i have cried more in 2024 than i have ever in my entire life ( rejection by crush , career confusion , being in a college i hated , making my parents disappointed , addicted to adult content , no social life etc ) but 2025 is gonna be great i promise , wish me luck guys
I'm so, so, so proud of you. I feel like 2024 wasn't a good year for anyone. BUT HERE YOU ARE! You shine, you were strong enough to reach this point. I love you.
@@Gagan-v6u Of course! I'm really happy and really lucky to have you. 🥰💜 I'm not just saying it, I love you. A virtual hug and hoping we can hug each other in real life! I LOVE YOU. You're my favorite star. 🫶🏻 I'm here to cheer you up. ♡
Advice, stop watching short-form content (Tiktok, reals, shorts) that's brain rot even educational shorts are no good because your brain can't process information that fast and you will see how much you can accomplish in 1 day, if you don't spend any time not just a little any time on short-form content start with small goals and celebrate them, I am learning Japanese and when I hear and recognize the word when a native speaker speaks I am like wow nice. Keep doing what you love not what someone expects from you, you don't need to prove to anyone but yourself to be a better version of yourself today than yesterday it's not you vs someone it's you vs you
I've been lowering my screen time right now because I was having a really bad brain fog couple weeks ago :") it feels nice to cut out the noise. Thank you for the support
Same wasted a whole year pretending to be busy ..but the truth was i fell back even more and harder this year and the coming years i don't want to survive but live.
2024 has been a rollercoaster for me… I was stressed out, got hospitalized, and then decided to try another path. Only recently I've gotten a great news… and all of a sudden things are looking up again. (After 3 years… i finally felt like time is on my side. 🙏 This is definitely my 2nd craziest year in my life)
Im scared for 2025 because im really depressed right now. I found out just how cruel people around me are. And im scared to go into 2025 and for everything to be the same.
I had so many plans for this year, and I even put in my work for it, but life had other plans for me. Seeing people online having the best of their lives made me feel like a failure. I was just existing, not knowing what to do next. This video really made me see life from a different perspective. idk what 2025 has in store for me, but I will try to live a life that feels right for me. Tq so much for making this video, Audreya❤
Fellow ADHDer here and I had a point where I realized I had to stop trying to be productive bc I the stress was preventing me not only from being productive, but also from taking care of myself. First couple months of 2025, assuming no apocalypse, I will only be going to work, coming home, and taking care of me. You might benefit from it too, but plenty of people told me exactly what I'm telling you and it still took a significant event for me to realize I needed to stop trying to improve my career options and start improving myself, at least to the point I can take care of me.
Definitely! I just got diagnosed ADHD this summer and I feel like I need to re-navigate my life again, because I spent the last 20 years of my life not knowing that I had ADHD. It has been quite experiences for me but a challenging one. Taking it one by one each day instead pushing myself to constantly being productive is not going to do me any good
Hi! I want you to know that I resonate with this video so much. A lot of what you said on your experiences this year, I have experienced also. I feel like I failed this year, productivity-wise. I was running on the fuel of just trying to survive each day. But you reminded me that I have met the bravest part of myself as well, this year. Thank you. Good luck on your journey!
For me I always focus on being "productive" instead giving myself a room of improvement. 2024 is definitely a humbling experiences for me where I need to reflect on myself and appreciate small wins and just try to enjoy life instead criticizing my own self. I think it is something that I need to deal with as 20 something years old (adulting sucks:")) but yeah the end of the day, that's just how life is
that's so beautiful. For 2025 I was planning on doing a whole planning but taking care of myself is a good start. I've been feeling stuck for years and I wanna embrace new journies that help me grow because I am so sick and tired of trying to be perceived and living for others is more than exhausting. I am praying that by next year my depressive state is healed and that I am renewed. May the Lord answer ! Happy Holidays and Happy new year !
I keep telling myself "one step at the time." At first I found it so hard just to appreciate small wins, until I hit rock bottom that I need somehow to appreciate myself a bit more. We can do this!
This video speaks to me on a whole other level... When I was having trouble with my self worth as a teenager, I would always put impossible, outright self deprecating goals for life. I wasted my entire adolescence with goals that did not aim to improve me but only tried to make me someone who would fit to society for year after year. The antidote to this is to just starting by accepting yourself and counting the blessings you have in your life. I am so glad to see that someone who went through a similar journey did find out a healthier goal for 2025, just taking of yourself. I hope your channel grows and you share more of your healing journey with us. I wish you all the best in life
i always tend to compare myself to other people, especially to this girl in my class. she has accomplished so many things and is pretty much living that perfect life. instead of mainly focusing on bettering myself, i have also been bed rotting and kept scrolling on my phone. i didnt like the reality i was living in. i wanted to live 'that perfect life'. i have been so lost in these thoughts that i lost focus of the things that made me happy, i quit drawing, i questioned my relationship with my boyfriend and had so much self-doubt. but at the same time i have experienced so many beautiful things and i am already worth enough, i dont need to prove my worth to anyone. i will leave 2024 with the same mindset that you have: live in the present moment, appreciate small accomplishments and prioritize your mental and physical health. everything step by step. i will achieve everything that i want, i just have to be patient with myself. thanks again for this video, wishing you all the best
Aww man! I just made a 2024 reflection video and I realized that I didn’t accomplish any of my 2024 goals. It broke me, and I am now rethinking my goal setting process for 2025. But thank you for sharing this video, it was so good and needed Have a happy new year !
2024 has been a really tough year for me, but this video has actually helped me so much. It reminded me to, even in tough times, appreciate the little things that make me happy, and that every day is a new day so it’s never too late to make goals for yourself, no matter how small. Genuinely, thank you so much for making this!
this video had arrived to me at the perfect time. i was literally breaking down about how 2024 for me is so disappointing until i checked on yt, and suddenly i found this vid. this has made me realised something, that i care way too much about others to validate myself. thank you so much for making this video, i couldn't be grateful enough ❤.
i really appreciated this video because i felt like i wasted a lot of this year too. i moved to japan in april of this year to attend language school but i feel disappointed that i didnt go out of my way to make new friends in tokyo nor did i become as good at japanese in 9 months as i would have hoped. i agree with your sentiment that it's time to build a life that feels right for me
Going into this video, I genuinely expected a lot more subscribers. Because, wow, the quality is insane! But for the content, I have to say that, your 100 % right. Not every year has to be some list of achievements. It's okay to go slow, find our way out depression, burn out or simply to just feel alive. I made a video now about my 2025 goals but watching this has broaden my perspective, so thank you for that :)
Burn Out is something that I was really struggling this year. I had a really bad creative burn out where I can even think creatively for months :") it kinda put me on perspective of, "why I create something to begin with?" making this video and uploading to TH-cam again gives me a reason to start creating again! But the whole process of healing take months, and sometimes I feel bad for wasting so much time. But the end of the day each one of us had our struggles so yeah!
This year was a big mess for me. I failed my college exams and afterward, I lost all motivation to study. This whole year has been awful. I know it was my mistake, but now I know I can do this. If I can, then all of you can do this too.
Burn out from studying is really hard. I struggled with that when I was in high school and it leads me to a very dark place. Please don't forget to take care of yourself and even though you failed your college exams, I believe there are other good things that you can do.
Such a beautiful video. I like how this perfectly displays not only the grief and heaviness that a person feels for not being able to meet their own expectations, but also the hope that one can acquire after overcoming the struggle. I hope the people watching this will keep thriving while also taking good care of themselves^^
I LOVE YOU GIRL. I had the same goals too in the start of the year but if I see it from a productive and money pov, I was an absolute failure but I have started to notice small wins, live in the moment and after being depressed for months I am really proud of myself coming so far when I thought I had given up. Please dont ever give up, you know there's a light at the end of the tunnel waiting for you.
Hi just wanted you to know you're not alone. I too related with every point of this video. I've turned 21 this year. All my friends are graduated moved out of there hometown and moving forward and There is me stuck at the same place with no graduation degree and the career im pursuing..i cant even focus on that. 2024 feels like such a waste if i see it academically and career wise. But i think as a person ive come so far. I lost my mother in aug 2023 and since the every day feels like a war. I was constantly trying every day to start study , to start exercising and start focusing on my own thing but after loosing my mom i had SO SO MUCH responsibilities i had no time for me. Also i was depressed anxious and what not. This year i faced so many challenges , so many different situations which i had no control over. But thank god im not depressed , suicidal thoughts never crosses my mind , less anxious, and im dealing with problems way better than i how i used to🙏 i know im left behind academically from all my friends but i know im not alone and as a individual ive grown alot. Thankyou for this video. All the best for the next year. Lots of love
Some amazing advice for if you are trying to change. Get rid of TikTok, instagram, and other social medias. I know, I know. you STILL think that u can improve even with the apps. But they take up so much of your time, you try to escape reality instead of accepting the situation you’re in, and changing to make it better. There is no need to cut the time you spend, but just delete alltogether. Genuinely, when I quit TikTok, it was a big life changer for me, and I’m only 15! Save yourself the heartbreak and just quit it. (Sorry for my bad English, it’s not my native language)
4:41 W🤩W that's a beautiful goal....I also need to take of myself too.....I can relate to you Audreya.... I felt like a failure after being UNEMPLOYED FOR 2 YEARS.....and seeing my peers succeeding in life makes me feel like a failure. Even not finishing a college course can also make me feel like a failure and not getting my dream wardrobe...…You see I'm very ambitious about goals and I never accomplish them....I have never accomplished a New Year's Resolution before.....hopefully I will make 2025 my 2024.....basically catching up
I've been unemployed for 5months rn :") because I need to take a huge break this spring. I'm also quite an ambitious person but I think for quite sometimes I was just living someone else's dream not mine and it drains my energy. Is okay to catch up! I'm also catching up on life right now, I just need to remind myself that life is not a race
Audreyaaa- ive been a silent supporter so far but not this time. Your last few videos are so relatable but it's sad that you're actually going through it. "Comparison is the theif of joy" Social media will always tell us we're not enough but I hope you know that even surviving throughout this year is a huge accomplishment. I hope 2025 treats you better.💜 Sending lots of live from India 💜
well i just realised its your first video after 2020...dont worry you are not alone here i also wasted my 2024 by procrastinating but i know we all are gonna kill it in 2025, all the best and do share your journey ❤️
Hello, greetings from Turkey. Youre not alone in this journey, we all going through bad times. Thats okay,life isnt about all of "hard times" . This year ive experienced many things,i understood the importance of the things that i didnt even know how important they are. Health should be our first priority, and ive been forgotten that for such a long time. But life has bad surprises on us, like a slap it reminded me how important they are. For the ones who are reading this, please care about your loved ones, show ur love to them while theyre alive. Ive been through so many hard times such as my moms sickness, some kind of problems with friends etc.. I didnt do anything bad to my mom,im grateful for that but i wish i spent more time with her when she was still healthy. Peoples come and go from our lifes, the most important thing is to focus on journey, not the worsth part of our journey. Flow of the time waits for no one, so we just gotta wake up and move on everyday. Life is unfair yeah, and cruel even i sometimes think like "im too young for this sh." but we gotta accept it the way it is. We have no other choice than keep moving on. I talked a lot, thank you for reading all of that. Love yourself, be kind to everybody. Have a great year -this time dont dissapoint yourself- :)
honestly this year has been pathetic for me (lost my close online frnds which affected me alot i mean it still does lol, shitty marks, my family has been constantly suffering including me, plus idk what's wrong w my bsf, lost interest in everything including studying) anyways great video thanks alot 🫶🏻
I had my bad times this year too... In fact, I am struggling with a few more troubles right now. You are so right for distinguishing that living and surviving are two compelitely seperate things. I feel the same. This year, I will also give myself some time to appreciate small things as well. I will not focus on negative things. I will do what I like. I will live for myself. Thank you for your content. You inspired me.
This was me in the mid-to-late 2010s when I was lost in the social media noise and brain rot, no longer the case after I deleted my Facebook account in 2019, especially this year after I believed that I need to never let others decide what I love and live my own life, I'd like to start some sort of social media channel in which I would share practical tips about my mindset so others could get inspired (while avoiding any sort of mindless scrolling), it hurts me when I see people complaining like this and not being able to step in and help.
I feel exactly the same, this year was tough, I cried a lot etc, but at the same time I learned new things, and one of them is to just be yourself and surround yourself with people that care about you, not the ones who say it but the ones who show it! You should enjoy your life and try to not burden yourself with thoughts. We can do it, we can live this year and the years after happily, let's stay optimistic and we can reach our goals no matter how much it takes!! we CAN do it.
you're already wonderful. wonder at yourself and the rest of the world. love your quirks and the silliest, gentlest parts of yourself. love the silliest, quirkiest, gentlest parts of everything around you.
Therapy is one of the best choices a person can make. We say “I don't need it” and then once we start, we realize how necessary it was. Thank you for sharing this amazing and touching video
therapy helps me to navigate my thoughts better :") at least when I was just stressing over everything in my life, my therapist just help me to re-organize my thoughts and that has been quite helping
Even the last month of the year can pretty much save our whole year! I've been consistent in working out only this month and already feel less burdened by the failure I experienced this year. This year taught me that time will fly with or without me and I can't do everything perfectly with poor self belief and 'achieve it all' mindset. Seeing ticks on the calendar of December gives me hope to pursue whatever I ever wanted, perfect or imperfect! Coming to this video, you captured your raw emotions so beautifully that I felt like you were describing my year. Thanks for the video, it was really healing. Much love
2024 was a wild ride for many people huh :"( I was at the lowest this year and I lost everything that is worth fighting. It was a humbling experiences and really taught me that I need to focus on myself
This was so wonderful and touching brilliantly insightful. I’m so glad I stumbled upon this video thank you for choosing to be so vulnerable and putting yourself out there. if I had had half the mental awareness as you did as a similar age.. xx
I'm watching your videos from South Africa - so glad I found your page! Thank you for sharing your life so authentically. You are so unbelievably talented - YOUR LIFE IS ABOUT TO CHANGE IN 2025, it's inevitable! Rooting for you! Please keep going, your voice matters on this platform! Your work has been so validating to me, I feel seen. I see you🤗🤗🤗🤗
The amount of relatability I felt after watching this video is insane, This is what I did this whole year , I wanted myself to improve but I couldn’t take actions regarding that , the frustration, the feeling of “I don’t deserve anything “ is just so overwhelming, anyways Hope maybe next year I can become a better person than who I’m right now , and I wish u the same too 🤞🏻
the constant self hate of "i don't deserve anything" really ruins me :( in reality life can be really sucks sometimes and there is nothing we can do about it. I'm still learning to not focus on the negativity and practice some self-love a little bit :" you got this
it's sarcastic how someone in a completely different situation miles away from me have felt the same thing have gone through the same process and have learned the same lessons thanks for sharing your storie which i needed to remember i'm not the only one and i'm part of the human race my miles away sis take care
Last year i failed my final year math exam and even failed the retest, my self esteem sunk so low that i felt like I’ve lost the old optimistic me, this year i am giving my math exam again for the last time but at this point my confidence is so low that I can’t even sit and study, my parents call me a failure and always tell me to study when i am on my breaks but never come in when i am actually trying. At this point i have accepted that i cannot do maths cause i guess that is what the whole world is telling me.
I know that this year may have not been the best year for you but my advice would be, take a step by step and try to always see something positive in everything. You are loved, you are good enough, dont be to harsh on yourself. Next year try to work on your confidence, your goals and please don't give up. The main and most important things are to have hope and the desire to succeed and not to give up. ❤
i spent the whole year mostly bedridden from ulcers, liver disease, severe eczema.. i had to quit uni bcz of how unhealthy i was, hospitalized multiple times, multiple failed relationships..watching my mom go through bad mental illness. by the end, my mom recovered from her episodes, my skins a lot better than it was but im on several meds, frequent bloods, pretty much nothing outside of that.. going into the new year single and not fully recovered.. but i hope 2025 goes better for me .. 🥹🫶🏼
I'm so sorry to hear that... But hey you survived this year and I'm so proud of you that despite all that you've survived. Life is extremely unpredictable and sometimes it just really sucks.. Thank you for sharing your struggle and let's hope for the best for 2025
Jesus loves all of us fr!!! I felt like this the whole 2022 and 2023! I felt like a failure those whole two years just watching everyone pass by me. It was only until 2024 when I really drew closer to the Lord and let Him take my heart and transform it into what He wanted it to be. I feel better than ever! It may not be butterflies and rainbows, but give the Lord a chance, and watch how He’ll change your life. It won’t be immediate, but give Him time to renew you. This is your sign!!🫶🏾🫶🏾
If you’re reading this then good you have eyesight. If you can hear this video. Then good you have hearing. Sometimes it’s the little things that are really the big things in life. Be grateful about what you do have and don’t focus on what you don’t have. Comparison is the thief of joy.
For me, 2024 was... I honestly don't know. It just feels.. feels like I've wasted a year, just like u too. I've spent so much time crying, and this year, it's like I've finally realized the dark and harsh reality of life. I've become joyless, with a life dominated by anxiety. I used to be happy... now I spend most of my time scrolling. This coming year, I promised myself not to make the same mistake like I did in 2024. I hope y'all will have a great 2025, too.
Reading Comments made me realise something. DON'T think u were unable to overcome challenges because u are weak ". THINK u were able to live with problems through a whole fuckin year !! and think how strong we are ; first of all be thankful about THAT ❤🔥 happy new year !
This is a symptom of our whole generation. So many of us feel like this girl. Social media exacerbates pre existing issues, but can also create whole new ones, and our societies were NOT ready for the consequences of unlimited Internet access. Only now we're scratching at the surface of what daily social media consumption means, and does to us. With AI and potentially brain chips, it's going downhill from there.
Маған шыныменде көмектесті. Мен өзімді өзгелермен көп салыстырамын. Экранның арты бізге тек жеңісті көрсетеді. Бірақ оның ішін ашпаиды. Мен дәл қазір көптеген мақсаттарымды орындай алмасамда, біраз жақсылыққа жеттім, күтпеген тосын сыилар.Сізге рахмет. Сізге сәттілік тілеймін 😘
Tbh..i totally relate with you. I could remember how i wrote down all my goals and plans in 2022( I believe). I had a lot of plans for that year. But as time went on i wasn't able to reach my goals. I felt like a failure and i was constantly depressed. To sum up Jesus came to my rescue and he helped me to sail through. I learnt to seek for his advice and presence in all i did. Whenever things didn't go as plan id see it as a sign that he didn't want me to go in that direction. At the end of tge day i found peace and rest in God. For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future ( Jer 29:11). So don't give up and add God to your plans. I believe he'll surely help you❤❤.
Girl. Your content is amazing. As someone who does filmmaking, I can guarantee that if this year taught you how to make cool videos like this one, you've already made a huge win there. Maybe I can't give emotional support, but I definitely can tell that your skills are worth it. Please keep being consistent and don't give up if you want to make the next year count as well. Wish you luck stranger!
thank you so much :") it means a lot for sure. I only start filmmaking in September and was quite insecure with the skills that I had, but I just try my best to make something with it
in 2024 i reconciled with my bestie made a new bff quit one of my terrible habbits i changed a lot i stopped judging people i realised a lot of stuff i grew as a person a lot i had a lot of fun beautiful moments with friends and family and in school participated in a few competitions won in 1 and in all i had quite a lot of fun i felt like i wasted this year until i saw from this perspective this year isn't terrible atall
I think this year (ugh it’s 2025 now so technically last year 😭) has been tough mentally for a lot of us, myself included. End of last year I was fine. End of this year I’m struggling w sh suiciudal thoughts depression existential crisises self loathing….the list goes on.
Hey! Please don’t say you wasted this year. Hearing you speak and reflect on the past year I think you’ve come to a few very valid conclusions. Struggling with mental health just sucks. So you only did what you needed and that was taking it slow. It’s not easy to move up after falling in a downward spiral. I’ve been there, still kinda am but just taking it day by day. It’s a slow process. I know it’s easy to blame it all on yourself, but try to go a little easier on yourself. Don’t say to yourself what you wouldn’t say to another. Try to think of one positive thing every day at the end of the day. And if a day really SUCKS, just try to get through it. At the end of the day, you lay in your own warm bed and survived. That’s what it’s about; trying to get through and trying to start feeling better. That doesn’t mean that bad days aren’t allowed anymore, they are. They only add to your personal growth in the long run. Good luck, you’ve got this, we’re here for you❤
Its All Good, at least Your mind works for greater Ideas, You have Your vision, Your heariN works and Your motivation is there and is capable eLevatioN, alot of us want to get greater in life, I experienced alot of hurt almost my whole life, includin almost losin over 6 times but Im breathin and want to look for the good in the future. The other evenin, I was walkiN by the airline gates at work on my break and was thinkiN Im MainlY just alive up to this daY because other people who genuinely care bout me or others Im cool with want me alive, also all the people I can help plus protect, but Im alive because mainly our Creator who has A bright future for all of us 🙏, Your life matters but there are other people who can think and feel like You also outside Yourself, staY optimistic and keep movin forward to who ever sees this
i have cried more in 2024 than i have ever in my entire life ( rejection by crush , career confusion , being in a college i hated , making my parents disappointed , addicted to adult content , no social life etc )
but 2025 is gonna be great i promise , wish me luck guys
Good luck with making your year great! You can do it! ❤
Good luck you can do it!!🤍
I'm so, so, so proud of you. I feel like 2024 wasn't a good year for anyone. BUT HERE YOU ARE! You shine, you were strong enough to reach this point. I love you.
@@Rosi7v7 thank you for kind words , your words make me smile after a long time , god bless you ❤️
@@Gagan-v6u Of course! I'm really happy and really lucky to have you. 🥰💜 I'm not just saying it, I love you. A virtual hug and hoping we can hug each other in real life! I LOVE YOU. You're my favorite star. 🫶🏻 I'm here to cheer you up. ♡
Advice, stop watching short-form content (Tiktok, reals, shorts) that's brain rot even educational shorts are no good because your brain can't process information that fast and you will see how much you can accomplish in 1 day, if you don't spend any time not just a little any time on short-form content start with small goals and celebrate them, I am learning Japanese and when I hear and recognize the word when a native speaker speaks I am like wow nice. Keep doing what you love not what someone expects from you, you don't need to prove to anyone but yourself to be a better version of yourself today than yesterday it's not you vs someone it's you vs you
Thank you 😊
I've been lowering my screen time right now because I was having a really bad brain fog couple weeks ago :") it feels nice to cut out the noise. Thank you for the support
I always felt scrolling through comment section endlessly is equally brain rotting.
What about Pinterest, iam i don't use Pinterest that much and it isn't that addictive.
What if I don’t know what I love just yet? I genuinely don’t know where to start
this was definitely the worst year ive ever lived. but ive finally learnt to say no
I am too, this year
Same wasted a whole year pretending to be busy ..but the truth was i fell back even more and harder this year and the coming years i don't want to survive but live.
2024 has been a rollercoaster for me… I was stressed out, got hospitalized, and then decided to try another path. Only recently I've gotten a great news… and all of a sudden things are looking up again.
(After 3 years… i finally felt like time is on my side. 🙏 This is definitely my 2nd craziest year in my life)
Cheers to 2025.
@@audreya_mp thank you so much, and cheers to u as well audrey 🙌
This spoke to me deeply, 2025 will be the year I start living
She is NOT alone.
Im scared for 2025 because im really depressed right now. I found out just how cruel people around me are. And im scared to go into 2025 and for everything to be the same.
❤ im hoping and praying things get better for you 🙏🏾, hopefully we all take better care of ourselves in the new year.
I get that :( lets take it easy for next year and slowly get better
She is me and i am her... I relate to this soo much and i absolutely so proud of you
I had so many plans for this year, and I even put in my work for it, but life had other plans for me. Seeing people online having the best of their lives made me feel like a failure. I was just existing, not knowing what to do next. This video really made me see life from a different perspective. idk what 2025 has in store for me, but I will try to live a life that feels right for me. Tq so much for making this video, Audreya❤
i deleted instagram at one point because I was so overwhelmed by it :") i'm glad that this video helps you to see it from different perspective
honestly this video sums up my year too, it has been fucking rough
2024 year is really something else :"(
Fellow ADHDer here and I had a point where I realized I had to stop trying to be productive bc I the stress was preventing me not only from being productive, but also from taking care of myself. First couple months of 2025, assuming no apocalypse, I will only be going to work, coming home, and taking care of me. You might benefit from it too, but plenty of people told me exactly what I'm telling you and it still took a significant event for me to realize I needed to stop trying to improve my career options and start improving myself, at least to the point I can take care of me.
Definitely! I just got diagnosed ADHD this summer and I feel like I need to re-navigate my life again, because I spent the last 20 years of my life not knowing that I had ADHD. It has been quite experiences for me but a challenging one. Taking it one by one each day instead pushing myself to constantly being productive is not going to do me any good
Hi! I want you to know that I resonate with this video so much. A lot of what you said on your experiences this year, I have experienced also. I feel like I failed this year, productivity-wise. I was running on the fuel of just trying to survive each day. But you reminded me that I have met the bravest part of myself as well, this year. Thank you. Good luck on your journey!
For me I always focus on being "productive" instead giving myself a room of improvement. 2024 is definitely a humbling experiences for me where I need to reflect on myself and appreciate small wins and just try to enjoy life instead criticizing my own self. I think it is something that I need to deal with as 20 something years old (adulting sucks:")) but yeah the end of the day, that's just how life is
We are in this together ! Lets be better versions in 2025
that's so beautiful. For 2025 I was planning on doing a whole planning but taking care of myself is a good start. I've been feeling stuck for years and I wanna embrace new journies that help me grow because I am so sick and tired of trying to be perceived and living for others is more than exhausting. I am praying that by next year my depressive state is healed and that I am renewed. May the Lord answer !
Happy Holidays and Happy new year !
I keep telling myself "one step at the time." At first I found it so hard just to appreciate small wins, until I hit rock bottom that I need somehow to appreciate myself a bit more. We can do this!
This video speaks to me on a whole other level... When I was having trouble with my self worth as a teenager, I would always put impossible, outright self deprecating goals for life. I wasted my entire adolescence with goals that did not aim to improve me but only tried to make me someone who would fit to society for year after year. The antidote to this is to just starting by accepting yourself and counting the blessings you have in your life. I am so glad to see that someone who went through a similar journey did find out a healthier goal for 2025, just taking of yourself. I hope your channel grows and you share more of your healing journey with us. I wish you all the best in life
The moment you realize you've been living someone else's dream instead of your own :( is a part of self-discovery and growing up, I guess :")
i always tend to compare myself to other people, especially to this girl in my class. she has accomplished so many things and is pretty much living that perfect life. instead of mainly focusing on bettering myself, i have also been bed rotting and kept scrolling on my phone. i didnt like the reality i was living in. i wanted to live 'that perfect life'. i have been so lost in these thoughts that i lost focus of the things that made me happy, i quit drawing, i questioned my relationship with my boyfriend and had so much self-doubt. but at the same time i have experienced so many beautiful things and i am already worth enough, i dont need to prove my worth to anyone. i will leave 2024 with the same mindset that you have: live in the present moment, appreciate small accomplishments and prioritize your mental and physical health. everything step by step. i will achieve everything that i want, i just have to be patient with myself. thanks again for this video, wishing you all the best
Just thank you very much for the video and your experience..❤
Aww man! I just made a 2024 reflection video and I realized that I didn’t accomplish any of my 2024 goals. It broke me, and I am now rethinking my goal setting process for 2025. But thank you for sharing this video, it was so good and needed
Have a happy new year !
2024 has been a really tough year for me, but this video has actually helped me so much. It reminded me to, even in tough times, appreciate the little things that make me happy, and that every day is a new day so it’s never too late to make goals for yourself, no matter how small. Genuinely, thank you so much for making this!
We're on this together!
@@audreya_mp yes, we are!
its like im looking at a mirror. i wish us both a better year 2025
girl, the film quality of this video is CRAZY impressive (also your makeup is fabulous)
Thank you so much! I'm still learning to use camera properly and improve my editing skills
You and I both got this gurl.......hope 2025 brings peace for all❤
this video had arrived to me at the perfect time. i was literally breaking down about how 2024 for me is so disappointing until i checked on yt, and suddenly i found this vid. this has made me realised something, that i care way too much about others to validate myself. thank you so much for making this video, i couldn't be grateful enough ❤.
thank you for this lovely comment
Girl you doing your best 💛 slow down for a moment and be gentle with yourself 🫶🏻
i really appreciated this video because i felt like i wasted a lot of this year too. i moved to japan in april of this year to attend language school but i feel disappointed that i didnt go out of my way to make new friends in tokyo nor did i become as good at japanese in 9 months as i would have hoped. i agree with your sentiment that it's time to build a life that feels right for me
You produced and released this vid!!!This is already something worth to be praised for. 2025 is waiting ahead,you can do whatever you wish for🎉🤟🥰👊👊
that means a lot :") cheers for better year ahead
Going into this video, I genuinely expected a lot more subscribers. Because, wow, the quality is insane! But for the content, I have to say that, your 100 % right. Not every year has to be some list of achievements. It's okay to go slow, find our way out depression, burn out or simply to just feel alive. I made a video now about my 2025 goals but watching this has broaden my perspective, so thank you for that :)
Burn Out is something that I was really struggling this year. I had a really bad creative burn out where I can even think creatively for months :") it kinda put me on perspective of, "why I create something to begin with?" making this video and uploading to TH-cam again gives me a reason to start creating again! But the whole process of healing take months, and sometimes I feel bad for wasting so much time. But the end of the day each one of us had our struggles so yeah!
This year was a big mess for me. I failed my college exams and afterward, I lost all motivation to study. This whole year has been awful. I know it was my mistake, but now I know I can do this. If I can, then all of you can do this too.
Burn out from studying is really hard. I struggled with that when I was in high school and it leads me to a very dark place. Please don't forget to take care of yourself and even though you failed your college exams, I believe there are other good things that you can do.
You are precious and unique. Never forget that! ❤❤❤
Such a beautiful video. I like how this perfectly displays not only the grief and heaviness that a person feels for not being able to meet their own expectations, but also the hope that one can acquire after overcoming the struggle. I hope the people watching this will keep thriving while also taking good care of themselves^^
This video was put together beautifully.
Thank you for this video. Reminds me that im not alone.
We’re in this together dude
I LOVE YOU GIRL. I had the same goals too in the start of the year but if I see it from a productive and money pov, I was an absolute failure but I have started to notice small wins, live in the moment and after being depressed for months I am really proud of myself coming so far when I thought I had given up. Please dont ever give up, you know there's a light at the end of the tunnel waiting for you.
Hi just wanted you to know you're not alone. I too related with every point of this video. I've turned 21 this year. All my friends are graduated moved out of there hometown and moving forward and There is me stuck at the same place with no graduation degree and the career im pursuing..i cant even focus on that. 2024 feels like such a waste if i see it academically and career wise. But i think as a person ive come so far. I lost my mother in aug 2023 and since the every day feels like a war. I was constantly trying every day to start study , to start exercising and start focusing on my own thing but after loosing my mom i had SO SO MUCH responsibilities i had no time for me. Also i was depressed anxious and what not. This year i faced so many challenges , so many different situations which i had no control over. But thank god im not depressed , suicidal thoughts never crosses my mind , less anxious, and im dealing with problems way better than i how i used to🙏 i know im left behind academically from all my friends but i know im not alone and as a individual ive grown alot. Thankyou for this video. All the best for the next year. Lots of love
Love the honesty bestie u where accountable and thats rlly appreciatable keep improving i have faith in u ❤
Some amazing advice for if you are trying to change. Get rid of TikTok, instagram, and other social medias. I know, I know. you STILL think that u can improve even with the apps. But they take up so much of your time, you try to escape reality instead of accepting the situation you’re in, and changing to make it better. There is no need to cut the time you spend, but just delete alltogether. Genuinely, when I quit TikTok, it was a big life changer for me, and I’m only 15! Save yourself the heartbreak and just quit it. (Sorry for my bad English, it’s not my native language)
4:41 W🤩W that's a beautiful goal....I also need to take of myself too.....I can relate to you Audreya....
I felt like a failure after being UNEMPLOYED FOR 2 YEARS.....and seeing my peers succeeding in life makes me feel like a failure. Even not finishing a college course can also make me feel like a failure and not getting my dream wardrobe...…You see I'm very ambitious about goals and I never accomplish them....I have never accomplished a New Year's Resolution before.....hopefully I will make 2025 my 2024.....basically catching up
I've been unemployed for 5months rn :") because I need to take a huge break this spring. I'm also quite an ambitious person but I think for quite sometimes I was just living someone else's dream not mine and it drains my energy. Is okay to catch up! I'm also catching up on life right now, I just need to remind myself that life is not a race
@@audreya_mp OMG that's the most comforting comment ever....thanx💖💖🥰🥰❤❤🤗🤗
Audreyaaa- ive been a silent supporter so far but not this time. Your last few videos are so relatable but it's sad that you're actually going through it. "Comparison is the theif of joy" Social media will always tell us we're not enough but I hope you know that even surviving throughout this year is a huge accomplishment. I hope 2025 treats you better.💜
Sending lots of live from India 💜
thank you so much :")
well i just realised its your first video after 2020...dont worry you are not alone here i also wasted my 2024 by procrastinating but i know we all are gonna kill it in 2025, all the best and do share your journey ❤️
Take your breaks people. For real!
Hello, greetings from Turkey. Youre not alone in this journey, we all going through bad times. Thats okay,life isnt about all of "hard times" . This year ive experienced many things,i understood the importance of the things that i didnt even know how important they are. Health should be our first priority, and ive been forgotten that for such a long time. But life has bad surprises on us, like a slap it reminded me how important they are. For the ones who are reading this, please care about your loved ones, show ur love to them while theyre alive. Ive been through so many hard times such as my moms sickness, some kind of problems with friends etc.. I didnt do anything bad to my mom,im grateful for that but i wish i spent more time with her when she was still healthy. Peoples come and go from our lifes, the most important thing is to focus on journey, not the worsth part of our journey. Flow of the time waits for no one, so we just gotta wake up and move on everyday. Life is unfair yeah, and cruel even i sometimes think like "im too young for this sh." but we gotta accept it the way it is. We have no other choice than keep moving on.
I talked a lot, thank you for reading all of that. Love yourself, be kind to everybody. Have a great year -this time dont dissapoint yourself- :)
merhaba!! yaşadığın kötü şeyler için üzgünüm umarım her şey daha iyidir senin için
This made me cry, good job girl hoping your 2025 to be another healing journey 🥹
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Don’t give up i faced the same the whole year but i did not stop still going on💪🏻
never back down, never give up!
God bless u sis ❤️
honestly this year has been pathetic for me (lost my close online frnds which affected me alot i mean it still does lol, shitty marks, my family has been constantly suffering including me, plus idk what's wrong w my bsf, lost interest in everything including studying) anyways great video thanks alot 🫶🏻
What a lovely and well edited video
I had my bad times this year too... In fact, I am struggling with a few more troubles right now. You are so right for distinguishing that living and surviving are two compelitely seperate things. I feel the same.
This year, I will also give myself some time to appreciate small things as well. I will not focus on negative things. I will do what I like. I will live for myself. Thank you for your content. You inspired me.
8 months without instagram and never had tiktok I feel amazing
sameee
hello, I just want to give you a hug girly
virtual huuugss
This was me in the mid-to-late 2010s when I was lost in the social media noise and brain rot, no longer the case after I deleted my Facebook account in 2019, especially this year after I believed that I need to never let others decide what I love and live my own life, I'd like to start some sort of social media channel in which I would share practical tips about my mindset so others could get inspired (while avoiding any sort of mindless scrolling), it hurts me when I see people complaining like this and not being able to step in and help.
I feel exactly the same, this year was tough, I cried a lot etc, but at the same time I learned new things, and one of them is to just be yourself and surround yourself with people that care about you, not the ones who say it but the ones who show it! You should enjoy your life and try to not burden yourself with thoughts. We can do it, we can live this year and the years after happily, let's stay optimistic and we can reach our goals no matter how much it takes!! we CAN do it.
that was beautiful
take a small step at a time, celebrate the small wins. Don't have to be so hard on yourself.
yepp ❣
Thank you💜
This so beautiful and made feel so good. It so insightful and motivating. To a better year!!!! All the best on your new path
you're already wonderful. wonder at yourself and the rest of the world. love your quirks and the silliest, gentlest parts of yourself. love the silliest, quirkiest, gentlest parts of everything around you.
Your reflection is so cool; it changed my perspective about my year a lot. Thank you. 💙
Therapy is one of the best choices a person can make. We say “I don't need it” and then once we start, we realize how necessary it was. Thank you for sharing this amazing and touching video
therapy helps me to navigate my thoughts better :") at least when I was just stressing over everything in my life, my therapist just help me to re-organize my thoughts and that has been quite helping
Even the last month of the year can pretty much save our whole year! I've been consistent in working out only this month and already feel less burdened by the failure I experienced this year. This year taught me that time will fly with or without me and I can't do everything perfectly with poor self belief and 'achieve it all' mindset. Seeing ticks on the calendar of December gives me hope to pursue whatever I ever wanted, perfect or imperfect! Coming to this video, you captured your raw emotions so beautifully that I felt like you were describing my year. Thanks for the video, it was really healing. Much love
2024 was a wild ride for many people huh :"( I was at the lowest this year and I lost everything that is worth fighting. It was a humbling experiences and really taught me that I need to focus on myself
Keep going girl!
This was so wonderful and touching brilliantly insightful. I’m so glad I stumbled upon this video thank you for choosing to be so vulnerable and putting yourself out there. if I had had half the mental awareness as you did as a similar age.. xx
thank you for this comment :")
I'm watching your videos from South Africa - so glad I found your page! Thank you for sharing your life so authentically. You are so unbelievably talented - YOUR LIFE IS ABOUT TO CHANGE IN 2025, it's inevitable! Rooting for you! Please keep going, your voice matters on this platform! Your work has been so validating to me, I feel seen. I see you🤗🤗🤗🤗
aww :") thank you so much
thank you for being vulnerable Audreya
The amount of relatability I felt after watching this video is insane, This is what I did this whole year , I wanted myself to improve but I couldn’t take actions regarding that , the frustration, the feeling of “I don’t deserve anything “ is just so overwhelming, anyways Hope maybe next year I can become a better person than who I’m right now , and I wish u the same too 🤞🏻
the constant self hate of "i don't deserve anything" really ruins me :( in reality life can be really sucks sometimes and there is nothing we can do about it. I'm still learning to not focus on the negativity and practice some self-love a little bit :" you got this
it's sarcastic how someone in a completely different situation miles away from me have felt the same thing have gone through the same process and have learned the same lessons
thanks for sharing your storie which i needed to remember i'm not the only one and i'm part of the human race
my miles away sis take care
you too take care
well, youre not alone miss
Last year i failed my final year math exam and even failed the retest, my self esteem sunk so low that i felt like I’ve lost the old optimistic me, this year i am giving my math exam again for the last time but at this point my confidence is so low that I can’t even sit and study, my parents call me a failure and always tell me to study when i am on my breaks but never come in when i am actually trying. At this point i have accepted that i cannot do maths cause i guess that is what the whole world is telling me.
i want to see more of you, your content, your thoughts. this video was beautiful
I know that this year may have not been the best year for you but my advice would be, take a step by step and try to always see something positive in everything. You are loved, you are good enough, dont be to harsh on yourself. Next year try to work on your confidence, your goals and please don't give up. The main and most important things are to have hope and the desire to succeed and not to give up. ❤
Beautiful video..and so relatable 🙌🤍✨️
i spent the whole year mostly bedridden from ulcers, liver disease, severe eczema.. i had to quit uni bcz of how unhealthy i was, hospitalized multiple times, multiple failed relationships..watching my mom go through bad mental illness. by the end, my mom recovered from her episodes, my skins a lot better than it was but im on several meds, frequent bloods, pretty much nothing outside of that.. going into the new year single and not fully recovered.. but i hope 2025 goes better for me .. 🥹🫶🏼
I'm so sorry to hear that... But hey you survived this year and I'm so proud of you that despite all that you've survived. Life is extremely unpredictable and sometimes it just really sucks.. Thank you for sharing your struggle and let's hope for the best for 2025
Jesus loves all of us fr!!! I felt like this the whole 2022 and 2023! I felt like a failure those whole two years just watching everyone pass by me. It was only until 2024 when I really drew closer to the Lord and let Him take my heart and transform it into what He wanted it to be. I feel better than ever! It may not be butterflies and rainbows, but give the Lord a chance, and watch how He’ll change your life. It won’t be immediate, but give Him time to renew you. This is your sign!!🫶🏾🫶🏾
Here’s to the best year of your life sitting right in front of you. 🙏❤️💪🏼🎥
cheers to that 👏
If you’re reading this then good you have eyesight. If you can hear this video. Then good you have hearing. Sometimes it’s the little things that are really the big things in life. Be grateful about what you do have and don’t focus on what you don’t have. Comparison is the thief of joy.
For me, 2024 was... I honestly don't know. It just feels.. feels like I've wasted a year, just like u too. I've spent so much time crying, and this year, it's like I've finally realized the dark and harsh reality of life. I've become joyless, with a life dominated by anxiety. I used to be happy... now I spend most of my time scrolling. This coming year, I promised myself not to make the same mistake like I did in 2024. I hope y'all will have a great 2025, too.
I loved watching your video! I'm glad that my video inspired you in some way and that you shared your experiences here as well
OMGG!!!!! 😭😭😭your video help me to see from different perspectives this year :") so i decided to make this so I can appreciate myself a bit more. ❣
Reading Comments made me realise something. DON'T think u were unable to overcome challenges because u are weak ". THINK u were able to live with problems through a whole fuckin year !! and think how strong we are ; first of all be thankful about THAT ❤🔥 happy new year !
we survived
This is a symptom of our whole generation. So many of us feel like this girl. Social media exacerbates pre existing issues, but can also create whole new ones, and our societies were NOT ready for the consequences of unlimited Internet access. Only now we're scratching at the surface of what daily social media consumption means, and does to us. With AI and potentially brain chips, it's going downhill from there.
Маған шыныменде көмектесті. Мен өзімді өзгелермен көп салыстырамын. Экранның арты бізге тек жеңісті көрсетеді. Бірақ оның ішін ашпаиды. Мен дәл қазір көптеген мақсаттарымды орындай алмасамда, біраз жақсылыққа жеттім, күтпеген тосын сыилар.Сізге рахмет. Сізге сәттілік тілеймін 😘
Tbh..i totally relate with you.
I could remember how i wrote down all my goals and plans in 2022( I believe). I had a lot of plans for that year.
But as time went on i wasn't able to reach my goals. I felt like a failure and i was constantly depressed.
To sum up Jesus came to my rescue and he helped me to sail through. I learnt to seek for his advice and presence in all i did.
Whenever things didn't go as plan id see it as a sign that he didn't want me to go in that direction. At the end of tge day i found peace and rest in God.
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future ( Jer 29:11).
So don't give up and add God to your plans. I believe he'll surely help you❤❤.
this is such a good video!
Hugs, great video :)
Thank youuu. I thought i was alone
great vid!
thank you so much🥺angle of GOD
Girl. Your content is amazing. As someone who does filmmaking, I can guarantee that if this year taught you how to make cool videos like this one, you've already made a huge win there. Maybe I can't give emotional support, but I definitely can tell that your skills are worth it. Please keep being consistent and don't give up if you want to make the next year count as well. Wish you luck stranger!
thank you so much :") it means a lot for sure. I only start filmmaking in September and was quite insecure with the skills that I had, but I just try my best to make something with it
in 2024 i reconciled with my bestie made a new bff quit one of my terrible habbits i changed a lot i stopped judging people i realised a lot of stuff i grew as a person a lot i had a lot of fun beautiful moments with friends and family and in school participated in a few competitions won in 1 and in all i had quite a lot of fun i felt like i wasted this year until i saw from this perspective this year isn't terrible atall
Phenomenal video❤
this year was hard
I think this year (ugh it’s 2025 now so technically last year 😭) has been tough mentally for a lot of us, myself included. End of last year I was fine. End of this year I’m struggling w sh suiciudal thoughts depression existential crisises self loathing….the list goes on.
Hey! Please don’t say you wasted this year. Hearing you speak and reflect on the past year I think you’ve come to a few very valid conclusions. Struggling with mental health just sucks. So you only did what you needed and that was taking it slow. It’s not easy to move up after falling in a downward spiral. I’ve been there, still kinda am but just taking it day by day. It’s a slow process. I know it’s easy to blame it all on yourself, but try to go a little easier on yourself. Don’t say to yourself what you wouldn’t say to another. Try to think of one positive thing every day at the end of the day. And if a day really SUCKS, just try to get through it. At the end of the day, you lay in your own warm bed and survived. That’s what it’s about; trying to get through and trying to start feeling better. That doesn’t mean that bad days aren’t allowed anymore, they are. They only add to your personal growth in the long run. Good luck, you’ve got this, we’re here for you❤
Its All Good, at least Your mind works for greater Ideas, You have Your vision, Your heariN works and Your motivation is there and is capable eLevatioN, alot of us want to get greater in life, I experienced alot of hurt almost my whole life, includin almost losin over 6 times but Im breathin and want to look for the good in the future. The other evenin, I was walkiN by the airline gates at work on my break and was thinkiN Im MainlY just alive up to this daY because other people who genuinely care bout me or others Im cool with want me alive, also all the people I can help plus protect, but Im alive because mainly our Creator who has A bright future for all of us 🙏, Your life matters but there are other people who can think and feel like You also outside Yourself, staY optimistic and keep movin forward to who ever sees this
Kinda here early and i am pretty damn sure she is gonna kill it next year.
😭don't make me cry fam
this is beautiful 🥹 so relatable. BUT WE GOT THIS!!
we got this indeed!
listen you can always restart
Your hair is so cool
Make steps, not goals.
I clicked this video because this is so related to me.
I don't even brush my teeth or do my skincare.. i am a failure
💪💪💪