The Obsession With Sexuality Labels And The Rise Of Narcissism

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  • @BenGray10
    @BenGray10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2913

    I'm in a demisexual monogamous relationship with myself, and unfortunately I cheated on me with another person. I don't know how I'm going to break the news to myself, but I hope I forgive me.

    • @peskylisa
      @peskylisa หลายเดือนก่อน +63

      hahahah

    • @timstark432
      @timstark432 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      😂😂😂

    • @Adelina-293
      @Adelina-293 หลายเดือนก่อน +180

      So, you're going to divorce yourself and take half your stuff?

    • @CCrescence
      @CCrescence หลายเดือนก่อน +86

      ​@@Adelina-293 Yeah, the meds.

    • @NikitaClayton-qn7ge
      @NikitaClayton-qn7ge หลายเดือนก่อน +81

      Go to couple counselling 😂😂😂

  • @TrevorSullivan
    @TrevorSullivan หลายเดือนก่อน +2775

    Why does everyone obsess over sexuality? It's weird.

    • @LeonS.kennedyswife
      @LeonS.kennedyswife หลายเดือนก่อน +162

      I blame sexuality headcanons, it's made some real freaks over the years from what I've seen

    • @HumanPerson_final
      @HumanPerson_final หลายเดือนก่อน

      Narcissism is central to leftist ideology and these people seek out validation in any way they can get it. One of the easiest and most obvious ways is through trying to rebrand their sexuality since it requires no work and it is easy to lean into a promiscuous (and empty) relationship lifestyle. These people are internally very sad and it shows.

    • @BliZø_c0r3
      @BliZø_c0r3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      𝐼𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑜𝑛𝑒𝑠𝑡𝑙𝑦 𝑠𝑡𝑢𝑝𝑖𝑑 𝑛𝑜𝑏𝑜𝑑𝑦 𝑐𝑎𝑟𝑒𝑠 𝑖𝑓 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑖𝑠 𝑔𝑎𝑦 𝑜𝑟 𝑝𝑎𝑛 𝑜𝑟 𝑏𝑖

    • @MaxisMatchYouTube
      @MaxisMatchYouTube หลายเดือนก่อน +104

      If you have a penis, it's for a vagina- and vice versa. Idk why we need to make it more complicated than that??? If ur using it for something different its weird and ppl need to get over it. Nobody owes anyone acceptance of their weirdness and trying to emotionally and morally blackmail others into doing so doesnt work.

    • @WilDBilL6969
      @WilDBilL6969 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Everyone ? Wtf you on ?

  • @rondi4227
    @rondi4227 หลายเดือนก่อน +1872

    Back in my day this "solo polyamory" stuff was called "friends with benefits." Casual sex with a friend but no commitment, and not much of a friendship either. It didn't create happiness then, and it won't now either.

    • @localsalamander-n4c
      @localsalamander-n4c หลายเดือนก่อน +118

      Same song, same dance essentially... they just so managed to reword it

    • @vasyear
      @vasyear หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      or 'netflix and chill'

    • @ladychucklefuck
      @ladychucklefuck หลายเดือนก่อน

      And ya ALWAYS get a VD

    • @ladychucklefuck
      @ladychucklefuck หลายเดือนก่อน

      Or crabs

    • @ryanward8039
      @ryanward8039 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The woke mentally ill can literally justify anything in their own minds.

  • @gahmivolka
    @gahmivolka หลายเดือนก่อน +656

    Bruh solo polyamory looks dangerous af... like worse than wars. Everyone is being paralyzed... losing limbs. Blinding them. Dear god...

    • @Thenogomogo-zo3un
      @Thenogomogo-zo3un หลายเดือนก่อน

      That must be some dangerous s3x play they are getting up to

    • @mafiawaffle
      @mafiawaffle หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      “we’ve decided that your injuries are not LGBTQIAA+ associated” 😂

    • @benji485
      @benji485 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Solo polyamory is making people into cyborgs! 🤯🤯🤯

    • @liminal_criminal
      @liminal_criminal 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@gahmivolka Solo Polyamory be the fucking vietnam war 👨🏼‍🦼

    • @miguelcamara736
      @miguelcamara736 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      OMG! I laughed so hard at this! At first I thought it was a serious take. 😂

  • @DudeTheMighty
    @DudeTheMighty หลายเดือนก่อน +853

    The weird corporate art style, the fixation on physical disabilities (especially paralysis and missing/prosthetic limbs), it all feels really creepy.
    This person is unwell.

    • @McCaroni_Sup
      @McCaroni_Sup หลายเดือนก่อน +57

      Virgin corporate art style vs Gigachad Irasutoya stock art.

    • @southbug27
      @southbug27 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      There was an episode of FBI: Most Wanted a year or two ago & the murderer had a sexual fetish for women who have a prosthetic. It just made me remember that so many of these weird sexual issues were introduced to the country in the same way. I remember a decade or two ago an episode of CSI: Los Vegas had people who had a sexual fetish to act like babies with a playroom at a rich person’s house with an adult-sized crib, diapers, etc. Then there were tv shows either furies, horse play, BDSM, etc. & all of these things came to us from crime shows.

    • @McCaroni_Sup
      @McCaroni_Sup หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      @@southbug27 I don't think it's the crime shows themselves, if anything they were simply showing those things for shock value. It's our entire culture normalizing degeneracy like that.

    • @marcusmiller5443
      @marcusmiller5443 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree...but also think this may be AI shenanigans...which would make the 'AI unwell'? I mean AI is fake, so it would just mean it is programmed by people that are unwell.

    • @SimpleFauna
      @SimpleFauna หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I HATE CORPORATE MEMPHIS!!! I HATE CORPORATE MEMPHIS!!!!!!!!

  • @ani-ma-tion5326
    @ani-ma-tion5326 หลายเดือนก่อน +848

    As my mom used to tell me as a kid, people who are cool, don’t go around telling someone they’re cool, I feel like this applies to people who are actually in the LGBT, if you are actually comfortable with your own identity, you don’t go advertising it everywhere.
    Also the weird obsession with making ur sexuality ur personality, and always making everything about s3x in general is gross.

    • @user-c4b9b
      @user-c4b9b หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Agreed. Typing 'ur' instead of 'your' like any basically educated Adult would is also gross, generally.

    • @RagtimeAnnie-b7m
      @RagtimeAnnie-b7m หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@user-c4b9bwelcome to the internet

    • @bebrochka8113
      @bebrochka8113 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@user-c4b9b go back to hole you crawled out of

    • @BetaMaster2
      @BetaMaster2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-c4b9b geez ur pedantic

    • @xShadowChrisx
      @xShadowChrisx หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-c4b9b old people when language evolves. "Gross" Lol

  • @stacyfit32
    @stacyfit32 หลายเดือนก่อน +2216

    I miss "normal"

    • @MeretGiddy
      @MeretGiddy หลายเดือนก่อน +88

      Ooooo I finally found a label I can identify with! Thank you, kind fellow! 😭🙏🏻

    • @earlymorningtwilight9119
      @earlymorningtwilight9119 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

      Make America normal again

    • @user-c4b9b
      @user-c4b9b หลายเดือนก่อน

      "misogynists and incels should be banned from the internet" ... says more about you than the "misogynists" or the "incels" ... Consider how it reads, especially since "incels" don't exist. You might be 'fit' but that kind of half-thinking ain't healthy.

    • @peskylisa
      @peskylisa หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      So do I. Sigh.

    • @stevenedwards8353
      @stevenedwards8353 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "Normal" died in 2016, when liberals started spreading LGBT+ propaganda/filth everywhere in our society, out of revenge for Trump winning.

  • @NikitaClayton-qn7ge
    @NikitaClayton-qn7ge หลายเดือนก่อน +478

    I blame this on sexuality headcanons, main character mentality and narcissism

    • @ryanward8039
      @ryanward8039 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      I think it started with participation trophies and soft parenting.

    • @Brook_55
      @Brook_55 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      ​@@ryanward8039 man, participation trophies had me so mad as a kid 😂

    • @kitalalaris
      @kitalalaris หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@Brook_55 Same, there are very few things more insulting than "Yay! You participated!" and then you see everyone around you get the same trophy regardless of how well or crap they did XD

    • @bloodangel7731
      @bloodangel7731 หลายเดือนก่อน

      These people forget that we humans are social animals. we need others to be fulfilled in our lives but these people only seem to need themselves. No wonder they're so miserable and oppressed

    • @puglove533
      @puglove533 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      As someone who's fairly new to tumblr (there are a few gems, I've learned to ignore the weirdness), sexuality hcs make me so mad. They're not actually hcs, and seeing stuff like my fav characters being called bug neopronoun having demi whatevers (true story) is so frustrating.
      Like.. could we not? Could we go back to memes and fan theories than introducing your ultra diverse 5 pride flag having OCs with their sexualities? It's not something anyone really needs to think of, and I saw one where 'oof' was written beside info for the only straight character.

  • @radfoo72
    @radfoo72 หลายเดือนก่อน +552

    "Where is her leg?
    You guys have to be more careful in the bedroom or whatever is going on"😂

    • @katmisaiah40_8
      @katmisaiah40_8 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      I can't stop cracking up about her comments...but honestly, WHY are they all missing a limb, with crutches or in a wheelchair???

    • @O85TRUCT
      @O85TRUCT หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      @katmisaiah40_8 because they all got a "little too freaky"

    • @CoolMintMC
      @CoolMintMC หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@katmisaiah40_8It’s a weird obsession these people have with people who have “visible” conditions, diseases, disorders, etc.
      They borderline fetishize these traits because they make people stand out & all these people care about is standing out & being “special”.

    • @Thenogomogo-zo3un
      @Thenogomogo-zo3un หลายเดือนก่อน

      Extreme s3x play

    • @omiwithomavus
      @omiwithomavus หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@katmisaiah40_8diversity I guess

  • @rebeccapenders5050
    @rebeccapenders5050 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    I use a wheelchair and you killed me with, "Why is everyone disabled?!" 😂 That's my ad feed too 💀

  • @smolcutie1773
    @smolcutie1773 หลายเดือนก่อน +925

    As someone who has studied Islam I find it is completely bizarre how they use hijabis when they refer to "solo polyamory" considering that in Islam s*x outside of marriage is a sin/haram and only the husband can marry up to four wives while the wife can have only one husband and homos*xual relationships are also a sin/haram so the wives can't have a relationship with cowives. 🤦‍♀️

    • @ProchoicePeopleAreSociopaths
      @ProchoicePeopleAreSociopaths หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I find it weird Islam allows.men to marry multiple women but women cant marry multiple men....
      Sounds very SEXIST and gross. I dont share my.man with anyone. ESPECIALLY another woman.
      And in many muslim countries, elder men take on BOYs as sex slaves....
      Sounds like a religious polygamy with gaymen... weird

    • @smolcutie1773
      @smolcutie1773 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ProchoicePeopleAreSociopathsYes the woke agenda try to present Islam as progressive but it's full of misogyny. In their religious texts is written "The prophet said, "Isn't the witness of a woman equal to half of that of a man?" The women said, "Yes." He said, "This is because of the deficiency of a woman's mind."

    • @agentwolf5305
      @agentwolf5305 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

      THATS WHAT I SAID 😂

    • @OldFantasy
      @OldFantasy หลายเดือนก่อน

      The left are really running the full circle just like queer for Palestine bs

    • @tomgee8211
      @tomgee8211 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

      I mis-read that as “cow-wives”

  • @lillieeve6969
    @lillieeve6969 หลายเดือนก่อน +401

    “Tend to see theirselves” tells you everything you need to know

    • @KFrost-fx7dt
      @KFrost-fx7dt หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      My family is from rural Appalachia and we don't even say "theirselves".

    • @Paulo37580
      @Paulo37580 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      🤭🤭🤭🤭

    • @TheGreatoutdoorsAndGourmetVic
      @TheGreatoutdoorsAndGourmetVic หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      As English language failures! ;oP

    • @rusoazul945
      @rusoazul945 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Miner grahamer miss take

  • @pittbullking87
    @pittbullking87 หลายเดือนก่อน +1798

    When I was a young man in the 1980's our term for polyamory was "sleeping around." Woke people make things needlessly complicated.

    • @SebastianWellsTL
      @SebastianWellsTL หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      Well said! Couldn't agree more!

    • @Hannah_Jesusluvesu
      @Hannah_Jesusluvesu หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Fr

    • @dearthditch
      @dearthditch หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      It’s borderline illegal to use the word sult (anagram). When “sult-shaming” became a buzzword… the world did not improve

    • @PruneHub
      @PruneHub หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      Intentionally. To pretend that their actions are justified.

    • @eldiabloblanco44
      @eldiabloblanco44 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      right

  • @bradenahmet343
    @bradenahmet343 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    THE WOKE FINAL BOSS IS A HIJAB POLLY BLACK AMPUTEE LMFAO IM DYING

    • @ObsidianFane
      @ObsidianFane หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      😂 you forgot neurodivergent

    • @Nastasyashanti
      @Nastasyashanti หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s only possible in Western countries though cause in all other places this boss would be immediately annihilated 😂

    • @andrewgreeb916
      @andrewgreeb916 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Woke? Marxist is more applicable, or marxism/maoism.

    • @sun-dried-onion-noodles
      @sun-dried-onion-noodles 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You forgot gay, trans, overweight, furry... every single pronoun. Blind, deaf, noseblind, schizophrenic.... I've run out, I dunno any others...

    • @EmmaRosesConcertClips
      @EmmaRosesConcertClips 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Add in autism, DID, and bipolar disorder, and you got it!!

  • @Philybeef
    @Philybeef หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    Soly Poly: I'm not SELFish.
    Also Solo Poly: I'm the star of my intimate life of SELF love and SELF care.

  • @BillBallsack-m6b
    @BillBallsack-m6b หลายเดือนก่อน +186

    As a wheelchair bound person, fuck this garbage. I hate the oppression Olympics as much as I hate inspiration porn.

    • @tkc5980
      @tkc5980 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I recently played a game where one of the main characters was wheelchair bound. It was honestly great to see that it was treated as a real struggle. Great game btw, though it is honestly more Like a book.

    • @bubznbub
      @bubznbub 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@tkc5980Was it the game "Fear and Hunger: Termina"? In this game we also have a character using a wheelchair, 👀 (I'm just curious)

    • @tkc5980
      @tkc5980 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @bubznbub No, it was "I wani Hug that Gator" the single most emotional piece of media I ever experienced.

    • @bubznbub
      @bubznbub 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@tkc5980 oh, thanks! I'm will check some gameplay video about it ^^

  • @nikoartistich1856
    @nikoartistich1856 หลายเดือนก่อน +493

    Is always the people who say they are the most empathic who actually are the most narcissist and rude

    • @pittbullking87
      @pittbullking87 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Boy, isn't that the truth!

    • @Adelina-293
      @Adelina-293 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      The greater the virtue signaling the greater the sinner.

    • @Thenogomogo-zo3un
      @Thenogomogo-zo3un หลายเดือนก่อน

      IKR It's so contradictory

    • @AshleighBaggins
      @AshleighBaggins หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      That’s why I’ve completely adopted the idea that there’s such a thing as being too nice. There are plenty of actual nice people I know and have come in contact with that don’t think this way. They’re honest when they have to be, and it doesn’t make them a bad person.

    • @tekklover1489
      @tekklover1489 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Best public example is ellen

  • @Cationna
    @Cationna หลายเดือนก่อน +1008

    Solo polyamory is being so obsessed with yourself that you can't commit to any one person because you see all people as accessories to your own ego and shallow pleasure. Got it. So, like all other polyamory.

    • @davidgerald133
      @davidgerald133 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Or just being a h*e

    • @unscblackbeltgi5893
      @unscblackbeltgi5893 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      Hey, at least they're somewhat honest about it (even if they are couching it in usual progressive doublespeak)

    • @2010hyundaielantra
      @2010hyundaielantra หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      We used to call that "Narcissistic personality disorder"

    • @rachelf6609
      @rachelf6609 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Spot f’ing on

    • @sjoerdderks4731
      @sjoerdderks4731 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Its the woke version of the "alpha male" stereotype

  • @izzieb.2926
    @izzieb.2926 หลายเดือนก่อน +334

    I once came across a term called "queer platonic". I instantly had to see what it meant because I knew it was going to be stupid. Guys. It was LITERALLY JUST HAVING A BEST FRIEND OF THE SAME GENDER😂 Yes. It's real.

    • @BermudaGrass
      @BermudaGrass หลายเดือนก่อน +63

      Definitely an identity crisis, then. Unnecessarily labeling something just so you can form the sentence: _“I am queer platonic.”_ That’s an identity crisis, or issue, or disturbance.

    • @caril.9384
      @caril.9384 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      oh my gosh...

    • @whitewolffearly0013
      @whitewolffearly0013 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      as someone in a queer platonic relationship, it’s different than having a best friend. I like to describe it as loving someone as much as your husband or wife, but not in a sexual, romantic, or friend way. I and my queer platonic partner are engaged, and plan to live together soon. I mean this with all respect, I just hope it helps. (if anyone wants to reply or has any questions, I’ll be glad to answer. just keep it respectful.)

    • @whitewolffearly0013
      @whitewolffearly0013 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I would also like to add that I don’t “identify” as “queer platonic.” I am heterosexual and in a queer platonic relationship.

    • @RealEpikCartfrenYT
      @RealEpikCartfrenYT หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      it's all the fault of little kids and them shipping fictional characters.

  • @valentinei89
    @valentinei89 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    When I was in high school, the whole thing was "people are who they are, respect that and don't put people into boxes". I graduated 6 years ago, and somehow society when the complete other way in a very short time. This is ridiculous

  • @RisingDawn12
    @RisingDawn12 หลายเดือนก่อน +284

    Making your sexuality your entire personality is not cool

    • @hosswildcat
      @hosswildcat หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      The most interesting thing to me is seeing highly accomplished, educated, successful people with many positive attributes in their life... and the first qualifier when listing their bio is sexuality. "I'm a gay neurosurgeon astronaut... " Absolutely fascinating mentality.

    • @RisingDawn12
      @RisingDawn12 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@hosswildcat Fr its just insane

    • @RealEpikCartfrenYT
      @RealEpikCartfrenYT หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      exactly. my life is miserable, i'm a broke college student, still getting money from my mom, due to being unable to find a job, while having no future and saving up pennies where i can, often skipping meals.
      Even if I was straight I'd still have the same shitty life. It's the fate that determines the outcome, not your s3xual preference. If my fate is to suffer then so be it. I don't care. The only thing keeping me from unaliving myself is that i don't want my mom to cry.

    • @glitterkitty1979
      @glitterkitty1979 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Totally cringe

    • @CruelestChris
      @CruelestChris หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      These people are basically trying to discover individualism backwards by creating groups so tiny and specific that only they are in them.

  • @robertbrown3413
    @robertbrown3413 หลายเดือนก่อน +207

    When I was young the future was flying to the stars and curing all diseases.

    • @viviennebaptiste
      @viviennebaptiste หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      And now it'd about how oppressed we can be & how to confuse everyone.
      Oh how the mighty have fallen

    • @robertbrown3413
      @robertbrown3413 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@viviennebaptiste SpaceX's rocket work is great. But on the other hand, "the days have come down in the West, behind the hills, into shadow"

    • @SocialJusticeWorrier
      @SocialJusticeWorrier หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@robertbrown3413the CGI has come a long way since the time when they were making shadows for the rocket blast 🚀

  • @BrandiDandelion
    @BrandiDandelion หลายเดือนก่อน +396

    "Micro-aggressions= believing everything is an attack on ME"-all these narcissists.

    • @tell-me-a-story-
      @tell-me-a-story- หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol the example was just a person not wanting to do it themselves.

    • @chriswyma145
      @chriswyma145 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      From experience, TH-cam tends to block my comments.
      But in the video titled "Are Narcissists Lying Or Delusional?," (Borderlinenotes) Dr Frank Yeomans says at 5:03 "But for the narcissist, reality is an aggression."
      I think a better way of saying it is feelings reveal beliefs. So, a narcissist feels everything is an aggression. And probably believes it. 🤷‍♂️

  • @日本のカバ
    @日本のカバ หลายเดือนก่อน +100

    I honestly hate how they use Jews and Muslims when those religions hate this

    • @narmaya33
      @narmaya33 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Because they consider it both as minorities lol
      So to be !inclusive! you gotta add hijabis and Jews yk

    • @日本のカバ
      @日本のカバ หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ exactly
      Even though they hate conservatives, which every Muslim that follows their religions rules does
      And even thought they hate Zionism, Which is basically apart of Judaism
      And yet they hate Christianity… Probably the most leftist out of the monotheistic religions

    • @jacktaktical
      @jacktaktical 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@narmaya33 It's funny because you can really tell what country they're from, 2 billion muslims and millions of jews, they're not minorities

    • @isuckatusernames4297
      @isuckatusernames4297 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      nah, they suspiciously leave the jewish people alone on that one.

  • @KingdomDumb
    @KingdomDumb หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    6:43 Even the cat knows it's B.S. 🤣
    Edit: On a serious note, polyamory+children is the scary part. If you want multiple partners, having children in that scenario is setting them up for nothing but trauma.

    • @JerusnamWien85
      @JerusnamWien85 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      They’ll just tell you that exposing their kids to “different” realities makes them more understanding and mature. 😂

    • @tkraid2575
      @tkraid2575 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The polyamory thing is basically harem with a different label 😂 I've met cultures with this set up, and I tell you, every kid who is part of it grew up hating their parents and being the most monogamous individuals ever.

  • @imjustvi6279
    @imjustvi6279 หลายเดือนก่อน +251

    Labels, labels, and more labels.
    I don't care for labels. I'm a girl. I like men. I want one person to give all my affection to. Labels are just complicated and categories are useless if not commonly used.

    • @jadey_wadey333
      @jadey_wadey333 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Well said, and same here - except I’m a girl who likes other chicks, and I want (and am blessed to have) one woman to give all my affection to. I’ve never understood the excessive need for labels, and I’ve been asked why I don’t wear pride pins if I’m a lesbian. The idea that I have to advertise who I sleep with or who I’m married to to everyone I encounter is a wildly weird concept to me. I’d much prefer people get to know me for who I am as a person - my personality, hobbies, dreams, passions, interests. Making your whole personality your sexuality or gender is fvcking weird and kind of creepy ngl

    • @Folfah
      @Folfah 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      furry. im shocked, another fur that doesnt make sexuality their whole personality

    • @imjustvi6279
      @imjustvi6279 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@Folfah Ha, you caught me, I'm a furry. It's so awkward being on the opposite side of the political spectrum from the majority of the community. They use so many labels lol.

    • @tekklover1489
      @tekklover1489 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Doesn't need a label when it's called being normal

    • @Rose2ndC1L3
      @Rose2ndC1L3 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Folfahtwo furries I agree with omg

  • @cheeseburgerinparadise7124
    @cheeseburgerinparadise7124 หลายเดือนก่อน +174

    Wouldn’t it be interesting if we had a world where people were more obsessed over ….I don’t know …. say positive character traits? True expressions of virtuous behavior? I think I want that world.

    • @entropy5590
      @entropy5590 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Imagine if everyone followed Jesus the way they follow their solo polyamory 😢

    • @DeathoftheWest
      @DeathoftheWest หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      We once had that world...

    • @PodreyJenkin138
      @PodreyJenkin138 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Virtue, truth and honor
      These are the things we should be obsessed over

    • @andrewgreeb916
      @andrewgreeb916 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      that's incompatible with current marxism that is pushing this stuff.

  • @Cationna
    @Cationna หลายเดือนก่อน +310

    I've never seen anything so hysterically funny as a poster explaining "solo polyamory" featuring a disabled Muslim woman of colour 😂😂😂 This HAS to be satire. It's gotta.

    • @tell-me-a-story-
      @tell-me-a-story- หลายเดือนก่อน

      Only muzzling men can have polyamory.

    • @revolvertaco7493
      @revolvertaco7493 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Satire died in 2016.

    • @tell-me-a-story-
      @tell-me-a-story- หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @
      Why 2016 specifically?

    • @iamsleepy6429
      @iamsleepy6429 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      It's as if they're making a parody of themselves, it's crazy.

    • @revolvertaco7493
      @revolvertaco7493 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @tell-me-a-story- trump. He made the left loose their collective mind.

  • @parappathetrapper
    @parappathetrapper หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    They literally want to sleep around without the pejorative connotation it brings. That's the point of all this semantic nonsense. And the "look how different and full of personality I am, mom" thing.
    The funny thing is that not even them can handle this sleeping around stuff with no commitment. Every "polyamorous relationship" I've seen is fraught with jealousy, cheating (yes, really) and there's always someone miserable.
    Everyone involved needs to be a self-absorbed narcissistic sociopath for it to "work"; normal people eventually develops feelings for those they have constant intimate contact with.

    • @viviennebaptiste
      @viviennebaptiste หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Basically people want the label 🏷 & benefits of a relationship without the commitment to the responsibilities that come with it

  • @genocidaljellyfish3201
    @genocidaljellyfish3201 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    at church today we talked about how labels are harmful to how we view others and ourselves. and then i come home to this video.
    god knew i needed this lesson today o7

    • @StayArtsy
      @StayArtsy หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I read in a parenting book once that what you are called can impact you mentally... like if a kid is called "stupid" a lot they will start to think they are too dumb to succeed, even when that is not the case.

    • @dinonuggieincorporated
      @dinonuggieincorporated หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      God works in mysterious ways brother

  • @Nicdustrial89
    @Nicdustrial89 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    I remember a time when people didn't like being labeled.

    • @hannahkokkola6770
      @hannahkokkola6770 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Same I remember teenagers yelling not to be put in a box, they just want to be who they are….how’d we get to this😂

    • @Imtiredofyourbs
      @Imtiredofyourbs หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I can't really imagine one though.
      People always wanted to belong to some groups and label themselves, especially teenagers. There have never been a time where subcultures didn't existed.
      Hell, even political ideologies are mostly tags to label yourself into the box you feel most comfortable in.

    • @sgtaveryjohnson3803
      @sgtaveryjohnson3803 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @Imtiredofyourbs
      I think it depends.
      Like if the label fits your identity and you're comfortable with it that's not an innate issue, but too many is .

  • @maidenofiron
    @maidenofiron หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    My ex was a hardcore pan poly guy and tried to rope me into that BS.
    There's a reason why that idiot's my ex.

    • @StayArtsy
      @StayArtsy หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Good choice. Some creepy old dude tried to rope my older sister into the poly junk, so she moved to a different department to get away from that creep.

    • @AxionSmurf
      @AxionSmurf หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      My ex was hardcore poly and hid it for years. Then tried to blame me for it. I'm thankful to god I didn't get an STD from her. It's real fun getting an STD test when you didn't sleep around. Waiting for the results when I found out from her former friends just how extensive her poly was had to be one of the "most fun" (with extreme sarcasm) experiences I ever had.

    • @kathrineici9811
      @kathrineici9811 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      He just wanted to cheat on you, good on you for getting out of there

  • @Gerewolf
    @Gerewolf หลายเดือนก่อน +618

    It is really bothering me the amount disability in LGBTQ, I am disabled and it is not a sexuality. I didn’t CHOOSE to be disabled

    • @hearmeout1767
      @hearmeout1767 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

      Yes that is insulting

    • @TrekBeatTK
      @TrekBeatTK หลายเดือนก่อน +67

      But many of the T crowd are essentially choosing amputation and disability.

    • @davidprince1138
      @davidprince1138 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is really only TQ+. For the most part, I believe many LBG do not want to be associated with the gender ideology nonsense. There have actually been protests by lesbians; "get the "L" out".

    • @Psychocandy85
      @Psychocandy85 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      You don’t choose to be gay either???? I agree but man that was a terrible point because who chooses to be gay expect for those 13 year “bi” girls on tiktok that later on grow out of it and go to a hyper femme Christian straight girl which is what she was all the time people don’t choose to be trans either you just choose to transition in the same sense gay people don’t choose to be gay they choose to act on being gay

    • @stevenedwards8353
      @stevenedwards8353 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Well for one, there's crossover. Like the people who think autism "is a superpower" and try making identities out of it, or try to make it out like no autism or Asperger's people ever wish they could live without the condition.

  • @daniellassander
    @daniellassander หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    They focus all their energy on sex, and nothing on a loving relationship, sex is all fine but its the relationship that is important. Anyone who has been in a relationship and the relationship ended, its not the sex you miss, its the relationship.
    You think back on making dinner together, watching a show and talking about it, someone who loved you, all those small moments that are never shared that is what you miss.

    • @Nastasyashanti
      @Nastasyashanti หลายเดือนก่อน

      I miss both. Cause with some people chemistry is just too good and it doesn’t fade away with time.

  • @Mitchellfw
    @Mitchellfw หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    I once had a young, self-proclaimed, polyamorous person with green and pink hair explain to me that my committed relationship to my husband was "masquerading heterosexual patriarchial oppression". I had to explain that two men being married AT ALL was a expression of love and commitment that took decades to achieve recognition for and I didn't appreciate their casual rejection of it based on their current fashionable sexuality labels. Needless to say I wasn't allowed at their craft fair table again. 😅

    • @JerusnamWien85
      @JerusnamWien85 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Funny how most of these people were born to heterosexual couples. It’s just a rebellious act.

    • @shyfoxfeatherhere6446
      @shyfoxfeatherhere6446 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      I would have said "Wow didn't peg you for the homophobic type" 😅😂

    • @bloodangel7731
      @bloodangel7731 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Honestly it's so ironic how these "progressive" people are so in fact backwards

  • @bgriffiths1840
    @bgriffiths1840 หลายเดือนก่อน +352

    I've been gay for a long, long time. Back in my day you were straight, gay, or bi. You were monogamous, a swinger, or a ho. Six words. Covered everything. Trans people existed but they were rare and didn't take out billboards. You wouldn't know it because it wasn't your business and they made the actual effort to transition. I still don't know wtf omnisexual or gray asexual or bunself is supposed to be but I can tell you after many decades of life and traveling the world I've never run into that in the real world. It only exists in the imagination.

    • @WaltProbably1394
      @WaltProbably1394 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      For me, asexual means asexual. It does not mean demisexuality nor grey asexuality or even aceflux (don't ask), and queer was, is and still is a slur meaning "strange", "weird", and "awkward". As an ace, I don't put stock into my label since there's more to life than dating, sex, romance and marriage, which frankly, I am not interested in, as well as being put off by "hook-up culture". I prefer reading and researching history, government, politics, religion and philosophy while eating Buffalo Wings and supporting my NHL hockey teams, the Oilers and the Sabres. As I say, love, like power, glory and wisdom, is best suited to those who never find it.

    • @bgriffiths1840
      @bgriffiths1840 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@WaltProbably1394 Humans are sexual beings. You can have hobbies and not sleep around. If there is a basic sexual aversion often therapy and medication can help.

    • @joane24
      @joane24 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ Nah, low drove or lack of attraction is not an orientation in itself.
      Because sexuality (our compatibility based on our sexed bodies) and attraction together encompass much more than just libido alone.
      Drive or libido is what you - usually - have, and it's thanks to your hormones, but you're still alone with it. Some people have low drove, sure. But then, the actual intomate connection with someone, joining of two bodies, it's something else, it's _more_ than just a biological drive alone. So, experiencing low drive is not yet a sexuality.

    • @LawrenceOfBessarabia
      @LawrenceOfBessarabia หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yoo what's your favourite historical period ?​@@WaltProbably1394

    • @fantasie618
      @fantasie618 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      period

  • @mephistopheles1086
    @mephistopheles1086 หลายเดือนก่อน +122

    All these "sexualities" means "extreme narcissist main character syndrome"

    • @Peacht4n
      @Peacht4n 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yep that is really just it. We allowed narcissists too much with this entire forgive and allow culture nowadays. So they do stuff like this. They can't change their skincolor and don't want to go through hrt to be seen as "opressed" so they do this

  • @Gomen_Ohayo
    @Gomen_Ohayo หลายเดือนก่อน +75

    Ngl, so many people nowadays are just addicted to problems because they always want to pity themselves... Why? Idrk, it's weird... Everybody wants to be the main character. 😐

  • @LemontheDestroyer
    @LemontheDestroyer หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    I'm willing to accept the labels "straight", "gay", and "bisexual". Everything else is obsolete lmao

    • @RealEpikCartfrenYT
      @RealEpikCartfrenYT หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      i love being "obsolete" because it allows me to be who i am without others knowing what i am

    • @LemontheDestroyer
      @LemontheDestroyer หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      @RealEpikCartfrenYT I'm not sure that sounded as good as you were going for lol

    • @RealEpikCartfrenYT
      @RealEpikCartfrenYT หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@LemontheDestroyer I'm an asexual, and to most unassuming people i appear like any ordinary straight man, except that nobody turns me on and I treat everybody equally, regardless of THEIR preferences. But nobody's gonna know since I don't brag about my asexuality. I keep it to myself.

    • @LemontheDestroyer
      @LemontheDestroyer หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RealEpikCartfrenYT seems like you brag about it imo. I mean, I now know you're asexual and have never met you before. I don't usually start off with "hi, I'm heterosexual."

    • @ObsidianFane
      @ObsidianFane หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@RealEpikCartfrenYTOK so you're straight

  • @moodypoetsociety
    @moodypoetsociety หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I have a disability and this is a jab at us folk - honestly, I know I like monogamy. I have enough problems with my self worth, don’t need more issues

  • @nustaniel
    @nustaniel หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    This insane obsession with identity has its own umbrella identity; Insanity.

  • @DAVID-yv6dc
    @DAVID-yv6dc หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Your parents must be wonderfully proud of you. You are amazingly articulate and impressively informative and intelligent. I hope to listen to more of your content

  • @BaneofGods
    @BaneofGods หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    That "What have you done to minimize the inherited privilege being married has afforded you?" at 3:15 is bloody sick and wrong

    • @pete5691
      @pete5691 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      What I’ve come to realize is not only do I minimize any “inherited privilege”, I am seeking to maximize it. It is the wisest option. Companies have been caught actively discriminating against my demographic however my inherited privileges of above avg iq, high impulse control and low time preference have served me well.

    • @BaneofGods
      @BaneofGods หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@pete5691 Taking advantages of your strengths and unique attributes is a good thing, so long as you aren't exploiting others for it

  • @RealMattHardready
    @RealMattHardready หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    These people are justifying anything to cover up their loneliness and just keep on living a colorless life. It's embarrassing and desperate.
    Btw you've done and keep doing a tremendous job in covering all these issues in the US for years now, Misha! You're amazing👏

    • @mo-xx5hv
      @mo-xx5hv หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think these people hate themselves so much.

  • @orionspur
    @orionspur หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Han Solo Polyamory - When your partners say "I love you", you say "I know."

  • @SophaPop
    @SophaPop หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    When will normal become trendy again?

    • @hearmeout1767
      @hearmeout1767 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It is trendy, among people who go outside. We just don't see it because these people are silent online instead of screaming for attention, because they are touching grass.

    • @DudeTheMighty
      @DudeTheMighty หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Probably never, tbh.
      Hopefully we'll get better kinds of weird, though.

    • @ryanward8039
      @ryanward8039 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      After the Lord Jesus Christ returns and re-establishes His kingdom.

    • @viviennebaptiste
      @viviennebaptiste หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      At this rate? Never

    • @gwenjackson8583
      @gwenjackson8583 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      According to my teenage kids, normal is making a comeback. At least where we live. It will take a while for this craziness to be pushed back to the fringes though.

  • @maliamichelle2059
    @maliamichelle2059 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Can we stop making your sexuality your whole personality ?!
    I couldn’t imagine waking up every day saying to myself how can I be a victim today.

  • @shannon8254
    @shannon8254 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    0:30 Took "love yourself" to a whole new level.

  • @SpitefulSoviet
    @SpitefulSoviet หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    Cat took one look at this fine ass madness and got the hell out of there.

    • @beckymcmanus3367
      @beckymcmanus3367 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep, I noticed puss reacting and thought the same thing. "this be crazy, I'm outta here" 😂😂😂

  • @WhoPeedMyPants
    @WhoPeedMyPants หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    “Hey let’s do hooking up but make it sound more difficult and self-righteous.” Nailed it, guys!

  • @JoePianist
    @JoePianist หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    The true self is beyond labels and concepts.

  • @gimiwanmemengwaa
    @gimiwanmemengwaa หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    I really saved myself when I stopped being woke. I am so excited for my future now and can’t wait to be a normal adult not worrying about stupid shit that doesn’t bother me!

    • @BlackCroft666
      @BlackCroft666 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It would be nice if the woke would get out of entertainment though.

  • @Peter-uy3ti
    @Peter-uy3ti หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    I only have a head, no limbs, I have a degree in interplanetary underwater lesbian basket weaving I live on Pluto.
    The uber delivery is always late and my pizza is really cold.
    How come nobody cares about me?

    • @davidprince1138
      @davidprince1138 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      I believe that is a Dr. Who episode.

    • @Thenogomogo-zo3un
      @Thenogomogo-zo3un หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I'll send you some flowers for Valentines day 🌹🌹🥰 🚀

    • @aknmtbr
      @aknmtbr หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@davidprince1138nah that’s straight outa futurama. Lol

    • @nightlysobbing
      @nightlysobbing หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@davidprince1138this sent me 😂

    • @ObsidianFane
      @ObsidianFane หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nobody cares about tou because you're straight.
      Have tou considered polybukakeism? Or non heterocis polyfartulism?

  • @vashtinayagar1325
    @vashtinayagar1325 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I recently read a book called “Addicted to You” and the main character was a nymphomaniac. She slept around and found it impossible to commit to a relationship because she couldn’t resist having sex with random people. This was portrayed as an addiction that needed to be addressed in the book and it should be addressed the same way in real life.

  • @aneesussy
    @aneesussy หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    i’m muslim and i’m literally shocked at the fact that the example of solo poly is a HIJABI??? 😭😭😭 it’s literally a sin to sleep around

    • @ObsidianFane
      @ObsidianFane หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂 yah but that prosthetic leg though

    • @j.robertson9025
      @j.robertson9025 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      The people who make these illustrations are clueless about religion. They know only a little bit about Christianity and absolutely nothing about Islam. If they did know more, they show as much hostility towards Muslims as they do Christians, if not more.

    • @walterrequiem6467
      @walterrequiem6467 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      From a Catholic, please do not let these people infiltrate your faith. These people have made mockeries of Christianity and tried to imply that our Lord is part of their group, or that they try to shoehorn LGBT stuff into church teachings when they get a foothold. It's just another thing to them that they think they can conquer.

    • @oldoutlet6946
      @oldoutlet6946 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      That's mainly to do with (imo) how a lot of progressives view the Muslim faith and any faith for that matter as more of a racial identity than a religious identity. It's why they don't criticize Muslims nearly as much as they do Judaism or Christianity because the latter two are seen as white (despite there being white Muslims and black Christians).

  • @nkfd4688
    @nkfd4688 หลายเดือนก่อน +125

    People who make things needlessly complicated are why we have the problems we do in this world 😠

    • @HumanPerson_final
      @HumanPerson_final หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      How can I feel like a unique person if I don't write a wikipedia page to explain my hyper-arbitrary sexual preferences?

    • @shady_the_one
      @shady_the_one หลายเดือนก่อน

      Like Martin Riggs said, "I don't make things complicated, they get that way all by themselves."

    • @nkfd4688
      @nkfd4688 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@shady_the_one damnit, I know that quote too. I'm getting to old for this sh*t

    • @shady_the_one
      @shady_the_one หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nkfd4688 NO. We're NOT too old for this shit! Will it!

  • @melodicvirginia
    @melodicvirginia หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    My twitter timeline’s been full of memes about this post for the past week 😭 there’s nothing more hilarious than woke infographics

  • @vaughansamuelson6552
    @vaughansamuelson6552 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    For 10000 years people have not let their partners sleep around because they don't want to catch diseases. The same is true today.

    • @tell-me-a-story-
      @tell-me-a-story- หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      How dare you be bigoted towards deadly deceases!
      Syphilis is deeply offended!

  • @countblacke
    @countblacke หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    It's so concerning watching in real time our culture's descent into severe self-absorption and the worship of self.
    I see people from my generation (GenZ) and millennials on the internet, and it's clear that all they care about is themselves.
    A society cannot function properly if absolutely no one is willing to sacrifice a little for the good of others.
    People will really do anything but be kind to one another.

  • @zenpowersgaming5511
    @zenpowersgaming5511 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    You sre now the voice of reason for your generation. Thank you. It's refreshing to know people with intellect, such as yourself, are out there fighting the good fight.

  • @marteumar8429
    @marteumar8429 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Off topic but Misha is so beautiful 😩🤚

    • @adams115
      @adams115 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      She is divine

    • @lees4416
      @lees4416 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'll be off topic too, but is this her real name? If so, it's really weird

    • @181-o4t
      @181-o4t หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@lees4416 What's so weird about that? 💀

    • @lees4416
      @lees4416 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @181-o4t in russian Misha is short version of a name Mikhail, which is a male name and Petrov is also a male version of a surname

    • @lees4416
      @lees4416 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Rufio_Cristiforus_Tucarus I know, just wanted to share the dissonance I have in my head when I look at this woman and then see her name

  • @Tharros95
    @Tharros95 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    I identify as wifelesssexual. That is to say, I have no wife. Am I doing this right?

    • @goldenreyaa
      @goldenreyaa หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      LMAOOOO😭😭

    • @tell-me-a-story-
      @tell-me-a-story- หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Basically this is how it works.

    • @shyfoxfeatherhere6446
      @shyfoxfeatherhere6446 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Nah, you your doing it better then the majority 😂

  • @redamuri4898
    @redamuri4898 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    your cat grooming in the background is just the cutest

  • @pastelcharms7133
    @pastelcharms7133 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    "Your vacation trip should involve a room that's bubble wrapped because you guys seem very accident prone" AKDKGKFKG MISHA YOU ARE KILLING ME!!! 🤣🤣🤣 I laughed outloud at every single dunk/joke you made about the overdone disability designs, I absolutely loved it this might be my favorite video of yours yet!

  • @jamesmac357
    @jamesmac357 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Solo Poly, an oxymoron, is what the 1960s and '70s called the 'free love movement'. The free love movement was a result of the invention of antibiotics (that came out of WW2 America) and the invention of the Pill (that became birth control in the year 1960). Of course, the youth movement of the '60s took free love to its ends, and this redefined American culture, that was reflected in television and movies. The famous Woodstock 1969 concert (Woodstock Music and Art Fair) became a symbol of the '60s, with its wild hippie lifestyle: I've seen people claim to have been there, even if it is unlikely, in a symbol of belonging to the counterculture era: One woman said she was a teenager and hitchhiked 3000 miles to New York to attend. Like a bunch of hamsters, they mix it up, and then do their own thing. What ended the sexual revolution is in the '80s the lethal HIV AIDS disease was imported to America from Africa, and then there was, once again, risky sexual activity.

    • @lees4416
      @lees4416 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I guess diseases can be helpful 💀

  • @LawyerLevin
    @LawyerLevin หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Im an asexual guy who is trying to understand polyamory so i can better understand my friend (who is polygamous) and her experiences and relationships troubles but the more i research the worse it gets 😟

    • @liminal_criminal
      @liminal_criminal หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      Polyamory is just another way of saying you cheat on people and want to normalize it, honestly.

    • @bloodangel7731
      @bloodangel7731 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      There's not much to understand. They sleep around for the sake of sleeping around because they don't know what real commitment is.

    • @greenbeanlloyd8393
      @greenbeanlloyd8393 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Hii aro/ace speaking here
      I've been doing lots of research about polyamory bc I don't undestand it either
      However polygamous relationships and Polyamorous relationships are different
      Polygamous refer to a single person having multiple partners (like for example a man having 3 wives)
      Thus polyamory is about a group of three or more people having a relationship
      I'm well aware polyamory seems like glorified cheating, however i've met poly people that had partners CHEATING on them in a poly relationship (why? Bc you still got rules inside the relationship like telling your partners you're gonna sleep with "x" person yada yada)
      I know it's difficult to undestand (and I honestly don't get how people feel attracted to more than one individual simultaneously), but I hope this helps clarify things a bit

    • @Folfah
      @Folfah 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      id cut ties bruh, that friendship will never work

    • @liminal_criminal
      @liminal_criminal 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@greenbeanlloyd8393 You literally explained how they're both the same thing. I guess you made sure to differentiate one as trying to normalize cucking though.

  • @MrBuns-yi2hk
    @MrBuns-yi2hk หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Kitty was photobombing the video hard lol.

  • @drmichaelshea
    @drmichaelshea หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks!

    • @realmishapetrov
      @realmishapetrov  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank u!!

    • @drmichaelshea
      @drmichaelshea หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @ You’re welcome. Not many people can make me laugh, but you can. Thank you.

    • @drmichaelshea
      @drmichaelshea หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @ You’re more than welcome. :-)

  • @EDGAR-os9rw
    @EDGAR-os9rw หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    The world has gone crazy. I had a room mate that was into amputee porn, where the actors put stubs and nubs into places and spaces. He was also into midget porn and bestiality. Yucky yuck yuck. Disgusting.

    • @elena7520
      @elena7520 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I'm glad you got away from him. He sounds insane

    • @vasyear
      @vasyear หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      WTFF

    • @OMaMaRMY
      @OMaMaRMY หลายเดือนก่อน

      🥵

    • @alemswazzu
      @alemswazzu หลายเดือนก่อน

      He'll probably be running for/winning a congress seat as a Democrat soon.

    • @EDGAR-os9rw
      @EDGAR-os9rw หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@elena7520 Thank you. It was suffocating my soul to be there.
      I have never thought that kind of stuff was morally right.
      I'm forever trying to rid myself of those images.

  • @eveyloso9595
    @eveyloso9595 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Solo poly must be new I've never heard of this till this video.

  • @tsrocks2029
    @tsrocks2029 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    One of my family friends has been “poly “ for a long time now. We’re pretty distant friends now , but get along well and catch up on occasional phone calls. My husband and I really disagree with his relationship choices but other than that he’s fun to be around and a nice person. I won’t say what happened he did have some trauma in his childhood and I think it heavily contributed to his sexuality. It sucks that a lot of adults fall into this hyper sexuality because the society pushes it, and in many cases because they haven’t handled their trauma well. He gets mad his family has a problem with him bringing 2-3 girlfriends around family gatherings. I love the guy but, that’s just not a healthy way to live your life! And you can’t force other people to accept that.

    • @Thenogomogo-zo3un
      @Thenogomogo-zo3un หลายเดือนก่อน

      2-3 girlfriends?!
      Gigachad stuff!
      I've been trying for years!

  • @MikhailSamunin
    @MikhailSamunin หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    3:31 Being terrified of your actions having consequences is not a productive way to live your life.

    • @michaelmurray11189
      @michaelmurray11189 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Like getting physically assaulted by your parents under the guise of being “disciplined”?

    • @AnaOhKay
      @AnaOhKay หลายเดือนก่อน

      what does this mean?

    • @MikhailSamunin
      @MikhailSamunin หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @AnaOhKay I mean that the members of the solo poly movement actively discourage themselves to committing to their relationships which to me comes off as a desparate attempt to play the life safe: "I just don't feel like committing to any (or even multiple - even this is acceptable today, but even that is apparently no longer enough) of my partners beyond bedtime totally not because I'm irresposible or immature and want to have my cake and eat it too."

    • @MikhailSamunin
      @MikhailSamunin หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@michaelmurray11189 What the actual hell does this have to do with solo poly? That (every single one of) its members are too traumatized to make decisions with long-lasting consequences? In this case they need therapy, not a movement that encourages exacerbation of their issue.

    • @michaelmurray11189
      @michaelmurray11189 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MikhailSamunin The whole deal with one's actions having consequences? I mean, kids being too scared to do anything out of fear of their parents finding out, especially when said parents' idea of "discipline" involves physically assaulting them.

  • @terryrouss7826
    @terryrouss7826 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Its a label for people that went around and slept with everyone in the city but now cant lock anyone down so they call it solo poly. Its just the fact that nobody wants anyone that is so used up its embarrassing to be seen with them.

  • @xcrunner417
    @xcrunner417 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The endless labels are so exhausting

    • @shqip_sumejja
      @shqip_sumejja หลายเดือนก่อน

      Then IGNORE it

  • @SilentSteve939
    @SilentSteve939 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Misha pointed out that the majority of people in the post have disabilities. People with disabilities have a very difficult time finding a partner. They can go years and years being single, with no attention from the opposite sex. It’s the same with blind people. They almost never get into relationships, unless they have lots of money. In that case, the people that get into relationships with them, just use them for money. You don’t have to focus on all these labels so much, because these labels aren’t gonna get you anywhere. All they do is play on those stereotypes and stigmas. Nasty.

  • @OneBrainStorm
    @OneBrainStorm หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    4:05 it's not a single leg, it's a solo polyamorous leg smh get it right.

  • @johnrossi5095
    @johnrossi5095 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    The narcissism is extreme

  • @NerdPlayingThings
    @NerdPlayingThings 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m so proud that you’re not scared to show your opinions online among all the people who might attack you and I love it. Love you Misha!

  • @Mechimonn
    @Mechimonn 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    THANK YOU FOR SAYING IT!! im transgender, however, I am unlabeled in all distinguishing categories regarding sexuality and gender. Furthermore, I think sexuality itself is fluid and that the stigma around putting a distinct label on your sexuality (especially as a teen) just forces a lot of people to confine themselves to said label, and not explore outside of it.

  • @DerekKanakaraj
    @DerekKanakaraj หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Jesus come back please. I’m literally done with this stupidity. It was funny the first 47 times. Now it’s just insanity.

    • @VexCuomo
      @VexCuomo หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Agree! Boy do I agree!

    • @ahmedasmida4109
      @ahmedasmida4109 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Gospel of John chapter 14 verse 16 And I will pray the Father, and He shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever. My reply Prophet Jesus explains in this verse that there is another Prophet, namely Prophet Muhammad. This is the real way. We must obey the Prophet Muhammad what he received from God

    • @ahmedasmida4109
      @ahmedasmida4109 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who told you he would come back? Where is your evidence? At this time he will not come

    • @DerekKanakaraj
      @DerekKanakaraj หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I obey the one true God who sent His son Jesus to pay for my sins. John 3:16-17 tells me this. I respect your ability to believe what you want, but I do not believe in the teachings of Prophet Mohammed. Jesus Christ is the only way to Heaven and life after death.

    • @ahmedasmida4109
      @ahmedasmida4109 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DerekKanakaraj What about the orders of the Prophet Jesus when he tells you in the Bible that you must follow another Prophet? Will you ignore his orders?

  • @alessadolan5718
    @alessadolan5718 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Gen-z is so fcking weird.. saying this as a gen-z myself..

  • @Auburn_Rusame0704
    @Auburn_Rusame0704 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    5:50 Not your cat just casually having his own gymnastics routine in the background

  • @trunksbriefs8800
    @trunksbriefs8800 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Like a teenager boy myself I can say this is not being narcissistic, this is being a cheater, or womanizer, this is a excuse for no being called cheater, womanizer, or get more of two man or n women, is like "I'm a womanizer but without being womanizer"

  • @TheDistingueOne
    @TheDistingueOne หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Nah, I don't deal with people who have these weird ass views. If you are not going to act like a normal human being, you're not worth my time. It is as simple as that for me.

  • @danpatterson8009
    @danpatterson8009 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Sounds like simple rationalization to me- either for oneself or to make excuses (remain in denial) for a "partner" who sleeps around.

    • @hearmeout1767
      @hearmeout1767 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      In other words, normal polyamory.

    • @VexCuomo
      @VexCuomo หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@hearmeout1767Södom&Gomorrah

    • @danpatterson8009
      @danpatterson8009 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hearmeout1767 Eeeeyup.

  • @hanng1242
    @hanng1242 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Solo polyamory? Is that like when someone uses both hands?

  • @sp00kington
    @sp00kington หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm disabled and I can honestly say "leave us outta this one"

  • @complex_
    @complex_ หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    the cat really added some good arguments to this video ❤

  • @awfulolaf
    @awfulolaf หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Creating labels to remove the responsibility and consequences for their actions.

  • @hermandm89
    @hermandm89 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Haha. I think Brett Cooper also covered this. It really is sad. But it will go away ❤️♥️❤️

    • @jasminjeopary
      @jasminjeopary หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hopefully!!!!

    • @hermandm89
      @hermandm89 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jasminjeopary yessss!

  • @og-supercadbury
    @og-supercadbury หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    6:44 THE CAT😭💜💜

  • @RattledKO0730
    @RattledKO0730 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    08:21 I kind of use this for people with pronouns.
    I honestly can't take someone seriously if they have pronouns

    • @Geist55
      @Geist55 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How dare ___ say this! lol

  • @bluesteno64
    @bluesteno64 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m what folks call ace and nonbinary, but I don’t make my identity dictate my personality and interactions. I don’t care much for labels unless it’s for like an important form. I’m just me living my life. Being confident in who I am is not broadcasting it everywhere.

  • @adamjones6148
    @adamjones6148 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    My god- why are so many of the artist’s characters black/dark women with missing legs???? Or unable to walk-??? It feels fetishistic-??? Like- she has something about black/dark women being injured specifically???

    • @ObsidianFane
      @ObsidianFane หลายเดือนก่อน

      No. It's to normalize non-white people because the author is saying they are marginalized groups.

  • @strwbbz0mbiezz
    @strwbbz0mbiezz หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    in 5th grade i identified as a panromantic , asexual nonbinary demigirl . im a bisexual girl now 😭😭 im glad i found out what i ACTUALLY like and not what everyone told me i was 😣😣

    • @RumpleGold
      @RumpleGold หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@strwbbz0mbiezz as a REAL asexual I find all those labels insulting . Demi isn’t real , nonbinary isn’t real , 😭

    • @FatCs2Gaymer
      @FatCs2Gaymer หลายเดือนก่อน

      male of female ☠️

    • @strwbbz0mbiezz
      @strwbbz0mbiezz หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@RumpleGold fr i wasnt “asexual” i was 10 nd shouldnt have those feelings anyway 😭😭 its a bit different now but stillll

    • @hearmeout1767
      @hearmeout1767 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@RumpleGold hey real asexuals unite!

    • @WaltProbably1394
      @WaltProbably1394 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@RumpleGold YES!!! THANK YOU!!! A fellow ace, like myself, with common sense! I don't put emphasis on my asexuality since there's more to life than having sex, dating, romance and marriage; like Buffalo wings and hockey! And don't get me started on the whole "asexuality is a spectrum" because there's only one or the other and no in-between. You either have sex or interested in a relationship or you don't.

  • @CGMedia2023
    @CGMedia2023 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm gobsmacked at how enthusiastic generation Z is about literally dehumanizing everyone around them. It's not just narcissism, it sociopathic tendencies. Then again, this is the 3rd generation raised on Regina George, Taylor Swift and the Kardashians, what did anyone expect?

  • @seankeller1560
    @seankeller1560 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    the problem I got with all these labels is the incessant need to force them onto other people. I'm someone who's fairly submissive I'm never going to be the caveman type who beats his chest and drags women off by the hair to F them. I'm okay with this, the thing is conservatives tell me to man up and read books to get myself confidence so I can try and be that type while liberals well say I'm trans or gender fluid or gay or anything other then straight and cis ( I use cis unironically because by conservative standards I'm not normal and again I'm okay with that.) That said I'm left with no one to get advice from without them trying to either fix me or get me into a box that they think I should be in.

    • @liminal_criminal
      @liminal_criminal หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm gay and conservative, so I'm not sure what you're on about with the banter about conservatives, then again, not everyone has the same experiences. But uh
      How about this. Look for someone who doesn't care about your political affiliation, stop taking advice from libs if that's the advice you're getting, and honestly? I can't even disagree with the bit about gaining a bit of self-confidence. Not something you have to read books to do, by the way. Sure, you don't need to be the image of what you think is a stereotypical man, but getting a bit more confidence in yourself is probably the best thing you can do. If you're insecure, you get ridiculed by one side, but then, on the other hand, the other side only wants to feed into your insecurity further. So, would you rather go on a downward spiral or work on yourself?

  • @lizardfishbird
    @lizardfishbird หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I've never met a single poly person that is actually happy or satisfied in their relationship, and I think the key reason is that they're searching for something in their relationship that they couldn't find alone. If you can't find happiness by yourself, getting a partner won't fix you, and getting more than one partner is definitely going to make things worse. As RuPaul ends every Drag Race episode, you've gotta learn to love yourself before you can love anybody else, and you KNOW these people are watching Drag Race. Shame they're not putting on their listening ears and working on themselves before dragging others into their black hole of a personality

    • @some.random.baldie2111
      @some.random.baldie2111 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Precisely my part. I do think people who are in these relationships are only together due to financial or housing issues. Shame, as it shows that the whole thing is shallow.

  • @KamasKirian716
    @KamasKirian716 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love seeing the cat just kinda taking over the room.

  • @JadoreLulu
    @JadoreLulu หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I like when you started reading about curating your inner royalty and your cat showed up, lmao