 months . My plan is to stay for 6 months to give it a real try. I was in Cebu about a year ago and I enjoyed it. I know living somewhere as opposed to visiting is totally different, that why I wanted to come back for six months. Keep up the good work!
Check out the province's like where I'm retired with my beautiful Filipino wife.
Hey Ray, can I ask you: how do you do it with Visa to stay 6 months? Thank you. Greetings from Sweden. /Matthias
Been here almost 9 yrs,you have allot of good advice
We love the way you tell it like it is Pea. Keep it up.
Thanks David! And you know I will 👍❤️
Another great vid 👊
Okay Miss p I've already given the thumbs-up I'm running a little late but let's get on with this show and teach me something new
I’m like Santa - I know when you’ve been sleeping, I know when you’ve been late, I know when you’ve been bad or good, so hurry up and watch! 🤣🤣❤️
Yes I am an independant loner my first visit to the phillipines was the best vacation of my life stayed a month but already planning my next trip!
Honestly your video is why I'm really considering moving. Also why i know what I'm doing before i jump. Good video
As usual, great advice! I live and own properties in Costa Rica and Panama. Your advice pertains to these countries, and any other countries! I have even adjusted to sometimes, eating beans and rice, for breakfast, lunch and dinner.🙂
Do you ever miss ‘home’?
Only been waiting since 3:48 am!!
Well that’s a mighty long wait - but you get a silver medal for your trouble 🏆🏆👍🤣
Such wisdom. Thanks for another great vlog, Pea.
Thanks for being here, Robert 👍❤️
You are so down to earth ! And a great interviewer .
Your videos and insights are excellent. Pea is the best of the best.
Brilliant once more Pea. You reminded me of many many lessons I learned in my 4 years here. Luckily for me I adapt quickly to changes. I have also lived in Canada during some very hard times. I remind myself ot those times whenever we get into a "cash flow" situation here and adapt accordingly on our 40k pesos/month. I/we like just like all the Filipinos around me/us and simply smile and have fun, being thankful for how fortunate we truly are. ❤️
You could probably do a full video on personal safety. I've got one tip aimed at us loner types. The sooner you develop a local circle of friends that care about you staying alive, the longer you'll live. Life insurance is fairly common in the west. In a poor country, the last thing you want to do is get yourself into a situation where you are worth more to the people around you dead than alive.
You also don't know heat until you move to southeast Asia or the Philippines. It's been about 38° or so but with the humidity the feels like temperature is about 45°. Sure, the deep south in the US is similar but the summers here last much longer. Also, when driving, the roads are organized chaos.
Yes, organized chaos - without the organization 👍
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That's exactly how I describe driving there when people would ask me about it organized chaos not to mention the deadly potholes and dogs an occasional road that just well ends or sections missing
You should try the heat in Kuwait and see how it compares to other places you have been.
What are the WORST months…to go somewhere else for a few months?
Will be moving in 6 months to your beautiful country
I visited 3 years ago and fell in love with culture and happy people
Thank you for sharing all the information you share, hopefully I'll get a chance to visit soon
Great info Pea, I love how real you keep things.
Thanks Corey! I do try ❤️😊👍
Pea,
Absolutely fantastic advice. It amazes me how many people don't plan or look into the ventures they think about. Moving from one city to another, or one state to another here in the US is nothing like moving to another Country all together. You touched on several of the biggest considerations ( economy, laws and restrictions ).
I've been researching a few different Countries for a couple years and am finally down to 2, Costa Rica or the Philippines. I haven't been to the Philippines in years, but am planning a trip there this year. I'm fortunate enough to have an uncle that is from the Philippines and he and my aunt own property there ( my aunt was stationed there in the 60s ). This doesn't mean it will be easier to decide though. Only that I have some relatives there ( that I haven't seen in 35 years...lol ). So, come September, I'll be coming to visit.
Thank you for the open and honest videos. It's a breath of fresh air.
September here you come 👍👍👍😊❤️
yes just common sence
Very good video, many people need this to drag them back to reality
I agree 👍😊
Thank you very much ! This is worth gold ! A life-saving video.
You’re very welcome 👍
Great job Pea. I'm 36, and have lived her for 17 years. You are 100% correct!
As usual great advice Pea
Thanks for that, Scooter!!! ❤️👍
🥰🥰 always providing the facts, with a little humor. thanks for sharing.
Thanks Erik! That’s always my goal 👍❤️
Hi Pea, I totally agree that the most important thing is to spend an extended period somewhere you're planning to move to and make sure it's a good fit. I think as well travelling around your destination country is a good idea as well, those who struggle with the heat may be better off in the mountains where it's a bit cooler.
My previous travels in Thailand and Cambodia suggest that I would actually be able to lose weight there as the heat seems to suppress my appetite and I tend to eat less. There are days of course where it does just seem too hot to do anything but then you can always go for a stroll in the evening when it will be cooler. I definitely agree though that cooking your own food is the way to go to avoid excess sugar and fat.
I think I'd lose weight as well. I grew up in the southeastern US, so I'm used to the heat and humidity, but would end up doing more than sitting behind a desk at work all day. I was in the PI in February for 3 weeks and lost 10 pounds.
I didn’t realize you were so well-traveled, Andrew 👍👍👍😊
Hi sis. Great vid!! I'll add this advice. When you first get there, have arranged an air BNB or apt already lined up. Hotels are cheaper there but the costs quickly add up if you're island hopping. Eating out is another thing that will eat up your money. Pention houses are good options. Try to stay in 1 place for at least 6 weeks to absorb the local flavor before you move on to another spot that's at least 200km away. Good luck and Holy Father bless😊 1 more thing I should add. Some things in the Philippines are indeed cheaper than your country, SOME THINGS!! For your first month or 6 weeks. Have at least 3k USD in your pocket with access to another 2 available. The first month is ALWAYS the most expensive.
Thanks for sharing Miss Pea. Salamat. Brains, beauty, nice smile gorgeous hair. You seem very well educated 😉
Thanks, Pea very good video with a lot of helpful comments. I would say there's one you missed and that's with getting your finances in order with respect of taking money out of Filipina banks and not paying a charge for that. Like Wells Fargo has a savings plan where if you put enough money in when you go to take money out from a foreign bank you won't pay that fee. So that is something to think about as you'll be taking money out of banks quite a lot when you first get there and then throughout living there and not paying that $5 or $7 fee it adds up.
Another thought I had is I know it's good to travel light but laptops phones that kind of thing. They're cheaper here in the states so buy yourself a decent phone and actually I would get one on the larger side because a lot of times Wi-Fi is not great and so you'll be using your data plan. So get a large phone even if you don't like it. You'll be glad you did.
You touched on this on one of the points but I would say get in the best shape you can for your age and I don't mean all muscular but able to walk for long distances because when you first get to a foreign country you won't know the price of anything and when you go to take transportation it will cost a lot and so being able to walk can save you quite a bit of money.
Anyway, it was a great video. That's my two cents about living in foreign country as I lived in southeast Asia about 20 years
Good Comments
I'm glad I'll have my wife along to keep me in line..😊
Oh yes, you’ll need her as Chief of Morality Police 👍🤣
I must say, this video is excellent! I am fortunate to have a couple of friends from the Philippines, both residing in Cebu, who have consistently praised it as the ultimate destination for experiencing a somewhat Western lifestyle. It's true. One thing that often goes unnoticed by many is the potential challenges one might face regarding certain rights in the country. However, the main obstacle I perceive is maintaining a steady cash flow.
After watching this video, I am considering the idea of relocating to Cebu to join my friends. The only hurdle I need to overcome is finding a reliable monthly income source, as I have yet to establish a retirement fund.
Once again, I want to express my sincere appreciation for this fantastic video. It has given me valuable insights and considerations as I contemplate this life-changing decision.
I am a fan. Been watching your videos for a while now. Very informative, specially that I am planning on dating a foreigner.
This is very wise advice. She knows what she's talking about. I did spend time in the Philippines. It was all with my then in- laws, a very lovely family. Going back in my own would be a very different experience.
Great advise, Pea!
Having lived outside the states for most of my life, I forget how often people expect things to be like home, just with an accent. 😂
Please keep up the good work! Take good care!
Great video, Pia! My Filipina wife and I have two countries- America 🇺🇸 and the Philippines 🇵🇭. Everything you say in this video is 100% true. If you plan to live in the Philippines 🇵🇭 someday, it is best to marry your Filipina there in the Catholic Church. This provides the greatest level of legal protection possible for a foreigner in the Philippines. Marriage is considered an indissoluble union in church law and civil law in the Philippines 🇵🇭. Have your marriage license certified in the Philippines! Later you can navigate the paper work for a permanent visa more easily if you are lawfully married to your Filipina. Also, if you get sacramentally married in the Catholic Church of the Philippines 🇵🇭 you can rest assured that any court isn’t going to entertain annulment proceeding very easily… if at all. If you get married in the Philippines, you better plan on staying married for LIFE! Cultural issues, home-sickness, and diet are all negotiable over time. Those are just facts of life to be dealt with… 😊
i am INC we never have a problem with any legal papers it is interesting because wither your filipino or not we are all the same before god and government no one bothers us
@@MoochieLovesIt I assume you mean “Iglesia Ni Cristo.” Under Philippine law marriage is treated as an indissoluble union because the roots of the civil law are grounded in Catholic canon law. The Philippines 🇵🇭 are a predominantly “Catholic country.” 👍
Much respect!
Well thanks for that 👍👍❤️❤️
Insight from the U.K. My brother moved to Manila in the early 1990's and founded a commercial diving business. Today, it is the BIGGEST commercial diving business in the Philippines. It can be done!
A bright and skilled orator
Always great information. Thanks Pea!😁❤️
Hellooooooo Paul 👋😊
@@TheFilipinaPea 👋😁❤️
Last week I was having a drink with my cousin. We were talking about my recent trip to the Philippines and I said: "If I weren't the only one who can take care of my mother, I would be living in the Philippines now." She looked at me in disbelieve and asked: "Could you really live there?" I know she couldn't, but not everybody is the same. Interesting topic, Pea!
Thank you for the sound advice, Filipina Pea 🙂
You look AMAZING, btw!😍😍
Jay! You’re always still so kind to me 😊❤️
I don't know what you're doing but keep it up. It's like you're more beautiful with every video you make.
3:10 You are so right … Food Panda 🐼 is so convenient and I lived at Lantaw in Dumaguete 😂…