Thank you for taking the time and energy to make this video for us. I’m really struggling at the moment. I’m so tired of having to fight to just survive. As much as I don’t feel like/believe that I have worth, your kindness still brought me to tears because of how much I want to believe that I’m not worthless. Thank you
Hi, so let me share something I shared in Church on Sunday: I feel like I have a strong belief in God, and it's that faith which helped me get through my lowest points. During the hardest parts of the recession I struggled to make ends meet and pay the bills. I woke up every day with the faith that eventually I would see my way clear. It was a hard path to walk and I struggled, but I did eventually get caught up and I did eventually rebound. It took a lot of sacrifice, sacrificing my dream of running my own shop and being my own boss, but I made that sacrifice because I knew I had to go in a different direction. It was made harder because I started the shop as a result of losing a dear friend. It was my way of trying to make sense of the loss. I really do hope you can find the hope and persevere until things get better.
@@eformance it’s night time where I am and l’m sitting outside looking at the moon and stars. I came back to this video to listen to your message again. Once again found myself crying while listening to and reading your reply. The very moment I looked up at the sky again I saw a shooting star (definitely not a plane or a satellite passing by). I’ve been asking for a sign to not give up on myself or my life. I’m going to take this moment as that sign. Thank you so much for caring enough to share your kind words and message with a random internet stranger like me
Hi Lucille 💛 I'm just a random internet stranger, but I relate with how tiring that fight can be. I wanted to send you some strength and good vibes, if that's okay. I hope the struggle has eased up for you a bit! If you're still in the thick of it, I hope knowing you're not alone provides a little comfort.
@@aprilk569 thank you so much for your kindness. I’m still here so the fight isn’t over but I believe it’s worth it - or at least I’m worth fighting for. Sending you love and strength. We will find our peace
You did help me.... not harm myself in this moment... I feel comoletely unneeded and worthless and I can't explain why. I am just tired. But I will step off that ledge for now. Coz when saving lives mean a lot to u, it means u need me to save my on life and it makes me feel grateful.😭Thank you sir! May your friend rest in peace.
You have a good heart mate. I too have lost friends who have assumed no one cares and left a hole in their friends hearts forever. It is so important to openly talk about this stuff.
Well said. I too have been wondering about Cody. Sadly with the Covid thing, the suicide rate has gone up a lot here in Japan. Your message is important. Cheers from Tokyo. Stu
We need more people like you who are not afraid to show their emotions. I am sorry for how it left you feeling. You have my highest respect. Wishing you to find your inner peace.
Thank you so much for posting this, I've been feeling worthless and hating myself lately, this really helped me to realize that my loved ones need me here
Kudos to you for speaking up and saying what needs to be said, even if it means repeating over and over again. Who knows this message of yours will one day be the one that helps out that one person. Stay strong 💪💪
Thank you for making this video. I can hear the pain the pain in your voice in the end. Honest sadness from heart. That's exactly how I sound when I'm so broken but trying to hold back the tears. 💔
I'm glad to see you doing this video. Some folks need others to talk to about life's challenges, and how to cope with results that weren't what you had in mind.
I was just accused of being mentally and emotionally manipulative after confessing I was close to calling MAID (medical assistance in death) after being called "retarded" and a bad mother. Some days it's a struggle just to get through the day, things seem overwhelming, and trying my best doesn't seem to be good enough. Most of my real friends live kinda far and are always too busy with their own lives (work and family don't leave much time for friends.) I try to remind myself that things aren't that bad. That my kid needs me. But being told I'm not a good mom by a so-called partner for being impatient while exhausted...maybe she would be better off without me. I feel like I've been failing her anyways. But maybe it would screw her up worse if I did end myself. I don't know.
I'm sorry to hear you are having such a bad day. It's important to have someone that can listen and offer advice, do you have someone that can do that?
Bless you for your kindness and give a shit in making this video. Being lost in hopeless feelings is a lonely place and one caring person can change everything.
My mate i knew since i wad 6, we were like brothers. He killed himself in 2017 and not onlyndo i blame myself for not seeing the signs, but it has left a massive hole in my life... Thank you so much for this video.
Hello, thank you for your words sir, I have been struggling a lot late as an engineering student. I really had no one to talk to. I dont want to make my parents worry as both of them are not in a good health condition, I dont really have anyone close enough to talk to. Im usually just fine being with myself but lately the weights keeps getting heavier, financial issues, problems kept piling up, grades are starting to go down. I really dont know how to reach out, I have no one. Your video really helped comfort me a bit. I will try to survive for now.
Well done, sincerely, for making this. I can see how painful it is for you to have lost someone in such a way, and I have a huge amount of respect for you making this video. The psychology around it is really difficult and complex. Having been close to that edge a few times, the biggest difficulty is not feeling able to talk about it, or feeling like you won't be understood or heard. I think that feeling can be a big factor in bringing people to that edge. So when we say "talk to someone if you're feeling like that", as well meaning as that seems, it's often the last thing one feels able, or wants to do. They just it all to go away.
@@eformance There are some genuinely good people on youtube, and you're one of them. You've done something of great value in reaching out to people in this way. I was feeling worthless this evening, and your video made me feel differently, thank you 👍
There's moments that i feel like I'm better off dead bc i feel worthless and unimportant to everyone around me but my strength and self control is the reason why I'm staying strong enough endure the harsh reality of how the world really is.
The world is a hard place, I've been through the wringer in the last few months and had my ups and downs. It's the good times in the future that I'm looking forward to and that keeps me grounded.
I got four jobs without a GED. The GED is overrated, and as a former trade job worker who was homeless and poor and now doing white collar work, I learned that trade jobs are not only worthless but overrated and can cause numerous long term problems. Find what works for you and always rely on, fear, and obey God and all of His commandments.
I really hope you reconsider. The best way to feel useful is to serve others. Right now there are many who are affected by hurricane Helene and could use help. Even if you aren't near, I'm sure you can find someplace local to offer your time and serve others, whether it be sorting through cans of food at the food bank (they really need this), helping to feed people at your local mission/shelter, or giving time at the local animal shelter. Friends should build you up, not tear you down.
@@eformance , I'm 36 years old, no full time job, no future. I'm always late on rent, being dirt poor. I'm useless and no good. Being a N isn't a good thing. I have to go away from here.
thank you. i’ll really try to stay for longer but it’s so hard. i feel so depressed and worthless all the time. i feel like no matter what i do i always feel this way, i always find something to be sad about.
Please stay, and try to talk to your doctor about how you’re feeling. I’ve been in that place, and it starts to feel like it’s how the world will always look. Depression makes you feel that way, but it can be treated.
@@novemberrain9916 That’s great to hear 🙂👍 one thing that helped me was to remember that suicide is permanent. And you can’t ever feel better if you’re not here to feel it.
Maybe there are people that care, maybe i'm not feeling entirely worthless. But the pain is too strong to endure, it's not getting better year after year. So what if it's not done today, what will get better tomorrow? Do not suicide-shame, people don't end their lives because they don't care or don't think they can accomplish something to the benefit of humanity, but because their suffering is greater than you can grasp.
All it takes is for one person to intervene, to save a life. Mental health is complex, there is no one-size-fits-all answer, but it starts with reaching out.
I've heard you. One way to find someone to talk to is to go to the store. If you are too far from the store, what about a neighbor? There's usually an older person nearby that would love to have some company.
Sometimes we have a hard time finding the "why" in life, the best way to find out is to continue on the journey until we get an answer. I know it's difficult in the low moments, but they pass. Sometimes we need help, in the form of others and perhaps in the form of medication, to get us past the really difficult times.
I'm sorry people view you as an ATM, that's an unfortunate thing that exists in our society. I too have loneliness, I deal with it through medication, prayer, and doing things that make me happy. I try to think about things that made me happy in the past and seek those out. Hold on to your memories, good memories are a refuge when you are sad.
I am developmentally Disabled I've been out of high school For over 20 years Everybody went to college Got married Had kids. I put a friend Who is a lady In a uncomfortable situation She's the only lady friend I Have I want to do romantic stuff with a lady And I can't find anybody.
It isn't just a feeling. Unwanted, unloved and nobody cares. Might as well be dead. I have nobody. That's the truth. Nobody, it's just me in this world. What's the point.
You cared enough to post this message. While I don't know you, I do know you are having a tough time. It's possible for you to have a positive impact on someone else by being kind to them. Kindness, selflessness, those are gifts you can give others and that will help you feel a sense of purpose and fulfillment; being of service to others. Take one day at a time.
@@eformance I do. I give people what I want. Love, kindness, understanding. I get stink face and get away from me. I wish you could live my life and find out how horrible it is. One day at a time means I'm not planning for the future. Day by day means death.
@@jasonk795 It sounds like you have a good heart and care about your fellow man. When I was at my lowest point in life, I found relief by going back to church. I found a light that helped me glow and put the difficulties of life into perspective. Sure, I have trials, but I have a greater capability of dealing with those and things have worked out better for me. If you're interested, I can send you a link to their website where you can get in touch with someone locally.
@@eformance I'm feeling sad lonely depressed unwanted unloved right now. Thoughts of death are over my head right now. After I eat my lunch I'm going to go walk through the cemetery
You see... I... I have been feeling so bad lately. To the extent I keep feeling that everything that goes bad around me, is my fault somehow. That it's because either I've attracted it or I didn't work hard enough to prevent it. I feel like I have ruined the lives of people I love because of my weakness, my flaws and everything I am lacking. I have been constantly trying to gather the courage to do it... To disappear from this world. But I am terrified of doing it wrongly and somehow survive and become a burden to my family... I'm trying to go exactly to prevent that... I want them to be happy without a... Weirdo like me. Someone as empty, as disgusting, as stupid, as worthless as I am... My children deserve a better mother... My husband deserves a better wife... My parents deserved a better daughter and died without it. They died with a disappointment instead. Everything is wrong with me and... I don't know what to do... I am so... Lonely. It hurts. It hurts so much. I have nothing to offer... Nothing... I just want them to be happy...
Everyone definitely would be better off if I was dead. I am so tired of people dredging up every little thing I have ever said or done. I am a mistake.
I feel worthless most of the time . I have good things going on in my liife but no one to share them with . I own 2 businesses but i work both of by myself . I only have 1 friend and hate when he tells me he and his wife are doing this and doing that . I have no wife or kids. Im alone . I smile and laugh with the best of them but deep down i always feel empty inside. Im 45 about to be 46 and feel im gonna die alone. It hurts to say that. I contemplate taking my life alot. Only reason i dont is because i know it hurt a couple of people in my life. I ve always felt too ugly to be loved and that has crippled my growth in self esteem . Money doesnt make you happy . I wish i had someone to come home to at night, do things families do. Over all i do think the world would be better off without me in it😢
I was unsuccessful in romantic endeavors until I joined eharmony, where I met my wife. She has been the best thing that has happened to me in my life. I strongly recommend giving them a try, they worked when others failed; they connect on a level that's deeper than the superficial swiping left or right.
I feel for you. Are you friends with your husband? Passion does fade over time, but friendship, knowing each other, can be a source of continued happiness. If you feel you are at a crossroads, try to find something, even small, that you can enjoy together. Maybe it's just sitting in the backyard and watching the insects fly around, or the breeze blow. I hope this helps you in some small way.
@eformance I have no one to help. I feel like I'm on a deserted island all alone. I have spent 30 going to sea I work on the bridge of a ship. But I'm at the end of my strength.
@@jamesridoni When turning to others hasn't worked for me, I turn to God. I imagine being on the water gives you a lot of time for reflection. I can't guarantee you'll feel something immediately or your problems will magically melt away, but He gives me the strength to endure for another day.
@eformance I don't know anymore im at the end of my rope. I think that even God is mad at me. I feel like an old ship lost at sea in a storm that won't end. I hope I'll be just a little better when I go back to sea. Thank you, friend. May God bless you. I have spent all of my life helping others but not myself.
Why do people claim that you ARE important, only to conveniently pass you off to someone else (a "trained specialist" who doesn't know you or really/deeply care about you) and then walk away thinking themself to be a hero?
I don't have any good words to make you feel differently, but know that the words I spoke come from the heart. The reason why we engage professionals is because they are equipped to understand and help us. Most of us are not self-aware in all that we do, we need another person to make us aware. Furthermore it often takes an objective third party to see what we and our family members cannot see.
Im 2 years sobber now after 27 year drug addiction streets gangs prisons homelessnes sin i feel so done with this world nobody cares about me anyways im all alone i dont know what's next
You are on the right path being sober. I think it's true that any time there is a major change in your life, or you reach a crossroads, you begin to question what is next. What keeps me moving forward in the face of adversity is my faith. I know the Lord has a plan for me, I don't know what it is, but if I continue to follow his guidance then it will be revealed unto me and I know it will bring me happiness. The Lord is a powerful force, but he can be clouded by things like drugs and other addictions, making it hard to perceive his gentle guiding hand.
@@Fredswindow What I've learned is that peace is a station that you stop at periodically on your journey of life. It's a vacation from the world, but the world keeps moving forward and so must you. The trick is to try and get the most out of each one of those respites and try not to be too hard on yourself between stops.
@@eformanceive been trying to reach out to the people around me with no luck ive been looking on You tube for some comfort but i don't think anybody really cares for anybody so maybe it's just like that i live in mexico bro so i guess out here sux to be a deportee with no family
As much as i empathize and sympathize with your message, believe me, friend, you do not know me; i am not worth anything in this world. I'm quite expendeble to be honest.
You're right, I don't know you, but I can't believe there isn't someone, somewhere that cares very deeply for you. This week I've been reminded how short of a time we have on this earth, make the most of every minute, love someone, be loved, love yourself.
@eformance There is no one to love because no one loves me. And I do not need lectures on it. Especially after being rejected, ghosted, and outright mocked for it. In spite of all the choices or efforts I try to make, my life still comes up as insignificant. All the choices I make lead me to the same conclusion.
@@oblivious108 loving yourself is probably the hardest, because you have to recognize your own value. You must learn to love yourself before you can feel loved. That first important step is necessary.
@@oblivious108 your value as a person has nothing to do with your accomplishments. Ask yourself a simple question: Have I done any good in the world today? Then ask yourself that question each day going forward. Try to do a little good each day. An act of kindness or service will bring you blessings while you serve others.
I wonder how people know that there are people who love you. What if you don't have parents, family, friends, work remotely and rarely meet people? There are people who are unloved and the last thing they need are dishonest feel good nonsensical words. It's confirmation that suicidal people are not understood at all.
I don't think he was being dishonest it takes some balls to do a video like that that and I have been in the position you say going round in the same shitty circle ....keep moving forward and don't stop even when your mind tells you negativity and to give up just keep at it good things follow, I hope you get to a good place in your mind.
@@eformance that’s fair, I am being too emotional, but no one has to care about my opinion. In fact it is a worthless opinion so it doesn’t matter if I like or dislike it. That being said I do support the positive message for other who feel the way I feel.
@@ScarECrow7227 You're too hard on yourself, give yourself permission to be nicer to yourself. Life is hard, it's a difficult journey, we all experience times we think are the hardest and most unbearable, but it does get better. The only way I've been able to get out of those pits is to lean on the Lord, I don't have the strength alone.
I'm not suicidal but i wish I believed you when you said someone cares about me
I was deeply moved by you showing your emotions. Thank you.
Thank you for taking the time and energy to make this video for us.
I’m really struggling at the moment. I’m so tired of having to fight to just survive. As much as I don’t feel like/believe that I have worth, your kindness still brought me to tears because of how much I want to believe that I’m not worthless.
Thank you
Hi, so let me share something I shared in Church on Sunday: I feel like I have a strong belief in God, and it's that faith which helped me get through my lowest points. During the hardest parts of the recession I struggled to make ends meet and pay the bills. I woke up every day with the faith that eventually I would see my way clear. It was a hard path to walk and I struggled, but I did eventually get caught up and I did eventually rebound. It took a lot of sacrifice, sacrificing my dream of running my own shop and being my own boss, but I made that sacrifice because I knew I had to go in a different direction. It was made harder because I started the shop as a result of losing a dear friend. It was my way of trying to make sense of the loss. I really do hope you can find the hope and persevere until things get better.
@@eformance it’s night time where I am and l’m sitting outside looking at the moon and stars. I came back to this video to listen to your message again. Once again found myself crying while listening to and reading your reply. The very moment I looked up at the sky again I saw a shooting star (definitely not a plane or a satellite passing by). I’ve been asking for a sign to not give up on myself or my life. I’m going to take this moment as that sign. Thank you so much for caring enough to share your kind words and message with a random internet stranger like me
Hi Lucille 💛 I'm just a random internet stranger, but I relate with how tiring that fight can be. I wanted to send you some strength and good vibes, if that's okay. I hope the struggle has eased up for you a bit! If you're still in the thick of it, I hope knowing you're not alone provides a little comfort.
@@aprilk569 thank you so much for your kindness. I’m still here so the fight isn’t over but I believe it’s worth it - or at least I’m worth fighting for. Sending you love and strength. We will find our peace
@@lucillerouge5303 Cheers to that. Take care, Friend 💞
You did help me.... not harm myself in this moment... I feel comoletely unneeded and worthless and I can't explain why. I am just tired. But I will step off that ledge for now. Coz when saving lives mean a lot to u, it means u need me to save my on life and it makes me feel grateful.😭Thank you sir! May your friend rest in peace.
Thank you for taking the time to tell me how you feel. I wish happiness for you and hope you feel better.
You have a good heart mate. I too have lost friends who have assumed no one cares and left a hole in their friends hearts forever. It is so important to openly talk about this stuff.
Well said.
I too have been wondering about Cody.
Sadly with the Covid thing, the suicide rate has gone up a lot here in Japan.
Your message is important.
Cheers from Tokyo.
Stu
Thank you so much. Now I have to say I was not on the edge of suicide, but this video helped me a lot.
We need more people like you who are not afraid to show their emotions. I am sorry for how it left you feeling. You have my highest respect. Wishing you to find your inner peace.
Thanks so much dude. I feel worthless every day. Since I got sick with MS. Much love to you man. Thank you so much. Thank you. You’re an angel.
May god watch over this man 😢❤
Thank you for your kind words!
You are most definitely saving lives! Thank you 🙏🏽 💜💜💜
Thank you for being here
Thank you so much for posting this, I've been feeling worthless and hating myself lately, this really helped me to realize that my loved ones need me here
Thank you for sharing and having courage.
Thank you! I searched this in hopes to find something comforting by the way I feel and your emotions at the end impacted me! Thanks!
Thank you for the kind comment!
Kudos to you for speaking up and saying what needs to be said, even if it means repeating over and over again.
Who knows this message of yours will one day be the one that helps out that one person. Stay strong 💪💪
Thank you for making this video. I can hear the pain the pain in your voice in the end. Honest sadness from heart. That's exactly how I sound when I'm so broken but trying to hold back the tears. 💔
I'm glad to see you doing this video. Some folks need others to talk to about life's challenges, and how to cope with results that weren't what you had in mind.
I was just accused of being mentally and emotionally manipulative after confessing I was close to calling MAID (medical assistance in death) after being called "retarded" and a bad mother. Some days it's a struggle just to get through the day, things seem overwhelming, and trying my best doesn't seem to be good enough.
Most of my real friends live kinda far and are always too busy with their own lives (work and family don't leave much time for friends.)
I try to remind myself that things aren't that bad. That my kid needs me. But being told I'm not a good mom by a so-called partner for being impatient while exhausted...maybe she would be better off without me. I feel like I've been failing her anyways. But maybe it would screw her up worse if I did end myself. I don't know.
I'm sorry to hear you are having such a bad day. It's important to have someone that can listen and offer advice, do you have someone that can do that?
Thanks man I've been a weird pimpled skin kid back in high school with no is interested in me. Your encouragement is what the world needs today
Hi, thanks for your comment, I needed a good word today.
@@eformance man I've got a tough childhood but now I'm getting better each day both in career and in my growth.
you sir, you win the internet, thank you
Bless you for your kindness and give a shit in making this video. Being lost in hopeless feelings is a lonely place and one caring person can change everything.
i am broke and depressed. i have no friends at all for many years and i will forever be alone. I fall deeper and deeper into depression day by day...
I watch this video more times than I want to admit
Im not suicidal i just feel useless since i stop working and sometimes you just need the people around u to help
I agree, it's important to have people around you that lift you up and help you get through difficult times.
My mate i knew since i wad 6, we were like brothers. He killed himself in 2017 and not onlyndo i blame myself for not seeing the signs, but it has left a massive hole in my life...
Thank you so much for this video.
Clicked on this video because I had a feel you were a genuine guy. I was right 100% thanks for the video
I appreciate this!
Hello, thank you for your words sir, I have been struggling a lot late as an engineering student. I really had no one to talk to. I dont want to make my parents worry as both of them are not in a good health condition, I dont really have anyone close enough to talk to. Im usually just fine being with myself but lately the weights keeps getting heavier, financial issues, problems kept piling up, grades are starting to go down. I really dont know how to reach out, I have no one. Your video really helped comfort me a bit. I will try to survive for now.
Thank you for this, you are a kind person ❤️
Well done, sincerely, for making this. I can see how painful it is for you to have lost someone in such a way, and I have a huge amount of respect for you making this video. The psychology around it is really difficult and complex. Having been close to that edge a few times, the biggest difficulty is not feeling able to talk about it, or feeling like you won't be understood or heard. I think that feeling can be a big factor in bringing people to that edge. So when we say "talk to someone if you're feeling like that", as well meaning as that seems, it's often the last thing one feels able, or wants to do. They just it all to go away.
I know the feeling you speak of personally. The only thing that keeps me going is my faith in God and knowing what my Wife would want for me.
@@eformance There are some genuinely good people on youtube, and you're one of them. You've done something of great value in reaching out to people in this way. I was feeling worthless this evening, and your video made me feel differently, thank you 👍
Agree. Thanks for sharing this, it helped me!
Thank You brother for posting. Jesus loves you all.😁👍👍
Jesus doesn’t love us all, stop lying.
Thank you for this ♥️♥️♥️
There's moments that i feel like I'm better off dead bc i feel worthless and unimportant to everyone around me but my strength and self control is the reason why I'm staying strong enough endure the harsh reality of how the world really is.
The world is a hard place, I've been through the wringer in the last few months and had my ups and downs. It's the good times in the future that I'm looking forward to and that keeps me grounded.
I feel very unhappy and unwanted.
Thank you for making this video❤️
Thank you so much I really needed this right now 🧡
Really needed that.
Thank you ❤
Thank you 🖤
I got four jobs without a GED. The GED is overrated, and as a former trade job worker who was homeless and poor and now doing white collar work, I learned that trade jobs are not only worthless but overrated and can cause numerous long term problems. Find what works for you and always rely on, fear, and obey God and all of His commandments.
Thank you for posting this video!
I needed to hear that
Thank you
My friends all called me worthless and useless. I know it's true and I thank them for acknowledging that. Soon I will be gone permanently.
I really hope you reconsider. The best way to feel useful is to serve others. Right now there are many who are affected by hurricane Helene and could use help. Even if you aren't near, I'm sure you can find someplace local to offer your time and serve others, whether it be sorting through cans of food at the food bank (they really need this), helping to feed people at your local mission/shelter, or giving time at the local animal shelter. Friends should build you up, not tear you down.
@@eformance , I'm 36 years old, no full time job, no future. I'm always late on rent, being dirt poor. I'm useless and no good. Being a N isn't a good thing. I have to go away from here.
thank you. i’ll really try to stay for longer but it’s so hard. i feel so depressed and worthless all the time. i feel like no matter what i do i always feel this way, i always find something to be sad about.
Please stay, and try to talk to your doctor about how you’re feeling. I’ve been in that place, and it starts to feel like it’s how the world will always look. Depression makes you feel that way, but it can be treated.
@@tjfSIM thank u so much i promise i’ll try everything i’m still young
@@novemberrain9916 That’s great to hear 🙂👍 one thing that helped me was to remember that suicide is permanent. And you can’t ever feel better if you’re not here to feel it.
@@tjfSIM that’s true, you can always still change your life, it’s hard to do but worth it
thank you
Maybe there are people that care, maybe i'm not feeling entirely worthless. But the pain is too strong to endure, it's not getting better year after year. So what if it's not done today, what will get better tomorrow? Do not suicide-shame, people don't end their lives because they don't care or don't think they can accomplish something to the benefit of humanity, but because their suffering is greater than you can grasp.
All it takes is for one person to intervene, to save a life. Mental health is complex, there is no one-size-fits-all answer, but it starts with reaching out.
"their suffering is greater than you can grasp"
Some people have no idea how bad your burden of life experiences can be...
I really appreciate you for this.. thank you..
I don’t feel valued or loved. I have nobody to talk to.
I've heard you. One way to find someone to talk to is to go to the store. If you are too far from the store, what about a neighbor? There's usually an older person nearby that would love to have some company.
The world wuold be better without off me,and that's why I must live:)
That's one way to keep going!
Thank you
Very well said 👏 and quite touching.
Thank you man.
Thank You, it helped
Thank you ❤
I feel completely worthless too. I can't see the point in life at all.
Sometimes we have a hard time finding the "why" in life, the best way to find out is to continue on the journey until we get an answer. I know it's difficult in the low moments, but they pass. Sometimes we need help, in the form of others and perhaps in the form of medication, to get us past the really difficult times.
I'm not suicidal but I feel like nobody even wants me outside my money. I'm lonely.
I'm sorry people view you as an ATM, that's an unfortunate thing that exists in our society. I too have loneliness, I deal with it through medication, prayer, and doing things that make me happy. I try to think about things that made me happy in the past and seek those out. Hold on to your memories, good memories are a refuge when you are sad.
I am developmentally Disabled I've been out of high school For over 20 years Everybody went to college Got married Had kids. I put a friend Who is a lady In a uncomfortable situation She's the only lady friend I Have I want to do romantic stuff with a lady And I can't find anybody.
Life is nothing more than an evil catch 22 at best. The only reason why people would not want me dead is dollar signs.
You helped me.
Each of these positive comments helps me, so thank you!
It isn't just a feeling. Unwanted, unloved and nobody cares. Might as well be dead. I have nobody. That's the truth. Nobody, it's just me in this world. What's the point.
You cared enough to post this message. While I don't know you, I do know you are having a tough time. It's possible for you to have a positive impact on someone else by being kind to them. Kindness, selflessness, those are gifts you can give others and that will help you feel a sense of purpose and fulfillment; being of service to others. Take one day at a time.
@@eformance I do. I give people what I want. Love, kindness, understanding. I get stink face and get away from me. I wish you could live my life and find out how horrible it is. One day at a time means I'm not planning for the future. Day by day means death.
@@jasonk795 It sounds like you have a good heart and care about your fellow man. When I was at my lowest point in life, I found relief by going back to church. I found a light that helped me glow and put the difficulties of life into perspective. Sure, I have trials, but I have a greater capability of dealing with those and things have worked out better for me. If you're interested, I can send you a link to their website where you can get in touch with someone locally.
@@eformance I'm feeling sad lonely depressed unwanted unloved right now. Thoughts of death are over my head right now. After I eat my lunch I'm going to go walk through the cemetery
@@jasonk795 You don't know me, but I care. There are more people like me in the world than you may realize.
Thank you.
You see... I... I have been feeling so bad lately. To the extent I keep feeling that everything that goes bad around me, is my fault somehow. That it's because either I've attracted it or I didn't work hard enough to prevent it. I feel like I have ruined the lives of people I love because of my weakness, my flaws and everything I am lacking. I have been constantly trying to gather the courage to do it... To disappear from this world. But I am terrified of doing it wrongly and somehow survive and become a burden to my family... I'm trying to go exactly to prevent that... I want them to be happy without a... Weirdo like me. Someone as empty, as disgusting, as stupid, as worthless as I am... My children deserve a better mother... My husband deserves a better wife... My parents deserved a better daughter and died without it. They died with a disappointment instead. Everything is wrong with me and... I don't know what to do... I am so... Lonely. It hurts. It hurts so much. I have nothing to offer... Nothing... I just want them to be happy...
Everyone definitely would be better off if I was dead. I am so tired of people dredging up every little thing I have ever said or done. I am a mistake.
I hope You'll be okay
I feel like that as well.
The only Good Thing I Think about hell Is That ITS
stopping me from taking my life, because There
everything will be taken away from me
I feel worthless most of the time . I have good things going on in my liife but no one to share them with . I own 2 businesses but i work both of by myself . I only have 1 friend and hate when he tells me he and his wife are doing this and doing that . I have no wife or kids. Im alone . I smile and laugh with the best of them but deep down i always feel empty inside. Im 45 about to be 46 and feel im gonna die alone. It hurts to say that. I contemplate taking my life alot. Only reason i dont is because i know it hurt a couple of people in my life. I ve always felt too ugly to be loved and that has crippled my growth in self esteem . Money doesnt make you happy . I wish i had someone to come home to at night, do things families do. Over all i do think the world would be better off without me in it😢
I was unsuccessful in romantic endeavors until I joined eharmony, where I met my wife. She has been the best thing that has happened to me in my life. I strongly recommend giving them a try, they worked when others failed; they connect on a level that's deeper than the superficial swiping left or right.
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I am used up and empty. My husband hasn’t wanted me physically for 15 years. I serve no purpose whatsoever.
I feel for you. Are you friends with your husband? Passion does fade over time, but friendship, knowing each other, can be a source of continued happiness. If you feel you are at a crossroads, try to find something, even small, that you can enjoy together. Maybe it's just sitting in the backyard and watching the insects fly around, or the breeze blow. I hope this helps you in some small way.
Thank you.
I don't know if I can be helped.
I am trying to put myself back together. I don't know if I can.
We are much more resilient than Humpty Dumpty, it just takes time and often requires help from others.
@eformance I have no one to help. I feel like I'm on a deserted island all alone.
I have spent 30 going to sea I work on the bridge of a ship.
But I'm at the end of my strength.
@@jamesridoni When turning to others hasn't worked for me, I turn to God. I imagine being on the water gives you a lot of time for reflection. I can't guarantee you'll feel something immediately or your problems will magically melt away, but He gives me the strength to endure for another day.
@eformance I don't know anymore im at the end of my rope. I think that even God is mad at me. I feel like an old ship lost at sea in a storm that won't end.
I hope I'll be just a little better when I go back to sea. Thank you, friend. May God bless you.
I have spent all of my life helping others but not myself.
@@jamesridoni I hope the sea will bring you happiness. I know God is never mad at us, he is literally the only person that won't ever be mad at us!
I am writing this before watching the video. If you tell me the world is not better off without me I am leaving a dislike on the video.
He cannot "assure" you of any of this. The only arguments to stay alive are from flawed philosophical pedantry.
I only have these feelings about others .. I know that’s horrible but I’m cold
good work
Why do people claim that you ARE important, only to conveniently pass you off to someone else (a "trained specialist" who doesn't know you or really/deeply care about you) and then walk away thinking themself to be a hero?
I don't have any good words to make you feel differently, but know that the words I spoke come from the heart. The reason why we engage professionals is because they are equipped to understand and help us. Most of us are not self-aware in all that we do, we need another person to make us aware. Furthermore it often takes an objective third party to see what we and our family members cannot see.
Im 2 years sobber now after 27 year drug addiction streets gangs prisons homelessnes sin i feel so done with this world nobody cares about me anyways im all alone i dont know what's next
You are on the right path being sober. I think it's true that any time there is a major change in your life, or you reach a crossroads, you begin to question what is next. What keeps me moving forward in the face of adversity is my faith. I know the Lord has a plan for me, I don't know what it is, but if I continue to follow his guidance then it will be revealed unto me and I know it will bring me happiness. The Lord is a powerful force, but he can be clouded by things like drugs and other addictions, making it hard to perceive his gentle guiding hand.
@@eformance maybe one day i'll find peace
@@Fredswindow What I've learned is that peace is a station that you stop at periodically on your journey of life. It's a vacation from the world, but the world keeps moving forward and so must you. The trick is to try and get the most out of each one of those respites and try not to be too hard on yourself between stops.
@@eformanceive been trying to reach out to the people around me with no luck ive been looking on You tube for some comfort but i don't think anybody really cares for anybody so maybe it's just like that i live in mexico bro so i guess out here sux to be a deportee with no family
As much as i empathize and sympathize with your message, believe me, friend, you do not know me; i am not worth anything in this world. I'm quite expendeble to be honest.
You're right, I don't know you, but I can't believe there isn't someone, somewhere that cares very deeply for you. This week I've been reminded how short of a time we have on this earth, make the most of every minute, love someone, be loved, love yourself.
@eformance There is no one to love because no one loves me. And I do not need lectures on it. Especially after being rejected, ghosted, and outright mocked for it. In spite of all the choices or efforts I try to make, my life still comes up as insignificant. All the choices I make lead me to the same conclusion.
@@oblivious108 loving yourself is probably the hardest, because you have to recognize your own value. You must learn to love yourself before you can feel loved. That first important step is necessary.
@eformance why would I love myself if I have no value? If have accomplished nothing great, then I have no merit to do so.
@@oblivious108 your value as a person has nothing to do with your accomplishments. Ask yourself a simple question: Have I done any good in the world today? Then ask yourself that question each day going forward. Try to do a little good each day. An act of kindness or service will bring you blessings while you serve others.
People with good hearts always suffer why the shallow ljve best life
Outrageously 😠
the rooster agrees
Which one, there are 7! 😆
@@eformance oh i didnt know this is the first video of yours ive seen but i hope all 7 agree lol
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I wonder how people know that there are people who love you. What if you don't have parents, family, friends, work remotely and rarely meet people? There are people who are unloved and the last thing they need are dishonest feel good nonsensical words. It's confirmation that suicidal people are not understood at all.
I don't think he was being dishonest it takes some balls to do a video like that that and I have been in the position you say going round in the same shitty circle ....keep moving forward and don't stop even when your mind tells you negativity and to give up just keep at it good things follow, I hope you get to a good place in your mind.
I respect your opinion but I am leaving a dislike on the video. I am worthless and NO ONE will tell me otherwise.
I'm sorry you feel that way, but why dislike a message of positivity?
@@eformance that’s fair, I am being too emotional, but no one has to care about my opinion. In fact it is a worthless opinion so it doesn’t matter if I like or dislike it. That being said I do support the positive message for other who feel the way I feel.
@@ScarECrow7227 You're too hard on yourself, give yourself permission to be nicer to yourself. Life is hard, it's a difficult journey, we all experience times we think are the hardest and most unbearable, but it does get better. The only way I've been able to get out of those pits is to lean on the Lord, I don't have the strength alone.
Im verymuch loved by moskitos
nobody truly cares
I disagree.