We need to break the stereotype of mental health, people suffering with anxiety and depression are not taken serious (or are mocked or labeled as *mad*)and going to a psychiatrist is considered to be such a big taboo. Thankyou for spreading awareness about such a serious issue.
I still cant talk about it. Both in my in-laws and mother side, no one took me seriously. It was such a tough period that honestly im scared of getting pregnant again. It's been 3 years and that physical stitches pain and the emotional instability and loneliness in me was killing me. There was no help whatsoever and it was Allah maaf kerey very very tough for me
I had c section & had a baby boy, who died after 8 days, All the pain I went through physically emotionally and then in the end I got nothing in my hand noone understands my pain I can never forget it I still cant belv it happened..
@@NedaBeautyOfficial hug you dear. I hope all is well at your side now. It's very very difficult to bear such a loss and then go through such phase and hear all the stuff too
@@NedaBeautyOfficial exactly my story had baby he died after 7 days.. too much physical and emotional pain and not even a single person understood. Even up till now I am dying with that pain inside me.. these issues need to be tackled by our life partner... Mjy meray husband pagal kehtay h
i have faced depression and i m not married, ohhhhhh mjhey aesa lagta tha Allah say m batein kr rahe hun. duniya kuch b nh hai. kisi say bat krny ka dil nh hota tha, aesa lagta tha merey andar kuch doob gaya h. puri rat jagti thi .ek pal ki neend nh thi . tab m n quran ki tilawat suni repeated mode par or hand free laga kr. or kia sukun mila tha❤️
I remember with my first born I used to cry over everything!!! Felt anxiety over every little thing that was happening around me. I used to hallucinate someone is with me all the time, experienced sleep paralysis. My relationship with my husband and in-laws suffered because they thought I’m being a drama queen. Sub kay buchay hotay hain you are the only one. I literally left my in-laws house and moved in with my parents for 3 months. People really need to understand how tough it is for new moms to adjust to the new life with the baby at the same time keeping it together for yourself. Be considerate and try to help if you can’t do that at least don’t disturb the new mom with your viscous comments and unnecessary commentary.
Omg I feel like I am listening to myself, I have been through it and it was for a long time for me. It was worst. I still get the panic attacks and palpitations. I advise every other new mommy around me to take care of themselves first, the baby will be well taken care off. Depression is an illness and it should be well taken care and well treated as well. I literally wait for your show. They are always worth watching.
People don't realise how mental stability can impact women. Having a baby recently myself and having a huge transition from an ambitious,carer oriented and will to do so much in life and then towards motherhood it is veryyyyyyy tough journey for women. Iam so happy that this was highlighted in this episode. Thanks kanwal and the team
I had PPD where i got the thoughts of killing my baby or hurting him. My family was settled abroad and I had not much help from my inlaws. I didnt discuss it with anyone coz i didnt know what was this all happening to me. I googled and found out myself and got to know ive been going through ppd. I went to my gynae she prescribed some medicines and yes i was all fine in 10 days. We need not to ignore any slightest of changing that we are experiencing. Everything happens for a reason. Thankyou kanwal for bringing up this topic.
Alhumdulillah, I didnt go through this...but inky because I had an amazing medical team who spoke about depression and postpartum issues throughout pregnancy...I was fortunate to be in UAE and signed up with a hospital that had prenatal as well as postpartum classes and training. Mentally preparing for changes makes a huge difference to your health when it's time to deal with such situations. I could not have gone through my pregnancy and not have to deal with sever aftereffects without my husband. He was so understanding and accommodating. Some days he just took our child put for a long time...so I could get a break and do whatever I had to relax and unwind. And it was such a blessing. We are now approaching the birth of our 2nd child and i no longer have the luxury of such a medical facility but...we both keep reminding each other of our previous trainings and recalling little bits from them...inshAllah all goes well. Ive seen my older sisters however....both went through terrible postpartum depression and the only thing that pushes even more into depression is unhelpful, uncooperative family circle around you. Surround yourself with positive people...dont lend an ear to negative people...be it your own husband and in-laws or whoever. Your child and their health as well as yours is the only thing that should matter to you for the first 6months of motherhood. Block out negativity...block out negative people....tell them you dont need crap from them in this stage of your life...if you do not stand up for yourself postpartum...you will end up in most horrific kind of depression...specially when you are looking after a new born and having thoughts that you are not good enough...just because of negative people. Dont let ylanyone do this to you. Take control...even if it means you will have a bad name for a long time to come...acha hai...aik bar shut up call is better than suffering in silence.
Postpartum blues turns in postpartum depression or postpartum psychosis. It's v important to get help from psychiatrist n psychologist to get rid of it. By the way it should be must that our gynea clinics must have consultent who assess every mother before discharge.
When she pause for a second I cried because in that particular moment every depression person can understand how tough it is to bear.She is right we always thought will it keep coming back will I have to bear it all my life?will I become suicidal?Will I die like that?😫Depression is real please take it seriously
Habib Sherazi I don't understood today's story kindly can u explain it to me ? I m going to marry next month and I don't know about this thing after delivery.
The bottom line is if we discuss with each other the realities of motherhood, especially in the post partum period, rather than the glorified stories that people like to portray, then new mothers will be less likely to fall into these mental health challenges. Post partum is an extremely difficult time and it’s important to have the right supports around you and be prepared for the realities. I wish this was something I knew more about before I had my baby. And I was a Med student too. I’m glad you’re better now. ❤️
I was in postpartum depression all three times after having my babies. All three Csections. It was painful. I don't ever want to go back there. But in a community we live no one cares about mother. They don't care how the woman is doing. I use to cry during nights. My mother was self absorbed in her own things. My first child gave me very hard time. She use to be up whole night. No one cared. Every one said its only Mother's job to take care of baby.
When you conceive a new life something bigger than a body is entering in us, thats why we must pray to God and do everything to please him during our pregnancy and later after delivery too
Yes my dear dnt know if u r full aware but there is a soul that is in touch with us, and the telepathy with that soul and conexion of emotion to that soul which is your own child is just instant, there is a traditional knowledge of this, when u r a mother you feel it, no need to hear it from anybody because you will experience it. To be on a good mood and have positive thougths and emotions is fully important thats why praying to God is most important than taking medicine
the first thought I had this morning was that kanwal is going to post today I was so busy with all the work now I have just picked my phone and am watching your video just wanted to let you know that I am your biggest fan and that you are a great inspiration can I please get a heart and please reply me
This brings back a lot of sad memories. I always tell the family of my clients, "if you haven't had depression you can understand how it feels but you can definitely offer support." Hopefully, I will meet you one day Kanwal. I have been through depression myself for many reasons. Postpartum depression, religious abuse. Religious abuse is huge issue in our society. I wish I could do an episode with you about my experiences. inshaAllah. Great work. Keep it up!
Very sensitive topic is episode Ko dekhne ke Baad hum kisi bhi ek lady ki help kar paye even khud ki bhi to ek achievement hogi thank you so much ma'am.
Ur comment make me laugh 😆 so had but well thats true as u said of jinn and kala jadu. Hamaray han log jaldi jaldi kala jadu jinn tona totka or nazar e bad ko blame krna start ho jatay hain
Really thankful and grateful to my mother who told me clearly that you will go through post partum depression and you will be fine... I handled it in much better way.. I think parental advices and counselling in every aspect of life is a must.
This video will help so many women .I have been with postpartum depression and can totally relate what she went through .About time people should help people with mental health issues just like we do for physical health .Thanks kanwal Ahmed ❤️❤️
As a doctor you should talk and spread awareness about postpartum depression as you her self went through with theses horrific symptoms . You are brave🙏🏻
I developed severe anxiety after my 1st son. Alhamdulillah am doing much better now. This video just seemed to be the story of my life.Everything she said. Is 100% true. May Allah ease the pain of every women out their struggling due to this. AMEEN.
We seriously need to educate people about postpartum depression. I’ve struggled so much after my both deliveries unable to explain my condition to others. Thank you Kanwal, this episode will definitely create awareness among people.Love and duas.
First of all, I would like to pay gratitude to all the mothers. lndeed, mothers have to face monomentious pain during pregnancy that's why, Islam upright the status of Mothers / women. Second, as far as depression is concerned, every third Pakistani is suffering from depression (according to a study). In addition, our ignorance and irresponsible behaviors further add insult to the injury. We need to understand that the intensity of internal pain is far severe than external one. Wish we can understand 😔!
Very Well Said Bro. Indeed. Its a reality fact that giving birth is the second most painful thing for a human being. We should seriously spread awareness about depression and help out who are suffering through this mental trauma.
there are 3 main parts of a human, spiritual physical and mental.. all these three are really important. we can't ignore any of them.. we all should remove the stereotypes of our society.. and should support the people whom are suffering from it. if you are physically unable you can survive but if you are mentally unwell you can't even manage your survival.
The host is so kind & choose soft words to speak her words reflect her personality & thinking sach a positive woman may Allah bless her❤❤❤plzz being gentle you don't have any idea how your words can break someone in pieces
THANK YOU so much for talking about it ! I am in 9th month still but I like to read about “what to expect” so that I am prepared for what can be there in store .. but honestly wasn’t getting much on postpartum depression ... this episode felt like a friend talking and telling you all about it ... dil se shukriya ! Also , the way she was talking was exactly like we talk in our family ... aisa laga my family member is talking ... it’s so comforting !! - Love from a sister across the border !!
aafeen muddasir kis topic k bare me bat horahi hai mujhe such me aj k video k bare me kuch samjh nahi aya Kya ap smajhta sakti hain I m a girl too or mujhe que nahi pata is sab k bare me
@@kalsoomjamali5046 Mostly people don't recognise this as a proper condition that needs medical intervention to resolve. As physically you can't see its symptoms, its sadly taken as something in one's head
This is so true Mjhe lgta tha k Allah ne itne chote se bache ki zimmedari mjh pe daal di... i cried like maniacs Yes this happens it took lots of courage to come out of all this I feel myself speaking thru her I broke down once again at the thought of what i went thru
My mum has depression and schizophrenia. She also PND and post natal pleural psychosis. I urge all new mothers to visit their doctor or midwife and get support if within a few days it does not go away! For all expectant mums please attend ante natal classes wherever possible where support and advice will be given. Kanwal, Thanks for this! A taboo that needs to be eradicated! It’s no joke and has a lasting impact on both sufferers and carers! x
You were lucky there were caring people around... In my case there was zero support zero physical ND emotional support...infact if I tried to share..my husband nd in-laws made fun.. without extending anykind of help
Tooba, thank you for sharing your traumatic experience. It isn't easy to revive those moments ,talking about it again. Depression is very difficult to diagnose and treat. Acceptance is the biggest step towards healing. I really hope that pregnant women are more aware of signs and symptoms so that if they have such experiences, they accept themselves and understand that this sometimes happens and it is okay to seek help. Thank you Kanwal for your continued service. Happy Kanwal-day to all😊😍
When I gave birth to my daughter by c-section, my uncle visited me in the hospital and the first thing that came from his mouth was how fat I have become.
When i deliverd my baby boy ...mri aik czn mry pas hospital i or baby dekh k boli ...kitna kamzor h baby ..bs isi time me depression me gyi or pory 40 days roti hi rhi . bht mushkil time tha but after 40 days me normal hogyi ti . ALLAH ka shuker
My condition was really worst after baby birth. i went through postpartum depression and it was so tough no one understand's. panic attacks forgetting everything day by day fighting with husband fear of losing baby, someone will harm him and wasn't touching him aniexty uffff and many more even i do not recognized my first relatives. apni behan ki shakal bhool gae the and she was infront of my eyes & my brain fails to accept her. it was so tough. i didn't consult to any psychiartrist just because of fear k mery baby ko koe nuqsan na ho jaye and my behavior was sometimes very bad with baby . ☹️ koe awareness ni kici ko but my Ammi was a true psychiatrist she helped me alot . ❤
Alas, depression is so common nowadays. I myself have gone through a traumatic experience at a very young age and it broke me from inside when I realised what had happened. At the age of 17, no one can really believe that I struggle from depression. Sadly, The region of South Asia comprises of the most depressed nations of the world.
I had worst post oartum depression but thank God I got treated with the help of docotr in USA and now when I looks back I feel I was in dark tunnel where I didn’t see any light .It was so horrible that I don’t want to look back .I had severe hallucination and hated my baby .i used to cry for no reason and it continued for months and months .Thanks for this video
I had been in postpartum depression..it took 2 years to cured. Yes...people are insensitive towards it. Log muje bolte the ki mai natak kr rhe hu..thank you kawal for posting such content. Tooba..you are strong person ..trust me..you will get over it completely. Just keep seeing therapist..
One of the least talked about topics. No two women are same. If someone goes through an experience doesnt give them the right to gaslight someone else's experience or assume things. More Power to women going through these tough times
Hats of to team kawanlful for discussing this topic. Talking about mental illness is such a taboo in our society this needs to end now. Hope that we are able to support such .people around us .
Like always,you choose a real important and sesitive topic I like how you always try to spread awareness of the little but yet the important topics that are society neglect the most .
Yet another inspiring session on a much needed topic. We, as a society need to remove the stigma around mental health. Just as a pathological illness is not a choice and we cannot expect for example, a person suffering from Diabetes to self-heal. Similarly, psychopathological disorders are also not a choice and we cannot expect a person suffering from depression, schizophrenia or anxiety to self-heal. Kanwal please try to invite more brave people like this sister to share their stories around mental health. I am a Mental Health Counselor and an Art Therapy in training. I can appreciate the importance for both verbal and non-verbal therapies in healing certain traumas that actually affect and impair the brain chemistry. Jazakillah khairan for these wonderful reminders and for trying to break the taboos around them.
I work as psychologist n I joined for three months n I took three cases of postpartum psychosis. It's v problematic not for the woman but for her own child n family
I am also a new mother of 2 and half month baby...i also expericed all this ...thank god my parents brother ,sisters and husband all are nice but inlaws very mean...meri saas ne puri pregancy nahi pucha .. After pregrancy only care me for 3 days..i was gone in depression..because mushkil lgta tha kaise hoga sab ..kaise krun ..crying all the time..husband aur maine lafi suffer kiya...parents ne v pura help kiya ..but logo ko smjhna chahiye
Wow, again watched it n like the word she Is trying to Adjust n not doing Nashukra pan, after viewing this I also realized that I too went through bad depression after my first child, and zero support and realizations. I don't know how I recovered, but was very bad to my child, never enjoyed her and was at anxiety all times for three to four years!!!!
Finally koi to hai jisne yeh issue b uthaya... Postpartum depression is HELL and I've went through it twice.. Koi nahi samjhta..inlaws kehte hain "sab khayal rakhte hain eska phir b roti rehti hai" Yaha par ye lady keh rahi hain enke paas supportive log thay jo enke baby ko sambhal leete thy magar ye bht rare hai.. Meri episiotomy b hui dono dafa aur khud hi babies ko sambhala...saari saari raat jaagi...bhuki rahi roti rahi... Koi nai smjha.. Mujhe lagta tha kisi se mere mun pe hath rakh ke mera sans band kr diya hai aur main mar b nahi skti... Postpartum depression labor aur delivery se zyada takleed day hai...
Exactly Depression is like a slow poisoning..... it's really difficult to tell someone or to share but it's really important ... today I'm going through this depression because of so many reasons I can't sleep I can't eat 😭 Even I'm not even able to talk to somebody.... Khair May Allah swt protect each and everyone 🙏🙏
Sab khty hain drood parhho nimaz parrho theek hy lakin jab zindgi guzarna mushkil ho jaay to ibadat ki himat nhi rhti.bus apny andar sy himat ko lana parrhta hy.
ALLAH sab maaon ko sukoon dey aur woh apnay bachay achi tarah parwarish karsakain ameen...eik baat.. agr helping hand nahi dey saktay maa ko tu usko kuch kaho bhi mat try to understand her maa ki situation diffrent yet same pain of delivery baby...
V.brave of this lady to come forward and talk Abt depression..people need to be sensitive towards mental health..it's high time..it's equaly normal to see psychiatrist as it's normal to see physician..
In USA I saw new mothers become suicidal and it’s difficult to become mother and it’s overwhelming responsibility a female sometimes thinks too much for her . It’s a first experience to creat a life.
Bht acha topic h kanwal mjhe b aj tk postpartum depression h pregnancy m b hua or aj delivery ko 3 months hogai h mjhe b kisine nh smjha even my husband me aj b rooti hn log mjhe taunt krte h k bachi kali h patli h me b bht weak hogai hon khari nh hoskti bt me alone ;(( mjhe husband bahar b nh legai unko bs olad aziz h
M from India, my son is now 4 year old. I gave birth to him through c sec and had beautiful 9 months of preg period. I have a very supportive husband.. but I went through post partum depression and I still feel I am into it.. I talk to all the new mothers about P.D and educate them and help them to by giving mental strength.. life changes completely after marriage and after baby it's more responsibilities added.. at times even if everybody is supportive we still can go into depression.. my husband keeps asking me, what has he lacked to provide me and what made me go into depression and I just don't know what to answer him...
M going through this again after 4 years when i had my 1st baby... Now m going to have my 2nd... My husband never understood this till now... And no one is with me except Allah.. I want my husband to understand but he dosent
I totally agree with this conversation .all my 3 kids were born in england are here a health visitor and mid wife used to visit soon after ur delivery.when i went home from hospital my health vusitor asked me are y feeling anxity or any depression at first i didnt understand y she is asking abiut that but few days later i started feeling anxity especially evening times made me scared i thiught may b coping with sleepless nights and a my body is going through soo much it might get better sooon.people come and told u how to take care of urself during pregnancy but no one takes care of u when u need it the most after having a baby thats the time when a women needs more emotional help then any other time of her life.
Wonderful episode ! Am glad the guest came forward with alot of courage to speak about it. Kanwal if a neurologist comes on board to highlight issues majorly that women go through would not only educate but create awareness IA and we all would know how to deal , handle or support such sufferings arounds us. Good luck to your hardwork!
I'm related to this 😭😭 i can understand her how bad anxiety and depression are I'm suffering from axiety and depression since 1 year and the worst thing is I'm just 20😭
Wow! Kanwal you are bring up such beautiful topics to speak out! These are needed hour issues to be addressed especially in the Asian world. More power to you girl!
Ppd is real!! And nothing abnormal. Part of the post pregnancy and hormonal changes. Ppl need awareness and how to deal with it.esp ppl around and need much support system
I went through C section and now I have such a fear to have a second baby. Because I was in miserable situation through out my whole period of pregnancy.
One thing is important to not just educate mother but husband and other family member they are living in the same home . Sad part she is a dr could not help her self and if we think about women from other socioeconomic , education a backgrounds what their life going through in that situation .
100 prsent ture......koe bhi depration ko os wakat tak nhi samj sakta jab tk wo khud xperiance na kar la bcz daikhna ma aik acha bhala insan hota haa magar os k dimag ma kya chal rha hota haa os ki zahni halat kitni kabl e taras hoti haa maa khud is depration sa guzar chki hon is liya na sirf ap k word ko sun sakti hon in ko feel bhi kr rahi hon.dosra socail preasue koe apko nhi samjh rha hota...bht muskil Allah tala sb ko is bemari sa mahfooz rakhy sb dua krna nxt pragnancy ma mara sath asa na ho
One of my cousin mami , she delivered a baby boy 2 yrs ago.... after few days she was in depression, the reason in unknown to my relatives they concluded that 'jhapat ho gyi, behn ki shadi me chali gyi thi bacha hone k bad' ... till day yhi hal hai unka...she is unable to use her hand properly, her baby is under care of her mother-in- law... though her in laws are good but she kept herself bound , whatsoever she is going through only she can understand, ..but log kehte hai koi saya a gya uspr... Feeling disgusted... nevertheless Love to Kanwal and team for raising such topic!!
OMG i remembered my experience before 2 years. my case was even worse because i had stillborn and my placenta was abrupt and it was premature delivery. and the medical staff was even calling me "wehmi" hai and the person who was shifting me in ward after my 2nd d&c called me "actor hai drama kr ri hai" . It was my 1st child also. i was the one who never even heard about the name of d&c.
@@LevelUpYourTrading yes and this is the most painful thing that those were not ignorant or unaware of situation. They must be dealing with hundreds of such people.
Mujhy bhi TB hai life mein. Bht si pehle problems aye hain abhi age 16 hai aur bachpan se apni health ki problem ko mene bardasht kiya lekin ab jb itni problem k baad mujhy TB hua toh mein bilkul akeli hoon Ku k meri problems mere ghar walon k liye aam si baat bn chuki hai aur ab mein 16 ki hoon lekin apni medicine khud lene jati hoon mere sath koi nhi hota mere ghar wale bhi meri problems se thak kr mera sath chodh rhay hain
Depression is a very serious illness. It should be addressed rather than critize the victim. Celebrities such as Deepika Padukone and Selena Gomez have gone through the trauma of depression. We as a society need to help the ones who suffer through it. I would request all husbands to care for their wives as much as they can. They need more support from their husbands. And also gynacologists need to help and guide patients on how to deal through postpartum depression too. May ALLAH Bless Kanwal and All Soul Sisters. Aameen.
I had postnatal depression and I was alone and I I had nothing to divert my attention. I survived but left lots of scars on my mental and emotional health.
I m realat this story from start.mujhy 3 bachy k baahad sy depression hua.ilaj nhi hua barrhta gya.bht arsa but takleef deakhi.abhi tak I m fighter.main larrhoon gi akyli hoon koi nhi smjhta iss bimari believe me.bacha paida karny ki takleef or phir us k bahd sab ka aik hi swal k beti hui hy yah beta.bht dukh hota hy k aik maan ki takleef kisi ko nazar nhi aati.sab usy koi masheen smjhty hain.paida krna.sambhalna.its not a joke.mujhy b bht mushkil lgta hy itni zimadariyan uthana.but I can do inshallah.
PEOPLE NEED TO LEARN THAT MENTAL HEALTH IS AS IMPORTANT AS OUR PHYSICAL HEALTH... WE NEED TO BE A BIT MORE SENSITIVE AND RESPECTFUL AND SUPPORTIVE TOWARDS MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES AND TOWARDS THE PEOPLE WHO ARE EXPERIENCING IT... I appreciate her husband and her family for being there for her and understanding her.....thats what all of us have to do if we see somebody going through the same thing.
Comment krtay acha to ni lg ra but after marriage women ki life ma bohat ziada depression hota ha throughout life khali pregnancy ki bat ni .. esay ma agr husband caring or smjnay wala ho to life asaan ha ni to zindagy har mor mushkil say mushkil hoti jaty ha 😢😢
Such a great video. People don't want to talk about it because ho yeh kia baat hui. Bacha hua hai bas depression kuin ho gi they don't know that a women go through alot of changes like hormonal, mental and physical. When you tell the mom to take care of herself and baby tell her to take care of her mental condition too.
It’s sad no body care about PPD especially in Pakistan this should air on Tv also it can happen to any newly mother she is a doctor her husband is a doctor and she was going through this !lots of love and hugs🌹
I feel ya so deeply .I just had blues. And that awful time still troubles me.they support I got and I dint got .both r unforgettable...we shuld b more empathetic towards new mommies ...I keep telling ppl .its already tuff time .dont make it worse ..make it easier plz.understand them plz. It was much needed.... my 1st post partum period was indeed like a dark cloud .exactly like she said...and on top of that behaviours !!!
Hit the like button before watching because I know it'll be worth it.
Same here. 🙌
So trueeee
Please please highlight this issue on larger platforms as I have suffered and still I am suffering from this.
Please support us.
We need to break the stereotype of mental health, people suffering with anxiety and depression are not taken serious (or are mocked or labeled as *mad*)and going to a psychiatrist is considered to be such a big taboo.
Thankyou for spreading awareness about such a serious issue.
I still cant talk about it. Both in my in-laws and mother side, no one took me seriously. It was such a tough period that honestly im scared of getting pregnant again. It's been 3 years and that physical stitches pain and the emotional instability and loneliness in me was killing me. There was no help whatsoever and it was Allah maaf kerey very very tough for me
May Allah ease your pain.
If possible consult a psychiatrist.he will definitely help u.
I had c section & had a baby boy, who died after 8 days, All the pain I went through physically emotionally and then in the end I got nothing in my hand noone understands my pain I can never forget it I still cant belv it happened..
@@NedaBeautyOfficial hug you dear. I hope all is well at your side now. It's very very difficult to bear such a loss and then go through such phase and hear all the stuff too
@@NedaBeautyOfficial exactly my story had baby he died after 7 days.. too much physical and emotional pain and not even a single person understood. Even up till now I am dying with that pain inside me.. these issues need to be tackled by our life partner...
Mjy meray husband pagal kehtay h
i have faced depression and i m not married, ohhhhhh mjhey aesa lagta tha Allah say m batein kr rahe hun. duniya kuch b nh hai.
kisi say bat krny ka dil nh hota tha, aesa lagta tha merey andar kuch doob gaya h. puri rat jagti thi .ek pal ki neend nh thi .
tab m n quran ki tilawat suni repeated mode par or hand free laga kr.
or kia sukun mila tha❤️
I remember with my first born I used to cry over everything!!! Felt anxiety over every little thing that was happening around me. I used to hallucinate someone is with me all the time, experienced sleep paralysis. My relationship with my husband and in-laws suffered because they thought I’m being a drama queen. Sub kay buchay hotay hain you are the only one. I literally left my in-laws house and moved in with my parents for 3 months. People really need to understand how tough it is for new moms to adjust to the new life with the baby at the same time keeping it together for yourself. Be considerate and try to help if you can’t do that at least don’t disturb the new mom with your viscous comments and unnecessary commentary.
Yes dear i can understand but hate that hamaray b bacahy thay hum to saray kam kartay thay tab to pamper b nh thay
True. I think not being able to help is a thing which can be ignored but being unconcerned about the situation is wrong.
M going through it ...I wish to come out soon
how are you now
Were you scared?
Allah o Akber... Depression is so scary yar :(
May Allah save everyone from it
AMEEN
Ameen
Omg I feel like I am listening to myself, I have been through it and it was for a long time for me. It was worst. I still get the panic attacks and palpitations. I advise every other new mommy around me to take care of themselves first, the baby will be well taken care off. Depression is an illness and it should be well taken care and well treated as well.
I literally wait for your show. They are always worth watching.
People don't realise how mental stability can impact women. Having a baby recently myself and having a huge transition from an ambitious,carer oriented and will to do so much in life and then towards motherhood it is veryyyyyyy tough journey for women. Iam so happy that this was highlighted in this episode. Thanks kanwal and the team
I had PPD where i got the thoughts of killing my baby or hurting him. My family was settled abroad and I had not much help from my inlaws. I didnt discuss it with anyone coz i didnt know what was this all happening to me. I googled and found out myself and got to know ive been going through ppd. I went to my gynae she prescribed some medicines and yes i was all fine in 10 days.
We need not to ignore any slightest of changing that we are experiencing. Everything happens for a reason.
Thankyou kanwal for bringing up this topic.
I never got to know....I had similar thoughts too.... things kept piling up now there are a few good days but many bad ones
Misbah Asif2 same here
Apne kaun c medicine li thi kindly btaen
Alhumdulillah, I didnt go through this...but inky because I had an amazing medical team who spoke about depression and postpartum issues throughout pregnancy...I was fortunate to be in UAE and signed up with a hospital that had prenatal as well as postpartum classes and training.
Mentally preparing for changes makes a huge difference to your health when it's time to deal with such situations.
I could not have gone through my pregnancy and not have to deal with sever aftereffects without my husband. He was so understanding and accommodating. Some days he just took our child put for a long time...so I could get a break and do whatever I had to relax and unwind. And it was such a blessing.
We are now approaching the birth of our 2nd child and i no longer have the luxury of such a medical facility but...we both keep reminding each other of our previous trainings and recalling little bits from them...inshAllah all goes well.
Ive seen my older sisters however....both went through terrible postpartum depression and the only thing that pushes even more into depression is unhelpful, uncooperative family circle around you.
Surround yourself with positive people...dont lend an ear to negative people...be it your own husband and in-laws or whoever. Your child and their health as well as yours is the only thing that should matter to you for the first 6months of motherhood. Block out negativity...block out negative people....tell them you dont need crap from them in this stage of your life...if you do not stand up for yourself postpartum...you will end up in most horrific kind of depression...specially when you are looking after a new born and having thoughts that you are not good enough...just because of negative people. Dont let ylanyone do this to you. Take control...even if it means you will have a bad name for a long time to come...acha hai...aik bar shut up call is better than suffering in silence.
Postpartum blues turns in postpartum depression or postpartum psychosis. It's v important to get help from psychiatrist n psychologist to get rid of it. By the way it should be must that our gynea clinics must have consultent who assess every mother before discharge.
When she pause for a second I cried because in that particular moment every depression person can understand how tough it is to bear.She is right we always thought will it keep coming back will I have to bear it all my life?will I become suicidal?Will I die like that?😫Depression is real please take it seriously
Habib Sherazi I don't understood today's story kindly can u explain it to me ? I m going to marry next month and I don't know about this thing after delivery.
Love from india ... n hatts of to your information and sending awareness about the things people treat as taboo... ❤🙌🏻 respect
The bottom line is if we discuss with each other the realities of motherhood, especially in the post partum period, rather than the glorified stories that people like to portray, then new mothers will be less likely to fall into these mental health challenges. Post partum is an extremely difficult time and it’s important to have the right supports around you and be prepared for the realities. I wish this was something I knew more about before I had my baby. And I was a Med student too. I’m glad you’re better now. ❤️
I was in postpartum depression all three times after having my babies. All three Csections. It was painful. I don't ever want to go back there. But in a community we live no one cares about mother. They don't care how the woman is doing. I use to cry during nights. My mother was self absorbed in her own things. My first child gave me very hard time. She use to be up whole night. No one cared. Every one said its only Mother's job to take care of baby.
I went through exactly the same thing with my first child. I hope you're doing well in life now.
@@aqsanoran1443 Alhamdulillah. I am fine now. Thank you for the concern.
Brought up a great topic! I had severe depression after my first daughter. Glad someone’s talking about it.
When you conceive a new life something bigger than a body is entering in us, thats why we must pray to God and do everything to please him during our pregnancy and later after delivery too
Wahhh 😂😂😂😂
Yes my dear dnt know if u r full aware but there is a soul that is in touch with us, and the telepathy with that soul and conexion of emotion to that soul which is your own child is just instant, there is a traditional knowledge of this, when u r a mother you feel it, no need to hear it from anybody because you will experience it. To be on a good mood and have positive thougths and emotions is fully important thats why praying to God is most important than taking medicine
the first thought I had this morning was that kanwal is going to post today
I was so busy with all the work
now I have just picked my phone and am watching your video
just wanted to let you know that I am your biggest fan and that you are a great inspiration
can I please get a heart and please reply me
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This brings back a lot of sad memories. I always tell the family of my clients, "if you haven't had depression you can understand how it feels but you can definitely offer support."
Hopefully, I will meet you one day Kanwal. I have been through depression myself for many reasons. Postpartum depression, religious abuse. Religious abuse is huge issue in our society. I wish I could do an episode with you about my experiences. inshaAllah.
Great work. Keep it up!
Very sensitive topic is episode Ko dekhne ke Baad hum kisi bhi ek lady ki help kar paye even khud ki bhi to ek achievement hogi thank you so much ma'am.
such a sensitive topic n must to be discussed. many ppl think it black magic or any jin cuz of unawareness.
Ur comment make me laugh 😆 so had but well thats true as u said of jinn and kala jadu. Hamaray han log jaldi jaldi kala jadu jinn tona totka or nazar e bad ko blame krna start ho jatay hain
Really thankful and grateful to my mother who told me clearly that you will go through post partum depression and you will be fine... I handled it in much better way.. I think parental advices and counselling in every aspect of life is a must.
Thankyou for coming out here for all the women who need somebody to relate their feelings with. All that you are doing is priceless!
This video will help so many women .I have been with postpartum depression and can totally relate what she went through .About time people should help people with mental health issues just like we do for physical health .Thanks kanwal Ahmed ❤️❤️
Finally!!! This topic badly needed to be covered!! Thanks for talking about it
As a doctor you should talk and spread awareness about postpartum depression as you her self went through with theses horrific symptoms . You are brave🙏🏻
She’s so beautiful and strong. I hope she does well in the future. ❤️
I developed severe anxiety after my 1st son. Alhamdulillah am doing much better now. This video just seemed to be the story of my life.Everything she said. Is 100% true. May Allah ease the pain of every women out their struggling due to this. AMEEN.
We seriously need to educate people about postpartum depression. I’ve struggled so much after my both deliveries unable to explain my condition to others. Thank you Kanwal, this episode will definitely create awareness among people.Love and duas.
First of all, I would like to pay gratitude to all the mothers. lndeed, mothers have to face monomentious pain during pregnancy that's why, Islam upright the status of Mothers / women. Second, as far as depression is concerned, every third Pakistani is suffering from depression (according to a study). In addition, our ignorance and irresponsible behaviors further add insult to the injury. We need to understand that the intensity of internal pain is far severe than external one. Wish we can understand 😔!
Applause for u....the only man who understood i guess..
Thanks for such a honorable remarks.🙂
Very Well Said Bro. Indeed.
Its a reality fact that giving birth is the second most painful thing for a human being.
We should seriously spread awareness about depression and help out who are suffering through this mental trauma.
@@mush3179 Greatful for your appreciation! But, what is the number 1 painful thing in life, according to you?
@@muhammadaleem1298 I know the most painfull thing a human body suffers which is not according to me but a true fact and it is getting burned alive.
Don't know why but I'm afraid of loneliness from my childhood till now but no one listened sometimes I cry at night even with my children 😔😢
there are 3 main parts of a human, spiritual physical and mental.. all these three are really important. we can't ignore any of them.. we all should remove the stereotypes of our society.. and should support the people whom are suffering from it. if you are physically unable you can survive but if you are mentally unwell you can't even manage your survival.
Very brave of this woman to talk about ppd.May Allah help all women going through this
The host is so kind & choose soft words to speak her words reflect her personality & thinking sach a positive woman may Allah bless her❤❤❤plzz being gentle you don't have any idea how your words can break someone in pieces
THANK YOU so much for talking about it ! I am in 9th month still but I like to read about “what to expect” so that I am prepared for what can be there in store .. but honestly wasn’t getting much on postpartum depression ... this episode felt like a friend talking and telling you all about it ... dil se shukriya !
Also , the way she was talking was exactly like we talk in our family ... aisa laga my family member is talking ... it’s so comforting !!
- Love from a sister across the border !!
Such a sensitive topic which needs to be brought to the fore front. Good going Kanwal 👍👍
aafeen muddasir kis topic k bare me bat horahi hai mujhe such me aj k video k bare me kuch samjh nahi aya Kya ap smajhta sakti hain I m a girl too or mujhe que nahi pata is sab k bare me
@@kalsoomjamali5046 www.webmd.com/depression/guide/postpartum-depression
@@kalsoomjamali5046 Mostly people don't recognise this as a proper condition that needs medical intervention to resolve. As physically you can't see its symptoms, its sadly taken as something in one's head
This is so true
Mjhe lgta tha k Allah ne itne chote se bache ki zimmedari mjh pe daal di... i cried like maniacs
Yes this happens it took lots of courage to come out of all this
I feel myself speaking thru her
I broke down once again at the thought of what i went thru
My mum has depression and schizophrenia. She also PND and post natal pleural psychosis. I urge all new mothers to visit their doctor or midwife and get support if within a few days it does not go away! For all expectant mums please attend ante natal classes wherever possible where support and advice will be given.
Kanwal, Thanks for this! A taboo that needs to be eradicated! It’s no joke and has a lasting impact on both sufferers and carers! x
You were lucky there were caring people around... In my case there was zero support zero physical ND emotional support...infact if I tried to share..my husband nd in-laws made fun.. without extending anykind of help
Tooba, thank you for sharing your traumatic experience. It isn't easy to revive those moments ,talking about it again. Depression is very difficult to diagnose and treat. Acceptance is the biggest step towards healing. I really hope that pregnant women are more aware of signs and symptoms so that if they have such experiences, they accept themselves and understand that this sometimes happens and it is okay to seek help. Thank you Kanwal for your continued service. Happy Kanwal-day to all😊😍
When I gave birth to my daughter by c-section, my uncle visited me in the hospital and the first thing that came from his mouth was how fat I have become.
Some people could just do us a favour and stay at their homes instaed
What an Ass hole
Uncle should deliver the baby instead and lets see what he has to say about his weight after that....huh
Most of men in this world don't even try to understand what women go through
When i deliverd my baby boy ...mri aik czn mry pas hospital i or baby dekh k boli ...kitna kamzor h baby ..bs isi time me depression me gyi or pory 40 days roti hi rhi . bht mushkil time tha but after 40 days me normal hogyi ti . ALLAH ka shuker
My condition was really worst after baby birth. i went through postpartum depression and it was so tough no one understand's. panic attacks forgetting everything day by day fighting with husband fear of losing baby, someone will harm him and wasn't touching him aniexty uffff and many more even i do not recognized my first relatives. apni behan ki shakal bhool gae the and she was infront of my eyes & my brain fails to accept her. it was so tough. i didn't consult to any psychiartrist just because of fear k mery baby ko koe nuqsan na ho jaye and my behavior was sometimes very bad with baby . ☹️ koe awareness ni kici ko but my Ammi was a true psychiatrist she helped me alot . ❤
She was going through post partum psychosis. Paranoia, hallucinations-all classic systems. Thank God she got help
Alas, depression is so common nowadays. I myself have gone through a traumatic experience at a very young age and it broke me from inside when I realised what had happened. At the age of 17, no one can really believe that I struggle from depression. Sadly, The region of South Asia comprises of the most depressed nations of the world.
I had worst post oartum depression but thank God I got treated with the help of docotr in USA and now when I looks back I feel I was in dark tunnel where I didn’t see any light .It was so horrible that I don’t want to look back .I had severe hallucination and hated my baby .i used to cry for no reason and it continued for months and months .Thanks for this video
I had been in postpartum depression..it took 2 years to cured. Yes...people are insensitive towards it.
Log muje bolte the ki mai natak kr rhe hu..thank you kawal for posting such content.
Tooba..you are strong person ..trust me..you will get over it completely. Just keep seeing therapist..
One of the least talked about topics. No two women are same. If someone goes through an experience doesnt give them the right to gaslight someone else's experience or assume things. More Power to women going through these tough times
Hats of to team kawanlful for discussing this topic. Talking about mental illness is such a taboo in our society this needs to end now. Hope that we are able to support such .people around us .
Like always,you choose a real important and sesitive topic I like how you always try to spread awareness of the little but yet the important topics that are society neglect the most .
Yet another inspiring session on a much needed topic. We, as a society need to remove the stigma around mental health. Just as a pathological illness is not a choice and we cannot expect for example, a person suffering from Diabetes to self-heal. Similarly, psychopathological disorders are also not a choice and we cannot expect a person suffering from depression, schizophrenia or anxiety to self-heal. Kanwal please try to invite more brave people like this sister to share their stories around mental health.
I am a Mental Health Counselor and an Art Therapy in training. I can appreciate the importance for both verbal and non-verbal therapies in healing certain traumas that actually affect and impair the brain chemistry. Jazakillah khairan for these wonderful reminders and for trying to break the taboos around them.
this is such an important thing!!! thank you for talking and spreading awareness about this, kanwal. more power to you ❤❤😭
I work as psychologist n I joined for three months n I took three cases of postpartum psychosis. It's v problematic not for the woman but for her own child n family
I am also a new mother of 2 and half month baby...i also expericed all this ...thank god my parents brother ,sisters and husband all are nice but inlaws very mean...meri saas ne puri pregancy nahi pucha ..
After pregrancy only care me for 3 days..i was gone in depression..because mushkil lgta tha kaise hoga sab ..kaise krun ..crying all the time..husband aur maine lafi suffer kiya...parents ne v pura help kiya ..but logo ko smjhna chahiye
Thank you for highlighting Postpartum Depression.
I think every woman who is a mom can relate with today's episode..thnq for sharing 👍🏻
Love from India🙏. Huge respect for you and your show mam. We are looking for more..
Wow, again watched it n like the word she Is trying to Adjust n not doing Nashukra pan, after viewing this I also realized that I too went through bad depression after my first child, and zero support and realizations. I don't know how I recovered, but was very bad to my child, never enjoyed her and was at anxiety all times for three to four years!!!!
Beautiful. Many Thanks for talking about it. It's so much needed for people around to be empathetic.
Finally koi to hai jisne yeh issue b uthaya... Postpartum depression is HELL and I've went through it twice..
Koi nahi samjhta..inlaws kehte hain "sab khayal rakhte hain eska phir b roti rehti hai"
Yaha par ye lady keh rahi hain enke paas supportive log thay jo enke baby ko sambhal leete thy magar ye bht rare hai..
Meri episiotomy b hui dono dafa aur khud hi babies ko sambhala...saari saari raat jaagi...bhuki rahi roti rahi...
Koi nai smjha..
Mujhe lagta tha kisi se mere mun pe hath rakh ke mera sans band kr diya hai aur main mar b nahi skti...
Postpartum depression labor aur delivery se zyada takleed day hai...
Exactly Depression is like a slow poisoning..... it's really difficult to tell someone or to share but it's really important ... today I'm going through this depression because of so many reasons I can't sleep I can't eat 😭 Even I'm not even able to talk to somebody....
Khair May Allah swt protect each and everyone 🙏🙏
Dont wory..i am also a house wife...mje b yi sb ho ra tha...tb me ek homiopethi dc k pass gi...shukr hy...me bht bhtr hoon
@@tahadar9071 that's great k ap theek hain .... but I'm not even married yet so it's really difficult for me to handle this depression
@@S.SalaarHussein ap drood pak prha kre..ALLAH PAK apko sht dy..ameen
Sab khty hain drood parhho nimaz parrho theek hy lakin jab zindgi guzarna mushkil ho jaay to ibadat ki himat nhi rhti.bus apny andar sy himat ko lana parrhta hy.
ALLAH sab maaon ko sukoon dey aur woh apnay bachay achi tarah parwarish karsakain ameen...eik baat.. agr helping hand nahi dey saktay maa ko tu usko kuch kaho bhi mat try to understand her maa ki situation diffrent yet same pain of delivery baby...
V.brave of this lady to come forward and talk Abt depression..people need to be sensitive towards mental health..it's high time..it's equaly normal to see psychiatrist as it's normal to see physician..
In USA I saw new mothers become suicidal and it’s difficult to become mother and it’s overwhelming responsibility a female sometimes thinks too much for her . It’s a first experience to creat a life.
Exactly
i always think how poor people deal with such issues when the understanding is so poor even in rich families.
Bht acha topic h kanwal mjhe b aj tk postpartum depression h pregnancy m b hua or aj delivery ko 3 months hogai h mjhe b kisine nh smjha even my husband me aj b rooti hn log mjhe taunt krte h k bachi kali h patli h me b bht weak hogai hon khari nh hoskti bt me alone ;(( mjhe husband bahar b nh legai unko bs olad aziz h
I've been through that phase all three times but I never knew...survived thank god.
Great topic to talk about.
M from India, my son is now 4 year old. I gave birth to him through c sec and had beautiful 9 months of preg period. I have a very supportive husband.. but I went through post partum depression and I still feel I am into it..
I talk to all the new mothers about P.D and educate them and help them to by giving mental strength.. life changes completely after marriage and after baby it's more responsibilities added.. at times even if everybody is supportive we still can go into depression.. my husband keeps asking me, what has he lacked to provide me and what made me go into depression and I just don't know what to answer him...
I am a medical dr too and I had the worst PPD, its so scary that now I don't want to get pregnant again....ever
M going through this again after 4 years when i had my 1st baby... Now m going to have my 2nd... My husband never understood this till now... And no one is with me except Allah.. I want my husband to understand but he dosent
I totally agree with this conversation .all my 3 kids were born in england are here a health visitor and mid wife used to visit soon after ur delivery.when i went home from hospital my health vusitor asked me are y feeling anxity or any depression at first i didnt understand y she is asking abiut that but few days later i started feeling anxity especially evening times made me scared i thiught may b coping with sleepless nights and a my body is going through soo much it might get better sooon.people come and told u how to take care of urself during pregnancy but no one takes care of u when u need it the most after having a baby thats the time when a women needs more emotional help then any other time of her life.
Wonderful episode ! Am glad the guest came forward with alot of courage to speak about it.
Kanwal if a neurologist comes on board to highlight issues majorly that women go through would not only educate but create awareness IA and we all would know how to deal , handle or support such sufferings arounds us. Good luck to your hardwork!
Sorry to say that's the work of a psychiatrist and clinical psychologist, not a neurologist.
@@hulalala78 ahan!
I'm related to this 😭😭 i can understand her how bad anxiety and depression are I'm suffering from axiety and depression since 1 year and the worst thing is I'm just 20😭
Dont worry...ap drood pak prha kre...khul k bt kre..jis se ap bt kr skti heen...
Habiba Khan please visit your doctor and go for counselling too. x
Same here
Wow! Kanwal you are bring up such beautiful topics to speak out! These are needed hour issues to be addressed especially in the Asian world. More power to you girl!
May Allah help the new mothers to combat such complications with bravery, this is something new to me.
Ppd is real!! And nothing abnormal. Part of the post pregnancy and hormonal changes. Ppl need awareness and how to deal with it.esp ppl around and need much support system
I went through C section and now I have such a fear to have a second baby. Because I was in miserable situation through out my whole period of pregnancy.
One thing is important to not just educate mother but husband and other family member they are living in the same home . Sad part she is a dr could not help her self and if we think about women from other socioeconomic , education a backgrounds what their life going through in that situation .
Masha'Allah she is such a strong lady. May Allah bless her. ❤
True me too but khud hi bahar ana pada in sab se n Alhamdolillah mera beta ab 4year ka he bas sab pe se trust chala gaya sirf bharosa allah pe
100 prsent ture......koe bhi depration ko os wakat tak nhi samj sakta jab tk wo khud xperiance na kar la bcz daikhna ma aik acha bhala insan hota haa magar os k dimag ma kya chal rha hota haa os ki zahni halat kitni kabl e taras hoti haa maa khud is depration sa guzar chki hon is liya na sirf ap k word ko sun sakti hon in ko feel bhi kr rahi hon.dosra socail preasue koe apko nhi samjh rha hota...bht muskil Allah tala sb ko is bemari sa mahfooz rakhy sb dua krna nxt pragnancy ma mara sath asa na ho
One of my cousin mami , she delivered a baby boy 2 yrs ago.... after few days she was in depression, the reason in unknown to my relatives they concluded that 'jhapat ho gyi, behn ki shadi me chali gyi thi bacha hone k bad' ... till day yhi hal hai unka...she is unable to use her hand properly, her baby is under care of her mother-in- law... though her in laws are good but she kept herself bound , whatsoever she is going through only she can understand, ..but log kehte hai koi saya a gya uspr...
Feeling disgusted... nevertheless
Love to Kanwal and team for raising such topic!!
Take her to a Psychiatrist .... She needs help
@@noone7767 they are taking her care....routine check ups...therapt everything but she herself has lost hope
Its really difficult to talk about mental health...more power to u
OMG i remembered my experience before 2 years. my case was even worse because i had stillborn and my placenta was abrupt and it was premature delivery. and the medical staff was even calling me "wehmi" hai and the person who was shifting me in ward after my 2nd d&c called me "actor hai drama kr ri hai" . It was my 1st child also. i was the one who never even heard about the name of d&c.
How insensitive of them😣
@@LevelUpYourTrading yes and this is the most painful thing that those were not ignorant or unaware of situation. They must be dealing with hundreds of such people.
Those were some ignorant people! Stay blessed!
Mujhy bhi TB hai life mein. Bht si pehle problems aye hain abhi age 16 hai aur bachpan se apni health ki problem ko mene bardasht kiya lekin ab jb itni problem k baad mujhy TB hua toh mein bilkul akeli hoon Ku k meri problems mere ghar walon k liye aam si baat bn chuki hai aur ab mein 16 ki hoon lekin apni medicine khud lene jati hoon mere sath koi nhi hota mere ghar wale bhi meri problems se thak kr mera sath chodh rhay hain
Yar samhaj nae atta itnay sensitive topic pe bhi log dislike kartay hayn means how😥
Depression is a very serious illness. It should be addressed rather than critize the victim.
Celebrities such as Deepika Padukone and Selena Gomez have gone through the trauma of depression. We as a society need to help the ones who suffer through it.
I would request all husbands to care for their wives as much as they can. They need more support from their husbands. And also gynacologists need to help and guide patients on how to deal through postpartum depression too.
May ALLAH Bless Kanwal and All Soul Sisters. Aameen.
I had postnatal depression and I was alone and I I had nothing to divert my attention. I survived but left lots of scars on my mental and emotional health.
It is so so so hard to get over your postpartum blues.
I m realat this story from start.mujhy 3 bachy k baahad sy depression hua.ilaj nhi hua barrhta gya.bht arsa but takleef deakhi.abhi tak I m fighter.main larrhoon gi akyli hoon koi nhi smjhta iss bimari believe me.bacha paida karny ki takleef or phir us k bahd sab ka aik hi swal k beti hui hy yah beta.bht dukh hota hy k aik maan ki takleef kisi ko nazar nhi aati.sab usy koi masheen smjhty hain.paida krna.sambhalna.its not a joke.mujhy b bht mushkil lgta hy itni zimadariyan uthana.but I can do inshallah.
Uploaded just a minute ago and I hit the like button before even watching it
Postpartum depression is real....please trust mothers ....they are not lying
PEOPLE NEED TO LEARN THAT MENTAL HEALTH IS AS IMPORTANT AS OUR PHYSICAL HEALTH... WE NEED TO BE A BIT MORE SENSITIVE AND RESPECTFUL AND SUPPORTIVE TOWARDS MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES AND TOWARDS THE PEOPLE WHO ARE EXPERIENCING IT...
I appreciate her husband and her family for being there for her and understanding her.....thats what all of us have to do if we see somebody going through the same thing.
Thank you tooba for sharing your story. Lots of duas for you.
Comment krtay acha to ni lg ra but after marriage women ki life ma bohat ziada depression hota ha throughout life khali pregnancy ki bat ni .. esay ma agr husband caring or smjnay wala ho to life asaan ha ni to zindagy har mor mushkil say mushkil hoti jaty ha 😢😢
R u okay ?
U r right....only girls have to go through this...even in laws don't cooperate with our health...
True.. Its tuff to b woman.. But society ll neva understand d pain v go through
@@fabhub5043 yes i am okay but general bat kar rae hn qk acha bura waqt sb pay ata ha 😐
@@sameeraahmed3372 cooperate to door ki bat in laws e mostly depression ki wja bntay hain
Such a great video. People don't want to talk about it because ho yeh kia baat hui. Bacha hua hai bas depression kuin ho gi they don't know that a women go through alot of changes like hormonal, mental and physical. When you tell the mom to take care of herself and baby tell her to take care of her mental condition too.
It’s sad no body care about PPD especially in Pakistan this should air on Tv also it can happen to any newly mother she is a doctor her husband is a doctor and she was going through this !lots of love and hugs🌹
You both women are great women .... Really hatsoff to you both ..... Tah-e-dil se shukriya
I feel ya so deeply .I just had blues. And that awful time still troubles me.they support I got and I dint got .both r unforgettable...we shuld b more empathetic towards new mommies ...I keep telling ppl .its already tuff time .dont make it worse ..make it easier plz.understand them plz.
It was much needed.... my 1st post partum period was indeed like a dark cloud .exactly like she said...and on top of that behaviours !!!
U are doing Great job kanwalji..love from Bharat
Very significant topic to be addressed.