HOW I SAVE MONEY FOR LUXURY | Lydia Elise Millen

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  • @Dedeecheer
    @Dedeecheer 7 ปีที่แล้ว +718

    Since I was 17, I told myself I would own a Chanel bag before turning 30. After saving for 5 years, I went to the Chanel boutique and finally bought my GST. I've never felt so proud, I cried in the store. So at 22, I checked the number one thing on my bucket list. My heart sings every time I wear it. It's not just about the bag, it's more about the goal I achieved. Love your videos ❤

    • @nanamajeur1784
      @nanamajeur1784 7 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Andréane Bou lol so you saved for 5 years just to spend it on a useless bag, just because it has the tag "Chanel" on it, I understand where ur coming from but this is so superficial

    • @jessicamendez3486
      @jessicamendez3486 7 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      One Chanel bag defines this girl's life? Aren't you the superficial one to judge her for one purchased item? That's as deep as you're willing to go in learning about a person before judging them? How do you know she didn't have other goals she accomplished? How do you know the fact that she was able to accomplish that one thing didn't give her the confidence to achieve other substantial things? We all spend many Chanel bags worth of money on coffee or eating out when we could of cooked in. She probably practiced discipline to skip these things over the course of 5 years to spend it differently. We all make our choices. Instead of congratulating someone on their discipline and success, you judge their personal choices.

    • @killerteddy100
      @killerteddy100 7 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Exactly girl, and this is what true saving and budgeting looks like. A real person with a real life income saves up for years to buy one luxury item but Lydia buys one luxury item every month. Unfortunately that's not realistic for 85% of us in the world. If I had $3-5k left over after bills every month, I wouldn't be watching this video looking for saving/budgeting tips.

    • @adam4025
      @adam4025 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      yep ! and little saving she named is the purses $4k !!?? How about other bills and expense . well no matter how I work hard in 2 full time job I still cannot effort buying every month luxury items easily. Taking care parents and kids comes first .

    • @sinthuchiva515
      @sinthuchiva515 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So so so proud of you ! 💙

  • @CarolSummer
    @CarolSummer 7 ปีที่แล้ว +733

    This video won't be formal, says the girl who wears some stunning lace and always looks like a million dollars!!! 😘😘❤️❤️❤️

    • @athomewithnika6459
      @athomewithnika6459 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Carol Summer she alwayd looks so stunning

    • @Emilyk1317
      @Emilyk1317 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Carol Summer love her ❤️❤️

    • @juliazentio234
      @juliazentio234 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Carol Summer she is a real stunner💕

    • @beautybybrookn
      @beautybybrookn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Carol Summer right?? She always looks so gorgeous! 😍

    • @millybells
      @millybells 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ainebxx who's Carol summer ?

  • @diekeksdose2010
    @diekeksdose2010 7 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    The worst thing is people hating on someone who spends money on luxury products. I'm still in university but love spending my hard earned money on more expensive bags. People have to understand that not everybody with a LV, Gucci or Prada bag is a millionaire. I don't go out every weekend, I don't smoke and I try to save as much as possible. Love your videos, Lydia x

    • @Wonyoungmilk
      @Wonyoungmilk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      xthisischrissy true my mother said i am too rich😂

    • @adamkhabazian3249
      @adamkhabazian3249 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      we hate on the narcissists and it is well deserved

  • @poisonedchalice
    @poisonedchalice 7 ปีที่แล้ว +713

    Not directed to Lydia...but I look at many YT videos and comments and its clear a lot of people dont realise how lucky they are. Despite having a masters degree and a hardworker I haven't been able to afford or save up for things which i would like - main reason being my father gambling. My sister and I have had to pay towards the mortgage and his debts. Be grateful.

    • @shefine04
      @shefine04 7 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      Rosebud .....just read your comment. You have honored your parents by being a very rare gem; hardworking & got an education & that's enough! Now go get yourself something selfishly wonderful & reward yourself! Keep your head up & be encouraged!

    • @kli8469
      @kli8469 7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Rosebud no one need to pay for their parents debts....

    • @ellamary3956
      @ellamary3956 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I hope he stopped 😕.. did he ?

    • @millybells
      @millybells 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Rosebud Your one who lives in the real world

    • @DebraStephensslowtownchic
      @DebraStephensslowtownchic 7 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      +Rosebud Are you in the US? I work for a casino and there is help for your dad. 1-800-552-4700 is a number you can call in the US to get help with gambling problems. I'm sure there is a similar hotline in the UK or other countries. Please, call,for him, if not for you and your sisters sake. You are an honorable daughter, but your dad needs to take responsibility for his problem. Please, also seek help for you and your sister, the psychological effect is also very hard. You can fight this as a family. You can do this. My well wishes are with you and your family.

  • @jordannurney6672
    @jordannurney6672 7 ปีที่แล้ว +730

    I've always had a high respect for you Lydia, but I believe you being so genuine with us all the time confirmed more of why I respect and love you and your channel.

    • @warumdennkeinWunder
      @warumdennkeinWunder 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      yes daria, of course all your hobbies, habits and other actions never harmed the planet in any way ever, so I guess it's time to throw the first stone.

    • @BillieLovesYouu
      @BillieLovesYouu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Do you eat meat? or drink Milk? Because that harms animals too, I'm sure you do your fair share of harming to animals. Don't be a hypocrite.

    • @frankbigottho5795
      @frankbigottho5795 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      daria morgendorffer zz

    • @ladygodivea6743
      @ladygodivea6743 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Can ppl not make a point without calling you names or using nasty language anymore? Get your vocabulary up hunny 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @asma1588
      @asma1588 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jordan Nurney 100% i fell the same she's sweet but there's a major problem!! The videos are really long😂😂😂😂

  • @aliciamilan6199
    @aliciamilan6199 7 ปีที่แล้ว +381

    I am right there with you. I rarely go out to eat, I don't go out for drinks and movies maybe once a year. I don't go on vacations etc.
    My extra money goes for the luxury goods I love, whether it's a Burberry trench, or Gucci shoes, or a Chanel purse. When I get the jealous comments about my riches, I laugh, and point out the 10,000 dollar cruise they just took etc. Everyone spends differently, and luxury goods are my pleasure. I get pleasure everyday I wear them and enjoy them. My income, my choice, no apologies.

    • @valeriab.3669
      @valeriab.3669 7 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      I do respect people's choices in spending their own money, however, isn't this kind of lifestyle lonely? We don't go out solely for food or movie itself, that's a part of being social, getting experience and building memories with people that we like and love. As much as I appreciate luxury goods, I wouldn't want to sacrifice everything else out there to own them, just my opinion, i don't judge :)

    • @molly3900
      @molly3900 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I agree with this completely! A few years ago I used to never go out and spent my money mainly on possessions. I thought that if I exchanged my money for something that was immaterial, then I had wasted it. Recently, I realised that happiness does not depend on possessions as when you stop socialising everything else feels pointless. When you go out it is definitely for the experience or the company. You eventually run out of space for objects but you can have as many good memories as you like :)
      Whenever I buy something material now I always ask myself: "Does it have a use?" and "Is it really worth the asking price?"

    • @Apluschic
      @Apluschic 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Alicia Milan well said!!!!!

    • @marialim114
      @marialim114 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      if that's what you get pleasure from, i see no problem with that 👍

    • @bambina5604
      @bambina5604 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm sorry but reading your comment I just feel sorry for you.

  • @starabaker
    @starabaker 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Following lots of youtubers and bloggers makes it somewhat "normal" to own a handbag that costs several hundreds and sometimes thousands. Sometimes I feel like owning a Chanel bag has become the new normal, if you get caught on social media and want to replicate what you constantly see. Thank you Lydia for putting things into perspective. Thank you for reminding everyone that going into debt and getting everything right away isn't healthy, more bloggers should address this subject. I own several luxury handbags myself and love them but I would never go into debt for that. Saving is the key.

  • @beautyclassyfied
    @beautyclassyfied 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1085

    by far the most humble blogger out there xxx

    • @Thegirlinthetartanscarf
      @Thegirlinthetartanscarf 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      furnaz I second that 👌

    • @Curlsandbags
      @Curlsandbags 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      so true!

    • @xpinksweetcheeksx
      @xpinksweetcheeksx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree

    • @CatFoxx5
      @CatFoxx5 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      For sure! If you really love designer brands, then work for them and that's what Lydia teaches!!

    • @JW424
      @JW424 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol

  • @christinawilmowski6058
    @christinawilmowski6058 7 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    A tip that others might find useful - I put 10% of my monthly pay into my savings, which isn't necessarily a huge amount, but it's enough to feel like I won't necessarily 'miss' the money, but over time it does add up to pay for things that are important to me - which is travel.

    • @jessicamendez3486
      @jessicamendez3486 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Travel is definitely my splurge! When I think about an expensive item I'd like to buy, I'm always convinced not to buy it when consider the vacation I could have with that money.

    • @QueenieBeenieBaby
      @QueenieBeenieBaby 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes me too!!! I always save some from every paycheck and spend it on traveling which is my splurge too. My car is old and I've wanted a new car but I always find myself spending money on trips instead :) and I'm ok with that

  • @RangerMommy
    @RangerMommy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Lydia, I'm sure that you can also "write off" some of your purchases and your home against your income as business expenses. For example, if you show a luxury bag on your channel it is a business expense. Also, if you both work out of your home you can claim part of your home as a business expense against your taxes. This also makes a big difference.

  • @sylvialiu2946
    @sylvialiu2946 7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    When ur saying: believe me I'm really really good at saving. I was thinking wow this girl must earn A LOOOOOT!

  • @delthomas6479
    @delthomas6479 7 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    This is great advice. I'm much older than you with a daughter your age. She's very successful because like you, she's very smart, ambitious and works darn hard. So, it saddens me to sense a kind of apologetic/"forgive me guys" tone to your advice. You young women out there work very hard! You're all clued up to everything and are fearless. With hard work comes sucess; whatever that is for you - a bag, a house or savings. Sadly, we live in a world where jealousy and poison exists. Don't let his deter you however. Don't apologise to anyone for your sucess. Those who can't be happy for you, it's their problem. All of you, enjoy the fruits of your labour, you've earned it. You young women ROCK! Best wishes. 👍👑👜👛👠🎓☺

    • @denvergermany
      @denvergermany 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Del Thomas By far the best comment!!!

  • @nikkiponcsak
    @nikkiponcsak 7 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    You have such a good head on your shoulders, Lydia, I really respect you for that. xx

  • @nobodytoyou9965
    @nobodytoyou9965 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I swear you look like a queen, so elegant and classy, the way you talk, how you dress, your makeup and accessories, even the background is absolutely stunning!

  • @future288ify
    @future288ify 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Another tip is to sale shop on luxury websites and stores I bought all my Louboutin's at a 40-50% discount from selfridges during sale period I sale shop twice a year summer and winter I save thousands on brands like Valentino,ysl Gucci, christian louboutin,Versace, fendi list is endless

    • @Vlindertjeab
      @Vlindertjeab 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! That's the plan true...

  • @licensedandinsureda5698
    @licensedandinsureda5698 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I don't know about others but honestly I watch because I love the items you get,they way you style them, your a lovely person and seeing pretty items always makes most girls happy. I would not only never question your finances nor should anyone else. It's about what you show and how to style not really anyone's business otherwise. Sure people will come out of the woodwork with envy but it goes with anyone in the public eye and much more if that person happens to be beautiful. You do great work and your a breath of fresh air.

  • @TheLuxuryHybrid
    @TheLuxuryHybrid 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was a great way to introduce someone who is not sure how to acquire luxury handbags. I'm mostly impressed by how much you emphasize the reality of how people can unassumingly fall into debt by not taking the necessary responsible steps. This is honestly the first video that stresses that important factor. DON'T FALL INTO DEBT OVER A HANDBAG! Bravo Lydia. You are fantastic!
    A tip that I would love to share with you is I actually have a separate bank account with a different bank entirely that I have set aside towards savings for shopping. And once I've paid my monthly bills (rent, car note, etc) I take 5% of what I call my "free money" and deposit it into my shopping account!

  • @ItsTashia
    @ItsTashia 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Thank you for being so open on this topic, I've always wondered to be honest but didn't want to be so forward in asking. I will be using some of your tips on envisioning the item in my wardrobe being styled with pieces

  • @athomewithnika6459
    @athomewithnika6459 7 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    for now, being married and saving up for a bigger house I started to buy a little bit more expensive bags. not luxury but I started my collectiom with Calvin klein and Michael Kors. now want to go up a little bit after we buy the house😍 But I love luxury perfumes. they make me feel great😊

    • @athomewithnika6459
      @athomewithnika6459 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      key word is timeless pieces. 😊 you are so damn right about being monochronatic too. love you from Azerbaijan

    • @Oatmillkbaby
      @Oatmillkbaby 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      At Home With Nika I'm saving for a house too but my need for designer bags are outrageous. Everyday I look at them bc I keep telling myself someday after I buy a house lol

  • @annmariemerlino3102
    @annmariemerlino3102 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    One thing I absolutely LOVE about Lydia is that she always thanks EVERYONE for what they sent her. I remember one TH-camr going through her Christmas "unboxing" and just throwing the stuff on the side to quickly get all the shots of all her free stuff. Lydia never does that, she always says a very heartfelt thank you ... I hope that never changes!!! Love you Lydia!!!

  • @danae9089
    @danae9089 7 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    Today was my birthday and all of my friends forgot. I was upset most of the day but when I watch your Snapchat stories and TH-cam videos (and I know this sounds a lil cheesy) they make me so happy because you're such a great person. I know you don't know me but thank you Lydia 😌❤️

    • @laraibnadeem3319
      @laraibnadeem3319 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      iiDanae Happy Birthday❤

    • @poonamsoni5785
      @poonamsoni5785 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      iiDanae happy birthday :)

    • @xandrarivers5427
      @xandrarivers5427 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      iiDanae happy birthday x

    • @minabady
      @minabady 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      iiDanae Happy Birthday 🎉

    • @danae9089
      @danae9089 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg thank you guys so much 😭🙏

  • @48hm9
    @48hm9 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you for talking about financial responsibility in this video. I work a job where I discuss assets and financials with individuals on a daily basis and it is scary how little people save, how little people have when looking at the big picture and what they would need to survive if someone thing unexpected happened. I'm so glad as a youtuber you used your platform to discuss living within your means and spending money only if you have it because you are right, credit cards aren't free money. I love luxury goods as much as the next person but people (myself included) shouldn't be buying goods they can't afford, especially if you don't have any savings.

  • @gemqueen1866
    @gemqueen1866 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    too late I am in debt but I've had fun spending, though now I'm being sensible and addressing my finances and making sensible purchases ☺

  • @jocannon8190
    @jocannon8190 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I thought I'd seen every kind of TH-cam video, but this is such unique content. Huge kudos to you for making this, it's so honest and informative. I've completely rethought the way I shop since I began watching your channel, and now my wardrobe is starting to look like something I'm proud of, rather than a mish-mash of items I don't ever wear!
    xx

  • @paigemweller4122
    @paigemweller4122 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So humble. So helpful. So motivating. So honest. And I'm SO appreciative. Adore you, Lydia ❤️

  • @colettepippa6529
    @colettepippa6529 7 ปีที่แล้ว +346

    Women smashing the sh💩 t out of life is totally worth celebrating... AMMMMMMMEN to that!! 😊💪💖✌ x

    • @annettecaitlyn1058
      @annettecaitlyn1058 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Colette Pippa I thought so too

    • @TWDxKILL3R
      @TWDxKILL3R 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Colette Pippa ... fuckin feminists 🙄

    • @TWDxKILL3R
      @TWDxKILL3R 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Colette Pippa .... yea wasting money on expensive clothes is "smashing life". Fucking feminists

    • @Sophia-uy3ye
      @Sophia-uy3ye 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      TWDxKILL3R Don´t use feminism as a bad term. It´s a perfectly understandable concept and gender equality is a very important issue. No hate please everyone is entitled to their own opinions.

    • @TWDxKILL3R
      @TWDxKILL3R 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Emma Watson ... women have been equal to men for like over a decade now....are y'all gonna be just like the blacks and claim inequality until your actually given more and then still claim inequality?

  • @EEN63
    @EEN63 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Lydia, this was an EXCELLENT video with some very sage advice... especially the part about not going in debt and being very responsible with your money. I, too, am a saver and save up for all the nice things I want. Because you are very conscientious about your money, I'm curious why you avoid credit cards... we all know there is no such thing as free money!
    I am a stickler and pay off all my credit cards each and every month, without fail!!! But, I only have credit cards that have no service fees and pay me up to 5% on my purchases. As an example, if you buy a bag for $2500, you would get $125 back! I find it's a very effective way to handle my finances. I put most of my monthly expenses on my credit cards so I can take advantage of the cash back rewards (if there is ever a charge for using my credit card, I use another payment method). I might as well get paid a little something for buying my groceries, paying the water department, etc. Because you are smart and strict about not going into debt, you might find using credit cards with a cash rewards system very beneficial as well. I'm curious to know if they offer these types of reward credit cards in the UK...

  • @mechellepillay8801
    @mechellepillay8801 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Morning from South Africa! I started watching Lydia this morning and I have to say that I love her and will continue watching her... she is such a breath of fresh air

  • @BugnLVoe
    @BugnLVoe 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    For me ~ I only spend money on handbags. It's my thing. I love them, I don't care if people make comments. But it's the only high end items I buy. If it's not a luxury handbag I am a tightwad. To keep my handbag addiction going, I sell the ones I don't use frequently even if I love them. ~ XOXO

  • @andrearicardez3766
    @andrearicardez3766 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lydia, your tips are so helpful and on point. We are constantly bombarded with the next it bag, the must have, or whatever item is on fashion right now and we instantly feel the urge to go and buy it so we can keep up with the trends. And, from a realistic point of view that is financially suicide when you are not born a millionaire or making tons of money. Thank you for taking the time to show the real behind the scenes process of acquiring a luxury bag.

  • @charlotteeyres4046
    @charlotteeyres4046 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am not personally interested in buying luxury but this is such good life advice and refreshingly honest. Saving for the future is something I am forever conscious of and i get the same sick feeling when I've spent money in haste 💜

  • @heatherhatfield4477
    @heatherhatfield4477 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lydia, sending you love from Ohio! You are such a relatable, beautiful and humble person. What's even more special about you is you radiate as much beauty from the inside as we see on the outside. I adore your channel. I love watching Lumi too. And I wanted to thank you for recommending Emu slippers. I just purchased my first pair. I was surprised I could get them in the states. They are amazing and I cannot be without them now. ❤️

  • @kellydavidson1236
    @kellydavidson1236 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've been big into luxury items since I was super young and bought myself my first LV when I was 16. I'm definitely like you where I mull over things for a while. I've been wanting a Balenciaga classic arena city bag since I was 13 and finally bought it for myself a month ago as I haven't stopped thinking about it for 11 years, and I just turned 24! Can't wait to keep adding to my collection. Next purchases I'm eyeing are the Saint Laurent WOC and a Clic Clac H bracelet from Hermes. Love you lots!

  • @11JadeStone11
    @11JadeStone11 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another tip that's useful for me when budgeting for luxury/fun/travel purchases - I happen to be paid every two weeks, which means there are two extra paychecks per year that aren't included in my monthly budget. I use these to make these kinds of purchases. 🙌🏼

  • @elifkursun
    @elifkursun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely love this! It's all about discipline and you seem to have a lot of it. I shall watch this a few more times so it sinks in.

  • @meganalexis96
    @meganalexis96 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It makes me so happy to see someone so classy and humble. You are the perfect example of someone that a lot of women can look up to. Love your videos ❤

  • @alice-ux9ld
    @alice-ux9ld 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Such a real and inspiring girl! Soo much respect for her

  • @moniquefahy3695
    @moniquefahy3695 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Incredibly well said Lydia! I've been following you for the longest time and I resonate so much the feeling of buying something you have waited and saved so much for! Xx

  • @kittyp2297
    @kittyp2297 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loved this video, Lydia! Love how down to earth and honest you are 🖤

  • @zoesmith4368
    @zoesmith4368 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think this video is so useful and informative. I love that your such a big advocate of being responsible and saving money while still being able to treat yourself x

  • @brinawidmer
    @brinawidmer 7 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I'd really love to have a house. Sadly Switzerland is s country of renters. A simple 4 bedroom house (need that for my homeoffice and future 2kids^^) is easily around 1.5 million 😒 I stopped buying tons of cheap clothes that way I can afford to buy some more expensiv pieces. same with makeup I don't need 50 different drugstore nailpolishes or single eyeshadows - I'd rather have a few nice pieces I actually use.

  • @miss09er
    @miss09er 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've enjoyed your page for about 6 months now, but this is my first time commenting--your last line, "Women, smashing the shit out of life is something to be celebrated," just confirmed my appreciation of you, and tells me everything I need to know about your work ethic and your love for women and young ladies

  • @hollyroycroft5382
    @hollyroycroft5382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Look how far you’ve come!!👏🏼👏🏼

  • @lauraxblack
    @lauraxblack 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved watching this and listening to your advice Lydia! Your smile literally lights up your whole face, it's lovely to see. I'm exactly the same with credit cards, I avoid them at all costs otherwise I would have all of the lovely designer items but a huge debt!
    It was lovely to meet you at the Go Glam Gala, you're just as lovely in person as you are in your videos! xx

  • @laurenelliott5125
    @laurenelliott5125 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Don't feel pressured to make videos like this. You don't have to justify to the internet why you buy luxury items. We work hard, we can get the things that we want. You have a great sense of style and personality and I look forward to seeing what you're rocking next.

  • @Amanda11762
    @Amanda11762 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Since finding your blog and channel my sense of personal style has improved. You have taught me a lot. I realized buying 10 things for $100 is not the same as one piece of $100. the point isnt cost but quality, fit, and longevity. I am 2 years older than you but I look up to you. Thank you Lydia. Keep up the great work you do.

  • @Curlsandbags
    @Curlsandbags 7 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    being self employed is such a challenge, some months you're like yaaaas let's spend hahaha, and then you regret it the month later :p. I think indeed you have to calculate well :) I bought Stuart Weitzman overknee's today at -50% I'm SOOOOO HAPPY :p

    • @mei1049
      @mei1049 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Curls & Bags. Was it the highland boots? Like what Lydia got? If yes please list me the site x

    • @Curlsandbags
      @Curlsandbags 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mei W yes those but in a local boutique...

    • @evekumari
      @evekumari 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      im so jealous I've wanted them for ages! how did you find them cheaper?

    • @Curlsandbags
      @Curlsandbags 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      a local store was doing sales on them, even in black :o too bad they weren't in my size :(

  • @mayamusa5208
    @mayamusa5208 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you so much I'm so glad you are humble and always pursuing what you love to do . Remember that we as subscribers will always keep supporting you no matter what. So thanks for the video

  • @Dalps93
    @Dalps93 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so lovely, you're so down to earth 😘 and good for you, working hard pays off! 👌🏼👏🏼 xx

  • @ktrayan
    @ktrayan 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lydia you are so far ahead of the crowd and such a good role model! I'm glad you made this video!!

  • @pixie-rosethefrenchie4925
    @pixie-rosethefrenchie4925 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The accounting geek in me is loving this advice

  • @simp1eone
    @simp1eone 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this girl. She's so real. I'm a new sub. Your future kids are lucky to have you as their mummy. You'll teach them well.

  • @nadiastefan8875
    @nadiastefan8875 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    It feels like you're justifying yourself.. you shouldn't do that. It doesn't matter if your family funds you, brands send you gifts, gifts from Ali or you save. And the reason why? It's enough that you like them! Nobody else's business, you don't steal or cheat people to get them. No harm done, no justification needed.

    • @Chikimsan
      @Chikimsan 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nadia Tahir 👌

  • @BrendaMartinez-bm
    @BrendaMartinez-bm 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Never heard of her or seen a video of her first time viewer and she seems so genuine and humble. She seems really nice and proud of herself (for the right reasons). It's rare to find people nowadays who are hard working that do it on their own without the help of mummy and daddy and be humble and not say well look I did this on my own without the help of anyone but sound prideful. But she seems very calm soothing, nice and humble. Definitely am subscribing to her channel!

  • @LissyLissy1979
    @LissyLissy1979 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yessss Lydia! I'm very much of the same way of thinking as you, I grew up loving things I couldn't afford but built a career for myself where I worked towards being to own them 😊 there's nothing more satisfying than knowing you worked hard for that Chanel handbag! And now I'm in a good position where I work for myself and can afford the luxuries I used to dream of (as well as hunting for bargains on eBay and selling things I'm no longer using as much) I love your videos, your style, your honesty and outlook on everything and you were one of my best discoveries of 2016! Here's to another year of smashing it! Keep doing what you're doing 😘😘😘 xxx

    • @TheRpva
      @TheRpva 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's exactly what I am planning to do after I am finished with my masters degree! My family always had little money and struggled to pay the bills, so I always had a job besides my studies to travel and do the things I love. After uni I am determined to have a good career so in the future I will be able to buy that Chanel bag of my dreams and to spoil my lovely mummy ;)

    • @JennyAmponsah
      @JennyAmponsah 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Elisabeth Rilatt loved your post!!! Couldn't agree more!!

    • @LissyLissy1979
      @LissyLissy1979 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jenny Amponsah 😘😘😘

  • @michellejoseph8820
    @michellejoseph8820 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These are excellent tips Lydia, especially the one about prioritising your future. I have truly learnt from this video. Thank you so much. :) x

  • @penelopeolive3716
    @penelopeolive3716 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have no reason to explain yourself to ANYONE.. but you're so nice to do so. This was a great video for me to watch cause I feel like I constantly spend money on little things I don't really need, but more just buy to fill my closet or just cause who doesn't love shopping??.. But I feel like I should be saving up to buy those luxury staples in my closet that I will go to again, and again! It's like investing in your wardrobe. LOVE THIS VIDEOOOO!

  • @sherineabdelhady
    @sherineabdelhady 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    there is no shame ever to have the stuff that makes you feel happy nonetheless working so hard to get what you want as long as its not something bad or evil .. I found you inspiring in many ways first of all you are strong independant person

    • @sherineabdelhady
      @sherineabdelhady 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      you are such a humble person it shows and feels how sweet your personality in too many obvious ways .. I dont know you in person but through your laugh your way of thinking and the rational choice of words it just shows

    • @sherineabdelhady
      @sherineabdelhady 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate your tips and actually I found them were rational and helpful .. I applause your will in life ingeneral and how passionate, hardworking, STRONG woman you are .. God bless You and Ali .. wish you both the best ♡

  • @lucyservo6574
    @lucyservo6574 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    honestly my favourite videos from you 💓 everyone else is right, you're so humble and down to earth. I love it!!

  • @ejmadzik4097
    @ejmadzik4097 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It was so nice to see this video and I'm waiting for the next one! You're very inspiring person ☺️ greetings from Poland!

  • @zaynkhan1356
    @zaynkhan1356 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think this video was really important and informative! Good job on this new series of chats, I love them :)
    Great advice. I feel extremely motivated :)

  • @exclusiveaddition5491
    @exclusiveaddition5491 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    One Year and all these subscribers?? Girl u poppin 💅🏽

  • @ellisbeth1
    @ellisbeth1 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    ahhh i just can't get enough of lydia and how humble/genuine she is, how does someone look so good all of the time? :( jealous is an understatement! such an inspiration to me!!

  • @randomuploadsism
    @randomuploadsism 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The thing is, it depends on your salary. No disrespect to Lydia, but everything I have seen her eat / use / wear / drive is high-end. I think she has a great work ethic though.

  • @luisafelix3870
    @luisafelix3870 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I subscribed because of this video, you are actually helping other women in here, and just young people in general who are willing to listen. That's very commendable of you, thank you and keep it up!

  • @1995BroadwayBaby
    @1995BroadwayBaby 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I really hope you document some of the wedding planning process, your taste is exquisite!

  • @VBehal7
    @VBehal7 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is a pleasure to see a woman who is smart and reasonable and has something more to share than a beauty tips. Love you Lydia

  • @summ3rnightfashion521
    @summ3rnightfashion521 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for sharing your tips with us! They were really useful. By the way you look stunning 😀

  • @PrettyPrettyPeace
    @PrettyPrettyPeace 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the tip to not be a hoarder!! People don't realize how much easier it is to really get the best use out of your items when you know exactly what you have and all your jems are not hidden by things you aren't going to use anymore or simply may have outgrown. Really great advice xx

  • @EmmaJacobVlog
    @EmmaJacobVlog 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I LOVE this video, I'm so happy you made it. I honestly believed that a lot of your purchases were because you had a wealthy family behind you which is silly because people probably think I bought my house at 22 and travel all year round because of my parents, but I've always been completely self sufficient and have never had somebody to help me if I needed financial support. I'm am even bigger fan now (though you're already my favourite TH-camr). I'm looking forward to seeing all your new purchases this year 😘

  • @ElinaWe
    @ElinaWe 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lydia, you are my role model! So much inspiration. Always get so much happier after watching your videos :)

  • @IntrepidgrlVentures
    @IntrepidgrlVentures 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    GREAT VID Mad Respect for you now!!

  • @shereebmb6407
    @shereebmb6407 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You really didn't need to do this video. I love your Channel by far one of my fav youtubers. Love how down to earth you are, how you clearly work hard for you gorgeous bag and items. There is nothing wrong with buying gorgeous designer items! I love how your not one of those people that buy lots of bags in millions of different colours. You buy a couple and use them for what they are intended for and cherish them. Keep doing what your doing you and Ali have a lovely way about you And you'll both go far xx

  • @diaalwaa
    @diaalwaa 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I really want to become a fashion designer and you have really inspired me even more. I am glad that I found your channel now ❤

    • @hermionegranger9683
      @hermionegranger9683 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dia Alwaa Just curious (I'm thinking about doing the same): where are you studying?

    • @juliegregory7706
      @juliegregory7706 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Elisabetta G

    • @diaalwaa
      @diaalwaa 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Elisabetta G I'm not in the UK. I moved to the Dubai not long ago. I'm still college I am going to uni next year. What about you? What are your plans?

    • @hermionegranger9683
      @hermionegranger9683 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dia Alwaa Oh I'm not in the UK too; I'm italian! I'm studying languages at the uni at the moment, but fashion is one of my biggest passions, with makeup and cinema also, so I'm trying to figure out what I'm gonna do you know... planning some classes of fashion, design and stuff

  • @susantoohey2710
    @susantoohey2710 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so nice to watch. It's so cool to see how far you have come from then to now. It's easy to forget that you guys had to build what you now have and it makes me feel hopeful that all of the hard work my partner and I are putting into our careers will pay off someday. I have a few designer pieces that I love, wear, and take good care of I hope that someday I can have a wonderful curated collection. My partner and I recently got engaged so our focus is to move to a larger house and hopefully have our dream wedding next year. It would be very cool to see some sort of an updated version of this video.

  • @ralenesworld198
    @ralenesworld198 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Can you do a video about being self employed and making the transition

  • @di4085
    @di4085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just recently started watching you and have been enjoying your videos. I thank you for sharing the importance of financial responsibility and being an example. You appreciate the more expensive items and design. I believe it was passed down whoever in your family was a tailor. I appreciate design so I get it. Great tips which are words of wisdom that hopefully everyone will follow.

  • @sarahchamblee7674
    @sarahchamblee7674 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You're seriously the prettiest ever! You have the most perfect skin & lashes & body & teeth & hair 😩😩😩 I adore you! Loved this video. Thank you for this!

  • @katja3705
    @katja3705 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you soooo much for this video! Just what I have been thinking about. And a love this kind of chatty videos and also informal ones. And you are so sweet!

  • @ashleighlouise1351
    @ashleighlouise1351 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love designer handbags and I use the 1k rule. Should an item I want cost more than £1,000 I have to sell something I already own and don't love as much as I should. It really helps !

  • @christianroban7818
    @christianroban7818 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this video! Even though the meaning for the video isn't necessarily about being sustainable BUT the rules are very similar to how you can shop to be more sustainable. Making sure you will use the items of your desire till death is a great message and also having no shame in buying SECOND HAND! I love that about you! The stigma behind second hand is silly and is more sustainable! Thank you for this video, i have saved it and i'll constantly remind myself on how to shop.

  • @Minka_6
    @Minka_6 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Lydia, this is a very helpful video. I have always wanted a Burberry trench coat and maybe one day I will buy it. I think I like traveling too much to be able to save money on it. But this video definitely goes with other things, like my traveling, as well. There were times when I spent all of my savings on a plane ticket - very irresponsible.

    • @itsnotaricaria
      @itsnotaricaria 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Alicja Mincewicz Well in the end when you're old you are going to remember all the time you spend in other countries with different cultures and not really the materialistic things you bought

    • @katrinefosgerau3351
      @katrinefosgerau3351 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should try bying the trenchcoat second hand! If you can get your hands on one from the 90s they literally cost the same as one from Topshop. But of course just make sure it is not a fake!

    • @Lifeplasty
      @Lifeplasty 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alicja Mincewicz Sometimes they have great stock and you can buy a Burberry trench coat at the outlet shops at a discount!

    • @hollaaajess
      @hollaaajess 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Alicja Mincewicz Try buying the trench coats at outlet stores! I got my Burberry trench for $600

    • @tofuteeth
      @tofuteeth 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's a bit weird for me to suggest this, but until you can afford the Burberry trench coat, maybe you could consider getting a trench coat of another brand first just to try and see if it's really for you (Burberry is such a lovely investment!). The reason being that I too, once, wanted to get a trench coat myself but after wearing one from UNIQLO for a long trip, I realised that the camel shade and the style of it just didn't seem to suit me very well, strangely.

  • @starlinglothrop448
    @starlinglothrop448 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look FLAWLESS and I love hearing your story of how to built your collection! Ps. The little disclaimer in the description is perfect, most of us are here to watch your videos because we also love luxury goods!!!

  • @ashleyseveska3389
    @ashleyseveska3389 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i love your channel! and i am currently trying to save up for that pochete metis LV you have i absolutely fell in love with this bag when I started following your channel! and i also want to save up for a chloe bag!! today my goal is to go through all my highend bags and choose the ones i want to sell to give them a good home!

  • @BiancaRoseHunter
    @BiancaRoseHunter 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think I account for AT LEAST several hundred views on this video because I have watched it SO MANY TIMES. Although you make many excellent points and have great advice, it isn’t even necessarily the subject matter of this video that I love, I am just a huge fan and always have been. I love listening to you speak and have always valued & admired your perspective. I tweeted about you once and you responded...and I fangirled for days. Thank you for inspiring me. I know you don’t know me, but to me, you feel like a friend because I have followed your journey for years. I am proud of you, I support you, and I cannot wait to see what you do next. Best well wishes to you, Ali, Lumi & Lynx ❤️

  • @allanaramaa
    @allanaramaa 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love this video, you are kicking the shit out of the TH-cam game and I am so obsessed with ALL OF YOUR VIDEOS 🙌🏻🙏🏻✨✨✨ can't wait to see you hit a milli in 2017 👌🏻👌🏻❤❤

  • @Fatima-up8lw
    @Fatima-up8lw 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was nodding and saying yes, yes! after reading your description box. Indeed it's fabulous women are doing big things and it's something as a fellow women I am deeply proud of.

  • @panruby6599
    @panruby6599 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hi Lydia. My concern is about the price of Chanel bags. The money you saved cannot be enough to afford to buy one like the classic flap. The price is go up so crazy.

  • @lottyhoad3209
    @lottyhoad3209 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Found this video SO useful! It's so easy to watch your videos and then want to go out and buy absolutely everything! So knowing how you save for these big purchases was humbling and super helpful. Both my bank balance and my wardrobe will definitely thank you for this vlog! x

  • @AstridClarke
    @AstridClarke 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this! Am currently saving for a new Gucci bag 😩

    • @ariahlea
      @ariahlea 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Astrid Clarke me too, did you already get it?

  • @adaatude
    @adaatude 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so lovely and I really appreciate this video because I just want to buy a bag but knowing all of these tips is helpful and definitely makes me feel better about wanting a designer bag!! Thank you for being so humble and kind. This is why your channel has grown so much so quickly!!

  • @selenaandashley
    @selenaandashley 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Lydia, can you do a video on living with Ali (basically a whole living with a boyfriend/fiance video). You mentioned you pay the mortgage for the house you bought--do you guys split all the costs?

  • @sishashikononu1142
    @sishashikononu1142 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is one of the most honest video giving tips for buying luxury items when you're not really that wealthy. I'm so glad you made it so thank you Lydia! I as a subscriber of your channel respect you very much for being who you are ❤

  • @mifipfefferminz4957
    @mifipfefferminz4957 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Really helpful video :) I was wondering, what do you do for a living?

  • @GT-ro2tn
    @GT-ro2tn 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    So glad you did a video like this , so important to save and appreciate money and buy nice things with disposable income ! Rarely see anyone on you tube discussing this and you inspire us girls (and boys) to work harder and save money and train harder and get fitter etc
    I honestly believe you're making a big difference even in just a small time on you tube . I hope you and Ali get all the success you deserve xx

  • @lukasupranaviciute5085
    @lukasupranaviciute5085 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lydia, you're soooo inspiring😍😍😍

  • @paulinahallencreutz6825
    @paulinahallencreutz6825 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am an alternative/goth girl from Sweden and I keep watching your videos over and over again. It is a pleasure to watch someone talk about quality and things that matter, and to follow you and Ali on your journey through life. Keep it up, you are such an inspiration.

  • @MySiamesedreams
    @MySiamesedreams 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm a new subscriber here. You have great taste. The amt of jealousy and bitterness in the comments doesn't surprise me. Eagles fly solo. Keep smashing the sh!t out of life and disregard the jealousy and snark other females can't seem to help but throw out here (while they watch you) 👊

    • @lydiamillen
      @lydiamillen  7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Amber Chaib welcome Amber! Thank you so much for being so supportive! I like that quote "eagles fly solo" ❤

  • @sudetoros9830
    @sudetoros9830 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    *a bit more information* part is literally on fire! Whoa!! Loooooads of love from Turkey❤

  • @kiwishopper
    @kiwishopper 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Why did you sell your Boy bag? And how do you do online shopping without a credit card? Without any credit history how did you get mortgage at all? I'm so confused

    • @theroomstops
      @theroomstops 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yun Fan Debit card.

    • @SoSassyStina
      @SoSassyStina 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yun Fan I don't have a credit card but I shop online using my debit card which is just like a credit card. A mortgage is based on you credit history, you don't have to have a credit card it's also based on student loans, car notes, rent or other bills being paid on time is part of your credit worthiness

    • @Skyebright1
      @Skyebright1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Online stores accept PayPal, which you can link to your debit card