Been following you fellas since college and I appreciate the honesty and openness you have spoken about. Now more than ever is the time for men to step up to encourage other men. I will be journaling more, I will reconnect with my musicianship, I will dedicate sniper focus. Thank you
The internet is rruly a gift and a curse. I "met" you brothers thriugh watching Dormtainment videos my freshman year of college. Your content has changed as much as your/our lives have. It's incredible to have witnessed the journey and evolution of spirit in this last 13+ years. This is an inspiring conversation, but even more so coming from yall.
0:00 Intro / Origins of exposure 5:24 Defining desexualize 19:33 Negative life impact 😵💫 24:25 Rome's slip up 👀 28:27 Tips for growth 📝 38:32 Recovering from slip ups 🫂 / When to teach the next generation 46:38 Outro
Thank you. As our god foretold: in these days knowledge and understanding would increase, and so would temptation and exposure to greater forms of evil. It’s truly a blessing to access so much truth with the same double edged sword role technology plays in our lives as men. We are not alone in these struggles with our flesh and hearing it out loud is refreshing and sheds light on this important topic.
Maaaaan u hit it on the head it was all about not being able to channel that energy into purpose and creativity because sexual energy is literally creativity and creativity is literally sexual energy. Its the same.
This is smart and beautiful. I am happy that this message is coming out of a RESPECT for women and men, and not some incel shit. The way to reconnect with ALL of our humanities, is to desexualize and think about human beings, not objects.
The first time I heard yall have this conversation on CTH I started cleaning up my timeline as well.. I appreciate the fact that yall are always honest enough to let us know how yall are doing and giving us tips. I appreciate yall for helping us not feel alone!
From age of 14 to now I'm 23 years old currently N the site is something that's plagued me for that long. I even relapsed yesterday and I told myself until I'm able to reprogram my mind away from the site N transmute my energy with semen retention I'm not coming back to social media or hanging out with my friends.
Since Dormtainment days I’ve been watching you guys. The transformation is crazy and amazing to see! Keep it up! God put this in my feed right after my slip up 🙏🏿🙌 this is definitely a journey for all of us. I’ve been struggling with this since I was 15. I think it’s the combination of God and the physical effort. I would focus a lot on the spiritual side, but neglected the idea of triggers because my triggers didn’t fall in the commonly listed ones. But that analysis is what i really need to do and combine the two methods
Yeah man you definitely got this. the first step to change is awareness of the problem and next is wanting to do the work which it sounds like you're ready to do so you on your way 👍🏾👌🏾🙏🏾
I believe moderation is key. There's definitely an excess of material and I believe it's important to be able to control yourself. I spent way too much energy watching porn and chasing women when I was younger. Redirecting sexual energy to more productive parts of my life has helped. I still support folks that make nasty content too. There's space for both with balance
Been watching you guys since I was in my late teens (I'm almost 30 now). So happy to see you two talking about real issues. Its amazing how much one can change if they simply choose to do so. I am a completely different person than who I was when I first discovered you guys. You guys have changed so much too, I can tell. Thank you so much for doing good with your platform. Also, thank you for all the joy and laughs you given us over the years ♥️
Yo love yall! I used to listen to comedy trap house and dormtainment back in the day. I was looking up “desexualizing brain” and saw the thumbnail and was like IS THAT ROME GREEN 😂. Definetly subbing and checking out this channel
I have been watching you guys since 9th grade, 2012. I am 26 now and this is probably my favorite episode. The vulnerability + transparency in this episode will help a lot of men fight this internal battle. I’ll even add a tip of blocking the porn sites in content restrictions settings on Iphone / muting words.
Thank you for the support over the years and yeah we're hoping that this episode will find the people that need it most. Were happy it found you to aide on your journey 👍🏾👌🏾
What an amazing episode fellas!!! I’ve been struggling with this for a long time and I’ve been praying to God for help!! I believe God put this on my timeline at the right time!! Really appreciate seeing fellow black men being vulnerable and honest. Going take these tips and apply them immediately!!
No problem Matthew, were glad the episode found you and know you got this. Even if you slip up just jump back on the horse. Also, If you know anyone else whose struggling pass it forward 🙏🏾
i think this might have gave me that reinforcement i needed, first time watching yall i feel like brothers im 22 in the military. discipline! lets get this work!😤
Im so glad to see yall back on the scene and in such a impactful way its a great transition! And a big thanks for the frequency tuning in the beginning set the vibe perfectly much respect brothers!
I believe to truly desexualize your mind is to also list the benefits of indulging and embracing your sexuality. Just saying it's bad is not enough and it is not true, in my opinion. Accepting your sexuality and the urges to be sexual will make you healthier and much quickly truly sit and transmute that energy into other things.
This was a great convo. Def needed it. I def need an accountability partner. I feel ill be able to soar then. This addiction is no joke kings...and queens
Man…talk about timing. It’s refreshing to see grown men talk about this and admit the struggles rather than some righteous individual who claims they’re higher than porn and judge others.
In my recovery I took into account of understanding that porn is an illusion of intimacy. Also acknowledging that the true root behind observing porn is a lack of intimacy with self. Understanding and learning self love expands and builds the foundation of knowing thyself. Progression is better than perfection. Give yourself grace like he said, learn the triggers and adjust and move forward. You may have days where you go backwards but that is expected. Allow yourself to pause and reflect when you have those days. Y’all be stay in high vibration in these internet streets.
Man i recently figured out and cured my anxiety and ocd and have made comedy pages in the past. I was thinkin of making a page and teaching people how to heal the same way i have man. I keep having visions of it but man idk if i should talk about it and what if i do and people either try to find me or are negative and take it the wrong way. I think I am going to do it anyway but can yall do a episode on low self esteem or do yall have one like that. Or like turning your vision into a reality? Or being the person god created you to be and having strength? Any episodes like this?
Great discussion brothers and such a important topic 🙏🏾 I did celibacy for 1,5 year and quit porn, almost 6 years ago. The power, disciplin, selfrespect, morality and clearity I experience. Is beyond words. My goal is to have a simularie discussion in Sweden and I have a TH-cam channel in swedish about SR . So thank you so much for the inspiration brothers and keep raising the vibration 🙌🏾💯❤️
Haven’t watched the vid in full yet but I doubt y’all touch the most important part of this subject which is how to get past the wet dream stage everyone that’s been on the journey knows that at some point at least for me my stamina is amazing so around month 6 wet dreams happen tell them how too get past it if you don’t know here’s my advice the best way I can explain is do u know when u go too the restroom and miss the toilet so u hurry and cut off ya circulation well that muscle u flex it threw out the day try for 150 times a day starting off it will strengthen ya butthole too no kap
So a good government policy solution would be to ban digital p*rn, and allow print and other physical media because that is easier to regulate. But then people would still use VPNs. There is no solution to this. Even at school, vids are shared. People have to educate their households of the pros and cons so they may make better decisions for themselves.
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Been following you fellas since college and I appreciate the honesty and openness you have spoken about. Now more than ever is the time for men to step up to encourage other men. I will be journaling more, I will reconnect with my musicianship, I will dedicate sniper focus. Thank you
No problem bro and its definitely time for all of us to lock in what really matters and cut out the distractions 👌🏾
The internet is rruly a gift and a curse. I "met" you brothers thriugh watching Dormtainment videos my freshman year of college. Your content has changed as much as your/our lives have. It's incredible to have witnessed the journey and evolution of spirit in this last 13+ years.
This is an inspiring conversation, but even more so coming from yall.
Thanks bro for all the love and support through the years and were glad the content is resonating with you 🙏🏾
U are not special. Close your mouth
0:00 Intro / Origins of exposure
5:24 Defining desexualize
19:33 Negative life impact 😵💫
24:25 Rome's slip up 👀
28:27 Tips for growth 📝
38:32 Recovering from slip ups 🫂 / When to teach the next generation
46:38 Outro
🙏🏾
Thank you. As our god foretold: in these days knowledge and understanding would increase, and so would temptation and exposure to greater forms of evil. It’s truly a blessing to access so much truth with the same double edged sword role technology plays in our lives as men. We are not alone in these struggles with our flesh and hearing it out loud is refreshing and sheds light on this important topic.
Well said Joesph, and because of that it's our responsibility to control our urges and show discipline along our journeys 🙏🏾
Maaaaan u hit it on the head it was all about not being able to channel that energy into purpose and creativity because sexual energy is literally creativity and creativity is literally sexual energy. Its the same.
Yup, once you find your purpose its a lot easier to channel it to the right place 👍🏾👌🏾
This is smart and beautiful. I am happy that this message is coming out of a RESPECT for women and men, and not some incel shit. The way to reconnect with ALL of our humanities, is to desexualize and think about human beings, not objects.
exactly, we all in this together. We're stronger together than fighting each other. Thanks for this comment 🙏🏾🙏🏾
This conversation was needed in so many ways. Thank y’all boys for your vulnerability with this conversation and for calling us all higher ✊🏾
Let’s all go up!
The first time I heard yall have this conversation on CTH I started cleaning up my timeline as well.. I appreciate the fact that yall are always honest enough to let us know how yall are doing and giving us tips. I appreciate yall for helping us not feel alone!
Thank you for continuing to tap in!
From age of 14 to now I'm 23 years old currently N the site is something that's plagued me for that long. I even relapsed yesterday and I told myself until I'm able to reprogram my mind away from the site N transmute my energy with semen retention I'm not coming back to social media or hanging out with my friends.
Since Dormtainment days I’ve been watching you guys. The transformation is crazy and amazing to see! Keep it up! God put this in my feed right after my slip up 🙏🏿🙌 this is definitely a journey for all of us. I’ve been struggling with this since I was 15. I think it’s the combination of God and the physical effort. I would focus a lot on the spiritual side, but neglected the idea of triggers because my triggers didn’t fall in the commonly listed ones. But that analysis is what i really need to do and combine the two methods
Yeah man you definitely got this. the first step to change is awareness of the problem and next is wanting to do the work which it sounds like you're ready to do so you on your way 👍🏾👌🏾🙏🏾
I believe moderation is key.
There's definitely an excess of material and I believe it's important to be able to control yourself. I spent way too much energy watching porn and chasing women when I was younger.
Redirecting sexual energy to more productive parts of my life has helped. I still support folks that make nasty content too. There's space for both with balance
for sure, its whatever that person believes in!
Thank yall for having this conversation 💪🏽💪🏽
Great episode guys! 🙏🏾😊
🎯🎯
Thank you 😎🙏🏾
Been watching you guys since I was in my late teens (I'm almost 30 now). So happy to see you two talking about real issues. Its amazing how much one can change if they simply choose to do so. I am a completely different person than who I was when I first discovered you guys. You guys have changed so much too, I can tell. Thank you so much for doing good with your platform. Also, thank you for all the joy and laughs you given us over the years ♥️
This is special! Thank you it means a lot. It’s so much more to life and we want to get all of it!
Yo love yall! I used to listen to comedy trap house and dormtainment back in the day. I was looking up “desexualizing brain” and saw the thumbnail and was like IS THAT ROME GREEN 😂. Definetly subbing and checking out this channel
Thank you for all the past and present support and love, we really appreciate it.
Proud of yall , this ep was really right on time
Aye thank you!
I have been watching you guys since 9th grade, 2012. I am 26 now and this is probably my favorite episode. The vulnerability + transparency in this episode will help a lot of men fight this internal battle. I’ll even add a tip of blocking the porn sites in content restrictions settings on Iphone / muting words.
Thank you for the support over the years and yeah we're hoping that this episode will find the people that need it most. Were happy it found you to aide on your journey 👍🏾👌🏾
What an amazing episode fellas!!! I’ve been struggling with this for a long time and I’ve been praying to God for help!! I believe God put this on my timeline at the right time!! Really appreciate seeing fellow black men being vulnerable and honest. Going take these tips and apply them immediately!!
No problem Matthew, were glad the episode found you and know you got this. Even if you slip up just jump back on the horse. Also, If you know anyone else whose struggling pass it forward 🙏🏾
Glad to see you guys are still at it. Been a fan since Dormtainment.
Thank you 🙏🏾
This conversation is fire 🔥. Great listen
This transformation on you guys is BEAUTIFUL! Keep inspiring. ❤
Thank you! Will do!
Bravo this episode!!! Yall don’t understand how powerful this talk is. Kudos gentlemen.
Thank you
i think this might have gave me that reinforcement i needed, first time watching yall i feel like brothers im 22 in the military. discipline! lets get this work!😤
Yeah man, its all about discipline...lets lock in bro 👍🏾👌🏾
Appreciate you fellas for this episode definitely passing the message on. Y'all be blessed.
Thanks for listening!
Appreciate y’all promoting positive sexuality.
Thank you for watching!
Hey Fellas
I think this is one of your most viewed videos because it’s so brutally honest, and relatable.
Yeah man were all about being transparent on this show 👍🏾👌🏾
Im so glad to see yall back on the scene and in such a impactful way its a great transition! And a big thanks for the frequency tuning in the beginning set the vibe perfectly much respect brothers!
Thank you we appreciate that
This was a great episode! Thank you!
Glad you enjoyed it!
I believe to truly desexualize your mind is to also list the benefits of indulging and embracing your sexuality. Just saying it's bad is not enough and it is not true, in my opinion. Accepting your sexuality and the urges to be sexual will make you healthier and much quickly truly sit and transmute that energy into other things.
Thank you for spreading game to our community
No problem
This was great, thanks guys
Thank you 🙏🏾
I’m glad I found out about this channel I feel like I am getting closer to the things I think about more often
Thank you for subbing and were glad you're resonating with the channel 🙏🏾
One of those conversations that can be seen as difficult and taboo but well needed.
👍🏾👌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Great pod
Thanks
Gr8 content friends
Yoooooo that sound in the beginning works 😅
👍🏾👌🏾
This was a great convo. Def needed it. I def need an accountability partner. I feel ill be able to soar then. This addiction is no joke kings...and queens
Focus on the triggers thats causes you to slip up and work on those first and then it'll get a lot easier to control and eventually kick the habit 🙏🏾
Much needed ❤🙌🏾
Serious talks 🗣️💯
👍🏾👌🏾🙏🏾
Man…talk about timing. It’s refreshing to see grown men talk about this and admit the struggles rather than some righteous individual who claims they’re higher than porn and judge others.
In my recovery I took into account of understanding that porn is an illusion of intimacy. Also acknowledging that the true root behind observing porn is a lack of intimacy with self. Understanding and learning self love expands and builds the foundation of knowing thyself. Progression is better than perfection. Give yourself grace like he said, learn the triggers and adjust and move forward. You may have days where you go backwards but that is expected. Allow yourself to pause and reflect when you have those days. Y’all be stay in high vibration in these internet streets.
Well said and HEAVY on the giving yourself grace because thats important when you slip up 👍🏾👌🏾🙏🏾
@@HeyeFrequencyGrace + Self compassion= Self Love & Acceptance
potential keep goin yall
Thanks bro, will do 🙏🏾
Man i recently figured out and cured my anxiety and ocd and have made comedy pages in the past. I was thinkin of making a page and teaching people how to heal the same way i have man. I keep having visions of it but man idk if i should talk about it and what if i do and people either try to find me or are negative and take it the wrong way. I think I am going to do it anyway but can yall do a episode on low self esteem or do yall have one like that. Or like turning your vision into a reality? Or being the person god created you to be and having strength?
Any episodes like this?
Watch this episode we hit on some of those subjects: th-cam.com/video/LkyNU6LdAew/w-d-xo.html
@@HeyeFrequency perfect thank you!
Dormtainment forever !!! ❤❤❤
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Great discussion brothers and such a important topic 🙏🏾 I did celibacy for 1,5 year and quit porn, almost 6 years ago.
The power, disciplin, selfrespect, morality and clearity I experience. Is beyond words. My goal is to have a simularie discussion in Sweden and I have a TH-cam channel in swedish about SR .
So thank you so much for the inspiration brothers and keep raising the vibration 🙌🏾💯❤️
Thank you for spreading more awareness!
2:03 Lls my first phone was a prepaid bootleg blackberry type phone
Yup we didn't have these fancy phones kids got now when we were young lol
@@HeyeFrequency lol my first time on the internet was on my psp
0:30 - I’ll tell you 2012.
That’s crazy that’s when I was 16
Bro it’s Rome and Cam!
What is the rays (Reyes?) 30?
It’s a challenge that we have to raise your frequency in a 30 day span. Its on our website if you click that link in the bio bro!
Haven’t watched the vid in full yet but I doubt y’all touch the most important part of this subject which is how to get past the wet dream stage everyone that’s been on the journey knows that at some point at least for me my stamina is amazing so around month 6 wet dreams happen tell them how too get past it if you don’t know here’s my advice the best way I can explain is do u know when u go too the restroom and miss the toilet so u hurry and cut off ya circulation well that muscle u flex it threw out the day try for 150 times a day starting off it will strengthen ya butthole too no kap
No we didn't touch on that but we appreciate you leaving a comment to help anyone who is going through that stage of the journey.
Dormtainment fan
So a good government policy solution would be to ban digital p*rn, and allow print and other physical media because that is easier to regulate. But then people would still use VPNs. There is no solution to this. Even at school, vids are shared. People have to educate their households of the pros and cons so they may make better decisions for themselves.
Yeah its too much out there to regulate it so we must regulate ourselves like you suggested 👍🏾👌🏾
Look into Mantak Chia for semen retention techniques.
Ok, thank you
Where they skits go
they still on the same channel they always been lol
dope channel but why that table so fuckin tall
Thats what we said when we got to the location 😂😂
So no more twerking??
Not if its a trigger for you lol
What do you mean desexualize your brain? Are you God?
My cousin did not introduce me it was me alone wtf happened to y’all
Thank yall for having this conversation 💪🏽💪🏽