"I'm not ready to form any connection with my mom, I don't need it "- James Brown.
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There is a difference between Forgiveness & Reconciliation. You can forgive someone but you don't have to accommodate them in your life - especially if they are toxic! 😳
APOLOGY ACCEPTED. ACCESS DENIED!
You’re absolutely right
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Very true
Oil dey your head
I love that description of Apology Accepted Access Denied.
Oh dear! I’m almost in tears. Never judge a person until you actually know their story. I feel so sad knowing that this strong individual was traumatised like this as a child. How amazing how far God has taken this lovely young man. Really proud of him
Watch out for people like James brown who go through things like this from childhood, most people don’t come out of it , but those people who do, and I repeat again those who do! They come out stronger and tough… and one of those people is James.
Althrough the interview I was imagining how the people that abandoned him look at him now. Lastly, I have a strong conviction that those of us that believe in God, heaven, hell and the last day, will be shocked on the last day at what will become of those we thought were not good enough to go to heaven. Let us profess love for one another and be humane. That is all!!!
Exactly Hajia Zainab👌 Love is all we need💯💯
love this
Very well said....
Heaven and hell is in Nigeria...
Work your heaven or hell out, be wise.
If there was heaven the west won't allow any black African have an idea of it let alone let us into it.
Zee.
Love the pedophile , the criminals … you are speaking non sense and total anarchy
You can see how growing up shaped him both negatively and positively....This guy wears his growing up experience like skin🥺...God bless ALL loving grandmother ❤️❤️🩹💔
I pray for you James that the will of God is fulfilled in your life and that Christ becomes the Lord of your life. Through you millions will receive the beautiful gift of the gospel of Christ.
Amen
That's why I don't judge people, you never know what they have been through. It seems like he was rejected, I can imagine how painful that was for him and still is. I pray God protect him.
Amen! I feel for him! It must have taken strength and a great deal of it to move on and not be a failure 😞😔🤗🤗🤗
Amen. It's hard building your esteem if you were hated by a lot of people growing up.
Oh Lord, this man is still traumatized.
Please, meet him, Holy Spirit and draw Him to the Father. Help him live above His greatest temptations.
Amen!
Nigerians do not like differences. This is why his story is so interesting to a lot of people. He seems expressive and Chude is a great conversationalist.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Whatever you are keep it to yourself..Don't Force it on people to accept your differences and sexual preference
@@mrrocrocmoney3924 who is holding gun at head to accept it?
FACTS
@@mrrocrocmoney3924 LOL so many people are doing it but Nigeria like fake undercover LOL. WHAT IS MY OWN lol. YOU CAN ONLY CHANGE YOURSELF NOT OTHER PEOPLE. I AM HETROSEXUAL BUT DO NOT WASTE MY TIME OR ENERGY ON OTHER PEOPLE'S BUSINESS.
There is power in telling your story unapologetically without regrets about your journey thus far. That’s strength right there!!! We have listened to his interview on @Tea With Tay Podcast channel in the past👏🏿. Kudos to James💐 for driving the narrative about his life✊🏽 & creating his own stardom 🌟
My Love for James just increased❤️ I’m proud of his journey👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
“I have forgiven you but I cannot vibe with you, don’t you get it?”……..so so true….forgiving ppl does not mean you have to let them back in.
At the end of the day, everyone has a story. When you listen to it, you understand why folks are the way they are. He has gone through a lot of hardships and rejection from family. I pray he finds the peace that surpasses all understanding.
He is actually a smart guy and he is so real. I wish him the very best. What an interesting conversation.
James is an impressive human. Once you're able to look past all the things on the surface, you find out how resilient he is. He is also a very good businessman. He saw an opportunity and seized it and is still using it to his advantage, not very many people can even recognize an opening not to talk of using them. I understand why people make fun of him, but I have a newfound respect and admiration for this young man. I hope you continue to soar James; all your prayers have been answered.
Am glad you are addressing him as young man thank you
I love this guy for one thing, the truth and being blunt and real
Omo! Everything he say tough me.
At the same time he made me smile 😊
I’m rooting for you James😘
Omg,James im proud after all we went through, your still bold and trying to make things happen in your life. May my God bless you mercilessly
James has a very good heart 🥺🥰🥰💜💜💜💜
E hugsss to james 🤗🤗,,this is so deep ,,tnxs chude 😘
To be honest I was surprised at this intelligence. You never know one until you hear their heart, where they have been and their dreams. Wow! Really impressive and motivating. I never took to all the bobisky and likes of him but I see James Brown has different and real. Impressive eye opener. Kudos to him.
Funny enough femme boys are so intelligent
@@mhiriaridy5816 that’s so true
This is the first time am crying watching an interview, I know where he is coming from emotionally, may God bless you James
You mean she?
Stop calling God’s name this mess
@@RealityStandno I mean he
You don't have to vibe with who you have forgiven, family or not. I feel you.
Such a beautiful soul. I love him I swear!
Waoh! His English is so improved,princess of Africa and Duchess of London.
I CELEBRATE YOU JAMES AND THANK YOU CHUDE FOR AMPLIFYING HIS STORY
It’s him walking James to the car at the end and giving him a hug before he boards for me - so adorable
I am so happy for him....God bless you James
Hummm if only faces could tell what we’ve been through.. thank you for sharing your story with us
James please leave literally alone😂😂😂
James is everything u need to stay happy...such a sweet soul
Thank you for sharing your story to the world I know it's so courage to open up and I think all of us should be the same
All the best James, stay happy. I pray your dreams and aspirations comes to fulfilment.
Forgiving people doesn't mean that you have to reconcile and I hate thus thing in families where they act like the injured party is causing division.
James is just someone i would love to have as part of my family member coz with her i won't be scared of taking risks, her story is just similar to mine
He is still hurt, but he is using the regular Nigerian strong eye to suppress it💔. I wish he could get therapy. Poor guy. I hope he finds peace and I wish him all the best.
Thank you James for telling your story
Wow!
You've been through a lot.
God bless you James.
I so much like the love James is getting, it's so good
This interview is so inspiring, made me cry. Congratulations James brown
Authenticity is something we now lack abeg that’s a free soul he deserves more blessings stay true to yourself and do what makes you happy whoever is judging JB you irrelevant it’s funny how people judge it’s a shame my question is are you God his journey was way too rocky but glad he made it keep winning n shine through out love you soooo much
This interview is amazing just watched over and over and not bored
Jamesbrown is down to earth 😂 he said let them be calling me that her first🤣
Oh I love this guy, James I am your fan . God bless you dear
He's been through a lot. It explains a lot of things. I pray God's healing upon him.
So much complication, so much pain. I pray he finds healing
Great interview, inspiring and educational. Don't judge people because you don't know their story
Thank you for sharing your life and struggles, James. It's incredible, your story and you deserve all the great things that are happening to you. You inspire so much
I understand how you feel about your mom, most people are going through the same thing, we have the same story
Inspiring all the gays, nonsense
@@otuokpaikhianpetereromosel1531: Gay are still human and shares same blood with other humans. I was discriminating against them before but I have outgrown such hate, no human is perfect. Them being gay doesn't means their world has ended, Michael Jackson, Barack Obama, Steve Job the inventer of IPhone was gay. If you found out your child is gay, will you kill him or accept him? Learn to accept what you can't change. Hate won't change anything but love wins. We are all humans. If someone behavior and attitude towards me is very good, I would care if he is gay as long as he didn't cross boundary.
@@otuokpaikhianpetereromosel1531 his not a gay but cross dresser.
Just be calling me "her" first. 😂😂😂😂. This got me laughing hard.
Literally, we’ve come to the end.
😂😅
We go through what we go through in our past because of where we are going in the future.
Forgiveness is very important. Everything we went through prepared us for where we are today.
Literally love James😂
I wish you well in all you do james
God bless and keep you James amen❤️💜
I enjoy watching this interview
So much wisdom...see beyond people!everyone is acting!
Laughed and learnt watching this. God be with you, James 👐🏿
You're enough, James. I'm glad that you didn't allow your past to destroy you. Keep being genuine, never stop learning. God bless you.
Sincerely hope parents out there would learn a thing or two from this video. Be present for your children. Whipping and traumatizing them will never bring out the best in them. Take a look at our country with it's religiosity and overly strict parenting, why aren't we doing great? Weren't our rotten politicians, lecturers, civil servants, MOG etc whipped as kids?
Honestly, we need to do better for our kids, we need to adopt a change of approach cos things are getting worse.
How else do you want him to be destroyed? He is already more than destroyed. Perhaps not by his past but the present is doing so. Sending love and prayers that God heals him and give him light
@@hopekarigirwa3806 My dear, did you take time to listen to the young man? Yes, I also understand that you feel that in being different, he is making mistakes but the truth is that you never give up on anyone as long as they have breathe in them. Another question I have for you is Do you sin? Have you ever had sinful thought that nobody knows? Are you aware that your action can also destroy you? Do not in any way feel that you are better than this young man cos if you think he is sinful, he is no better than all of us that committing sins in various ways.
So dear Hope, be kind. Learn to hate the sin but not the "sinner" because He is still well loved by his Creator.
Have a fulfilled day.
@@henriettaokpala9642 we all sin o but nobody goes around wearing a shirt with the logo "Sinful and proud" sinful and happy, created sinful will remain sinful and infact come and join me in my sinfulness. The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom.
@@carolokoli7874 That fear of God should propel you to avoid sin at all cost whether hidden or in the open. The fear of God is indeed the beginning of wisdom. And if truly you love God, you will love ALL creatures of God whether you think they are wrong or not. Who knows, by your unbiased and unjudgmental love, they would be attracted to your God.
For now, quit pointing accusing fingers at James, His Creator still loves him and isn't done with him yet. Rather, look inwards and think of ways to be like Jesus (I'm guessing you're a Christian).
@@hopekarigirwa3806 Assistant God! It’s actually the way a lot of people like you are so quick to judge others whereas you do unspeakable things behind closed doors.
It’s well with you soul.
Oh my God I am so inspired. May God help you to achieve your dreams. You are funny, a go getter,courageous and most of all you have love for people. You will go far God loves you.
Literalllllyyyyy😂😂😂
Lool If I had a dollar every time he said this.
James my dear, you have risen above all your adversaries. Keep on rising.
Love from the Caribbean💜💜
Bob is really nice and always reach out to people
JB my guy, you are blessed! Do you know that you are one in a billion in this wicked world?? I'm happy for you and I'm proud that you are a survivor. The first time I saw you was in a comedy skit with officer woos and I was sooooo impressed! Just put the past behind you and shame all your enemies by becoming a world star ⭐⭐⭐ Guy, the sky is your begining. God bless you.
So fun to watch, so eloquent.
Just love him
I love this interview
You're enough James, love you
Omg, i wept like a child. James Omo logo, great job Chude!
I love you James and I know they did not caught you🤣🤣🤣🤣
Literally literally I love james
I love you too.
Awwwwwwww that’s soooo deep,I didn’t care about what Nigerians will say because they saw him as trash . God is perfect & truly not man. May God lead you
This was literally the best interview of the year, love it!🥰
You people should be calling me her first keed me😂😂😂😂😂
😃😃😃😃😃...see me laughing when he talked about Bobrisky
I love James Brown.
He's so real❤️
The vibe you give to this word "literally" always makes me want to use it😅
In all,thumbs up dear,your God did it for you.
We love James here❤️❤️
I would love to read James Brown's story...the struggles from the horses mouth💯
I really enjoyed this interview
Well done James. God gave you the strength to pull through.
Principarls teacherrrrs😅😅😅
Odogwu bold and smart😀
Thank you for your honesty 🥰. Toxic parents are real in Africa
I pray you find healing 🙏.
Titus 2:11
For the grace of God has been revealed, bringing salvation to all people.
This is powerful ❤️🙏🏾
I might not agree with who James is but, I like his personality.
This guy is funny😂😂🤣😂
You do not have the power to accept or tolerate anybody. It’s doesn’t matter if you agree or not. They will continue to live their life either way.
@@loubnaarianne2498yeah the same way it roesnt matter if they live their life , some people will never accept you .
He prayed to God to make him a star and he got what he requested for. Many more blessings to come, the sky is the limit.
Best interview of the year so far!!!!!
Since I heard his story, I fell in love with him. James Brown is indeed a child of destiny. A true survivor 👏🏾 🤎
I love James!
Funny
Realistic
Hustler
Go getter & getting better by the day!❤️
Fine girl❤️❤️
I have learnt a lot from this video… look beyond what you see in people.
Ah this guy pass through alot oo💔😭
I hope he finds DELIVERANCE
Chude is a great conversationalist
The smartness.....👍👍👍👍
She’s so funny lol ”just call me her first “ 😂😂😂😂😂
HE. A REAL MAN 👨
James is so lovely and smart 💕
Literally he has improved
It is the literally for me 😅🤣. He has actually, and his story is touching.
James will kill me with literally 🤣🤣
What doesn't kill u makes you stronger, experiences are a part our individuality.
The ever funny James Brown 😂
Toxic family unit can run one mad. Everyone has a story which defines their entire existence.
This boy heart his big after everything he still forgive his mum
I love the way he talk
She’s inspirational!
So proud of you james your story is touching