My wife was 2 years from retirement before getting stage 4 Cancer It could always be worse. You have what’s important Health… Life will choose your path forward. Be thankful for the little things .
@@cristleheart4266 what is your problem? Like, seriously. My Dad died just before he was set to retire too. Brain cancer. I held his hand as he died. Yes, lots of people have cancer. Doesn't make it any less traumatic when it's YOUR loved one.
Very true. You have to set boundaries even with employers. Such as, I don't answer work related calls past 9 pm and weekends unless it is specially indicated in the job description. My point is, managing work-life balance is tricky. Some bosses will want to squeeze every ounce of energy from their employees to the point of burnout. Management doesn't care. You have to protect your mental health and sanity. If an employer wants extra work done, it costs extra. If you want cheese with you burger, it's extra. You have to value yourself in order for your employer to value you.
@@thegreatlakestruckerI agree with all of that absolutely 100%. I would add also that anytime that I was ever interviewing for a position, I was always keeping in mind that I was interviewing them as well. Just to make myself feel a little bit better, if I didn't really want the job and they were arrogant and snobby and acted like they were doing me a favor I would wait and once they offered it to me and then I would turn them down. Grateful that I was always able to stay employed. I was a very hard worker and God blessed me each step of the way to provide for me
I’m 53. Lost my Wife 6 months ago to cancer. Splitting wood definitely takes out alot of frustration. I split 8 cords this summer so far. Trying to stay busy so I don’t go out of my mind. Hardest thing I’ve ever been through. We were together since the 9th grade and this really sucks beyond all imagination. Hey, some advice, throw a tire on the ground and pit a couple of those log rounds inside the tire and you won’t be chasing the log when it falls and you’ll get a better swing with the log lower to the ground. The larger the tire the better…you can fit more in there. I like to jam pack mine full and they don’t barely move when they’re split.
Our next door neighbor was laid off with less than six months before retirement. Stay strong, Tammy! AND, it's ok to be angry. Just don't STAY angry. Praying for discernment and peace for you.
Hey Lady, livin in my Jeep. I’ve become a minimalist. It’s a great feeling. I let society get too much control. I lost my freedom. Materialism will eventually suffocate you. Stay free. Never let them tame you. If I can do anything, please reach out.
What finally made me Break out of the society prison was when Bob Wells from, cheap RV living said “if you think about it you’re home so few hours because you’re always working… and when you’re not, you’re getting errands done. You’re basically just sleeping there. So most of the time your house is just an empty space. So basically every time you pay your rent or mortgage you’re paying for mostly empty space. I asked my husband to retire early. He did, and to this day, four years later, he thanks me for the idea. The next day we started minimizing and getting rid of everything that we didn’t need. Then we remodeled and sold our home because we had too much debt to rent it. The whole process of minimizing, remodeling, and selling our home, took about two years. We wanted true freedom. So instead of renting our home out, we paid off all our debt, jumped in our Honda CRV and Airbnbed for two months at a time across the nation. It was the most wild and exciting thing I have ever done in my life! We took our two elderly kitties and our teenage homeschooling daughter with us. Sometimes ya just need to make big changes and then embrace the adventure! It was truly an amazing journey and God was our pilot. Of course there were crazy moments, scary moments.… But with each challenge we pulled up our boot straps and kept moving. Since we’ve been settled, our daughter has been editing and producing wonderful videos of our whole adventure. Beautiful day and night hikes in the Mojave desert, a wild and crazy adventure at great Sand Dunes national Park, Niagara Falls, Grand Canyon, hiking fourteeners in the Rockies, enjoying Hot Springs in Ojo Caliente, New Mexico, experiencing the giant redwoods, hiked Bigfoot territory in Washington and the Olympic peninsula, soaked in absolute beauty and wonder for two months on Oregon’s beautiful coast, watching orcas, seals and sea lions while searching for driftwood, agates and Japanese glass floats, we spent two months exploring Vancouver Island, British Columbia, and off roaded in South Dakota Badlands, searching and finding herds of Buffalo, pronghorn, wild donkeys, coyotes, and prairie dogs. Our daughter, trained and competed and Jiujitsu , making friends all over the country and British Columbia. All the sunsets, all the starry nights, all the wildlife and serene beauty of rivers, waterfalls, and the Pacific Northwest coast… all my childhood trauma was addressed and healed. We adopted our daughter as older parents so we started this journey with me at 51 and my husband 62. If you love travel and you want to see the country or even the world before you leave this earth then do whatever you have to do to do to make it real. The biggest lesson I learned, I cannot apply because it’s too late, but I can share it. Had I known how healing, how educational, inspiring and empowering it would be to travel and see our country and beyond… I would have not spent a single penny on any thing that I didn’t need in my lifetime. All of that money would’ve been saved, and put away to fund my travel and travel for my family. I would’ve probably found a way to live in my car when I was younger and put all that money away too. I would’ve been free much earlier if I had only known, how empowering it was going to be. The only reason why we are stationary now is so that our daughter could go to university… Look how perfect that was to follow God as our pilot! Being free from a mortgage, freed us from having to have a tiedown job, which made us able to settle near the university that our daughter would attend! With her being vision impaired, it eased our minds so much to move here early enough so she could get familiar with the campus and we are nearby. Once she’s too busy for us, lol… We will get a van and set off again, God willing! Another great piece of advice I found was from my husband himself. On our journey, when things got tough or a decision was hard to make, he always said, “be like water and take the path of least resistance…and do it always with faith in God’s plan for your life”
I'm a minimalist and didn't know it. Objects will drag you down and there are many mansions going back to nature and rotting away with antiques, cars and stuff still inside.
@@ironhorsemountainman-ev6wy hello I hope this message finds you well sometimes I forget there are other people who are going through things that i relate with thank you for the comment I really hope this all has some meaning
Life is short. You are actually Blessed to be laid off. Leave that negativity behind, tomorrow is a brand new day. You have your children, that are healthy. You have good health. You have so much!! Remember, god has his plan for you. Nothing we can do to change it.
I’ve been following you for many years now and have felt that we have a lot in common. I feel compelled to share what Paul said to the Philippians. “I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.” Philippians 4:12-13 ESV 🙏🏻 You got this!
It's their loss! Unfortunately in our world today, those of us who give it 100% plus and care about doing the job correctly...Well, these days lots of companies will get rid of you. In today's world, the harder you work, the more dedicated you are the more expendable you are! It's like we are punished for doing our best every day. And those that just half a&& it are the "valued" employee. The harder you work and the better you are at the job makes us a threat to everyone else somehow!
I was laid off in January after 30 years. I’m still too young to retire, 57yrs old. I was told my position was eliminated in the States and moved to China. Overall they laid off 25% of our group. I should have seen it coming but I didn’t. The whole ordeal left me angry and depressed. Trust me when I say that the emotions will die down… they don’t go away but it does become easier to deal with it. I am still hunting for a job and its been tough but just keep plugging away. I worked a job that demanded about 50-55hrs a week and nightly calls with the team in China and Malaysia. It has truly been a relief now that I have been away from it. I wish you all the best!!
My 25 year career in research operation ended for not adhering to Covid mandates. I wanted revenge so bad ... still do. But the people I worked with were demonic (wast majority). I realized it was a favor from God.
You weren't put here to be a slave. Work is meant for the body to keep it alive. You are infinite and free if you care to explore who you are. When you feel down it's because you are imagining some future situation. Stop imagining. Chop wood carry water.... love now.
Got laid off 2 years ago with thousands of others after 24 years. I was 59.5 years old. I retired. I would have been one of those "one more year" guys. They did me a favor.
Tammy, ageism is a real problem for people that are older, it's reality, dear. Go and get a job in the area that the cabin is in like working for a ski resort, or retail store at a resort, be around people you've never met before, keep busy until you find that niche job you want til you retire. Don't keep the Condo in Denver, move into the cabin full time, take time to paint, art is very important to who you are, Don't work for a company that steals your soul and your extra time, set firm boundaries on your time so that you have you time to express who you truely are. Most of all, be encouraged and be yourself. It's the only thing that works as we age. Luv ya and the honesty you bring to your channel, 😊❤ thanks for everything you've given us for all these years.
I lost my job at 53 and was out of work for 18 months. I’m 61 now and have been working for a wonderful company for almost 6 years. When I lost my job I slipped into a deep depression and thought things couldn’t get any worse. My advice is to network, breathe and try to maintain a positive outlook. There’s always opportunity for good people. Also, enjoy your time off. I didn’t let myself enjoy the time because I was so fixated on getting a job. You’ll find a better position that’s waiting for you. It might take time, but it will come.
When employers want to get rid of well paid workers (translate, older people) they fabricate a reason for te lay off, to protect themselves legally. This is the reason it’s done, it has nothing to do with your performance. This is done routinely. That said, it’s also dishonest and incredibly cruel.
I'm an early gen x. I was raised with the browbeat of the boomer generation of company loyalty. What I learned was that there is no loyalty to the employee. You ARE immediately replaceable, even in a family business. As you said, you need to reinvent yourself every 4 years, that goes with career and jobs. I made the mistake of being comfortable after really innovating a company in the early 2000s. You must be constantly upskilling or own your own company. After 19 years, I was replaceable. Now in my late 50s I'm unemployable. Even going after jobs under my skill level. No one wants an overqualified older employee. Yourr a flight risk as soon as you find a better job, and its true. I'm either going to need to get really creative or buy a business. I'm so glad when I had the salary I eliminated debt and accumulated a cash reserve. It's been 2 years now...
Awe so sorry! You never know this may be a blessing in disguise. No one should get calls at home at all hours!!! You will find another job and I bet it will be a better fit! Stay strong and keep smiling!!
Just passing through here. Been there done that. I faced your situation twice in my life. I’m a 70 year old woman now. I don’t know where you are but you say you’re a hard worker? Job integrity! At 40 years old I started working for UPS. I’m retired now but I see potential in you! Their peak season starts soon. Union! Power! Just give part time a spin!
I was laid off for the first time when I was 59 (worked FT since I was 18 years old). I agree with others that ageism exists, but you’re still young! I’m sorry this happened to you, but I’ll bet there’s something amazing for you around the corner.
Hey Tam. I know we’ve talked but I want to say that I’m so proud of you. You amaze me everyday and I’m so impressed with your strength. That company doesn’t deserve you, it’s their loss and they will realize they messed up.I love you so much and I’m here for you in any way I can. You will find a job, there’s always a reason things happen. I love you so so much❤
this may be a blessing in disguise even though it may not feel like it at the moment. when they lied to you, you got upset, and thats natural because no one wants or should be lied to. Now you have the time and energy to focus on what Universe really wants you to do (cuz its not working their shitty jobs, thats for sure) I also believe that everything happens for a reason, and im excited to find out what special reason has brought you down this path? Sending you unconditional love, infinite compassion, health, happiness, safety, protection, awareness, joy and peace :) xox
Great home, great axe, adjust your sail. You are going to be alright. Sorry for that loss. Yes we all need to eliminate debt completely. Please stay strong and try to positive. Chopping wood indeed is a wonderful stress relief.
I went through this as well. It taught me to have a transferrable skill so I did not have to depend on a business or company. They will betray you whenever it suits them.
I’m 66 hon and during my working life, I lost two jobs. I know the feeling of defeat but I’m here to tell you that something better did come along. You will figure it out and you will look back on it and realize that what happened actually made you stronger and more aware of what is most important in life. Pray and ask God for direction and strength. Anger will only consume you. I’m praying for you. Making videos like this can help you and help others who might feel like they’re at the end of their rope. This might have happened as an opportunity for you to help others. I’m praying for you!!
I'm a retired Journeyman Carpenter, I couldn't count how many times I was let go. My truck was repossessed after the 2009 crash and my car in 2013 after being laid off again. I was cut lose in every recession since 1984. When one door closes; another will open..get your unenjoyment check and enjoy it. Buy a sailboat and leave.
I'm a general contractor still going at 78. Always wore a tool belt and did the work. Carpentry is a damn hard way to make a living. An honest way, too unlike so many other ways of making money these days. I can't find employees. No one wants to work or has any skills. Anyway, kudos to you for making an honest living.
Tammy , thanks for this video, don’t give up 😁 in my life there have been 4 periods “work” . Three years of college (total waste) 4 years in the US Coastguard , that taught me mechanical skills I’ve used all my life , out of the service and went to work for VW for 15 years , a master mechanic . The dealer changed owners and I went to work construction with no experience , I learned to build houses , do electrical and plumbing and was there for 12 years , a housing bust shut that down and I went to work in a microbrewery and learned all about that . I was there about 12 years . After retirement I used all my skills to build my own little house completely by myself . With your abilities you should be able to find something worth while even if it is different . Keep your chin up and a smile on your face ❤️🙏🤗🎩
@@cristleheart4266 What on earth does your question mean? Are you saying you can’t see or be inspired by all that Jon has been through in the labor force? All the times he mastered a skill or trade for years, serving a company only to be let go and have to find a new job? Instead of letting it get him down, he took risk and tried something new each time, mastering that skill as well. I can’t imagine someone not being inspired by this and by his final comment not to give up. What world do you live in?
Worked the same job for 20 years. I knew the axe was going to fall, but it didn't stop the nightmares for months afterward. I was still waking up thinking I'd missed some deadline that no longer existed. By the grace of Jesus, in less than a year, I had a new home, a job I loved, connected more w/nature, and I realized how far I'd strayed from who I was. Stay positive.
Wow...talk about parallel lives...I have been in same job for 30yrs...2 weeks ago I got laid off as well...its the 2nd job I've ever had...I am CLUELESS...GUTTED...having a hard time explaining how I feel to friends and family bc they want to cheer me up but this is so devastating in my head...I need a tribe of people who understand or get it...ok I'm rambling sorry...just wanted 2 say I'm a new subscriber and I GET IT MAN ❤
In SHTF situation i believe that perception is everything. Explore the possibility that maybe it's time for a change, or maybe it's about your faith in life, or maybe it's about taking the time to know yourself better and adjust your life accordingly. I wish you the best and please don't lose hope and pray to the higher energy, things will happen...
Same happened to me in my 50's, single mom doing great with a daughter in her senior yr . Devoted my working years, sacrificed, to only be discharged in a company merger. Took me 10 yrs to recover. I was blessed not to have had much debt at the time. Sold one of two homes, sold many possessions. Traveled about where work was available. Now in recovery, living as a minimalist, praying it doesn't happen again. 18 mo until full retirement. The kicker in all of this was the company offered an entry level job after years of struggling and all the loss...there was no going back for me. I retained my self respect ! You can do this ...
That's exactly what companies do. They lay you off, then sometime later offers a position with lower pay. I am loyal to no company and loyal to my family only, and good friends of course. I am tired of being used, pushed around, discarded when an unskilled lower paid new hire is considered more valuable. Good luck to you, glad you made it.
Tammy, you got this! Time to prioritize you and not your job, that's the wonderful opportunity that's just been presented to you. What a gift! I got laid off of 2 jobs over the years and in hindsight it was the best thing that happened to me. Time for you to grow, learn more about an industry and shape a job your way. Pare down, you'll feel less stress moving forward.
wow! this video is currently at 42k views. you have an incredible opportunity to use this platform as your launching platform. Good on you! Blessings of good health and abundance to you and yours.❤
We can't control what happens to us. We can only control how we respond to it. Getting laid off doesn't mean you're a bad person, or a failure. Embrace your strengths, go easy on yourself as you would on a friend in the same situation. Look at it as a chance to find out what you really want to do, don't be afraid to get a temporary job to keep your savings. And remember, we define our worth, not others. We are not defined by our job, either. Stay strong, keep the faith, get on unemployment (you paid into it, might as well get paid from it), and keep plugging away. Things will work out, because they always do... we just don't know how.
Hang in there girl, everyday gets better and your mind becomes clearer. Keep doing what gives you peace of mind and your decisions will come to you. Peace, health, happiness. Take care.
So sorry to hear you are in a tough place right now. We just went through the exact same thing over the past year and although knowing things will eventually work out- in the thick of it it’s so hard! Trust that the universe is working with you and you will come out stronger. It’s absolutely fine to be angry. Let it out and we will be here for you! And WHEN things turn around for you - we will celebrate right along with you. Please keep sharing as you feel comfortable because it really is so very helpful to those who have gone through/are going thru/will go through a similar experience.
I recently lost a job I had for 14 years. My job was outsourced to underpaid workers overseas, whom I was forced to train before I left. Like you, I had worked crazy long hours and received top reviews every year. I found a new job pretty quickly (the job market is actually better than you think). I’m 61, and yes, there is agism, but you just need to be persistent in looking. Also like you, I have a lot of other challenges (disabled husband), but you will persevere!
I’ve just found your channel today. I lost my job twice in 2001. Yep laid off twice in the same year. That was a lot of stress. But I can tell you, it was good for me in hindsight. You sound like a very strong, independent woman. You will get thru this, and will come out even stronger. You are doing all the stuff you need to, right now. But u do need to take time for yourself. And cry if u need to. You don’t have to be “all positive.” Be angry. Throw stuff, split a ton of wood. You’ll feel better.
I'm sorry that happened to you! You are a nice & empathetic person & a hard worker! I'm glad you took the high road! Altho it cost you. Your integrity isn't for sale. You're a class act. I will be praying that an excellent opportunity comes your way. And that they will appreciate having you. God bless
I managed to get through my entire working life without getting fired. During my profession years, I had good skill sets, but I know for sure that I only gave 110% when I had to (get the job done under pressure). But if it was possible to skate by, I totally did! Screw 'em. I retired at age 57. Not my concern anymore, and I could always tell there was no real loyalty from the corporations, so I knew to never give them too much of myself. People need to realize this.
I've never seen your channel, this video was suggested. I'm 57 and I was laid off also. I'd say, that working 14 hour days was slavery. So YES it was time for a change. Please get a job where you have a life. Speak life into your situation. You will not lose anything. You will be surprised at how much you can cut out of life financially.
You asked a few times "what do I do?", you are doing it. You are doing all the right things. You get up in the morning and put one foot in front of the other. You are thinking of what you have, what you need, and where to prioritize your time and resources. You are doing exactly what you need to do. Trust yourself, and don't allow yourself to dwell in the in the space of the things that you wish you had done or hadn't done. Do your best each day and things will work themselves out.
Tammy, keep your head up, stay strong. But most importantly, stay true to who you are. Everything happens for a reason. I truly believe that. We may not understand the reason right away. But eventually you'll figure it out. Know that I will keep you in prayer. Big hugs
One door closes, then another will open. You can make it happen. You are a strong person and you will bounce back. Its seems like the end of the world at the moment but you will see the light at the end of the tunnel and look back on this time as a learning experience.
Sometimes New Beginnings are the changes needed....... I became severely injured and disabled in the peak of my career..... it took me yrs to relearn the simple basics in life.. walking... thinking...and after being left handed for 55 yrs at that time it no longer existed and I had to learn how to be right handed...I lost everything ...Became Homeless.... Long story short I found a new Niche !!!..... I became a craftsman that generates $$$ ....bought a home and built a workshop off grid......Dont lose faith , you know the path out it just takes a bit for the dust to settle and see the plan !!
Age. Employers aren't interested in your experience or how well you performed your job. It's all about money and being replaced by someone younger with less experience and less salary. You're not alone in this situation. I have a friend that was a major employee in a small aerospace company. She went to work one morning and was told her job is being terminated. She found out later she had an enemy in the plant that was a local and he's the one that got her fired. He was afraid of her because she was more intelligent in the business than he was and was scared for his job. She never found another job in aerospace even though she had a masters degree and 25 years experience in aerospace because of being fired on her record. You're an awesome lady and we wish you the best going forward and feel comfortable in believing you'll find another job.
This is because there are too many people & not enough work now that we are so technologically advanced. Humanity is going to have to change how we value a person‘s life. Right now we value a person based on work not on intellect & personal values. But soon most of the population will not have a job and society is going to be forced to reevaluate how people are valued. Finance is going to be completely restructured. So many people will not have jobs that there will be no way we can keep looking down on unemployed people as if they are “less than” employed people. In fact, it’s probably going to go completely the opposite way. Employed people are going to be looked down upon because they will only be in servile positions. All the exclusive positions will be entrepreneurial. Everyone will “work“ for themselves. It won’t be work in the same way we see it now. This shift is just getting started and it is the most painful part of the change that is coming. Change for humanity always goes slower than any of us would like it to. Several generations are going to have to come and go before this change gets any easier. But by the time the kids who are babies right now are hitting senior age, they will have no concept of the problems we as seniors have right now of remaining relevant and employed. I’ve already given up the idea of going back to work. It’s not just that I resent to be treated like garbage by children who can’t even count change from a cash register when the cash register tells them how much to give you back because they don’t even know what coins have what value… It’s the whole idea of a job shaving many years from my lifespan through the stress that they are going to put me through. It’s a far better thing I do to come to grips with isolation and keeping myself busy doing things I enjoy & finding a way to live off of my Social Security while we still have it. I’m not gonna spend any nights crying because I’m being bullied at work. I’m not gonna spend any nights crying because I keep getting fired at job after job based on my age. I don’t have to worry about taking time off of work when I have a medical problem rather than if I have a medical problem because when you’re over 60, it’s when… Not if. It’s about time Americans get used to the idea that we don’t have prison for poor people and they’re not gonna do anything but ruin your credit so why are you beating yourself up for any of it? Those super wealthy bozos in Washington on both sides have criminally cheated, and stolen, everything that made American life livable from us and they’re not giving it back. So it’s time to reevaluate what really makes us happy and what’s really important which should be each other and a peaceful life. Money and a job so you can have more things is not a recipe for success. It’s a recipe for disaster once you become a certain age. So before you hit that age, everyone needs to learn when it’s time to fold your hand and push away from the table and go home while you still have a little jingle in your pocket instead of continuing to gamble your retirement every day you go to a job that doesn’t appreciate you. So what! You’re not gonna get to take that month-long tour of Europe you always dreamed of. But in its place, you’re gonna get an entire extra decade of life they would’ve stolen from you through stressing you out and giving you cancer and taking you away from your children and grandchildren earlier than necessary. That’s the stuff that’s priceless. It’s time everybody just checks out of those corporate one percent slave drivers and tells them to shove it where the sun don’t shine. There’s a lot more things that are worth a lot more than money. ☮️
First time viewer. Thank you for your video and honesty. Get your anger out for sure, and this is YOUR platform so say what you need to say!! Lose viewers, if that’s what it takes! You don’t need people here who can’t handle truth. Even though our circumstances are somewhat different, they are so similar. After reading many of the posts here from viewers, one thing is certain: People haven’t been choosing jobs in a field they are passionate about. The only way to start over is to start over. Sell everything you can and make the very hardest decisions immediately. Don’t wait. Unload everything that causes you to have to work in the system for a company that doesn’t care about you, only their bottom line. Lastly, “multiple part-time jobs, IS the new success”! -Kim (p.s. DO NOT SELL YOUR HORSE!!!)
Just landed on your channel for then first time. So sorry to hear the bad news. What you need right now is a hug and a massage. Don't be too hard on yourself.
It’s hurtful to be treated unjustly. You are brilliant and a beautiful person. Maybe the universe is talking to you. “ dont you let nothing, Nothing, stand in your way.” You cant stop a train and youre a tour de force. Miracles come from dark corners. You just wait and see. For now just breathe. 🙏❤️🙏
I want to see you camp, make fires, fish, and have fun, i want to watch how you decorate your cabin. I want you to ski all winter and earn money doing it. I love seeing your art, the wildlife you create with a paintbrush. I have loved all of your videos, keep going
I am in the same situation… I have a 33 year old Arab mare (I bought her from Linda Fisher!) a condo in SE Aurora and a home in Grand Lake and my own business (selling real estate) I have only recently been “sharing your adventure” (saw you on Cat Gregory’s channel). Your spirit and soul are still living the dream! Hold on to your heart. No wrong answers. Your open giving spirit will lead you at the perfect time. Listen for that voice within when the time comes! We’re all in it together ❤
❤ life’s a f mess these days . I did drywall for 26 years then was diagnosed with with a rare cancer and lost my lung then diagnosed with myasthenia gravis. When you said what els is gonna be thrown at me . I feel the same way .. life always has a f problem that gets in the dang way .. 😢 it’s so frustrating !
Yes.. everything does happen for a reason... The reason is because you are to soldier who is equipped to complete the mission... You see, it's not All about you, so don't take it too personal... It's about how You getting threw it, and helping someone behind you to make it too... It's often about way more than the individual situation, it's the way to get where we need to be... Good luck, and trust Him...
Sincerest sympathies- I was notified back in April that I was going to be laid off by November despite getting a stellar review by my boss. I was able to get another job within the company but it came at a cost where I had to relocate myself at my own expense and move from Kansas City to Baltimore. On top of that, those members of my old team were told that our jobs were being offshored to Ireland and those left behind are having to train the replacements, and then, my boss found a new job himself and basically said see you later. I’ve escaped layoffs over the last 25 years by changing jobs, and as I get older the change keeps getting harder. The takeaway unfortunately is that a lot of jobs just don’t last and we’re overheard and expense to the company, which sucks. I don’t know what the answer is other than all you can do is keep moving. This economy sucks and the job market sucks.
My mom went through something similar with Intel. She worked her butt off for them trying to prove herself through every round of layoffs. After 19 years they laid her off and gave her a severance package. After some time she went back to work for them for just enough time to get her nice retirement package also.
Tammy, given all the outpouring of love and care you know you are not alone. Many of us have had similar things happen at the worst possible times. Angry is ok, so let it out but at the same time begin letting it go. You are one strong human who will come out the other side of this with a renewed sense of self. Peace and Love.
I was terminated at 60, 4 years ago from my white collar job. I was a manager for 32 years in 2 industries It may have saved my life. Like you, I was working way too hard and forfeiting my life and family. I’m now coasting into retirement and feel great. I was lucky enough to find a job in 3 months, but that was 2020. Stay strong and confident. A new chapter will happen for you. 👍
In times like this you need quite time to think and process. It will sort itself out in your head and you will re focus a path forward. In my experience ive found that after every bad situation things have always worked out for the better and I was glad it happened in the long run.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. They don’t appreciate your work. Almost no company does. That’s why we are at a crossroads in this country. People are not just going to keep going to work, make inadequate money, and give all their time to companies who give zero $hit if you have a home, life, family. It’s happened to me. I was livid for months. I wasn’t ok. Anyway, you should know you’re still in a VERY good position financially and you still have property and land. Most people are one paycheck away from being on the street. It’s not that bad. Keep reminding yourself that. Good luck to you
I'm so sorry this happened to you. I was laid off 2 times. It's a shock to your system. Give yourself time to let things settle in. Being in nature will help. Stay positive and manifest the career of your dreams. Anger is a natural reaction and feeling. Not being appreciated for all you brought to the company is crushing. Stay positive, know your worth. It will work out. Stress comes from the unknown. Your best life is just around the corner. ~ Peace~
I am sorry; I am in the same situation. I am looking for a job, going hiking, and taking pictures with the new camera, which is not the best, but I am happy with that; I bought it for the first time last year. I am learning woodworking because I want to do something to stay in the woods longer than have a meal and go hiking. I started writing children's stories two years ago, and I have one ready to be edited, but nothing seems to be going anywhere. I missed watching your Thursday videos when you were working for that company. It felt like that they took you away from what you loved doing. I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING YOU SAID. Take care of your own self.
Well, you aged out it's horrible but it's real! But it is a new beginning. It doesn't feel right but, like you said get with your networking group and look for open doors. Stay at it but you are going to realize you are valuable! I spent 19 years for a company and they don't care!! It's money and logistics. Keep your friends close and not everyone is for you though. Hang tough. Prayers for you and your family....
It seems to be quite common now a days, sad, but we get to comfortable with life. We don't prepare for the loss of anything. We become to busy to see beyond what could happen or change in life. You are strong and healthy, this is the opportunity to do anything you want. God bless.
A long time ago you gave a moment in your life and danced in your tent. You caught a lot of undeserved flack for that and just picked up and rolled with it. I haven't been watching much YT for awhile but you're still there. When you don't know what to do start by dancing and clear your head. Best wishes to you lady!
Hi Tammy I have been there aged then 60 skilled mechanic 45 years experience no jobs (age) 5 years low pay it's hell take what ever job comes up money coming in better than spending savings take a breather be drastic cut /slash outgoings don't let feelings hold you back once back on your feet you look back and say what the hell did I need all this stuff cash in back gives freedom you'll get there best wishes from north wales GB martin.
5 years ago I let my lease expire on my apartment, and got rid of most of my belongings and put the rest in storage. I packed up my 4Runner and traveled around the country living in a tent.
Oh Tammy I am so sorry! You must be devastated! I would be angry too. Don’t deny yourself being angry. That’s a part of the grieving process. Also remember that the grieving process isn’t liner. You will bounce back and forth between criterions. Don’t forget to breathe either. When I’m stressed I literally hold my breath. Don’t be me. 😊 You are a strong woman and you will come out of this life event better and stronger than before. I’ve watched your channel for enough years to know that about you. Hang in there. You can do this.
I understand that you don’t know what to do ….this is part of life The pathless pass takes much effort And this is your moment to rise up ! This happened FOR you not TO you miss This is the universe closing the doors 🚪 you’d never have had the energy or strength to do …. You will do amazing things ! As you always have done It’s going to be ok Do the guide jobs Market it Breathe in the light and out the darkness Ps just keep filming on the phone - there’s no reason for a camera 📷 The phones perfectly fine :))
Iam 82 and have been through of all kinds. Iam not trying to preach but I have in my life she needs to to trust JESUS he has taken care . you wount belive how he took care of us and my wife of 62 years
I just went through the same thing. Cooperate America sucks. Took me 6 months to find a something close to the money I needed. Much happier now. Hang in there and keep your head up.
Life wouldn’t be as interesting without challenges. I was laid off. I was in sales and was one of the top sales people. I went on a local tv station to talk about yoga and a week later I was laid off. They told it was a conflict of interest. I was advised to get a lawyer but the lawyer said companies can do what they want and don’t really need a reason. I am a yoga teacher. Been teaching for 30 years. If you need someone to talk to feel free to reach out. I do spiritual counseling. I know it sounds weird but it’s good for our spirits to just verbalizing things to someone who isn’t close to you. Don’t give up!
You just appeared on my feed, and just wanted to say, but i'm sure you are aware, that this first time you have been let go hurts because it's a shock. You gave it your all and sometimes crap like this happens due to company restructure, but disguised as a situation that's your fault according to them. You did your best, and there are better things coming for you, different. I'm happy you shared it, lot's of people going through similar. I change every 4 years or so too! I'm due one soon, but i'll endure through past experience. Stay strong.
Everything that happens to you in life, the good, the bad and the everything in between are all for you. You will realise that this is actually one of the best things that ever happened to you. ❤
I have learned that going beyond what's required for an employer really is a bad habit to get into. They come to expect it, they never compensate for it, and they react poorly on the occasions when you can't. Just keep looking forward. I have never lost a job where I had not ended up better off.
Here;s your chance to think about what your true JOY is in life. Shrug off this event and move forward with what you love. This is my first time seeing one of your videos, but it spoke to me because my life feels like one constant challenge after another. Now, I'm 57 and am on the verge of living out my dream at a cabin in the mountains and guess what? I had a stroke and now my entire left side doesn't work like it used to without pain and I'm not sure I can live in a remote cabin and maintain it with my health now. BUT, I'm still going to try. You can do this! Edited to add: You have a wonderful smile and when you talked about living in a tent or hiking, it made me smile back. :)
The world over companies are losing dedicated caring employees for more on the bottom line. They will soon realise the only thing making the company work was peoples loyalty, turns out its worth nothing. I’ve learnt to change myself into a work robot, where I give 80 % at best, and a home life and hobbies that get my 100%. Always know your worth and value, and dont believe any employer who tells you otherwise. Age discrimination is very real, so is the need to have a detox from your last job before you move to the next.
I felt this...! My advice would be: Find multiple jobs doing the different things that you enjoy besides your main occupation.. (unless you want to go into business for yourself .. or consulting maybe?). Ask your intuition what you should do and write down the answers regardless of whether you like them or not. Then do it. lol Ur head is in the right place. watch this video again whenever you feel flustered . Best wishes on ur journey, we're all going through it. I loved your realness, this was kind of a relaxing video in a way... Very down to earth and real. Good vibes sent. Cheers to new adventures and happy chopping!
My wife was 2 years from retirement before getting stage 4
Cancer
It could always be worse.
You have what’s important
Health…
Life will choose your path forward.
Be thankful for the little things .
Hmmm… sooo many have cancer hmmmm🧐🙄
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Yeah she didn’t get the jabs
Previous breast cancer just masetized
Naturopath has helped but 40 g for a years treatment.
@@cristleheart4266 what is your problem? Like, seriously. My Dad died just before he was set to retire too. Brain cancer. I held his hand as he died. Yes, lots of people have cancer. Doesn't make it any less traumatic when it's YOUR loved one.
Isn't that the Truth! The cosmos decides!
@@doubleduty1703 sending love and prayers. You are not alone.
Everyone is replaceable. Learn it, accept it, plan for it. Eliminate debt and live within your means.
Great message for everyone.
Yes. And save money for an emergency fund.
Metallica song "Sad, but true"
Very true. You have to set boundaries even with employers. Such as, I don't answer work related calls past 9 pm and weekends unless it is specially indicated in the job description. My point is, managing work-life balance is tricky. Some bosses will want to squeeze every ounce of energy from their employees to the point of burnout. Management doesn't care. You have to protect your mental health and sanity. If an employer wants extra work done, it costs extra. If you want cheese with you burger, it's extra. You have to value yourself in order for your employer to value you.
@@thegreatlakestruckerI agree with all of that absolutely 100%. I would add also that anytime that I was ever interviewing for a position, I was always keeping in mind that I was interviewing them as well. Just to make myself feel a little bit better, if I didn't really want the job and they were arrogant and snobby and acted like they were doing me a favor I would wait and once they offered it to me and then I would turn them down. Grateful that I was always able to stay employed. I was a very hard worker and God blessed me each step of the way to provide for me
The best advice I ever got was, “Don’t be attached to an outcome.” Especially in this economy, if you can make ends meet, you are doing good.
I’m 53.
Lost my Wife 6 months ago to cancer.
Splitting wood definitely takes out alot of frustration.
I split 8 cords this summer so far.
Trying to stay busy so I don’t go out of my mind.
Hardest thing I’ve ever been through.
We were together since the 9th grade and this really sucks beyond all imagination.
Hey, some advice, throw a tire on the ground and pit a couple of those log rounds inside the tire and you won’t be chasing the log when it falls and you’ll get a better swing with the log lower to the ground.
The larger the tire the better…you can fit more in there.
I like to jam pack mine full and they don’t barely move when they’re split.
I’m so sorry 😢
as a teen I spent five(5) years of my life chopping (ten)10 cords of wood every year ! It was great therapy, straight off a 35 mile bus ride
@@Wookinpanub235 sending love and prayers your way for peace and joy. We care
man thats Rough - Sorry. Cancer is so Frustrating, She would want you to be OK. Hang in there
City phuk here. Been on wood 22 yrs now. It's cold here 7 months. It works & cheap
Our next door neighbor was laid off with less than six months before retirement. Stay strong, Tammy! AND, it's ok to be angry. Just don't STAY angry. Praying for discernment and peace for you.
Thank you for your kind words.
He should consult an attorney
Take a break !!! Enjoy yr life now with yr family
Yr spirit forest will help you through this and yr viewers will be there to ..
❤
@@Starfish2145he's a guy
Hey Lady, livin in my Jeep. I’ve become a minimalist. It’s a great feeling. I let society get too much control. I lost my freedom. Materialism will eventually suffocate you. Stay free. Never let them tame you. If I can do anything, please reach out.
Gggg
What finally made me Break out of the society prison was when Bob Wells from, cheap RV living said “if you think about it you’re home so few hours because you’re always working… and when you’re not, you’re getting errands done. You’re basically just sleeping there. So most of the time your house is just an empty space. So basically every time you pay your rent or mortgage you’re paying for mostly empty space. I asked my husband to retire early. He did, and to this day, four years later, he thanks me for the idea. The next day we started minimizing and getting rid of everything that we didn’t need. Then we remodeled and sold our home because we had too much debt to rent it. The whole process of minimizing, remodeling, and selling our home, took about two years. We wanted true freedom. So instead of renting our home out, we paid off all our debt, jumped in our Honda CRV and Airbnbed for two months at a time across the nation. It was the most wild and exciting thing I have ever done in my life! We took our two elderly kitties and our teenage homeschooling daughter with us. Sometimes ya just need to make big changes and then embrace the adventure! It was truly an amazing journey and God was our pilot. Of course there were crazy moments, scary moments.… But with each challenge we pulled up our boot straps and kept moving. Since we’ve been settled, our daughter has been editing and producing wonderful videos of our whole adventure. Beautiful day and night hikes in the Mojave desert, a wild and crazy adventure at great Sand Dunes national Park, Niagara Falls, Grand Canyon, hiking fourteeners in the Rockies, enjoying Hot Springs in Ojo Caliente,
New Mexico, experiencing the giant redwoods, hiked Bigfoot territory in Washington and the Olympic peninsula, soaked in absolute beauty and wonder for two months on Oregon’s beautiful coast, watching orcas, seals and sea lions while searching for driftwood, agates and Japanese glass floats, we spent two months exploring Vancouver Island, British Columbia, and off roaded in South Dakota Badlands, searching and finding herds of Buffalo, pronghorn, wild donkeys, coyotes, and prairie dogs. Our daughter, trained and competed and Jiujitsu , making friends all over the country and British Columbia. All the sunsets, all the starry nights, all the wildlife and serene beauty of rivers, waterfalls, and the Pacific Northwest coast… all my childhood trauma was addressed and healed. We adopted our daughter as older parents so we started this journey with me at 51 and my husband 62. If you love travel and you want to see the country or even the world before you leave this earth then do whatever you have to do to do to make it real. The biggest lesson I learned, I cannot apply because it’s too late, but I can share it. Had I known how healing, how educational, inspiring and empowering it would be to travel and see our country and beyond… I would have not spent a single penny on any thing that I didn’t need in my lifetime. All of that money would’ve been saved, and put away to fund my travel and travel for my family. I would’ve probably found a way to live in my car when I was younger and put all that money away too. I would’ve been free much earlier if I had only known, how empowering it was going to be. The only reason why we are stationary now is so that our daughter could go to university… Look how perfect that was to follow God as our pilot! Being free from a mortgage, freed us from having to have a tiedown job, which made us able to settle near the university that our daughter would attend! With her being vision impaired, it eased our minds so much to move here early enough so she could get familiar with the campus and we are nearby. Once she’s too busy for us, lol… We will get a van and set off again, God willing! Another great piece of advice I found was from my husband himself. On our journey, when things got tough or a decision was hard to make, he always said, “be like water and take the path of least resistance…and do it always with faith in God’s plan for your life”
I'm a minimalist and didn't know it. Objects will drag you down and there are many mansions going back to nature and rotting away with antiques, cars and stuff still inside.
@@ironhorsemountainman-ev6wy hello I hope this message finds you well sometimes I forget there are other people who are going through things that i relate with thank you for the comment I really hope this all has some meaning
Life is short. You are actually Blessed to be laid off. Leave that negativity behind, tomorrow is a brand new day. You have your children, that are healthy. You have good health. You have so much!! Remember, god has his plan for you. Nothing we can do to change it.
I’ve been following you for many years now and have felt that we have a lot in common. I feel compelled to share what Paul said to the Philippians.
“I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.”
Philippians 4:12-13 ESV 🙏🏻 You got this!
It's their loss! Unfortunately in our world today, those of us who give it 100% plus and care about doing the job correctly...Well, these days lots of companies will get rid of you. In today's world, the harder you work, the more dedicated you are the more expendable you are! It's like we are punished for doing our best every day. And those that just half a&& it are the "valued" employee. The harder you work and the better you are at the job makes us a threat to everyone else somehow!
I was laid off in January after 30 years. I’m still too young to retire, 57yrs old. I was told my position was eliminated in the States and moved to China. Overall they laid off 25% of our group. I should have seen it coming but I didn’t. The whole ordeal left me angry and depressed. Trust me when I say that the emotions will die down… they don’t go away but it does become easier to deal with it. I am still hunting for a job and its been tough but just keep plugging away. I worked a job that demanded about 50-55hrs a week and nightly calls with the team in China and Malaysia. It has truly been a relief now that I have been away from it. I wish you all the best!!
That sucks 😢
My 25 year career in research operation ended for not adhering to Covid mandates. I wanted revenge so bad ... still do. But the people I worked with were demonic (wast majority). I realized it was a favor from God.
You weren't put here to be a slave. Work is meant for the body to keep it alive. You are infinite and free if you care to explore who you are. When you feel down it's because you are imagining some future situation. Stop imagining. Chop wood carry water.... love now.
Got laid off 2 years ago with thousands of others after 24 years. I was 59.5 years old. I retired. I would have been one of those "one more year" guys. They did me a favor.
Same here. 60. Retired after burning through savings at 62. Living more free and poor but no demands.
Tammy, ageism is a real problem for people that are older, it's reality, dear.
Go and get a job in the area that the cabin is in like working for a ski resort, or retail store at a resort, be around people you've never met before, keep busy until you find that niche job you want til you retire.
Don't keep the Condo in Denver, move into the cabin full time, take time to paint, art is very important to who you are, Don't work for a company that steals your soul and your extra time, set firm boundaries on your time so that you have you time to express who you truely are.
Most of all, be encouraged and be yourself. It's the only thing that works as we age.
Luv ya and the honesty you bring to your channel, 😊❤ thanks for everything you've given us for all these years.
AI will get us all. Excess people is causing huge layoffs--replacement hires.
I can speak from experience, so I know these words are GOLD!
There's a lot of wisdom in this comment!
@@heofthebeeAI isn't the problem. The money is gone.
@@heofthebee That's a fact
1st time viewer - Thanks for clearly expressing yourself with your current status. A new door will open for you! Hang in there...
I lost my job at 53 and was out of work for 18 months. I’m 61 now and have been working for a wonderful company for almost 6 years. When I lost my job I slipped into a deep depression and thought things couldn’t get any worse. My advice is to network, breathe and try to maintain a positive outlook. There’s always opportunity for good people. Also, enjoy your time off. I didn’t let myself enjoy the time because I was so fixated on getting a job. You’ll find a better position that’s waiting for you. It might take time, but it will come.
@@MrVoonsta thank you for your insight. That was very thoughtful of you
When employers want to get rid of well paid workers (translate, older people) they fabricate a reason for te lay off, to protect themselves legally. This is the reason it’s done, it has nothing to do with your performance. This is done routinely. That said, it’s also dishonest and incredibly cruel.
Corporations defend stocks first. Always.
@@mikemcglauflin8985 And their CEO pay.
I'm an early gen x. I was raised with the browbeat of the boomer generation of company loyalty. What I learned was that there is no loyalty to the employee. You ARE immediately replaceable, even in a family business. As you said, you need to reinvent yourself every 4 years, that goes with career and jobs. I made the mistake of being comfortable after really innovating a company in the early 2000s. You must be constantly upskilling or own your own company. After 19 years, I was replaceable. Now in my late 50s I'm unemployable. Even going after jobs under my skill level. No one wants an overqualified older employee. Yourr a flight risk as soon as you find a better job, and its true. I'm either going to need to get really creative or buy a business.
I'm so glad when I had the salary I eliminated debt and accumulated a cash reserve. It's been 2 years now...
Awe so sorry! You never know this may be a blessing in disguise. No one should get calls at home at all hours!!! You will find another job and I bet it will be a better fit! Stay strong and keep smiling!!
Just passing through here. Been there done that. I faced your situation twice in my life. I’m a 70 year old woman now. I don’t know where you are but you say you’re a hard worker? Job integrity! At 40 years old I started working for UPS. I’m retired now but I see potential in you! Their peak season starts soon. Union! Power! Just give part time a spin!
I was laid off for the first time when I was 59 (worked FT since I was 18 years old). I agree with others that ageism exists, but you’re still young! I’m sorry this happened to you, but I’ll bet there’s something amazing for you around the corner.
Hey Tam. I know we’ve talked but I want to say that I’m so proud of you. You amaze me everyday and I’m so impressed with your strength. That company doesn’t deserve you, it’s their loss and they will realize they messed up.I love you so much and I’m here for you in any way I can. You will find a job, there’s always a reason things happen. I love you so so much❤
this may be a blessing in disguise even though it may not feel like it at the moment. when they lied to you, you got upset, and thats natural because no one wants or should be lied to. Now you have the time and energy to focus on what Universe really wants you to do (cuz its not working their shitty jobs, thats for sure) I also believe that everything happens for a reason, and im excited to find out what special reason has brought you down this path? Sending you unconditional love, infinite compassion, health, happiness, safety, protection, awareness, joy and peace :) xox
Great home, great axe, adjust your sail. You are going to be alright. Sorry for that loss. Yes we all need to eliminate debt completely. Please stay strong and try to positive. Chopping wood indeed is a wonderful stress relief.
Don't give up the cabin.
Sell the condo in the city, pay off cabin if any equity. Also BUY A WHEEL BARROW !! (and at least an electric log splitter)
I went through this as well. It taught me to have a transferrable skill so I did not have to depend on a business or company. They will betray you whenever it suits them.
I’m 66 hon and during my working life, I lost two jobs. I know the feeling of defeat but I’m here to tell you that something better did come along. You will figure it out and you will look back on it and realize that what happened actually made you stronger and more aware of what is most important in life.
Pray and ask God for direction and strength. Anger will only consume you. I’m praying for you. Making videos like this can help you and help others who might feel like they’re at the end of their rope. This might have happened as an opportunity for you to help others. I’m praying for you!!
I'm a retired Journeyman Carpenter, I couldn't count how many times I was let go. My truck was repossessed after the 2009 crash and my car in 2013 after being laid off again. I was cut lose in every recession since 1984. When one door closes; another will open..get your unenjoyment check and enjoy it. Buy a sailboat and leave.
I'm a general contractor still going at 78. Always wore a tool belt and did the work. Carpentry is a damn hard way to make a living. An honest way, too unlike so many other ways of making money these days. I can't find employees. No one wants to work or has any skills. Anyway, kudos to you for making an honest living.
Tammy , thanks for this video, don’t give up 😁 in my life there have been 4 periods “work” . Three years of college (total waste) 4 years in the US Coastguard , that taught me mechanical skills I’ve used all my life , out of the service and went to work for VW for 15 years , a master mechanic . The dealer changed owners and I went to work construction with no experience , I learned to build houses , do electrical and plumbing and was there for 12 years , a housing bust shut that down and I went to work in a microbrewery and learned all about that . I was there about 12 years . After retirement I used all my skills to build my own little house completely by myself . With your abilities you should be able to find something worth while even if it is different . Keep your chin up and a smile on your face ❤️🙏🤗🎩
Thank you ALWAYS for your support!! You are a master of all trades. I need to do that too.
Are you living in the same world.. smh
@@cristleheart4266
What on earth does your question mean? Are you saying you can’t see or be inspired by all that Jon has been through in the labor force? All the times he mastered a skill or trade for years, serving a company only to be let go and have to find a new job? Instead of letting it get him down, he took risk and tried something new each time, mastering that skill as well. I can’t imagine someone not being inspired by this and by his final comment not to give up. What world do you live in?
Follow your dreams and find your passion- clearly it involves the outdoors!
thank you!
A book on wilderness survival!! Yes
Worked the same job for 20 years. I knew the axe was going to fall, but it didn't stop the nightmares for months afterward. I was still waking up thinking I'd missed some deadline that no longer existed. By the grace of Jesus, in less than a year, I had a new home, a job I loved, connected more w/nature, and I realized how far I'd strayed from who I was. Stay positive.
Wow...talk about parallel lives...I have been in same job for 30yrs...2 weeks ago I got laid off as well...its the 2nd job I've ever had...I am CLUELESS...GUTTED...having a hard time explaining how I feel to friends and family bc they want to cheer me up but this is so devastating in my head...I need a tribe of people who understand or get it...ok I'm rambling sorry...just wanted 2 say I'm a new subscriber and I GET IT MAN ❤
It’s a form of grief, very real and strong. Feel free to share here with others. We get it.
A blessing in disguise Ma’am. Keep your chin up!
In SHTF situation i believe that perception is everything. Explore the possibility that maybe it's time for a change, or maybe it's about your faith in life, or maybe it's about taking the time to know yourself better and adjust your life accordingly. I wish you the best and please don't lose hope and pray to the higher energy, things will happen...
Thank you!
I lost my job after 33 years in the computer business at age 55. Good luck to you.
AI is going to replace all of IT, starting with software as a service.
Same happened to me in my 50's, single mom doing great with a daughter in her senior yr . Devoted my working years, sacrificed, to only be discharged in a company merger. Took me 10 yrs to recover. I was blessed not to have had much debt at the time. Sold one of two homes, sold many possessions. Traveled about where work was available. Now in recovery, living as a minimalist, praying it doesn't happen again. 18 mo until full retirement. The kicker in all of this was the company offered an entry level job after years of struggling and all the loss...there was no going back for me. I retained my self respect ! You can do this ...
That's exactly what companies do. They lay you off, then sometime later offers a position with lower pay. I am loyal to no company and loyal to my family only, and good friends of course. I am tired of being used, pushed around, discarded when an unskilled lower paid new hire is considered more valuable. Good luck to you, glad you made it.
Tammy, you got this! Time to prioritize you and not your job, that's the wonderful opportunity that's just been presented to you.
What a gift! I got laid off of 2 jobs over the years and in hindsight it was the best thing that happened to me. Time for you to grow, learn more about an industry and shape a job your way. Pare down, you'll feel less stress moving forward.
YES!! I agree.
Tammy YOU are loved ...just another Chapter in your life .... just ask the BIG GUY to give you strength
wow! this video is currently at 42k views. you have an incredible opportunity to use this platform as your launching platform. Good on you! Blessings of good health and abundance to you and yours.❤
We can't control what happens to us. We can only control how we respond to it. Getting laid off doesn't mean you're a bad person, or a failure. Embrace your strengths, go easy on yourself as you would on a friend in the same situation. Look at it as a chance to find out what you really want to do, don't be afraid to get a temporary job to keep your savings. And remember, we define our worth, not others. We are not defined by our job, either. Stay strong, keep the faith, get on unemployment (you paid into it, might as well get paid from it), and keep plugging away. Things will work out, because they always do... we just don't know how.
Hang in there girl, everyday gets better and your mind becomes clearer. Keep doing what gives you peace of mind and your decisions will come to you.
Peace, health, happiness.
Take care.
So sorry to hear you are in a tough place right now. We just went through the exact same thing over the past year and although knowing things will eventually work out- in the thick of it it’s so hard! Trust that the universe is working with you and you will come out stronger. It’s absolutely fine to be angry. Let it out and we will be here for you! And WHEN things turn around for you - we will celebrate right along with you. Please keep sharing as you feel comfortable because it really is so very helpful to those who have gone through/are going thru/will go through a similar experience.
Thank you for listening.. It has been tough. Really like what you wrote.. "It is fine to be angry"
I love your comment
I am sad the company was so foolish, But, you are right, your job doesn't define you. You are an amazing woman, find your joy!
I recently lost a job I had for 14 years. My job was outsourced to underpaid workers overseas, whom I was forced to train before I left. Like you, I had worked crazy long hours and received top reviews every year. I found a new job pretty quickly (the job market is actually better than you think). I’m 61, and yes, there is agism, but you just need to be persistent in looking. Also like you, I have a lot of other challenges (disabled husband), but you will persevere!
I’ve just found your channel today. I lost my job twice in 2001. Yep laid off twice in the same year. That was a lot of stress. But I can tell you, it was good for me in hindsight. You sound like a very strong, independent woman. You will get thru this, and will come out even stronger. You are doing all the stuff you need to, right now. But u do need to take time for yourself. And cry if u need to. You don’t have to be “all positive.” Be angry. Throw stuff, split a ton of wood. You’ll feel better.
I'm sorry that happened to you! You are a nice & empathetic person & a hard worker! I'm glad you took the high road! Altho it cost you. Your integrity isn't for sale. You're a class act. I will be praying that an excellent opportunity comes your way. And that they will appreciate having you. God bless
I managed to get through my entire working life without getting fired. During my profession years, I had good skill sets, but I know for sure that I only gave 110% when I had to (get the job done under pressure). But if it was possible to skate by, I totally did! Screw 'em. I retired at age 57. Not my concern anymore, and I could always tell there was no real loyalty from the corporations, so I knew to never give them too much of myself. People need to realize this.
I've never seen your channel, this video was suggested. I'm 57 and I was laid off also. I'd say, that working 14 hour days was slavery. So YES it was time for a change. Please get a job where you have a life.
Speak life into your situation. You will not lose anything. You will be surprised at how much you can cut out of life financially.
You asked a few times "what do I do?", you are doing it. You are doing all the right things. You get up in the morning and put one foot in front of the other. You are thinking of what you have, what you need, and where to prioritize your time and resources. You are doing exactly what you need to do. Trust yourself, and don't allow yourself to dwell in the in the space of the things that you wish you had done or hadn't done. Do your best each day and things will work themselves out.
Tammy, keep your head up, stay strong. But most importantly, stay true to who you are. Everything happens for a reason. I truly believe that. We may not understand the reason right away. But eventually you'll figure it out. Know that I will keep you in prayer. Big hugs
One door closes, then another will open. You can make it happen. You are a strong person and you will bounce back. Its seems like the end of the world at the moment but you will see the light at the end of the tunnel and look back on this time as a learning experience.
Sometimes New Beginnings are the changes needed....... I became severely injured and disabled in the peak of my career..... it took me yrs to relearn the simple basics in life.. walking... thinking...and after being left handed for 55 yrs at that time it no longer existed and I had to learn how to be right handed...I lost everything ...Became Homeless.... Long story short I found a new Niche !!!..... I became a craftsman that generates $$$ ....bought a home and built a workshop off grid......Dont lose faith , you know the path out it just takes a bit for the dust to settle and see the plan !!
You are very strong in power and force!
You are by far the strongest person i know. Truly an inspiration.
Age. Employers aren't interested in your experience or how well you performed your job. It's all about money and being replaced by someone younger with less experience and less salary. You're not alone in this situation. I have a friend that was a major employee in a small aerospace company. She went to work one morning and was told her job is being terminated. She found out later she had an enemy in the plant that was a local and he's the one that got her fired. He was afraid of her because she was more intelligent in the business than he was and was scared for his job. She never found another job in aerospace even though she had a masters degree and 25 years experience in aerospace because of being fired on her record. You're an awesome lady and we wish you the best going forward and feel comfortable in believing you'll find another job.
This is because there are too many people & not enough work now that we are so technologically advanced. Humanity is going to have to change how we value a person‘s life. Right now we value a person based on work not on intellect & personal values. But soon most of the population will not have a job and society is going to be forced to reevaluate how people are valued. Finance is going to be completely restructured. So many people will not have jobs that there will be no way we can keep looking down on unemployed people as if they are “less than” employed people. In fact, it’s probably going to go completely the opposite way. Employed people are going to be looked down upon because they will only be in servile positions. All the exclusive positions will be entrepreneurial. Everyone will “work“ for themselves. It won’t be work in the same way we see it now. This shift is just getting started and it is the most painful part of the change that is coming. Change for humanity always goes slower than any of us would like it to. Several generations are going to have to come and go before this change gets any easier. But by the time the kids who are babies right now are hitting senior age, they will have no concept of the problems we as seniors have right now of remaining relevant and employed. I’ve already given up the idea of going back to work. It’s not just that I resent to be treated like garbage by children who can’t even count change from a cash register when the cash register tells them how much to give you back because they don’t even know what coins have what value… It’s the whole idea of a job shaving many years from my lifespan through the stress that they are going to put me through. It’s a far better thing I do to come to grips with isolation and keeping myself busy doing things I enjoy & finding a way to live off of my Social Security while we still have it. I’m not gonna spend any nights crying because I’m being bullied at work. I’m not gonna spend any nights crying because I keep getting fired at job after job based on my age. I don’t have to worry about taking time off of work when I have a medical problem rather than if I have a medical problem because when you’re over 60, it’s when… Not if. It’s about time Americans get used to the idea that we don’t have prison for poor people and they’re not gonna do anything but ruin your credit so why are you beating yourself up for any of it? Those super wealthy bozos in Washington on both sides have criminally cheated, and stolen, everything that made American life livable from us and they’re not giving it back. So it’s time to reevaluate what really makes us happy and what’s really important which should be each other and a peaceful life. Money and a job so you can have more things is not a recipe for success. It’s a recipe for disaster once you become a certain age. So before you hit that age, everyone needs to learn when it’s time to fold your hand and push away from the table and go home while you still have a little jingle in your pocket instead of continuing to gamble your retirement every day you go to a job that doesn’t appreciate you. So what! You’re not gonna get to take that month-long tour of Europe you always dreamed of. But in its place, you’re gonna get an entire extra decade of life they would’ve stolen from you through stressing you out and giving you cancer and taking you away from your children and grandchildren earlier than necessary. That’s the stuff that’s priceless. It’s time everybody just checks out of those corporate one percent slave drivers and tells them to shove it where the sun don’t shine. There’s a lot more things that are worth a lot more than money. ☮️
First time viewer. Thank you for your video and honesty. Get your anger out for sure, and this is YOUR platform so say what you need to say!! Lose viewers, if that’s what it takes! You don’t need people here who can’t handle truth. Even though our circumstances are somewhat different, they are so similar. After reading many of the posts here from viewers, one thing is certain: People haven’t been choosing jobs in a field they are passionate about. The only way to start over is to start over. Sell everything you can and make the very hardest decisions immediately. Don’t wait. Unload everything that causes you to have to work in the system for a company that doesn’t care about you, only their bottom line. Lastly, “multiple part-time jobs, IS the new success”! -Kim (p.s. DO NOT SELL YOUR HORSE!!!)
I live in a tent knowing whats instore. Canvas tents are the best. Living in a van down by the river doesnt sound si bad now does it
Just landed on your channel for then first time. So sorry to hear the bad news. What you need right now is a hug and a massage. Don't be too hard on yourself.
If you're "the last one standing" at your employer, you have undervalued yourself.
It’s hurtful to be treated unjustly. You are brilliant and a beautiful person. Maybe the universe is talking to you. “ dont you let nothing, Nothing, stand in your way.” You cant stop a train and youre a tour de force. Miracles come from dark corners. You just wait and see. For now just breathe. 🙏❤️🙏
It really is hurtful. Thank you for the advice! Good words.
I want to see you camp, make fires, fish, and have fun, i want to watch how you decorate your cabin. I want you to ski all winter and earn money doing it. I love seeing your art, the wildlife you create with a paintbrush. I have loved all of your videos, keep going
I am in the same situation… I have a 33 year old Arab mare (I bought her from Linda Fisher!) a condo in SE Aurora and a home in Grand Lake and my own business (selling real estate) I have only recently been “sharing your adventure” (saw you on Cat Gregory’s channel). Your spirit and soul are still living the dream! Hold on to your heart. No wrong answers. Your open giving spirit will lead you at the perfect time. Listen for that voice within when the time comes! We’re all in it together ❤
Wonderful horses, the Arabs. ❤
❤ life’s a f mess these days .
I did drywall for 26 years then was diagnosed with with a rare cancer and lost my lung then diagnosed with myasthenia gravis. When you said what els is gonna be thrown at me . I feel the same way .. life always has a f problem that gets in the dang way ..
😢 it’s so frustrating !
Many can relate! You're not alone in your trials sister. Prayers for you. I'm same same. If you don't want me here, I don't want to be here.
Yes.. everything does happen for a reason... The reason is because you are to soldier who is equipped to complete the mission... You see, it's not All about you, so don't take it too personal... It's about how You getting threw it, and helping someone behind you to make it too... It's often about way more than the individual situation, it's the way to get where we need to be... Good luck, and trust Him...
Sincerest sympathies- I was notified back in April that I was going to be laid off by November despite getting a stellar review by my boss. I was able to get another job within the company but it came at a cost where I had to relocate myself at my own expense and move from Kansas City to Baltimore. On top of that, those members of my old team were told that our jobs were being offshored to Ireland and those left behind are having to train the replacements, and then, my boss found a new job himself and basically said see you later. I’ve escaped layoffs over the last 25 years by changing jobs, and as I get older the change keeps getting harder. The takeaway unfortunately is that a lot of jobs just don’t last and we’re overheard and expense to the company, which sucks. I don’t know what the answer is other than all you can do is keep moving. This economy sucks and the job market sucks.
My mom went through something similar with Intel. She worked her butt off for them trying to prove herself through every round of layoffs. After 19 years they laid her off and gave her a severance package. After some time she went back to work for them for just enough time to get her nice retirement package also.
This is a blessing in disguise…..you just don’t see it yet.
Sooo 😞 sorry..at 63 been through it twice ..very unsettling. Love and prayers for 💪 ❤ 🙏 . I have faith in you Tammy.
Hold on to your dream (cabin) ✨️
Thank you!!
Tammy, given all the outpouring of love and care you know you are not alone. Many of us have had similar things happen at the worst possible times. Angry is ok, so let it out but at the same time begin letting it go. You are one strong human who will come out the other side of this with a renewed sense of self. Peace and Love.
yes.. I am not alone. Met so many people in the same boat as me.
.you got this Tammy!
Trust in God! He will get you through it.
I was terminated at 60, 4 years ago from my white collar job. I was a manager for 32 years in 2 industries
It may have saved my life. Like you, I was working way too hard and forfeiting my life and family. I’m now coasting into retirement and feel great. I was lucky enough to find a job in 3 months, but that was 2020.
Stay strong and confident.
A new chapter will happen for you. 👍
happy you got a job in 2020! I am hoping things will work out.. working hard.
In times like this you need quite time to think and process. It will sort itself out in your head and you will re focus a path forward. In my experience ive found that after every bad situation things have always worked out for the better and I was glad it happened in the long run.
Absolute Beauty of a place!
I’m so sorry this happened to you. They don’t appreciate your work. Almost no company does. That’s why we are at a crossroads in this country. People are not just going to keep going to work, make inadequate money, and give all their time to companies who give zero $hit if you have a home, life, family. It’s happened to me. I was livid for months. I wasn’t ok.
Anyway, you should know you’re still in a VERY good position financially and you still have property and land. Most people are one paycheck away from being on the street. It’s not that bad. Keep reminding yourself that.
Good luck to you
I'm so sorry this happened to you. I was laid off 2 times. It's a shock to your system. Give yourself time to let things settle in. Being in nature will help. Stay positive and manifest the career of your dreams. Anger is a natural reaction and feeling. Not being appreciated for all you brought to the company is crushing. Stay positive, know your worth. It will work out. Stress comes from the unknown. Your best life is just around the corner.
~ Peace~
When God shuts one door it’s because he is going to open another one hang in there God Bless . ✨✝️✨🕊️✨🍃🌱🌳🌎💯💯
You Silly..God Doesn’t Exist. Unfortunately you were Brainwashed
I am sorry; I am in the same situation. I am looking for a job, going hiking, and taking pictures with the new camera, which is not the best, but I am happy with that; I bought it for the first time last year. I am learning woodworking because I want to do something to stay in the woods longer than have a meal and go hiking. I started writing children's stories two years ago, and I have one ready to be edited, but nothing seems to be going anywhere. I missed watching your Thursday videos when you were working for that company. It felt like that they took you away from what you loved doing. I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING YOU SAID. Take care of your own self.
Well, you aged out it's horrible but it's real! But it is a new beginning. It doesn't feel right but, like you said get with your networking group and look for open doors. Stay at it but you are going to realize you are valuable! I spent 19 years for a company and they don't care!! It's money and logistics. Keep your friends close and not everyone is for you though. Hang tough. Prayers for you and your family....
It seems to be quite common now a days, sad, but we get to comfortable with life. We don't prepare for the loss of anything. We become to busy to see beyond what could happen or change in life. You are strong and healthy, this is the opportunity to do anything you want. God bless.
One dr shuts another will open❤❤
A long time ago you gave a moment in your life and danced in your tent. You caught a lot of undeserved flack for that and just picked up and rolled with it. I haven't been watching much YT for awhile but you're still there. When you don't know what to do start by dancing and clear your head. Best wishes to you lady!
You don't know what to do? you're living the dream of a lot. Just be you, sometimes that is enough.
Thanks!
Thank you! I really appreciate it! WOW! :)
Hi Tammy I have been there aged then 60 skilled mechanic 45 years experience no jobs (age) 5 years low pay it's hell take what ever job comes up money coming in better than spending savings take a breather be drastic cut /slash outgoings don't let feelings hold you back once back on your feet you look back and say what the hell did I need all this stuff cash in back gives freedom you'll get there best wishes from north wales GB martin.
5 years ago I let my lease expire on my apartment, and got rid of most of my belongings and put the rest in storage. I packed up my 4Runner and traveled around the country living in a tent.
Thats great but einter would be rough
You are the writer of your life, no one else. Earth is a school, treat it like a challenging school, and everything makes more sense.
Oh Tammy I am so sorry! You must be devastated! I would be angry too. Don’t deny yourself being angry. That’s a part of the grieving process. Also remember that the grieving process isn’t liner. You will bounce back and forth between criterions. Don’t forget to breathe either. When I’m stressed I literally hold my breath. Don’t be me. 😊 You are a strong woman and you will come out of this life event better and stronger than before. I’ve watched your channel for enough years to know that about you. Hang in there. You can do this.
It hurts all of us. Happened to a lot of us, yes me included! An answer comes so slow sometimes. Hope you get it all figured out.
I understand that you don’t know what to do ….this is part of life
The pathless pass takes much effort
And this is your moment to rise up ! This happened FOR you not TO you miss
This is the universe closing the doors 🚪 you’d never have had the energy or strength to do ….
You will do amazing things ! As you always have done
It’s going to be ok
Do the guide jobs
Market it
Breathe in the light and out the darkness
Ps just keep filming on the phone - there’s no reason for a camera 📷
The phones perfectly fine :))
This yes❤
Iam 82 and have been through of all kinds. Iam not trying to preach but I have in my life she needs to to trust JESUS he has taken care . you wount belive how he took care of us and my wife of 62 years
I just went through the same thing. Cooperate America sucks. Took me 6 months to find a something close to the money I needed. Much happier now. Hang in there and keep your head up.
Life wouldn’t be as interesting without challenges. I was laid off. I was in sales and was one of the top sales people. I went on a local tv station to talk about yoga and a week later I was laid off. They told it was a conflict of interest. I was advised to get a lawyer but the lawyer said companies can do what they want and don’t really need a reason. I am a yoga teacher. Been teaching for 30 years. If you need someone to talk to feel free to reach out. I do spiritual counseling. I know it sounds weird but it’s good for our spirits to just verbalizing things to someone who isn’t close to you. Don’t give up!
You just appeared on my feed, and just wanted to say, but i'm sure you are aware, that this first time you have been let go hurts because it's a shock. You gave it your all and sometimes crap like this happens due to company restructure, but disguised as a situation that's your fault according to them. You did your best, and there are better things coming for you, different. I'm happy you shared it, lot's of people going through similar. I change every 4 years or so too! I'm due one soon, but i'll endure through past experience. Stay strong.
Start a business , be the boss , so nobody can sack you again . 👍
Everything that happens to you in life, the good, the bad and the everything in between are all for you. You will realise that this is actually one of the best things that ever happened to you. ❤
This is an opportunity ❤. You are free to do something new! What is your passion? Make that your new career
I hear your anger, but your strength and grit are even more impressive. Give em hell! Colorado trail is amazing! I did segments 24-28 this summer.
I have learned that going beyond what's required for an employer really is a bad habit to get into. They come to expect it, they never compensate for it, and they react poorly on the occasions when you can't.
Just keep looking forward. I have never lost a job where I had not ended up better off.
Here;s your chance to think about what your true JOY is in life. Shrug off this event and move forward with what you love. This is my first time seeing one of your videos, but it spoke to me because my life feels like one constant challenge after another. Now, I'm 57 and am on the verge of living out my dream at a cabin in the mountains and guess what? I had a stroke and now my entire left side doesn't work like it used to without pain and I'm not sure I can live in a remote cabin and maintain it with my health now. BUT, I'm still going to try. You can do this! Edited to add: You have a wonderful smile and when you talked about living in a tent or hiking, it made me smile back. :)
The world over companies are losing dedicated caring employees for more on the bottom line. They will soon realise the only thing making the company work was peoples loyalty, turns out its worth nothing. I’ve learnt to change myself into a work robot, where I give 80 % at best, and a home life and hobbies that get my 100%. Always know your worth and value, and dont believe any employer who tells you otherwise. Age discrimination is very real, so is the need to have a detox from your last job before you move to the next.
Whatever you decide to do be your own boss. Try not to depend on others. You are still young .
I have heard others say "be the CEO of your own career" I like that.
Strong, independent woman until you’re not! I’m on my fourth job this year. There’s no careers left. Good luck.
I felt this...!
My advice would be: Find multiple jobs doing the different things that you enjoy besides your main occupation.. (unless you want to go into business for yourself .. or consulting maybe?). Ask your intuition what you should do and write down the answers regardless of whether you like them or not. Then do it. lol Ur head is in the right place. watch this video again whenever you feel flustered . Best wishes on ur journey, we're all going through it. I loved your realness, this was kind of a relaxing video in a way... Very down to earth and real. Good vibes sent. Cheers to new adventures and happy chopping!