Oh I love it when women own the room. Body posture commands so much power and says a lot about who you are and how you want to be treated before you even say a word.
Yes, but that is NOT owning the room! And has nothing to do with elegantly walking. It is not useful for everydays life. If a female boss will do it, nobody will take her seriously. Is that the goal? I think not.
@@LilDusty5528 well of course no one should walk this way at work 😂 unless they are trying to get a raise. But body posture is important. Standing upright, no slouching I think is what she meant.
@@olaines9154 no, watch the video again she clearly said in the video "the office" as far as how to walk...that might be what you are saying but the lady is the video was pretty where she thinks women should walk like this...she said office and then proceeded to sexy slow walk down the stairs taking her time as if she wants to be seen...not the same thing as standing up straight and taking your time
The tips are good but the swinging while climbing the stairs is exagerated and too sensual. To be elegant doesn’t mean you have to be sexy. The oposit.
I was trained at age twelve for a stage, fashion show, by a prominent, New York fashion model, whose image covered myriad periodicals; so this is accurate advice; my disconcert is that it's aimed entirely at females to conform, then improve their status. Males aren't instructed with etiquette skills, but females are targeted with societal proclivities.
So u have to constantly impress and be someone ur not? Ladies just be urself. My wife wears a prosthetic leg snd i didnt care how she walked or came down the stairs. She was beautiful to me when i met her and she still is.
After breaking my ankle in May, and having surgery, I'm lucky to go up or down stairs. However, I can take the steps, but it don't look pretty. Anymore, I'm not concerned with appearance. It's mobility, the ability to stand up and walk in the first place.
Keep up in the physical rehab exercises this alone can help keep arthritis from setting in. Wishing you the best success you can achieve. Seven years ago I broke the fibula right above the ankle and completely tore the deltoid ligament. It was slow going but persistence paid off.
Even at 70 years old, I can learn something. Thank you for your teaching. I will definitely be practicing this before I attend a wedding this weekend👍🏼❤️
what I thought I'd get: short turtorial on how to climb stairs without looking like a middle-aged man what I actually got: 8 minute ad for a course to change everything about me
This is exhausting it's like as woman we only exist to look good for ppl. Shave this, wax that, condition this, lotion, that cover this, lift that, wear this not that. Exhausting
Yes. That's why I ignore most of that. My husband doesn't seem to find me any less attractive for all that. As long as I look clean, the clothes fit, are comfy and appropriate for the weather and activity. One doesn't have to do all that other stuff to have self respect.
I knew this since I was a teenager; my dad (more than my mom) raised me like a "feminine and delicate princess" but strong, powerful and independient....so, yes, I've changed a flat tire by myself 💪🏻👸🏼
Me too! Father forced me to change a tire near to the peak of a mountain. This had been THE condition before he handed over the keys for the car . ...different times/ different kind of helicopter parenting
I actually naturally walk like this. I feel most comfortable when my hips sway from side to side walking up and down the steps. It provides good balance when walking.
Everyone's hip sway from side to side when they walk...when your feet rotate steps that's what it causes to happen, swaying...even men do it. When the weight of your body goes from side to side it causes stuff to move. Lol you said that as if everyone doesn't naturally sway. I've never seen a person walk this earth that ass and hips doesn't move when they walk or walk up stairs.
i like looking at women when they are walking up and down the stairs . some do have that slow and elegant hip sway to them. i work with a girl from senegal. she is thin and 6ft1 and always wrap a traditional long and tight skirt ( that is how i can describe it ). she is the Queen of walking up and down with them high heels and she is never tired when she gets upstairs
The idea of constantly keeping in mind that I have to look "presentable" while walking, eating, sleeping and even climbing the stairs is a little bit disturbing. I wonder if men are concerned with hips swaying while walking office corridors 😆 21st century, and the woman is still an object thanks to such videos
@@ummehabiba7747 can you please stop generalizing, thank you. If a particular woman you know wants something, then just speak about this particular woman, not about ALL women in the world
@@ummehabiba7747 Даже если женщина хочет выглядеть привлекательно, это не означает, что она хочет, чтобы ее домогались. А самое главное: это не означает, что у кого-либо есть право её домогаться!
You shouldn’t keep it in mind, it should be just your nature, a habit. You don’t keep in mind not to slurp while eating, or to sit/stand/walk with a good posture, do you?
Who would have thought?? Didn't know there was a way! But you look 2000% better doing it the 'right way'. Wearing heels is bad for your back and feet, and rocking your hips from side to side is bad for your hip joints. Even though you look lovely walking down the stairs, it looks like an accident waiting to happen. One foot in front of the other, your legs are crossing each other and you're bound to trip yourself! And that wouldn't look very ladylike, would it?
Too much of precision in every bit is maddening, grace & elegance naturally flows with working from the within....sparkling eyes full of Love is anytime eternal Solitaires. 🙏
I went to a tattoo shop today with my friend and some random boy asked me to show my tattoo when i was about to leave the shop. I unintentionally showed my hand to him like a queen do in the movies when a king kisses the hand and my friend laughed like hell. 😅😅 She said I looked like a girly girl and when she imitated me i did not belived her what I did.. She then told my other friend and they fell on floor laughing and I still do not remember doing that 🤣🤣🤣🤣 and i am sure if I will walk or climb stairs like this my friends and family will push me asking if I have something wrong with my leg or back 🤪🤣😅
It helps a great deal to know how to walk properly in heels in the first place. Most young women don't have the slightest idea how to act in public on any level. They aspire to be "cool". To them that is the pinnacle of achievement, except they don't know what "pinnacle" means!
YT suggested this to me and I giggled so much at the opening examples of what not to do. (And of course I saw myself in them ☺️) Excellent video - thank you!
I'm 64 years old, and you do look beautiful going down those stairs. Surely you know that most of us don't give a hoot about what we look like going down the stairs, We just worry about getting down without breaking our necks, (haha) which means no heels, 2 hands out (wall & rail), and for me 2 feet down on each step before taking the next. Bless you!
I'm sure this will be helpful to all those who insist on wearing heels. As for me, I'm not wearing anything that forces me to twist myself into knots just to get down some stairs.
I laughed seeing the woman come down the stairs. I've really had to learn to stop rushing around up and down stairs. There's things to learn at every stage in life. Thanks.
The tips are good but the swinging while climbing the stairs is exagerated and too sensual. To be elegant doesn’t mean you have to be sexy. The oposit.
This is my first time of watching your tv channel and am in love with you and what you do already am excited to be part of your workshop ! I don't want to miss it Fola from Nigeria !🙌
Great tips. I don't like to call attention to myself so I've gotten away from feminity to more of a neutral position. I want to be more feminine but at the same time, hide in my skin. Does this make sense?
Personally i felt its very hard to breath if i need to walk a certain way in the name of etiquette. Or i need to wear high heel and make up to be presentable in front of others that I don't even know much. If i don't present myself well people will say things about me that i don't like. Its hard being a woman.
Keep it up! I appreciate tutorials like this because I hate seeing my own candid photos so I try to learn as much etiquette as I can for my own photogenic benefits -- nothing to do with pleasing other people at all, just pleasing the camera and my own eyes 😂
Great video. I have a very bad back and so forth so I have difficulty going up and down stairs and have to do one step at a time, not consistently like needed. I try my best to look as elegantly as possible though.
Honey you are elegant enough by dealing with your bad back, don't pay no mind to how you look going up and down stairs. You are beautiful inside and out ❤
First off I want to say thank you for making a video like this. Back in the '40s '50s etiquette and poise was very important. When I saw this title, I did laugh to be honest. 😁 Although I have medical issues that would keep me from looking so poised... I come down the stairs more like the first part of the video. LOL 😂 And like other people who have commented sometimes you have to do what you've got to do on your own comfort level. However that does not take away from the video there are people out there that will appreciate this and I appreciate it. The reason people in public just don't really care anymore. Now when I say this I don't mean those who are on crutches or walkers. Or are elderly... Or some physical limitation. Once again thank you so very much I hope this does help a lot of people.
I will walk how i walk i dont care about some things as long as i reach where i am going ....there are some who can't move so just acknowledge the fact that you can walk doesnt matter how.
Wah!!! Thank you very much Dear Mam Parmita💖💖👍👍 This vid3o is exactly for me coz i always running down the stairs as if world ends and collapse😂🤣😂🤣🎉🎉 i dunno y happens like that😜
So useful! Especially for modern American women who have no clue how to wear heels, how to look elegant and feminine not to mention how to climb the stairs up and down elegantly.
This is the first video of yours I've watched and impressed! You are so beautiful and appear very poised and elegant. I'm off to watch more videos..... ❤ I love your haircut btw, very beautiful and you have a great bone structure 🥰
*10 YEARS AGO* I interviewed a woman for a job at my company - she was the daughter of a very prominent person in a European country... When she walked in the room it was captivating, she owned the room and everyone in it; though she was not pretty. I remember thinking at the time - you can drape as much bling as you want on a woman, but you can't make up for a lifetime of the best education and a Swiss finishing school. It should NOT matter how you enter a room, but it does.
The most important thing is HOLD THAT RAILING. SAFETY FIRST. No one will care how you look if you break your neck. It's great to look elegant so just take your time. She has charisma and great teeth, so she looks fabulous no matter what she does.
Hi Parmita... I accidentally stumbled upon your channel, and I have viewed few of those... it's Excellent ... I infact tried the way to climb down the stairs ...compared to my regular way... I honestly felt confident... it was like a transformation... I suddenly felt graceful. I truly appreciate your videos... you help Image transformation totally... and looking at you the way you have maintained your self... the way you carry your self... the way you talk... so much to learn from you... God bless you... Stay beautiful... stay Awesome...
I enjoy your videos so much! You always have something positive and beautiful to contribute. I don’t believe I’ve ever seen a video explaining to women how to gracefully walk up and downstairs- thank you! I’m going to record myself and practice right now!
Counseling does not cover this! This information can be as important as any counseling. It is contructive, quick, and result oriented. Thank you. Ingenious concept.
Thanks for your videos ma'am. I searched so many channels for best confident looks for women but almost all of them forced on feminine side. And I hated it. Maybe That's why I hated taking photos. Now I can posse as the real woman I am.
Parmita, its 2022, we can empower ourselves walking however we like. I know very empowered and confident woman who walk and climb stairs fumbling and or legs apart. Lets stop with the 1900 mentality hey?
@@Bravelioness8635 Cause it was in my feed and i just felt curious . But it seems stupid to me . My sister(25) is CPA and CFA she makes 300k and soon going to start firm as soon as me and my brother finish bachelor's (we are done with our CPA as we did aur ACCA already) And she walks like a man wear sports shoes instead of heels that doesn't mean she's not elegant and successful or smart , it's just that she not pretentious or rather spend her Time working on the skills she need for her success or just chill instead of doing modelling stuff By the way I'm a guy and i don't believe that women should present themselves with all imperial and royal family stuff to be successful the only requirement should be your expertise in the work you do That's just what I think. I'm sorry if I've Said something wrong
I would love to have you do a workshop for some of my students. It breaks my heart to see elementary school girls who are depressed and hiding under their hoodies. With self esteem and body image issues, they need encouragement and coaching to love the skin they are in and how to present them selves with some confidence.
@@Indian-mb1ue as long as they're not hiding in their hoodies. But working on moving with confidence often does improve self esteem; so regardless of why they're wearing a hoody, anybody, not just girls, benefit from body language and esteem practices.
It wasn't my skin that had me hiding. I needed to be taught how to make friends. I needed to have many little successes. I needed the crossing guards to stop bullying me. I needed to know what my strengths were. It would still be helpful to know that... Coming to terms with growing boobs just required time.
While miss parmita is certainly alluring, if I saw someone " sashaying" down the stairs like that, I, and most likely many, average people would laugh out loud, but you go, Girl Boss!
This video is great for girls wanting to model or be in pageants BUT It's going to look so bad if someone out in the regular world falls, losing a few teeth or worse breaking a limb, especially when it's obvious they were trying to walk a certain way other than what comes naturally to them. For me it's safety on the stairs before trying to be a beauty queen when I know I'm not. There's other places to sway my hips and nobody will judge me🤣 This walk here is for the runway for sure and it's fierce and sexy. Anywhere else, and it looks like you're a show off, calling for a man's attention and it can make you seem unrelatable. I will stick to my normal gentle walk. Heels is enough to make me graceful. I don't need to sway my ass. It sways on its own🤣 You can still be elegant but there's no need to walk as if you're on the catwalk every single second of the day. Why?? Because most of us are not on the catwalk. Let's be real and not artificial ladies.
@@yemiolayomi6223 thank you sugar❤️🤣I really thought I'd be getting hate for my opinion. I'm just being real No hate was meant for this sexy lady who gave this advice though. Many will need and use this advice.
I actually didn’t need this for me- I’m an artist and needed tips on how to draw correct body proportions when walking down stairs. This helped a lot! Thank you!!! 🤍
Oh I love it when women own the room. Body posture commands so much power and says a lot about who you are and how you want to be treated before you even say a word.
Yes, but that is NOT owning the room! And has nothing to do with elegantly walking. It is not useful for everydays life. If a female boss will do it, nobody will take her seriously. Is that the goal? I think not.
@@leonieharry2941 Exactly, if a female boss does that she will come off as she is trying to be sexy and seductive in the workplace.
@@LilDusty5528 well of course no one should walk this way at work 😂 unless they are trying to get a raise. But body posture is important. Standing upright, no slouching I think is what she meant.
@@olaines9154 no, watch the video again she clearly said in the video "the office" as far as how to walk...that might be what you are saying but the lady is the video was pretty where she thinks women should walk like this...she said office and then proceeded to sexy slow walk down the stairs taking her time as if she wants to be seen...not the same thing as standing up straight and taking your time
The tips are good but the swinging while climbing the stairs is exagerated and too sensual. To be elegant doesn’t mean you have to be sexy. The oposit.
I was trained at age twelve for a stage, fashion show, by a prominent, New York fashion model, whose image covered myriad periodicals; so this is accurate advice; my disconcert is that it's aimed entirely at females to conform, then improve their status. Males aren't instructed with etiquette skills, but females are targeted with societal proclivities.
There are many Chanels on TH-cam catering to men and teaching manliness etc. Just do a search.
@@DaggerSecurity exactly.
There are make channels too 😉
@@DaggerSecurity can you give me an example of a good one? I'm not saying there aren't any I'm just curious
@@the_bob_147 here is one:
th-cam.com/video/tGP0XmQppAw/w-d-xo.html
So u have to constantly impress and be someone ur not? Ladies just be urself. My wife wears a prosthetic leg snd i didnt care how she walked or came down the stairs. She was beautiful to me when i met her and she still is.
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Loved that comment.
Come on its presentation ...
And really do you know who you are
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❤️❤️❤️God bless you and your wife take care of her I hope you will be happy alwaysssss I loved your comment God protects you 🤲🏻
After breaking my ankle in May, and having surgery, I'm lucky to go up or down stairs. However, I can take the steps, but it don't look pretty. Anymore, I'm not concerned with appearance. It's mobility, the ability to stand up and walk in the first place.
I hope you’re having plenty of bone broth to help with your recovery.
Keep up in the physical rehab exercises this alone can help keep arthritis from setting in. Wishing you the best success you can achieve. Seven years ago I broke the fibula right above the ankle and completely tore the deltoid ligament. It was slow going but persistence paid off.
May allah protect you Get better soon god bless you be happy for ever❤️❤️❤️
@@awa5402 Thank you for your kind wishes. 💗
@@donnawoodford6641 🌸💖
That's best for pageant queens but for ordinary people, walk comfortably.
She is talking about presentation and presence.
This video was really just a long ad.
Even at 70 years old, I can learn something. Thank you for your teaching. I will definitely be practicing this before I attend a wedding this weekend👍🏼❤️
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Hahaha! Im in the same boat. Why not!
Funnily it works in a MEN'S WORLD
I send love and blessings dear Lady ❤🌺🌻🌷🌻🌺❤😃🧚♀️🍀💫💫💫
Hope u 70 yr young lady healthy .
what I thought I'd get: short turtorial on how to climb stairs without looking like a middle-aged man
what I actually got: 8 minute ad for a course to change everything about me
LOL
I'm a middle aged man that has mastered stairs
@@scottheaton8469 some people are just naturally gifted
😂😂😂😂
@@scottheaton8469 😂😂😂
This is exhausting it's like as woman we only exist to look good for ppl. Shave this, wax that, condition this, lotion, that cover this, lift that, wear this not that. Exhausting
All these things you mention
Have to do with selfrespect .
If you dont have that ..well enjoy your life ..
@@robertvanderzwan2517 no it has to deal with social constructs. So if I don't lotion this wax that I don't respect myself?
Yes. That's why I ignore most of that. My husband doesn't seem to find me any less attractive for all that. As long as I look clean, the clothes fit, are comfy and appropriate for the weather and activity. One doesn't have to do all that other stuff to have self respect.
@@dnrmoore4124 well everbody has choices ..enjoy your life
@@robertvanderzwan2517 enjoy it
You have no idea how valuable your channel is for those of us girls born differently. Thank you Parmita!
You don't have to play a roll...be yourself always...even in the stairs 🤗
You are good enough!
Your playing your theather daily .
It even shows in your comment .
This is only about presentation .
@@robertvanderzwan2517 pffff...go to bed mr Knowitall
@@paulaa6976 you don't have to play a role. But sometimes you should. For your own benefit, that is.
@@the_bob_147 naah, I've made it this far...not gonna start acting for anyone 😊
I am impressed.
It is a woman thing that every women has to have this grace.
It gives confidence and place ourselves in the center.
Good job.
I stumbled upon you about a month back and i've been doing those upper and lower lips tightening. And i am beginning to see results. Thank you 🙏
Before this video I didnt like to use the stairs in my house, now most times I enjoy it with your tips, thank you so much Parmita.
I knew this since I was a teenager; my dad (more than my mom) raised me like a "feminine and delicate princess" but strong, powerful and independient....so, yes, I've changed a flat tire by myself 💪🏻👸🏼
Me too! Father forced me to change a tire near to the peak of a mountain. This had been THE condition before he handed over the keys for the car . ...different times/ different kind of helicopter parenting
Dankie!
I actually naturally walk like this. I feel most comfortable when my hips sway from side to side walking up and down the steps. It provides good balance when walking.
Everyone's hip sway from side to side when they walk...when your feet rotate steps that's what it causes to happen, swaying...even men do it. When the weight of your body goes from side to side it causes stuff to move. Lol you said that as if everyone doesn't naturally sway. I've never seen a person walk this earth that ass and hips doesn't move when they walk or walk up stairs.
i like looking at women when they are walking up and down the stairs . some do have that slow and elegant hip sway to them. i work with a girl from senegal. she is thin and 6ft1 and always wrap a traditional long and tight skirt ( that is how i can describe it ). she is the Queen of walking up and down with them high heels and she is never tired when she gets upstairs
@@PHlophe Nice!
The idea of constantly keeping in mind that I have to look "presentable" while walking, eating, sleeping and even climbing the stairs is a little bit disturbing. I wonder if men are concerned with hips swaying while walking office corridors 😆 21st century, and the woman is still an object thanks to such videos
Exactly
Women want ‘head turns’
Then complain of harassment
@@ummehabiba7747 can you please stop generalizing, thank you. If a particular woman you know wants something, then just speak about this particular woman, not about ALL women in the world
@@ummehabiba7747 Даже если женщина хочет выглядеть привлекательно, это не означает, что она хочет, чтобы ее домогались. А самое главное: это не означает, что у кого-либо есть право её домогаться!
We are not. Just found this clip in my feed and the whole idea sounds to me sad and hilarious at the same time.
You shouldn’t keep it in mind, it should be just your nature, a habit. You don’t keep in mind not to slurp while eating, or to sit/stand/walk with a good posture, do you?
Who would have thought?? Didn't know there was a way! But you look 2000% better doing it the 'right way'.
Wearing heels is bad for your back and feet, and rocking your hips from side to side is bad for your hip joints. Even though you look lovely walking down the stairs, it looks like an accident waiting to happen. One foot in front of the other, your legs are crossing each other and you're bound to trip yourself! And that wouldn't look very ladylike, would it?
It's wonderful that you touch on those little things that matter so much.
Too much of precision in every bit is maddening, grace & elegance naturally flows with working from the within....sparkling eyes full of Love is anytime eternal Solitaires. 🙏
I went to a tattoo shop today with my friend and some random boy asked me to show my tattoo when i was about to leave the shop. I unintentionally showed my hand to him like a queen do in the movies when a king kisses the hand and my friend laughed like hell. 😅😅 She said I looked like a girly girl and when she imitated me i did not belived her what I did.. She then told my other friend and they fell on floor laughing and I still do not remember doing that 🤣🤣🤣🤣 and i am sure if I will walk or climb stairs like this my friends and family will push me asking if I have something wrong with my leg or back 🤪🤣😅
I am pretty sure everyone will laugh if I walk like that..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That's true🤣🤣
That's the best reason to do it. lol
I was thinking the same thing about myself 😂😂😂😂
Hahaha
I laughed just reading your statement! Lol
It helps a great deal to know how to walk properly in heels in the first place. Most young women don't have the slightest idea how to act in public on any level. They aspire to be "cool". To them that is the pinnacle of achievement, except they don't know what "pinnacle" means!
YT suggested this to me and I giggled so much at the opening examples of what not to do. (And of course I saw myself in them ☺️) Excellent video - thank you!
🤭🤭 yep. Exactly what you said.
Yay how wonderful! I love the education, especially while beenin dressed up!
I'm 64 years old, and you do look beautiful going down those stairs. Surely you know that most of us don't give a hoot about what we look like going down the stairs, We just worry about getting down without breaking our necks, (haha) which means no heels, 2 hands out (wall & rail), and for me 2 feet down on each step before taking the next. Bless you!
I'm sure this will be helpful to all those who insist on wearing heels. As for me, I'm not wearing anything that forces me to twist myself into knots just to get down some stairs.
I love your hair. and I do your face/lip exercises for months now. the work!!!
always good to hear that. Do share your feedback and experience.
Ditto, my hair is currently that style. It's so liberating, easy, and sexy to me. 💋
I swear,when i climbe stairs the absolute last thing on my mind is weather or not I look atractive😂
I laughed seeing the woman come down the stairs. I've really had to learn to stop rushing around up and down stairs. There's things to learn at every stage in life. Thanks.
I had to laugh too! Exactly the way I look when I walk the stairs... 😂😂😂
Same with me, it give me a good laugh at myself 🤣😂
@@Schlimbatz for sure.
@@lindamccracken2053 so funny yes.. Am up for a change infact l started practicing straight away!.
The tips are good but the swinging while climbing the stairs is exagerated and too sensual. To be elegant doesn’t mean you have to be sexy. The oposit.
Ohh come onnnn. Yes be presentable and at the same time Be yourself. Don't be soo conscious of everything... Relaxx, Chill.. Enjoy your life 🤗🤗🤗
Pequeños detalles que hacen la diferencia, gracias por compartir!! 👍🏻☺️💖🙏
This is my first time of watching your tv channel and am in love with you and what you do already am excited to be part of your workshop !
I don't want to miss it
Fola from Nigeria !🙌
I decided to wear 10 cm heels right now(I am scared a bit)and I am learning from you❤❤ love you
How to complicate the natural and basic things so tough 👍
Being yourself is important...always being image consious can lead to dangerous mental issues...
Someone talking sense...
Great tips. I don't like to call attention to myself so I've gotten away from feminity to more of a neutral position. I want to be more feminine but at the same time, hide in my skin. Does this make sense?
If I sway my hips people in my town will say"look at her! Is that the new style of walking?
Personally i felt its very hard to breath if i need to walk a certain way in the name of etiquette. Or i need to wear high heel and make up to be presentable in front of others that I don't even know much. If i don't present myself well people will say things about me that i don't like. Its hard being a woman.
Keep it up! I appreciate tutorials like this because I hate seeing my own candid photos so I try to learn as much etiquette as I can for my own photogenic benefits -- nothing to do with pleasing other people at all, just pleasing the camera and my own eyes 😂
If I enter a room like that folks will think I was crazy and I will fall
Great video. I have a very bad back and so forth so I have difficulty going up and down stairs and have to do one step at a time, not consistently like needed. I try my best to look as elegantly as possible though.
I have had the same difficulty since I had a hip replaced at a relatively young age. Well, you can't be perfect at everything!
Honey you are elegant enough by dealing with your bad back, don't pay no mind to how you look going up and down stairs. You are beautiful inside and out ❤
@@youtubecommentator6023 How would you know that?
Thank you Chaylee. That’s very kind of you.
Wow! Wouldn't have thought one type of walk, vs another would make such a visual difference.
The best thing for graceful walk up and down the stairs is regular exercise! Keep those knees in working order 😂
First off I want to say thank you for making a video like this. Back in the '40s '50s etiquette and poise was very important.
When I saw this title, I did laugh to be honest. 😁 Although I have medical issues that would keep me from looking so poised... I come down the stairs more like the first part of the video. LOL 😂
And like other people who have commented sometimes you have to do what you've got to do on your own comfort level.
However that does not take away from the video there are people out there that will appreciate this and I appreciate it. The reason people in public just don't really care anymore. Now when I say this I don't mean those who are on crutches or walkers. Or are elderly... Or some physical limitation.
Once again thank you so very much I hope this does help a lot of people.
Imagine you trip and fall going down the stairs following this woman's advice. I'm sure that is going to look very elegant 😂😂
I’d like to see this on slippery, non-carpeted stairs. Those slippery stairs can be dangerous
I will walk how i walk i dont care about some things as long as i reach where i am going ....there are some who can't move so just acknowledge the fact that you can walk doesnt matter how.
U are a great coach dear👌👌💓✌
It got me crazy 🤪 the first time you came down stairs . What a keen observer you are.😂🤣🤣
Wah!!! Thank you very much Dear Mam Parmita💖💖👍👍
This vid3o is exactly for me coz i always running down the stairs as if world ends and collapse😂🤣😂🤣🎉🎉 i dunno y happens like that😜
So useful! Especially for modern American women who have no clue how to wear heels, how to look elegant and feminine not to mention how to climb the stairs up and down elegantly.
This is the first video of yours I've watched and impressed! You are so beautiful and appear very poised and elegant. I'm off to watch more videos..... ❤ I love your haircut btw, very beautiful and you have a great bone structure 🥰
Nothing is more important than walking without falling while using stairs...
*10 YEARS AGO* I interviewed a woman for a job at my company - she was the daughter of a very prominent person in a European country...
When she walked in the room it was captivating, she owned the room and everyone in it; though she was not pretty. I remember thinking at the time - you can drape as much bling as you want on a woman, but you can't make up for a lifetime of the best education and a Swiss finishing school. It should NOT matter how you enter a room, but it does.
I never thought this could be a topic..... 😍
Parmita, la chispa hecha mujer.
Muy bonita dama!!! 😘😘😘
Greetings dearie. You are just so georgious ... thanks for sharing ..... God bless you richly. Stay safe. Luv ya lots.
I'm going to try this at home until I'm walking like a Queen!
Safely is the way up and down steps. Vanity is a deadly sin
Both great reminders.
Ecclesiastes 1:2 KJV Vanity of vanities, saith the Preacher, vanity of vanities; all is vanity.
The most important thing is HOLD THAT RAILING. SAFETY FIRST. No one will care how you look if you break your neck. It's great to look elegant so just take your time. She has charisma and great teeth, so she looks fabulous no matter what she does.
You always look stunning!!!
You are just delightful!
Wow your the best I have learned so much from you
Do one with how to walk! I am dead serious because I walk like a construction worker.
Never had seen a woman looking so beautiful and elegant with a pixie!
Hi Parmita... I accidentally stumbled upon your channel, and I have viewed few of those... it's Excellent ... I infact tried the way to climb down the stairs ...compared to my regular way... I honestly felt confident... it was like a transformation... I suddenly felt graceful. I truly appreciate your videos... you help Image transformation totally... and looking at you the way you have maintained your self... the way you carry your self... the way you talk... so much to learn from you... God bless you... Stay beautiful... stay Awesome...
Just come down the flippin stairs, it don't matter how!
Thank you for making our world a more beautiful place.
I enjoy your videos so much! You always have something positive and beautiful to contribute.
I don’t believe I’ve ever seen a video explaining to women how to gracefully walk up and downstairs- thank you! I’m going to record myself and practice right now!
I love this madam so much 🥰 I really like your videos 😊
Very good and thorough. Brava
Do what you are comfortable with. Bhaad me gayi duniya... As if they are not going to judge u if u r elegant, smart or good looking
My struggle all the time just down stairs, that’s very important for me because I planning to get scout
Counseling does not cover this!
This information can be as important as any counseling.
It is contructive, quick, and result oriented.
Thank you. Ingenious concept.
When age catches up... eventually..I won't be thinking how to walk down elegantly..I will be wondering how am I going to go up and come down...😂
Thanks for your videos ma'am.
I searched so many channels for best confident looks for women but almost all of them forced on feminine side. And I hated it. Maybe That's why I hated taking photos.
Now I can posse as the real woman I am.
Thanks for sharing your knowledge.
We r proud of you parmita
Great information
Parmita, its 2022, we can empower ourselves walking however we like. I know very empowered and confident woman who walk and climb stairs fumbling and or legs apart. Lets stop with the 1900 mentality hey?
Why are you watching the video if you're just gonna complain about it anyway 🤔🙄
@@Bravelioness8635 Cause it was in my feed and i just felt curious . But it seems stupid to me . My sister(25) is CPA and CFA she makes 300k and soon going to start firm as soon as me and my brother finish bachelor's (we are done with our CPA as we did aur ACCA already) And she walks like a man wear sports shoes instead of heels that doesn't mean she's not elegant and successful or smart , it's just that she not pretentious or rather spend her Time working on the skills she need for her success or just chill instead of doing modelling stuff
By the way I'm a guy and i don't believe that women should present themselves with all imperial and royal family stuff to be successful the only requirement should be your expertise in the work you do
That's just what I think. I'm sorry if I've Said something wrong
I would love to have you do a workshop for some of my students. It breaks my heart to see elementary school girls who are depressed and hiding under their hoodies. With self esteem and body image issues, they need encouragement and coaching to love the skin they are in and how to present them selves with some confidence.
Or maybe some pretty women are comfortable behind the hoodies and live wearing sneakers.....
@@Indian-mb1ue as long as they're not hiding in their hoodies. But working on moving with confidence often does improve self esteem; so regardless of why they're wearing a hoody, anybody, not just girls, benefit from body language and esteem practices.
It wasn't my skin that had me hiding. I needed to be taught how to make friends. I needed to have many little successes. I needed the crossing guards to stop bullying me. I needed to know what my strengths were. It would still be helpful to know that... Coming to terms with growing boobs just required time.
Grateful video and very useful, thank you so much!!!
While miss parmita is certainly alluring, if I saw someone " sashaying" down the stairs like that, I, and most likely many, average people would laugh out loud, but you go, Girl Boss!
This video is great for girls wanting to model or be in pageants BUT It's going to look so bad if someone out in the regular world falls, losing a few teeth or worse breaking a limb, especially when it's obvious they were trying to walk a certain way other than what comes naturally to them. For me it's safety on the stairs before trying to be a beauty queen when I know I'm not. There's other places to sway my hips and nobody will judge me🤣
This walk here is for the runway for sure and it's fierce and sexy. Anywhere else, and it looks like you're a show off, calling for a man's attention and it can make you seem unrelatable. I will stick to my normal gentle walk. Heels is enough to make me graceful. I don't need to sway my ass. It sways on its own🤣
You can still be elegant but there's no need to walk as if you're on the catwalk every single second of the day. Why?? Because most of us are not on the catwalk. Let's be real and not artificial ladies.
I quite agree with you a lot!😄@☝️
You said it all!
@@yemiolayomi6223 thank you sugar❤️🤣I really thought I'd be getting hate for my opinion. I'm just being real
No hate was meant for this sexy lady who gave this advice though. Many will need and use this advice.
@@Sathyaana 😉Thank you
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Wowo I just love all you videos dear God bless you
i tried walking like you but i will never look as good as you doing so .... Robert !
Thank you ❤🌺🌻🌺❤😃🙏🙏🙏
Simplicity is beauty, that's what I think. WE MIGHT ATTRACT negative ppl doing these fake acts.
I actually didn’t need this for me- I’m an artist and needed tips on how to draw correct body proportions when walking down stairs. This helped a lot! Thank you!!! 🤍
Hi just found your channel can't wait to see your other videos
Thank you ma'am, I didn't know anything about climbing stairs before😜😜😜😜😜
I just found your Channel today it was in my recommendations!
Her hair is so cute 👍🏿
Your watch is beautiful in this video, I'd love to know who makes it?
it shows that you feel powerful with that dress
LOVE. IT. AlL. And then she has that short haircut, not hiding behind hair or extensions. 💯💯💯💯💯
I love this video...... blessings over flow.
Had to manually turn off the escalator to try the lessons learnt in the video... As a dude, made a few faces smile 😎
Thankyou for this video