Me, Myself & I: Tips on Attending Events Alone | Rave Culture Podcast #25

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  • @danielvirgen4290
    @danielvirgen4290 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The two events I went to by myself I had the most fun. I could maneuver through the crowd easier and cool people approached me more just because I was alone especially girls. More people traded kandi with me and I only had to worry about myself the whole time and about not losing my friends.

  • @tjjurkowski
    @tjjurkowski 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    When I made the recording I was like, oooof dis is like 10 minutes long. I'm not mad you cut it lol I'm just crying from happiness that you used my recording! Happy to help all the solo ravers out there!

    • @EmmaKapotes
      @EmmaKapotes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Trevor J I LOVED it so much, thank you for sending it in!! You made me crack up 😁😁

    • @hoangvu3121
      @hoangvu3121 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Trevor J amen. 🙌🏼

  • @shirley.temple
    @shirley.temple 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I went to Dreamstate last year by myself and I was very hesitant , almost didn’t go. I ended up going and I had the best time ever and I actually met my boyfriend there ,now we go to every single show together 😭❤️

    • @EmmaKapotes
      @EmmaKapotes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shirley SCRG 😊😊

  • @WillieRayPR
    @WillieRayPR 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:15:30 I felt that exact feeling during an Above & Beyond set and every single person around me were hugging each other as Paavo was typing up those positive messages...he's so right!

  • @thisissooolegit
    @thisissooolegit 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really enjoy going to festivals and shows by myself, because I tend to see all my friends there anyway. Plus you can do what ya want, go where ya want, and (most importantly) you can LEAVE when you want - seriously that is the best part

  • @miloVan245
    @miloVan245 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You HAVE to enjoy the music and be at least pretty confident to be able to have a good time alone at events. I love going alone so much.

  • @DmpTruk
    @DmpTruk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm actually going to EDC Las Vegas next year alone! Those tickets sold out so quickly and my friends weren't able to get passes. I'm honestlyso excited because I can see the artists I wanna see and go at my own pace! I think it's going to be an amazing experience and I hope to meet you at EDC Orlando!

  • @alisjordan9206
    @alisjordan9206 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video and loved the last as well! Great tlk Trevor! All of this was awesome! ❤❤

  • @Alexislira4
    @Alexislira4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Going to EDC Las Vegas 2020 by myself next year... Thanks Emma for all the great advice:)
    And thanks to everyone else’s advice about going solo

    • @luisnoone6993
      @luisnoone6993 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm also going alone. Will also be my first EDC and my very first festival.

    • @Alexislira4
      @Alexislira4 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh cool!
      This is will be my 3rd year going to edc, first time going solo

  • @richardb2837
    @richardb2837 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    My 1st rave was nocturnal wonderland 2016, i went by myself and honestly had a good time. It was a beautiful experience.

  • @MrHernandez247
    @MrHernandez247 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I went to my 1st rave solo (beyond wonderland 2019) that shit was amazing. At 1st i was a little nervous since it was my 1st time going to a rave, but going in and exploring i started to let go. Day 1 salvatore ganacci started his set and after that i blew up and did not stop dancing the whole night. Now im just buying tickets to raves no fs given. Ever since beyond wonderland my friends have got reeled in slowly and sometimes come get crazy with me. We have bonded more with edm and they really enjoy everything about the community but theyre still not ready to fully dive in. Going to escape solo and i cant wait to enjoy my favorite artists and discover new ones🤘

  • @ashleygauthierr
    @ashleygauthierr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    this one was so fun to listen to. I still haven't been to a festival alone yet either, but I definitely want to try it out one day. I love being around other people, but I've also had some fun going off alone during fests when my plans don't align with my friends'. great to hear so many success stories :)

    • @EmmaKapotes
      @EmmaKapotes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ashley Gauthier - Festival Vlogger thank you!! I ended up finding 2 lovely ladies to go to EDCO with, but I’m 100% making a point to walk around and do a few sets by myself to finally experience it 👍🏼

    • @ashleygauthierr
      @ashleygauthierr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@EmmaKapotes yayyy!! happy you found people to go with! but when you're with people all weekend sometimes it's nice to get some "alone time" by going off for a few sets. can't wait to see the vlogs of it! i bought tickets last year, but the plans fell through. i want to see what it's like finally and hear a comparison to EDC LV! i went to EDC NY in 2014 but EDCO seems way more epic

  • @jasongrig
    @jasongrig 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    practical tips:
    1) easier to meet people if it is daylight, at night and indoors people tend to be less interactive with the crowds
    2) have accessories you can share with people, e.g. diffraction glasses, fans, etc, they go a long way into making you approachable
    3) talk to other solo ravers to build some confidence/company before approaching a bigger group
    4) go close to the stage so that the artist is the main focus point, not the crowd. You will need earplugs for that

  • @kcortez6262
    @kcortez6262 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes never been to a fest alone actually I have big fear of it lol 😔😔😔 but at least now have some helpful tips if ever really want to go to a fest alone 😌☺️

  • @goodvibesonly1402
    @goodvibesonly1402 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos and podcast I work 5am shifts and it’s the first thing I listen to get my day started 💛

    • @EmmaKapotes
      @EmmaKapotes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Goodvibesonly ☺️💓

  • @bluebaryberry9020
    @bluebaryberry9020 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I‘m 17 right now and I really want to attend Electric Love Festival next year (it‘s in Austria if you didn‘t know 😄). Currently I haven‘t found anyone to go with, but I really wanna go so I might have to go alone so wish me luck 😬

  • @oscargarcia2011
    @oscargarcia2011 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    barely got into edm before I went my first "festival" (Decadence) I went solo , I didnt really talk much to others since I prefer to not talk most the time, but i definitely was dancing and heading banging with the people around me in the crowd it was a lot of fun. Got asked if i was rolling several times when i was completely sober lul. It was fun and you can definitely vibe with people around you and they'll notice.

  • @saucyseleners6143
    @saucyseleners6143 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel like it would be suuuper amazing if there was like an emma kapotes social media group thang where we could all connect! And maybe even make friends to attend shows/festies with. I have gone to shows on my own before and with groups. But the last time I went alone I had the worst experience for some reason. Makes me a little nervous to give it another shot solo. None of my friends are really into this scene or at least optimistic about it so I'm pretty much on my own since the shows I have gone to in groups are in a diff place that I used to live. Loved this episode!

  • @joefaust8164
    @joefaust8164 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m going to Above and Beyond’s New Years Eve show in NYC solo. I’m from NJ but currently live in Alaska so I don’t get a lot of opportunities to go to shows or festivals. Since I’ll already be in the area visiting for the holidays I decided I have to go since I don’t know when I might get another chance to see them. I’m a little nervous about it but this episode has me feeling a lot more confident that I will still have a great time.

    • @EmmaKapotes
      @EmmaKapotes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Joe Faust oh you’re going to have so much fun at that!!

  • @Jensorandom228
    @Jensorandom228 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this podcast ^~^ I’m actually starting to feel really excited about the prospect of going to EDC Orlando alone and experiencing my first festival in this way. Not going to lie, I was bummed and super nervous about the idea at first but now I’m just like let’s goooooooooo! 😂😂😂

  • @rachelle-.-
    @rachelle-.- 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good morning Emma! Great way to wake up here in Cali !🌴 I’ve been waiting for this episode, so excited. My next event is Escape and I have a crew but I’ve been waiting to go solo so 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @handikandilove9889
    @handikandilove9889 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    yeah that is true. I listened to it live but zeds dead was kind of soft but always love lost lands

  • @sk1984
    @sk1984 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro I always go alone (my friends are a bunch of busy nerds), but I don't do drugs or drink (because my body cannot handle it). Near the front of every party is where you should go if youre alone, cuz nobody can tell youre alone since its always packed! I tend to go around 2 hrs after the party starts because by then the crowd is stupid drunk 😂

  • @goodvibesonly1402
    @goodvibesonly1402 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What do you think about the lasers at lost lands. There’s a video on twitter and you can see how the lasers BEND

    • @EmmaKapotes
      @EmmaKapotes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Goodvibesonly no way!! I’ll have to look it up

  • @Ron-gv9fz
    @Ron-gv9fz 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Btw, i have listened ur podcast...well said...!! 👍🏻👍🏻😉😉

  • @Ron-gv9fz
    @Ron-gv9fz 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi,,, do u plan to come to DWP in Indonesia this year?

  • @jasons2758
    @jasons2758 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yo Emma. Quick question... When doing your podcast what do you have going on in your headphones?
    Oliver Heldens playing so you can stay smiling while talking about your subjects? 🤣

    • @EmmaKapotes
      @EmmaKapotes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jason S hahaha no but good guess! I listen to the voice memos and have to keep them on to hear myself and check that my voice sounds clear 👌🏼

  • @anjuna_mtz
    @anjuna_mtz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I didn't submit my experiences bc they are ALL just super negative lol I don't understand how others are having positive experiences. All the shows I've done solo have sucked, it's not fun partying "alone", I literally had no groups or one single person come up to me. Never doing it again, it's a waste of a ticket for me, I just won't go anymore if I have no one to go with.

    • @EmmaKapotes
      @EmmaKapotes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yanet M. Ugh I’m sorry to hear that!!

    • @Burneeey
      @Burneeey 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You gotta be comfortable and confident to party hard by yourself . When others see you having the time of your life solo they will come. It’s attracts ppl

  • @cyberneticgeometry777phill5
    @cyberneticgeometry777phill5 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    But does that mean you’re not attending any EDM Events and Music Festivals In 2020?

    • @animegrinder9964
      @animegrinder9964 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      CyberneticGeometry777 Phillip Psareas Emma said that her main focus for 2020 is trying new festivals. She wants to go to electric forest but besides that she hasn’t made any announcements about other festivals. But she said she’ll make a video about 2020 festivals in a few weeks/months

    • @EmmaKapotes
      @EmmaKapotes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anime Grinder thank you!! 😊

    • @EmmaKapotes
      @EmmaKapotes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      CyberneticGeometry777 Phillip Psareas I have a list of festivals for 2020 but nothing is purchased! Electric forest is the main one I want to focus on and then I’m going to play it by ear and try to do some new smaller ones!

    • @cyberneticgeometry777phill5
      @cyberneticgeometry777phill5 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Emma Kapotes oh. Ok. What is your reaction if Cartoon Network’s “Kingdom Hearts Of The Sea” Known as Wisdom Sea Music Festival (Warm Springs, GA) happened?