It's strange how people congratulate those who have become sober, but when you tell them you don't drink per se and never have, they call you 'weird'. Our society is pretty screwed up in this regard.
The only two things that keeps family's together is just misery and dysfunctionality, just to be screwed up in life as a whole. And for them to always be glued together 24/7 just so they can share that misery and dysfunctionality just so they can keep themselves going yet others around them going.
I was brought to this family to brake this cycle of misery. They almost made me one of them, my life became hell. Until recently, I figure it out the game and I took charge of the situation. Brought the focus back to me . And they have to see me with a smile on my face. They don’t get why I am not angry . And it’s because i have the energy of God in my heart 💜 Evil doesn’t get In anymore.
Their just so jealous all the time, you just want to love and guide them and get the same considerations back but there's something in us that makes them always want to compete with us And break us.
Dude you have a wise head on your shoulders for somebody so young. I give up ‘socialising’ a long time ago due to the connotations with alcohol. And I don’t drink. I in in infinitely better shape physically, mentally and financially for doing so. Walking away from friends groups and family is hard but they rarely offer any support in achieving your goals and are more likely to hinder your progress. Peace
It's disturbing to discover your own family and supposed "friends" are your biggest haters who are secretly trying to compete with you and tear you down, but that's the sad reality for those of us who are authentic and excel. Thanks for another good one, Joel.
Yikes! This video hits home. Struggled with this for years having to cut off family and friends. It was a hard pill to swallow . I always self relflected first becasue i just couldnt believe my reality of the people around me. It wasnt me. I had to unlearn so many things that i learned due to my upbringing as a kid/teen. I was growing and trying to force it on people who were stuck that i never reasonated with to begin with. The disrespect and hate became extremely loud once i woke tf up.
We are soooo different it's crazy....wth is wrong when you are surrounded with soooo much opposition? Well when you escape you feel light as a feather....and you smile more...and you get healthier and have more energy...your dreams start to fill your head again...instead of all that static...then most likely you meet more of the same people...and if you haven't learned the lesson...it repeats...tried and true❤
Bro, this just keeps getting more & more fxcking crazy how spot on your uploads are consistently becoming!! I swear im walking beside you homeslice, shoulder to shoulder in spirit 🙏 I pray you continue to walk & remain obedient to the Holy Spirit so that you can keep on keepin on with your downright raw, sincere & honest uploads Terry!!! I have mad respect for you broski !! 🙏 Thank you for caring enough to be so straight up honest. Those that get offended by this, are the ones that need to here this the most !!! Im still absolutely gobsmacked, your literally speaking my mind 110% !!
I grew up with an abusive father who believes he is right and is dominant. It's the emotional game play, that burns you out, I am experiencing it right now. Problem with dysfunctional families is they bring death to themselves in sneaky ways to control you by fear, which is why you must get away.
What I am trying is , I m not walking away, instead I am showing them their evil doesn’t affect me. I am being kind , doing my part for the ones I love ( even tho they are toxic) . And ignoring the ones creating drama in my name. I am letting the good of God shine trough me . They can talk they don’t get to me. They will have to see me shine . I am focused on creating my perfect life having friends that think and feel like me! I think our mission is to be happy and show evil. We are not like them. we forgive. We accept. We Love
Then you will get punished, that's what he is trying to tell you because no matter how much you try to be good they will get to you in the end, save yourself and cut them off.
Sometimes the best way to love them God’s way, is to cut them off. Our absence opens their eyes, & unfortunately, sometimes that’s the only way for them to possibly wake up & find God for themselves
God is on earth. God made us strong and and the strongest now is fighting for him . We been training our whole life how to deal with Devil. We learned. We can’t run . We stay , we show than they don’t intimidate us , we are happy around our owne, we are example. We don’t fight with filth words, we fight being happy, calm and having a great life. Because that’s what God is . He made us soldiers. But not every soldier survive. U need to be good and brave. You need to represent God. What would Jesus do ? Hate his anemies?
I am very fortunate for my family. For the amount of warfare I’ve faced, I don’t think I could live if they weren’t as amazing as they are. I am praying for you guys because I couldn’t imagine. Peace and blessings to you all🙏🏽
That is a lesson that took me way too long to learn. Not telling anyone what is going on in your life is one of the greatest rules to live by. And ppl benefitting from you but not the reverse is also very true. These are some golden rules to live by for sure.
Believe in yourselves and each other and never give up on your dreams and aspirations and remember to be kind and uplifting to each other and open minded and genuine and respectful and humble. 💯❤️🙏
I’m not gonna be one sided on this discussion but it’s true that people and even family can prevent you from reaching your actual potential or worse undermine it. So what’s the point of friendship? To have genuine care for one another and that is very difficult to attain in todays living.
I grew up with alcoholic father and always remember the parties fights growing up.. As a teenager I drank with friends smoked cigarettes even though I really did not like it. Got in trouble .. As an adult I stopped being around family friends and see them still celebrating Friday even when they do not work😂 Weird I love the peace and quiet in my life now! 🤗❤ I do have chaos is rescuing animals. 😀
All you can be is the best version of yourself and walk away but forgive that one or people who have wronged you which is what i had to do regardless of how or what they said or did to me better to walk away and safe yourself from the Drama,i absolutely love this thank you!
I Agree Anytime someone got to drink heavily and smoke heavily does not like themselves or their lives self destruction if you ask me a lot of people do those things to escape their reality
Thank you fo the positive serious impact you've had on me having watching your videos thus far besides my weekly therapy helping me Terry to embrace and accept my past and future path and strengthening me encouraging me to stand up and be more like you. God bless you. You are Chosen and are working so hard. You have so much positive impact on your community I thank you. I wish growing up back in the 80s I had you for a Bro instead of my Narcissist step-brother. Gary
I knew there was a little drama in the fam when I moved back here but it is bad, and they tried to pull me in. I told them all, that I am not discussing one to the other any longer. One has reached out and tried to go that way but I just stay quiet. It is ugly really ugly. I still love them though.
I don’t drink, but occasional drink is not that bad every now and then… lemon ginger tea, a garlic clove and fresh blueberries plenty Of water after a occasional drink
literally facts. Those days are done. People underestimate that the last 10 years are the kids of the 80s and 90s.. this means that the generation change over the last 100 years should be called species changes not generations changes.
My parents drive me crazy but they were pretty good parents and I will take of them to the end. We do know the Lord and they are more aware than most their age. They are just aging and need help with daily things. We have been separated from majority of our Family for 20 years tho. They stay in Chicago and while I love and miss home that city I will never live there again
No wonder why im the only one reaching out to people im noticing that as well i thought i was the problem im too real for everyone thats the problem its good to say atuff but not say too much stuff amd how i function i say what i think is done the right way and not rude neither
Narcissists walk run and get in get out make me cringe ! Narcissists want me to feel look act the way they do ! I am sorry ! I feel cringe ! I don't want to feel cringe ! They are narcissists but don't even understand what is narcissists ! I can feel it ! I like girls who attracted to me !
Abandoning their purpose they have become so dimmed and exploitable by the putrid presences that also made them so disgusting codependents and/or narcs that need to heal themselves...
.. ya i watched a partner die because they believed the worst was yet to come .. well i didn't watch it like i wanted to b/c he kicked me out of the hospital for .. not being dying too.
Most people,bar a few, haven't changed at all,I have to walk away from nearly everyone I knew before because I see they are not solid enough,too sketchy and the rest and that is right,they are not good for us,they take us off our path and it's even more easily done under the influence. I don't allow people to take the Mick when I've had a drink but I do lay stricter boundaries and keep them further away or cut them off,depending on how far they've pushed it. I see everything is changing in my life,I'm not engaging much with anyone at the moment,
The problem is as a chosen one I hate this evil world and the things of this world nothing here is interesting me all temporary boring hobbies I don't care about cycling fishing riding and all this worldly stuff I'm only waiting for Jesus Christ and I think this day is not too far away us we see the falling away every year the world gets worse and Jesus gets closer Amen🙏🙏❤❤
@ TerryJoel Hey brotha from another mother let's chat connect man. Not sure how to reach you but we have similar vibe although you are more Alpha me . Welp more Sigma male but passion joy peace and purpose is how I roll. Later mant
@terryjoeljunior like you have just figured out a massive revelation but you go nuts almost as you're scared to how life changing it is and you don't know if you can handle the anxiety caused initially from the experience as a whole ,
Speak God bro. You speak a lot of fitness but you didn't mention Him. If you are chosen. Please speak God in Jesus name! We cannot do anything without Him!
It's strange how people congratulate those who have become sober, but when you tell them you don't drink per se and never have, they call you 'weird'. Our society is pretty screwed up in this regard.
Wow I’ve never really thought of it this way & you are sooo right!
Yeah, very messed up..
It's screwed because too many people don't know God and Jesus while supporting the world of the devil. What can we do? Nothing until they learn
Nothing weirder than ppl destroying themselves with booze vapes cigarettes and worst still doing it around others. Souless revived souls
Your ability to convey these topics is incredible
The only two things that keeps family's together is just misery and dysfunctionality, just to be screwed up in life as a whole. And for them to always be glued together 24/7 just so they can share that misery and dysfunctionality just so they can keep themselves going yet others around them going.
Exactly
I was brought to this family to brake this cycle of misery. They almost made me one of them, my life became hell. Until recently, I figure it out the game and I took charge of the situation. Brought the focus back to me . And they have to see me with a smile on my face. They don’t get why I am not angry . And it’s because i have the energy of God in my heart 💜 Evil doesn’t get In anymore.
All we have to do is live!
Any Chosen one in CT USA?
Very true.or scapegoat you to just blame you for their insecurities or problems. Narcs 😂😂😂😂
Wow!! You aint never lie family members try to do that so they can make it seem your the bad one wgwn your never around
Their just so jealous all the time, you just want to love and guide them and get the same considerations back but there's something in us that makes them always want to compete with us
And break us.
I hope that all is well for everyone here and I hope that you all have a great day today.
Same to you 😊
Dude you have a wise head on your shoulders for somebody so young.
I give up ‘socialising’ a long time ago due to the connotations with alcohol. And I don’t drink. I in in infinitely better shape physically, mentally and financially for doing so. Walking away from friends groups and family is hard but they rarely offer any support in achieving your goals and are more likely to hinder your progress. Peace
It's disturbing to discover your own family and supposed "friends" are your biggest haters who are secretly trying to compete with you and tear you down, but that's the sad reality for those of us who are authentic and excel. Thanks for another good one, Joel.
Chosen ones go through the most.but in the end it will pay off.god is good.
Haha. They already walked away from me, so we good.
Yikes! This video hits home. Struggled with this for years having to cut off family and friends. It was a hard pill to swallow . I always self relflected first becasue i just couldnt believe my reality of the people around me. It wasnt me. I had to unlearn so many things that i learned due to my upbringing as a kid/teen. I was growing and trying to force it on people who were stuck that i never reasonated with to begin with. The disrespect and hate became extremely loud once i woke tf up.
Same here ❤
We are soooo different it's crazy....wth is wrong when you are surrounded with soooo much opposition? Well when you escape you feel light as a feather....and you smile more...and you get healthier and have more energy...your dreams start to fill your head again...instead of all that static...then most likely you meet more of the same people...and if you haven't learned the lesson...it repeats...tried and true❤
Bro, this just keeps getting more & more fxcking crazy how spot on your uploads are consistently becoming!!
I swear im walking beside you homeslice, shoulder to shoulder in spirit 🙏 I pray you continue to walk & remain obedient to the Holy Spirit so that you can keep on keepin on with your downright raw, sincere & honest uploads Terry!!!
I have mad respect for you broski !! 🙏 Thank you for caring enough to be so straight up honest. Those that get offended by this, are the ones that need to here this the most !!!
Im still absolutely gobsmacked, your literally speaking my mind 110% !!
I grew up with an abusive father who believes he is right and is dominant. It's the emotional game play, that burns you out, I am experiencing it right now. Problem with dysfunctional families is they bring death to themselves in sneaky ways to control you by fear, which is why you must get away.
Run 🏃🏽
Yes run
What I am trying is , I m not walking away, instead I am showing them their evil doesn’t affect me. I am being kind , doing my part for the ones I love ( even tho they are toxic) . And ignoring the ones creating drama in my name. I am letting the good of God shine trough me . They can talk they don’t get to me. They will have to see me shine .
I am focused on creating my perfect life having friends that think and feel like me!
I think our mission is to be happy and show evil. We are not like them. we forgive. We accept. We Love
Then you will get punished, that's what he is trying to tell you because no matter how much you try to be good they will get to you in the end, save yourself and cut them off.
Sometimes the best way to love them God’s way, is to cut them off. Our absence opens their eyes, & unfortunately, sometimes that’s the only way for them to possibly wake up & find God for themselves
@@VR-jb9hb Exactly,
There are limitations.
Don’t be overcome by Evil , But Over come Evil with Good .🕊 Romans 12:21.
God is on earth. God made us strong and and the strongest now is fighting for him . We been training our whole life how to deal with Devil. We learned. We can’t run . We stay , we show than they don’t intimidate us , we are happy around our owne, we are example. We don’t fight with filth words, we fight being happy, calm and having a great life. Because that’s what God is . He made us soldiers. But not every soldier survive. U need to be good and brave. You need to represent God. What would Jesus do ? Hate his anemies?
I am very fortunate for my family. For the amount of warfare I’ve faced, I don’t think I could live if they weren’t as amazing as they are. I am praying for you guys because I couldn’t imagine. Peace and blessings to you all🙏🏽
That is a lesson that took me way too long to learn. Not telling anyone what is going on in your life is one of the greatest rules to live by. And ppl benefitting from you but not the reverse is also very true. These are some golden rules to live by for sure.
The way to overcome addiction is to stop slowly. What happens is your body automatically changes.
SLAY THE DAY JOEL! ✌️👍
Yup had to do the cut off so many times. It hurt but necessary
I agree with you a hundred percent
Thank you for taking your time and energy to speak with us terryjoeljunior. We really appreciate you. 💯❤️🙏
Much love and respect to you and your channel Terryjoeljunior
Another great upload. Another beautiful sunset.
People who love you also hate you at the same.time facts
Work hard play hard .we also got to enjoy life.
Be the best version of yourself that you can be.
Believe in yourselves and each other and never give up on your dreams and aspirations and remember to be kind and uplifting to each other and open minded and genuine and respectful and humble. 💯❤️🙏
Str8 Facts and So Very True
I’m not gonna be one sided on this discussion but it’s true that people and even family can prevent you from reaching your actual potential or worse undermine it. So what’s the point of friendship? To have genuine care for one another and that is very difficult to attain in todays living.
yup this happened to me and my "friends". One of them got so jeaulous he almost attacked me and I didn't even flinch.
Chosen Ones Be Like 👑💯
I feel god through your message
Could you imagine unprofessional count my spins !
I grew up with alcoholic father and always remember the parties fights growing up.. As a teenager I drank with friends smoked cigarettes even though I really did not like it. Got in trouble .. As an adult I stopped being around family friends and see them still celebrating Friday even when they do not work😂
Weird I love the peace and quiet in my life now! 🤗❤ I do have chaos is rescuing animals. 😀
All you can be is the best version of yourself and walk away but forgive that one or people who have wronged you which is what i had to do regardless of how or what they said or did to me better to walk away and safe yourself from the Drama,i absolutely love this thank you!
I had to walk away from these so called ''friends'' a few of them turned out to be narcissist!!!
I'm so glad you're saying it. I thought I'm my only type in the world, ..apparently not. So thank you for explaining the experience. 💥💪💛
We are a l❤t
I Agree Anytime someone got to drink heavily and smoke heavily does not like themselves or their lives self destruction if you ask me a lot of people do those things to escape their reality
They're full of dun blind and deceived. We're in the end time. Read the prophecies of the bible. Narrow is the path and few find out. Debauched ppl
Love and Peace to you💐
Thx terry i really needed this. Been slipping as of lately
That Jezebels girl in the ads ! Scary !
Thank you fo the positive serious impact you've had on me having watching your videos thus far besides my weekly therapy helping me Terry to embrace and accept my past and future path and strengthening me encouraging me to stand up and be more like you. God bless you. You are Chosen and are working so hard. You have so much positive impact on your community I thank you. I wish growing up back in the 80s I had you for a Bro instead of my Narcissist step-brother.
Gary
Thank you, so true! 👍❤️
Great video! I needed to hear this…
Terry Joel Jr jou lekker ding!!! I relate 100% unleaded
I knew there was a little drama in the fam when I moved back here but it is bad, and they tried to pull me in. I told them all, that I am not discussing one to the other any longer. One has reached out and tried to go that way but I just stay quiet. It is ugly really ugly. I still love them though.
Hard facts here. Much appreciated.
Blessed❤❤❤Thanku
"She wants to come back and I cant do it", haha my dude aint no Simp. Love this
I don’t drink, but occasional drink is not that bad every now and then… lemon ginger tea, a garlic clove and fresh blueberries plenty
Of water after a occasional drink
literally facts. Those days are done. People underestimate that the last 10 years are the kids of the 80s and 90s.. this means that the generation change over the last 100 years should be called species changes not generations changes.
Good Luck!
The best on TH-cam righ!t now
❤
Your Right!
Yeah bro it's true.
Very true ❤
Just talk about it I can feel about it ! just leave them alone ! I have bigger goals !
I don't like alcohol either. I only drink a few times a year if that.
Some years not at all
And most times if I drink I will get buzzed and then i won't want to drink anymore.
Usually I only drink on new years Eve to be fully honest
My parents drive me crazy but they were pretty good parents and I will take of them to the end. We do know the Lord and they are more aware than most their age. They are just aging and need help with daily things. We have been separated from majority of our Family for 20 years tho. They stay in Chicago and while I love and miss home that city I will never live there again
11:50 great one!
Absolutely fact
I know who is proper and who is not ! Because of I am proper !
Two places I only shop at Aldi's & Whole foods, real organic food not fake organic food
No wonder why im the only one reaching out to people im noticing that as well i thought i was the problem im too real for everyone thats the problem its good to say atuff but not say too much stuff amd how i function i say what i think is done the right way and not rude neither
I am at your service sir 👑
Worse Not worst
100% they don't want what's best for you.
Narcissists walk run and get in get out make me cringe ! Narcissists want me to feel look act the way they do ! I am sorry ! I feel cringe ! I don't want to feel cringe ! They are narcissists but don't even understand what is narcissists ! I can feel it ! I like girls who attracted to me !
Abandoning their purpose they have become so dimmed and exploitable by the putrid presences that also made them so disgusting codependents and/or narcs that need to heal themselves...
Respect.
Love this
thank you bro Love the RED coming from a ARIES
I love women who build ! only OQP ! only quality people ! build !
'What is the end goal here for you TJ? Where is this all heading for chosen ones? What is the role of chosen ones in the end times?
Chosen ones are to guide the others to ascension .
Brother, you are chosen, but by the other side, think on it.
.. ya i watched a partner die because they believed the worst was yet to come .. well i didn't watch it like i wanted to b/c he kicked me out of the hospital for .. not being dying too.
nice PJ's TJ
🎁
WRK HRD PLY HRD
Most people,bar a few, haven't changed at all,I have to walk away from nearly everyone I knew before because I see they are not solid enough,too sketchy and the rest and that is right,they are not good for us,they take us off our path and it's even more easily done under the influence. I don't allow people to take the Mick when I've had a drink but I do lay stricter boundaries and keep them further away or cut them off,depending on how far they've pushed it. I see everything is changing in my life,I'm not engaging much with anyone at the moment,
You gotta hold down your ENTIRE NECK-O-Da-Woods! Woooohooooo, they’d be thankful if they knew what that meant. 😅
I think we should, anyways be with them but, keeping doing what we do. #†.
While watching this video i am seeing confirmation numbers 222.and 777🎉
Yup walked away from them all! Weird vibing, happiness hating losers!
A man 2 meters tall 300 pounds meanwhile jacked ! Looks like a superman ! He is always with me ! Thanks god ! 😂
yes
i had it paused ..
"I LIKE MY PEACE AND CHAOS" aww peas and carrots on a shirt with tht line! 🥕
I wanna be your friend 😁
What's going to happen to my two new gdaughters why Gramma not around? They were the ones keeping us away😢
The problem is as a chosen one I hate this evil world and the things of this world nothing here is interesting me all temporary boring hobbies I don't care about cycling fishing riding and all this worldly stuff I'm only waiting for Jesus Christ and I think this day is not too far away us we see the falling away every year the world gets worse and Jesus gets closer Amen🙏🙏❤❤
💯
9:42 lololol
It's elimination season!
Jesus called you out to be different. He has chosen you to bear His light for His Truth. Amen.
❤🎉!
Oghuz Turks !🧔👃🏟️🦶⚽💨🥅
Most of them are bad influences
@ TerryJoel
Hey brotha from another mother let's chat connect man. Not sure how to reach you but we have similar vibe although you are more Alpha me . Welp more Sigma male but passion joy peace and purpose is how I roll. Later mant
You ever almost went off the rails ?
Off the rails like how?
@terryjoeljunior like you have just figured out a massive revelation but you go nuts almost as you're scared to how life changing it is and you don't know if you can handle the anxiety caused initially from the experience as a whole ,
@@jdleeder6494 no man you gotta out work any amount of doubt or fear or else your toast
@terryjoeljunior facts big homie! 💯 I feel that and am starting to wake up and realize it more than ever before! Bless you and yours brethren!
Why?
Speak God bro. You speak a lot of fitness but you didn't mention Him. If you are chosen. Please speak God in Jesus name! We cannot do anything without Him!