A Biblical Husband and Family - Paul Washer
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ค. 2009
- Paul Washer shares some thoughts on what it means to a biblical husband according to the Scriptures, and how to raise your family.
MP3: illbehonest.com/a-biblical-hus...
Paul Washer of heartcrymissionary.com/
As a single man I’m thankful for this messages. If the Lords will is that I should be married I will prepare now
That is so sweet
God bless you 🙏😊
How is your life after this 4 years? Are you still persevering until the end?❤
@@raquelcoler1 I am engaged to be married to a godly Christian woman this summer. Thank God, He is ever faithful.
I'm ashamed of myself. I never understood the magnitude of the nature of this issue. I'm thankful for the Holy Spirits work through this man's walk with God. And I bless God because he has helped my by it.
Myself included. I am new to discovering the severity of the man's role as the husband. I was so lost and still am to some degree. The scriptures have opened my eyes to how to be a man.
Thank God for Paul Washer.
Sadly for many of us, too late in the game. 💔
Amen. God gives grace and understanding.
I love God for putting Paul Washer on this Earth to love God so much that he speaks of GOd to us all. I am grateful he has spent so much of his life sharing the word of God. God bless you and yours Paul Washer.
I am single, never married and Dad to a six year old little girl, here in 2019. Thank you brother Washer for this. My daughter is my ministry. I am excited to serve and to eventually find a wife, who will be from The Lord.
Brother search the Scriptures
Awesome lesson, you cut me, open me up, and gutted things out, by the power of God, so I can be like Christ to my wife.
Very informative sermon on the Christian family. These things cannot be done outside of the Holy spirit. A man must be Christian.
Keith Thompson
You discern well.
You have a been a great blessing to my life brother Paul. I have grown in all the areas of my life. I pray for you and ask our Lord Jesus to keep giving you knowledge, wisdom and courage so that you may continue preaching His wonderful Word. I can't seem to find the words to,
"Thank you." God bless you! What a wonderful God we have!
This Teaching is hands down the best I've ever heard. I'm 40 years old, my Grandfather has been Ministering and a Pastor for 62 years. UPC magical Gospel! I was literally in the womb hearing the Book, the whole Book, and nothing but the Book! This video is life changing. As I write this my wife is not in my bed and she at this point she "has left"! And for 2 months it's been me against a dark spirit, I've met him before. Right now I am 8 weeks into begging her to come home and reject those encouraging her to keep being selfish. My babies are suffering, pain is real, the advesary and his demons relentless, the battle is round the clock, they know nothing of time of day, for they never sleep, nor rest or even hesitate, feverishly frantically attacking. I was born into this filth, i then became born again washed clean brand new holy ghost filled, therefore this battle already determined for me. Despite any suffering or worldly loss, IT IS FINISHED AND MY VICTORY GUARANTEED 2000 YEARS AGO AT CALVARY! THANK YOU FATHER FOR YOUR PRECIOUS SON MY SAVIOR MY KING. This video just slapped me to my knees....Please pray for my family, just a small prayer, just a breath. God has not told me to stop my pursuit. Thank y'all!
Hardball Hall you don't know me, I just read your post and was wondering how you and your family are doing?
Dan Mendez
Well first let me say to you Many Thanks for your thoughts and message! It means more than you know. Ive experienced my Wife literally confessing she was wrong and very sorry, she was sick but trying and back on all meds, and undying love like always, that was March 23. March 25, The same day my mom bought a phone for my daughter just to be involved of course. I told her the wife would get it, mom said over her dead body and she would like to hit her for all this. Wife was at sisters starting the lies! March 27 wife moved in with Mom and they went on a mission to destroy me. And all i do is Church and Witness, helping any in need and God knows the truth. Nightmare ever since with endless games and accusations a restraining order she lied on and Perjured herself also contempt of court for falsifying, faces 1 year jail, 10000 dollar fine. 45 minutes ago the struggle was as real ss ever! Arrogance, conceit, secrecy, full of hate and spiritual wickedness like ive never witnessed, and i was raised on a UPC Pew.
After 18 years of confessing Jesus and Gods word, she denies it, she has even said the Bible dont say anything bout divorce, people do it everyday! Yep.. she did! She said she reads the Bible and picks out the scripture she likes that makes her fill good and writes them down! Told my son that! Totally inhabited i hate to say! Ive never quit pouring my heart out to her, telling her almost daily through text of course that i love her, im in love with her and need her more than ever! I could go on and on and on... im broken. The sorrow is literally staggering at times. Ive never experienced such emotion that just floors me in tears every single day. I look in my kids eyes, i here a piece of a song, a smell or picture, and i cant explain how bad it hurts physically, the heaviness, despair and depression has made me several times not face the day, if it Were Not for Jesus and My Bible i wouldnt be here.
God Bless you for thinking about us, please pray cause its the only hope.
so ur wife left, I overdosed trying to kill myself for someone I loved so much, she loved me so but we moved so far from each other,and that's when I overdosed, I lasted 5 years but I decided to get married and now I so happy to pray and read the bible, and witness at times with our GOD AND EACHOTHER I FOREGOT ABOUT MY FORMER
Kassa
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Brother, I read your message. You are definitely a strong & godly man. I sincerely hope that your situation has improved and that your life is blessed beyond measure.
Paul Washer I pray you read this. First I just want to I am so sorry for the people leaving vile comments. Second I watched your sermon called the acropolis of the christian faith and it CHANGED MY LIFE! Not only was it the greatest sermon I have ever heard but God used you and brought me back to Him. I got on my knees and cried out to Him and thanked and worshipped. I came upstairs got my 6 month old baby girl up and dressed. I came back down stairs and right on the very floor I prayed there was a fortune from the cookie my son had ate the night before. I picked it up read it and it said Don't Stop Now! Just 3 words! Most fortune cookies I've read are longer with some sort of riddle. God just started moving in me from that moment on. I don't understand how anyone that's a christian can disagree with anything you say because your preaching is so biblical. Its just true! I understand why you have to say true christian when you preach. I am a married woman and I have so longed for a biblical marriage. I take my marriage very serious and I pray for my husband's salvation. Please please pray for Him. We have 2 beautiful children that need us both. I thank God and Him through you for your amazing teachings! This world is so blind to how wicked it really is. I don't trust any preacher or pastor I hear. I trust you and my bible. Thank you so much! Please pray for my family.
hello Paul what happens if you find out your husband is a transwoman, can she leave the marriage, cause she think its disgusting
Praise God for such a wonderful msg. God bless you Paul for teaching what it is written in the Bible. I am here in India. Could not find any church teaching such solid biblical teaching. We have teachers like you who feeds us. May God get the glory by your work and ministry. He alone be exhaulted high.
I have watched this talk a few times now and It just always helps me put my family in the right place.
God Bless you Paul Washer.
WOW, I have just now come upon this video, and how amazing it is, OMG. I'm speechless. PHENOMENAL TEACHING!!! For a man to say that the kids belong to him when he gets home.....um um um, now that's SELFLESS!!!!!🙏 10yrs later, this Word has blessed me. To God be ALL the glory!!!!
Praise The Lord for such a profound teaching. This message must be heard in ALL CHURCHES STARTING WITH PASTORS AND LEADERS WHOS FAMILY'S ARE BEING DISMANTLED BY THE ABUSE AND LACK OF ORDER.
Great sermon. Needed to hear this. Praise God for sending out Real Truth Preachers like Paul Washer
I love you 💓💓💓
Please pray for my family. My dad doesn’t lead biblically. I know our household would be more peaceful if he did. I need prayers because it has caused me to resent my father and I need to be freed from that.
This brother is amazingly blessed with the wisdom, conviction and authority that only God can provide! Bless my brother. 😇🙏🏻
I'm am literally in tears praising God...this is my life. I am living this for the last 8 years.. yet, I feel finally, TRUTH what I have been saying all along. And I have failed myself too due to the things and person who didnt lead IN our home 1st. I pray some day, he realizes it. As it's kinda too late and no one left as I'm hanging on by a thread, he destroyed what our family was due to selfishness.
I sincerely thank you for this message! THANK YOU!!! THIS SAVED MY LIFE!
54:02 and i realize "what am i doing at home when my wife is somewere else?" stopped the video right there,i need to be with my wife and tend any need she might have.
Amen. Thank you brother Paul. May God bless you and your household.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PRAY FOR MY MARRIAGE AND FAMILY
this is such a great teaching. I understand this so well. I have been persecuted as a wife and mother for doing this very thing. God help us all.
I'm so Broken in humbleness! I'm 62 years old! Not married anymore! But I testified this is the word of God! Thank you for this amazing teaching ❤
May God will restore my broken marriage!!!! this divoce for a half year. I'm keeping ask God for restoring and healing, I love my husband Tim, love my marriage, love my family very and very much!
I’m so thankful for these sermons
Wow this really hit hard. There are things about this message that angered me and convicted me. I hope I will be able to absorb the truth from it.
Thank You fir this message it really changed my life and how i think. God Bless You
What a blessed message! Listening to this in 2022, being very close to getting engaged!
I could not be any more grateful for his teachings
This so eye opening. Thank you pastor Paul.
I love this message and will put to practise all that God wants me to be when the time comes one day.
Great lesson!
What a beautiful sermon about marriage and children and brothers and sisters, in Christ! Bless you, Paul washer. Blessings and prayers for you & family.
illbehonest thank you for uploading sermons of Paul Washer please continue uploading, it really really means a lot to me. It makes me realize how sinful I am and how I really need Jesus Christ the Savior.
Thanks much 4 this! It helps me become a better husband and father.
wow may God bless you Pastor
Thank you Paul for this
outstanding...! simply God Works with this man.! or even better He works for GOD.🙏🙏🙏🙏THANKS Paul washer
wow...amen im moved...i pray before i read interpretations or watch videos...because of all the false prophets....but this is on the level...God Bless u brother
Paul I love your preaching. I know you preach from the whole word of God with fear and trembling I love that. I know the feeling. I only know the lord as my lord and Savior four months and I teach my children with fear. I rather just read the Bible to them allow the holy spirit do the rest. because I just now figuring out some of the application.
Please pray foe my family's souls and mine and that Jesus brings us back together and keeps us together and that Jesus protects us especially from satanic ritual abuse
This is so wonderful. I'm definitely going to have to watch this again. Is there a .mp3 on the website one can download?
Good bless you! You are absolutely right
I needed this
There are females who are vicious and horrible and, just like some males, if you look into her past you will find the cause, however I'm always amazed at males who marry these types of females and then are SHOCK or bothered by her behavior. I've learned in my 52yrs that people let you know whom they are shortly after you meet them, but some chose to put pink glasses on and hope for change, or some men are completely weak and afraid to confront. I ask myself many times what causes a male to marry that type of female? Usually it's her physical appearance such as a pretty face, therefore my response when a male says she's this or that is, does she still have the pretty face you married? Yes? Then stop complaining she kept her end of the bargain and maintained the physical that you married. Pray for God to change you first then her.
awesome word.
Amen! Still watching 2020
"A man, unconverted yet takes the bible seriously..." whoaaaaa!💥💥💥 There are very few men that can speak this truth...these wicked religious men are supremely dangerous and have caused a lot of damage to their families and churches in the last several decades given the predominatly leadership role they have played to date. Wow this whole message calls for deep sober reflection. It's 2022 yet very very relevant in our times. GOD bless you and yours Paul Washer.
Sounds like what my sister is telling me. I was like I need to learn scripture so why not spend time being in the word with the twins even if it's two minutes a time. I trust her guidance. cause she warned me it's not believe unto repentance one time. but my husband don't know God he told me he cried out to God and God told him no.
Western world needs preaching like his!
Thank you. You don't know how much you change my thinking. As a single person I was making a lot of mistakes and now I thank God I didn't engage. I have to develop my self first through Jesus. Thanks again.
Sharon, i have prayed for you and am keeping you in prayer. I pray that in Jesus' name He will hear you and bless you for your love and patience and forgiveness. God knows what you need before you need open your mouth, he hears every prayer and cry for help that passes your lips, have faith! God bless you sister keeping you and your husband in prayer x
I've been married twice. I was a selfish,ignorant, young punk both times. I've been alone for some time now. I am hoping there is someone out there to marry again. I don't want to be alone the rest of my life ( seems selfish in its self).
Thank-you for this message.
I cried after I watched this sermon. I thought i am serving God.. but I just did neglect my wife and my son. Thank you Lord for this message and please make me a man I should. Thank you brother Paul for your message.
Thank you
What an amazing message.. wife is the helper of husband and husband is always take care of her as christ did for church.. the blessing of God is in family . The relatiinship of husband and wife not depend on beauty but pure heart and respect
Wow. Thank God almighty.
Unless it's *this* Church I don't even go.
"Church" is not what I remember it to be, and no
mater how much I try I do not stick around. It's everything
but what it should be. Politics, favoritism, networking, it's ridiculous.
So we have "House Church" at home with the bible and with our children...
It's true but if good people don't go to church it will go downwards.
Amazing
One day every knee shall bow and tongue confess that Jesus is Lord.
Amen Brother.
Amen 🙏
Amen 🙏🏽
Aman and awoman
Hallelujah 🙏🏾
After hearing this whole teaching im am thinking im am stuck with no way out. Ive prayed for my husband to be like this and it has not happened, im still taking care of him and all else. Now he's had a stroke and its more on me. I am the husband he is the wife. ROLE PLAYING IS SWITCHED. And its still his way most often. I need a sermon on what a wife is to do....ive prayed for now about 40 years still not much of change except for his stroke and heart surgery. Now it's harder to communicate.
Ruthy, please understand my advice to Sylvia (Nachis) is good advice, there is great power in the tongue for both good or ill: to refrain from speaking words of complaint & hopelessness, instead speak words of hope, affirmation, & faith about her spouse will bless HER heart, & will be most pleasing to God.
Imagine the effect encouragement would have on her husband or conversely how hurtful her statements would be for him to read.
Did you know she has a video complaining about her marriage?
I died to myself 5 years ago, but my husband is still in the world and he treats me real bad because I follow Jesus. He is a man that is blinded by satan so I undestand that I do not fight flesh and blood but sometimes it is very difficlult, but nothing compared to our Lord Jesus that went through unimaginable pain, physical and spiritual. God is good all the time!!!!
Agape Love Wow, this has been 7 years that you have watched this. I hope your marriage flourished throught out the years.
It has been 9 years now, since your message. How is your husband?
about talking about applying a Godly friendship based on Genesis 24.
keep your chin up, with Christ you have strength, yes it would be difficult to submit to an unsaved man, but keep praying and growing in Christ and reading the scriptures because he might be saved through the way you are gracious towards him.
Hugs your sister in Christ
hnos gracia y paz. como encuentro estos videos en castellano, soy de venezuela. he visto muchos del hno pablo washer, mas lo que aparecen en ingles no se como porque no entiendo el idioma, Dios les Guarde
I use to hate that verse until I read the verse carefully and realized the husbands are to also submit to us as we both submit to God. This verse is not talking about ignoring God like my lost husband tries to abuse the verse to call me a sinner when I want to submit to the will of God.
It's good that He brought you out of it. To God be the Glory and may He Bless you for the rest of your life!
Thank you Paul for making me realise the 'inner-selfishness' of mine
I need a godly counsel from women that are step moms. I myself barely started walking with the Lord few months ago and within those few months I got married to a man that has a child. I myself have no children. I am learning to be a step mom a servant of Christ and a wife. I have grew bitterness and so many other sins. I need so much council. I was deceived by a non biblical church before I met my husband. Thanks to God's grace he used my husband to preach the Gospel to me. And the Lord used my husband to let me know to test the spirits, what those churches were doing and thanks to God, God opened my eyes to his truth through his scripture. I am failing so much and I just need a woman to council me I tried searching up Christian step moms but I didn't find any. My husband and I are taking marriage counseling but there is a lot of times where we have to move the sessions to later in the weeks. My husband doesn't fully understand me and now I can't even talk to him because it's my fault. I made him annoyed of me of how much I am needy and anything that happens wrong oh how much I can go on nagging and complaining of the things that happen to me or if he does something wrong to me. Or is unfair with me. I'm screaming inside and his family doesn't make it any easier for us his family doesn't want me married to him and we are almost a year married in 3 months God willing.
I appreciate the many things that I have learned from Paul Washed and the conviction from the Holy Spirit that I have received in listening to him, but how does a man know when God has called him to marriage? I thought personal revelations ceased in the times that the Bible canon was closed.
I really pray that my husband will see this message. He is destroying the family and still believe that he is doing God's will.
Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg changes communication and core beliefs. Read the book and go to a group workshop!! Love
Paul I need clothes for my twins. I bought winter clothes . but winter clotll
Psalm 128 gives us the description of the man of God in operation in his marriage, in his family, in his culture, effecting them and His nation as well as generationally through His off-spring. Fears the LORD and walks in His ways.
I don't know you sister, but I just prayed THE LORD'S *PERFECT* WILL in your life and the lives of your family!!! I sincerely TRUST THE LORD and know that HIS WILL WILL BE DONE ON EARTH AS IT IS IN HEAVEN! HE desires marriages to prosper, therefore HE hears your parayes and those 'siblings (me and everyone who is humbled by your comment)' who stand w/you in absolute FAITH/PRAYER for your family! When THE LORD is handling ALL of our business, you can TRUST that HIS MERCY/GRACE IS SUFFICIENT!!!
I understand that true sorrowful repentance is a true broken and contrite heart that leads you to rely on the lord for your forgiveness. I'm not understanding why most pastors believe you need to pray out loud for true confession to take place. and I also know that to put away anger and put on joy is the fruits of the spirit . but why does God reveal who he is during our prayers his name his holy Nessa.
Thanks for the message, but please read Leviticus chapter 19 verses 27
Amen 🙏🏾. Thank you Holy Spirit for convicting me
I just read your comment, yet I know your desire(s) match perfectly w/THE LORD'S WILL, therefore I completely TRUST that HE will continue to BLESS you and your family and carry you *all* through EVERYTHING, even until the end of days!!! I'm sooo overjoyed that I read your comment, Sir! It (once again) showed me just what THE LORD'S true plan is unto HIS sons! You've been so BLESSED to witness HIS total GRACE and MERCY from a son's point of view. NOW you can properly LEAD your family! Awesome!
@nachis3 have u tried spiritual warfare? it will probably work because we dont wrestle w/ flesh and blood but with spiritual things, evil things
KJV Dictionary definition of cursing:
CURSE, v.i. To utter imprecations; to affirm or deny with imprecations of divine vengeance.
CURSING, ppr. Execrating; imprecating evil on; denouncing evil; dooming to evil, misery, or vexation.
CURSING, n. Execration; the uttering of a curse; a dooming to vexation or misery.
Ive heard so many teaching for the husbands Praise God. But ive prayed for this to change in my marriage. Now my husband has had a stroke and heart surgery and i know have to help him thru with certain more anger thru him because of frustration.
But i don't hear any message on what a christian woman is to do for her....what is her ministry if husband never changed and now its worse because of his health....im now trapped in a marriage of a one way street. I still respect and do as Christ asks of me as a wife. But................
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God says it is not good to be ALONE, rather than it is not good to be SINGLE. Or it will conflict the teaching of Paul who elevates celibacy over marriage.
In Genesis, it emphasizes on the fact that mankind is created as social being, just like trinity God, and God even desires to extend such fellowship with human.
3:00 two points of clarification:
1. Jesus spoke of John the Baptist as the greatest prophet, and even the least in the Kingdom of God is greater than John the Baptist---Luke 7:28 compared to Duet. 34:10
2. Jesus said we will do greater works than he did---John 14:12-14... Whereas Hebrews 3:5 says Moses was a faithful servant in God's house...Jesus the faithful Son of God;
Whereas Believers are sons of God;
Therefore, Believers are greater than Moses.
Prayers for my children and I please
Praying. Blessings to you and your family.
@@judymccleary7426 thank you ma'am appreciated
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Great
Be careful not to accuse your parents. You are not their judge.
i think you are a little harsh towards nachis3, who in my opinion was mearly stating it was difficult to be married to a non christian.
if she said specific things he did this and said that then yes you would be correct in saying to her to be quiet her grumbling, her complaining, her cursing??? where did she curse him in that post?
Paul I don't know how to be a biblical wife. I do know I can't sin and refuse to teach my kids the word. my husband don't want me to read the bible to myself the kids or even listen to it but I have to either listen to bible or read to teach my kids cause I feel I am biblically illiterate the pastor only knows what the experts say they're like people say
+Faith Perry if you want explanation about the Scripture, go to carm dot org (carm.org)
I failed on all fronts,the day of accountability for me is going to be one filled with great sorrow.
So much wisdom. Where are the truth teachers? It's hard to find ones who aren't apparently just in it for the money and trying to pretend they aren't. The ones who are trying to say Paul Washer is a false prophet need to read their bibles. But of course with Catholics this is an anathema. We wouldn't ever want to read the bible for ourselves without the Pope telling us to ignore what it clearly says.
Submit yourselves one to another. Why do preachers always forget that verse?
Telling husbands to double down on love is complete waste of time if the wife is not obligated to submit IN EVERYTHING as the Word says.
Love has become some kind of TYRANNY in the hands of rebellious women
Please read Bible Monday Genesis 1 Tuesday Plasms 1 Wednesday john 1 Thursday 1 Friday Genesis 2 week end off Monday john 2 as you read Bible will start to talk to u I found
paster i am confused. i thought in the bible the deciples had to leave there family, loved ones ect to follow jesus. I do feel family is most important but what about the family of god? Scripture question
God's child I think you're confusing the scripture. your love for Him should EXCEED the family's love. your love for God should be far greater in comparison. but also love for Him especially then caused division. this is why Jesus said He came not to bring peace but A sword (division).
I am struggling with this as well
And by the way brother,they are NOT JUST YOURS! They belong to the both of you.
+MrMrsalligator Husband and wife are one flesh.
My wife isn't mine, she is me!
curse 1:the expression of a wish that misfortune evil doom etc befall a person/group
2: formula/ charm intended to cause such misfortune
3 act of reciting such a formula.
4:a profane oath; curse word.
5:an evil that has been invoked upon one
with a dictionary definition of curse, she did none
my husband is still in the world is a statement
he treats me real bad also a statement or an opinion,
he is blinded by satan, again a statment and if he is not Christs then it is true
none is cursing
Did Moses make it to Heaven?
So you managed to find a secular definition of curse that doesn't address the scriptural definition of cursing - big deal... come back when you've actually checked what the scriptures say about the nature of cursing - I suggest using a concordance, Strongs is a good one.
Are you now going to tell me she didn't murmer or complain either?