Ariel Is Obsessed With Steamy Novels - You Can Sit With Us Ep. 12
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Ariel reveals her lifelong hobby, and we dive deep into Rachel's past.
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They're like "it's *porn* 😱"
and Ariel's like "it *is* porn 😏"
I realize I am quite off topic but do anybody know of a good website to watch new tv shows online ?
Watching Ariel's eyes light up about her romance novel library in college is SO ENDEARING. I love how unabashedly enthusiastic she is about the things she likes, with absolutely zero remorse or shame. I want to be that confident one day.
I love Ariel so much more now
Do it!
Yes!!! This! I wish i was so confident and good with what I have to say.
she's so cute
We have a word in danish: "husmorporno" it means porn for housewives, and describes smutty books aimed at women.
When Rachel calls the guys "the boys" it makes me think they're more like her children than employers
They do act that way some times 😂
I mean, they have called her mom in some videos 😂
Yep. Rachel is Try Guys LLC's mom.
That's just how project managers tend to view their teams in general, too - they constantly equate it to herding cats or children.
I think it's so cute. 😊
I was today years old when I found out elf stood for eyes lips face
Same... I always thought they just wanted to sound whimsical
Same
Dude Same
Sammeee! 🤦🏻♀️
OMG SAME HAHAHAHAHHAHA I THOUGHT I WAS ALONE
I actually learned more about sex in fanfiction smut than in my actual sex ed classes. Yes, some of them are crappy, but they include stuff that sex ed doesn't cover, like non-het sex, oral sex, and being open about kinks and fetishes.
@jacq parairo hahaha me too. I had a male sex ed teacher who only scared us with STDS at all times and never spoke on how to protect yourself. I remember reading my first fanfiction story about... Pokemon lol
I was obsessed with VC Andrews from 12-17. 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️. Grew up in super religious house old. It was like a whole new world to me
Didn’t we all? By the time 50 Shades came out (which I tried reading and gave up because I got so bored) I was a bit confused because I had already read (much better) fanfiction smut in high school 😂
Angeavocado 11 vc andrews books is a different breed lol it's so fucked up and so interesting at the same time
Amelie Says Hola right? I was a free flowing sexual woman/beast by the time I read it. I think I was yawning and rolling my eyes lol.
They needed Becky or Eugene energy to balance out that smut book convo. Eugene and Becky would've eaten that shit up 😂
My favorite thing about this podcast is knowing that the entire time Miles is sitting off camera silently reacting to all the tea that gets spilled lmao
So that's how Ariel ended up studying Sociology and Anthropology...
LMAO
OMG😂😂😂
Same
I want her to see this
Lol I’m dying
Rachel is the most fascinating person I’ve ever heard of
She posted a photo of her with her hair bleached and I was like, "Blonde Rachel? 👁👄👁"
I wish they would put her in the group photo because she’s part of the group
Reality TV experience? Miss America? I can’t wait to hear about it because it sounds so mysterious and truly fascinating!
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becky gonna be so mad she missed this romance novel talk
Rachel has always been my favorite but now she’s absolutely my favorite! I love love love love her. I swear Rachel is the only person I know whose a writer, a producer, a mom, a kindergarten teacher, a cancer survivor and miss Vermont
What!! That's so cool!!
i didn't know she was a cancer survivor :O when did she mention it?
Alyssa she’s mentions it on Facebook. One of the reason she couldn’t breastfeed the babies. She’s a remarkable woman
Alyssa instagram not Facebook
After hearing Ariel talk about Clan of the Cave Bear I noticed that my parents have that book on their bookshelf. Very very used.
It was at my home too, I think back on the 80s-90s was a really big thing.
My grandfather had a copy so please don't go there. LOL
My Nana had it too. Haha!
I read the whole series. Great books!
Have read the whole series twice. Love Ayla!
*remembers Try Guys recreate fanfiction*
Well, now you know why Ned knew so much about the fifty shades of grey series 👀👀
Exactlyyy what I thought
Ariel, go to wattpad. I swear you'll find everything
facts
And probably your husband fanfic 🌝
Or AO3 lol
Tell her sis!
As a married 24yr old that likes her soft and steamy books, it's a yes for Wattpad ☑️
They say a cat has 9 lives
They say Rachel has 49
It’s so nice to hear Maggie giving a warning about the dangers with using contacts incorrectly, as someone that actually went blind in one eye because of this I really appreciate it! Don’t get tap water anywhere near your contacts kids.
Omg that’s crazy! I think I’ll stick to glasses 🤓
@@Mikibear222 I'm so scared of trying contacts... I've been wearing glasses since I was in the 2nd grade so part of me wonders if I just feel uncomfortable without them on my face now. The idea of accidentally going blind is not helping 🙈
Yesss. Me too. I went blind in my left eye.
@@saraht7361 Like.. permanently? (serious question)
was it permanent blindness or just temporary? i've been thinking of using contacts
an elf cosmetics sponsorship?! Get it girls!!
Such a brilliant marketing move. Being men, they limit how companies view their demographic and brand. But bring in the wives and you open up a whole new can of whoopass. And it benefits their company! Love this.
I, like ariel, also had sexual awakening to literature. it was gay harry potter fanfiction, though.
saaaame wattpad for life
Rachel going "So, I called Tina..." adds another notch to the her already fascinating life, she's so awesome
For real! She's just like "yeah I'm close with Tina Fey" cuz she's a boss! And the other ladies are just one degree of separation from Tina freaking Fey
I know! She was like “yeah I got close with tina fey” I was like 👁👄👁
Rachel is basically a real Life Barbie . Barbie has had 100+ careers
I have been requesting this a lot and I know this the Try Wives podcast, but would Rachel do a podcast about pagent life, Miss America, and the Miss America TV show as a part of the “You Can Sit With Us” Podcast? I would really like to hear her perspective on the pagent world and anything she learned from the experience and hear the other ladies misconceptions and opinions about it as-well. I know she briefly mentioned it in the “best boss” video and I would love to hear more about it!
YES. YES YES YES!
And if she’s comfortable with it, even her battle with cancer.
I'm curious as to why you are trying to get her perspective about that subject in particular. I get curiosity but now I'm curious as to what's happening here. What's going on that she would need to discuss further into it.
@@ptboy18 She was Ms. Vermont and competed in the Miss America pagent. The year she competed, they made it into a reality tv show, where all 51 contestants lived together in a house (Big Brother Style) until the competition started
@@fionnualarussell8936 whaaaa no way that's intriguing. Okay...umm yeah now I understand
Ha ha ha I love how y’all are like “Sex positivity! Sex education!” and then you’re squealing and trying to disappear into your chairs when Ariel is describing erotica. 😂😂
Right 😂
Ariel telling her story about adult romancey novels made my day. I dont always connect with what she says or her life experiences but her sharing that was so vulnerable and silly and kind of embarrassed---loved it! Best podcaster this episode!! I am googling clan of the cave bear now hahahaha. I want to join your book club Ariel!
Ariel just casually starts a smut book club 😂 that’ll be her next podcast
Dude same count me in to that smut book club. Honestly I think there are many women who enjoy romance novels and I also think it is a very healthy place to explore what you may or may not like.
Stimulating the brain and living out experiences through books really enhances one perspective on things. ....on a side note it can make one very ready to enjoy sexy time w ur the hubs
jess absolutely!! If she doesn’t start one maybe a group of YCSWU fans can haha
@@peachepanda4484 oohh boy hit me up with a discord link guys I am IN!!!!
jess let’s do it 😂😂
Omg. Ariel explaining Clan of the Cave Bear was HILARIOUS. This series sounds so weird 😂
😆 They're weird books but they are very good!
Wendy Alexi haha I mean, there is no way I’m not checking them out now! I’m way too curious 🤨😄
She described it super well, and yeah, the premise is kinda odd but it's such an additing series. I also loved those.
Even without the smut they are really interesting.
I read the whole series. They are great books!
Ariel: the landlord will paint your walls after you move out anyway.
Me: **looks at the vomit stain on the wall from the previous tenant** i.....dont think thats true.....
Mimi K why did this speak to me and my university apartment 😂🙈
I've never lived in an apartment where they painted the walls before I moved in. I was lucky if I had the carpets shampooed. But I also live in pretty cheap apartments. I'm sure the nicer ones in the better part of town do that, but definitely not all of them do.
Magick Miiror I feel that. My current landlord told me they were going to have a cleaner in when i moved in.... it never happened... that was over a year ago and they are currently selling the property lmfao
@@magickmiiror2853 my apt is in a pretty nice area and the rest of the apt is super nice. We even have marble counter tops. We just have a shit landlord i think. Lol
If you take over a lease from someone else, they won't paint them. But if you go straight thru the company, they usually do if they're a good company (emphasis on IF lol)
I can completely agree with Ariel that reading porn or romance novels is healthy and entertaining.
I kept in touch with my kindergarten teacher. She came to my 8th grade graduation, high school graduation, nursing school graduation and my wedding.
Next on Advice That Will Go For Miles: museum hooks
Now we need a “Becky reacts to the podcast” episode
h. sapien and h. neanderthalensis did reproduce, there are people who have been found to have neanderthal dna. And it's still debated if they were different enough from h. sapien (us) to put them in a different species category, and some academics and researchers accept the more recent scientific name homo sapien neanderthalensis. I have a degree in anthropology, and I couldn't let that conversation at the beginning about Clan of The Cave Bear go lol
They even mated really early and scientists are still looking into how having more or less neaderthal dna in your dna has any influence. It’s a really interesting topic. www.sciencemag.org/news/2016/02/humans-mated-neandertals-much-earlier-and-more-frequently-thought
Yes this! I'm an evolutionary anthropologist and this is such an interesting topic!
Yes! I was thinking that I definitely learned this in college. Also, 23andme results show how many Neanderthal genetics you have in comparison to the remainder of their tested population.
I agree with Ariel and if she's looking at the comments I suggest reading, Shatter me ( my personal favorite ), Acotar, Throne of Glass and Cruel Prince. ( Acotar especially is steam ), adding more here, ou should also read from the blood and ash series and shadows between us
I suggest a Spanish writter Elisabet benavent I think she was translated
Mithu Anantharajah I was reading ACOTAR in a high school woodworking class and my teacher came over and picked it up and started flipping through it and I was just like “AHHHHHHHHHHHH” in silent panic
Yes acotar is sooo good
The cruel prince seems good, my friends keep telling me to read it.
No but yeah acotar was 😳
We love smut fics in this household. It is one of the many wonders of fanfiction
I love how eugene is usually explaining sexy stuff to ned in the try guy videos but ariel is the one teaching the girls about romance novels ilove it😂🥰
Ok but like... when are we gonna hear about Ariel getting arrested from the end of the last episode? 🙊
rachel's smile is always so comforting to me and then i remember she was a kindergarten teacher and i feel 10x more comforted
it made me so stinkin happy to hear rachel say this is her dream job, especially after hearing all the amazing things she's already done in the past. we love having you rachel!
The Clan of the cavebear is actually the first book of the series, and the series is called Earth's Children. Just wanted to point that out, Ariel is so adorable 😂❤️❤️
Ariel's enthusiasm talking about Clan of the Cave Bear was so fun. I read a couple of the books in the series in high school because my BFF's mom had an extensive steamy novel library that I loved to sneakily borrow from. The story is WILD, I love trying to explain the plot to friends.
rachel just casually being friends with tina fey lol
Arial actually was trying to describe the first two books of the Earth's Children series. Ayla does not meet Jondular until halfway through the second book, The Valley of Horses.
Yay!! Rachel haha
Thanks for giving a good portion of the podcast to her, she does sound like the most fascinating mamma tbh. So many things she has done and over come. She’s strong and tough and a fantastic role model :)
I literally couldn’t agree more!
Totally
I know y'all have talked a bit about your careers and such, but how did you end up deciding what you WANTED to do (interior design, producing, etc)? I know it's not an easy question haha
Yes Alyssa!!!!!!
Yes great idea! I’d love to here about their lives just after graduating too
@@creativityjune3591 agreed!!!!
Feeling alone and I couldn't be happier these ladies have a new episode to keep me company for an hour 🌷💕💘✨🌈☀️🌻🧡
IMCarolanne I’ll be your new friend!
@@kory410 thank u 🥺🥺✨
IMCarolanne you’re welcome!! If you have any socials drop em and we can be friends!
Same
@@kory410 i have instagram though don't use it much! do u have insta?
This is the best part of the week
Yes, I would love that! Especially because her family is from Peru (I believe), and Peruvians--South Americans in general--are not often talked about in conversations regarding the Latinx community.
@@gabbym333 absolutely!! Peru has such a beautiful culture and I’d love nothing more than to hear Maggie talk about her culture while everyone else just listens
How the heck did Rachel have twins?? When did she have time!! She’s amazing!! Wow!!! I freaking love her!
“I think it is absolutely healthy to read porn and romance novels.” Preach, Ariel!!!
I can't believe Wes watched Wall-E. My kiddos didn't like it because there was so little dialogue, they got bored.
My Disney+ is just Moana, tangled, frozen Over and overrrrr I wish my kid liked Wall-E 😭😭
I got the kids I nanny for into Wall-E and the 4-year-old boy is obsessed and it’s his favorite movie now - get this - because he likes the part at the beginning with Wall-E squishing garbage.
We would actually get the the part with dialogue and he’d make me start the movie over because he just wanted to see the garbage.
@@sgbd461 that is so adorable!
Grace Davis omg I love that for y’all. What a sweetie.
Lovin the wives with Rachel’s podcast. It feels like listening to my girl friends! ❤️
Having read the Clan of the Cave Bear, Ariel's description is inaccurate, but hilarious
^ YEEEEEES 🤣
I haven't read it, but have heard of them, and her description sounded weird, so I looked up the plot summaries online. Wow was she off!
Just about died listening to Ariel talk about Cave Bear. 😂
Hey girls! {and Miles} I would love to hear about where you thought you would be at this time in your life, but in the eyes of your 5-10 years ago self.
Also - what are your thoughts on the pressures of a societal timeline. Examples: Renting still at the age of xyz and have yet to buy a house, not being married by age xyz, having kids by the age xyz. Do you/have you ever dealt with that pressure and how do you manage it? Could get that pressure from parents, friends, coworkers etc.
Also x2 (lol sorry, I'm a bit inquisitive) - how did the mamas in the podcast come up with their babies names?
Love the podcast!
@@telepathicmagicshop They asked what we wanted to hear on their podcast and I thought those topics would be fun to listen to. I'm very happy, thanks for the concern.
Ariel Is so likeable, I see why ned loves talking about his wife. I want her to be MY wife, all of these ladies are amazing, including our girl becks who wasn't present that day. Just found the "you can sit with us" series and im HOOKED👏🤗
Hey ladies, I heard the Try Guys did a video about earthquake safety. ;P
LOL that was MY thought too!
OMG I love this book serie!!! Actually it is highly intelectual. Ariel you definietly got something else out from this book than me XD The writer worked with exspert on neandertals and old history. For me I loved reading about how they made their clothes, what herbs they used for medecine, lond detailed descriptions on how to make bowls and weapons. Its about a Homo sapiens that loses her parents as a very young kid, get picked up by this neandertaler clan that teach her their way of live. She escapes this clan and learn to live on her own, find this Homo sapiens man, he teaches her his language and they go traveling the world. I love learning history through fiction, and this is a good series for anyone intrested in that time, a description on how society might have looked like when Human first tread the earth and how they survived. For me the Smut did not take a big place in the books before the third book, but everything else was truly intresting! sorry for the pharagraph and yay you for reading this whole thing XD
Wow!!! When u put it like that it sounds way more interesting tbh. I gotta find this book! Thank you💙
Me too! I don't think it's that much sex in it? It's more of a guide on how to adapt to new societies and reading about how people might have lived then! Amazing series.
@@krispykreme7864 it's a series of six, called Earth's Children by Jean M. Auel. Clan of the Cave Bear is the first. They're a really great series, though there is some small repetitions between each novel so that they can be standalone-ish. And they're not porny, though when sex happens, it's pretty explicit. Highly recommended.
Definitely! I would not have put this book in the same category as 50 Shades (though to be fair, i never read 50 shades)
@@leftear99 Yes, there was the sex in them!
50:25
The way Ariel looks at Rachel is just so....in love, admiration, and everything to do with love combined.
I’d love to hear Rachael’s story about having cancer and her experience if she’s comfortable!
So great to know that Rachel's secret is being adaptable and having connections
I could listen to Ariel talk about her favorite books all day
I loved this episode! Maybe one of my favorites so far. It kinda makes me feel bad to say that, though, since Becky's gone and I love Becky. But I LOVED learning more about Rachel and the insanely cool life she's led.
*Reads title*
Literally my first thought: You can say Fanfiction. It’s okay.
Aww Ariel explaining things that she loves or finds interesting is super endearing and adorable
The Clan of the Cave Bears is a great book! You can really immersed in the experience of living in that era. Reading this in high school and MANY romance novels are only the reason why I got through the subject English - had a short attention span with the reading assignments given to us, namely Shakespeare. Anyone interested in reading the series I highly recommend but warning it’s very long!
Any plans for You Can Sit With Us merch?
Omg my great-grandma, who is currently 105, had the Cave Bear series in her living room and I remember wanting to read them as a child because I've always been an avid reader (can you imagine reading those at 9 years old omg). I have a whole different outlook on her now lmao
i was watching old videos earlier (like I often do) and in a try wives wine time video they were doing wine mixing. Becky then says “YOU CANT SIT WITH US” and there it was! the birth of You Can Sit With Us
It's a Mean Girls quote.
@@rebeccat.6134 ohhh lmao I wouldn't have known that
I love watching these! Always gives me something to do in quarantine! 💕
I feel like Ariel is forgetting some key points of Clan of the Cave Bear. Like all the raping. They are still stories worth reading, but read with a trigger warning.
It might be weird but I love listening to this podcast while playing valorant/dota. They're very enjoyable to listen to
Are you a guy? I don’t think it’s weird at all. Very enjoyable to be listen to indeed, especially if you’re multitasking cause it’s like you’re listening to people you know
I'm all for Ariel being open. Go girl.
My sister is named after the main character of clan of the cave bear!
YES. RACHEL IS FINALLY GETTING THE RECOGNITION SHE DESERVES!
I would love to hear more about her! This wasn't nearly enough. Several episodes, please 😊
These pods make me so happy! You guys make my entire day! Thank u💗
wow, rachel has lived such a fascinating life. can't wait to hear more about her life experiences !
Yes, Outlander! I watched it and loved it. Told my mom that I loved it and said that it’s probably not for her. She watched it and loved it. I told my best friend to watch it. She loves it. We all love it and can’t wait for the next season.
Love that you’re bringing in Rachel finally🥰 love all the ladies but we definitely know the least about the lady that’s “lived a thousand lives”🤣
Rachel...what you did at VidCon is stage managing! I do that for a freakin' living and you picking it up so easily is awesome. Granted, 20% of stage managing is paperwork (and calling cues), the rest is people skills and communicating (oftentimes translating) correctly to all parties involved. BRAVA!
Audible needs to sponsor y'all so Ariel can have a romance book club!
i got married at 18 last year & rarely feel like an adult. watching these videos makes me feel like i’m in a conversation with mature and thoughtful women. it just makes my days better. thank you for creating this series. i love hearing about all of the girls’ stories.❤️
Is it weird that I prefer having them in a Zoom format lol
When little Branch sings in trolls 😍😍😍 such a precious part. I love trolls!!! Didnt care for the world tour one as much but Maggie if you love trolls you have to watch the TV show on Netflix. Fills in the gaps between movies and also fantastic 😊
Boy what a ride of a podcast. From the unexpected plot of Clan of the Bear Cave to Rachel’s story I was like woah!
How are we already up to ep 12? It feels like ep1 was a couple of weeks ago!!!!
when I read the title, I was like.. "me too" and clicked the video
Omg I love Rachel so much now. I loved this episode and OMG A DOCUMENTARY?!
Years ago, I wrote my thesis on Neanderthal Language capability and my dissertation supervisor asked if I’d ever read Clan of the Cave Bear. I didn’t actually read it until last year, and I don’t know what the flip she was smoking when she decided to recommend I read that book! Hopefully she thought it would give me a good laugh and I wouldn’t take it seriously.
I love these women so much! The relationship they have is amazing! Good job and can't wait for more! 😊
I'd love a chat about how you found your current jobs as I think it could help people decide how to continue studies or work life. I am 27 and still lost regarding what should I do. Being 27 and an administrator in a hotel isn't exactly a dream job.
My mom loved Clan of the Cave Bear too and recommended it to me when I was a teen!! I read those books because of her and I LOVED them. They were so perfectly indulgent and compelling.
Zach being into football is actually shocking to me. Definitely didnt see that coming lol
Time stamp?
Anyone else notice that Ned grunts a LOT in try guy videos after hearing Ariel talk about Clan of the Cavebears...?
oh my!
The kinks come out 😂
Just in case you were curious, I've lived in quite a few rentals myself and every time I take a small container and ask maintenance for some "touch-up" paint. That way if I decide to move something mid lease or if I made wall damage larger than a nail hole, I can paint it myself and it matches perfectly. They gave it to me, no questions asked! Plus, it's free.
I love these gals 💗. They are the highlight of my Tuesday 😆.
Absolutely loved this podcast, each time we learn something new about Rachel I get more and more intrigued. I love how this really does feel like getting together with some friends for a glass of wine, gives me the same happy feeling :D
Clan of the Cave Bear Novels are amazing. Ive read them all several times.
The Clan cant speak. They have a sign dominated language.
Its more about prehistoric living, finding food , fire, and living. Sex is one of those things. It also has to do with medicine. How they ate and what.
Aww the discussion about kindergarten teachers was so cute. I still remember mine. I went to a very small elementary school and all of the teachers saw us all grow up. They all still remember me, too. On our last day of high school our class went back to the elementary school and surprised everyone. It was super cute. My little brother also went to the school so I saw them throughout the years then too. Super cute. You don't realize the imprint they made on your heart until you think back!
I know this is not releated to the podcast but is Eugene not gonna talk about Mulan live action because I want to hear his opinions.
Lol!!!! Same!
I think I remember hearing him talking about it in one of the podcast....
I mean he's Korean, and Mulan is Chinese. Maybe that's why.
I got so excited this morning to sit with the girls today. They’re so relatable & I love how they’re all have like their things they do or have. ♥️
Maggie: It's just us three today :(
Miles: Am I a joke to you?
We need an episode where Maggie discusses her love of BTS💜
It's fun watching Ariel get so excited about smutt 😂😂😂
I'd love a book club episode where you all read the same romance novel and then chat about it!