FEMININE VULNERABILITY THAT ATTRACTS AND KEEPS A HIGH VALUE MASCULINE MAN

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  • Vulnerability is a dirty word to many of us because of our wounds and past pain and in this video I discuss why it is essential to promote our femininity.
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  • @shawnit3071
    @shawnit3071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I told my man something hurt my feelings (I was nervous to tell him) and he was taken by surprise at first and called me his “sensitive boo” but apologized quickly and was so extra loving and attentive after. I felt loved and that my feelings matter to him.

  • @lizlawley5174
    @lizlawley5174 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A true high value man will accept and love us for our flaws aswell as our strengths 💖

  • @dleveston
    @dleveston 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Chengi, you just gave me reassurance. Quality time is important to me and my feminine energy gets thrown off when I feel like I have to beg for it and that need continues to go unmet. And I am the kind of woman who has her own things going on, so I'm not clingy or needy by all counts. But I felt myself falling into the "nice girl trap" and it felt so wrong. My emotions and needs are important and should be important to my mate!

  • @chrissythecrafter3972
    @chrissythecrafter3972 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh my goodness, I’m sitting here listening to you, almost in tears as I realize that I’m able to be this vulnerable. That I have found a that hates to see me hurt or saddened especially by him. He’s seen my flaws and wants to work through them and his. As well.

  • @mwansasenkwe6819
    @mwansasenkwe6819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Whenever I told my ex he hurt me , he would get offended 🌚Thankyou Lord for grace

  • @ellapark8770
    @ellapark8770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    needed to hear this today! korean women are often pressured to be bubbly and happy 24/7, so i guess that's the equivalent pressure for black women to be constantly strong, successful, etc. i will be more vulnerable going forward, and embrace all of my emotions, even the dark ones.

  • @nelsongail
    @nelsongail 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I gladly receive this teaching. Thank you so much for showing how there is divine power in the transparent, authentic vulnerability of our femininity.

  • @queenconscious2989
    @queenconscious2989 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Chengi, God is using you to help other women see their value and realize that it's okay to be feminine & vulnerable knowing that the one God has for us will be a masculine covering, willing and able to accept every part of us.

  • @cece1907
    @cece1907 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m glad you made this video because we can get caught up in the queen mindset and forget our vulnerability

  • @Brandy3319
    @Brandy3319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yeah this one hit home.. Especially the part always having to be strong... Usually when I’m gaslighted like this by a man I end the relationship. But my mother has done this to me for years... it’s like I can’t even have a simple bad day, or be upset if someone crosses me.. I have to be happy all the time around her.. She needs a lot of emotional hand- holding and it’s exhausting ~ I need to check out the video on the Mother Wound.. ~

  • @pernellwalker8420
    @pernellwalker8420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You look gorgeous! I love that hair color and length!!

  • @gerberdaisy2388
    @gerberdaisy2388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    (10:22-11:50) ... OHMYgoodness ... THIS was my husband (now N-ex) ... it's like you, my dear sister, were a fly on the walls of my home for 34 years! ... yep, all the exact dangerous traits of a covert narcissist. Thank you for making this video!

  • @kizzythompson3135
    @kizzythompson3135 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have learned that it is ok to not be ok at some point. It's beautiful when you have a strong understanding masculine man shoulder to lean on at that time without judgement.

  • @amandagarcia9022
    @amandagarcia9022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The cape tho 😍
    And Chengi, thank you for breaking all these topics down for a High Value Feminine Woman 🔥
    So good

  • @nenejoy2005
    @nenejoy2005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Chengi! I cried listening to this. This is my struggle😭😭😭.

  • @sheedaf4736
    @sheedaf4736 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I needed this message

  • @kpparker9544
    @kpparker9544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I truly appreciate this lesson. Thank you.

  • @retrobones8951
    @retrobones8951 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just found your channel! You are awesome!

  • @annywalessa6433
    @annywalessa6433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this empowering message, beautiful lady! Stay blessed.

  • @thisismystone9658
    @thisismystone9658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for the amazing real elaborations whilst passing on important information.😍😍🔥

  • @hannagetnet614
    @hannagetnet614 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Samantha-bc2uu
    @Samantha-bc2uu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cried infront of him because he stood me up he dumped me for crying the next day