I have a friend from Punjab, his story literally made me sad. His aunty (father's sister) who has been living in Canada since 2001, didn't even receive him from the airport. When he arrived at their place, he realised that he was not welcomed at all. His cousins (born and raised in Canada) were very rude to him. Slept on the floor, the next morning they asked him to leave, he didn't even have a place to live.
Never Ever stay at your relatives house. It’s a nightmare. Stay with like minded people. Airbnb for first few weeks or a month is best. I made a biggest mistake of my life staying with my Close Family. Job Market was too bad when I arrived and first 5 Months I was jobless. My wife delivered a baby and she was hardly 30 days old. I was asked to find and leave ASAP. I walked for long hours in snow storm and found an apartment to rent by myself and walked 25+ Kms in snow. I am thankful to them but I would never recommend anyone to stay with knowns here in Canada or anywhere else in the world.
This is 100% true Sandy. I have never overstayed my welcome at anyone’s place until I stayed with my sister in law in Canada due to a similar situation like yours but trust me she and her husband were initially sweet but turned out to show their true colors. Which made me believe that you should never overstay your welcome at anyone’s place and especially your relatives or extended family. They spoil everything for you.
Same story happened with me. I would like to say never ever depend upon so called relatives. It’s better to come upon your own and grow on your own rather than to live with these type of people. I came as student lived with 2 years with relatives but it impacted so much my mental health. Relatives will just claim in India yes we have kept your child but inside story is horrible. It is difficult even to spend 1 second with these kind of toxic people who don’t understand that u came here as student + managing job and doing everything on your own. They just need a servant to do their work. I spotted this thing way long.
I went through the same situation almost 40 years ago. When I came to Canada. Sad part is that a new immigrant who not only face the enormous challenges of settling down in a new country. But also face so much criticism and resentment from the people he is supposed to trust. Upto this day those words of hate are fresh in my mind.
When i was in germany from 2017 to 2019 a friend of mine was intentionally said to leave the house one month before his actual date of completion of contract ... and he was about to become homeless and was in big tension, as soon as he told me i kept him in my place for almost 3 months for free . He used to cook food as well for me and even i also used to cook food for him and was very hard working as well but he was unable to find the job he needed. So he moved to UK.
There are a lot of people that face similar issue. When I came to Canada in 2023 mid, I used to stay with one of my fiend's family as I had no job. Although, I was paying them rent which includes accommodation and food, they used to give 2-3 day's food which was really torturing. Later with God's grace I got a job and moved out. One should be prepared for such experiences when they arrive in Canada as a student or without job. Like 2 faces of a coin , there are good and bad people in every race. If we learn to treat people good that can change their attitude/response towards us. Have a smiling face , respect others irrespective of their appearance/job they do and be humble, it will win the hardest hearts also. This is what I follow and it has benefitted me very much.
Great advice! we are creature's of habits. Working on good habits daily, sets you up for better things later on, and the opposite will always attract negativity.
I came to the the same university. I didn’t knew anyone. So I stayed in the Hi Edmonton Hostel for two days. Good experience. Then some family distant relative, dentist by profession, from Vancouver, contacted me. I was totally shocked by her hospitality. She introduced me to one her trucker friend on phone. That guy took me to his house for next two days. That guy offered me food, house etc. I was amazed by his hospitality. He motivated me to do work hard. Guess what, he dropped me back to my new apartment. Didn’t asked single penny. The more I speak about him, the less it will be. Amazing person. So there is other side of the coin too. Not everyone is like that. I will be forever debited for the kindness he showed. 😊
Completely true , my daughter also came there in 2017, and faced lots of difficulties like you, she done ME from reputed university, even though not getting field job. And also facing racism some time. Very tough job without parents.
Most of the people who comes to. Indian or Pakistani background have these kind of complaints the truth is mistakes from both sides. Living in Canada for over 50 years have done and seen every thing. I helped few family members but I was clear upfront . When someone call you from Canadian Airport and say please bring the biggest car we have 8 suitcases, while you were not even informed that they are coming with family, on visitors visa to hide or disappear in the country. This country is the most beautiful and helpful country for the immigrants. The example I have seen like this women have children and gave birth another one and have no husband . As Sha says common law relationship. Only speak Punjabi , she was taken care with health , dental, and every 2 weeks a taxi will take her for groceries and other things, she was aware of to say and do to get the maximum help from government and community people. We work very hard to establish our self and achieve highest degree in education. If someone come and start living like India or Pakistan. It will not be accepted because, wo have no cook or cleaner in the house and we have to pay for water , electricity, gas even garbage house taxes . Car is another big expense, and someone started using water or electricity or gas carelessly. It will bother us. Then we have to look for our old age , how we are going to support ourself. We don’t have father and grand father’s properties here. Canada was such a safe country now with open immigration crimes rate had jump. In lots of these cases I meant new immigrants involve.
All countries are different and not the same. If a person enjoys living in the country, there is no tiger. All countries and states are different. Canada is a big country. Both Sikhs and Hindus are very common population. People in Canada aren't all that bad. Because Canada has a large population of Woods, the population is small. The Government of Canada does not like war. Canada is the 8th most peaceful country in the world. Sounds like Switzerland. Canada has many democracies. Why is the population less? There are lgbtq the government gives life to people. Why is India not a Saturday and Sunday holiday? Festivals are more holidays in India. Rest of the countries are Saturday and Sunday holiday. Government of India and Government of Canada are not wrong. Because the dollar is very very expensive in Canada. India's population is high, many people go abroad because there is no land space.
Thank you Sandy for sharing your experiences these are very important for girls who are here and who may be planning to come over. it is very important especially or girls to speak up and tell the truth with their parents or best friends. if they are having any problems as they are away from home.keep up the good work ur videos are very useful and life saving in many cases.. with best wishes.❤💚
All countries are different and not the same. If a person enjoys living in the country, there is no tiger. All countries and states are different. Canada is a big country. Both Sikhs and Hindus are very common population. People in Canada aren't all that bad. Because Canada has a large population of Woods, the population is small. The Government of Canada does not like war. Canada is the 8th most peaceful country in the world. Sounds like Switzerland. Canada has many democracies. Why is the population less? There are lgbtq the government gives life to people. Why is India not a Saturday and Sunday holiday? Festivals are more holidays in India. Rest of the countries are Saturday and Sunday holiday. Government of India and Government of Canada are not wrong. Because the dollar is very very expensive in Canada. India's population is high, many people go abroad because there is no land space.
U r right, I am an educational Counsellor and one of my student was living with her cousin sister and due to so many things she is suffering from depression. She is a bright student and due to all these things her studies suffered and now she is in india and taking meditation
Sorry to hear your story. But it is all very much expected and much worse than this happens indeed. We all have our experiences. People don't have to be nice. They are not obligated. If we ask for help and we get that...then we can only be grateful to them for our entire life. And if they don't help or instead take advantage of us ... then we don't have a right to complain. It was our choice to seek help from them in first place. I know it sucks to be this person and I have been that person only to come to terms with myself from my experiences and set clear rules for myself and not set any expectations from ANY human beings around me. I have advised (only when they ask) friends not (depending on their situation) to come to Canada because I genuinely care. But that is not how it is perceived. This is not what they want to hear and they shrug it off. For the most part those who want to come here have a very distorted view of Canada or any other place. You were aware, determined and hard working with the resolve to make it happen without compromising on your principles and morals. It is not the same for "most" of those who come to Canada or go elsewhere, seeking a flashy lifestyle without realizing what it takes to get there. In that there is a lot of humiliation, rejection, sweat involved that brings one down. When things don't go the way one wants to or how they had expected ...then they give up and get frustrated enough to commit suicides or resort to illegal activities. Bottom line ... it is not for everyone so know yourself very well before taking the plunge.
I have a story to share. 5 girls were staying in apt out of which 4 were students n 1 on work permit. 2 of the girls used to call 2 boys at night. They would sometimes drink, smoke and talking is usual. Work permit girl (WPG) told them that you can stay up late on fri n sat but not other days as she has job at 8am. The other girls followed but cat fight started. On Thurs night, the guys came for drinking n smoking. WPG woke up n told them to leave as she has work. Guys left but other two girls when she slept switched on the room lights and started arguing, quarrelling, throwing stuff, even hitting etc. They threw away the work permit girl forcefully at 11 am out of the home. This was the biggest among all such girl fights.
Rishtedaar jab tk baccha na pahunche tab tk kehte hain ki mummy hain jha.....lekin jab baccha pahunch jaye to kush aur hi dekhne ko milta hai.bhut dukh hua tab Sandy beta
You are so sweet sandy ❤, I adore you because you always give sincere advice and guidance to the people regardless of their cast creed or color. You akways respond to the messages, and that's the best part of your personality, however, you remained too much occupied. I ❤ watching and listening to your videos. May God bless you
Yes you are absolutely right this things are very common in USA 🇺🇸 and Canada 🇨🇦. It’s better to be self dependent in all the way. Practice makes perfect. Wish you all the best for the students
I experienced the same even in India..I went to Delhi from my small hometown..and I was staying with my relatives ..The way they treating me when I was just a teenager..that still makes me feel anguished ..I spent 3 years there since my parents believed I wont be able to manage alone! I could relate to your story. More power to you❤
Sandy , you are so strong & kind . You’ve helped many international students as well as me to grow and to never lose hope . You’ve faced many difficult phases in your life but look now waheguru ne sb vdia kr dita as you’ve always wished . So STAY ALWAYS STRONG girl wish you the best❤. Keep growing 🥰
I also had similar experiences of staying with relatives and housemates. You would meet some greedy landlords and people at work who would be envy of your appearance, character, family background or even success to some point. They would work hard to bring you ur morale down. More you would show politeness and humble behaviour to them they would be pissed off to see that you are unimpacted from outside but this would empty you from inside. And yes racism is there in Canada and sometimes you would see that if you’re someone who helps others you are just turning some of the people to your enemies. Moral of the story is don’t be open to everyone and you should not share everything with someone unless your gut tells you to do so. Nothing is more important than building yourself up and keeping your motivation high. Sometimes you might can live in a private room/apartment by paying extra just to keep up your mental health. Most importantly learn to stay by yourself and be happy.
Very well said thanks for bringing out the harsh truth of western society even in England too we had a worst experience, main thing is even after experiencing all this u decided to stay there and proved u can be successful
@5:37 I 10000000% can relate. they there well setteled but will tell you, don't come or why did you come. and will discourage you in every way popssible. I don't want to say who did that to me, but yes Sandy is absolutely true.
All countries are different and not the same. If a person enjoys living in the country, there is no tiger. All countries and states are different. Canada is a big country. Both Sikhs and Hindus are very common population. People in Canada aren't all that bad. Because Canada has a large population of Woods, the population is small. The Government of Canada does not like war. Canada is the 8th most peaceful country in the world. Sounds like Switzerland. Canada has many democracies. Why is the population less? There are lgbtq the government gives life to people. Why is India not a Saturday and Sunday holiday? Festivals are more holidays in India. Rest of the countries are Saturday and Sunday holiday. Government of India and Government of Canada are not wrong. Because the dollar is very very expensive in Canada. India's population is high, many people go abroad because there is no land space.
Me punjabi logo ko itna helpful samjhti thi...mere mind me tha wo log bahot sahi hote h..or apne riligious rules ko bahot acchese follow krte he.. mera September intake tha..or kisi reason se mujhe intake January defer krna pda.. maine deposite diya 15k or fir dusre hi din hamne usko bolo k ham nahi aa skte ,,,,,, ek hi deen hua he...plz refund dede..... wo bande ne nahi diye or bolta he me jese hi koi dusra aayga to deposite waps kr duga...fir hamko block kr diya...ek Indian k liye 15k is huge amount....or uska to waha accha setup he Canada me....immigration me kaam krta h..fir b ek student k Paise khaane me usko shram nahi aayi.
My observation about Canada is exactly what u said,my friend told me some 20 years back about Canadians that mostly they r in competition with each other,even sisters ,brothers,relatives friends r common..and such attitude is natural ..even children's r more in such psychological disorders like born Canadian,migrants,they distance them from each other's ,rather abusing , laughing at them..and to my study or observation is seen in almost all cold countries..mindset up is seen common as compared to warm countries ,r more friendly,helpful,more understandable as to cold countries..off course exceptional r every where..may be some sycartist can explain it ,it's causes ?
Really got emotional when I was hearing u Brave girl God always helps those who help themselves Hopeto se u soon I want my daughter to meet u we have shifted from Surrey to Edmonton in rural side to get her pr
I am from pakistan and i see your every video. I have no interest in coming to canada but i took special time to comment for the first time that you are so honest and genuine person. Please keep helping people who message you personally about there issues. Love from karachi sister
Why Indians/Pakistani/Bangladeshi going to western countries?? What is the point of getting independence and partition from UK when south Asian are migrating to Western world?? Non of the South Asian country is under war.
@@subhashishbagchi3191 because of inflation and lack of opportunities and weak currency people migrate to west so they can build good empire back in there native home but i am already wealthy enough so dont need to migrate to west
@@subhashishbagchi3191 see politicians took all the money they can and invested in aboard people now can't pay their electricity bills and other things as well situation in india is much more smooth and easier as compared to Pakistan 1.5 or 2 rupees indians pay for per unit electricity bill even delhi is giving free electricity while in Pakistan electricity unit is 70 rupees per unit inflation when there is infinite corruption what options do we have while living in Pakistan nothing 50 lac approximately people left pakistan from 2022 to 2024 most went to gulf as labour some use donkey ways to usa some got killed few got arrested and living in camps and very few are applying in a legal way survival to eat
@@subhashishbagchi3191because n India, Indian women are not safe.. Every week there is a huge rape incident. At least in Canada Indian girls are not being raped.
The insights you gave are ground realities of so-called developed countries where we look for greener pastures ... More power to every boy and girl who has experienced such times ... Stay strong, courageous and happy ... If you can't overcome stress, go back as nothing is more important to you than family, and it's vice versa too ...
Yes, it's true. But it was very bad. They are jealous of you and your progress. My child has same experience. Please don't warry. Do your work honestly. Thanks 🙏. This is INDERJEET SINGH from Delhi.
We too had same experience in Canada at relative’s (very close)house. We served them hand to mouth when they visited us in India. Never ever stay with yr relatives abroad.
Sandy ur such a beautiful soul person.I can say that because u hve gone thru so much hell but ur still so kind to others.Pray u hve lots of success in yr life and allways stay blessed at all times.
My husband does this , everytime , and I was the primary applicant , I got married later when I already submitted all documents before even meeting him in life, after coming to canada , he becomes like a boss , even for grocery he is way too kanjoos .. he even beaten me up multiple times for no reason. And his parents are completely indifferent . He don’t want to do job , only want to depend on food delivery , and don’t even contribute for rent and phone bills , not even helping me in house chores , And I am still living with him.
My mother was in USA while me & my brother stayed in India till she sponsored us while we were just children, to live with her in USA. After about a year, she got severely emotionally abusive toward me. She was not the same mother I knew in India. She turned into a stranger, a monster, after 1 year apart from her family. As her own child she can’t tell me to leave even though she wanted to and even I couldn’t leave as a child knowing no one in USA but own parents. The emotional abuse can only cause a child to implode and have a nervous breakdown. 😢Yes they do Change their colors after living in USA. As an adult now, that relationship was broken after arriving in USA & can never be repaired.
I’m really shocked and have been heard so many stories and issues like that,big point is that why only Punjab province or Punjabi/Sikh community leaving their homeland and facing those issues everyday ??so embarrassing
Sandy Didi Aaj Dekhlo Tuhanu Baba Ji Ne Kina Kuch Deta ♥️🥺 Tuhadi Mehnat Rang Leyayi And I Am So Proud That You Faced Every Obstacle And You Grew Out Of It So Much ✨️✨️ GBU Love You Didi ♥️♥️
This is the story of every newcomer, whether you immigrated as PR or came with student permit. There are always good and bad relatives and friends. First one year is always difficult during which you adjust to new culture and environment. So come prepared for all these challenges. In these times of social media, you can learn and know lot of things before moving to a new country. You must do your home work. And more important, just don't believe these youtubers. Cross check their information. Canada is the best country to live and raise your family. Always keep trying to improve your skills and education.
bilkul is I trahan hi hotaa haaa. log apni Uqaat bhol jaty hin. his ko apni home country min koi road per rasta nhi detaa WO Canada USA Aa kar apni Uqat bhool jaty hin, specially females, house wife
Sandy, you are a genuine person. I'm coming to Canada soon. And your videos have helped me a lot in my preparations. Sandy, I am a Muslim from Pakistan. We are planning to choose Vancouver for our permanent stay as an immigrant on PR. kindly give your honest review about our choice. We are a family of 5. Me, my husband, and three kids. We want to live a peaceful life without facing any racism. Is vancouver a better option than GTA? For newcomers like us?
Very sorry to hear that, God has given you the power to bear all these nonsense people. There was a time when I had a same bad experience with my own brother and his family, I was a new then and it was time of lockdown. I used to pay them 500 dollar just to sleep on matteress with sharing to my nephew....and one day when they used my documents to get mortgage for new and big house after moving to new house, first they increased the monthly charges to me which was 600 on sharing with other one in a small room and slowly one day they told me to get out from our house. I said, I am also 1% owner as me tinned in the paper, this house. But nothing happened and I was on road for few hours but luckily same day I got new room nearby to my work place through kijiji....and since then I have been living independently..... a long story to tell my bad experiences with my own and twin brother and his family......
Just happened to us similar things today only, from Canadians room mates and was very bad experience, Hope to find something peaceful somewhere else soon. 😊 And almost same thing you share today it self can't believe shuck things.
Same story didi ... Mere ristedaar canada me hai unho ne INR-3CR ka house buy kara hai lekin jab mene puchha unse to kehte hai ki canada me mahol bahot kharab hai , too costly not easy to live in canada ... Khud aaram se rehte hai 😔😔
3cr house is nothing in Canada, it will be just a 2 bedroom apartment. And they are giving you right suggestion, people who are already here can't go back as they have invested so much. But its wise to give good advice to people who are asking for suggestions instead of just showing the rosy picture. Life is too hard in Canada especially for educated people due to lack of jobs. But i would admit if you are a blue collar worker back in India then your life will be better in Canada.
Hi everyone, that is quite normal here in Canada nowadays. This thing happened with me as well, when I came in Canada😢, but anyways as you said there are some good people still resides in Canada so, just work hard, believe in yourself and move forward in this journey:)
Why need to go there? Our Indian government said they are growing in world and have high job opportunities. Why we need job in other country? And getting job in abroad was considered as prestigious, why?
Sorry to hear this. What you experienced is called women to women fight. You may not have experienced it before. It happens in India as well. It's not something out of the blue.
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Wo aunty mei hoon.. ghalti ho gye mujhse. sorry karti hun aj.. Chalo mera beta bhool jao ab yeh baat
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Sandy di, how did you choose this platform? Is it safe
@@everything4352 yes it’s legit. Yes, moomoo Canada is regulated by the Canadian Investment Regulatory Organization (CIRO)
I have a friend from Punjab, his story literally made me sad. His aunty (father's sister) who has been living in Canada since 2001, didn't even receive him from the airport.
When he arrived at their place, he realised that he was not welcomed at all. His cousins (born and raised in Canada) were very rude to him. Slept on the floor, the next morning they asked him to leave, he didn't even have a place to live.
Never Ever stay at your relatives house. It’s a nightmare. Stay with like minded people. Airbnb for first few weeks or a month is best. I made a biggest mistake of my life staying with my Close Family. Job Market was too bad when I arrived and first 5 Months I was jobless. My wife delivered a baby and she was hardly 30 days old. I was asked to find and leave ASAP. I walked for long hours in snow storm and found an apartment to rent by myself and walked 25+ Kms in snow. I am thankful to them but I would never recommend anyone to stay with knowns here in Canada or anywhere else in the world.
waah boss aap kisi ke ghar par rah kar family life bana rahe ho aur expect karte ho vo aapko support bhi kare😮
She is telling truth ,in western countries desi blood turns white
As it should.
It is entirely possible to have the good from both cultures. Your view is incredibly narrow.
This is 100% true Sandy. I have never overstayed my welcome at anyone’s place until I stayed with my sister in law in Canada due to a similar situation like yours but trust me she and her husband were initially sweet but turned out to show their true colors. Which made me believe that you should never overstay your welcome at anyone’s place and especially your relatives or extended family. They spoil everything for you.
Same story happened with me. I would like to say never ever depend upon so called relatives. It’s better to come upon your own and grow on your own rather than to live with these type of people. I came as student lived with 2 years with relatives but it impacted so much my mental health. Relatives will just claim in India yes we have kept your child but inside story is horrible. It is difficult even to spend 1 second with these kind of toxic people who don’t understand that u came here as student + managing job and doing everything on your own. They just need a servant to do their work. I spotted this thing way long.
Sending a big virtual hug to you. ❤ Don't cry!
I went through the same situation almost 40 years ago. When I came to Canada. Sad part is that a new immigrant who not only face the enormous challenges of settling down in a new country. But also face so much criticism and resentment from the people he is supposed to trust. Upto this day those words of hate are fresh in my mind.
This is WHY my next few videos are important for single and married people.
When i was in germany from 2017 to 2019 a friend of mine was intentionally said to leave the house one month before his actual date of completion of contract ... and he was about to become homeless and was in big tension, as soon as he told me i kept him in my place for almost 3 months for free . He used to cook food as well for me and even i also used to cook food for him and was very hard working as well but he was unable to find the job he needed. So he moved to UK.
There are a lot of people that face similar issue. When I came to Canada in 2023 mid, I used to stay with one of my fiend's family as I had no job. Although, I was paying them rent which includes accommodation and food, they used to give 2-3 day's food which was really torturing. Later with God's grace I got a job and moved out. One should be prepared for such experiences when they arrive in Canada as a student or without job. Like 2 faces of a coin , there are good and bad people in every race. If we learn to treat people good that can change their attitude/response towards us. Have a smiling face , respect others irrespective of their appearance/job they do and be humble, it will win the hardest hearts also. This is what I follow and it has benefitted me very much.
Great advice! we are creature's of habits. Working on good habits daily, sets you up for better things later on, and the opposite will always attract negativity.
I came to the the same university. I didn’t knew anyone. So I stayed in the Hi Edmonton Hostel for two days. Good experience. Then some family distant relative, dentist by profession, from Vancouver, contacted me. I was totally shocked by her hospitality. She introduced me to one her trucker friend on phone. That guy took me to his house for next two days. That guy offered me food, house etc. I was amazed by his hospitality. He motivated me to do work hard. Guess what, he dropped me back to my new apartment. Didn’t asked single penny. The more I speak about him, the less it will be. Amazing person. So there is other side of the coin too. Not everyone is like that. I will be forever debited for the kindness he showed. 😊
More power to you sister 👍
Completely true , my daughter also came there in 2017, and faced lots of difficulties like you, she done ME from reputed university, even though not getting field job. And also facing racism some time. Very tough job without parents.
Most of the people who comes to. Indian or Pakistani background have these kind of complaints the truth is mistakes from both sides. Living in Canada for over 50 years have done and seen every thing. I helped few family members but I was clear upfront . When someone call you from Canadian Airport and say please bring the biggest car we have 8 suitcases, while you were not even informed that they are coming with family, on visitors visa to hide or disappear in the country. This country is the most beautiful and helpful country for the immigrants. The example I have seen like this women have children and gave birth another one and have no husband . As Sha says common law relationship. Only speak Punjabi , she was taken care with health , dental, and every 2 weeks a taxi will take her for groceries and other things, she was aware of to say and do to get the maximum help from government and community people. We work very hard to establish our self and achieve highest degree in education. If someone come and start living like India or Pakistan. It will not be accepted because, wo have no cook or cleaner in the house and we have to pay for water , electricity, gas even garbage house taxes . Car is another big expense, and someone started using water or electricity or gas carelessly. It will bother us. Then we have to look for our old age , how we are going to support ourself. We don’t have father and grand father’s properties here. Canada was such a safe country now with open immigration crimes rate had jump. In lots of these cases I meant new immigrants involve.
imp point is 2 days not 2 years😂
@@rahulsingh-mc7ck off course. Important point is that I was provided accommodation by an unknown Indian. Rest I planned and took care of myself.
More power to you Sandy ! Stay healthy and take care of yourself ! 🙂
All countries are different and not the same. If a person enjoys living in the country, there is no tiger. All countries and states are different. Canada is a big country. Both Sikhs and Hindus are very common population. People in Canada aren't all that bad. Because Canada has a large population of Woods, the population is small. The Government of Canada does not like war. Canada is the 8th most peaceful country in the world. Sounds like Switzerland. Canada has many democracies. Why is the population less? There are lgbtq the government gives life to people. Why is India not a Saturday and Sunday holiday? Festivals are more holidays in India. Rest of the countries are Saturday and Sunday holiday. Government of India and Government of Canada are not wrong. Because the dollar is very very expensive in Canada. India's population is high, many people go abroad because there is no land space.
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Thank you Sandy for sharing your experiences these are very important for girls who are here and who may be planning to come over. it is very important especially or girls to speak up and tell the truth with their parents or best friends. if they are having any problems as they are away from home.keep up the good work ur videos are very useful and life saving in many cases.. with best wishes.❤💚
I was tortured in Manchester for 45 days. It was life worst experience. Passport and ticket taken away. I had flash back and nightmare for years.
All countries are different and not the same. If a person enjoys living in the country, there is no tiger. All countries and states are different. Canada is a big country. Both Sikhs and Hindus are very common population. People in Canada aren't all that bad. Because Canada has a large population of Woods, the population is small. The Government of Canada does not like war. Canada is the 8th most peaceful country in the world. Sounds like Switzerland. Canada has many democracies. Why is the population less? There are lgbtq the government gives life to people. Why is India not a Saturday and Sunday holiday? Festivals are more holidays in India. Rest of the countries are Saturday and Sunday holiday. Government of India and Government of Canada are not wrong. Because the dollar is very very expensive in Canada. India's population is high, many people go abroad because there is no land space.
So sorry to hear that! Hope you are doing well now
Because you went to canada as a Refugee😊😊
U r right, I am an educational Counsellor and one of my student was living with her cousin sister and due to so many things she is suffering from depression. She is a bright student and due to all these things her studies suffered and now she is in india and taking meditation
Sorry to hear your story. But it is all very much expected and much worse than this happens indeed.
We all have our experiences. People don't have to be nice. They are not obligated.
If we ask for help and we get that...then we can only be grateful to them for our entire life.
And if they don't help or instead take advantage of us ... then we don't have a right to complain. It was our choice to seek help from them in first place.
I know it sucks to be this person and I have been that person only to come to terms with myself from my experiences and set clear rules for myself and not set any expectations from ANY human beings around me.
I have advised (only when they ask) friends not (depending on their situation) to come to Canada because I genuinely care. But that is not how it is perceived. This is not what they want to hear and they shrug it off. For the most part those who want to come here have a very distorted view of Canada or any other place.
You were aware, determined and hard working with the resolve to make it happen without compromising on your principles and morals. It is not the same for "most" of those who come to Canada or go elsewhere, seeking a flashy lifestyle without realizing what it takes to get there. In that there is a lot of humiliation, rejection, sweat involved that brings one down. When things don't go the way one wants to or how they had expected ...then they give up and get frustrated enough to commit suicides or resort to illegal activities.
Bottom line ... it is not for everyone so know yourself very well before taking the plunge.
I have a story to share. 5 girls were staying in apt out of which 4 were students n 1 on work permit. 2 of the girls used to call 2 boys at night. They would sometimes drink, smoke and talking is usual. Work permit girl (WPG) told them that you can stay up late on fri n sat but not other days as she has job at 8am. The other girls followed but cat fight started. On Thurs night, the guys came for drinking n smoking. WPG woke up n told them to leave as she has work. Guys left but other two girls when she slept switched on the room lights and started arguing, quarrelling, throwing stuff, even hitting etc. They threw away the work permit girl forcefully at 11 am out of the home. This was the biggest among all such girl fights.
It was worst 30 days in Canada then i return back to my home country with my childrens
Rishtedaar jab tk baccha na pahunche tab tk kehte hain ki mummy hain jha.....lekin jab baccha pahunch jaye to kush aur hi dekhne ko milta hai.bhut dukh hua tab Sandy beta
If anyone is going through this rn plz speak the truth . Expose such people and don't feel guilty.
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Everyone of them here in Canada is a problem of the same issue
I will be posting videos on my good and not so experiences about England , USA and Pakistan.
How about getting yourself organized and not throwing yourself at distant contacts expecting them to support you.
There are always good and not so good experiences wherever you live. Concentrate on the good. 😊
You are so sweet sandy ❤, I adore you because you always give sincere advice and guidance to the people regardless of their cast creed or color. You akways respond to the messages, and that's the best part of your personality, however, you remained too much occupied. I ❤ watching and listening to your videos. May God bless you
Thank you so much! You are the best
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Yes you are absolutely right this things are very common in USA 🇺🇸 and Canada 🇨🇦. It’s better to be self dependent in all the way. Practice makes perfect. Wish you all the best for the students
I experienced the same even in India..I went to Delhi from my small hometown..and I was staying with my relatives ..The way they treating me when I was just a teenager..that still makes me feel anguished ..I spent 3 years there since my parents believed I wont be able to manage alone!
I could relate to your story. More power to you❤
In India in laws are kind of same... unfortunately 😅
Sandy , you are so strong & kind . You’ve helped many international students as well as me to grow and to never lose hope . You’ve faced many difficult phases in your life but look now waheguru ne sb vdia kr dita as you’ve always wished . So STAY ALWAYS STRONG girl wish you the best❤. Keep growing 🥰
Ap ki ye baat 110% true hay k "din badalnay may dyyr nahi lagti""❤🙂
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@@mohitcanadavlogs6025 yes
I also had similar experiences of staying with relatives and housemates. You would meet some greedy landlords and people at work who would be envy of your appearance, character, family background or even success to some point. They would work hard to bring you ur morale down. More you would show politeness and humble behaviour to them they would be pissed off to see that you are unimpacted from outside but this would empty you from inside. And yes racism is there in Canada and sometimes you would see that if you’re someone who helps others you are just turning some of the people to your enemies. Moral of the story is don’t be open to everyone and you should not share everything with someone unless your gut tells you to do so. Nothing is more important than building yourself up and keeping your motivation high. Sometimes you might can live in a private room/apartment by paying extra just to keep up your mental health. Most importantly learn to stay by yourself and be happy.
you are a great person! keep up the good work.
It's not about country it's about some particular person persons and their mindset
Very well said thanks for bringing out the harsh truth of western society even in England too we had a worst experience, main thing is even after experiencing all this u decided to stay there and proved u can be successful
@5:37 I 10000000% can relate. they there well setteled but will tell you, don't come or why did you come. and will discourage you in every way popssible. I don't want to say who did that to me, but yes Sandy is absolutely true.
I'm so sorry to hear that 😢😢😢 I want to hug you for this, Sandy. Keep holding on.
Hug me plzz yarrr
Me too
All countries are different and not the same. If a person enjoys living in the country, there is no tiger. All countries and states are different. Canada is a big country. Both Sikhs and Hindus are very common population. People in Canada aren't all that bad. Because Canada has a large population of Woods, the population is small. The Government of Canada does not like war. Canada is the 8th most peaceful country in the world. Sounds like Switzerland. Canada has many democracies. Why is the population less? There are lgbtq the government gives life to people. Why is India not a Saturday and Sunday holiday? Festivals are more holidays in India. Rest of the countries are Saturday and Sunday holiday. Government of India and Government of Canada are not wrong. Because the dollar is very very expensive in Canada. India's population is high, many people go abroad because there is no land space.
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Me punjabi logo ko itna helpful samjhti thi...mere mind me tha wo log bahot sahi hote h..or apne riligious rules ko bahot acchese follow krte he.. mera September intake tha..or kisi reason se mujhe intake January defer krna pda.. maine deposite diya 15k or fir dusre hi din hamne usko bolo k ham nahi aa skte ,,,,,, ek hi deen hua he...plz refund dede..... wo bande ne nahi diye or bolta he me jese hi koi dusra aayga to deposite waps kr duga...fir hamko block kr diya...ek Indian k liye 15k is huge amount....or uska to waha accha setup he Canada me....immigration me kaam krta h..fir b ek student k Paise khaane me usko shram nahi aayi.
To app canada gyi dubara ?
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My observation about Canada is exactly what u said,my friend told me some 20 years back about Canadians that mostly they r in competition with each other,even sisters ,brothers,relatives friends r common..and such attitude is natural ..even children's r more in such psychological disorders like born Canadian,migrants,they distance them from each other's ,rather abusing , laughing at them..and to my study or observation is seen in almost all cold countries..mindset up is seen common as compared to warm countries ,r more friendly,helpful,more understandable as to cold countries..off course exceptional r every where..may be some sycartist can explain it ,it's causes ?
Really got emotional when I was hearing u Brave girl God always helps those who help themselves Hopeto se u soon I want my daughter to meet u we have shifted from Surrey to Edmonton in rural side to get her pr
I am from pakistan and i see your every video. I have no interest in coming to canada but i took special time to comment for the first time that you are so honest and genuine person. Please keep helping people who message you personally about there issues. Love from karachi sister
Why Indians/Pakistani/Bangladeshi going to western countries?? What is the point of getting independence and partition from UK when south Asian are migrating to Western world?? Non of the South Asian country is under war.
@@subhashishbagchi3191 because of inflation and lack of opportunities and weak currency people migrate to west so they can build good empire back in there native home but i am already wealthy enough so dont need to migrate to west
@@subhashishbagchi3191 see politicians took all the money they can and invested in aboard people now can't pay their electricity bills and other things as well situation in india is much more smooth and easier as compared to Pakistan 1.5 or 2 rupees indians pay for per unit electricity bill even delhi is giving free electricity while in Pakistan electricity unit is 70 rupees per unit inflation when there is infinite corruption what options do we have while living in Pakistan nothing 50 lac approximately people left pakistan from 2022 to 2024 most went to gulf as labour some use donkey ways to usa some got killed few got arrested and living in camps and very few are applying in a legal way survival to eat
@@subhashishbagchi3191because n India, Indian women are not safe.. Every week there is a huge rape incident. At least in Canada Indian girls are not being raped.
Humain larwa ke inki chaandi ho rahi hy. Kash ke log samajhty
Bhai....gajjjab ka motivation he yaar....thank you Sandy.........love uh dear....sachme bahot saari dua he apke liye
The insights you gave are ground realities of so-called developed countries where we look for greener pastures ... More power to every boy and girl who has experienced such times ... Stay strong, courageous and happy ... If you can't overcome stress, go back as nothing is more important to you than family, and it's vice versa too ...
Take care yourself Sandy from London.
Yes, it's true. But it was very bad. They are jealous of you and your progress. My child has same experience. Please don't warry. Do your work honestly. Thanks 🙏. This is INDERJEET SINGH from Delhi.
Thank you
We too had same experience in Canada at relative’s (very close)house. We served them hand to mouth when they visited us in India. Never ever stay with yr relatives abroad.
Why u r crying? u r a strong girl
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Just 5 days before I experienced worst story in alberta.i can’t share it.i am still in shock.People here are very greedy
What happens
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Almost similar story Sandy
Thanks for this video!!
You are very frank and superb at explaining realities. You are doing a great job by sharing your live experiences
U released a trauma today by talking about it . Sorry that you had to go through this .
I feel light now! Thanks for all your love and support
Sandy really u r so sweet and understand and gd luck dear for your bright future
Very well sandy, keep it up 👍 , still im feeling that I can't share my worst experience
Sandy ur such a beautiful soul person.I can say that because u hve gone thru so much hell but ur still so kind to others.Pray u hve lots of success in yr life and allways stay blessed at all times.
Sandy dear ...u will surely laugh...sandy dear your makeup v top which brand foundation n powder pl?
I use MAC NC35 foundation
Wow keep it up v v beautiful..
I was shocked yr bad experience
Life goes on wounds do heal. Lots of ❤
My husband does this , everytime , and I was the primary applicant , I got married later when I already submitted all documents before even meeting him in life, after coming to canada , he becomes like a boss , even for grocery he is way too kanjoos .. he even beaten me up multiple times for no reason.
And his parents are completely indifferent . He don’t want to do job , only want to depend on food delivery , and don’t even contribute for rent and phone bills , not even helping me in house chores ,
And I am still living with him.
then try to get out of this relation. This ll not work.
its time for change raminder ; better to be alone than these type of relations in your life.
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consult with lawyer and plz proceed legally.
Find a humble strong guy like me who is loving and caring but most destructive when needed
Thank you didi for making us aware❤❤Love from Nepal
So nice of you
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Hats off to you di.. you are very strong, and very inspiring 🫶🏻
Your honesty is important
Sandy ap boht achi knowledge dete ho yar ,,boht motivate krte ho students KO ,thnks yr
My mother was in USA while me & my brother stayed in India till she sponsored us while we were just children, to live with her in USA.
After about a year, she got severely emotionally abusive toward me. She was not the same mother I knew in India. She turned into a stranger, a monster, after 1 year apart from her family. As her own child she can’t tell me to leave even though she wanted to and even I couldn’t leave as a child knowing no one in USA but own parents. The emotional abuse can only cause a child to implode and have a nervous breakdown.
😢Yes they do Change their colors after living in USA. As an adult now, that relationship was broken after arriving in USA & can never be repaired.
I’m really shocked and have been heard so many stories and issues like that,big point is that why only Punjab province or Punjabi/Sikh community leaving their homeland and facing those issues everyday ??so embarrassing
Bayta I am an overseas pakistani and really so sorry to hear about your ordeals. May Almighty ALLAH help you 🙏
Same story my daughter sandy we live in Edmonton Canada after 3year
So sad to hear! Hope she is doing well now
We also have been gone through of this situation by our relatives.
We can understand, this is very heart breaking.😞
You are the only influencer i watch.. You are full of positivity.. 🙏
Watch gursahib singh... A brand ambassador of negativity 😂
Agreed 💯
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Sandy Didi Aaj Dekhlo Tuhanu Baba Ji Ne Kina Kuch Deta ♥️🥺 Tuhadi Mehnat Rang Leyayi And I Am So Proud That You Faced Every Obstacle And You Grew Out Of It So Much ✨️✨️ GBU Love You Didi ♥️♥️
awwww, looks like you get into problem every time where ever you go …. so sad
sooooo many incidents
Sandy ji,,, I m following you almost from many year ,, , your experience and knowledge sharing is very helpful to us
When u go to a nation...adopt the system mindset of natives of that nation...leave our living way here......
That’s how they got so conceited in the first place.
This is the story of every newcomer, whether you immigrated as PR or came with student permit. There are always good and bad relatives and friends. First one year is always difficult during which you adjust to new culture and environment. So come prepared for all these challenges. In these times of social media, you can learn and know lot of things before moving to a new country. You must do your home work. And more important, just don't believe these youtubers. Cross check their information. Canada is the best country to live and raise your family. Always keep trying to improve your skills and education.
Thanks sandy god bless you always
bilkul is I trahan hi hotaa haaa. log apni Uqaat bhol jaty hin. his ko apni home country min koi road per rasta nhi detaa WO Canada USA Aa kar apni Uqat bhool jaty hin, specially females, house wife
one of best genuine vlogger in 🇨🇦
Don't be introvert. Bindass Raho khul ke baat Karo. U r sweet Sandy.
Here some people will even lock the washroom door and give us only timings to bath problem is we cant even bath according to our wish
One of the authentic channel for immigrants 🙏 more power to you we feel connected with you always😍
Be strong tu sherni hai this is your another brother from kolkata
Dear sandy our blessings are always with you 🙏🏻
Ur are such a inspiration for me keey going keep shinning ❤
Thank you so much!!
Lots of Prayers for all
Good and Bad people are everywhere.Don't worry be Happy.Always smile and be happy
So True Sandy…Same happened to me also
Finally some real picture of canada from you
Sandy, you are a genuine person. I'm coming to Canada soon. And your videos have helped me a lot in my preparations.
Sandy, I am a Muslim from Pakistan. We are planning to choose Vancouver for our permanent stay as an immigrant on PR. kindly give your honest review about our choice. We are a family of 5. Me, my husband, and three kids.
We want to live a peaceful life without facing any racism. Is vancouver a better option than GTA? For newcomers like us?
Very sorry to hear that, God has given you the power to bear all these nonsense people. There was a time when I had a same bad experience with my own brother and his family, I was a new then and it was time of lockdown. I used to pay them 500 dollar just to sleep on matteress with sharing to my nephew....and one day when they used my documents to get mortgage for new and big house after moving to new house, first they increased the monthly charges to me which was 600 on sharing with other one in a small room and slowly one day they told me to get out from our house. I said, I am also 1% owner as me tinned in the paper, this house. But nothing happened and I was on road for few hours but luckily same day I got new room nearby to my work place through kijiji....and since then I have been living independently..... a long story to tell my bad experiences with my own and twin brother and his family......
Very good vlog thanks bad people everywhere I lost my job just because of bad guys framed Me god bless you have very happy life ahead
Thank you very much for the information
Just happened to us similar things today only, from Canadians room mates and was very bad experience, Hope to find something peaceful somewhere else soon. 😊
And almost same thing you share today it self can't believe shuck things.
WHY DID INDIA KICK THE BRITISH OUT ?
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was it discrimination ?
Sorry to hear that
@@CANADAFIRST-4-TRUMPBecause they scammed their way into India. Somewhat like immoral immigrants.
Never make a mistake of ever staying with any relatives or friends. You have to understand everyone is struggling here
Khud grow karnay walay doosron ko boltay hain yahan mt ao. This is true
Don't go to any relatives . Government is fantastic 👏 👌 👍🏻 go to rented house 🏠 👏 ❤
So sad for you sandy 😢❤
Same things happened with me but still i dont give up
Same story didi ... Mere ristedaar canada me hai unho ne INR-3CR ka house buy kara hai lekin jab mene puchha unse to kehte hai ki canada me mahol bahot kharab hai , too costly not easy to live in canada ... Khud aaram se rehte hai 😔😔
3cr house is nothing in Canada, it will be just a 2 bedroom apartment. And they are giving you right suggestion, people who are already here can't go back as they have invested so much. But its wise to give good advice to people who are asking for suggestions instead of just showing the rosy picture. Life is too hard in Canada especially for educated people due to lack of jobs. But i would admit if you are a blue collar worker back in India then your life will be better in Canada.
Bhai aapke relative ne sahi bola he aapko
Wo bhi Waqt tha ya bhi Waqt ha sister stay strong🔥♥️
There is silent discrimination... and i also faced worst treatments of my life here in canada....
God bless you sweet lady!
You are such a lovely lady. You seem like our Sons age.
If i ever go Canada would be lovely to meet you.
Hello dear,aap abhi edmonton me ho??😊
Sandy you hold a very special place in my heart
Aww that is so special 😍 Thanks dear
Thanks mam for sharing your experiences and your advice
Hi everyone, that is quite normal here in Canada nowadays. This thing happened with me as well, when I came in Canada😢, but anyways as you said there are some good people still resides in Canada so, just work hard, believe in yourself and move forward in this journey:)
Why need to go there? Our Indian government said they are growing in world and have high job opportunities. Why we need job in other country? And getting job in abroad was considered as prestigious, why?
Hi sandy, I can understand as been through with these Friends/Jobs/family truma's 😓😓😓😓
Sorry to hear this.
What you experienced is called women to women fight. You may not have experienced it before. It happens in India as well. It's not something out of the blue.