I have a tired negative attitude. Doing the grow out for the 3rd time and am 9 and half weeks into it. Got 6 months into it back Feb to July and I regret that decision to let a pushy hairdresser color it. I got told by nice women my silver was beautiful and like a colour job. Now I have my silky smooth grey to look forward to again. I am just tired of the waiting and lack the patience. So that's my challenge. My life isn't busy enough this time. I'm afraid time may go slow..even though the last two days time flew
You already know I love your videos on going grey..and this one is great too. But, it makes me so happy when I see Pollux having so much fun. I think about where he was only 4 months ago and it just touches my heart that you rescued him! Then I see you and Randy have put up a fence for him to run and plan on making the doggie door larger so that he can go in and out like Maxxie! Y'all are awesome! May God continue to bless you both. You're special people indeed. Thank you so much for sharing with us.
Hi Trish!!!! Pollux just cracks me up. He LOVES his new fence and yard.....in fact, he's been out there most of the morning just watching squirrels and checking things out. Randy ordered him a larger doggie door....but the company is apparently closed due to the virus so it's going to be a few weeks. Regardless, we just love him to death! Such a sweet boy. Glad you got to see him running around in the video!
@@WelcomeToMyCurls Me too Renee! I love seeing both of your little guys. But, I'm just so happy for Pollux! I love your videos..they keep me upbeat during this "grow out" phase.
It’s women ( co workers and friends) who have said the worst comments (six months into my transition) and I didn’t expect that. I assumed men would have the worst things to say-holy heck was I wrong. Men have been so positive!
Hi Michael! Yes....women can be mean. And women do it intentionally which makes it hurtful. Men simply make stupid remarks but generally not intended to be hurtful. I've learned to just shrug it off and keep doing my thing :)
@@WelcomeToMyCurlsmen didn't seem to like it the first time i did the grey hair grow out.. which i have now started again for the 3rd and hopefully the last time. I would rather have silver hsir than get devastated by bad effects on my hair by color .
Just came across your videos ! From a curly hair girl ! My natural color is a medium ash brown haven’t been that since I was 14 , am 58 now debating what to do with my hair highlighting and tinting at salon loyalty every 5 weeks ! Used to have massive thick curly hair and healthy , now a lot of dried damaged hair ! Debating going darker to make feel healthy , my hair stylist said I don’t have enough gray to let it go yet , and that I wouldn’t like texture 🤦♀️ we have a pool and in Summer in Michigan I’m in pool and sun all day don’t help ! Glad to find your channel ! I don’t have hair like all my gf’s ! That have straight smooth hair !
If you're going to be grumpy about it, you're not ready. If you're going to worry more about other peoples opinion of your grey hair than your own, your not ready. Grey/silver is beautiful.
Just yesterday I was on another grey hair blog listening to a woman growing out her grey. Her hair was pretty long, about 4 inches below her shoulders. She said that she had let all of her color grow out and she had a moment of weakness and recolored!!! So, she was starting over again. Her advice was to throw out all the hair color in the house. I did that. I threw out all my hair color yesterday, so if I decide to go back to color, I have to order it online and it will take awhile to arrive. Give me some thinkin' time.
LOL.....Oh my gosh!!!! I completely agree...throw it all out! I threw away all of the root touch-up stuff I used to have to force myself to adjust to the grey coming in. And it worked! I can't imagine ever coloring my hair again. You made me laugh....thanks for that!
Fair warning...yes talk to your family and friends about your transitioning...but be prepaired for comments that you might not like. "Oh you'll look old!!" "WHY??" "Oh I'm not ready for that!" . And then you need to remember...any negative vibes coming back at you are more a reflection of their fears than your silvers. Someone on a forum I belong to said. " when my silvers start growing out of YOUR head...you can have an opinion. Don't let unsupportive family and friends dessuede you. I was lucky...my family was all on board. My friends were not convinced, but now that my silvers are totally out and playing nicely...they think it's attractive ..."just not for them" .lolol....
This is my third try I have fully transitioned and lasted two years then for some reason I dyed my hair again I don't even remember why .. after that a couple of months into it I shaved my hair to start fresh but as soon as I saw hair I dyed it again , is not an easy ride , I done many colors , hair cuts ,so this time it feels different I'm so sick of seeing my gray roots showing after two weeks ..thanks for the inspiration .
Renee, you are so sweet. I feel like we're just having a talk between friends. Your hair is looking great. I'm 14 months in, cold turkey, and loving it too.
Hi Nikol!! You are so welcome! As I was starting my transition and searching for women with grey hair, I found you! Thank you for being a role model and leading the way!
I’m starting my journey to gray hair. It’s been 5 weeks since dying my roots. Going to try to stick to it. I’m 45 yrs old , I don’t think I have a lot of gray but I will soon see just how much I actually do have once it starts growing. My mom is 88 and has salt and pepper hair. So she doesn’t have that all over silver hair.
Beautiful Renne ❤️ I am not found of makeup but at least I do love eyeliner and mascara and it helps for me not feeling frumpy. Sometimes I get tired of hearing how beautiful I was with my huge long BLACK hair it sounds and feels like they are trying to say you are ugly now with you short grey hair 😏 My son doesn’t care at all and my daughter loves my greys and just thinks that I should have it longer. You are always bringing up excelentes contents. You are my biggest grey hair person to look up to. I follow a few grey hairied women but you are my favorite one. ❤️🇸🇪
You are so sweet Marione!! My daughters don't seem to care either....and my husband things it pretty cool (especially since he's getting some greys too). I'm looking forward to cutting off the last bits of color and hopefully having a grey ponytail. Gosh....seems like it's taking forever!
WELCOME TO MY CURLS Tanks Renne! You are very sweet too 😘💕 And your totally grey ponytail is just about to happen. You are going to feel a such satisfaction when it happens I promise you 💗
Hi Renee! I absolutely agree! I love what you said (gray is a color not a number) I’m so thankful for your videos they keep me uplifted & encouraged on my journey to going gray ❤️
Renee you look amazing.... but, I think you always have, through all of your transition.... I have no dye in my house, so, since being home for well over a month I am just going to do it!!!... I am sick of caring what anyone thinks!.., I love Nikol... she is amazing!!!!... I think you look much younger and more radiant as you are almost done with your transition!.,, so proud of you!!!.💜💜💜💜💜💜
Some women are pretty enough to pull it off. This lady will make it popular. Hair coloring is dangerous so I say I like it. The curls are awesome. Besides coloring is dangerous.
I have fallen in love with this channel and now i need a T to get over the hump. I have about a 4 inch skunk line and i am not going back! I love your videos!!
@@WelcomeToMyCurls That must be a great feeling, to see the finish line after all those (not always so easy!) months! You were one of the first youtubers to watch when I decided to go grey. A huge inspiration! I am 5 months in now so I have a couple of months ahead of me. And I have curls like you, which seems to make the process even slower. Ow well, I need to be patient. I wish you a nice day!!
@@smurfinsmurf1467 So sweet! Thank you! I think our curls make it easier but it takes longer. I have a video coming out this week out showing off my BIG HAIRCUT! I cut out a lot of the colored hair....YIKES! Stay tuned :)
I recently found your videos and love them, especially the dogs! I watched those first then started watching your vids about your hair. I find those interesting because I have a friend, we are both retired, and while I ditched the dye over 15 years ago, my friend is resistant to do so. Going by her roots, her hair is white and I think she would look much better with white hair. I've encouraged and supported but no, she still gets it colored every month. She doesn't like to talk about it so I haven't pushed it hard. I'm sure it's a fear of aging thing, but I thought I'd ask your opinion.
Hi Renee! Thanks for the video! I love Nikol Johnson, she's great! Would you mind sharing what kind of bralette you favor? I notice the lacy straps peeking out sometimes and they look so cute! I haven't found the right one yet...
Hi! I am wearing a bralette from Aerie.....LOVE IT! I have it in several colors. If you go their website ae.com.....it's called the EYELASH LACE PLUNGE BRALETTE. Comfy, padded, and provides coverage so my girls don't fall out LOL
Im blonde silver and colored blonde but you dont notice from far away until you get closer. So it may be a good thing Thankd grey is a color, not a number. I look 40 but i wonder how my silver may make me look . It probably will convince people i am 53..
Hi! I am 48....turning 49 this summer. I noticed grey hairs in my early 20s....but not enough to be a big deal. Then in my late 20s...it was enough to bother me so I began coloring my hair. So I don't honestly know when I started getting so much white around my face because my hair was always colored. My father and grandfather were complete white-headed by the time they were 40 so I'm guessing I would have been also.
I was thinking when all of this pandemic is over to get silver highlights added... what do you think of that?... but, by the time it is over I could be completely grey!
I say.....wait and see if you feel the same at that point. My guess is that you will have accepted your new greys and not feel the need to get highlights. But...whatever you choose will be great since you are ultimately GOING GREY!💗
Girl....how's your attitude? Are you in the correct mindset to go gray?
BTW...thanks for speaking to the blondes going grey. It's just not as beautiful as the dark heads and I think that it's actually harder.
I do think so too.....simply because you can't see the results as quickly. And to me...that would be frustrating.
I have a tired negative attitude. Doing the grow out for the 3rd time and am 9 and half weeks into it. Got 6 months into it back Feb to July and I regret that decision to let a pushy hairdresser color it. I got told by nice women my silver was beautiful and like a colour job. Now I have my silky smooth grey to look forward to again. I am just tired of the waiting and lack the patience. So that's my challenge. My life isn't busy enough this time. I'm afraid time may go slow..even though the last two days time flew
You already know I love your videos on going grey..and this one is great too. But, it makes me so happy when I see Pollux having so much fun. I think about where he was only 4 months ago and it just touches my heart that you rescued him! Then I see you and Randy have put up a fence for him to run and plan on making the doggie door larger so that he can go in and out like Maxxie! Y'all are awesome! May God continue to bless you both. You're special people indeed. Thank you so much for sharing with us.
Hi Trish!!!! Pollux just cracks me up. He LOVES his new fence and yard.....in fact, he's been out there most of the morning just watching squirrels and checking things out. Randy ordered him a larger doggie door....but the company is apparently closed due to the virus so it's going to be a few weeks. Regardless, we just love him to death! Such a sweet boy. Glad you got to see him running around in the video!
@@WelcomeToMyCurls Me too Renee! I love seeing both of your little guys. But, I'm just so happy for Pollux! I love your videos..they keep me upbeat during this "grow out" phase.
@@trish7754 Seeing Pollux running around and being such a happy dog makes me happy as well!
I HAVE BEEN BLESSED AND TAKE AFTER MY GRANDMOTHER WHO NEVER HAD GREY HAIR. I AM 56 AND STILL NO GREY HAIR. YOU HAVE A WONDERFUL ATTITUDE ABOUT IT
It’s women ( co workers and friends) who have said the worst comments (six months into my transition) and I didn’t expect that. I assumed men would have the worst things to say-holy heck was I wrong. Men have been so positive!
Hi Michael! Yes....women can be mean. And women do it intentionally which makes it hurtful. Men simply make stupid remarks but generally not intended to be hurtful. I've learned to just shrug it off and keep doing my thing :)
@@WelcomeToMyCurlsmen didn't seem to like it the first time i did the grey hair grow out.. which i have now started again for the 3rd and hopefully the last time. I would rather have silver hsir than get devastated by bad effects on my hair by color .
Women are more positive than men have been. Men are just not attracted to silver haired women. ..that's been my experience.
I,m from Spain and I,m going grey cold turkey and your videos are very helpful for me, thanks very much
Hi Lucia!!! So glad you are here and that I am able to help out. I went cold turkey also!
Just came across your videos ! From a curly hair girl ! My natural color is a medium ash brown haven’t been that since I was 14 , am 58 now debating what to do with my hair highlighting and tinting at salon loyalty every 5 weeks ! Used to have massive thick curly hair and healthy , now a lot of dried damaged hair ! Debating going darker to make feel healthy , my hair stylist said I don’t have enough gray to let it go yet , and that I wouldn’t like texture 🤦♀️ we have a pool and in Summer in Michigan I’m in pool and sun all day don’t help ! Glad to find your channel ! I don’t have hair like all my gf’s ! That have straight smooth hair !
Still you can stop coloring.. a few greys will still look ok. Most people are scared as is probably your hairdresser
If you're going to be grumpy about it, you're not ready. If you're going to worry more about other peoples opinion of your grey hair than your own, your not ready. Grey/silver is beautiful.
No room for grumpy!
Just yesterday I was on another grey hair blog listening to a woman growing out her grey. Her hair was pretty long, about 4 inches below her shoulders. She said that she had let all of her color grow out and she had a moment of weakness and recolored!!! So, she was starting over again. Her advice was to throw out all the hair color in the house. I did that. I threw out all my hair color yesterday, so if I decide to
go back to color, I have to order it online and it will take awhile to arrive. Give me some thinkin' time.
LOL.....Oh my gosh!!!! I completely agree...throw it all out! I threw away all of the root touch-up stuff I used to have to force myself to adjust to the grey coming in. And it worked! I can't imagine ever coloring my hair again. You made me laugh....thanks for that!
Renee, you are fantastic. Your grey hair is beautiful as are you. Love your videos. I revisit them regularly. Loving the curls.
Hi - Your gray is beautiful and your curls are a plus - looking good on you!
Fair warning...yes talk to your family and friends about your transitioning...but be prepaired for comments that you might not like. "Oh you'll look old!!" "WHY??" "Oh I'm not ready for that!" .
And then you need to remember...any negative vibes coming back at you are more a reflection of their fears than your silvers. Someone on a forum I belong to said. " when my silvers start growing out of YOUR head...you can have an opinion. Don't let unsupportive family and friends dessuede you. I was lucky...my family was all on board. My friends were not convinced, but now that my silvers are totally out and playing nicely...they think it's attractive ..."just not for them" .lolol....
So many people will have opinions...but there are only a select few that I take to heart ❤️
This is my third try I have fully transitioned and lasted two years then for some reason I dyed my hair again I don't even remember why .. after that a couple of months into it I shaved my hair to start fresh but as soon as I saw hair I dyed it again , is not an easy ride , I done many colors , hair cuts ,so this time it feels different I'm so sick of seeing my gray roots showing after two weeks ..thanks for the inspiration .
Renee, you are so sweet. I feel like we're just having a talk between friends. Your hair is looking great. I'm 14 months in, cold turkey, and loving it too.
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Thank you for all your support!!!!! Great video!!!!!!! 😘😘😘😘
Hi Nikol!! You are so welcome! As I was starting my transition and searching for women with grey hair, I found you! Thank you for being a role model and leading the way!
That white hair at your temples is stunning! It lights up your face even more!
Oh thank you!
Off subject but I received my t-shirt in the mail! I LOVE it! So cute and soft. Fits really well! Thank you! Six months strong-no coloring!!
Yay Kristen!!!! ❤️❤️
I’m starting my journey to gray hair. It’s been 5 weeks since dying my roots. Going to try to stick to it. I’m 45 yrs old , I don’t think I have a lot of gray but I will soon see just how much I actually do have once it starts growing. My mom is 88 and has salt and pepper hair. So she doesn’t have that all over silver hair.
You’ll know soon enough!! 😊
I earned every one of these! Waited for the color to grow out and started fresh cut. Kinda like the extra sparkle.
Beautiful Renne ❤️ I am not found of makeup but at least I do love eyeliner and mascara and it helps for me not feeling frumpy. Sometimes I get tired of hearing how beautiful I was with my huge long BLACK hair it sounds and feels like they are trying to say you are ugly now with you short grey hair 😏 My son doesn’t care at all and my daughter loves my greys and just thinks that I should have it longer. You are always bringing up excelentes contents. You are my biggest grey hair person to look up to. I follow a few grey hairied women but you are my favorite one. ❤️🇸🇪
You are so sweet Marione!! My daughters don't seem to care either....and my husband things it pretty cool (especially since he's getting some greys too). I'm looking forward to cutting off the last bits of color and hopefully having a grey ponytail. Gosh....seems like it's taking forever!
WELCOME TO MY CURLS Tanks Renne! You are very sweet too 😘💕 And your totally grey ponytail is just about to happen. You are going to feel a such satisfaction when it happens I promise you 💗
Yes, Yes, Yes and an AMEN!!! So true on it all! Good job, as always!
❤️🤗❤️ thanks!!!
Your youtube channel IS my support group! Thank you!
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Hi Renee! I absolutely agree! I love what you said (gray is a color not a number) I’m so thankful for your videos they keep me uplifted & encouraged on my journey to going gray ❤️
Thanks so much Betty!!!! It warms my heart to know I’m helping you ❤️
Renee you look amazing.... but, I think you always have, through all of your transition.... I have no dye in my house, so, since being home for well over a month I am just going to do it!!!... I am sick of caring what anyone thinks!.., I love Nikol... she is amazing!!!!... I think you look much younger and more radiant as you are almost done with your transition!.,, so proud of you!!!.💜💜💜💜💜💜
LINDA....what?? Huh???? Did I understand you correctly???? REALLY....you are going to go grey??!! FINALLY 😊🤗😀❤️
WELCOME TO MY CURLS you gave me the courage!!!!!... thank you so very much!!!💜💜💜💜
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Love the idea of telling people!!! Great advice! Honesty with a positive vibe is great❤️
Some women are pretty enough to pull it off. This lady will make it popular. Hair coloring is dangerous so I say I like it. The curls are awesome. Besides coloring is dangerous.
I have fallen in love with this channel and now i need a T to get over the hump. I have about a 4 inch skunk line and i am not going back! I love your videos!!
Thanks so much! New grey hair tees coming out soon!
You look beautiful. I’m so glad I found your channel thank you.
Welcome!!
Because of your motivation i am 1 year dy free!🎉
That's awesome!
Thank you for this! Each time I'm ready to give in, you pop up.
I like that! LOL 😂
You are just about there. Another trim . Your complexion looks brighter . Looks way better than the color.
Yes!! I did just get a trim and have a video coming out this week about it. I’m thinking 2 more and I’ll be there 🤗
Nicole Johnson is great to watch!...
Yes!! She is lovely! I enjoy her videos ☺️
Your hair is beautiful!
Thank you so much!! I'm almost there :)
@@WelcomeToMyCurls That must be a great feeling, to see the finish line after all those (not always so easy!) months! You were one of the first youtubers to watch when I decided to go grey. A huge inspiration! I am 5 months in now so I have a couple of months ahead of me. And I have curls like you, which seems to make the process even slower. Ow well, I need to be patient. I wish you a nice day!!
@@smurfinsmurf1467 So sweet! Thank you! I think our curls make it easier but it takes longer. I have a video coming out this week out showing off my BIG HAIRCUT! I cut out a lot of the colored hair....YIKES! Stay tuned :)
@@WelcomeToMyCurls I am looking forward!
I recently found your videos and love them, especially the dogs! I watched those first then started watching your vids about your hair. I find those interesting because I have a friend, we are both retired, and while I ditched the dye over 15 years ago, my friend is resistant to do so. Going by her roots, her hair is white and I think she would look much better with white hair. I've encouraged and supported but no, she still gets it colored every month. She doesn't like to talk about it so I haven't pushed it hard. I'm sure it's a fear of aging thing, but I thought I'd ask your opinion.
I am not on Facebook but have watched Nikol Johnson on TH-cam for a long time. She is stunning.
Yes she is!!! She was the first person I found on TH-cam when I started doing my research before going grey myself. Lovely! 💗
Your videos are always a delight! Thanks so much. Can hardly wait until you have some Welcome to My Curls t-shirts. :0)
Would you REALLY wear a shirt with my logo on it??
@@WelcomeToMyCurls Absolutely!! And I don't even have curly hair!!
Hi Renee! Thanks for the video! I love Nikol Johnson, she's great! Would you mind sharing what kind of bralette you favor? I notice the lacy straps peeking out sometimes and they look so cute! I haven't found the right one yet...
Hi! I am wearing a bralette from Aerie.....LOVE IT! I have it in several colors. If you go their website ae.com.....it's called the EYELASH LACE PLUNGE BRALETTE. Comfy, padded, and provides coverage so my girls don't fall out LOL
I love your fur babies, Renee!!!!
They are sweeties ❤️🐶❤️
Your hair looks great!
Thank you for your advice.
Im blonde silver and colored blonde but you dont notice from far away until you get closer. So it may be a good thing
Thankd grey is a color, not a number. I look 40 but i wonder how my silver may make me look . It probably will convince people i am 53..
Thank you!
You're welcome! Hope my advice helps you in some way. Have a great day!
Great video!
Thank you Jeannie!
Well said Renee!! 👏🏻❤️
Thanks Terry!! And thank you for always watching and commenting. I truly appreciate it 💗
Do you have any recommendations for men with gray hairs?
Just go for it! My husband grew a grey beard for "no shave November" and I loved it!
Great tips Reanee...
Thank you!
Look up J.J Mua Artistry! She is awesome! Look up the Silver Crown, too! She is funny!
Great video, I wondered, do you ever straighten your hair? I just wondered if it looks more grey or less grey, when it's laying flat?
Oh goodness no! LOL. I haven’t straightened my hair in 10+ years. But when it’s wet and flat...it is certainly more grey 🤗
How about a tee that says grey is not a number, just a color???
Yes....I thought about that myself!! Maybe on the next go around 😀
WELCOME TO MY CURLS good one!!!!...
Hope you don't mind me asking but how old are you and what age did you notice that you were going grey thanks trish by the way you look amazing hun xx
Hi! I am 48....turning 49 this summer. I noticed grey hairs in my early 20s....but not enough to be a big deal. Then in my late 20s...it was enough to bother me so I began coloring my hair. So I don't honestly know when I started getting so much white around my face because my hair was always colored. My father and grandfather were complete white-headed by the time they were 40 so I'm guessing I would have been also.
My greys are more underneath... did yours do that?
My greyest/whitest areas have always been in the temples....directly surrounding my face
I was thinking when all of this pandemic is over to get silver highlights added... what do you think of that?... but, by the time it is over I could be completely grey!
I say.....wait and see if you feel the same at that point. My guess is that you will have accepted your new greys and not feel the need to get highlights. But...whatever you choose will be great since you are ultimately GOING GREY!💗
WELCOME TO MY CURLS thank you!... I always trust your opinions!!!!
Awww soooo sweet!🌹