The biggest myths about emotions, debunked | Lisa Feldman Barrett

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    With the growth of self-help books and the fight to destigmatize therapy, people today are perhaps more unafraid than ever to talk about their emotions. But this has led to some common myths about emotions, and neuroscientist Lisa Feldman Barrett wants to debunk them.
    Barrett argues that emotions are not hardwired into the brain from birth, but rather stem from events that the brain creates based on past experiences and predictions of what's going to happen. Contrary to popular understanding, emotions are not just reactive events that happen to us - we play an active role in creating them.
    By learning new things, watching movies, or even acting in a play to get outside of the normal range of what the brain predicts, Barrett argues that it’s possible to change those predictive patterns, and by doing so, to become the architects of our future selves. Understanding how our brain creates emotions can help us manage them - freeing us from repeated patterns of behavior and empowering us to control our emotions and heal ourselves.
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  • @ayushfan
    @ayushfan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +596

    Awareness of our thoughts and emotions is the prerequisite to change them. People are mostly unaware of what is happening. They just get identified with their states of mind and let it control them.

    • @roudys
      @roudys 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I'm a vipassana practitioner too. 😉

    • @XeL__
      @XeL__ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      and meditate on ahimsa

    • @JamesRockefeller45
      @JamesRockefeller45 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      A lot of things are just like magic tricks just knowing how they work takes all their power away

    • @gujono.eiriksson8553
      @gujono.eiriksson8553 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Yeah, most/many don't even believe you can disassociate (or shall we rather say disentangle) from your emotions and thoughts. If only they knew...

    • @joshuatrott193
      @joshuatrott193 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Most people are strangers to themselves. Emotions are indicators. When we have unhealed/unreconciled hurts it has an effect that goes throughout our entire system.

  • @roxymcrae4645
    @roxymcrae4645 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    "Everybody has a little more control than what they think they do"❤

  • @tki6087
    @tki6087 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +332

    Finally someone who explained the difference between feelings and emotions. The way I see it is Feelings are mental interpretations of our bodily emotions. So you can experience the emotion of Fear but have the feeling of dejection, failure, loss, terror, etc. Sharing from firsthand experience of healing myself and learning to regulate my emotions.

    • @joas162
      @joas162 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Love that. I also did a lot of Googling because I didn't understand the difference between feelings and emotions and after reading a bunch of different articles I came to that same conclusion. Feelings are stories of the ego and emotions are states of energy in your body.

    • @devonnotdevin9998
      @devonnotdevin9998 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@joas162uhh you got it backwards.... feelings are the physical representation of an emotion . Why ? Because you can FEEL a feeling , or rather you can feel a sensation . But emotions are just labels or words used to describe physical sensation

    • @prapanthebachelorette6803
      @prapanthebachelorette6803 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for putting this together

    • @joas162
      @joas162 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@devonnotdevin9998 I feel confused now ?.?

    • @devonnotdevin9998
      @devonnotdevin9998 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@joas162 lol you understand already . You just used the words wrong . you said “ feelings are stories of the ego and emotions are states of energy in you body”
      But emotions are the stories ,, and feelings are the energy .

  • @juanderuano8969
    @juanderuano8969 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +228

    Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.

    • @juanderuano8969
      @juanderuano8969 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jaypritchett3414 wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

    • @juanderuano8969
      @juanderuano8969 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jaypritchett3414 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

    • @MattStemp
      @MattStemp 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      This video would suggest: as hard as it might be at first, go out and meet new people, and seek enjoyment and appreciation in what you like about them. You will find that all the things you love about your former partner are out there in many other lives just waiting for you to encounter again, along with many other people you might fall in love with. Over time, your capacity to love others will grow, as will your ability to love all kinds of people you wouldn't have loved before.

    • @trinidiana
      @trinidiana 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I am sorry for your loss. Just keep recognizing over and over that you are thinking , without any judgment, just notice. Thats it and they will naturally lessen, also notice that a lot of the thoughts are just stories and that you’d not have to believe them and that they are not real. If the thoughts are linked to emotions and feelings, sit with them, thank them and they too will lessen. The last thing I would say is when you notice the thoughts, then come into your senses, hear the sounds, feel your feet on the floor, whatever, just to take you out of the mind is the purpose. I am not saying any of this is easy but it the thoughts will lessen in time.

    • @333_Tarot
      @333_Tarot 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hear you bro

  • @vasudhamishra6296
    @vasudhamishra6296 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    This was so so so insightful. I have experienced this. My job at times requires me to do field work often with very less sleep in between. To enable me to continue working, my brain tries to ignore the sensory information it recieves from the body when its fatigued. Eventually, that physical exhaustion takes the form of mental unrest. And by the time that period of intense field work gets over, I end up depressed, sad, develop unusally high levels of of hatred towards my job which I normally absolutely love and I begin to question my existence. I start finding everything pointless. With time I realised, that those unpleasant emotions are just a manifestation of my physical fatigue, which I had been avoiding to feel and acknowledge, as mental exhaustion and feelings of intense, unexplainable sadness, to be exact. I have noticed, after a good amount of rest, that get back to feeling normal and loving my life and my job. Thank you @bigthink for releasing such insightful videos featuring some of the most brilliant minds.

    • @georgeduncan341
      @georgeduncan341 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      circadian rhythm disruptive activity body language hormonal imbalance results in resistance of waking function 4am sleep repression create feelings for negating interactions *dissatisfaction, depression, anger, diminished memory . Retreat.... The struggle is REAL my fellow Hue- man❤

    • @rabbitcreative
      @rabbitcreative 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      > My job at times requires me to do field work often with very less sleep in between.
      Another example of environ-mental-illness. Not mental-illness.

  • @claudiaserna7621
    @claudiaserna7621 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    For me, it was great because it unrevealed, without a mess, the complexity of emotions. It opens the door to explore and wire new experiences as they are: unknown and unseen. We are constantly conditioned by systems, and just the communication with words represents many limitations. So, for me, a good approach could be 'To see, forgetting the names of the things we are looking at' - C. Monet.

  • @DEE-qu5mc
    @DEE-qu5mc 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    She made a lot sense. And I believe, when you do experience emotions in regards to pain and suffering, you should just accept them, and not fight them, they will pass.

  • @Thee.Absurdist
    @Thee.Absurdist 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "Uses these new experiences to predict differently in the future ... For you to act differently in the future."
    Oh man, that's huge for me!

  • @rbloch66
    @rbloch66 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Feelings are a response to the thoughts we choose to believe. Realizing that a thought has no power over you allows you to respond in an appropriate manner. We are held captive by our thoughts, but we also hold the key to freedom.

  • @Phasma6969
    @Phasma6969 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Usually I am very skeptical of content along the lines of this video. However, I thought this was a very succinct and concise explanation and elaboration on the topic. Good stuff. Narratives are a grand part of the human experience, much of what we tell ourselves are only perceptions and not reality, meaning it can be changed through habituation and perspective. Thank you.

    • @adenfayt5433
      @adenfayt5433 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Barrett is the real shit. I'm skeptical too of a lot of psychology content, and I've read quite a few books that say contradictory things, but her book How Emotions Are Made was a standout to me and really cleared up the misconceptions absolutely flooding every aspect of life about how emotions work, and it has a bigger effect than people realize if everyone has wrong notions about how their brains and bodies work.

    • @jorgejorge8878
      @jorgejorge8878 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mmmmm I didn't really like it. It sounds like pseudo science to me.

    • @Phasma6969
      @Phasma6969 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jorgejorge8878 You need only test the hypothesis

    • @bennaarsongidi9269
      @bennaarsongidi9269 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Only philosophers can attempt to discuss psychology .

  • @JustWojtek
    @JustWojtek 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    much recommend both her books - How Emotions Are Made & Seven and a Half Lessons About The Brain - two of my most favourite books I've ever read

    • @The-Well
      @The-Well  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Good to hear, thanks for sharing!

    • @DirtyPhlegm
      @DirtyPhlegm 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yess! Great to see another Lisa Fan 😁

  • @sneakytacos773
    @sneakytacos773 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I’d argue you’re more the surfer of your emotions not the architect. We can’t control our emotions, but we can control how we react to them.

    • @tiger1lily
      @tiger1lily 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I couldn’t agree more. As someone who comes from a dysfunctional family with a heavy load of traumatic baggage I used to be dramatic and emotionally reactive. I’ve tried many therapists like this lady and nothing worked, it only made me feel even more inadequate than I already was. That until I discovered aerial arts and my coach who guided me in how to channel all that propensity for drama and intensity into art. After 40 years of emotional chaos not only I can control my emotions now but I can also put them to good use.

    • @maryanneevans8812
      @maryanneevans8812 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No we can't control them. We really can't. Only choose how to act or not based on what we know at any given moment in time.

    • @thederpydude2088
      @thederpydude2088 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The impression I got of what she was saying is that the choices we make now help create the emotions we will experience in the future. Also, maybe changing our reactions can be a way of being the architect, too.

  • @tashuntka
    @tashuntka 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change..
    ✨️✨️✨️

  • @kyraocity
    @kyraocity 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    1:40 Great variability in emotional lives
    2:09 The illusion the brain creates
    2:37 How emotions really work. The brain regulating body top down, body is sending sensory information to the brain but we don't experience sensory changes. We get a summary--what we feel.
    3:30 Are feelings emotions? Sound analogy. The brain is telling you a story processing the world inside and outside you
    4:33 Why is it important? The explanation is a tool not the answer.
    4:50 Depression explained.
    5:25 Part of managing your emotions is using them as a diagnostic not a diagnosis.
    5:53 Your brain is making emotions. Using past experience to predict things that may not happen. Emotions are not happening to you.
    6:02 Implications: You are an architect of your experience. It involves predicting differently than the recipe or story you carry.
    6:40 You can't change your past but every new experience is an opportunity to change your present (not your past)
    7:00 Just in the same way you exercise to be healthier you can cultivate new experiences. Learning is evidenced by new and different experiences. Practice. Practice. Practice to predict and act differently.
    7:45 Not everybody has as much control as they might like. But everyone has more control than they think they do.
    7:50 when you enter the world you are not wired. Other people wire that world. You are not responsible for it as a child or adolescent. 8:11 But as an adult...you can make decisions about what you experience; make choices about how you act. You either reinforce your predictions your brain makes or you change them.
    8:40 We are the only one who can change them. We are caretakers of our experiences but the brain does what it does...based on our past. But you can practice making a new and different lifeworld.

  • @fishstickbio594
    @fishstickbio594 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Body keeps the score of traumas ….emotional traumas are harder to heal as people get triggered from smell, a type of noise or anything else that takes you back . The behavioral FBI unit are great in recognizing people’s behavioral patterns as a typically taught patterns …. and repetitive taught creates emotions or feelings .

  • @richardrickford3028
    @richardrickford3028 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is a very good video. There is still though a lot we do not understand scientifically. Any talk about feelings and emotions needs to talk about trauma and how this can effect the brain. I have had multiple trauma and I have needed special training to help me get over it and it is still an ongoing process. When people are as good as this professor they all need to spend a great deal of time exchanging ideas - psychiatrists with psychologists with therapists. No one discipline has all the answers but the good thing is we are making progress in our understanding of these things. I would like to thank Lisa Felman Barrett for the inspiration she has given me and the important things she has taught me and reinforced in my mind.

  • @hudsonviegas9906
    @hudsonviegas9906 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Perfect. No words to describe how good and important this lecture was to me.

  • @marniebrimhall986
    @marniebrimhall986 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant! This information is very helpful and comforting. Great job!

  • @kessaann7782
    @kessaann7782 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just brilliant! Thank you for the content 🙏

  • @golvino
    @golvino 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wonderfully informative and helpful. Thank you !

  • @berwynkay
    @berwynkay 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Just beautiful, thanks for this kind of information I appreciate all the efforts done behind the scene to get this kind of content out there, keep doing it, thank you.

    • @The-Well
      @The-Well  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Our pleasure! Thanks for watching!

  • @gypsism
    @gypsism 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Study the life of your parents, their parents and siblings and you will understand who you are a mirrored version of. And then learn to detach and become a wholesome version of yourself

    • @muhamadfaisal623
      @muhamadfaisal623 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can you Elaborate

    • @gypsism
      @gypsism 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We are nothing else than a living iteration of our ancestors, programed through their acting ever since we are born. Especially given the enormous growth of our brains in the first 3 years. To become your true you you need to understand the social web which you grew up in and which you are a living mirror of..

  • @cliffperry
    @cliffperry 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank you for this. A 9 minute video that’s consumed several hours down the rabbit hole of seeking to understand and relate to in my experience. Wow, heavy duty for one who’s been living with misconceptions. She can’t be the only one with insight on this, I’m going to look further.

    • @jdcaughman4598
      @jdcaughman4598 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Have you seen the Sapolsky lectures? They may help....

    • @cydmontero
      @cydmontero 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You may also read Sapolsky's Behave

  • @jsgc13
    @jsgc13 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    I was expecting her to mention Meditation as a tool for emotional regulation, maybe in a different video... To finally realize that all that we are is the awareness, the stillness behind thoughts and emotions, one can then become aware of the emotional triggers, and consciously process the emotion, identifying the source, the trauma, the trigger, without being it, and increasing the space between stimulous and reaction. Through practice, one can even untangle unprocessed trauma, or repressed emotions and free yourself from your own mind and it's conditioning.

    • @rojanbowl5064
      @rojanbowl5064 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Insightful, that you mention meditation or I would say mindfulness. She mentions none of that, mindfulness/meditation, in her book.

    • @jesonlozil
      @jesonlozil 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I would listen to her.

    • @andreawatts7884
      @andreawatts7884 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The basis of her theory seems somewhat limited. Those familiar with the practice of meditation acknowledge that the brain is not in control and that energy is managed from other centres. We also accept that everything is everywhere all the time :-)
      Perhaps it was that looking outside of what is her known environment felt too challenging and she is therefore attempting to attract us into her version of things. Which is also part of what is.

    • @jsgc13
      @jsgc13 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@andreawatts7884 I agree with you, and I would say that she’s looking at it from a very academic and professional perspective (Psychology Professor), but, she indeed does not mention that, there’s an ever present stillness, a silence, that can only be heard once the mind is silenced, then, what you hear is the universe, and it’s in that moment that one merge with creation and become the universe itself, the conscious presence, thoughtless and emotionless, and, it’s possible for everyone, all it takes is to quiet the mind and listen. It’s a beautiful thing!
      To me, that’s who we really are, beyond culture, beliefs, and the traumas that conditions us until we become aware of them. We are all one!

    • @andreawatts7884
      @andreawatts7884 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jsgc13 I feel aligned with the awareness behind your comments and yet experience what is differently, as neither still nor without expression. I experience it as fullness, plenitude and abundance. And it seems to me that this is what we are all born from and at the same time within which we are forever lovingly held. And in our desire to leave it may only ensnare ourselves. So yes, we are all one :-) 🕊

  • @iainmackenzieUK
    @iainmackenzieUK 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Makes sense. I am recently finding it useful to reflect on my current experience of feeling OK whenever possible. (whatever I am doing) I think its retraining my brain and in the context of this video, giving my brain possibilities for new predictions.

  • @anmolagrawal5358
    @anmolagrawal5358 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The seeding part is really profound and if meddled with consciously with an intimate understanding of oneself, can change a person's life for the better.

  • @magnificentyou2279
    @magnificentyou2279 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fabulous! So much clarity and so well put.

  • @jdubruyn
    @jdubruyn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So nice. Impeccable to be exact. Thank you💙🙏

  • @TheSkystrider
    @TheSkystrider 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was helpful thank you. It helps to remember I'm the architect of my experience. Also, absolutely incredible music in this episode esp the violin in the last 1/4 of the video!

  • @veronicabailey-cobbbcc491
    @veronicabailey-cobbbcc491 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a great presentation! I emotionally came away from this video. Feeling pretty excited about my future. Thank you. ❤️

  • @dMk_Butterfly
    @dMk_Butterfly 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Yes emotions don't happen to you. You have experiences and you have feelings and emotions to me are like a release of all the experiences you have. Some people do not feel like others do. My mother had so much trauma in childhood that it made her not empathetic to other people's feelings. I was not allowed to express my emotions as a child being raised by her and learned to keep quiet because if I said or did anything she didn't like I would get raged on. I held my emotions in too long which led to a nervous breakdown eventually and had a hard time controlling my emotions after that. I was diagnosed as bi-polar but what the doctors never figure out was that my family were all narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths. My mother still cannot under why when she does certain things that it hurts other people. She still gets upset when I get emotional and actually misinterprets emotions. This "World" we live in really does not allow for being too emotional. People go to work and you ask them how they are and they smile and say, "I'm good! How are you?" The stress of this world can be too much and it is very important to express your feelings and emotions are like a release. People can have a range of emotions both positive and negative. What I have learned is that the worst of the emotions stemmed from severe unresolved childhood trauma that I was not even aware of. Anger is a natural human emotion and children get angry as well as adults yet how we express that anger is extremely important. There are healthy ways to express anger other than ragging on people or being physically or verbally abusive. Stress in this world and health issues etc. can lead to painful emotions. It is all apart of the human experience. Healing has been a life long journey for me. I am a feeling person and would call myself an empath. People get their emotions stuck and it can lead to sickness. Holding your emotions in can even lead to cancer. So let it out I say! One of my favorite songs by MaDonna says it all, "Express Yourself, Don't Repress Yourself".

    • @GraceAnnCummingsInsideTheMusic
      @GraceAnnCummingsInsideTheMusic 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Emotions DO HAPPEN TO YOU because emotions begin with primal fear of death.....which is a paradox of recognizing the desire to live yet having ZERO skills or understanding to prepare for or prevent death. What you do with your fear....shows your evolution into the skill of loving

    • @gottisttott6350
      @gottisttott6350 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Your comment is too much like my own life. Thank you for sharing 😊
      ☸️ 🧘

  • @christineabercrombie7316
    @christineabercrombie7316 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    PTSD is different than being emotional.

  • @guillermom.5692
    @guillermom.5692 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just literally read her book for my psychology class, thx for making a video! 🎉

  • @Justineyedia
    @Justineyedia 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    There are emotions that are fast and quick. Chemical reactions in the body. There are feelings which are a little longer. They are your interpretation of the emotions. They can set moods. And attitudes. Also once you have a mood you willfuly start generating thoughts and emotions that keep you in the mood. There both are fall under affect. They include emotions and moods.
    The brain wants to go into homeostasis though. What goes up, must come down. Not too high and not too low. This is why we tread between positive and negative thoughts. I'm trying to make sense of it. All I am not professional. We try to stay positive and happy all the time which is just not natural.

    • @JustWojtek
      @JustWojtek 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think you are on the right track! as I understand Lisa Feldman Barrett "mood" is more of an underlying condition, which influences our affective niche - basically what we can and will feel at a given time and situation

    • @The-Well
      @The-Well  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Cheers, love the discussion. It's interesting to bring the duration of emotions or feelings into the discussion and would be cool to explore what role more instant reactions vs. longer duration emotions have in mood disorders and recovering from them.

    • @insankamil2909
      @insankamil2909 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yeah, being positive all the time, can lead to burn out

  • @BicycleFunk
    @BicycleFunk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    This is great. The explanation is clear and the video is entertaining. I like the editing and b-roll selection. Thank you for this.

    • @The-Well
      @The-Well  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cheers, so glad you liked it!

    • @The-Well
      @The-Well  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      FWIW, you can find Lisa Feldman Barrett's research at www.affective-science.org/publications.shtml

    • @BicycleFunk
      @BicycleFunk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Solscapes. your brain is an interpreter of reality. You can have a good or bad reaction to the same event and that's on you.

    • @BicycleFunk
      @BicycleFunk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Solscapes. nobody is saying that people don't need emotional support or that individualism is a good thing - nor can you delude yourself into happiness. What is being said is that your body is a transducer and brain the controller. You have the ability to calibrate your equipment - whether you do that on your own or with help.
      It's more "gaslighty" to say that you cannot change than that you can.

    • @BicycleFunk
      @BicycleFunk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Solscapes. The part where your brain cannot act or react to physical objects.
      You can get better without community support. It would be insane to believe otherwise.

  • @orah12185
    @orah12185 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thanks. I appreciate the reasonable content of this message.

  • @lenaalpha456
    @lenaalpha456 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant lecture. Thank you. ❤

    • @The-Well
      @The-Well  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for being here!

  • @Suzume-Shimmer
    @Suzume-Shimmer 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Looking forward to her book.
    I hope theres a audio version and that she narrates it. She has a pleasant voice.

  • @strether52
    @strether52 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Exactly! I've long felt that emotions are your mind's way of summarizing an incredibly complex array of percepts. Of course this was mere deduction on my part, using the assumptions that they must be manufactured for a purpose of some kind, and that that purpose must play an evolutionarily significant role.
    In other words, it was a (I hope) not unintelligent guess. But so wonderful to have it confirmed by Ms. Feldman Barrett!

  • @drlivinghome
    @drlivinghome 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This video is very interesting but it doesnt cover why we can still be "prisoners" of trauma that happened even before we had conscious memory (pre verbal trauma). Trauma is stored in the body, it's not just about how the conscious brain interprets it. Sometimes people are aware they're emotionally "overreacting", but they cant control it because they dont even know how or what happened. We've all heard about temporal memory loss, seeing red, etc.

    • @MM-Iconoclast
      @MM-Iconoclast 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You can answer your own question if you simply remove the word 'conscious' from the above phrase 'conscious brain'. She didn't limit it to the conscious brain, rather you seem to have interpreted it that way by adding that limitation. It is about how the brain (conscious, unconscious, preconscious) takes in and interprets both internal and external data.

  • @NITESHYADAV-yv2im
    @NITESHYADAV-yv2im 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Doc your words really helped. This world is a much prosperous place with you in it.❤😊

  • @robertronquillo563
    @robertronquillo563 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have been owned lately by my feelings and depressed and fatigued. Wow! This broke some ground for me. I have intuitively been doing things different. I have been learning and practicing recording a new tape. I have been pausing to breathe and relax instead of reacting. Thank you for helping me to keep on this track by confirming that these thoughts on how to get well aren't another waste of my time or energy.

    • @The-Well
      @The-Well  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We're so happy to hear this! Thanks for watching and for sharing your perspective :)

  • @mickmickymick6927
    @mickmickymick6927 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    As usual with pop sci, it's far too vague, unsourced and ends on a positive tone to get upvotes but doesn't give anything actually actionable (no, watching a movie and reading a book won't cure depression)

  • @remusgogu7545
    @remusgogu7545 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is at the same time the explanation that makes most sense for thoughts, emotions, perceptions, and perhaps the most elusive one.

  • @Boutys_mom
    @Boutys_mom 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The last few minute of this video is such good information! Thank you. Sometimes I forget that I do have control!

    • @The-Well
      @The-Well  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so welcome! Glad you liked it.

    • @Novastar.SaberCombat
      @Novastar.SaberCombat 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "Reflect upon the Past.
      Embrace your Present.
      Orchestrate our Futures." --Artemis
      🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
      "Before I start, I must see my end.
      Destination known, my mind’s journey now begins.
      Upon my chariot, heart and soul’s fate revealed.
      In time, all points converge, hope’s strength re-steeled.
      But to earn final peace at the universe’s endless refrain,
      We must see all in nothingness... before we start again."
      🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
      --Diamond Dragons (series)

  • @Rebeldevi
    @Rebeldevi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you. Truly. I needed this.

    • @The-Well
      @The-Well  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cheers, so glad you found it!

  • @nancywysemen7196
    @nancywysemen7196 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    needed to see this video again. i love this story. yes,outline. very exciting.

  • @omittapir5986
    @omittapir5986 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow! I needed this so badly...

  • @alariclopezdeleon7524
    @alariclopezdeleon7524 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you. I’ve been somewhat doing this process and you just gave a very beautiful way of explaining it.
    Really wonderful.

    • @Novastar.SaberCombat
      @Novastar.SaberCombat 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "Reflect upon the Past.
      Embrace your Present.
      Orchestrate our Futures." --Artemis
      🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
      "Before I start, I must see my end.
      Destination known, my mind’s journey now begins.
      Upon my chariot, heart and soul’s fate revealed.
      In time, all points converge, hope’s strength re-steeled.
      But to earn final peace at the universe’s endless refrain,
      We must see all in nothingness... before we start again."
      🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
      --Diamond Dragons (series)

    • @alariclopezdeleon7524
      @alariclopezdeleon7524 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for this.

  • @canjgo
    @canjgo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video is so empowering and useful for me. Thank you.

    • @The-Well
      @The-Well  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are very welcome!

  • @Motivation-gz7gy
    @Motivation-gz7gy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great explanation. Thank you

  • @MaryMichelleWorthy
    @MaryMichelleWorthy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    This was so STINKIN inspiring! What a woman this lady is

    • @A_A_12_
      @A_A_12_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What a scientist!

    • @noeditbookreviews
      @noeditbookreviews 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah, she's not just some schmuck.

    • @JkennGG
      @JkennGG หลายเดือนก่อน

      How so?

  • @jennsi8326
    @jennsi8326 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you a lot!!!

  • @kreshnov
    @kreshnov 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I rarely comment nowadays, but I just had to respond to this one.
    This video is lifechanging. It gives so much perspective and balance to our human experience.

    • @JkennGG
      @JkennGG หลายเดือนก่อน

      How so?

    • @kreshnov
      @kreshnov หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @JkennGG
      We experience the world through our senses, so in a way any distinction between what happens inside and outside the body is simply a matter of perception. And I think a healthy, balanced perception is a great tool to handle the hurdles life throws at you.
      Thank you for your reply, it made me rewatch the video :)

    • @JkennGG
      @JkennGG หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kreshnov Absolutely, thanks for the detailed reply!

  • @user-mz3bl2dl3b
    @user-mz3bl2dl3b 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant!

  • @mh60648
    @mh60648 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Very very interesting. The only thing I would add, is that there is a lot of talk in the video about what ‘the brain’ thinks and believes, but scientifically we don’t know yet if that is accurate. We know about how the brain is involved chemically and electrically, and we are still learning more about that, but we don’t actually know if the brain itself ‘thinks’ or ‘believes’. The brain could also turn out to be the tool of something we have not yet discovered, for example, and we could currently be studying the result of that in the physical workings of the brain. Time and research will eventually tell us how this actually works, but until we do we will need truly open minds (not open brains ;-), especially among scientists.

  • @immortal_i
    @immortal_i 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this knowledge is one of the best

  • @mikaelzerbib
    @mikaelzerbib 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pretty useful information! Thanks!

  • @jdf_132
    @jdf_132 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am sure to understand everything but trauma seems to be missing in this comprehension of the present emotions. Without healing these emotions from the past, it is very difficult to understand our present emotions.

  • @evelinekravitz
    @evelinekravitz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you for this wonderful video

    • @The-Well
      @The-Well  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for being here!

  • @bspi624
    @bspi624 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent presentation

  • @daniel-cr2je
    @daniel-cr2je 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Never been to universiy.But love always when someone,crazy more inteligent than me,with lots of research behind.DECADES.Sums it up.Anda I learn.Her ted talks,wished to post the link.was mind blowing.Just love to have a little insight of the brain.Thank you so much Doctor Lisa Fieldman Barret.

  • @nancywysemen7196
    @nancywysemen7196 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    heartening and strengthening.

  • @petequintana4935
    @petequintana4935 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very refreshing. Thanks for the lesson.

    • @The-Well
      @The-Well  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @maxamillion9458
    @maxamillion9458 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🔥Thank you so much

  • @yoandyvm704
    @yoandyvm704 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this woman. She´s so confident and smart.

    • @The-Well
      @The-Well  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We totally agree! If you're interested, we have a few more videos with her in this playlist: th-cam.com/play/PL_B7bI1QVmJCM2YvLifL2dqparLFu2HrS.html

  • @nathanh3538
    @nathanh3538 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I was very skeptical of the thoughts presents at first her conclusions made everything clear. I’m inspired to creat new emotions for myself and I understand the path I must take to do it. Thank you!

    • @Novastar.SaberCombat
      @Novastar.SaberCombat 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "Reflect upon the Past.
      Embrace your Present.
      Orchestrate our Futures." --Artemis
      🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
      "Before I start, I must see my end.
      Destination known, my mind’s journey now begins.
      Upon my chariot, heart and soul’s fate revealed.
      In time, all points converge, hope’s strength re-steeled.
      But to earn final peace at the universe’s endless refrain,
      We must see all in nothingness... before we start again."
      🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
      --Diamond Dragons (series)

  • @RBIndTexas
    @RBIndTexas 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you. ❤

  • @mariaiordanova3843
    @mariaiordanova3843 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you very very very much

  • @johnthom3342
    @johnthom3342 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Emotion is expressed energetically.

  • @marinelipartia8839
    @marinelipartia8839 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The best motivation speech backed by science, even thought it was not meant to be motivational speech!

  • @UncompressedWAVmusic
    @UncompressedWAVmusic 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Interesting and helpful. Free of BS mumbo jumbo. This talk have some deep truth and guidance in it. Thank you.

  • @williamstevens7934
    @williamstevens7934 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you

  • @akubalor
    @akubalor 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What happens on the environment - > received by the senses and the body - > signals the brain - > brain interprets based on past experiences and knowledge and acts accordingly - > release hormones - > emotions created

  • @VOLightPortal
    @VOLightPortal 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I don't agree that humans have emotions. What we have are collective hallucinations, or approximations of sensations, and associations with stored memories...

    • @jonr6680
      @jonr6680 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Great, when is your book coming out?

    • @davidsantos1630
      @davidsantos1630 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jonr6680 what?

  • @angelbernal6098
    @angelbernal6098 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks!

  • @shivanijoshi6629
    @shivanijoshi6629 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What I loved:
    It seemed to go in a scientific direction which could mean having to depend on medication to treat the alleged deficiencies in your body, making you feel a certain way. It didn't. It's still perspective and open mindedness that can change not only your outlook, but your physical systems significantly too. You are what you think.

  • @libbyholt3863
    @libbyholt3863 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, that music was beautiful! Wait, what did she say? Dang it! Even on that rare occasion when I LIKE the musical choices made for accompaniment of these talks, I STILL just wish you'd leave it off or at least reduce the volume by half or more.

  • @jnmtculo
    @jnmtculo ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Experiences that deviate from what the brain predicts are the experiences outside your so-called comfort zone

  • @SchgurmTewehr
    @SchgurmTewehr 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Consciously, emotions happen to you, and that’s what you is, consciousnesses. This was very enlightening. Thanks. I had actually never really thought about it wondered about the neurobiological reality of emotions.

    • @JustWojtek
      @JustWojtek 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      well, I don't know if emotions happen "to you" - they just happen and it's up to you what you make of them

  • @destinyforreal9744
    @destinyforreal9744 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very good video thanks

  • @liberamentis.A
    @liberamentis.A 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Emotions are something that I chose to experience or not.
    I am the master of my emotions ! Not the slave of them..😊

  • @thegardenofphysics7831
    @thegardenofphysics7831 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤ it is amazing channel for learning from great personalities 😊

    • @The-Well
      @The-Well  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much!

  • @wheninroamful
    @wheninroamful 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wonderful!

  • @everydazetuesday
    @everydazetuesday 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    brilliant!

  • @kristine6996
    @kristine6996 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree to this explanation completely… and made some ‘wrong’ decisions. History is repeating itself and not only to me. Compassion with people who aren’t able to retrieve memories from their past is key. The mind is a trickster sometimes.

  • @RodrigoDLM
    @RodrigoDLM หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is helpful to be aware of our body's physiological processes to recognize the domino effect they can trigger and know how to intervene to achieve the best possible outcomes for our emotional well-being.

  • @JeremyHelm
    @JeremyHelm 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    7:20 'new experiences ...that would require you to get outside the normal range of what your brain would predict'

  • @bertg74
    @bertg74 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    No I think we can all agree that emotions are definitely feelings that happen to us at times, and sometimes it's the wrong ones at the wrong times

  • @angelahull9064
    @angelahull9064 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is amazing how cognitive, sensation & perception science, neurology, and psychology are getting to the point of saying very similar things as St. John of the Cross, Aquinas, and the Church Father's say about thoughts and emotions: about how brain and body work together, feeding each other information about the material world and past memories (and spiritual information being sensed by the soul and contributing to this process, but of course that's more metaphysics/theology territory), forming a den of personal and social stories that we may call the mind and personality.
    Those early Christian theologians (and I hear that Hindu and Buddhist gurus have tapped into similar observations despite differences between the cultural lenses of the East and the West) had the help of Hellenism, Plato, and Aristotle to give them the foundational language and framework to study this phenomenon. However, some of those theologians, religious leaders, psychologists and lay people fall into the trap of Stoicism in making erroneous conclusions and myths about the mind, emotions, and mental health as discussed in the video, leading to dismissing the issues people experience and coming up with inappropriate or downright ineffective or unethical treatments. I hope there will be scientists and philosophers who can work together to help dispel those misconceptions.

  • @rosemariebredahl9519
    @rosemariebredahl9519 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow. I've believed for decades that emotions addicts reward with use of an addictive substance (incl alcohol) effects which emotions thet feel during withdrawal symptoms .
    Ex: Angry drunk drinks to calm themselves. vs happy drunk goes dancing or to parties and other fun drinking events vs functional alcoholics who reward themselves for a job well done vs sad drunks listen to "cry in your beer" music and drink when they feel unappreciated/unloved, Etc.. Your info helps me understand the orchestration of perceptions, emotions, and actions in the context of accidentally training the "addict" about which types of "tantrums" will feed it the chemicals it wants. Ty.

  • @meadowclaybrook2675
    @meadowclaybrook2675 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I always figured that emotions and feelings are just labels that our brain gives us each label being the hormones the brain secretes that make it either possible to cope with the outside influences or not. I know that this is true becuase of all the experiences I have and seeing the difference when for example it was BEFORE my first menstruation and also how my brain handed out hormones AFTER I surgically removed my uterus, not my overies, but no more periods made my exampleS of emotions much more controllable and more comfortable. So I liked what you said.. but something tells me that all the researching IN ALL OF YOUR YEARS YOU STILL HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO KNOW EXACTLY WHAT OTHERS GO THROUGH IN A LIFE FULL OF PAIN AND ANGUISH, YOU ARE A SUCCESSFUL WOMAN WHO HAS NOT HAD THE ISSUES THAT I HAVE, SO PERHAPS YOU LABEL IT HOW YOUD IMAGINE IT BEING. YOU CANT TAKE OTHERS STORIES AND FEEL THEM FOR YOURSELF THE SAME. DEPRESSION IS VERY MUCH IN MY PAST AND IT IS ONLY MY OWN LESSONS THAT MAKE LIFE 'DOABLE' TODAY.

  • @anney_007
    @anney_007 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very very grateful

  • @futureproof.health
    @futureproof.health 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Another myth is that we are so sure of ourselves we judge the ‘uneducated’ as irrational. Intuition, empathy, and tribal consciousness can be much much faster to reach a specific goal than thinking of the same things over and over

  • @KingaGorski
    @KingaGorski 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Emotions are automatic, whereas feelings can be chosen and willfully overlaid on top of those automatic emotions to help regulate them. It's definitely a practice, and much easier said than done-but not impossible.

  • @ntuthukontanzi8997
    @ntuthukontanzi8997 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Reminds me of Dr Joe dispenza and Dr Bruce Lipton. Very articulate, thanks for the video

  • @themetaphysicalrev99
    @themetaphysicalrev99 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Emotion is energy in motion.
    Intense negative emotions all stem from fear. If you take a look at why you are mad as an example, dissect your emotion and there is an underlying fear there.
    Positive emotions are of Love.
    All emotions need to come and go. Change is the only constant and how we react is all we are in control of.

  • @lisaw1175
    @lisaw1175 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is very comprehensive and modern way to look at emotions as a summary of body signals and past experiences, with new information gathering in this ever changing world , if we aware , we can update our belief hence a better prediction. Emotions are just here to give you certain information.

  • @stephenmann9534
    @stephenmann9534 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Life is a journey. Emotions and thoughts are involved as we speak, before we speak. I never left the hospital after I was born....until I was rescued a month later. I am 74 now and still counting. LOVE. PEACE. God Bless.

  • @blueconversechucks
    @blueconversechucks 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That copy machine scene has happened to me too!!