Fumi, I'm a singer. It sounds like your voice has not quite healed yet from the New York gathering. I'd recommend vocal rest (not speaking at all, or at least very little) for a few days. Also I think it'd be good to see an Ear Nose and Throat Doctor a.k.a. ENT. They can check the health of your vocal chords. You don't want to develop vocal nodes from overworking your voice, or not using it in a healthy way. That could make speaking difficult long term, which is part of your business! Love your advice here btw!
I think people overlook that she wants to be loved but I personally feel she is not able to give love. She puts herself at the "center" and wants others to love her.
No, she already loves herself too much. Her ego needs to be restrained and show true unselfish love to her man, and her poor children. I cannot imagine my mom in her mid 50s changing boyfriends..dragging me along while acting like a teenager. No, Jennifer Garner is not put together..look at the state of her and Ben children And that wasn't true love , Ben and her. ..it started in public for public and it's the same this time
If I was Jennifer or Ben, I would’ve learned my lesson the last time. When love comes back around, you MUST make it sweeter, nonetheless matured. I wish them both the best going forward.
Agreed... but it seems Jennifer being Jennifer wanted to flaunt the fact that the man that initially canceled their wedding just a week before the date is with HER AGAIN.
They both realised that neither was prepared to change. Jennifer needs a man who loves the limelight as much as she does. At least they got a chance to answer the question they've wondered about for 20 years - sometimes love just isn't enough.
If your partner is telling you, I don’t want my life in the limelight you gotta respect that and I don’t think Jen understands that part, no respect! When Jen share those love letters I cringe. Yes Fumi Ben knew how Jen was she love the spotlight.
Never marry a man who's biggest regret was divorcing his ex-wife. He needs to be left alone and fix himself. Maybe he'll be in a better place to be a great lover but he's not ready now.
I agree that Ben needs to continue to work on himself but he’ll never be the man for her until she heals that broken little girl in her. She’s self obsessed and anyone would get tired of that.
He says it now, because he needed mummy Garner to "save" him. He's a drunk, a liar, a hypocrite, a cheater. The way he humiliated Garner in public, he should never be forgiven. There's one thing to eff the nanny in private, and the other - to trash your wife in front of millions
My heart goes out to her, I hope she prioritize herself, take time to really heal, find self love and be REAL with herself before saying ‘I do’ again if she ever does.
Yep, Ben was no where near the MET. Ben is a simple guy who happens to have millions in the bank. His children are simple too. I think Jlo fell in love with Ben, Ben ex wife Jen, Ben's children too. However, Jen is down to earth too...a badass in Alias 🤩 and in the movies but down to earth which I believe Jlo appreciates from afar. Hollywood isn't reality and 2 people in a relationship will have 2 different approaches to life and their marriage. Feel sad for both of them. Imo Jlo should never marry. Take a year out. If another relationship comes up in 2 years time it should be from the Banking or Tech arena. How she needs to stop talking to the press etc. she is now becoming a caricature of her self like those old Hollywood
You encourage my wife when she is feeling down. Thank You. From Connecticut, USA. You always make her laugh, smile and encouraging to my adult step daughters too.
Marc Anthony divorced his first wife because of Jennifer, he also divorced his second wife because he kissed Jennifer at a performance they did and now he is remarried and I think he has a baby.
I also think it was Ben's decision and he gave her the opportunity to save face by filing first. I don't think she would let go of the fantasy so fast after premiering her ill-conceived movie. I called this divorce the day they announced their marriage, very sad.
Yeah he wanted to file but if he did it would he would look like an a**hole and it will embarrass Jennifer. But if Jennifer files for divorce it will look better for her.
JLo's love of her life is her image and that alone. I knew the moment she got back with Ben, it was a image rehaul that was needed for her to prove to the world the breakup with ARod was no big deal. The quickness of ALL the sightings, the engagement, the wedding and all the PDA's with Ben was proof in the pudding; it was a "show".
I believe with all my heart that if Jennifer had NOT shared all their emails and correspondence that he gifted her in celebration of their PRIVATE feelings for each other, they would still be together. After that “no no” Ben washed his hands of her. Just Done 🤦🏽♀️
Ohhh Jennifer! I knew this was going to happen. I have been expecting it for a year. It was inevitable. I just pray that this time she takes much needed time for herself and heal and not rush into another relationship. Be strong J-Lo! PS: Sista Fums! Your outfit is on fire! 🖤🔥
Fumi, I have listened to 100s of videos of Ben and Jennifer. And i must say you are the best of them all. You have not been judgmental to any of them like the media is going crazy 🤪 about. You really show maturity and respect for both couples…May God bless you.
I pray God to heal your heart, wrap His warm embrace around and comfort you🙏🏽💖💖 Sending you hugs, luv and light. Spend more time with family and friends, don’t isolate yourself, it gets better with time, believe me…I went through it😘🤗💖
Aw, sorry for your pain😢if I may, focus on babying yourself, be kind to yourself, get out in nature, watch a good or funny movie, take stock of your beautiful qualities, surround yourself with loving supportive family or friends, cry, journal, talk about your feelings with a trusted friend, eat ice-cream...promise you, it gets better with time, it really does heal, been there🫂but support and self awareness is everything right now❤sending you BIG HUGS
Exactly and I can't imagine dealing with someone with an addiction. It's known that addicts love their addition first and foremost. She even avoids caffeine and doesn't drink. I assume she doesn't like the drinking but she loves sharing pics & letters...so divorce it is👀.
J L, attach your self to the word of God, and both of you don’t forget the vows in the day of your wedding, both of you if you believe in God, was to him you spoke with, not to your invites you spoken to. God bless you both.
Auntie Fumi, your approach is truly mind-blowing. Your ability to articulate things the way they should be is truly impressive. You are cherished and admired here.
Thank you, Fumi. I have a friend who is very similar. I couldn't understand what's been irritating me. It's her business; not mine. It's her life; not mine. You've helped me understand my discomfort and, truthfully, irritation (crosses self).
The greatest love story that never was sadly. She needs to heal before she gets involved with any relationship and focus on her children.Those poor children have had enough ‘step fathers’ because she simply hasn’t put them first,it’s always been about her.
This has always been my thing. How is she not thinking of her kids in these situations. Truth is it ceases to be about just you once children are involved. She has created a toxic pattern for those kids, and I will not be surprised if they are unable to sustain romantic relationships when they are older.
@@FK.981 exactly this. She has passed on an ‘unhealthy pattern’ to her children.this is not only traumatising for them but it’s become ‘their normal’ which will be very hard to undo! Only God can change that for them (she doesn’t believe in God but I pray she comes to him and heals) and I pray for those children that this doesn’t turn their hearts away from having loving fulfilling and ‘lasting’ relationships and friendships in the future.🙏🏾🙏🏾
Wow! You are on it! So beautifully said. His ex-wife was ready to let him go. Yes he did say he didn’t want media attention. Why do some women think that when they get a man that he will be different with them? No! You’re getting the same message the other woman dealt with. A good woman does not leave a good man.
Love your channel and content. Jennifer is a love addict and can’t be alone. She does need therapy. She needs too much external validation from others to be happy. I know in her documentary movie she says she is aware she needs to love herself and put herself first, but I really don’t think she knows how. Also, what I have been hearing and what might be coming out is how she may be involved and perhaps accomplice to whatever the FBI found on Diddy tapes. Supposedly FBI showed Ben the tapes and that was the nail in the coffin.
In the famous words of my dear friend wendy williams, exes are exes for a reason. Let it go. This was such a big mistake on both end. Let go and let God.
❤️your advise on the Jennifer Lopez and Ben topics, I read on other platform horrible reason as to why she can’t keep a husband and ppl are riding this story classlessly and until the wheels fall off. You my dear show empathy and genuine understanding. Have a blessed week.
LOVE IS ATRICKY THING FUMI,THERE THINGS WE CANTS SAY OR FATHOM WHEN IT COMES TO MATTERS OF THE HEART,I FEEL SAD FOR JENNIFER THOU BEN NEEDS TO WORK ON HIMSELF TOO
Jennifer Lopez looks better than most people on their best day. But I will say I noticed this year that Jennifer Lopez face shows a lot of stress and strain which is understandable.
Please, someone explain to me why Jen never listens!! It's maddening and I'm not even a fan, throughout that documentary she didn't listen to her producers and directors when they warned against doing her triple assault project about their love, they told her media is consumed differently these days, she forged ahead. Jane Fonda warned her about the repercussions of putting their private business to the public . She told Jane we're just like this! NO, YOU were like that, Ben never was. She knows the exact reasons it didn't work last time, Ben expressed his boundaries clearly to her this time, so why would you stupidly make the exact same mistakes as 17 years ago! Also, I think she pretended to Ben that she'd changed, but as time went by, he realised she's the exact same and has not grown or evolved at all & she couldn't keep the act up. For the love of God, someone send this video to her pronto!!
Iam so glad you are telling her this about SELF LOVE. She should have had counseling a long time ago, instead of looking fir love with men. Love yourself and your children. Until you put God and then yourself, you will be constantly getting divorces.
This is getting ole! Jennifer’s next partner should be a camera. No one else would understand her need to divulge every second of her life on film with every man she dates or marries, every outfit she wears.
Mrs. Fumi, You always look so pretty 😊❤. Simply gorgeous. And that’s because you value and live the philosophy of loving yourself first and the importance that self love doesn’t come from others it comes from within. Hopefully one day people like Jennifer can come to that realization.
Lovely Fumi, thank you for your wisdom and kindness. You are always a breath of fresh air. I truly appreciate you. God bless and keep you & your family. Most Sincerely, Sharon 🙏😇
Self love ❤️ put your self first “Self love “ I had to learn this in my fifties. A man is a man when they tell you they don’t like something listen to that. A man is a man is a man they don’t think like us woman . JLO take a break and do you !!! Looking good FUMI thank you so much for what you do love you from MInnesota . Tim Walz state.”!!!!
Sis fumi, first and foremost you look so fabulous,so elegant and stylish. About the topic of the day, you are so right. You said that a person needs to prioritise themselves to be better in relationships with their family & friends. This struck my mind & heart. Very well said.
It’s sad to see them choose divorce over growing together. I believe they reflect each others worst qualities so much that they could have made eachother better people 😢
Fumi, I'm a singer. It sounds like your voice has not quite healed yet from the New York gathering. I'd recommend vocal rest (not speaking at all, or at least very little) for a few days. Also I think it'd be good to see an Ear Nose and Throat Doctor a.k.a. ENT. They can check the health of your vocal chords. You don't want to develop vocal nodes from overworking your voice, or not using it in a healthy way. That could make speaking difficult long term, which is part of your business!
Love your advice here btw!
❤😊
Great advice 😊
Gargling with lemons and warm water helps too but that may just be her voice....
I think people overlook that she wants to be loved but I personally feel she is not able to give love. She puts herself at the "center" and wants others to love her.
She can't eat her cake and have it🙆🙆if she wants love she gotta give it and forget abt media or glamour
Drop 👍🎤
Good point. Everyone is to just fall in line and always be the one "compromising."
Exactly 💯
Give your deepest love to God, he never fails you,
Amen sister , Amen💜✝️💜
Jennifer is in love with the Paparazzi and weddings not marriages.
😂😂😂
Jlo will never have success in relationships until she find where she is deficit and HEAL and love herself.
Agreed
AMEN😊
Her outside cover is good to look at, but the inside appears to be hollow and empty.
Yeah since she been in the industry she has always been in a relationship. She’s never been single for long
No, she already loves herself too much. Her ego needs to be restrained and show true unselfish love to her man, and her poor children.
I cannot imagine my mom in her mid 50s changing boyfriends..dragging me along while acting like a teenager.
No, Jennifer Garner is not put together..look at the state of her and Ben children
And that wasn't true love , Ben and her. ..it started in public for public and it's the same this time
As a woman, I am praying for her. 😢 Only God can truly heal you Jen because He is enough. God is enough.😊
✝️❤️ Amen 🥰🙏🏼😘
Jennifer not Jlo needs to seek therapy. There's sadly an emptiness there she's trying to fill with these relationships. Praying for healing!
If I was Jennifer or Ben, I would’ve learned my lesson the last time. When love comes back around, you MUST make it sweeter, nonetheless matured. I wish them both the best going forward.
Agreed... but it seems Jennifer being Jennifer wanted to flaunt the fact that the man that initially canceled their wedding just a week before the date is with HER AGAIN.
Perfect comment
They both realised that neither was prepared to change. Jennifer needs a man who loves the limelight as much as she does. At least they got a chance to answer the question they've wondered about for 20 years - sometimes love just isn't enough.
@@RandomPersonette A Rod was that guy. 😹
@@Jie85-yes, seemed like he was. i liked them together. he f*cked up by cheating though. so she left him.
Her mom also failed her, she kept telling her Ben was the one. And she couldn’t let that go…
Knew it would happen.
After many years going back to an ex is not a good sign.
Happiness is important in relationship.
Gotta agree 💯 with Ben to keep your relationship PRIVATE.Any kind of relationship.
That dress is gorgeous
If your partner is telling you, I don’t want my life in the limelight you gotta respect that and I don’t think Jen understands that part, no respect! When Jen share those love letters I cringe. Yes Fumi Ben knew how Jen was she love the spotlight.
He KNEW what he was getting into! 🤷🏾♀️
If your partner says that nut her chose to marry Jlo he already lost the plot. It's like asking a fish not to swim.
Stunning dress!!!! You are absolutely gorgeous!
Mama you broke this all the way down! Hell I started looking at myself and really questioning my own life choices. Thank you for the therapy session!❤
Never marry a man who's biggest regret was divorcing his ex-wife. He needs to be left alone and fix himself. Maybe he'll be in a better place to be a great lover but he's not ready now.
I agree. Women are selfish and try to tie a man down who obviously needs therapy, not another marriage. Someone who loves you will let you go.
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I agree that Ben needs to continue to work on himself but he’ll never be the man for her until she heals that broken little girl in her. She’s self obsessed and anyone would get tired of that.
He says it now, because he needed mummy Garner to "save" him. He's a drunk, a liar, a hypocrite, a cheater. The way he humiliated Garner in public, he should never be forgiven. There's one thing to eff the nanny in private, and the other - to trash your wife in front of millions
To be honest, he wasn't married to either Jennifer Garner, or Jennifer Lopez. He simply committed adultery with those two women.
Ben already has bought a house near where his children are. He will go where he belongs with his children. That is best probably.
My heart goes out to her, I hope she prioritize herself, take time to really heal, find self love and be REAL with herself before saying ‘I do’ again if she ever does.
JLO loves the happily ever after hallmark love story. however life be lifeing. JLO needs to recognize what is tv and what's real life.
For anyone who was paying attention to their public behavior this was not a surprise. The MET Gala was a prime example of this.
Yep, Ben was no where near the MET. Ben is a simple guy who happens to have millions in the bank. His children are simple too. I think Jlo fell in love with Ben, Ben ex wife Jen, Ben's children too. However, Jen is down to earth too...a badass in Alias 🤩 and in the movies but down to earth which I believe Jlo appreciates from afar. Hollywood isn't reality and 2 people in a relationship will have 2 different approaches to life and their marriage.
Feel sad for both of them.
Imo Jlo should never marry.
Take a year out.
If another relationship comes up in 2 years time it should be from the Banking or Tech arena.
How she needs to stop talking to the press etc. she is now becoming a caricature of her self like those old Hollywood
Hi Fumi, I had a great time in NYC. It was an honor to meet you. Beautiful dress. Have a great time at your gala tonight. ❤❤
Sending them healing prayers and the grace to move on peacefully. As a woman, my heart goes out to you jenny.
Amen
You encourage my wife when she is feeling down. Thank You. From Connecticut, USA. You always make her laugh, smile and encouraging to my adult step daughters too.
Actually Marc Anthony is on his second wife since divorcing Jennifer. He just had a baby with wife number 4. So he’s got issues too.
Spanish money
Marc Anthony divorced his first wife because of Jennifer, he also divorced his second wife because he kissed Jennifer at a performance they did and now he is remarried and I think he has a baby.
And married a woman younger than some of his older children.
@@miru2590 that would have been his third wife. Jennifer was the second wife.
@@miru2590 the wives filed for divorce not him, because of jho.
I have not heard someone communicate a break-up in such a compassionate and eloquent way.
I also think it was Ben's decision and he gave her the opportunity to save face by filing first. I don't think she would let go of the fantasy so fast after premiering her ill-conceived movie. I called this divorce the day they announced their marriage, very sad.
Many people did. In fact, I recall people saying that they give them two years tops!
Yeah he wanted to file but if he did it would he would look like an a**hole and it will embarrass Jennifer. But if Jennifer files for divorce it will look better for her.
Jane Fonda asked who she is doing this for, and why?
She was initially deadset against being in her movie.
JLo's love of her life is her image and that alone. I knew the moment she got back with Ben, it was a image rehaul that was needed for her to prove to the world the breakup with ARod was no big deal. The quickness of ALL the sightings, the engagement, the wedding and all the PDA's with Ben was proof in the pudding; it was a "show".
HE LITERALLY PURSUED HER!! But yeah I guess it’s ALWAYS the woman’s fault regardless!!!
You look amazing Fumi❤
I believe with all my heart that if Jennifer had NOT shared all their emails and correspondence that he gifted her in celebration of their PRIVATE feelings for each other, they would still be together. After that “no no” Ben washed his hands of her. Just Done 🤦🏽♀️
I think its an accumulation - its also the film and album about them, which then went on to bomb.
Well, that means he did not love her.
Nope Ben is not a marriage material i dont think. period
That and her selling his private motorcycle collection behind his back.
And the alcohol line when her husband is a recovering addict!
I really hope someone from her camp will get this your heartfelt advice to her! Love your TH-cam page Fumi!
"Elizabeth Taylor of our time!" 😂😮😅
Ohhh Jennifer! I knew this was going to happen. I have been expecting it for a year. It was inevitable. I just pray that this time she takes much needed time for herself and heal and not rush into another relationship. Be strong J-Lo! PS: Sista Fums! Your outfit is on fire! 🖤🔥
Fumi, I have listened to 100s of videos of Ben and Jennifer. And i must say you are the best of them all. You have not been judgmental to any of them like the media is going crazy 🤪 about. You really show maturity and respect for both couples…May God bless you.
Loving the hair...so healthy!!
Aunty Fumi ... This is unrelated, but how do I get over a heartbreak? My heart is in a lot of pain! 😭
I pray God to heal your heart, wrap His warm embrace around and comfort you🙏🏽💖💖
Sending you hugs, luv and light. Spend more time with family and friends, don’t isolate yourself, it gets better with time, believe me…I went through it😘🤗💖
It gets better sis. Wish you all the happiness you DESERVE❤
Self awareness and inner work. Homeopathic medicine helps as well. Take a break from relationships as well..
Pour the love into yourself 💖. Be gentle with you, journal, go at sea, and be grateful to be alive 🙏🏽.
Aw, sorry for your pain😢if I may, focus on babying yourself, be kind to yourself, get out in nature, watch a good or funny movie, take stock of your beautiful qualities, surround yourself with loving supportive family or friends, cry, journal, talk about your feelings with a trusted friend, eat ice-cream...promise you, it gets better with time, it really does heal, been there🫂but support and self awareness is everything right now❤sending you BIG HUGS
Fumi is so compassionate and caring. I love how she approaches hard subjects like this
I still like Jennifer Garner for him
Me 2
No. I wouldn't wish Ben for Jennifer Garner again...She knows Better, he put her thru Hell too!
She's in a happy relationship
❤❤❤❤❤HELL, HELL, NO!!!! HE IS A BOY, USER, NARCISSIST, DRUNK. HE HAS DISRESPECTED THE ACTOR AND THE MOTHER OF HIS THREE CHILDREN!!!!!!!!
GOOD👍
WELL SAID FUMI. SELF LOVE HAS TO BE FIRST, NOT SELFISHNESS. BUT SELF LOVE.
I feel sad for her. She is clearly searching for something that she will never find in a man or worldly acclaim. I hope Jlo finds healing in Yah.🙏🏾
I feel like she was in this relationship alone that's it perioddtttt
Exactly and I can't imagine dealing with someone with an addiction. It's known that addicts love their addition first and foremost. She even avoids caffeine and doesn't drink. I assume she doesn't like the drinking but she loves sharing pics & letters...so divorce it is👀.
@@GhislaineMutombo she has a cocktail brand called Delola. Looks like she drinks 🤷🏾♀️
@@orselenadidiyes. and she probably doesn’t drink to excess like an alcoholic. his addiction is alcohol. hers is love/adoration.
J L, attach your self to the word of God, and both of you don’t forget the vows in the day of your wedding, both of you if you believe in God, was to him you spoke with, not to your invites you spoken to. God bless you both.
Not surprised, I wish them well
The dress is gorgeous beautiful elegant and classy
WOW LISTENING TO YOU TALK ABOUT JENNIFER LIKE THIS WOW ITS REALLY SERIOUS N TOUGH LOVE
Auntie Fumi, your approach is truly mind-blowing. Your ability to articulate things the way they should be is truly impressive. You are cherished and admired here.
I felt like aunty Fumi was speaking directly at me… oh dear i am tearing up😢
Thank you, Fumi. I have a friend who is very similar. I couldn't understand what's been irritating me. It's her business; not mine. It's her life; not mine. You've helped me understand my discomfort and, truthfully, irritation (crosses self).
Its really sad, I was hoping that they would have work it out. I was rooting for them. I wish her all the best. 😮😮😮.
I can't be friends with any of my exes, they're too bad.
@@theaondracawley5441Same here. Nope No Way they're Ex's for reasons😢
The greatest love story that never was sadly. She needs to heal before she gets involved with any relationship and focus on her children.Those poor children have had enough ‘step fathers’ because she simply hasn’t put them first,it’s always been about her.
❤❤❤❤AKA SOMATIC NARCISSIST!!!! SHE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT HER OFFSPRINGS!!!!!SHE IS EVIL!!!!!
This has always been my thing. How is she not thinking of her kids in these situations. Truth is it ceases to be about just you once children are involved.
She has created a toxic pattern for those kids, and I will not be surprised if they are unable to sustain romantic relationships when they are older.
@@FK.981 exactly this. She has passed on an ‘unhealthy pattern’ to her children.this is not only traumatising for them but it’s become ‘their normal’ which will be very hard to undo! Only God can change that for them (she doesn’t believe in God but I pray she comes to him and heals) and I pray for those children that this doesn’t turn their hearts away from having loving fulfilling and ‘lasting’ relationships and friendships in the future.🙏🏾🙏🏾
Wow! You are on it! So beautifully said. His ex-wife was ready to let him go. Yes he did say he didn’t want media attention.
Why do some women think that when they get a man that he will be different with them? No! You’re getting the same message the other woman dealt with. A good woman does not leave a good man.
Love your channel and content. Jennifer is a love addict and can’t be alone. She does need therapy. She needs too much external validation from others to be happy. I know in her documentary movie she says she is aware she needs to love herself and put herself first, but I really don’t think she knows how. Also, what I have been hearing and what might be coming out is how she may be involved and perhaps accomplice to whatever the FBI found on Diddy tapes. Supposedly FBI showed Ben the tapes and that was the nail in the coffin.
😮 Oh Wow. I actually wondered about that situation with Her & Diddy and how Ben reacted to it. That did cross my mind🤔
QUEEN FUMI! I hope Jennifer is watching, or told to from a friend or fan, because she needs this in a BIG! WAY.🤔
Aww beautiful Jlo, i hope she recover from this and bounce back stronger and better.
In the famous words of my dear friend wendy williams, exes are exes for a reason. Let it go. This was such a big mistake on both end. Let go and let God.
The dress is gorgeous, you look like a goddess 💙
Lovely dress, beautiful
Don’t mean to sound disrespectful, BUT, Jennifer Lopez NEEDS TO STOP ✋🏽 IT, and GO SOMEWHERE AND SIT DOWN!!!
💯💯💯💯...actually go lay down and get some therapy.
❤️your advise on the Jennifer Lopez and Ben topics, I read on other platform horrible reason as to why she can’t keep a husband and ppl are riding this story classlessly and until the wheels fall off. You my dear show empathy and genuine understanding.
Have a blessed week.
LOVE IS ATRICKY THING FUMI,THERE THINGS WE CANTS SAY OR FATHOM WHEN IT COMES TO MATTERS OF THE HEART,I FEEL SAD FOR JENNIFER THOU BEN NEEDS TO WORK ON HIMSELF TOO
Jennifer Lopez looks better than most people on their best day. But I will say I noticed this year that Jennifer Lopez face shows a lot of stress and strain which is understandable.
Yes was thinking the same sha always looked freshh happy bombbb now she was looking tiered and her smile was not bright as always☹
It's all make up. Without it she's average at best. But yes, I could see stress and pain in her face this year and also serious weight loss.
Aunty Fumi. I was waiting on you with this news❤
Please, someone explain to me why Jen never listens!! It's maddening and I'm not even a fan, throughout that documentary she didn't listen to her producers and directors when they warned against doing her triple assault project about their love, they told her media is consumed differently these days, she forged ahead. Jane Fonda warned her about the repercussions of putting their private business to the public . She told Jane we're just like this! NO, YOU were like that, Ben never was. She knows the exact reasons it didn't work last time, Ben expressed his boundaries clearly to her this time, so why would you stupidly make the exact same mistakes as 17 years ago!
Also, I think she pretended to Ben that she'd changed, but as time went by, he realised she's the exact same and has not grown or evolved at all & she couldn't keep the act up.
For the love of God, someone send this video to her pronto!!
she’s obviously headstrong. that’s why she doesn’t listen.
You said it perfectly🙏🙏🙏
I tell you something Fumi sliced Jennifer like a loath of bread she left no crumbs 🔪🍞🔪
You look marvelous darling!! Yes, that is the dress for you.❤
Iam so glad you are telling her this about SELF LOVE. She should have had counseling a long time ago, instead of looking fir love with men. Love yourself and your children. Until you put God and then yourself, you will be constantly getting divorces.
Very brilliant with breaking down these public celebrity relationships. Thank you Mrs. Fumi . God bless and much love 💕
This video was SO well done!
Auntie Fumi, I just love your submissions. Honesty with no judgements. God bless you with more wisdom Ma.
Fumi you are the best great advice. Jennifer should call you.
This is getting ole! Jennifer’s next partner should be a camera. No one else would understand her need to divulge every second of her life on film with every man she dates or marries, every outfit she wears.
So true i respected her for all of this it is okay not to be okay Jlo going to come out I love Jlo very strong
I love the way you spell out human behavior. Keep doing you FUMI. A discerning spirit never gets old. It is a gift from the almighty GOD himself.
Girl, you are so true in everything you are saying
Mrs. Fumi,
You always look so pretty 😊❤. Simply gorgeous. And that’s because you value and live the philosophy of loving yourself first and the importance that self love doesn’t come from others it comes from within. Hopefully one day people like Jennifer can come to that realization.
Fumi I love your comments....... wisdom is wise💜🏳🌈
Hi Fumi! Gorgeous 😍 🖤👌🏾
Yes. When IT'S. OVER
SAY. NO. MORE.
Lovely Fumi, thank you for your wisdom and kindness. You are always a breath of fresh air. I truly appreciate you. God bless and keep you & your family. Most Sincerely, Sharon 🙏😇
You are wise and sympathetic to Jen. You are a wonderful mom n advisor! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Our Fumi saying it straight. I learn so much wisdom from Fumi ❤
She is not listening. Fumi call her
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Thank you for my online relationship.
thank you mama , u said it all. #SELF LOVE . I appreciate you .
Great advice you gave Jennifer.
Self love ❤️ put your self first “Self love “ I had to learn this in my fifties. A man is a man when they tell you they don’t like something listen to that. A man is a man is a man they don’t think like us woman . JLO take a break and do you !!! Looking good FUMI thank you so much for what you do love you from MInnesota . Tim Walz state.”!!!!
She didn't marry him but same thing with ARod. All the kids living together and bonding and then relationship ending.
Fumi, you inspire my TH-cam journey. Thank you❤
Auntie Fumi- the dress, and the VCA earrings are 🔥!! Loveee💙🩵
Sis fumi, first and foremost you look so fabulous,so elegant and stylish. About the topic of the day, you are so right. You said that a person needs to prioritise themselves to be better in relationships with their family & friends. This struck my mind & heart. Very well said.
You are who you are ❤
She’ll be engaged again in 6 months.
LOL, I was thinking the same thing ✌️💯
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She needs to stop ✋️. Her problem is not the men. She needs Jesus
Fumi you are God sent ❤
Fabulously put Together I love that on You❤❤❤
That marriage was all an illusion of happiness for jen, it was also a temporary band-aid for his struggles
Well said
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I knew this relationship wasn’t going to work. I hate to say that but that’s how I felt. Ben is a private person and she is a showboat.
And if he likes privacy he should become a fisherman somewhere in alaska
It’s sad to see them choose divorce over growing together. I believe they reflect each others worst qualities so much that they could have made eachother better people 😢
Love the dress Fumi! Absolutely gorgeous. Jlo needs to take some time out and work on herself. The honeymoon was short lived. So sorry for them.
You FABULOUS FUMI❤LOVE THAT GOWN❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ AND AS USUAL YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT‼️
FACTS💯
You have spoken well Aunty👏🏾