It’s so sweet to know you have butterflies over him. I’ve been married to my husband, whom I’ve known since we were fifteen, for forty-two years and I STILL get butterflies when he holds my hand. It’s a good thing, Cassie.
@@angiep8708 I think it would be awkward if you didn't want to maybe, but I think it's really sweet to ask instead of just going straight in, that's more awkward to have to turn down in my opinion, but just my thought ☺️
Long time subscriber here; I think you're great! Don't forget everyone has things they don't like about themselves. Top dating tip: Don't concentrate on if he likes you. But, instead concentrate on if you like him!
the older you get the less self conscious you will be. well that is how it is for me. I could care less about so much now. people don't really care about the things we think they care about... as much as we think they do. besides we should be loving ourselves how we love others. one day I realized "why did I just say that to myself"... I would NEVER say that about someone else. it is freeing when you stop letting the evil ego talk crap to you. wooo hooo!! congrats on a great date!!
Hi Cassie, the fact that you 2 have been communicating for a while, is a good sign. (Just my opinion). I'm totally self conscience, all the time, your not alone.
Not sure if this is the same guy before quarantine or not. A rule I had my whole life is to leave information about my date with family and at home. Name, phone number, where the person works and any other pertinent information. You never know anymore in this crazy world. Meeting people online can be quite dangerous. I always drove my own car and always met people in a mutual spot. No bars, more like coffee shops. Be careful there are too many creepy people out there.
I felt like you described all the time, maybe even a little more extreme but eventually I decided to stop this kind of behavior because it hurt me too much to have crazy expectations from someone I didn't actually know. I shifted my approach and I tried to have fun, not interpreting things, just enjoying dating, knowing the person. I would get nervous/ excited but I learned how to pretend I didn't actually care the outcome of the date and as I did it I started to not care as much anymore.
Aww I'm so happy for you! My first date with my now-husband was walking around a lake. We originally met when we were 17/18 and worked at Hot Topic together and years later we friended each other on Facebook, but we were both in relationships and one day he just messaged me casually and we haven't gone a day without talking since. But he had moved 2.5 hours away from the place we both grew up and I made plans to take a trip to his city to visit family and meet up with him. He came and got me on his lunch break from work and we walked around Lake Ella and got a coffee at a local place on the lake and when he dropped me back off, he asked to kiss me. And we embraced for several minutes and he asked if he could kiss me again. It's been years and I still get butterflies remembering it. Also, isn't it just the best feeling when you lay down after a long, happy evening and just sink into bed feeling pure contentment? Whether this is or isn't Your Person, I am so happy you are enjoying yourselves. Relationships aren't a destination, they are a journey. Sending love and light your way! 💜🤞🌙
You are absolutely not alone! It’s actually incredibly refreshing to hear someone else talk about the exact same things I think and feel so you go girl!! Keep living your truth! It looks good on you
On our first date (our 2 year anniversary is in July), he picked me up from my parents house where I was living at the time. When he arrived, mum answered the door before I could and our puppies jumped all over him (affectionately/excitedly). I was so worried it was going to make a bad impression - now two years later, he said it was like being welcomed into the family. I was shaking all throughout the movie on our first date, nervous, excited. It can definitely be a good thing. 🤗❤️ Your date outfit looks so cute! ❤️ So happy for you and that it went so well!
I totally get how you told him you’re sweaty!! Like boy you don’t understand. It’s the same with me and height, I’m 6’2” and I tell them I’m really tall, and they say something like “I like tall girls it’s sexy, I’ve always liked a strong women” Than I show up and it’s like Dang girl ur taller than me Yeah I told you silly
I don’t know if you’ve ever shared it before or if you’d be willing to but WHAT is your not so sweaty pill?! I’ve never heard of such a thing and I think it would change my life. 😂
like Shannon already replied, I don't feel comfortable giving out the exact medication name because bodies are all so different... definitely talk to your doctor about medications that can reduce sweating though and I'm sure they'll suggest a handful that you can look into
Ahh cool I didn’t know if it was OTC or prescription! I’ll talk to my doctor, I’ve been diagnosed with hyperhidrosis in my hands & armpits and the only treatment offered to me at the time was Botox!
I always got nervous meeting up with guys because I was scared they’d think I was bigger IRL but I feel like people aren’t as mean / shallow as we think. Most guys are just as nervous! I’m glad the date went well ♥️
Aw, I'm so happy for you!! That voice that pops up in our heads is a bitch to deal with sometimes. Being your 100% true self is the best way to go, sweaty mess and all. I've been with a guy (who happens to be my best friend since over a decade ago) for a year now and still get that voice. It's completely irrational and has no sense behind it whatsoever, but it's so easy to give in to all of those insecurities. You're awesome and I'm happy you finally got to meet and had a blast!
Your little giggles where you have to catch your breath are so cute! I miss this feeling but also don’t ha! I was a wreck before I met my husband! A mess! Now we aim farts at eachother so safe to say the vibe has changed with time.
This is my favorite video in this series so far. I can totally relate to the nervous anxiety and then excitement of the early stages of dating. It's so nice to see you happy!
17:12 "I'm a happy camper " the way you said this sorta melted my heart you really are charming, like really really cute ( i just read my own comment and realised I sounded like a creepy dude I'm a humble 27 year old straight woman btw 😂😂 I was just taken Aback by how cute your smile looked)
my boyfriend of 9 months told me he was sweaty b4 we first met n even tho YES i did notice,,,,, how cute n funny he was totally caught my heart rather than his sweatiness!!! YOU HAVE A KILLER PERSONALITY n anyone would fall for that ❤️
you didn't need the white mixing medium! But, you looked lovely and even with the nerves you seem like you're in a great emotional place these days. :)
Oh the struggles of online dating! I totally get ya! I've been chatting with this guy online since almost the beginning of quarantine. Every time we try to meet up, he's either sick, or working, or visiting old friends. I feel like I'm low on the priority list or maybe he just doesn't want to meet up at all. It's hard not talking with someone in person, not knowing where they're coming from really. And then I analyze everything and don't want to be the one putting in the most effort, or seem overly anxious. Ugh!
I have a medical condition where I get soooo HOT and because of that I sweat a lot-I'm always looking for cooling options for the hot humid weather, here's some tips I have to share. I get some of that spring water in a aerosol cans...(I use Evian) and keep it in the fridge and toss it in my purse before I leave, works great if you spritz your face, neck, arms & legs- very refreshing. I also bought the cooling scarfs to put around my neck- amazon has great colors you wet them and they cool you for hoursb perfect for the hot humid weather 😓 Glad your date went well...yay!
You look beautiful cassie!! You're certainly not the only one who gets THAT nervous about meeting new people! I got second hand anxiety just watching this 😂 glad it went well wishing you the best 😘💜
CASSIE. Your arms look so amazing! If I wasn’t a long time viewer I would have never known that you suffer from dermatillomania. They’re so clear! Proud of your growth over the years. Keep it up! 💓
Lol maybe in the future, dating apps will require photoghraphs taken from different heights to account for any given match's height difference, and accurately portray what it would look like in real life. Full double chin experience or emo style selfie respectively.
Cassie I LOVE these GRWMs I can't thank you enough for being so open, honest and authentic! Please never change! 💖 you're a gem of a person and such a breath of fresh air on TH-cam!
I usually watch your stitch fix videos so this was a fun surprise! I was always like you...so freakin nervous before dates. Now that I have been married for 16 years I still get nervous occasionally around my husband. It's just part of who we are and like you said it means we are interested. I am SO happy for you that the date went well. WOO HOO! IMO, you are awesome and he or any guy would be lucky to be with you. And don't be afraid to not wear makeup because you look pretty without it too. Have fun!
What about just calling him by the first letter of his name? Butterflies are a good thing! 🦋💕 Love watching these kinda vids from you. Wishing you well. Stay safe! ☺
I love how middle school crush this is! That's always the cutest feeling and I get it with my bf everyday (only been together 7 months) SO happy and excited for you!
I mix my foundation combos in those little clear paint pots you buy at craft stores. That way, I have enough and don't risk running out mid face, and don't have to mix again for a little while (granted, I'm not trying new makeup on the weekly though and use my mix daily).
The most commonly used medications for managing excessive sweating are anticholinergics. These include medicines such as: glycopyrrolate, oxybutynin, benztropine, propantheline, and others. Many hyperhidrosis patients experience success with anticholinergic therapy. I hope this helps; please consult with your doctor first❤ God bless you all!
Okay girl I am totally sweaty and self conscious too!!!!! First I think he seems uninterested... but if we have the wrong impression of him, either way wait for someone who doesn’t make you question his intentions. It’s cheesy but true. I’m telling you the sweat doesn’t matter when you know he likes you for you.
your anxiety/excitement was making me sooo anxious. if you hadn't also done the recap, I mightve lost my mind! glad it went well so *my* nerves could be calmed. 😉😁
I love these before date videos. I'm a lot like you with the nerves and butterflies. It's normal to have those when you're excited and happy like that. I agree. Q is great!
Both you and the guy are in your heads too much. I know dating sucks and we always get in our heads too much because we've been hurt. But most of it is because our mind and ego attach all these things to our value and importance for life. I know it's not easy. But just breathe and be in your body. No matter who enters or leaves our life will let us down too, as we will them. Even people that we think look so perfect or maybe they are actually not that self conscious, but the majority of those people aren't happy either because they are also stuck in their head.
Apparently I'm the only one that cares about contact... We do realize there's still a pandemic, right?! Just cause states have opened doesn't mean it's gone 😬 Don't get me wrong, I'm super excited for you!!! I'm also just terrified 😬 I still love you, don't hate me. Safety first is just my motto. I'm glad it went so well!
Hahah I love hearing your date stories...I agree with the ppl who say be careful . If I was you I would focus on someone who will but me first and no forget things like dates
when i met my now husband he was on tinder talking to like 6 girls! needless to say, he ditched them all when we started dating and 5 months later we were engaged!
I had a rough time dating before i met my fiance and the number 1 thing i wish i knew was to ALWAYS talk to other people even if you have someone who youre super into...it helps keep you from hyper focusing on it. Cant recommend that enough!!
cassie i love these first date videos so much! i dont know anyone irl that feels the same level of anxiety bordering on terror that comes from a first date lol so the relatability actually makes me feel a little better. im going on a date with a guy ive been skyping with for a couple months and i really like him, but man.. my insecurities have been overpowering my confidence so bad lately and im struggling to not come up with some excuse to postpone the date 😩 im so happy you powered through and that your date went well! asking if a kiss is ok is so cute and im crossing my everything for the same thing to happen on my date lol
thank you so much for all the love and reassurance!! And best of luck to you with your guy, don't postpone things just because you're nervous! I know, easier said than done, but it'll go so much better than your mind is telling you. Promise
@@thriftthick aw, thank you! i really appriciate you taking the time to reply! your message is a little kick i need to not even consider flaking. i can totally do this 🗣🗣🗣
Hey girl, there is this foundation called Fitcover, I think it's powder. But it's designed for women who workout. Its supposed to stay in place and not budge even through all the sweating. That would be a cool video to try! Please try it, I need something good that won't budge.
I think it is so cute to watch your getting ready videos , I have been married for 32 years now and the man I married started out as a best friend, seeing you get so excited just brings me back to that dating stage , and by the way you looked amazing!!!!! 😀
You don't have to be skinny and you don't have to be perfect, you are a beautiful person in so many ways and if he doesn't see that I feel bad for him. I get that your nervous but you'll be fine, hope you had a great date 😊😘
I feel this so much. I met a guy on a dating app who I connected with super well. We talked for TWO AND A HALF YEARS and never met because I was always so nervous about meeting him in real life and was so anxious that somehow I would be disappointing to him when he met me. We finally met in November, because he was moving across the country the next week and it would pretty much be my last chance to ever meet him. ANYWAY it ended up being pretty nice, and it was sweet to finally meet him 😊💕
I was married for 8 years and then in a serious relationship right after, now I’ve been single for a while and I’m going on a date. I swear I am just as nervous as you were, I’m already sweating and worried about how things will go, I keep telling myself, “it’s just a date, if it sucks it sucks!” Haha currently freaking out!
Women and men should both talk to several different ppl at a time while dating online because it’s actually bad to focus all ur energy on one person. It’s good to know you’re really attracted to the person if you keep coming back to each other you know u can focus on them. And it’s also good he tells you the truth even if it would come off as you’re not important because that means he’s not telling you what he thinks you want to hear. But you also need to be careful and read into those signs before you put too much into it. He he takes a step you take one not 5 lol! Good luck
Girl stop underselling yourself. Just an observation. I know it’s hard but I used to highlight my insecurities to guys too, and all it does is lower your value to them subconsciously. Rock that sweaty back lol you are gracing him with your time and presence like the queen you are. He should be so lucky dammit lol
I am living for this. It’s so nice to see such a raw and real person just doing a fun get ready video. It’s sad I have to say it’s so “refreshing” but it is! It’s not common anymore. Your hilarious and glad your being brave and looking out for what you want! You goooo girl 🙂
I sweat like that too. And it's so embarrassing. Like people will ask me "are you ok?" My head will sweat and it will run down my face and into my eyes. I despise it. I deal with chronic pain which adds to it. ☹️
at least we know we're not alone, right?? Still embarrassing/humiliating/anxiety inducing/etc. but there are loads of us out there that know you can't help it and don't think you're disgusting because of it
Hey m sorry you have to deal with that, have youve tried looking into botox for that ☺️ i hope you look into it i use botox on my armpits and i never break a sweat now!
Janelle's Budget Beauty Same with me. I deal with chronic pain and one of my drs told me I’m extremely heat intolerant, which I already knew, but pain definitely adds to it. I’m also allergic to the sun. I stay in the shade 90% of the time I’m outside. I have small towels that I put on my pressure points, it helps a little. I’ve gone as far as putting deodorant around my hairline to try not to drip all over myself. I honestly don’t like going outside anymore in the Summer.
I once heard that some people apply antitranspirant to their hairlines to help with sweating in the face. Never tried it personally but maybe there are tutorials online on this „hack“ :)
Cassie, this is not spam, don't know if you remember I used to comment on your videos a couple of years ago. So happy for your date! and please watch Shallon Lester's channel here on youtube. She gives advice on relationships. I'm older than her and still I find it useful.
Hey Cassie! I don't even wear makeup (too lazy/intimidated/don't know where to start), but I love your videos, and this one had me giggling (in the best way). So glad it went well for you! Hope there are more updates in the future!
Oh girl...when I was taking Cymbalta, I literally poured sweat. Even in the middle of winter. I love that you are so transparent. I think it's cathartic. 💕
I think butterflies are a must in a relationship I have been married 32 years and still get butterflies You were so fun to watch to see how nervous and excited you are
I met my husband on Tinder in 2015. We talked for over 6 months before going on a date. And he also canceled the first date! Then he was late the next day ( he was super nervous and stopped to buy shoes and then stopped for flowers). We had a great time and he walked me to my front door and texted me when he got home. The next week we went on another date. Spent the whole day together and when he walked me out to my car, he asked if he could kiss me. Needless to say, we’ve now been married for almost 2 years! I’m so excited for you 💜❤️
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call him Q or quarentine guy....bc that was during ur 1st date lol n we will know who u r talking about
lol "Q" could work!! I like that :)
@@thriftthick awesome!!! Lol
I like Q! Haha
Lol. It’s very Star Trek. I like it.
Reality Gossip &Makeup Yes!!
It’s so sweet to know you have butterflies over him. I’ve been married to my husband, whom I’ve known since we were fifteen, for forty-two years and I STILL get butterflies when he holds my hand. It’s a good thing, Cassie.
😍😍😍😍😍
The fact that he asked if he could kiss you though 😩 so cute.
I've had someone ask if they can kiss me before... and then they proceeded to maul my face/body. It was not cute 😑
Oh man I HAAAATE the ask. (I know I’m probably in the minority here). It’s always so awkward.
@@StephLeeLew oh, yeah, that does not sound pleasant... But I think it's cute that they asked rather than just throwing themselves at your face? 😂
@@angiep8708 I think it would be awkward if you didn't want to maybe, but I think it's really sweet to ask instead of just going straight in, that's more awkward to have to turn down in my opinion, but just my thought ☺️
TWICE 😍😩
Long time subscriber here; I think you're great! Don't forget everyone has things they don't like about themselves.
Top dating tip: Don't concentrate on if he likes you. But, instead concentrate on if you like him!
Cassie: “There will be no touching, no contact...”
Also Cassie: *kisses him*
😂😂
Worth it!!!
@@sohipimhop2980 apparently it wasn’t lol
the older you get the less self conscious you will be. well that is how it is for me. I could care less about so much now. people don't really care about the things we think they care about... as much as we think they do. besides we should be loving ourselves how we love others. one day I realized "why did I just say that to myself"... I would NEVER say that about someone else. it is freeing when you stop letting the evil ego talk crap to you. wooo hooo!! congrats on a great date!!
Exactly! I’m 41 and I can laugh now at the things that made me self-conscience when I was in my 20s.
i needed to hear this
I absolutely agree with you
I have the same problem. I feel like everyone judges me. Its getting better. Thank God!!🙏
I can’t wait to get to that age where Idgaf about the small things or how I look lol
Hi Cassie, the fact that you 2 have been communicating for a while, is a good sign. (Just my opinion).
I'm totally self conscience, all the time, your not alone.
I think it's a good sign too Cindy, thank you!!
I miss first dates. The thrill of getting to know someone. The thrill of the unknown.
I’m pretty sure he would find it cute how giddy and nervous you were to see him!
Not sure if this is the same guy before quarantine or not. A rule I had my whole life is to leave information about my date with family and at home. Name, phone number, where the person works and any other pertinent information. You never know anymore in this crazy world. Meeting people online can be quite dangerous. I always drove my own car and always met people in a mutual spot. No bars, more like coffee shops. Be careful there are too many creepy people out there.
Leaving info written down at home is a good idea that I’ve never thought of!
I felt like you described all the time, maybe even a little more extreme but eventually I decided to stop this kind of behavior because it hurt me too much to have crazy expectations from someone I didn't actually know. I shifted my approach and I tried to have fun, not interpreting things, just enjoying dating, knowing the person. I would get nervous/ excited but I learned how to pretend I didn't actually care the outcome of the date and as I did it I started to not care as much anymore.
“we’re going on a no contact walk”
“he kissed me”
I feel like I'm talking to a friend, really got excited when yOU TOLD US HE KISSED YOU OMG
Call him Z in the hope that he will be the last and your forever person
OMG THAT'S ADORABLE 😭
No pressure 😂
Aww that's great!! :)
That is, but if it doesn't work then the next one Z 2? I'm thinking of Zombies!
THIS
Aww I'm so happy for you! My first date with my now-husband was walking around a lake. We originally met when we were 17/18 and worked at Hot Topic together and years later we friended each other on Facebook, but we were both in relationships and one day he just messaged me casually and we haven't gone a day without talking since. But he had moved 2.5 hours away from the place we both grew up and I made plans to take a trip to his city to visit family and meet up with him. He came and got me on his lunch break from work and we walked around Lake Ella and got a coffee at a local place on the lake and when he dropped me back off, he asked to kiss me. And we embraced for several minutes and he asked if he could kiss me again. It's been years and I still get butterflies remembering it. Also, isn't it just the best feeling when you lay down after a long, happy evening and just sink into bed feeling pure contentment? Whether this is or isn't Your Person, I am so happy you are enjoying yourselves. Relationships aren't a destination, they are a journey. Sending love and light your way! 💜🤞🌙
You are absolutely not alone! It’s actually incredibly refreshing to hear someone else talk about the exact same things I think and feel so you go girl!! Keep living your truth! It looks good on you
On our first date (our 2 year anniversary is in July), he picked me up from my parents house where I was living at the time. When he arrived, mum answered the door before I could and our puppies jumped all over him (affectionately/excitedly). I was so worried it was going to make a bad impression - now two years later, he said it was like being welcomed into the family.
I was shaking all throughout the movie on our first date, nervous, excited. It can definitely be a good thing. 🤗❤️ Your date outfit looks so cute! ❤️ So happy for you and that it went so well!
I totally get how you told him you’re sweaty!! Like boy you don’t understand. It’s the same with me and height, I’m 6’2” and I tell them
I’m really tall, and they say something like
“I like tall girls it’s sexy, I’ve always liked a strong women”
Than I show up and it’s like
Dang girl ur taller than me
Yeah I told you silly
No seriously !! Whenever I tell somebody im tall and they guess my height its always like 5’6-5’8 😹😹 boy im 5’11 lol
happy cassie is the best cassie
I don’t know if you’ve ever shared it before or if you’d be willing to but WHAT is your not so sweaty pill?! I’ve never heard of such a thing and I think it would change my life. 😂
She mentioned once she isn't saying what it is she thinks that anyone who is interested should talk to their doctor about what is best for them
like Shannon already replied, I don't feel comfortable giving out the exact medication name because bodies are all so different... definitely talk to your doctor about medications that can reduce sweating though and I'm sure they'll suggest a handful that you can look into
I don’t know what her exact medication is but my daughter takes Oxybutnin to treat her hyperhydrosis. It really helps her to not sweat so much
Ahh cool I didn’t know if it was OTC or prescription! I’ll talk to my doctor, I’ve been diagnosed with hyperhidrosis in my hands & armpits and the only treatment offered to me at the time was Botox!
I’ve heard Botox works too.
I always got nervous meeting up with guys because I was scared they’d think I was bigger IRL but I feel like people aren’t as mean / shallow as we think. Most guys are just as nervous! I’m glad the date went well ♥️
he asked if he could kiss youuu so sweet!!! 🥰🥰🥰
right?? I think that that's the cutest thing
You're so freaking adorable. I'm glad you had a good time, you deserve to be happy. I hope it works out with this guy. Thank you for sharing! 💗
Aw, I'm so happy for you!! That voice that pops up in our heads is a bitch to deal with sometimes. Being your 100% true self is the best way to go, sweaty mess and all. I've been with a guy (who happens to be my best friend since over a decade ago) for a year now and still get that voice. It's completely irrational and has no sense behind it whatsoever, but it's so easy to give in to all of those insecurities. You're awesome and I'm happy you finally got to meet and had a blast!
Your little giggles where you have to catch your breath are so cute! I miss this feeling but also don’t ha! I was a wreck before I met my husband! A mess! Now we aim farts at eachother so safe to say the vibe has changed with time.
This is my favorite video in this series so far. I can totally relate to the nervous anxiety and then excitement of the early stages of dating. It's so nice to see you happy!
17:12 "I'm a happy camper " the way you said this sorta melted my heart you really are charming, like really really cute ( i just read my own comment and realised I sounded like a creepy dude I'm a humble 27 year old straight woman btw 😂😂 I was just taken Aback by how cute your smile looked)
my boyfriend of 9 months told me he was sweaty b4 we first met n even tho YES i did notice,,,,, how cute n funny he was totally caught my heart rather than his sweatiness!!! YOU HAVE A KILLER PERSONALITY n anyone would fall for that ❤️
Oh Cassie, you are so adorable, love your giggles. Just don’t sell yourself short, you deserve a great guy who sees how special you are
you didn't need the white mixing medium! But, you looked lovely and even with the nerves you seem like you're in a great emotional place these days. :)
Love watching you do eyes!! Watch all your old vids when I did such beautiful and colorful looks . Ahh Cassie!! BRING IT BACK!!😂😂❤❤
Oh the struggles of online dating! I totally get ya! I've been chatting with this guy online since almost the beginning of quarantine. Every time we try to meet up, he's either sick, or working, or visiting old friends. I feel like I'm low on the priority list or maybe he just doesn't want to meet up at all. It's hard not talking with someone in person, not knowing where they're coming from really. And then I analyze everything and don't want to be the one putting in the most effort, or seem overly anxious. Ugh!
I LOVE these!! Because I always feel like we're friends talking before you go on your dates HAHAH
I don’t know if you mentioned it but does he know you’re a TH-camr?
Ahhhh Cass!!! I’m SO happy for you. I can’t wait for the next date video omg
I have a medical condition where I get soooo HOT and because of that I sweat a lot-I'm always looking for cooling options for the hot humid weather, here's some tips I have to share. I get some of that spring water in a aerosol cans...(I use Evian) and keep it in the fridge and toss it in my purse before I leave, works great if you spritz your face, neck, arms & legs- very refreshing. I also bought the cooling scarfs to put around my neck- amazon has great colors you wet them and they cool you for hoursb perfect for the hot humid weather 😓
Glad your date went well...yay!
I went and got checked to see if I started menopause. I'm not but I get soooo hot even in winter. I melt spring and summer, I hate it so much
I’ve seen those cooling towels at target in the “dollar spot” (I forgot what they actually call it) for $5. They work great
You look beautiful cassie!! You're certainly not the only one who gets THAT nervous about meeting new people! I got second hand anxiety just watching this 😂 glad it went well wishing you the best 😘💜
CASSIE. Your arms look so amazing! If I wasn’t a long time viewer I would have never known that you suffer from dermatillomania. They’re so clear! Proud of your growth over the years. Keep it up! 💓
I honestly don't think you need the white mix in...you seem more golden toned naturally and it makes your makeup pink toned and too pale.
Lol maybe in the future, dating apps will require photoghraphs taken from different heights to account for any given match's height difference, and accurately portray what it would look like in real life. Full double chin experience or emo style selfie respectively.
hahahah can you imagine?? Pretty sure none of us would get a right swipe if that were the case XD
Congrats 🍾🎊🎉🎈🥳 Can’t wait till next date!! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼
Cassie I LOVE these GRWMs I can't thank you enough for being so open, honest and authentic! Please never change! 💖 you're a gem of a person and such a breath of fresh air on TH-cam!
Girl you don’t give yourself enough credit! But YES! I get very nervous going on dates... shaky, stumbling over words and nervous sweats!!
I usually watch your stitch fix videos so this was a fun surprise! I was always like you...so freakin nervous before dates. Now that I have been married for 16 years I still get nervous occasionally around my husband. It's just part of who we are and like you said it means we are interested. I am SO happy for you that the date went well. WOO HOO! IMO, you are awesome and he or any guy would be lucky to be with you. And don't be afraid to not wear makeup because you look pretty without it too. Have fun!
What about just calling him by the first letter of his name?
Butterflies are a good thing! 🦋💕
Love watching these kinda vids from you. Wishing you well. Stay safe! ☺
I don't usually comment but thanks for posting these videos about your dating experiences. I find it so fun and its like I'm listening to a friend!
I love how middle school crush this is! That's always the cutest feeling and I get it with my bf everyday (only been together 7 months) SO happy and excited for you!
I mix my foundation combos in those little clear paint pots you buy at craft stores. That way, I have enough and don't risk running out mid face, and don't have to mix again for a little while (granted, I'm not trying new makeup on the weekly though and use my mix daily).
Omg,if he doesn't appreciate you....he doesn't deserve you. You are amazing and beautiful
Get the LA mixing medium it’s really good and not that expensive I got mine for $3.99
The most commonly used medications for managing excessive sweating are anticholinergics. These include medicines such as: glycopyrrolate, oxybutynin, benztropine, propantheline, and others. Many hyperhidrosis patients experience success with anticholinergic therapy.
I hope this helps; please consult with your doctor first❤
God bless you all!
Thank you so much for sharing your experience! it makes me more comfortable myself! just a reminder to everyone that white silence is violence!
Your so pretty and don’t let your yourself ruin that we are our own worst enemy. I love your channel
Okay girl I am totally sweaty and self conscious too!!!!! First I think he seems uninterested... but if we have the wrong impression of him, either way wait for someone who doesn’t make you question his intentions. It’s cheesy but true. I’m telling you the sweat doesn’t matter when you know he likes you for you.
your anxiety/excitement was making me sooo anxious. if you hadn't also done the recap, I mightve lost my mind! glad it went well so *my* nerves could be calmed. 😉😁
I love these before date videos. I'm a lot like you with the nerves and butterflies. It's normal to have those when you're excited and happy like that. I agree. Q is great!
Cassie I was nervous breathing with you!!!! Lol my heart was racing too 😂😂 glad it went well!!
haha aww sorry to put you through that Melissa!! But thank you
You’re probably an empath😊
Both you and the guy are in your heads too much. I know dating sucks and we always get in our heads too much because we've been hurt. But most of it is because our mind and ego attach all these things to our value and importance for life. I know it's not easy. But just breathe and be in your body. No matter who enters or leaves our life will let us down too, as we will them. Even people that we think look so perfect or maybe they are actually not that self conscious, but the majority of those people aren't happy either because they are also stuck in their head.
Apparently I'm the only one that cares about contact... We do realize there's still a pandemic, right?! Just cause states have opened doesn't mean it's gone 😬 Don't get me wrong, I'm super excited for you!!! I'm also just terrified 😬 I still love you, don't hate me. Safety first is just my motto. I'm glad it went so well!
Life is for living. If you're not living you mind as well be dead.
Kristie Walker well you can’t do much living if you’re dead from covid.
It's the two of them, as long as they're not with other people and crowds it should be fine
Hahah I love hearing your date stories...I agree with the ppl who say be careful . If I was you I would focus on someone who will but me first and no forget things like dates
when i met my now husband he was on tinder talking to like 6 girls! needless to say, he ditched them all when we started dating and 5 months later we were engaged!
So glad I'm not in the dating world!! I pray you meet a great person!! Your beautiful inside and out.
I had a rough time dating before i met my fiance and the number 1 thing i wish i knew was to ALWAYS talk to other people even if you have someone who youre super into...it helps keep you from hyper focusing on it. Cant recommend that enough!!
cassie i love these first date videos so much! i dont know anyone irl that feels the same level of anxiety bordering on terror that comes from a first date lol so the relatability actually makes me feel a little better. im going on a date with a guy ive been skyping with for a couple months and i really like him, but man.. my insecurities have been overpowering my confidence so bad lately and im struggling to not come up with some excuse to postpone the date 😩
im so happy you powered through and that your date went well! asking if a kiss is ok is so cute and im crossing my everything for the same thing to happen on my date lol
thank you so much for all the love and reassurance!! And best of luck to you with your guy, don't postpone things just because you're nervous! I know, easier said than done, but it'll go so much better than your mind is telling you. Promise
@@thriftthick aw, thank you! i really appriciate you taking the time to reply! your message is a little kick i need to not even consider flaking. i can totally do this 🗣🗣🗣
Hey girl, there is this foundation called Fitcover, I think it's powder. But it's designed for women who workout. Its supposed to stay in place and not budge even through all the sweating. That would be a cool video to try! Please try it, I need something good that won't budge.
I think it is so cute to watch your getting ready videos , I have been married for 32 years now and the man I married started out as a best friend, seeing you get so excited just brings me back to that dating stage , and by the way you looked amazing!!!!! 😀
You don't have to be skinny and you don't have to be perfect, you are a beautiful person in so many ways and if he doesn't see that I feel bad for him. I get that your nervous but you'll be fine, hope you had a great date 😊😘
I feel this so much. I met a guy on a dating app who I connected with super well. We talked for TWO AND A HALF YEARS and never met because I was always so nervous about meeting him in real life and was so anxious that somehow I would be disappointing to him when he met me. We finally met in November, because he was moving across the country the next week and it would pretty much be my last chance to ever meet him. ANYWAY it ended up being pretty nice, and it was sweet to finally meet him 😊💕
How nice!! So what happened next if I may ask, are you still together?
Yes, what happened???
I like “Q” as the initial since your communication really blossomed during quarantine
Hrm. Q is also code for substance abuse though. I like C. 😊
Please don't second guess yourself Cassie. You are soooo beautiful and seem very sweet and humble ( I say seem, because I don't know you personally)
thank you Wendy, I'm definitely working on trying not to do so much negative self talk
I LOVE your date vlogs ❤️ I feel like you epitomise first date nerves in this one but like it’s refreshing seeing a real person dating 😊
Thanks for being so vulnerable and open in this vid, glad it went well :)
I was married for 8 years and then in a serious relationship right after, now I’ve been single for a while and I’m going on a date. I swear I am just as nervous as you were, I’m already sweating and worried about how things will go, I keep telling myself, “it’s just a date, if it sucks it sucks!” Haha currently freaking out!
So happy for you Cassie, I hope you have many more wonderful dates with him, you deserve happiness hun
You could always use greek letters to name your dates. No association. :) I love seeing your confidence grow!
Oh how sweet! I miss the first date jitters! It's completely normal.
Women and men should both talk to several different ppl at a time while dating online because it’s actually bad to focus all ur energy on one person. It’s good to know you’re really attracted to the person if you keep coming back to each other you know u can focus on them. And it’s also good he tells you the truth even if it would come off as you’re not important because that means he’s not telling you what he thinks you want to hear. But you also need to be careful and read into those signs before you put too much into it. He he takes a step you take one not 5 lol! Good luck
I'm so happy for you, Cassie. Regardless of what the future holds, it seems like you are having so much fun.
You look gorgeous!!! Just be yourself because your beauty shines from within.
Yes - everyone feels that way! Yes - we are all in our heads too!! Do not feel alone! I love seeing a happy Cassie!!
Girl stop underselling yourself. Just an observation. I know it’s hard but I used to highlight my insecurities to guys too, and all it does is lower your value to them subconsciously. Rock that sweaty back lol you are gracing him with your time and presence like the queen you are. He should be so lucky dammit lol
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DO A SERIES WHERE YOU TRY E-GIRL MAKEUP, GOTH, INSTAGRAM BADDIE!
So excited for the couple videos!! ;) I wish you allll the best
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I am living for this. It’s so nice to see such a raw and real person just doing a fun get ready video. It’s sad I have to say it’s so “refreshing” but it is! It’s not common anymore. Your hilarious and glad your being brave and looking out for what you want! You goooo girl 🙂
I'm happy for you Cassie. I hope he's a winner.
i think the foundation might be a little too light
yeah, I added a little too much white mix-in.... oh well, live and learn lol XD
Thrift Thick once you finished everything it looked fine!! trial and error :)
SO HAPPY FOR U LOVE ♡ you seem v happy and positive about him and thats how we like to see u
I sweat like that too. And it's so embarrassing. Like people will ask me "are you ok?" My head will sweat and it will run down my face and into my eyes. I despise it. I deal with chronic pain which adds to it. ☹️
Literally so relatable. People ask me if I'm okay, why my hair is wet, and on and on. Then I sweat more because I'm anxious!
at least we know we're not alone, right?? Still embarrassing/humiliating/anxiety inducing/etc. but there are loads of us out there that know you can't help it and don't think you're disgusting because of it
Hey m sorry you have to deal with that, have youve tried looking into botox for that ☺️ i hope you look into it i use botox on my armpits and i never break a sweat now!
Janelle's Budget Beauty Same with me. I deal with chronic pain and one of my drs told me I’m extremely heat intolerant, which I already knew, but pain definitely adds to it. I’m also allergic to the sun. I stay in the shade 90% of the time I’m outside. I have small towels that I put on my pressure points, it helps a little. I’ve gone as far as putting deodorant around my hairline to try not to drip all over myself.
I honestly don’t like going outside anymore in the Summer.
I once heard that some people apply antitranspirant to their hairlines to help with sweating in the face. Never tried it personally but maybe there are tutorials online on this „hack“ :)
What was the product you used on your waterline? Couldn’t find it in the product use section. Thanks!
Cassie, this is not spam, don't know if you remember I used to comment on your videos a couple of years ago. So happy for your date! and please watch Shallon Lester's channel here on youtube. She gives advice on relationships. I'm older than her and still I find it useful.
Okay the best part of taking a dump is bringing your phone and sending meaningful texts while on the shitter. I’m calling your bluff 😹
hahahah seriously??? I NEVER take my phone to the toilet.... I'm never there for long enough to formulate a text anyways XD
Hey Cassie! I don't even wear makeup (too lazy/intimidated/don't know where to start), but I love your videos, and this one had me giggling (in the best way). So glad it went well for you! Hope there are more updates in the future!
Oh girl...when I was taking Cymbalta, I literally poured sweat. Even in the middle of winter. I love that you are so transparent. I think it's cathartic. 💕
I think butterflies are a must in a relationship I have been married 32 years and still get butterflies
You were so fun to watch to see how nervous and excited you are
I met my boyfriend in late July. The fear of sweat was REAL. Happy you got the butterflies! They’re totally necessary!
I’m glad it went well but kissing or physical contact isn’t wise since Covid 19 is still a concern. Be safe.
I wish you could see the smile on my face Cassie!!! I love seeing you all giddy!!
You are so beautiful person inside and out! Wishing you the best of luck with him! I am really really happy for you!
I met my husband on Tinder in 2015. We talked for over 6 months before going on a date. And he also canceled the first date! Then he was late the next day ( he was super nervous and stopped to buy shoes and then stopped for flowers). We had a great time and he walked me to my front door and texted me when he got home. The next week we went on another date. Spent the whole day together and when he walked me out to my car, he asked if he could kiss me. Needless to say, we’ve now been married for almost 2 years! I’m so excited for you 💜❤️
I'm so happy for you Cassie! 😊
I can't stop staring at your eyes, they're so pretty!'