PRESSURE TO GET MARRIED
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ต.ค. 2020
- There's a lot of pressure for single people out here to get married and have kids. In this video, I talk about handling that pressure.
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****Note ladies*** if a man wants to settle down with you cheii he will propose in less than 4 months pap* I have seen it mchana Tena mapema...😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💯
Most of my so called married friends are not even happy some even are divorced at the age of 28 aaa, tena hawa celebs and so influencers they make people feel so small, please singles take your time
May the Lord give all ladies desiring marriage here great partners and successful marriages
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Amen 😩
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Amen 🙏
Wow Amen to that
Personally am single by choice,i moved out of a toxic marriage and i am glad i did it early before it was too late,i get this pressure from my shosh what am i waiting for to get kids and this really pisses me of because they just ask for kids but they wont be there to raise them up, mtoto ni garama usijidanganye anakuja na sahani yake
I love this channel for free..it has bn tackling my Chronicles.
Thank you so much 😚💗 for sharing....I came across this channel and just fell in love with the content
Nice work. I think i can relate with that "grandmother" bit pretty well. In fact it sounds more hurtful when said in vernacular.Nowadays everything is being narrowed down to "You are being too choosy" and true to the word, at times we are not approached to get someone to choose from.At some point i think lazima mtu awe choosy in terms of character because forever can be too long to be unhappy. What they do not understand is that each of us has a different race to run.
Keep up the good work! Always looking forward 👍
This is great gal... Mawisdom tu! God bless you ❤️
Im 21😇blessed to have found this channel now😍and you sound like my guardian angel😂😂You are the real deal and FULL STAPPPP
Good video. Keep sticking to the mission.
Pressure can't push me to do what I am not ready to never never !!!kwanza wamuratha can make ladies wajichukie akisema msichana kuolewa ni 25.who told her marriage has age ,I never listen to that woman you should not be forced to get married just because cjui age nini it must be ones choice ,,again many pple are suffering on those marriages
Wamuratha ladies wakimsikiza mtapotea kabisa
i couldn't agree more... kwanza wakati alisema ati ukiolewa uanze kupata watoto pap! i see no issue with people married choosing to get children in their 2nd and 3rd year of marriage...
@@rosenjogu68that woman called wamuratha anatumisguide ukimsikiza
True... she's such a "pick me"...
Huyo ndo Nani?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 She still exists? I blocked her all over with her likes akina JJ Gitahi! I used to call her name's nkachokaaaaaa
True thankyou pressure will kill us we need to inform our close family members and close friends how ureact is important ur helping here the wisdom wow
Girl you inspire me alot , continue doing the good work so educative 💗
Thank God I found this channel..great job gal
You are so candid and honest.. that's authentic. You are inspiring.
Thankyou for sharing this,very encoraging,have dealt with this pressure but now,I dont care what anyone thinks,its my life,I owe no one an explanation
Some of my friends are on their second marriage,I am still unbothered.I had to deliberately block out societal pressure and do things at my own pace.
Thats the spirit. Guard your piece girl.
Still learning,collecting the wisdom nuggets so when it gets there you know what to do😉. Keep the mission going, you inspire me alot
Wow this came at the right time true there's too much pressure from family and guy be careful u might end up in a wrong man/woman life.thanks muthoni for this educative piece
I'm 33 i thank God for my mum she has never put pressure on me...i have been able to invest and build ...mtoto nitapata tu lol
This is the story of my life. I even stopped attending family gatherings coz my agemates cousins are all married even younger ones and everyone has their eyes on me like when am I planning to have a kid and I just laugh out loud, these relatives can give you pressure until you go mad
NA UKIZAA, HAKUNA ATAKULIPIA MATERNITY FEE PLUS OTHERS.
Aki na ukikosa pesa ya kulea utaskia ooh si angetafuta pesa kwanza
@@catekarani That is the tragedy with African Marital affairs.. lakini tufurahie tu.
@@davidkarenju7403 yeah we don't have a choice
True that Cate waruguru
Hello Muthoni, you are such a blessing to me,as for me to be single l always see like being married is the starting point for all troubles in my life so I do fear about it.
And muthoni I always love the way you start your topics with your own experience. This helps to know that the points you are raising worked for you first and now you are generously sharing what worked for you to us. Am a married woman in my early thirties but I love your advices.
Thank you mamii ❤
a colleague gave me lift in his car and started giving lecture."You are wasting your time right now you should have settled.You are 32 ,33 if you get a child at 35yrs you will be 55yrs when they are 20yrs.What is that !This money you are earning will take you no where". It was the longest journey ever
Well sis! That was none of their business. Glad you got through the trip without killing someone 😑
Mimi ningekuwa kwa simu all through.....I don't listen to that nonsense....ngavika nenda
Aki why do people do that calculation for us like we don't know our age. 🤣
It's good you didn't let it get into 👏
Hahaha
New sub!...I already love your advise... glad I found myself here...@27 ile pressure niko nayo!!I totally relate with this video.
Weh! The pressure is real, my mum would even send friends to tell me I get a kid. I remember I also pressured myself.... That's crazy
Thank you so much. I need to hear this encouraging words.
More blessings. Thanks. You are helping people.
You have reminded me of a time I met my great grandmother and she asked me for tobacco. I thought it was code for money. So I gave her what I had on me. She got furious. Asked my mom what was wrong. Mom revealed to me that she was asking me where my husband was. 😂😂😂😂😂 At that time I was 30yrs. I got married at my own pace 4yrs later. When I looked back, had I bowed to the pressure I would perhaps be in a wrong marriage. Nothing worse than marrying the wrong person. Continue encouraging young people not to get married/have a baby under pressure.
Waaao,
I am learning a lot. I have never been on such pressure but I have met some friends who have gone through this. But I think it really starts with one-self like you've highlighted before. Knowing yourself, loving yourself works it out. You've also highlighted 'social media haitawai okoka' so for those going through this pressure 'learn to fly like eagles against anything poisonous either to your heart or mind'.
Muthoni, I am loving the way you are being straightforward not beating around the bushes.
Thanks for being real.Keep up the good work.
27 here and not gonna lower my standards for anyone or any reason
Single still going strong
Yasss girl
Sis you're only 27?! I'm 39 and un moved.
Thank you msoo for being our voice it's not easy out there
Great advice and alot of wisdom words.be blessed
New week new topic ready to learn here always greatful to u msoo u always educate me a lot
Muthoni this is a great piece. Kudos! Women just need to own their lives and cease giving in to societal pressure. Marriage is not an accomplishment in life.
Thanks this topic is so timely Christmas holiday is coming soon time for family, time for family gathering and you will asked have you come alone- say that in kikuyu.I succumbed to this pressure moved in with guy( dogomothi) gosh it was new cases of drama daily .. i learnt my lesson we all have our journey... dnt compare dnt rush ... you hurriedly get into marriage, marry wrong OMG it gets worse than covid...
Wow....this is so educative. Thanks dear i ave learnt alot in your channel
This pressure is real ...at times parents are you should marry this kind of a man just becoz of your career but all in all .....this is a good lesson learnt ......thankyou msoo
Muthoni you are such an amazing lady, thanks for your inspiration penda ww sna
Great content. I'm enjoying the content in this channel.
Thank you for talking about this. I am currently going through that.
Am always looking forward for your inspiration thanks muthoni for sharing God bless you and continue blessing you
Blessings to you too
Stop dating their potential date their reality. This phrase was for me!!! Thank you Muthoni for sharing❤️
I can relate.i will do a reaction to this video n send you the link to watch.keep giving us relatable content sis
Quite a therapy, Thanks gal
This is my 1st time to be here am an damn happy for that conversation
I totally relate to this their opinion is ninawakataa and that am very choosy people are so good at critizing but they never want to listen .This has enlightened me
Keep the good work going Muthoni
Waaooh,that's a very good advice, I have learnt alot
I like this one Mso 💖 very educative
Everyone should be allowed to make their choice,,, great job msoo
Woow..am at my early 20s and I've been learning a lot from you💕💯 nakupenda sana..thanks for being a mirror in the society 🔥👑
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Woow,,I feel like you talking to me,,,that inner pressure has bn consuming me,thanks for your encouragement
me too,its high time i let it low
I don’t get pressure from family, I don’t have internal pressure, I get it from strangers!
Awesome vibes. Thanks msoo
Full of wisdom thanks Muthoni av learnt something
This is awesome I made a mistake thinking someone's son will change lakini wapi I thank God nilijitoa
You inspire me😍. I love the lessons keep them coming
I love you Muthoni. Your the best ever. Just saw this and am subscribing Asap. Your so real and down to earth. I have really learnt alot and am watching all your videos. Thankyou so much for this channel. Your nails are ever popping. Where do you get them done and are they your natural nails...
Well said.
Pressure also on the age.
Everyone assume 20 _40 is the right age to settle.
What about 40 n above.
GOD is the creator of the universe.
Thanks Muthoni. I'm encouraged
Msoo you are doing great things, so educative
You are talking to me, am single 30yrs, but receiving alot pressure
This is a very good topic.The pressure is real. It takes two to make a marriage. I dont know why our relatives and the society dont get that.You cant just wake up and decide to get married.You need to be with someone you see a future with and that is not within your control.Am sick if this pressure.
I'm here also, early 30's,no man ,no kid, no good job internal and external pressure, its killing me honestly
All is well dont loose hope my sister
Sorry about that. It will get better.
Some are being killed by the pressure in their marriage so not to worry by the pressure of not being married
Ignore them
First is to recommend the good progress so far,growing big and better in terms of production.i had seen a cliche in your intro and today you have done away with it.also the sitting position,the background looks nice now.Kudos my all time favorite.
Good topic for the singles.Pressure is real but it all depend with YOU as an individual.
marriage/relationships are not easy but they do work with the right foundation.
Thank you dear. Glad you noticed
My first time here n am in love with muthoni mission,felt like u r talking on my behalf
Great personality there!❤
Am having the pressure right now. But I dont give a daaamn.. i don really caaaare... I don wanna knooooow...... Keep singing
Thanks MSO for sharing this information more wisdom and preservation to you. When Pressure is from the mother anties and their friends....huhuhu it's just something else but it's my life and I'm taking no pressure from nobody. No bending to this pressure
her advice is good
Wao that gud advice musoo ......msoo for me i have a pressure in marrige am now 16yrs but weeee......
It's really wrong kupatia watu pressure......i think niko na pressure from myself...it sucks!!😬😕good job Ms Mukiri👏👍
waaoh great advice there❣️❣️
I love everything you've said very true and clear in all aspects
My mother told that by 27i should huv gotten married but my dad told her let her be now I am my early twenties I huv been watching and seeing alot of people I learnt that if u can't communicate tolerate pray and understand then do get into a relationship for u will not handle the pressure so I keep praying to God that at right time hour he will bring a goodpattern even if it is in my 40s coz the same people who pressure what this but they never come visit until invited people never get satisfied and God' is always true 🙏💯
My aunt once told me that nlimuacha akijiongelesha.....ati kama sitaki kuolewa nipate mtoto the last statement alijiambia I was long gone....
Please muthoni address those parents who want to choose spouse for their kids
Thanks muthoni ....you are God sent...muthoni i remember well you had mentioned about doing a video on narcissits) heheh, the spellings though.........when are we doing itgal.koz i need to understand and know who is a narcissst,..
True story but it ultimately gets to you...am in such a place and it's not easy...stress
Its her house for me 😍
I got my bby at 21yrs,a single mum😭, am now 27 and everyone wants me to get married some are even pressuring me to get a second bby, not minding if I'm in a relationship or not
Thanks for sharing this .
The one person who pressured me to get married is now no more 😢 continue resting... otherwise i don't get the pressure even though most people surrounded me are all gone which is fine never bothers me at all.
True remember at 26yrs ldid not have kids. People used to talk. Na venye ame tafuta pesa Ana tafutia Nani. At 27yrs I got kid img the same people Sasa ako na boll Hana bwana, am like who told u I want a hubby. What ever u do they will judge. Do what make u happy if don't want kid that ur happiness no one cud change ur happiness
Woii i thought am the only one. Who told this people we have to do what our age mates are doing. They are all over you with this get married get babies staffs
Pressure from the society is too much. Going through the same
wao these great been always seeing your video but never listened to you ....love your advice
I can relate to this Mso...have a friend who has experienced this esp from relatives the pressure is real!!
Am 28 yrs single, the coversation about pressure is real
Tell me about it, weh😝
The pressure on a 28 year old lady to get married is ridiculous! Please pursue what you need to achieve, getting married during mid 20s in this day and age is not typical! Marriage is an option, not a definition for who or what a woman is made of! So enjoy your life until your time comes to get married.
Yooo it's not easy!
Oily I
My situation now😂
Thank you dear. My best place to be 😘
Mso nilikuwa nakuona kwa tv bado uko tv. nice to see you and just saying hi
Today's story is lit me coz I know very well am not gonna marry soon and am ready to face it..,
I am at that age where everyone has been giving this kind of pressure. Fortunately, my answers has made the same people stop giving me the pressure 😂😂 now they accept my choice as it is 🚶♀️
Haha...True...At somepoint you have to toughen up.
I think this boils down to following your own path, as long as your lifestyle and decisions will not end up creating a burden into another person's life, then live your life, sometimes when it comes to children, I feel like when a lady gets her 1st born in her 40s out of choice, she doesn't think about the child's life, it's a little huge space when she is at her wild age of 20s and her mother is at 60 battling other issues.... maybe that's why people preasure themselves.. in 2011, my wife who by then I wasn't even dating but following on Facebook wrote a status on her wall saying she is running out of time she needs a family.... I discouraged her not to do it... Well come 2015 we exchanged vows and she learnt she was not late ..bher own pressure may have taken her to a toxic relationship but I am sure now she is the happiest..
Hahaha you're not alone my dear the same pressure I have experienced . My younger sister has a kid and all the time I have to attend family gathering they keep on asking utamleta lini tumjue ? I fill ilitated sana
Anakwambia unachelewa kuoa kwani yeye ndiye ana panga timetable ya ndoa?
Some questions are a violation of privacy. Answer back so rudely that they never cross your path again. After that, keep reminding them of the mistake they made in asking. Watakuheshimu sana
I agree with you, l will date someone that l am comfortable with in all dimensions.Some people especially age mates, give one pressure to get married while they themselves are in miserable marriages.
yes leah yu have said it gal
The pressure is real in did,I remember one from our local church who called me to ask for harambee money and the first question was"niwagiire mundu" I was soo furious n I didnt send a thing.
I'm in my mid twenties but I'm pressuring myself.. I want to have a companion in my life
Feel you man, especially in Asia, where during the new year reunion parents and relatives are gonna interrogate you with questions of marriage.