Falling in Love After Loss | My Relationship + How I Feel

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  • In this video, I wanted to share my personal journey of finding love again after experiencing loss. I wanted to have an open and honest chat with you all about my relationship and the incredible emotions that come with it. I want to discuss how I deal with the complexities of love, healing, and moving forward.
    Join the conversation in the comments and let's explore the beauty of finding love after loss together.
    #LoveAfterLoss #RelationshipJourney #HealingHeart #FindingHappiness
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    Thank you so much for supporting me through everything, YOU are incredible.
    If you want to see more of my journey, head over to my Instagram to have a chat and get to know others in this community.
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  • @sarahtolley7378
    @sarahtolley7378 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I watched your late husband's journey, as I was fighting breast cancer, I even got one of the hoodies. I hope you don't mind me saying I think he would be so happy you have found someone and so proud of you. Take care 😊x

    • @MaryleaMemaw
      @MaryleaMemaw ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was going through breast cancer then also. I ordered a hoodie too but never got it. I did get most of my money back though.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Of course I don't mind you saying that!!! Thank you so much.🧡

  • @v1ctor1aa
    @v1ctor1aa ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I discovered you from your late husbands vlogs, you were a Ray of Sunshine even back then. I’m so happy for you! You deserve all the happiness there is.

    • @oxforddictonary
      @oxforddictonary ปีที่แล้ว +2

      *Ray of sunshine* xxoo

    • @v1ctor1aa
      @v1ctor1aa ปีที่แล้ว

      Autocorrect on the iPhone, you certainly have to love it otherwise it will drive you mad.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you Victoria! This means so much that you are still here after all this time. 🧡

  • @kerry3546
    @kerry3546 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m sure he’s looking down on you and smiling because you are happy. No one wants to go knowing they’re leaving their loved ones in pain. I’m sure it brings him peace. You’ve gone through a lot, you seem happy and I’m glad for you. ❤️I look forward to seeing your future endeavors

  • @SmoothBrownMan
    @SmoothBrownMan ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Reggie from Toronto here. I remember your late husband and how impactful his TH-cam channel was in my life. Very poignant and moving indeed. I am so happy you have found love again!! So happy!!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Reggie, thank you. You're so so lovely. 🧡

  • @MyEnemy
    @MyEnemy ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Hard to believe it's been 5 years. I'm so happy for you.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I know. And thank you. 🧡

  • @vickymackintosh1033
    @vickymackintosh1033 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    100% relate to what you say in this video. I was widowed at the age of 28, my husband died suddenly. Thought my life was over and then 9 months later a new man came into my life and changed everything! Happy to say we have now been together 10 yrs, married for 8yrs and have a beautiful almost 3yr old little lady. I never thought I would love again, never thought I would marry again and certainly never thought I would be a mum. Life is good! Thank you for sharing your life, it's so lovely to see you happy ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I LOVE this. My heart is beyond happy for you. Thank you so much for such a wonderful comment 🧡

  • @valeriehill6382
    @valeriehill6382 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You look absolutely radiant, I’m so happy for you Becca ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much, always. 🧡

  • @hannah5168
    @hannah5168 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I lost my bf to brain cancer 2 months ago. He was 35. I watched him detoriating in hospice. It has been ao traumatising. Thank you for sharing

  • @brendapeterson4637
    @brendapeterson4637 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I understand everything you say Becca. Love after loss is much stronger because you appreciate everything in life. The little things, a touch, a smile,watching a beautiful sunset. These memories of our Husband's will live on in our hearts but we also can love again. Sooo happy for you Becca. Both our husbands were sick at the same time and I saw the pain he went through. I am at peace with my husband's death. The Dr's did everything they could and were so great. I think your at peace too.😊😊😊❤❤❤❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Brenda this comment meant more to me than you'll ever know. Thank you so very much for this, and for everything you have said and done in the past too. You're truly a special person. Thank you. 🧡

  • @JoshCartman
    @JoshCartman 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The videos of your late husband just came into my feed a day or so ago. I watched a couple of them and I was so impressed with how you handled yourself at least on camera, after the fact. You are a very beautiful person and I'm happy to have come across your channel and see that you seem to be doing quite well. I really enjoyed listening to the things you'd said as well, because I'd been dealing with the loss of my father, granted it was years before your husband passed. I don't have much of a family network around me, just my mom, who also is still grieving. Having that new person in your life, a connection is the best feeling ever, I imagine.

  • @Contemplationsinnature
    @Contemplationsinnature ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’m so happy for you to find happiness again - you deserve that :)

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Paul. 🧡🧡🧡

  • @Trekkifulshay
    @Trekkifulshay ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My middle child died when she was only 12. Her little sister was 8 years old. Since that time we've had lots of conversations about getting to enjoy things without sissy, doing things sissy would have enjoyed. It's hard. We very much are different people now than we were before. Losing a child/sibling is much different than losing a spouse. We've watched Up many times. Carl loved Ellie but now he has to figure out how to live and love without Ellie. I'm glad to see you happy. Wishing you all the best.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for sharing this with us. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain you've all been through, but it seems as though you are brilliant parents - make sure you get the support you need for yourself too. I know this comment will have helped so many people, thank you. 🧡

  • @kelleea2007
    @kelleea2007 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Becca I followed you and your late husband's journey. I was so delighted to see this video today! I'm so happy for you and your new relationship!! Many blessings to you both! 💖💖

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eeee thank you so much - you're so lovely. 🧡🧡🧡

  • @rpal320
    @rpal320 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dearest Becca, I'm so glad that you came back. You are wise beyond your years. Thank you for sharing. I love you! Bless you on your journey in every way! Hugs From Nina accrossed the pond in Colorful Colorado USA 💖🇺🇸

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so so much Nina. Your comment has filled me with so much love. 🧡

  • @HoraceTheKillerBunny
    @HoraceTheKillerBunny ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've followed your journey for a long time, and I thought about how hard it must have been for you at the time with the hospice and loss. I have such respect for you and the videos you make. And I'm truly happy you've found someone again!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so very much. 🧡🧡🧡

  • @HarryT1878
    @HarryT1878 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉
    As someone who has mainly watched your story/adventure from the side, rarely commented or been involved (as much as I am always incredibly close to interacting with your Instagram questions, TH-cam videos and the gone but never forgotten Twitch streams I loved in lockdown)
    I wish you and your new partner a lovely and bright future together.
    Lots of love to you both from North Wales 😁

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Harry, thank you. Thank you for being here - and for sticking around for so so long. I miss those streams?! Maybe I should bring one back for old time sake? You know I am always a message away.
      I was actually in North Wales on Saturday, such a gorgeous part of the country!!! So much love to you. 🧡🧡🧡

  • @michaelhayes476
    @michaelhayes476 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I followed the whole of Dan's journey - he would be so proud and so happy for you 🙂

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🧡🧡🧡

  • @always4peach687
    @always4peach687 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I remember your late husband, he was such an inspiration to me when my mom was diagnosed stage 4 breast cancer sadly mom passed away couple of months. She had a good fight. She been living with cancer for 6 years now shes my guardian angel 💓 bless you and your new relationship 💖 hugs my sweet becca ❤❤

  • @trourke4475
    @trourke4475 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Becca I am so truly happy for you.
    I love to see that bliss in your smile again!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      This means so much, you don't even know. 🧡

  • @marinatotduricic2087
    @marinatotduricic2087 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so happy for you and how much you’ve grown through this past five years.. i cant believe its been 5 years since your late husband… the most important thing in life is to take every bad situation as a lesson, to learn from it about other people and ourselves. I wish you two many years of happiness and health ❤️

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Marina. You're so so lovely and I am sending you the biggest hug. 🧡

  • @vegarddlmo2298
    @vegarddlmo2298 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i remember that first vid after your late husband had passed away,that was so touching and strong to see,but i think you have done the absolute right thing,to talk about it,that is so important,so and now it is so,so good to see you be so happy,you two sounds perfect for each other

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      End of credits fam!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you so so much for always being here. 🧡

  • @karenkane3220
    @karenkane3220 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Becca, seeing you so happy makes me so happy. Even thought I don’t know you, I have always had a “soft spot” for you. Your journey with Dan was intense, short and so sad. You deserve the best!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Owww this made me so so happy. Thank you. 🧡

  • @koreancanuck
    @koreancanuck 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I only recently watched some of your late husband’s videos. Sorry for your loss but I’m glad you seem to be doing well now, so thanks for sharing this video. It was good to watch.

  • @JacoboDeLobo
    @JacoboDeLobo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m so happy for you and I’m rooting for you and your love and just seriously appreciate you for making this video. It’s compassionate, lovely and I know it will help so many others💙

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Jacob, you're a legend. This filled me with so much hope and love. 🧡

  • @adrienneelyse9025
    @adrienneelyse9025 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I started watching your late husband's channel when my husband had a health scan & scare. He continues to have health scares but is very strong and healthy right now. Their personalities and looks are very similar, and I resonated with you being a young wife and our personalities being similar as well! It is so strange, yet I am grateful for TH-cam connecting people and similar life journeys. You have grown into yourself so much, and you are simply stunning! I hope that you start putting out more videos because your beauty and personality are needed in this world!

  • @Barbara.Barany
    @Barbara.Barany ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am so genuinely happy for you!! The best part of this video is when you said it is your partner who knows most about your late husband and that he supports you with your feelings (good and bad and mixed I guess). He must be a very good heart and have a mature personality. I think many people would inevitably fall into some kind of jelousy and have flare ups of the feeling of “having to compete with a ghost”. But instead, he supports you and understands the complexity of your situation. This is wonderful and I am so happy you don’t only match in so many things but you don’t have the burden of jelousy (again, inevitable for most of the people I think, except for special ones like you two ☺️) Wishing all the best on and on! 🧡

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You couldn't be more right with this comment. Thank you so so so much. I feel so incredibly lucky. 🧡

  • @SGM805
    @SGM805 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think you done so well supporting ur husband before he passed, well done you. Glad u found love again & are happy! “we all deserve it “ 💜🙏

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, I cannot tell you how much this means. 🧡

  • @miltongurl28
    @miltongurl28 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Becca you look so well and so happy! And beautiful. Love that colour on you. You’re beaming and it’s so wonderful to see.
    Loved hearing your little banter with Him in the kitchen. So sweet. 🧡 Can’t wait to meet him in a future video. 🤗
    Sending love from Ontario, Canada. 🇨🇦🍁

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hehehe thank you so so so much. I am so grateful to have you here. I MIGHT be able to convince him to get on camera one of these days... who knows!! 🧡

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      (p.s. I really want to come to Canada!!!)

  • @Marsha-lou1986
    @Marsha-lou1986 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am so happy you found love. I am coming up on my wedding anniversary, the second one since my husband passed. It is very hard, but I am taking it one day at a time.❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Take it day by day - and please seek some help if you need it.🧡

  • @terryrussell9590
    @terryrussell9590 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Becca I never comment but I have to say u look phenomenal ! It's wonderful to see u so happy .

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Terry!!!! Welcome to the comments - you're always welcome!! And thank you so very much. 🧡🧡🧡

  • @cherylcampbell7495
    @cherylcampbell7495 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Congratulations you deserve the best. I followed your hubbies journey and we all felt your pain. So glad your happy🙏💕👍

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so so much.🧡

  • @gaynorg5607
    @gaynorg5607 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Congratulations Becca, u truly deserve every happiness!
    I've also followed u since WSM days too, and couldn't be happier for u & ur partner 🧡

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww thank you! That honestly feels like another life. I am so happy to still have you here. 🧡

  • @icklehammie2974
    @icklehammie2974 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I followed you through dans journey, I barely know you (just from what you share) and I’m so proud and happy for you❤ ❤ wishing you nothing but positive thoughts and bright future x

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much Louise, always. This felt like a hug - so I am sending one right back at you. 🧡

  • @lfjphotog6779
    @lfjphotog6779 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Becca, I am so happy for you. Dan is smiling from the stars.❤

  • @rosiew8-fenn
    @rosiew8-fenn ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dear Becca, I’m SO HAPPY to hear about your new relationship. I followed you when you were with your husband. I’m so happy you’ve found someone new. I too am paranoid whenever my husband feels unwell due to losing my sister to cancer in 1994 when she was 46. I was 31 at the time. One step at a time. Sending you lots of love, Rosemary xx

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Rosemary!!!!!! That caps made me feel like you were giving me a hug haha!! I am so so sorry about your sister - I truly cannot imagine the pain. 🧡

  • @Edgeworthscravat
    @Edgeworthscravat 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've watched your journey, right from when your late husband's diagnosis became terminal, right through to now. I've seen you show us the grieving process from the start of grieving before the death, right til now.
    Thank you Becca, for showing us it all, and I am so glad you have new love in your life.

  • @heleniddon8323
    @heleniddon8323 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You deserve to be Happy again and I know Dan would want to see you smile again, sending love x ❤️

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, with all my heart. 🧡

  • @lauraodle5816
    @lauraodle5816 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful Becca ~ I am so happy for you! ❤ (I met your first husband when he started documenting his difficult journey, and he gave me some wonderful advice which I will treasure forever.) You are my inspiration and I look forward to the time when my heart can find peace and comfort. You help me to know that there is hope. 💞

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so glad you got to have that advice. Thank you so so much for being here. 🧡🧡🧡

  • @theoriginallacey
    @theoriginallacey ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love seeing and knowing you are doing well. When you are young, your feelings of everything are so much more intense and as a much older person, I can still remember that. I suspected you were going through quite a lot, and especially at the times you were so quiet. But here you are now, on the other side of it and experiencing love again at a time when you truly seem ready. It makes my heart so happy. I think we all go through love and loss of some kind as younger people and it does shape who we become and it is very traumatic. As for your feeling of everyone around you dying, that is my place now at 61. I have lost both of my parents, I have a brother that is terminally ill and people I have known throughout my life seem to be dying off at an accelerated rate. 😮 I guess at my age you should expect it more, but it is still unsettling. YOU however have a long time before that point, so enjoy every moment! And I will enjoy your enjoying that.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh Lacey!!! Please make sure you chat to someone if you feel it is all a little overwhelming. Life is tough, but by the sounds of it so are you!!! Thank you so so much for your wonderful words - I wish I could give you a big hug. 🧡

  • @panicduckky
    @panicduckky ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Becca I just wanted to say I really appreciated hearing you speak so openly about loss. I lost my best friend two years ago and your words really resonated with me. 💜

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish I could say something that would take the pain away - but we both know that is impossible. I really hope you're coping the best you can and I am so happy you are here. 🧡

    • @panicduckky
      @panicduckky ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IamBecca happy to be here 💙 Thanks for your kind words. Hope you’re having a lovely day!

  • @tanja1844
    @tanja1844 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    By chance, I was watching your late husband's journey. By chance, after that, I went to nursing school. By chance, after that, my beloved cat died, and later my beloved dad. I do this work and it is both a blessing and a penance. By chance, all this happened in these 5 years, or maybe it's not just a coincidence... And yes, I'm dying of fear that my loved ones will fall dead. Greetings from Croatia!

  • @DavidFerriday
    @DavidFerriday ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Becca, I originally followed from your late husbands vlogs and I'm so happy for you. You deserve every happiness.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for sticking around David. 🧡🧡🧡

  • @ArthurBurgan
    @ArthurBurgan ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love seeing you happy, Becca. Thank you for being so honest and all the best to you on your path❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank YOU for being here. 🧡

  • @Crimpycurls64
    @Crimpycurls64 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So glad you are happy and I realise I have the same fear of illness. I didn’t even realise I had it. You are sending such happy and positive vibes which is a joy xx

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for being here Gail. 🧡

    • @Crimpycurls64
      @Crimpycurls64 ปีที่แล้ว

      Always ❤️

  • @kalverda1
    @kalverda1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So happy for you. You truly deserve to fall in love again!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you. It has taken me a while to learn that. 🧡

  • @162sam
    @162sam ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am so happy that you have found love again, xx

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Sam, you're lovely. 🧡

  • @Theteaspot5
    @Theteaspot5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m SO happy to see you HAPPY!! Much love Becca, you deserve all the love and happiness in the world 🫶🏻

  • @juadwhite1391
    @juadwhite1391 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so sorry you had to go through this !!, i hope your current relationship will set a new and happy beginning in your life . Hugs !!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so so so much. 🧡

  • @nancypeteja6560
    @nancypeteja6560 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My Dear Sweet Becca...again you had me in tears. Your relationship with Dan was doomed from the git go. There was no miracle for him to live a long life. So you were in a short- term relationship that was bittersweet. ( I have to admit I did love the wedding video...fairytale.) I am so HAPPY that you found another man to love! That is another reason for my tears of happiness. You went thru such a dark time at a young age and all you felt & did was logical for it's time. And then...came your Godsend....HIM. Someone to share your life with and LIVE beyond the darkness. He must love you very much because of your "fears and ptsd" that he is willing to work thru it WITH you. I wish you all the happiness on this incredible LOVE journey. 😊❤🐦 a friend from Florida🌴🌊🌞🐬🍊

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh thank you so so so much - I'm sending you so much love your way. 🧡 Also - we were in Florida at the beginning of the year for 5 weeks!!!! My partner is still sulking that we had to come home - but we will definitely be back! 🧡

  • @maddysami4122
    @maddysami4122 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You deserve to be happy Becca I wish you all the best ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Maddy. 🧡🧡🧡

  • @Satanicprincess
    @Satanicprincess ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So proud of you, I was a fan of your late husband and from his brightness and courage. I am sure he would be proud of you and would be extremely happy for you. Your inspirational and courageous also. I'm sorry you have gone through all of the pain. You seem vibrant .Your a warrior. It's very understandable on what you feel you have been through a lot. Always best wishes and congratulations on finding love again🌹

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so so much lovely, I am beyond grateful for you. 🧡

  • @annadebechi5520
    @annadebechi5520 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this video Becca, all the best to both of you , have a wonderful life full of happiness and love xx

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Anna. 🧡

  • @MaryleaMemaw
    @MaryleaMemaw ปีที่แล้ว

    You are simply GLOWING! 🥰 I love the colorful background. Thank you for sharing with us. I followed your husband during my cancer journey and remember you at the end. Hope you have a great week. Proud to be a member of the EOC fam!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so so so much. I love the EOCF so very much - you all mean the world to me. 🧡

  • @yellowbird5411
    @yellowbird5411 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It is great to see you so happy! Love does that to us, doesn't it? We often don't realize what we are missing, as we get used to not having anyone or anything that is truly meaningful in our lives. We can garden, we can have pets, we can take walks or do exercise, we can visit friends and family, go shopping, go on a trip, etc. and it all is fun and enjoyable, with love mixed in. But romantic love, partnership love is another kind of love, and many of us never find it again, nor do we look for it. I think this is a big reason the love scammers are so successful, is because lack of love often leaves us vulnerable, and we want to believe we have found love again.
    Thank you for a lovely video, and those birds! If you ever run out of things to talk about, you can do bird sounds videos!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Lynn, Lynn, Lynn. Your comments... my heart always feels fuller after reading them. I may have to screenshot this and reread it over and over. Thank you. 🧡

  • @dolce616
    @dolce616 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so happy you found love again! I’ve been watching you since I started watching your late husband’s channel. I’m also proud of you and so happy that you stuck it out and kept your TH-cam channel going,! Keep on shining.. 😊❤
    EOCF
    From the states

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      EOCF is in the States!! I cannot wait to visit again. Thank you so so much for being here, you're wonderful and your comment has made my heart so full. 🧡

  • @missolivie
    @missolivie ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s great you found your new love. I remember his 5th memorial, but I can only find your channel now, it’s a great thing you find a great man.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so so much.

  • @willowwinkle
    @willowwinkle ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am SO happy for you!! ♥ Can't wait to know more about him! Love adorns and adds to our life, it never takes anything away from who we were. Fortunately, a really amazing partner loves everyone and everything we've been through as well in a sense (they hold space for our memories and join us where we need to be in the present). OMG, I so relate to the paranoia of others getting ill or leaving us. It's so great that your partner "gets it" and understands about this. I really struggle with this and there's really nothing you can do except for focus on the truth which is that even though life is an unpredictable thing, it can also be really good! We have to focus on what we have and not in the myriad ways things could go wrong or end, etc. I know that intellectually but still struggle with it from losing family members. End of credits fam, nothing so beautiful as the English countryside! ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Once again, thank you for making me cry and smile all at the same time... I need you to write me a book or something because you never fail to make me feel better. End of credits fam is so so so much more full of love thanks to you, friend. 🧡

  • @kingaziebakowska613
    @kingaziebakowska613 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Be happy Girl. You deserved it. Life is a gift. Use it.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Life IS a gift - you're so right. 🧡

  • @WendyLou72
    @WendyLou72 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m glad you made this video, I really think this will help so many others who aren’t sure how to deal with this! You’re an amazing person and I think he’d be happy for you to be happy again.. Best wishes to you and ur partner, you deserve it..

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honestly, almost bought me to tears again!! Thank you. 🧡

    • @WendyLou72
      @WendyLou72 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IamBecca You’re so very welcome❤️

  • @MsLoverPower
    @MsLoverPower ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Omg, when you said "when you loose someone that you love or loved to a health complication you suddenly become (or at least I did) very very paranoid that the people around you will all just sort of drop off one by one" I was like YES! That's the perfect wording of the feeling after such a loss. After my mom's passing in February 2022 I was paranoid that my dad is going to pass away as well. This thought still lingers in my mind, but not as intense and not as often as it did. Such a loss drastically changes a person and their point of view and unless you've been through that you can't really understand - you can sympathise but not truly understand. Thank you for being so open with us. You're a beautiful person inside and out ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am so sorry you understand that feeling... but am so grateful for your reaching out and sharing this because it has made me feel less alone in it too. Thank YOU for being here and sharing this with me. I really hope you're okay. 🧡

  • @alicjagodlewska1059
    @alicjagodlewska1059 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am Very happy for you! You give hope to many people that have lost or will loose someone in the future.

  • @adsykenna101
    @adsykenna101 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Its so wonderful to see you flourishing, Becca ❤ you deserve to be happy

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Adam. 🧡

  • @kellybreeyear9017
    @kellybreeyear9017 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Becca. I don't know if I've shared with our other similar struggles, that I am a nurse and work in Long-term care and hospice. I have come to know you after finding your late husband's story. You are both courageous for the work that has been done. They actually have 'death doulas' here in the states to help people navigate death and loss. It's one of the only sure things in this life and know your breaking stigmas and improving quality of life through your pain. Watching someone you love pass and actually being there, in my experience, is one of the more painful acts of love someone could go through. I lost my daughter's father to an overdose and although we were not together at the time I remember telling my friends and family that I felt like a widow because I didn't realize until I lost him that I still loved him so much. I didn't realize I never stopped loving him, that I had to change so I could move on and be healthy. The right thing sometimes feels very wrong, but we're the better for it if we find the strength and courage.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow. This comment just... took my breathe away. Thank you so much for sharing such a vulnerable and beautiful comment - I wish I could give you a hug. I have no other words except I am sending love your way. 🧡

    • @kellybreeyear9017
      @kellybreeyear9017 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IamBecca if all get back to vulnerable, these little ripples make waves! Xoxo

  • @orbitingdecay6797
    @orbitingdecay6797 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your husbands journey came at a, time I feared I had cancer I didn't. It turns out I have nasty progressive MS and will die from it. Bless you glad you're happy. Hope my wife will be too one day

  • @annieboat9999
    @annieboat9999 ปีที่แล้ว

    Becca I am SO SO happy you have found love again! I believe that Dan would want this for you and be very happy! He was such an amazing man and I can only imagine how difficult those years were for you. I hope you continue your channel I really enjoy watching you! All the best of everything! You deserve it.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so so so much. Sending a MASSIVE hug your way. I hope you continue to like my videos - I'm nervous after every upload haha! 🧡

  • @steffiee2783
    @steffiee2783 ปีที่แล้ว

    This really made me smile, it is so good to see you entering this new happy chapter in life. You so deserve to love and be loved romantically again. Grief and loss is so complex and so glad you are talking about it. Isnt it strange, death is the one thing we are all gaurenteed in life. Although it is painful, messy and sad talking about it openly and knowing we arent alone is so helpful. X

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What a gorgeous comment. Thank you for sharing this and for being here. 🧡

  • @Living_a_spoonie_life
    @Living_a_spoonie_life ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a lovely young lady. So wise beyond her years.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you 🥺 I needed that. Have felt low in confidence recently, so reading this made my day. 🧡

    • @Living_a_spoonie_life
      @Living_a_spoonie_life ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IamBecca Aw, sweet girl. We all have moments in life when we question our worth. Just make sure that those moments aren't precipitated by someone else's view. Don't give away your power. You control who you are. ❤️

  • @bephoebe
    @bephoebe ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so glad to see you happy and healthy. I followed your late husband's channel and have continued to follow you because, old fart mother that I am, I was worried for you and hoped you would heal and get to the place you are now. You are 100% correct, you cannot fill holes in yourself with relationships, stuff, food, drink, etc. You have to address it head on and deal with it. It has been lovely to see you reach this point in your journey. I can't wait to see what comes next for you.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Carol - AKA: Internet TH-cam Mum! You're so very lovely - thank you for being here. 🧡

  • @theshamy6573
    @theshamy6573 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your kind words😊 good luck!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      🧡🧡🧡

  • @shazcon71
    @shazcon71 ปีที่แล้ว

    You deserve all the love you get Becca, simply because of all you did for Your husband back then. You dealt with it how you could, and thankfully we still have you here. I knew him and I’ve also known you a long time and couldn’t be happier right now. You have a life to lead and I’m so glad you have a partner who is on the next part of your journey with you. So proud of you ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, I honestly cannot tell you how much this means to me. 🧡

    • @shazcon71
      @shazcon71 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@IamBecca you deserve a lifetime of happiness my love ❤️❤️

  • @AnikPMJ
    @AnikPMJ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So happy for you! Much love and happiness to both of you! ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Anik!!!! So much love to you. 🧡

  • @purpledragonfly4
    @purpledragonfly4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think Dan would be very proud of you Becca. ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you. 🧡

  • @jamiecape8554
    @jamiecape8554 ปีที่แล้ว

    Becca, how wonderful for you!!! May you have a long, loving journey together! 🥰

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so so much Jamie - that means the world. 🧡

  • @bmrjma2144
    @bmrjma2144 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hard to believe it’s already been 5 years. I actually met and began to follow you thru Dan’s journey. I wish you luck and happiness in this next chapter! ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thank you so so so much for being here - you are so lovely. 🧡

  • @PatB303
    @PatB303 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's so neat to have seen you blossom from the quiet & shy girl in Dan's videos to this radiant, wise young woman. I'm so glad to hear that you've found love again, you deserve it. Do you still have your & Dan's kitty?

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much. 🧡 Todays video is all about her! So watch this space. There are some sneaky clips at the end you won’t want to miss! 🧡

    • @PatB303
      @PatB303 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IamBecca I just saw it. I'm so glad that you both got a happy ending ❤And don't beat yourself up over the decisions you made while you were grieving. You were hurting, probably exhausted, very overwhelmed, young and dealing with PTSD, scared of anyone else dying or being lost. You both came out of it all safe. ❤❤

  • @missydebby
    @missydebby ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So glad you are doing well :) And I'm so happy for you

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Debbie! Long time no speak, I really hope you're well. I still have your art - it is sensational. Thank you for being here. 🧡

  • @dcworld1076
    @dcworld1076 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    end of credits fam signing in once again

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YESSSS!!! EOCF!!! Sending a massive hug your way. Hopefully I'll have something exciting for the EOCF soon... 🧡

  • @grandthanks
    @grandthanks 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just echoing what so many have said- it’s so lovely to see you Becca ❤

  • @kristypaul8067
    @kristypaul8067 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So happy for you both on finding each other

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, so am I! 🧡

  • @beverlysettle8235
    @beverlysettle8235 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for sharing Becca. My marriage of 28 years ended in divorce, and I have PTSD from him. My nightmares are about him. I wake up feeling like he has just joined me in my bed and it is scary. He scares me. I need to get over it… it has been over 5 years and I have moved 30 miles away from him and I still can’t block it out of my brain. Everything you say is helpful to someone and I am just mostly very happy for you, dear! ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sending you a gentle hug your way. Please seek help if you need it - it really does make a difference. You're so brave and should be so proud of yourself - look how far you have come! 🧡

  • @tondah
    @tondah ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So glad you found happiness again 🥰🥰

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much. 🧡

  • @cynthiacurtis5305
    @cynthiacurtis5305 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so happy for you and "Him" to have found each other ☺️. I'm just so happy that you found love again ❤️.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hehe thank you always Cynthia! 🧡

  • @tarah8919
    @tarah8919 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s awesome. I’m happy that you found love again

  • @michellewilliams8796
    @michellewilliams8796 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U Look So Pretty Becca & Congrats To Ur New Love & Ur Glowing With Love❤❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww thank you so so so much Michelle!!! Sending a massive hug your way.🧡🧡🧡

    • @michellewilliams8796
      @michellewilliams8796 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IamBeccaTy For Ur Hug All The Way From England To America,U Deserve Happiness & Love Looks Beautiful On U❤❤

  • @ann-sofiefridellsandberg4477
    @ann-sofiefridellsandberg4477 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy for you! Live yourself best life🌺💕

  • @UltimateDorito
    @UltimateDorito ปีที่แล้ว

    The loss you experienced was a horrific one. I remember sone of the details you recounted still five years later as a casual fan, so I cannot imagine the trauma that it was to actually be there and witness ot firsthand. Of COURSE you still have nightmares! I'm so so glad though that you have found someone to understand your journey and support you with that as it's part of who you are now.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your kind and understanding words. 🧡

  • @RcAddict88
    @RcAddict88 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good to see you happy again 😇😊

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so very much. 🧡

  • @nicolagerrard2154
    @nicolagerrard2154 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So happy for you xx

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Nicola!! 🧡🧡🧡

  • @selinabaez6258
    @selinabaez6258 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve followed you for a while! Through Dans account and then after he passed I followed your own account. I’m so happy for you! This is fantastic and Dan would be so happy for you. I’m also very happy you are open about Dan in this relationship because that continues his memory . I really understand how you feel about being terrified about your boyfriends health. I’ve lost my step mom and grandma to cancer and I watched them decline and pass and now the people I love most I get so scared they will have or get cancer. It’s very understandable you feel this way.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so very much for being here - I am so sorry for all of your loss. I wish I could give you a gentle hug. 🧡

  • @susan5301
    @susan5301 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think it's lovely you found love again. I followed you and your husband threw out his story. It just broke my heart watching you go through it all. You deserve all the happiness you can find! You're such a good young woman! Enjoy! ♥

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww thank you so much for being here, Susan. This made me smile. 🧡

  • @lenilulu
    @lenilulu ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this video. It's so nice to hear that you're happy now and I think everything you said was spot on. Wish you all the best ♥

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so so so much. 🧡🧡🧡

  • @darlenew1981
    @darlenew1981 ปีที่แล้ว

    Doggy kisses for us! LOL
    As I said before, I'm so so happy for you! Your face looks so happy and radiant. I think because your new love had something that happened in a relationship in the past, he understood what you were/are going through. Someone else might have not understood. I'm glad you can talk to him about things. It's definitely very normal to feel paranoid when he's feeling a little ill. I'm glad he understands that too.
    Your partner's parents have a beautiful place! I love being around nature and hearing the birds chirping.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Nothing quite like puppy kisses!!!!! 🧡🧡🧡 And thank you, always, I have loved reading all of your comments today - my heart is so so full. 🧡

  • @caroljedynasty4773
    @caroljedynasty4773 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You certainly were meant to be your late husband's wife. You are an "old soul" as they would say with your words of wisdom. I am so glad you have a new love in your life. I wish you happiness and peace for you both.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, I can't tell you how much this means. 🧡

  • @tumbleweedmoon777
    @tumbleweedmoon777 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So happy for you God's love and Blessings ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      🧡🧡🧡

  • @Namipew
    @Namipew ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy for you Becca! ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!! 🧡🧡🧡

  • @supagepagechannel9139
    @supagepagechannel9139 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am really happy for both of you. Wishing you both the best. xxxx

  • @aussiegirl2003
    @aussiegirl2003 ปีที่แล้ว

    Soooo happy for you luv.
    You deserve a happy future ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so so much, always.

  • @lindasmith6072
    @lindasmith6072 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How old were you when you got married ? I'm so glad to hear you are in love once again. Grief is so strange, and eventually, life moves forward. That doesn't mean we abandon those we lost. They would want us to be happy.

  • @terrymoser47
    @terrymoser47 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice to see you back Rebecca, I'm so happy for you.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      It is good to be back, Terry! 🧡

  • @pauladavies7944
    @pauladavies7944 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's lovely to see you happy 😊