IT'S 2 MINUTES IN.... I ran to the comments to see if judges behavior gets on any one else's nerves sometimes... HE MADE HIS DECISION ALREADY BASED OFF OF FRIENDS WITH BENEFIT STATEMENT...idk...BRB
I’m starting to dislike him because I’m seeing this a LOT. I think it’s because he has this idea in his head that women want to get one up on the men and get revenge via court snd because of that he lets a lot of things slide on the mans part and misconstrues stuff on the women’s. Also when it’s parents or parental figures against their children, he ALWAYS sides with the parents.
Why was JM badgering her so hard about the “friends with benefits “ thing???? He was absolutely obnoxious!! Poor girl could hardly get through that interrogation. I don’t know what’s wrong with him sometimes. 🤷🏻♀️
@Susan Storm You are so right, JM was pissing me off with this case. How in the heck does that bum defendant get a judgement for harassment for her posting a few things to his g.f.’s timeline, any judge always responds with (“let your girlfriend sue for harassment”). JM should be ashamed of himself
Exactly. The judge acts dumb as hell sometimes. We all knew what she meant was that she thought they had a thing for each other but he only thought of them as friends.
I believe that his behavior sometimes are led by the ratings. If the producers tell him that the ratings are dropping a little his behavior changes. From nice to ratchet or from ratchet to nice🤷♀️
I get what she was trying to say. They may have been FWB, but I do think that he was blurring the lines and boundaries of FWB with her. He may have been leading her on and playing with her emotions when it benefitted him. He knew that she liked him. He knew that she wanted to be with him. He probably would smack her back down to reality by reminding her that they were only FWB. When he lived with her, he had easy access to her and he had the ability to get up and leave to go to his girlfriend. It was a win-win situation for him until her desire to want to be with him became too much for him. He should have never moved in with her nor should he have continued sleeping with her. FWB or not, if you know someone is wanting more than what you’re willing to give, you should just end that situation.
@@rambojordan1 I’m not excusing anything on her part. I simply spoke on the fact that the Judge acted like it was simply impossible for the defendant to have blurred the lines and stoked the flames of the “crazy” fire that the defendant is currently complaining about. It doesn’t excuse her at all. Just like her hands aren’t clean in the situation, his hands are dirty too.
She's a cornball too though. She knew what it was and tried to make it be something else. Not to mention being obsessive. I don't feel sorry for either of them
How is he a cornball. He was articulate, presented his case well and won. She on the other hand was a flat-out mess, constantly lying to Judge and ruining her credibility.
How do you lead someone on when you sleep in different rooms, in a house that both you guys live in alone, after having sex. while this person knows you have a gf, an you consistently remind them that its jus FWB. Id believe her if she was denying things he said, but she agreed he was tellin the truth, but still felt like it was more.
At first I thought maybe he lied to her and led her on but... y'all living in the same house in different rooms? He got a gf and she knew about it? Doesn't get any clearer than that.
@@Renrens-LionessofJudah victim mentality. white woman. black man. society norms. chile so many variables. she thought moving in was gonna get him to assimilate to position and it didn't. she should've paid all rent then maybe he would've stayed lol. but she knew he had a girl...no mam. I'm sorry he did not lead her on. Even if he did she knew he was a lier because he still had a girl.
@@Whatthafukc crazy how commenters, like me, state an opinion about said video, and commenters, like you, take things personal and find a need to say something about the commenter's life... that you have no knowledge of... wild
The judge hated the plaintiff from the second she introduced the relationship. I knew he would grant the harassment. He would’ve told anybody else “tell your girlfriend to sue her then”. His hate for women has been showing strong lately
JM does NOT hate women. That's your and others' interpretation. Find another post and someone will be saying, he hates men, or he hates Black people, etc., etc.
Judge Mathis hates woman that get played and knowingly that the man is no good n they come to him to fix the problem by getting money for being dumb and not loving themselves n knowing there worth n having low self esteem. He doesn't hate women at all he holds women to a high regard n respect
People don’t know how to handle FWB. Once you both are through doing the do, the clock starts and they have 10 minutes to catch their breath and vacate the premises ⏰ 🤷🏾♂️ 🏃♂️ 😂
Judge Mathis is on one today. All of us, who are not Judges, understand exactly what this woman is explaining in her opening statement, so why is Judge Mathis saying she hurt her credibility. Now I don't even want to watch this episode.
I agree. This bum was telling he one thing and doing another. He used her. He finessed her. She was naive, but he should have to suffer consequences for being deceitful.
You can’t expect judges to read between the line . Answer with what happened and not feelings . She never should have used the term “ friends with benefits “ if it wasn’t that .
I don’t think he led her on, he said what he said… she kept trying to convince him otherwise. Her bad. Don’t let a man have to tell or show you that he doesn’t want you.
@Cameo At least you know now. Men use jailhouse talk to lure in several women to use to their advantage. A family member's *"boyfriend"* was in jail for 22 years, my family member waited for him to get out, he stayed with her for a few months, he eventually left her for another woman that he was talking to while in prison. He moved in with the lady and her adult kids started calling him Dad, it was a weird situation.
He befriended her on Facebook because he wanted to get layed and she fell for the banana 🍌 in the tailpipe. When will some of you learn. She said they were friends with benefits and tried to change the narrative because she didn't want to seem like a oohre. Girl please...
He did what most men do, if sex is available, they take it. But I do agree with you for the most part except him playing with her emotions. She knew about him not wanting a relationship and having a girlfriend. She should be held accountable for that.
He's a deadbeat for sure but JM is probably as tired as I am of seeing grown women allow themselves to be played time and time again. It's ridiculous as Hell for so many intelligent, beautiful, educated, self sufficient women to be so dumb & desperate. This man is a complete moron and she couldn't see that a mile away????
He’s giving her the wake up call that she needs. Go by a man’s actions not his words. Esp. If she already knew he had multiple kids with multiple women and living off of each mom.
He was honest and upfront with her about what he was looking for: FWB. She should have been honest about what she wanted: commitment. She chose to accept what he offered. She let him use her. I can't and don't feel sorry for her at all. She tried to get him to be committed to her when he said from jump he was a hobosexual.
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@@scottrogue946 the judge hit the nail on the head. If a man loved you, he will be in bed with you every night. Unless y’all married for 20 years and ur wife snores
JM how she’s not creditable you can’t tell her how to define her relationship with him. She said we had this friends with benefits or WHATEVER you wanna call it! Jm must didn’t hear the whatever you wanna call it part.
If I’m suing for something specific….my personal business is none of your business. JM talks down on people sometimes about things that have nothing to do with the case and then say “okay what are you suing him for today”
The way JM carrying the woman... i don't like...like he wasn't trying to hear her.. was trying to get too specific with the definition of "FWB" as if everyone has the college knowledge he has.
Exactly. Some friends are better friends than others. FWB means no commitment but it doesn't mean that you don't have a very strong friendship with a person. FWB can get messy.
No one ever wants to blame the man… it’s always the woman who’s responsible . Some men know how to manipulate a situation, and I believe he took advantage of her because he knew she liked him… at the end of the day, you can’t help who you like, but he could’ve walked away if he didn’t feel the same way… he wanted his cake and eat it too . Men know which women suffer from low self esteem.. they know who they can run game on and who they can’t.
She’s really bitter about not getting the relationship she wanted from him but at the same time she allowed him to give her whatever he wanted so she can’t be upset. NEXT TIME SAY WHAT YOU WANT FROM A MAN AND EXPECT NOTHING LESS. KNOW YOUR WORTH GIRL!
JM doesn’t like when people misuse words, he thinks they’re trying to lie or embellish. He’s right most times. He can be so literal sometimes so the litigants need to just tell truth and apparently read the dictionary regularly lol
She perjured herself. She said that she would like to see the Facebook message because she never contacted the girlfriend about him. She’s lucky Judge Mathis didn’t hear her say that.
This was complete gaslighting by both JM and the defendant. Why would he move in with her as a FWB knowing that he has a girlfriend and was still smashing the plaintiff. Like seriously?!
If somebody is buying a house and being there for you emotionally and you're having sex , and sharing cell phone bills, that's a little more than friends with benefits... there's definitely some gray area and room for confusion there
A good friend with benefits. Instead of just friends with benefits. A lot of people argue with their partner about their best friend because they spend to much time & do more for the friend than them with no problem. RS have ended because of it.
Word to the wise-unwise maybe-actions speak louder than words..don't say one thing and do another when someone's emotions get involved. It can end much worse than this. And use protection if you're fwb!
The plantiff decided to go in on a home together with the defendant when he had another woman pregnant and after knowing is history. Then to top it off she got pregnant. Women continue to run to the court after making bad decision after bad decision.
The defendant decided to use this woman for a place to live, and at least one other woman for sex. He decided not to use a condom and got her pregnant. And then when he got her pregnant he made the unilateral decision to run away and not pay the rent he agreed to pay. He made the most amount of bad decisions in this case. But I guess in your eyes he's a helpless victim like yourself.
I love judge but he just didn’t like the plaintiff lol defendant absolutely led her on lol he can front like it’s something else on TV but we know what’s up. Don’t get involved in FWB something always happens lol
Why does society always blame the women. Instead of telling men to have a better character. And be a real man. And stop being misleading and giving women mix signals. Had she done that to him. He'd be ready to pull a OJ.
What difference did it make if they were sexually active? Mathis was being too extra on that and why would she wanna come out and call it what it really was and why would that hurt her credibility maybe some of the drugs he used in his youth are having lingering effects
These old playas end up in nursing homes, kids want nothing to do with em. When will bm understand having an intact family benefit him especially when they reach the last chapter of their lives.
She admitted her self that he said he didn’t want a relationship, yet she’s trying to “change “ the man. Come on give me a break this is why guys take advantage of dumb girls like that.
JM is so busy trying to interrogate the woman! That’s annoying! He’s not being objective at all and that gets on my nerves whoever he does it to. Not the best idea to be FWB, however he’s not her father and it’s not his job to rip her up like he’s a prosecutor. He’s the moodiest TV judge on the bench. Act like he knows EVERYTHING and he can’t be wrong. This was just disrespectful and I don’t even agree with that lifestyle. The dude saying all of this but just got her pregnant the previous year, so he’s having raw sex with her…but he’s scared of her being pushy. Make it make sense. 😣
He was just using you honey!!!!!!! #1 rule…. Do not date a grown man who lives with his mother/father (unless the parents are critically I’ll and you had to move in to take care of them)😉
I hate GASLIGHT DUDES like this he knows dog on well he sold her some dreams in order to keep her on the hook and unfortunately she was in love with him and he seen she was vulnerable and took advantage smh she knew he had other women etc and still tried and tried to force him into loving her WHICH NEVER WORKS
That whole situation was a mess. You don't move in someone your in a casual relationship with that has a girlfriend. Why was he not living with the girlfriend? And what did the plaintiff see in him to agree to this nonsense arrangement?
First of all, who gives af what fwb means. 🙄 He loves tryna make women feel stupid about having feelings for a man who was obviously playing games. But if a woman comes up here saying the same thing he has jokes about her being fast. Chile he’s a hypocrite
I'm not letting a man who looks and acts like him lead me on taking about "friends with benefits. Some people need to humble themselves and appreciate the people who actually want them and sit down somewhere.
Mathis hasn't dated in over 20+ years due to him being married so he should consider reserving his personal opinion on FWB. The most updated term for FWB is now referred to as "Situation-ships." Either way you can have a deeper connection with someone and not have a title. Just like there are married couples that are strangers to each other. Mathis needs to stop asking for background info only to project his ideals and then become biased in relation to the judgements.
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I get tired when the judge starts taking sides early before he's heard both sides fully.
He does that A LOT!!
He put words in her mouth and twisted what she was saying. Don’t appreciate that.
IT'S 2 MINUTES IN.... I ran to the comments to see if judges behavior gets on any one else's nerves sometimes... HE MADE HIS DECISION ALREADY BASED OFF OF FRIENDS WITH BENEFIT STATEMENT...idk...BRB
Yeah he was definitely rude af to her
I’m starting to dislike him because I’m seeing this a LOT. I think it’s because he has this idea in his head that women want to get one up on the men and get revenge via court snd because of that he lets a lot of things slide on the mans part and misconstrues stuff on the women’s. Also when it’s parents or parental figures against their children, he ALWAYS sides with the parents.
I’m experiencing secondhand embarrassment for this lady.
Of course you're not.
Shes white. She has feelings.
@@Whatthafukc wtf are u saying
@@Whatthafukc ???😂
JM was way too harsh with her
@@bajangenetics400 some what
Why was JM badgering her so hard about the “friends with benefits “ thing???? He was absolutely obnoxious!! Poor girl could hardly get through that interrogation. I don’t know what’s wrong with him sometimes. 🤷🏻♀️
@Susan Storm
You are so right, JM was pissing me off with this case.
How in the heck does that bum defendant get a judgement for harassment for her posting a few things to his g.f.’s timeline, any judge always responds with (“let your girlfriend sue for harassment”).
JM should be ashamed of himself
Exactly. The judge acts dumb as hell sometimes. We all knew what she meant was that she thought they had a thing for each other but he only thought of them as friends.
he honestly trying to get her to understand she had game ran her
We already know JM believes in tough love and girlfriend still stuck...emotionally. She's right on about getting her $$ back from loser too.
I believe that his behavior sometimes are led by the ratings. If the producers tell him that the ratings are dropping a little his behavior changes. From nice to ratchet or from ratchet to nice🤷♀️
Damn I feel bad for her… she seems like a decent person. Someone good will come your way girl don’t stress it
I get what she was trying to say. They may have been FWB, but I do think that he was blurring the lines and boundaries of FWB with her. He may have been leading her on and playing with her emotions when it benefitted him. He knew that she liked him. He knew that she wanted to be with him. He probably would smack her back down to reality by reminding her that they were only FWB. When he lived with her, he had easy access to her and he had the ability to get up and leave to go to his girlfriend. It was a win-win situation for him until her desire to want to be with him became too much for him.
He should have never moved in with her nor should he have continued sleeping with her. FWB or not, if you know someone is wanting more than what you’re willing to give, you should just end that situation.
Right cuz why move in with me on a new lease when you have a girlfriend?😂
Thank u
exactly not sure how Judge Mathis didn’t get that smh
Or she could not have let him move in until he made an actual commitment to her. Let’s not excuse her for acting dumb
@@rambojordan1 I’m not excusing anything on her part. I simply spoke on the fact that the Judge acted like it was simply impossible for the defendant to have blurred the lines and stoked the flames of the “crazy” fire that the defendant is currently complaining about. It doesn’t excuse her at all. Just like her hands aren’t clean in the situation, his hands are dirty too.
He Lowkey was dating her , he just don’t wanna admit it
How?? He references his girlfriend and so does she... her words were FWBs lol
neither did she barely lmao
This guy is a cornball and def used and led her on. She was an old friend from highschool who always liked him and used that to his advantage.
She's a cornball too though. She knew what it was and tried to make it be something else. Not to mention being obsessive. I don't feel sorry for either of them
Yessssss my ex did just that!
How is he a cornball.
He was articulate, presented his case well and won.
She on the other hand was a flat-out mess, constantly lying to Judge and ruining her credibility.
He's a (L)oser
@@the2006mvp I agree FAIRly
Why would you live with someone if you're FWB?! Someone bound to catch feelings. He definitely led her on..
💯💯 then he comes on the show treating her like she’s nothing 🤦♀️ I don’t do those FWB things lol
How do you lead someone on when you sleep in different rooms, in a house that both you guys live in alone, after having sex. while this person knows you have a gf, an you consistently remind them that its jus FWB. Id believe her if she was denying things he said, but she agreed he was tellin the truth, but still felt like it was more.
@@bahamiantekwa2297 I agree! Separate rooms would have been a flag for me stating fwb!
The man had a girlfriend.
At first I thought maybe he lied to her and led her on but... y'all living in the same house in different rooms? He got a gf and she knew about it? Doesn't get any clearer than that.
thank you!
Thank you. So why are people commenting that she was used.
@@Renrens-LionessofJudah victim mentality. white woman. black man. society norms. chile so many variables. she thought moving in was gonna get him to assimilate to position and it didn't. she should've paid all rent then maybe he would've stayed lol. but she knew he had a girl...no mam. I'm sorry he did not lead her on. Even if he did she knew he was a lier because he still had a girl.
All things planned ? Lol except every child you have. And I'm sure your life is spontaneous infidelity with whomever.
@@Whatthafukc crazy how commenters, like me, state an opinion about said video, and commenters, like you, take things personal and find a need to say something about the commenter's life... that you have no knowledge of... wild
It never fails...Doyle WONT hold that laugh,or his comments at ALL😂😭😂
🤣😂🤣😂
The judge hated the plaintiff from the second she introduced the relationship. I knew he would grant the harassment. He would’ve told anybody else “tell your girlfriend to sue her then”. His hate for women has been showing strong lately
I don’t know how he got to sue for her harassing his girlfriend???
He’s so abnoxious sometimes.JM calm down ! Damn
Yes very misogynistic when it comes to cases like these, his teu character always comes out
JM does NOT hate women. That's your and others' interpretation. Find another post and someone will be saying, he hates men, or he hates Black people, etc., etc.
Judge Mathis hates woman that get played and knowingly that the man is no good n they come to him to fix the problem by getting money for being dumb and not loving themselves n knowing there worth n having low self esteem. He doesn't hate women at all he holds women to a high regard n respect
She was totally confused and she finally accepted the truth of the nature of the relationship and that's the reason they're in court today!
Yes, a full episode! That BS they pulled on my lunch break pissed me off 😒🙄😂🤦🏾♀️
Talkin bout a minute and 34 seconds. I was so upset honey😩
Kiana C. They know they could have added that mess to the regular episode 😭 lol
@@KiiC. wow .. may I ask like what part of North America you in lol
Why was judge Mathis being like that with her in the beginning?? Must’ve been in a bad mood
Judge Mathis needs an HEARING AID!!! The girl said " What he wants to call it"
Ok Fran??? What are you 90? Give him one of yours.
Maybe you need a grammar and typing class.
He's on one today.
Yeah, that part pissed me off. Judge Mathis doesn’t understand that the guy only mentioned FWB when he got tied up for cheating on his gf.
Yeah, I don't understand why he was overindexing on that. It was so weird
Hear good or not, if someone is in this type of relationship you either don't catch feelings or you don't do it.
Sometimes JM is super short with people and sometimes he jokes around… you never know what kind of mood he will be in 🤨
Ikr & I think it's the pain pills/weed wearing off🤣🤣🤣
He can be mean for no reason
He's a bit annoying and rude... he was hard on Tiffany.
@@BoogieShoogie i agree
@@lizhiggins4805 who hates men Liz??
The benefits were paying half of everything 🥴 He was looking for a home & in house 😺
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Yep!
Exactly, with his sorry ass.
😂😂😂😂
He tried to use her...made her think that he wanted her so she fell for him...he just played her thats all...
Exactly and people need to suffer consequences for that.
She needs to set some standards for herself so she doesn’t end up in this situation
@@rambojordan1 💯💯
This man is a narcissist - he is an epitome of dust. He used this lady.
People don’t know how to handle FWB. Once you both are through doing the do, the clock starts and they have 10 minutes to catch their breath and vacate the premises ⏰ 🤷🏾♂️ 🏃♂️ 😂
No goody bags like Malik gave on the show The Game🤣🤣🤣
I like, totally agree with you?
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Not 10 minutes lol
😂😂😂
Exactly! No pillow talk or none of that. Dap them up and put them out
I’m so glad I am happy with being alone. I don’t feel the need to accept anything!
@Liz Tentton facts sis!!
I'm glad that I can be happy alone OR with a husband.
She embarrassed herself. In a situation like that, take the loss and stay off of TV. She looks desperate and pressed. He is unbothered!
Or go to courthouse downtown
Whew Chile, this judge be on edge😹
Yea you can tell when he’s had a rough day 🥴🥴
For real. He was unnecessarily rude.
I don't blame him in this case.
He is so moody 😂 Sometimes he'll play all case long and sometimes he's just mean
He was in a mood but these people don't know what they doing...I hope the girl chooses better after this bum
This guy is a huge cornball. I don’t like how “chummy” Judge Mathis seemed to be with him
Judge Mathis is on one today. All of us, who are not Judges, understand exactly what this woman is explaining in her opening statement, so why is Judge Mathis saying she hurt her credibility. Now I don't even want to watch this episode.
He was very rude to her...
I agree. This bum was telling he one thing and doing another. He used her. He finessed her. She was naive, but he should have to suffer consequences for being deceitful.
Yep it does that. Makes you want to move on... Hate to say it.
You can’t expect judges to read between the line . Answer with what happened and not feelings . She never should have used the term “ friends with benefits “ if it wasn’t that .
100% agreed with you. He pushed her hard kind of trap her words and put the blame on her. For some reason JM didn’t like her
The moral to the story at least for her, everybody plays the fool there's no exception to the rule. just own it...
I don’t think he led her on, he said what he said… she kept trying to convince him otherwise. Her bad.
Don’t let a man have to tell or show you that he doesn’t want you.
BRAVO SIS!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽I'm so tired of these women allowing themselves to be played by creeps.
@Cameo , damn. Sorry to hear that.
@Cameo At least you know now. Men use jailhouse talk to lure in several women to use to their advantage. A family member's *"boyfriend"* was in jail for 22 years, my family member waited for him to get out, he stayed with her for a few months, he eventually left her for another woman that he was talking to while in prison. He moved in with the lady and her adult kids started calling him Dad, it was a weird situation.
He befriended her on Facebook because he wanted to get layed and she fell for the banana 🍌 in the tailpipe. When will some of you learn. She said they were friends with benefits and tried to change the narrative because she didn't want to seem like a oohre. Girl please...
She is very in love and obsessed. And the guy is wrong to play with her emotions
He did what most men do, if sex is available, they take it. But I do agree with you for the most part except him playing with her emotions. She knew about him not wanting a relationship and having a girlfriend. She should be held accountable for that.
I don't like when Judge Mathis unnecessarily argue with the plaintiff or defendant. I usually keep scrolling soon as he starts doing that
Multiple baby mothers, a girlfriend, lived with his mom... what a catch! 😐😑
This judge makes me angry. He always plays down and ridicules the woman and supports these dead beat user men.
Exactly, it is terrible. The man was a deadbeat user and a manipulator.
He's a deadbeat for sure but JM is probably as tired as I am of seeing grown women allow themselves to be played time and time again. It's ridiculous as Hell for so many intelligent, beautiful, educated, self sufficient women to be so dumb & desperate. This man is a complete moron and she couldn't see that a mile away????
He’s giving her the wake up call that she needs. Go by a man’s actions not his words. Esp. If she already knew he had multiple kids with multiple women and living off of each mom.
He was honest and upfront with her about what he was looking for: FWB. She should have been honest about what she wanted: commitment. She chose to accept what he offered. She let him use her. I can't and don't feel sorry for her at all. She tried to get him to be committed to her when he said from jump he was a hobosexual.
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I think people confuse good sex with a relationship. I think she shouldn’t of slept with him and found a man who wanted a relationship.
@@scottrogue946 the judge hit the nail on the head. If a man loved you, he will be in bed with you every night. Unless y’all married for 20 years and ur wife snores
I agree with you. I don't understand why people are blaming just him. She knew he has someone else.
JM how she’s not creditable you can’t tell her how to define her relationship with him. She said we had this friends with benefits or WHATEVER you wanna call it! Jm must didn’t hear the whatever you wanna call it part.
She’s playing Dumb 😂
The judge was so rude to this lady.
The title brought me here. Friends with benefits needs to be explained to most people.
She knew what it was she playing slow
the way he laughed when she said they remained friends....he played her and he knows he did
This is why "friends with benefits" doesn't benefit most women. The desire for emotional attachment isn't reciprocated. It's just sex for him!
Women believe that they can sleep with men and it will be so good that they will want a relationship.
@@Renrens-LionessofJudah
I think so. Unfortunately it doesn't work that way. Only brings on unnecessary hurt feelings.
If he told you he just wanted occasional sex, why in the hell would you move in with him!? She does sound obsessed AND $850/$450 ain’t half & half.
Or we could call it as it is, maybe she is obsessed but this stereotypical black male was ruthless in taking advantage of her and the situation
@@Whatthafukc I was always told “when you act like a dummy, you get treated like one” She just got played. That’s all.
@@Whatthafukc why stereotypical?
@@Whatthafukc let’s not start the race talk yours is straight up evil
Or maybe he shouldn’t have moved ..? We always blaming the woman.. crazy.
If I’m suing for something specific….my personal business is none of your business.
JM talks down on people sometimes about things that have nothing to do with the case and then say “okay what are you suing him for today”
Should've never moved in with her. She seems as if she was obsessed and he know she wanted more.
You can tell by the fb post.
The way JM carrying the woman... i don't like...like he wasn't trying to hear her.. was trying to get too specific with the definition of "FWB" as if everyone has the college knowledge he has.
Exactly. Some friends are better friends than others. FWB means no commitment but it doesn't mean that you don't have a very strong friendship with a person. FWB can get messy.
No one ever wants to blame the man… it’s always the woman who’s responsible . Some men know how to manipulate a situation, and I believe he took advantage of her because he knew she liked him… at the end of the day, you can’t help who you like, but he could’ve walked away if he didn’t feel the same way… he wanted his cake and eat it too . Men know which women suffer from low self esteem.. they know who they can run game on and who they can’t.
She’s really bitter about not getting the relationship she wanted from him but at the same time she allowed him to give her whatever he wanted so she can’t be upset. NEXT TIME SAY WHAT YOU WANT FROM A MAN AND EXPECT NOTHING LESS. KNOW YOUR WORTH GIRL!
Looks and sounds about Sheboygan.
Damn woman, you fell in love with a bum. Own it and move on!
JM doesn’t like when people misuse words, he thinks they’re trying to lie or embellish. He’s right most times. He can be so literal sometimes so the litigants need to just tell truth and apparently read the dictionary regularly lol
I don’t like how they treating her
If he has a gf why did he move in with another woman sounds like a bum to me
She also knew that so she is responsible.
She allowed it
He loves her but sleeps in his own room? Delusional
Come on now Judge any other time you don't let ppl slide with getting harassment for someone else. The girlfriend should have sued her for that! 😒
He knew she was really into him, led her on and now acting like she is crazy...
Narcissistic vibes
@@Belle2oo8 i'm telling you
She perjured herself. She said that she would like to see the Facebook message because she never contacted the girlfriend about him. She’s lucky Judge Mathis didn’t hear her say that.
Delusional and desperate.
According to Doyle the definition of friends with benefits is sex party
Me : 😂😂😂
I’m disappointed in how the plaintiff was treated and talked to. The defendant is horrible. 🙄
He played her that simple. You can tell he thinks he such a catch. Mathis came down on the wrong person.
This was complete gaslighting by both JM and the defendant. Why would he move in with her as a FWB knowing that he has a girlfriend and was still smashing the plaintiff. Like seriously?!
Why would she move in with him without getting some type of commitment from him beyond a FWB situation?
Right
Any young man perfect situation he has her who will give it up when he want it and the gf don’t care he live there n he came n went as he pleased
Ladies, there is no benefit in HALF...😒🤦🏾♀️
If somebody is buying a house and being there for you emotionally and you're having sex , and sharing cell phone bills, that's a little more than friends with benefits... there's definitely some gray area and room for confusion there
A good friend with benefits. Instead of just friends with benefits. A lot of people argue with their partner about their best friend because they spend to much time & do more for the friend than them with no problem. RS have ended because of it.
One sided benefits 🤣
Word to the wise-unwise maybe-actions speak louder than words..don't say one thing and do another when someone's emotions get involved. It can end much worse than this. And use protection if you're fwb!
Dead beat guy! He has no integrity!
Too old for that foolishness.
He should Not have gotten $500 for harassment.
The plantiff decided to go in on a home together with the defendant when he had another woman pregnant and after knowing is history. Then to top it off she got pregnant. Women continue to run to the court after making bad decision after bad decision.
Men too, stupidity and desperation don't discriminate based on gender.
The defendant decided to use this woman for a place to live, and at least one other woman for sex. He decided not to use a condom and got her pregnant. And then when he got her pregnant he made the unilateral decision to run away and not pay the rent he agreed to pay. He made the most amount of bad decisions in this case.
But I guess in your eyes he's a helpless victim like yourself.
He tried to use her alright but it didn’t work out the way he wanted.
I love judge but he just didn’t like the plaintiff lol defendant absolutely led her on lol he can front like it’s something else on TV but we know what’s up. Don’t get involved in FWB something always happens lol
JM grumpy today 😂
Why does society always blame the women. Instead of telling men to have a better character. And be a real man. And stop being misleading and giving women mix signals. Had she done that to him. He'd be ready to pull a OJ.
And this is exactly why I only do for my MAN , not in hopes of obtaining one . I’ll hit you with the “damn that’s crazyyyy 🥴” real quick
JM is so annoying sometimes. He got so stuck on the fern FWB. Like dude, it means they’re having sex. What’s the point? MOVE ON!
It doesn’t matter what the benefits were, JM! He used her. The end.
What difference did it make if they were sexually active? Mathis was being too extra on that and why would she wanna come out and call it what it really was and why would that hurt her credibility maybe some of the drugs he used in his youth are having lingering effects
Ya he embarrassed her for no reason, like he was trying to be the defendants buddy
It makes a lot of difference, if they ar FWB and sleeping together and that's it then as a WOMAN or a MAN, you have to know what comes with it.
She fell in love with him and forgot friends with benefits is just what it means or booty call 📱. All street terms and not a legal terms
Judge Mathis is getting dementia or there’s something wrong with his frontal lobe 🥴
These old playas end up in nursing homes, kids want nothing to do with em. When will bm understand having an intact family benefit him especially when they reach the last chapter of their lives.
Not hardly any benefits 😂😂😂😂😂
She admitted her self that he said he didn’t want a relationship, yet she’s trying to “change “ the man. Come on give me a break this is why guys take advantage of dumb girls like that.
I ain’t expect him to be that short 🤣🤣🤣 gotdamn
Ladies please know your worth!!! Lame men ain’t worth it💯💯💯
No man is worth using you period and vice versa for a man.
JM is so busy trying to interrogate the woman! That’s annoying! He’s not being objective at all and that gets on my nerves whoever he does it to. Not the best idea to be FWB, however he’s not her father and it’s not his job to rip her up like he’s a prosecutor. He’s the moodiest TV judge on the bench. Act like he knows EVERYTHING and he can’t be wrong. This was just disrespectful and I don’t even agree with that lifestyle. The dude saying all of this but just got her pregnant the previous year, so he’s having raw sex with her…but he’s scared of her being pushy. Make it make sense. 😣
These ninjas swear we’re obsessed with them!!🤣🤣🤣
Shut up, JM ! You can’t tell that woman what the benefits in her relationship are 🤨
Lmao.
Y’all white girls gotta stop making these lame Kanye West look alikes, feel like they are a catch🤢🤮
And he is short, smh
Gullible.
Crybaby mathis always getting in his feelings
He was just using you honey!!!!!!! #1 rule…. Do not date a grown man who lives with his mother/father (unless the parents are critically I’ll and you had to move in to take care of them)😉
I’m confused. He had a baby on her? He left her for the woman then they continued a friend with benefits arrangement??? He’s soooo LAME!!!!
JM too emotional to be a judge
Hope the plaintiff learns from this experience . Why move in together , when you’re just FWB .
Judge rude today !
When I seen buddy I’m like oh yeah he look 👀 BIG MAD 😂 AND CONFUSED 😕 WHY TF IM HERE
Judge Mathis must have caught his pewee in his zipper.SMH
I hate GASLIGHT DUDES like this he knows dog on well he sold her some dreams in order to keep her on the hook and unfortunately she was in love with him and he seen she was vulnerable and took advantage smh she knew he had other women etc and still tried and tried to force him into loving her WHICH NEVER WORKS
Judge Mathis really needs to grow up, why is he continually badgering this woman?
That whole situation was a mess. You don't move in someone your in a casual relationship with that has a girlfriend. Why was he not living with the girlfriend? And what did the plaintiff see in him to agree to this nonsense arrangement?
A Big D, be careful you could be his next VIC , Lol
@@geo745don 🤣🤣🤣
Facebook get people caught up😂
When she said "He acted like we were in a relationship" 🤦🏾♀️
First of all, who gives af what fwb means. 🙄 He loves tryna make women feel stupid about having feelings for a man who was obviously playing games. But if a woman comes up here saying the same thing he has jokes about her being fast. Chile he’s a hypocrite
I'm not letting a man who looks and acts like him lead me on taking about "friends with benefits. Some people need to humble themselves and appreciate the people who actually want them and sit down somewhere.
she had a lot of delusions regarding this "relationship"
Mathis hasn't dated in over 20+ years due to him being married so he should consider reserving his personal opinion on FWB. The most updated term for FWB is now referred to as "Situation-ships." Either way you can have a deeper connection with someone and not have a title. Just like there are married couples that are strangers to each other. Mathis needs to stop asking for background info only to project his ideals and then become biased in relation to the judgements.