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I am a father of 4 girls and I will never look at my girls as sex subjects actually it is disgusting to even think of such atrocities.😢
@@user-dv9mv9gt3g o ntate wa sebele reya leboha
Incest is demonic
@@user-dv9mv9gt3g all fathers say this yet girl children get raped by their fathers🙄
My parents have four daughters, too. People are scary out there! 🙏🏻
It is very disgusting
A lot of people talk about healing from such trauma but I honestly don’t think someone ever fully recovers or heals I think they just learn to leave with it…
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Is only God who heals that problem
People are different some are strong some are weak
You can't heal, that's the truth
No healing people just hold themselves to strength and assume things are ok while burning inwardly 😢@@sifisodube4686
My wife was also raped for 3 years by her cousin when she was 14 till she turned 16,she kept it a secret until 1day she decides to voice up,it really destroyed me emotionally,i get angry and cry Everytime i think about it😢
@@user-qn7rq4fb1i I'm so sorry about what happened to your wife my bro I hope she did find help bcoz she needs it 🥰
I'm so sorry to hear of this. My cousin did this to me also from the age of 4 to 7. The only reason it stopped is because my parents moved us to another state. Years later, while I was in high school, we found out that he was arrested for abusing children at a school near his home.
His own sister then came to our house to tell my parents what he did to both of us for so long.
We ended up testifying against him in court.
He received 15 years.
When my parents asked why I didn't say anything sooner, my reply was, "I couldn't stand to see the pain in your eyes. And I was so afraid that my dad would snap and end up in prison."
My poor dad was never the same again. He felt like a failure even though it's not true. My dad was a blessing to me.❤
@@natahliak7691 I'm so about what happened to you may find help and healed sending you hugs love,♥️♥️♥️may the Lord strengthen you🙏
Sorry my baby for going through such Your dad is a pervert I'm proud of you, you're very strong some people commit suicide for minor things not judging them wena you didn't let the situation to put you down 😢😢God is great askies babygirl
She is so intelligent, so articulate. I admire her strength and I'm happy that she seems to have experienced healing.
😢😢this is painful 😢😢
Thank you ❤
A 7 yr old daughter nkos😢kanjan to your own daughter?Ppl r evil.May God heal your hurt cc uye for therapy .You r one strong lady❤God iswith you.Thanks for sharing
The man just appears to her father but not biological father because spiritually biological father never have a desire for that sorry
I’ve listened to this story before but every single time I listen to it I cry because what a horrible man who puts his daughter through so much pain and trauma. I’m happy you carry your story with so much grace and you didn’t let it kill you sisi❤️ you’re so brave
What a warm and lovely comment. God bless you your heart
So happy you didn't let whatever happened to destroy you, wasn't your fault precious,may God continue to strengthen you and guide you always, the plant that the lord has planted can flourish even in the midst of the drought, love you so much, angel ❤❤❤❤
This is traumatizing being crying since I started
You are such a beautiful person.
God will deal with him
Yes. Let go and let God
I don't understand how can a father have sexual feelings for his daughter,,,iam a young father same hight with my daughter looking at me and her we like siblings ,,she is 16 yrs doing grade 12 she chose to stay with me ,, it's only the two of us ,,,I hug her every day kiss her on her forehead ,,I have never ever have a sexual feelings for her ,,she is my blood , she is me , so how can I have a sexual feelings with me ,,,,??? Some fathers are not human , they are demons crual more than animals ,,,
May god bless you
I struggle to understand what goes through their minds. I have 2 daughters whom I love and adore they practically daddy's little girls 1 is 12 the other is 4 I bath my kids I don't have any sexual feelings for them they my blood how sick is this world
Demon possession is real.
The family should have never allow the father to take her, remember initially she said that she did not know him up until she was 4 years when she was introduced to him because bekamphikile esemncane then he came back sekana 4, so nje this is a lesson to us women that a man who denies his child can never be a good father
@@nokwandasibongile5730 that's was a big problem ,,,as she said he dined her ,,so he was just seeing her as a girl friend ,,,but even though how can you get erection for a seven year old child ,,,
You speak perfect English and are very eloquent. I admire your courage and wish I can be strong like you. You are a strong woman and keep living your life.
I can relate to her story, same thing happened to me, only difference in my case it was my elder brother, I never told anyone, It affect everything of me, I grew up making wrong decisions, allowing man to take advantage of me, choosing wrong man who abused me, My whole life was a mess, In and out of rubbish relationships, and I think It's because of what my brother did to me when I was a child.
😢💔So sorry you had to go through that, did you eventually tell someone?
@@GaolatlheMonnanyana , No I never did, this secret has been bothering me all my life, It's almost like this heavy burden hanging over me, for years I've been hiding this dirty secret, wondering If he did it to his own daughter too.
So sad 😢😢
This is said 💔 your brother he is a cruel man😭
Please speak up , tell your mom or just someone you trust or u can even go for counseling… Speaking out will free the burden, it’s really not fair on yourself to still be carrying the burden. Proud of you for this comment, it’s the 1st step towards healing ❤…
As a father, I have chills. Im struggling to process this
This interviewer is so insensitive, repeatedly asking irrelevant questions, some of which have been answered before. Also how is the victim supposed to know what was happening in the perpetrator’s mind, especially at that you age 😢
Agreed. He had no questions prepared and spoke as though it’s a story on a soapie and not someone’s life.
Exactly, especially when he asked if she thinks her father was possessed. Extremely insensitive and lack of empathy.
He’s so wired with the questions
Very annoying. Interviewing for gossip instead of information, education and empathy. So unprofessional
He's comfortable listening to the gory taboo details of a father to the child of seven years old . Mr interviewer you are mean and insensitive causing this woman say too much abominable picture...She has told you she felt it was a normal secret experience not knowing it was wrong.
God is the main judge. He still has his punishment to come.
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, Sister 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
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Damn man that's evil
This is the person who healed, speaking fluently without sharing a tear😢
Fr
You do you love seeing others shading tears.....we have gone through things and healed so mean we should cry all our lives.....shame on you
@@universalenterprises6552 I was not saying it in a bad way actually if you ready correct I was embracing her that she's very strong, and to show that she has healed she doesn't share a tears, she made peace, before you come for people seek for understanding please.
@@universalenterprises6552Why are you bitter . please heal.
@@AffanKhan-zb6bm I don't remember that reply being sent to you coz actually the person I sent too understood and 4replied accordingly......
Mmmm Zizo I can't explain the pain I feel right now after listening to your story, may the lord bless you and give you all you want in life, you are strong girl and I love you for that ❤
I just want to hug the little 7 year old Zizo❤. I'm sorry mntase, I have no words.
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The guy deserves life sentence in jail
I wishes my story can be so open I was 9 yrs and my mom and uncle was in control of my life and family kept this a secret why 😢😢😢😢its still hurting my uncle was abused me hitting me and my mother said nothing why I know I didn't look like my own siblings 😢😢😢😢 now finding out I've got other siblings and it's my mom's cousin why I've been getting hurting all the time this woman talked it's brings bad moments back my mouth closes and the uncle on top of me I've got 3 children of my uncle 😢😢😢😢God helps me out now my mom passed and biological dad stepped dad passed away also now there's no older family members only in Australia auntie who know and cousins 😢😢😢😢wow this woman is brave 😢😢😢😢 I'm a granny but it hurts too😢😢😢😢😢from cape Town I thought it was my fault 😢😢😢😢
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@charmainecharmystelemundok3882 Lord Have Mercy 🙏 🥺 😫 😩 😪 😭 🙏 Sister, I'm Sooooooo #Sorry🙏
Be strong beautiful lady,prayers for your healing, am sorry.
I'm so sorry ❤💞💫💖
Sorry my baby girl,already God has healed you in Jesus name 🙌🙌🙌🙌
Not every person deserves to have children, because how evil can you be to do this to a child or human being. To violate someone so deeply and continue with life as if it's normal. These stories make me realise there's humans who have no sense of empathy or humanity, their behaviour is more closer to an animal than a human.
Comador
How can someone rape a minor ,,, and only serves 8years wtf is that. The justice system is a mess for sure
My little sister and I was abandoned by our parents and we ended up staying here and there with the relatives. No one was keeping an eye on us. We ended up doing sexual things. I was 8 she was 6. It went on and on until I was 11 and I realized that were growing and this can't keep on happening. I started regretting it and decided to leave home and separate from her since then. Today I am 30 and I still regret every bit of it and I hate my self for it. I did apologize to my sister on my early 20s and she said she forgave me a long time ago coz she understands that I was a kid but it still eats me till this day. I wish one day I can break free from these chains the devil hung me on
@@gixoupa4898 Please free yourself from regret and guilt associated to what happened when you were a child. Nobody could ever blame you for the choices you were forced to make under such traumatic circumstances. Both you and your sister should have been loved and protected by the adults who cared for you, especially your parents. Those adults who neglected and abused you are the ones to blame for everything. You could write a letter to the child in you, who went through all those horrible things but survived. Include every detail of what happened that still haunts you. Pray over everything and ask God to release you from it, then burn it. The fire will symbolise getting rid of the old and starting a new life. Love, happiness and light to you.
Maybe also look for Professional and spiritual counseling. You will heal and take her with you. It takes acknowledgement to start a journey of correction and healing
If she has forgiven you please forgive yourself and seek counseling to talk about it. I also grow up hard you know staying here and there with people and I was accused of things and one of those things was that I groomed a young boy sexually but I had no remembrance of those things. But I understand because a lot happened when I was young but I'm never going to feel guilt for something that happened when I was a minor that knew no right from wrong. forgive yourself you were both kids
You are a good person, if u were evil u were not going to see anything wrong
Find peace brother......it's well the lord checks the heart if you are truly remorseful from the depth of your heart he has forgiven you
What i find upseting is how his family refuses to believe her
Maybe they all did that to their kids, why would they support such behaviour.
Maybe they think it will go away,if they are in denial
Eish i know her mom and her family i wish you can heal zizo that was not your fault baby girl sendin love to you ❤❤❤❤ .ukhohlakele lomfana wase Mqanduli seissss maarn
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May God touch you with complete healing. Praying for you @@zizoizabelozamapleni7221
He wasn’t possessed , he was a disgusting paedophile that should not have been let anywhere near kids. To this young lady, may your healing be complete . Please live your life fully and well and do not give this monster another opportunity to steal your life❤️
True 💯
What a cruel man 😢😢
Selfish dad how can he do such things
He was #BOTH🎉
May Karma deal with such fathers.... instead of protecting your very own daughter...you mess up her life.. disgusting 😢
She's an extremely beautiful, intelligent and above all BRAVE young woman; that's all l will say. God has her and her power remains in her VOICE🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
So where was god when her father was violating her, he just got her after the fact🙄
We need to protect our woman 😔😔😔😔
Indeed 😢
Zizo Thank you for speaking in order to help a little girl, a young girl or a little boy to be able to talk without fear, so that justice is done... I salute the strength, your courage, the peace, with which God clothes you... May God continue to bless, strengthen & equip you for the work you do... To God be all the glory...
I hope he's rotting in jail right now. Disgusting what he did to his own daughter.
He is out now unfortunately 😢
@@brendadickson9583 whaaaat
In jail? Did you listen to her
@@tl3482 of course not. I don't have the stomach for this. Didn't even make it 10 minutes in.
@GnA_000 The man is out walking with no remorse and absolutely no guilt. He also gave a speech on how she has ruined his life like really?
Absolute horror and disgust of the highest level. Damn! This woman is a true soldier. Hats off to her truly.
Nxese mntanami uNkulunkulu uzokupha konke okufisayo...Phephisa amazwi ayaphela...Syakuthanda❤
So so painful but Zizo you are so strong❤. THIS IS A LESSON TO ALL SINGLE MOMS NOT TO TRUST DADDIES WITH THE LIFE OF THEIR KIDS. THANK GOD FOR MAKING YOU THIS STRONG AND HEALED YOU IN SUCH A WAY THAT TODAY WE HEAR SUCH PAINFUL JOURNEY OF YOUR LIFE.
JUSTICE IS JUST A WORD IN SOUTH AFRICA.... ONLY JUSTICE AVAILABLE IS CRIMINALS TO COMMIT MORE CRIMES AND THAT BE IT
The universe will punish him. Stay strong sweetheart, you the most calm and sweetest person ive seen.
Of course he will be punished 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@DeepMokoena AMEN AMEN AMEN,I #Hope So🙏♥️
@@nomalungelongcete5875 AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER 🙏 ❤️ 🙌 👏 ♥️ 💖
Thank you for uploading this episode some men out there are so evil how can he do this to her beautiful daughter eish this world has come to an end serious
My dear you are such a brave young woman,you are loved and iam happy you are healed,all the best and may the good Lord carry you through and bless you,God is your strength 💪
The interviewer handled this interview so poorly. These are not the type of questions you ask a rape survivor. "Do you think he was possessed"? is a crazy question to ask a survivor. Otherwise, Zizo's ability to tell this traumatic story is so admirable. May the Lord continue to warp you in his arms of complete healing.
My 16 year old niece is carrying her father's child. I was so hurt when i found out the truth, I will always blame my sister for living her daughter with her father for 16 years, not checking on her nakhona she was called by the neighbors that her daughter is being abused. alone to find the child is impregnated by father 😭😭😭😭
Yoh😢😢
What did you do with your father after the incident?
Hope is he arrested now
@@pinkyndlovu6621 Sometimes we just need to point fingers at the devil. There is no rule which says a dad can not stay with his daughter. Some did it very well, so this brother in-law of yours was just evil. He is also a parent just like your sister.
You all need to inform the police what is happening to that child
Thank God that you are completely healed dear.
You are loved this side!!!❤❤❤
I love your answer about forgiveness ,thank you girl ❤
Ohhhhhh Zizo I remember listening to your story kuMhlobo Wenene 😢😢😢
I'm happy you are healed and strong
You are amazing and the Lord will continue to bless you.
May God keep strengthening you with lots of joy and peace of mind throughout the rest of your life and relationship my dear, you're indeed a strong woman...
I just wanna use this opportunity to let you people know that it can happen to little boy. Though I'm 46years old man now but It happened to me when I was 5 or 6 years old whereby our house help will rape me uncountable times when my parents is not around. Though the incident happened about 40years ago. This particular video has thought me the reason why I have been struggling to keep a relationship. I never knew that it will have an ugly impact in life as I'm growing older. I have been struggling with panic attacks and short tempered. Always getting angry with every little thing's 😢😢. I have to live with it and make peace with myself by God grace
@@user-rc8oy6cz7o yes people tense to forget, it can happen to male has well. So sorry to hear about what happened to you. Keep praying for accepting things u cannot change. Bless up x
@@barbaranewell3838so sorry may you continue walking under the Lord's wings
I saw the episode coming up two weeks ago and since ive been trying to gain courage to watch it. 😢 it breaks my heart at the same time i admire her courage to speak up. People are soo heartless i know personally i strugle to share my r*pe experience because i chose to terminate for my own sanity and I was called a liar . Uphole mntase you're more than your pain. Stay blessed❤❤
Sadly a lot of girls pass through this but they keep it a secret 💔 70% of girls 💔 but they can't speak up it be secret forever
All because of society and culture.
This is so saddening and sickening as well.May God give you strength to put these traumas past you.
U r so strong, n compassionate, thnx for sharing, may God bless u
Watching this from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪. I pray for you dear. May God bless you and help you heal
thank you for sharing sis Zizo, strength, love and light to you
God bless you young lady ! Your story is so touching !
Yhoooo, so beautiful may God gives you a good bright future and produce children ❤
i know Zizo from Centtwins Podcast
such a humble yet scarred hearted ♥️
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What an incredible human being may she be blessed from now on..
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Thank you so much 😊
So very sorry you had to endure such horrificordeal with your father. He's a very sick man. May God grant you continued strength and mental peace.... God bless you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I forgiveness angekhe aybone from me shame I'd rather find other ways to heal.. than forgive him for this unotshe. 💔😭
Askies,I feel pain for you because is not easy to talk about it or tell anyone because especially if is a close family they are not believe you.U are brave in pains❤
I can never get tired of listening to you sis, knew about you on Relebogile show ❤️
Same❤
Same here
Thank you so much ❤😊
I don't have words to speak here.l mean no words enough to express how i am feeling about this as a mother of now 2 daughters.
The interviewer's approach to this story was disappointingly insensitive. He consistently asked inappropriate questions, prioritizing the perpetrator's perspective over Zizo's experiences and the impact on her life. To improve, I suggest he conducts thorough research on sensitive topics like this or reconsider interviewing women altogether, as he currently lacks the ability to create a safe and supportive space for their stories.
I love the empathy the interviewer shared.
Tnk u cc for ur bravery it’s only God who helps us to heal and to learn to forgive bcoz without forgiveness moving forward is an impossibility. May God help others with the same misfortune to find a way to heal completely so their lives may move forward
These happens and sadly even in this era still happens.
We need as parents to teach our kids about sex education from age 5 or 6. Obviously it should be age appropriate.
We should never think it will never happen to your children. Teach them to speak up to you or to someone they trust like a teacher.
Big Ups to you Zizo for speaking up about this even that you have gone through this. A whole lot of woman went through this and even today can’t speak because of various circumstances.
Your story is a brave journey of healing and will heal others as well.
Sometimes the perpetrators also went through some sort of abuse that they never healed from and end up doing the same if not worse. However this doesn’t justify what they did in anyway. Hence healing is critical as it has a good chance to break the circle.
I respect you so much my sister for being vocal and public about your journey. And God bless your mom for standing by you when she learned of your ordeal.
Girl you are so strong, forgiveness it's not for him it's for yourself that's where you are because of you have forgiven. I love you stay strong.
Bro how the heck can you ask if anything was wrong with him…if he was possessed… so you’re basically trying to justify his actions??? That’s so low bro! I’m disgusted
He's is trying to get sisters' opinions on what she thinks about her dad's doing. Like the route course
Am so pissed, he tried to cry but the fakes tears didnt come mxm
@@ngqaphelindwandwe9452he is asking the wrong person, how the hell should one know why he rape?
😂😂😂@@poeletjosebata9480
I hated that too 😢
I wil never in my entire life leave my girl child with the father
genuine question. why did you choose to make a child with a man you do not trust around your child?
@@issnutella229 eix what a question
You are so well spoken, poised and very well articulated. Love from Cameroon.
I am sorry to hear such horrible scene happened to u,i know how hard your life might have been and forever will never forget,but i wish you to forgive him but not the devil in his spirit who pushed him to do such thing,i wish that forgiveness also to your self to heal and be free from the clutches of devil not to win you in hate ,shame and grief of pain caused,i wish you all the best in God mighty amen
STOP SAYING HE WAS POSSESSED CAUSE HE WASN'T
My dear, noooo man especially sober minded can do such animosity!!! Its a cowardly act of pure evil...he was probably raped as a child or in his lifetime somewhere coz how do you explain this!!! I know of other men who say the girl isn't my biological daughter so he goes ahead and attempt to do the unspeakable 😢😢😢shame shameful society we live in Lord have mercy upon us all!😢😢
Na juju be dis ooo sinful pure evil...
It's a wake up call to most ladies...never give a child to a stranger..it is not save at all.
@kgalalelomakgana634 it's the #BIOLOGICAL father..Alot of this is going on..I #Know some ♥️
It's a sorrowful story. Our justice system is exposed every day. I applaud you for choosing forgiveness and letting go of all bitterness. I pray that you get healed even more. May all your dreams come to pass. You are a beautiful and strong woman. Let your success comfort you.
So sad to hear of the inhumane brutality by a father to his daughter.Forgiveness usually takes time and healing is a process.Lets continue to speak out on the same as we advocate for better society
Same thing my uncle did to me for months, i didn't realize he was doing something wrong to me up untill i grew up to start knowing what life is all about,i hate speaking about it
I don't want to hate my uncle but i feel heart pain whenever i remember and I haven't seen him for more than 10yrs now and i don't wish to ever see him till i hear his dead.
I'm crying on her behalf lets do better as society , you mean neighbours really could not pick up anything .YHOOOO so sorry sisi you went through that
Zizo you are so beautiful inside out.Your voice Your aura.
Your story will heal so many women and children.
Love you❤
Thank you so much ❤😊
He is a heartless monster, So sorry you had to go through thus ordeal
In this world the devil is real.
How can one find energy to penetrate into his own daughter?
You sit down, start thinking about your own daughter, and find energy at last to do this.............
So heartbreaking
So real
The devil live inside humans. The thinking of your mind is the devil u see. There is no type of devil concept of the bible .
He continued that means he knows exactly what he was doing
AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉
@@MANDIKASAZU💯💯💯💯💯
Very brave to tell your heavy life experience, the pain is unbearable, even the whole world hears your story. Only God can help, to bear the unbearable pain. Many victims are out there, you are the voice for many of us. Thank you for sharing your life story.
Sad story. And she is genuine in her revelations.
Yho 😢😢😢n he was in jail for only 8 years after what he put you through, there's no justice here ,Zizo am sorry for everything 😢 you went through
Hi Z , may our God be with you forever, you are more than strong, I like your strength. Good luck Z❤ to your entire life girl ❤.
God bless you and protect your heart. No one deserves such, may your voice speak for you!! Yhooo , healing ✨️
Sithandwa sam ndithandela ukub brave yhuu sana lam eish stay positive and strong ❤❤
He was not a teacher, but a monster.
What a wicked man 😢 5:28
People are sick out there
Great lady. May God remember you for good. Let go. Yes. May this weakness from some relatives be exposed and cured.
Yhooo I can't hold my tears, this is so sad
This is so hurtful and heart breaking..my god 😢
May God be with you and your children, It's most painful thing I've ever had I'm crying
What a painful experience.Our sisters must try by all means to remain close to their daughters even if you have a bitter relationship with the father.
This was such a very sensitive and painful interview. A father is supposed to love and protect his children especially girl kids, to even blame her on destroying his life, that's a life of a pervert, he wanted to get away with his evil Deed. She's strong and I'm glad she went through counseling. His wife was probably gone bcz of the things he'd been doing.
Well, if you think about it...any human being of sound mind...can not do such a thing, however anybody who does attempt to do suçh sin, is usually a victim of such....
Oh God! I'm Speechless.
Worst part of it all Doris collects money from the raptists & Doris collects money from the victims
Wishing you well with life,relationship and God bless you ,I'm very sorry for what to you ❤❤❤
I never saw my dad’s private parts growing up, until he had a stroke. That time I was already married with 4 kids, I had to clean him. I thought that situation killed him faster, cause he was a very private person.
Thanks your story will help other people to protect their children
Thanks
Good morning brethren. My dear u are breve and the Almighty God Jehovah continue to strength u. Fr yr dad is not seak is just poses by a demon that he incapable to control himself. He must just get deliver by a real man of God, if he goes to a wrong person for deliverance, that will be worse. Remain blessed in Jesus Christ name
8 years is not enough Yhoooo but at some time what he did to you it can never be undone even if he stays the forever
As I'm listening to this I crye and I'm.so suffocating my lugs are acting up 😢😢😢😢
I'm a mother of within that 3 there is my little girl 😢😢😢😢I'm so sick when I watch this cos they are back home.living with their father and I'm at work far.from them
Iam so scared even thou I trust my husband so much this gets everyone scared 😱 😨 😢 😔 😞 😪 😱 😨
So sorry sister for everything you went through no one deserves this 😢😢😢😢😢
Mara😭🥺
Love and light baby❤
God hun God he is our healer your father will get his reward his Karma will come am so proud of you , you can talk about it today you have come a long way bless your heart ,it is a scar that will never healed but God got you trust in him. I WONDER HOW HE FEELS
Sad story indeed. What a trauma she experienced as a child from her own 'dad'