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- What happened to henry Gartland? If you haven't already heard Henry Gartland took his own life earlier this week. If you feel like life is not worth living please reach out to someone because I promise life always gets better! I dedicated this video to henry gartland but more I dedicate it to all those who are fighting with suicidal thoughts. Please reach out because there are people who want to help.
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The ones who smile the most, should always be kept so close.
For their smile is sunshine, blinding you from noticing their inner rain.
Exactly
Damn!! Thats NICE.
Jesus Christ that made me weep
“The tears of a clown”
Wow, yes x
true depression isn't feeling sad its more than that you wanna feel better but can't the mental causes you to feel physically drained and life just seems like the impossible. its a dark fucking place trust me I know. when everyday you just wanna go back to sleep and stay asleep and have no will to live is the worst possible feeling. Mental health has begun to be a trendy thing but mental illness is not cool its not fun and it sucks ass
I feel this a lot of people self diagnose anxiety and depression when they are scared or sad but I feel like that takes away attention from people who are really up against it. Hope you are doing ok my man if you ever need anything reach out. Feel like it's easier to talk with strangers sometimes.
Agreed. You said it best. If fucking sucks knowing this feeling and people ask you whats wrong but have no clue, can’t relate, or have zero insight on the matter.
Yeah depression sucks. I got out of it but I know what it feels like. Sometimes I would have to pull my car over after work just to catch my breath.
Well said.
@@completelynameless6676 Recently the times I have felt I have needed to speak to someone, all I can think of is the Doctor rolling their eyes thinking Ive been reading the press.
I called suicide hotline when I was going through shit and they didn’t help at all. All they did was ask where I was and what I was doing. Not a good place to reach out in my opinion.
That's because most people are completely terrible at talking, let alone listening and most people who are part of those hotlines are not psychologists at all. A lot of times that hotline serves more for police to check in on people, than providing people any 'real' help. And that's pretty bad, because the few people that do call such hotlines are probably the few people that want to be helped. Unfortunately, a lot of people _don't_ want to be helped. Their suicide is pretty much inevitable unfortunately. And last but not least, the only person who can make real change to your life, is going to be yourself. People don't get told this often enough. And suicidal people often claim to 'see no other way out', when actually suicide is never a solution. I'm not religious, people should do whatever they feel like. But thinking a suicide will change something is just dumb. A guy like Henry had dozens of years ahead of skating, lot's of cool things in his future. Yet he bailed on everything. That's so incredibly sad man. So pointless. And who knows what he has been telling himself to justify his action. Must have been pretty crazy stuff. It reminds me of a friend of mine who always basically complained he felt too alone. When I explained him the only way to meet other people was to invest in some hobbies and go out, it took a while for that friend to realise he was creating his own lonely situation. Now, 4 years later the guy is engaged to a very nice girl and he will probably have a family with most of the bad vibes gone completely in the near future.
Yo I feel this big time. No matter the cards you are dealt they are your cards and you need to learn to play them. I don't say that to condemn anyone thats struggling but it's just the objective truth. As soon as a person realizes they the main character in their own story they have to decide if they are going to level the fuck up or just give up.
@@localjoe Exactly true. And yes, the cards might be different, there is plenty of opportunity in life to really change things for the better. And sometimes it takes a realisation of what you got already. People are often to busy with other people their lives and successes, instead of caring about their own life.
@@PHeMoX 100% why watch people live their lives when you can live your own. As good as theirs maybe from your perspective it will never be yours so make yours as good as you can.
@@localjoe sometimes people are just dealt shitty ass cards and yea they have to play them and no matter what they do it still comes out the same👌 just take that in and analyze it when you use shitty metaphors.
Sometimes we need to understand that the people who brings us the most joy usually have mental health battles
Gotta keep an eye on the people who smile the most because it can be a mask to inner struggles
who said he was mentally ill?
Rest up Henry he was such a inspiration
For real dude lived to the fullest
In times like this I realize that the skateboarding community is really close knit and we all are one. I am a proud skateboarder, and I will skate for those who cant: Henry, Ben, Phelper, Grosso, PStone, PSpliff etc.
Yeah it’s crazy that this toy makes us feel so connected to people we’ve never met
@@localjoeFor sure. A giant family of the most awesome people. From 15 years old.... I am SO THANKFUL for skateboarding! Only God knows what would have become of me had I not stepped foot on my neighbor's board to try it out.
@Red Crow for real dude, one of my favorite records. was super stoked to hear it in one of Navarette's videos (25 years of the vertical vampire)!
🙏🏼 R.I.P Henry. This life is a vapor, a mist..here today, gone tomorrow. God bless all you guys. Let's stay positive. you never know what kind of impact you have just being kind to someone.. 🙏🏼
Big reminder we don't know what people are going through
I don't think it would have mattered guy was a pro skateboarder if that didn't make him happy being nice wouldn't make much a difference
Being a local to 3rd Lair like Henry was, seeing all the stuff dedicated to him is so amazing and I’m happy he is still remembered
Literally just discovered his til the end part ONE video ago and was hit hard af when I saw all the RIP comments. A beautiful soul, and at least he was able to express that.
he was so buck. Going to miss him and my heart goes out to his family and friends. Such a loss.
same
Rad for making a tribute video for Henry. Really hit home I was in a dark place a few times and now I love life and wished I had someone to talk to back then, when your feeling like your in a dark place talking really makes things better.. RIP Henry 🖤
I’m glad you came out the other side. I’m looking around my life thinking how many Henry’s do I know that need to talk you know?
@@localjoe yeah man no doubt,, hope this opened up a lot of people’s minds, thank for the reply! ☮️ -Jay
I knew him personally and I have fond memories of skating the halfpipe that he built at the 3rd lair with him, rip.
Sorry for your loss. It shook me and I didn’t know him personally. Hope your doing ok
Legends never die, Rest in Peace Henry❤️😢
So sad 😔
found your channel after reminiscing about E. I knew him very well and just wanted to say thx for the video. made me see how far he reached with his skating and brought back some memories. EHG forever👑
They should put him in skater xl or session in memory of him.
That would be so sick RIP Henry
give him a cover
Skate 4 would be cool to have him in
It would be cool to have him and Ben Reamers in Tony Hawk's Pro Skater remakes to honour their memories.
Henry was one my fav skaters and I was heartbroken when I heard the news
Such good style and such a good attitude. So gutted he felt like taking his life was his best option...
@@localjoe I know it’s terrible , some people are fighting demons and you don’t even realize it
Damn I just found out who he was, Rest In Peace 💯 suicide is never the answer ❤️
It never is... gutted. Definitely makes me evaluate how I'm doing spreading love to people just because you never know what some is dealing with behind a smile.
Had a best friend that looked like him, brought the same vibe, didn't skate tho. Took his own life last August. Watching videos of him interacting with people in a uniquely impactful way with a smile 100% of the time has brought up some emotions ngl.
so sorry for your loss man. I hope they are both in a better place...
I was a personal friend of henry and his little brother so when I heard the news I was devastated
I didn’t know he passed away I just started noticing who this guy was and really liked this guy
Great video, I’m sitting here in tears still. I never even met him, wish I had the chance. RIP Henry
Yeah I wonder if he knew how many of us truly cared if he still would’ve done. Motivates me to spread positivity for sure.
This was a really nice dedication. You seem like a sweet guy so i hope you're doing okay yourself.
I'm more worried about people that were close to him. i've spoken to a couple people that knew him and they only had good things to say about him. Sometimes the nicest people are going through the worst adversity..
this actually made me cry so hard R.I.P E Henry
Gone too soon. RIP Henry
I love your channel!
Coming from an oilfield dude who has skated for 15 years off and on, I’d say you’re well on your way.
Thanks my dude! Hope the oil fields are treating you right!
RIP HENRY ive been suffering from mental health GOD BLESS ALL unosix16
Man this positive content was so uplifting I’m so glad the skating Community can all come together Just celebrate such talent
Well made video. Heartfelt and produced with class and good taste. Sorry for the loss of a respected member of the skateboarding community.
Appreciate you're comment. Many people took it as me capitalizing off of tragedy and I tried to do it with good taste. I'm glad that come across to you.
May he now have the peace he searched for .
However selfish we think it is , he done it for himself .
God speed my friend ,
And rip that skatepark in the sky .
If anyone needs anyone to talk to or vent to , dm me . I might not know you but ill be a ear to listen and a shoulder to cry on .
Cant believe hes gone what an absolute waste of life someone who was that sick at skateboarding just shocking absolutely gutted 😢
I know just wish there was something I could do
Shit sucks. God bless him. I dont get the whole he "never lost sight" of himself etc etc.... I mean he did. And it killed him. It's a tragedy either way. No matter how you slice it
I thought the same thing when I read it. Don’t understand it but for makes me want to spread more love to people in my life because seems like nobody knew what he was going through
My name is Luke Johnson I’m his brother thanks for this video
Sorry for your loss man hope you are doing ok! I know how gutted the whole skateboard community is let alone the people he was actually close to. Sending love and prayers G!
was there something that drove him to do this? or was he depressed for a long time? I only ask to try and help someone else who might be in the same situation.
@@pauliewalnuts5241 he fell to many times and couldn’t control himself. Hit his head to many times
@@bartjohnson8065 are you his younger brother or older?
@@pauliewalnuts5241The oldest of his brothers
I feel like you are talking directly to me... I need this.
Dm me on IG if you want to talk man @thelocaljoe also your channel name is hilarious dude
Absolutely tragedy I’m sorry everyone and pray they re sliding heavens rails
RIP Henry
Beautiful video and thank you for your words. RIP Henry and all the people lost to suicide. Especially you mom ❤️
Sorry for you loss. Definitely motivates me to spread more love and positivity in hopes maybe I can make the difference for someone somewhere.
First Ben Raemers, now Henry. 2 legendary shredders taking their lives. Gone way too soon. As for the rest of the shredders we’ve lost in recent years. RIP. Look out for your friends and fam, man! Thanks for this video buddy. Very respectful.
Well said! If we aren't there for eachother nobody else will be. Gotta pull together!
My thoughts and prayers go out to him and his family. I can't imagine what his family is going through.
Seriously sending good vibes to his family and friends
So much times I was on this edge... I can relate. It's rock hard, it's overwhelming over the top and there is a vast, dark, cold place inside you. Everything blurs up and you feel strong, constant, dull pain and lack of air... I think that the only thing that kept me here is my belief in reincarnation. You can pull yourself out of here, but lesson is not learned and you will come back to struggle this one more time to figure it out and find love in you. Love is the key to everything. You can't borrow love from outside, it can only be grown from the inside, from your heart.
Never even heard about him until earlier today... he seemed like a great soul and a badass on the skateboard. RIP Henry Gartland
I've spoken to a couple people that knew him and they said he never cared about himself but always looked out for other people. Nicest dude but we gotta look out for ourselves too. Gotta keep it balanced.
He was quickly becoming one of my favorites, especially after that noseblunt down the 18 stair that santa cruz recently posted. That shit was crazy... RIP Henry Gartland. Missed so much already.
Was watching that noseblunt like two days ago. so gnarly. Wish he would've stuck around for a lot reasons.
This was refreshing.
Great message.
Great tribute.
Glad you enjoyed it
One of those things nobody understand why... I pray god every day to be always on the light side, where I truly hope he must be now.
God is merciful. I believe he judges us for who we are not what we lack. Hope Henry is happy.
Nice work mate. An important video for sure.
If anyone in Australia sees this and is suffering you can call Lifeline. I'm trained in the lifeline counselling model and it is an amazing resource. It really is anonymous. Your call is put through to another major city and you will talk to someone who is trained but cant identify you. That is really crucial to someone who feels they cant reach out to anyone around them.
I have lost at least 4 guys who have been close to me to suicide and its not getting better. We really need to push this right now and get rid of the counselling stigma for good.
People need to realize they are entitled to do whatever they need to do to be happy and people opinions of them getting help don't matter.
@@localjoe Very true mate.
It fucks with me mentally on how many up coming pros an pros skaters take their own lives I know a lot of ppl do but as a skater it hits me more coz one day u could be down the park or whatever skating an next day they’re gone. R.I.P dude
This is to all his friends i lost 10 years of my life to alcoholism after my best friend took his life, took me 10 years to learn he wouldn't want me to live that life, if anything take your angers and feelings out on the street, push harder for HENRY today🙏
Love this man one bad decision doesn’t justify more bad decisions. Take the negative and turn it into positive
@@localjoe man im lucky to have come out alive myself, i lost 13 friends to suicide, drugs, and alcohol in a very short time frame, it wasn't easy to handle but made me stronger in the end, if I can help anybody, it helps me my brother, you can't get those wasted years back, I wish I could, much love to anyone suffering from the darkness of mental illness I may not know you personally but I care for life as shall we all🙏
rest easy henry gartland our hearts goes out in his family. from here in philippines 😭🥀🇵🇭 we love you henry.. pls like if your a filipino also to those who appreciate the talent of henry.
People always say it gets better but a lot of the times it only gets worse.
There are no failures in life only people who start looking for answer and solutions. Keep your head up G!
My English teacher once asked me what is the best thing about you? My response: "I always smile"
I thought that was a normal reaction untill she said: "Nobody ever said that."
That was the moment I realised I had things to process. A couple of years later, I went through a really dark period, which eventually took like 5-7 years (but never thought to end myself).
Nowadays, I am actually smiling.
RIP❤
Stay strong yall❤
I hope he wasn’t upset over a girl man ...
That´s what I´m thinking the whole time
To soon. This kid was hammer time for sure
He was just getting started too. RIP Henry
its sad man, but im gonna be honest ive called those numbers. they cant and dont do anything really, its a broken system, they just repeat everything you say to them back to you to try and calm you down. my sympathies to Henry's friends and family but for anyone else out there who is feeling the same way TAKE MY ADVICE build your own support system, get some good friends who really care about your well being because some college kid with two hours training at a call center isnt going to even know where to begin with helping you anywhere as well as people who know you personally.
Yo this is a big take away from this video for me. You're one of many people saying this same thing. I made a follow up video to this and talked about how those hotlines aren't a solution. People are the solution we've got to get help/ look to see how we can help. People helping people is what's needed.
@@localjoe thank you so much for your reply. I'm gonna have to check out your video on hotlines too, I really appreciate you not only drawing attention to the situation but actively bringing up discussion for a better solution it means a lot!
I was watching skate videos, I never knew this guy and I cried so hard when I found out he took his own life
crazy he's gone just like that... without knowing him somehow skateboarding connected us to the point we feel gutted
@@localjoe I somehow can relate to what he felt(I still am going thru shit), despite his achievements, it is just so frustrating he lost, take care everyone
I love his smile. Rip Henry 🙏❤
Some of the brightest smiles mask some of the emptiest souls. So gutted he’s gone wish there was something I could do
Young men, please fight and fight and when you get knocked down get up and fight and never stop fighting because you are fucking warriors and we will be fighting by your side!
⚡ Stand Strong ⚡-Mike Vallely
people who smiles the most is many times the people who feel real bad inside
Have an amazing time resting Henry. He was the one who actually motivated me to start skateboarding.
Your an amazing person for doing this video man I didn't even know who Henry was but pain is felt by all we all have feelings and it's a sad day anybody who have lost a love one
I hope if there's a henry in my life I'll know what to do. This was a wake up call.
bro, this was the best video I've seen about Henry's passing, very well worded and completely on point, I would say it's impossible to guess who or why people do this but I do know we can respect their decision and enjoy what they gave to us when they was here.
I'm not sure I respect his decision but I definitely can't judge him for it. Unless you're pushed to the edge like that you'll never know how you'd actually respond. I hope he's happy wherever he is now!
R.I.P
Henry and Ben raemers
🕯❤️ ☮️
RIP Henry and Ben.
It crushes me that nothing, not even an astounding amount of talent and personality, could stop the pain.
It could be he was using skateboarding to outrun his issues but it wasn't working... no judgement I just hope I can see people going down that path in my life and know what to do to help.
Depression and suicidal ideation is awful. Depression brain is a liar and tells people they are worthless. It's awful. Such a devastating loss. RIP Henry.
Rip Henry you ripped man and you being lost and gone for now is a bummer, we miss you and only can imagine the stuggles and emotions that are overlooked in behavior health. talk to your homies and fam always about life and shit we smile thru the bullshit but sometimes its a mask we cover up the pain with. RIP either way and we will never let your spirit be lost again and the love you had for skateboarding and its community.
100% idk if you read that comment that I pinned but someone posted a poem about smiling as mask to all the hardship going on inside. Definitely feeling renewed motivation to reach out to people and spread love because you just don't know what people are dealing with.
#Respect 🙏. Thank you for posting this video 💯
The fact that this video reached so many people is a testament to the fact that people want to have this discussion.
Definitely brother. I never met Henry, but I wish he was still here. 🙏🏼💔
All my love and prayers to Henry's family and friends. Bless 🙏🏼🕊️✨
It’s ducked up man. That saying tears of a clown is so real. Meaning the ones who are trying to make everyone happy and smile because they are so sad inside and when they are by themselves. 0.44 look at how he embraces his homie. So genuine. RIP brotha. I hope you’re in a better place.
gone too early but never forgotten REST IN PARADISE HENRY 🏝🕊🖤
So damn sad 😔
If you have depression, do not smoke weed.
Good advice for sure
why?
I can’t comprehend it. I just wish I knew why. Heart breaking.
LL henry ❤️🕊so much talent. he will be sincerely missed.
He seemed like such a genuinely kind person as well. Hope I can see through the smiles that are hiding deeper issues like he was dealing with.
R.I.P Henry. You are missed.
so crazy how you can miss someone you never actually met... so gutted
I just got interested in skateboarding last week but i never know him even though i dont know him rest in peace henry ❤️
you never know what someone is going through.. Welcome to the skateboard community my man hope skateboarding does as much for you as it has for me. Best gift i was ever given was a skateboard
God bless Henry and his family. Make the world a better place,hug a skateboarder.
He was such a legend! What a massive loss 😔
it's so sad. You just never know who is going through dark times..
RIP, so fucking sad bro!!! Spread love like fire...so much love, and thank you so much 4 this video man
It’s tragic I just wonder how many Henry’s are in my life and what I can do?
RIP Henry. Side note but where can i get a rail like the one you were skating?
I met him once he was so good though
i've spoken to a couple people that knew him and they only had good things to say about him. Sometimes the nicest people are going through the worst adversity..
@@localjoe ya
Dude. I remember this dude at 3rd Lair in Minnesota. I can't believe to hear this has happened... I'm sorry dude....
Met the guy a few times he was so cool and genuine gonna miss you broski
You just never know who is going through it...
As a veteran I struggle with this issue on a daily basis. 35 yrs old have had 5 surgeries and a shoulder surgery . I cant walk and have no one. Been trying to reach out out to mental health but they say I dont qualify for PTSD Groups because the mental health provider feels unsafe with my problems. Not looking for sympathy and not trying to take his video away from just had to pour but to something
If you ever need someone to vent to dm me on instagram. I'm not a therapist or whatever but if it helps to just have somewhere to put your thoughts I'm always here G!
Thanks man I really appreciate it. I'm currently sitting at the Veterans Administration psyche hold. My doctor called them at 1030 and now I'm here
@@donavintrip713 is that progress meaning they’ll treat you or just keep you there?
Hey i was suicidal for almost 15 years.. But im still here and im no more suicidal! nice video much love!!
Well done so glad you are still here! ❤️
Congratulations and thank the people that helped you through it. Thank you for staying.
@@destroya_2345 thank you
this was good, dude. Thanks.
Thanks man I feel a little conflicted this video is doing so well because it’s almost like I’m benefitting from his death. But I hope it can create some awareness and make people more sensitive to inner struggles people may be having
@@localjoe understandable why you feel conflicted,but I think you did it properly.
He was amazing on a board. Good video. Tell your friends you love them.
He was going to be big and now he’s gone just like that. We just don’t know what people are going through?
I literally live for the homies who wanna die. Because one of my homies is on the same wave length of depression as me and he always hears and understands my dramatic ass when I’m in the depths. We have to talk about the monster that is depression if we want that monster to be less scary. Everyone deals with this shit and if you haven’t yet you will lose someone someday who will make you understand. Just hang on and eventually you’ll be back to feeling like yourself again.
I'm also from minnapolis ❤ RIP henry G. Skaters go to heaven ❤
did you ever see henry around the parks there? So gutted that he's gone..
I just watched the true grit video about him on the Santa Cruz channel like a week ago, I was watching everything I could find of this guy. Him being gone just a few days later really hurt.
I’m sure he was on the verge of turning pro. It’s weird I never knew him and find myself wondering if I could’ve helped some way...
It's mad isn't it, shows us how precious life is. Grosso, Dylan, Raemers, CJ, Henry, Pablo Ramirez etc. Got me all questioning mortality lately. On top of that, Tanya Roberts, Dustin Diamond lately as well. Sad
Mark waters as well. We only got one life to live and no time to waste.
This was great brother! RIP Henry
So sad to see him leave us
Rip He really inspired me to get my own skate board and learn tricks this lost hurt even tho i never knew him so when i found out i was hit hard fly high gart ✨🕊🥺
RIP Henry. Sick he inspired you to get a board.
Local Joe Ya it sucks we lost him 😔
RIP HENRY GARTLAND
He was a bright burning star! Rest easy homie
Dude seemed so nice. Hope if there’s a Henry in my life I’ll know how to reach iut
so sad.. I wonder if CTE could be affecting some of the big rail/set skaters, I'd imagine they smack their heads pretty often. Nowhere close to the amount of trauma football players receive but it's something to think about.
that's an interesting point i don't think anyone is talking about.
@@localjoe yea! hopefully after the olympics there'll be enough interest to do research in the area.
That’s a good point. I’ve hit my head a few good times through my years skating and I worry about the future sometimes. There was a college football player who committed suicide at 21 a couple years ago...studied his brain after death and found major CTE due to one hit in high school. If one hit can do it to someone so can multiple times hitting your head skating.
@@Thrashman-ye4cf oh true? I was always under the impression that cte was called what it is because you're chronically getting your head smacked, that's super interesting though. Andy anderson might be onto something wearing a helmet lol
God damn man I hate this so fucking much. Prayers and thoughts out to his family, fellow team riders, and any other fans out there. Fuck man we need to do better as a community fucking reach out try anything before making that wrong decision. I didn’t know Henry from a hole in the wall but this really hit home. Fuck man RIP HENRY GARTLAND.
A lot of skateboarders are on the fringes of society where there are lots of problems. Skateboarders can really help each other out because as good as a skateboard is it can’t solve everything
I didn’t know who he was but it sucks to lose another legend😞🙏
Seriously dude never knew him personally but just so gutting can’t imagine how his family feels..
Dang man that sucks I got tears in my eyes Rest In Peace brotha
Skateboarding may have been one of the things that kept him going. Such a tragedy to see a young guy with so much talent and a vibrant personality. Skateboarding will always remember you Henry.🛹❤️
True maybe he would've be gone much sooner without skating.. regardless you just don't know what people are going through and we just gotta stay positive and love everyone as best we can.
Rest In Power Henry.
RIP Henry
Im friends with his younger brother, he tells me a lot of stories about henry
care to share any good stories
Love the video brother. Much love to the fam!
what made him to end his life?, such awesome skateboarder Rest easy Henry
Maybe those closest to him know but to everyone else seems like he never let on what kind of darkness he was dealing with....
He was a god 😞rip Henry love you brother 🥺😞❤️
one of a kind and hit such a high level at such a young age. Weird feeling asking yourself howyou might've helped someone you never met
:( He Was 1 Of My Fav
dude it's gutting man I really think he barely even scratched the surface of his own potential.
Him and 6 dogs saw the same fate on the same day R.I.P too these young men, sad you never really know what's going on or happening in someone's head. Please reach out it could be the best thing you do.. god bless 🙏🏻
i've spoken to a couple people that knew him and they only had good things to say about him. the nicest people are sometimes the ones going through the worst adversity..
Still can't accept it 🙏 rip
Props man. Excellent video
Thank you. RIP Henry