I have gone through the same shit . I cried on roads alone, lost mental peace for a while, felt left out, our own people are doing the same thing to each other, can't see u growing and staying happy.Most of people here become heatless and run after money leaving emotions behind .I felt it when u said some own so called friends make gang and make u feel alone intentionally to break u..gone through it .Lived with a toxic person who was me and myself. Now, I don't trust anyone and trust myself only! It made me stronger 💪.Now I don't cry and stay happy always .lesson learnt book burnt!
Hello dear this same things happened to me also but this is still going on with me Idk how can I overcome please talk to me 🙏and give me positive guidance 😭otherwise my whole life is in damger on serious way
If you know these things happen in canada than why the hell you went to india.Our India is much better than canada or America. You will be always working like slaves under them just for few dollars .Better to stay in India make Indian nation strong
@@sapnasain4843 Hello, Sapna. I also have gone through this all. When in that situation, I was just unable to understand what was going around me and who was really what from inside or what people’s real intentions was. I would suggest you to figure out who is really who around you and people’s real intentions. Use your intuitiveness for doing so, and never ignore your natural call from inside about anyone or anything. Talk to your loved ones and people you truly trust. Ans always remember If there were a problem, there would be a solution too.
I’ve been following you from many years and finally I shall be coming there for Jan intake as a mature student. Your videos are really motivational, addressing real concerns. Keep it up 👍
@Sandy you are a Rockstar, and your video is so relatable in my case as well. I have spent last 13 years in Expat life and have been there done that. It really does come down to who you are and how your spouse helps you to settle in your life. Well, you are a champion and I always love your content 🫶🏼, stay blessed and thank you for always sharing content we all feel is genuine and neutral.
Very well said Sandy, so true yes friends & family all are there to pull you down when you are trying to fly high ( very little people are there to help you out) & Thankyou so much for being an amazing female role model 🫶🏻 please keep on sharing such genuine experiences ❤
You and your videos are truly great help for newcomers. Really what you said in this video i have experienced in just 2 months of coming here and that too of my own ppl. Ii was depressing when you are here on your own. However you mentioned that if you're strong enough, you are good. And be positive and grow yourself.👍👍
Been 31 yrs in Sydney. Don't expect your friends in these countries to be same as your childhood friends. It's mutual, every human being needs a human company. As the young lady said it right, you don't need lot of friends, you only need a couple of reliable one's.
I'll say I was lucky my coworkers became my best friends. I am Indian by origin, but not born in India and maybe thats why I was able to connect with all different kind of people, my friends are Korean, Romanian, Pakistani, Jamaican and characteristically they are genuine honest friends.
That is extremely rare in canada. Most canadian rarely want to talk about anything besides the shallow small talk or will greet you only if they have some work from you.
@MM-hw6fz yeah i hear you. Plus, i feel the interaction with most people in canada even at work with those you work with for years still feels so forced and fake. It was better when i moved to the neighborhood but rarely felt more than that. We are a married couple and love to host but what i hate is practically begging people to come visit or meetup.
Exactly this happened to me too. Lost so many so called friends but the word you mentioned “cleansing” is really positive. My 8th year here in Canada and going strong ALONE💪🏻
Enjoy listening to your experiences as i have myself lived in Norway 2016 onwards as a student and can relate to many things especially the video in which you talk about controlling expenses :) Wish you nothing but success, Sandy.
some of the initial things you said, I observed mostly girls do that. I have seen girls giving wrong advice confidently, older women giving taana to younger ones etc. I remember 4 girls fought against 1 girl n threw her out of the home at 11 pm at night. Reason: jealousy. The one which was thrown out was working, earning well, happily married, healthy, had car etc. Guys do get a few good frnds but most of them would be pretend, fake friends
True, I am first in my family to come abroad. I wished this video was created in 2021 so that I never cried. Anyway, thank you for making this video. Each and every word is right. Indians are not supporting Indians. I got scammed by my own friends for finding jobs and paying money to get noc B job. For jobs currently many scams happening please please never pay a single $ 1 to anyone for getting NOC B job. Don't trust your own friends or anyone eventhough you are from same town, you speak same language just don't trust. One point trust yourself and watch this type of videos it is really helpful. ❤
sandy i am from Pakistan and i really like your videos matlab ap ki videos humaray liya bohat zada faida mand hai Allah pak apki bohat hifazat kray or kamayabi de
yaar yo are so true, I was in Canada for few years and was able to make lots of friends (all foreigners) but never any Indian friend so ASAP i became friend with one punjabi boy as a co-worker. I would say i was so much blessed without any Indian friend. He was not from medical background and i always assured him and taught a lot about the work. When he felt confident he tried to poison my friends about me and even my manager too. I was so disappointed and depressed eventually we ended up fight and i left. Any way, i was already sure that i was moving from Canada but this made me feel good about my this decision. Worse person ever i have seen and i found same things he was doing with his own wife on the name of his religion. I wish soon God will teach him a lesson.
Stay positive I have been Canada 🇨🇦 last 20 years honestly have had many experiences very very good or bad met many beautiful souls here can’t imagine . I would say good and bad people exist everywhere in the world 🌎 so don’t label any place this life just go with flow .. ❤ 🙌🇨🇦even in one family not all family members are same
Hi nice video. Could you please make an updated video regarding the pnp options for international students who change their province for PR with latest informations.
My 29 yr experience tip for new comers old people are your worst enemy .They discourage and mix guide you. I was so innocent and honest I was speaking truth but these oldy’s are your worst enemy.
Every word she has said is relatable and true in most cases! Family & Friends has become the biggest illusion in this world!... For some weird reason, most people want u to fail vs succeed... One needs to be well aware and deal accordingly without blaming anyone or circumstances...
So true Sandy , there are many to destroy you or demotivate you . But I truly believe there are good people like you too who always warn us before we get ourselves into any trouble . Thank you Sandy so so much for being so transparent . Bhagwan jee appka hamesha sath de and apko khush rakhe hamesha
This is a very good message. I have also been trying to spread positivity regarding Canada with people because I see a lot of people spreading negativity. A lot of people are making reels on instagram and mocking Canada. They live here, earn here, send money to India, buy costly cars, live a good lifestyle, but still want to spread hate against this country. If you had good education in India with some years of experience working in a MNC and want to pursue higher education and come as a student, then focus on studies and do your alloted part-time job for survival, rather than buying iPhones, Mustangs etc. And if you already have a Masters Degree in India and have good experience, then come as a Permanent Resident & apply for jobs here, you'll be able to get it easily if you're capable enough & starting salaries for IT can be anywhere from 100k+. The mindset of people needs to be changed. Don't just follow your friends, if they came to Canada, don't blindly come here thinking you'll be having a lavish lifestyle. And please leave Brampton, I don't know why everyone choose to go to Toronto, Brampton, Missisuaga etc. Then they complaint about job scarcity.
do not trust on your friend not only in other countries but also in India they are backbithers muhh pe yaar pith piche se vaar so donot trust...........do not
Amazing video Sandy ! You are awesome ❤ I landed Sydney Australia in 2006 and trust me till date i do get these people who are not happy about their own life hence they behave nasty with others 😂 We as a family spend more time together than social catch ups who compete with you 100% 😅 Hey and congratulations on 200K that’s a massive achievement! I love your videos ❤
soo true. I came here in Toronto 3months back. On the very first day, Housemates were like yeh khaoge vo khaoge. One week passed, and now they won't even talk to you or reply to you even if you are being nice to them. The lease owner has become so dominant that he thinks it is his house and can rid me of the house if he wants. looking for a new place I hope I find someone not being that nasty.
Wouldn’t really want to move to a place if … no one was going to be my friend.. fairly strong statement..life has its ups and downs.. a time will come when you need help.. friends can assist..
Thank you for once again for giving a video with tons of useful and life saving advice..i think every student before coming to Canada should watch this video .in fact this video should be included in the student package when they get admission in colleges in canada.🙏🤣 keep up the good work of making such videos
Hi Sandy thanks for the informative video. I want to know is there some colleagues or universities, which offer masters in medical laboratory science, and there QS ranking should be around 100
Sandy, thank you for sharing ❤ You are so brave, and I thank God that He gave you the strength. Also, thanks to Rajeev for being a true friend to you 😊
This video made me so emotional as many things that you have just mentioned are the REALITY I am currently facing!! Thank you so much Sandy for your thought process. I am glad that I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE facing this, that makes me feel normal. Keep making such amazing content. #RELATABLE
@@SandyTalksCanada very nice and accurate video 👍🏻 I didn't face any of these situations 🤞🏻(touch wood 🚪) but they happen quite often Currently its worst 😣 Back in the day before 2010 it was good 😌
I have gone through the same shit . I cried on roads alone, lost mental peace for a while, felt left out, our own people are doing the same thing to each other, can't see u growing and staying happy.Most of people here become heatless and run after money leaving emotions behind .I felt it when u said some own so called friends make gang and make u feel alone intentionally to break u..gone through it .Lived with a toxic person who was me and myself. Now, I don't trust anyone and trust myself only! It made me stronger 💪.Now I don't cry and stay happy always .lesson learnt book burnt!
Hello dear this same things happened to me also but this is still going on with me Idk how can I overcome please talk to me 🙏and give me positive guidance 😭otherwise my whole life is in damger on serious way
@@sapnasain4843 why I have a feeling that's it's a fake account ?
If you know these things happen in canada than why the hell you went to india.Our India is much better than canada or America. You will be always working like slaves under them just for few dollars .Better to stay in India make Indian nation strong
@@sapnasain4843check my bio or about
@@sapnasain4843 Hello, Sapna. I also have gone through this all. When in that situation, I was just unable to understand what was going around me and who was really what from inside or what people’s real intentions was. I would suggest you to figure out who is really who around you and people’s real intentions. Use your intuitiveness for doing so, and never ignore your natural call from inside about anyone or anything. Talk to your loved ones and people you truly trust. Ans always remember If there were a problem, there would be a solution too.
Coming to Canada in January, just stumbled upon your channel. Gonna follow u closely now. Thank u so much❤
Awesome! Thank you!
I’ve been following you from many years and finally I shall be coming there for Jan intake as a mature student. Your videos are really motivational, addressing real concerns. Keep it up 👍
Best of luck!
@Sandy you are a Rockstar, and your video is so relatable in my case as well. I have spent last 13 years in Expat life and have been there done that. It really does come down to who you are and how your spouse helps you to settle in your life.
Well, you are a champion and I always love your content 🫶🏼, stay blessed and thank you for always sharing content we all feel is genuine and neutral.
Madam, your program was very informative ! You have great communacative skills and personality !
You are absolutely correct about your experience here in Canada. Welcome to Canada !
Very truly said
I agree with you
Thanks for alerting
Sandy plz keep up your good work
Your transparent nature
Thank you, I will
Very straightforward ❤
Very well said Sandy, so true yes friends & family all are there to pull you down when you are trying to fly high ( very little people are there to help you out) & Thankyou so much for being an amazing female role model 🫶🏻 please keep on sharing such genuine experiences ❤
This video is applicable for every country and every person, u can’t trust people so easily nowadays
Thanks for the lovely video sandy
You and your videos are truly great help for newcomers. Really what you said in this video i have experienced in just 2 months of coming here and that too of my own ppl. Ii was depressing when you are here on your own. However you mentioned that if you're strong enough, you are good. And be positive and grow yourself.👍👍
Glad to help!
Been 31 yrs in Sydney. Don't expect your friends in these countries to be same as your childhood friends. It's mutual, every human being needs a human company. As the young lady said it right, you don't need lot of friends, you only need a couple of reliable one's.
I agree. Here in England it's the same thing. I have been through most of these situations and for 5 years now I prefer to be alone.
I'll say I was lucky my coworkers became my best friends. I am Indian by origin, but not born in India and maybe thats why I was able to connect with all different kind of people, my friends are Korean, Romanian, Pakistani, Jamaican and characteristically they are genuine honest friends.
It's very had to find full time work in Australia
The rent is very expensive thousands a month also bills food cost of living
@@j.jSingh-d7hr u at Sydney???
She’s referring to Indians exploiting Indians.. other nationalities of course don’t have the mindset which is prevalent in India..
That is extremely rare in canada. Most canadian rarely want to talk about anything besides the shallow small talk or will greet you only if they have some work from you.
@MM-hw6fz yeah i hear you. Plus, i feel the interaction with most people in canada even at work with those you work with for years still feels so forced and fake. It was better when i moved to the neighborhood but rarely felt more than that. We are a married couple and love to host but what i hate is practically begging people to come visit or meetup.
Firstly congratulations dear, another feather in your cap!!
I always find your videos informative and practical. Keep it up dear🎉🎉
Thanks a lot 😊
Very helpful video, you get full credit for not only surviving but thriving in Canada, very helpful itemized points to guide....loved it !!!
Glad it was helpful!
Your videos are super awesome...too good, very sincere and full of positivity
Thank you so much 😀
Exactly this happened to me too. Lost so many so called friends but the word you mentioned “cleansing” is really positive. My 8th year here in Canada and going strong ALONE💪🏻
I like the way you talk and content you choose …
Enjoy listening to your experiences as i have myself lived in Norway 2016 onwards as a student and can relate to many things especially the video in which you talk about controlling expenses :) Wish you nothing but success, Sandy.
Thanks and I wish the same for you 🙏
Thank you so much sandy.. it’s very informative and helpful video for everyone who want to go abroad..😊😊
Appreciate your self-confidence .
U gave real life lessons to people. Have been Following you for quite sometime. U are an inspiration.
some of the initial things you said, I observed mostly girls do that. I have seen girls giving wrong advice confidently, older women giving taana to younger ones etc. I remember 4 girls fought against 1 girl n threw her out of the home at 11 pm at night. Reason: jealousy. The one which was thrown out was working, earning well, happily married, healthy, had car etc. Guys do get a few good frnds but most of them would be pretend, fake friends
Very truly spoken Sandy. Everything whatever u said about some people around us.
Sending love ♥ Way to go Sandy ! Love watching your channel grow :)
Thank you so much!!
Life is not fair. Have no expectations from anyone. You learnt a important life lesson. Thank your stars.
U r doing great awareness. These things r real..
Thank you for pouring ur heart out ❤.
It's a fact and unfortunately world is filled with such people. So one needs to exercise caution
True, I am first in my family to come abroad. I wished this video was created in 2021 so that I never cried. Anyway, thank you for making this video. Each and every word is right. Indians are not supporting Indians. I got scammed by my own friends for finding jobs and paying money to get noc B job. For jobs currently many scams happening please please never pay a single $ 1 to anyone for getting NOC B job. Don't trust your own friends or anyone eventhough you are from same town, you speak same language just don't trust. One point trust yourself and watch this type of videos it is really helpful. ❤
Thank you so much dear 🙏 it's very helpful to my daughter she is coming to Canada
sandy i am from Pakistan and i really like your videos matlab ap ki videos humaray liya bohat zada faida mand hai
Allah pak apki bohat hifazat kray or kamayabi de
Thank you dr 4 sharing.i believe one must not base our conclusions on other people experience especially if they give negative experience..
Dear Sandy first of all Congratulations on achieving 200Ksubs.May you get millions of subs 🤲🤲🤲
Thank you so much 😊
Congratulations dear
Harare bachelor bhi Jana chahte h wo log bhi
Ma'am, really nice information and straight forward talk. Thank you.
Informative Video Ma'am, Thanks For Sharing With Us
Sister you just summed up it all in the 4th point. Hats off to you
Such a positive video and very realistic . Thanks for providing all this information.
Thank you for pointing out the crucial way of life
Thank you Sandy, very helpful
Glad it was helpful!
V Good information,Sandy !
yaar yo are so true, I was in Canada for few years and was able to make lots of friends (all foreigners) but never any Indian friend so ASAP i became friend with one punjabi boy as a co-worker. I would say i was so much blessed without any Indian friend. He was not from medical background and i always assured him and taught a lot about the work. When he felt confident he tried to poison my friends about me and even my manager too. I was so disappointed and depressed eventually we ended up fight and i left. Any way, i was already sure that i was moving from Canada but this made me feel good about my this decision. Worse person ever i have seen and i found same things he was doing with his own wife on the name of his religion. I wish soon God will teach him a lesson.
Such a nice vlog ….very true . Kudos for such beautiful suggestions which can guide youngsters.Thanks for sharing.
Stay positive I have been Canada 🇨🇦 last 20 years honestly have had many experiences very very good or bad met many beautiful souls here can’t imagine . I would say good and bad people exist everywhere in the world 🌎 so don’t label any place this life just go with flow .. ❤ 🙌🇨🇦even in one family not all family members are same
Absolutely right. Very good content. Sandy aap bilkul sahi baat karti ho.
Hi nice video. Could you please make an updated video regarding the pnp options for international students who change their province for PR with latest informations.
My 29 yr experience tip for new comers old people are your worst enemy .They discourage and mix guide you. I was so innocent and honest I was speaking truth but these oldy’s are your worst enemy.
Thanks a lot such a valuable advises
Real life experience truly and honestly expressed thanks for giving your thoughts and opinions genuinely
Very nice, specially the first one👏👏
Thanks for information Sandy sis❤
Great speech 🎉
Amazing video 👍👌God bless you 😊😊❤
Every word she has said is relatable and true in most cases! Family & Friends has become the biggest illusion in this world!... For some weird reason, most people want u to fail vs succeed... One needs to be well aware and deal accordingly without blaming anyone or circumstances...
Very useful video sandy God bless you
Thanks a lot
The same experience I faced in the UK back in 2010. Time changes, people don't.
So true Sandy , there are many to destroy you or demotivate you . But I truly believe there are good people like you too who always warn us before we get ourselves into any trouble . Thank you Sandy so so much for being so transparent . Bhagwan jee appka hamesha sath de and apko khush rakhe hamesha
Thanks dear its very helpful and congratulations 🎉 for your success
This is a very good message. I have also been trying to spread positivity regarding Canada with people because I see a lot of people spreading negativity. A lot of people are making reels on instagram and mocking Canada. They live here, earn here, send money to India, buy costly cars, live a good lifestyle, but still want to spread hate against this country.
If you had good education in India with some years of experience working in a MNC and want to pursue higher education and come as a student, then focus on studies and do your alloted part-time job for survival, rather than buying iPhones, Mustangs etc. And if you already have a Masters Degree in India and have good experience, then come as a Permanent Resident & apply for jobs here, you'll be able to get it easily if you're capable enough & starting salaries for IT can be anywhere from 100k+.
The mindset of people needs to be changed. Don't just follow your friends, if they came to Canada, don't blindly come here thinking you'll be having a lavish lifestyle. And please leave Brampton, I don't know why everyone choose to go to Toronto, Brampton, Missisuaga etc. Then they complaint about job scarcity.
do not trust on your friend not only in other countries but also in India they are backbithers muhh pe yaar pith piche se vaar so donot trust...........do not
Good advise
Amazing video Sandy ! You are awesome ❤ I landed Sydney Australia in 2006 and trust me till date i do get these people who are not happy about their own life hence they behave nasty with others 😂
We as a family spend more time together than social catch ups who compete with you 100% 😅
Hey and congratulations on 200K that’s a massive achievement!
I love your videos ❤
Thanks 🙏 and so true
soo true. I came here in Toronto 3months back. On the very first day, Housemates were like yeh khaoge vo khaoge. One week passed, and now they won't even talk to you or reply to you even if you are being nice to them. The lease owner has become so dominant that he thinks it is his house and can rid me of the house if he wants. looking for a new place I hope I find someone not being that nasty.
Totally Right 👍 Sister
God Bless you 🙏
Thanks and welcome
I faced many of situations like this here. I felt depressed due to fake people. But, now i am happy..😊
You are practical and honest. Thanks for enlighten us
I appreciate that!
Wish you all the best Sandy.
दोस्त तो दूर की बात है यहा पर माँ बाप भाई बहन रिश्तेदार सभी selfish होते है.
Wouldn’t really want to move to a place if … no one was going to be my friend.. fairly strong statement..life has its ups and downs.. a time will come when you need help.. friends can assist..
Thank you for showing the right path to newcomers❤️❤️
Main ai tou apko zror milon gi sandy. In sha Allah.
Love from pakistan ❤️
Thank you for once again for giving a video with tons of useful and life saving advice..i think every student before coming to Canada should watch this video .in fact this video should be included in the student package when they get admission in colleges in canada.🙏🤣 keep up the good work of making such videos
So nice of you! Thank you so much for such kind words 😊🙏
Genuine person!
Best of luck ❤
Sandy you are right. Yahan log aesay hi boltay hain new anay walon ko. BTW Good to know you are in Edmonton
I was in Edmonton, I moved to Ontario now
Ahh. I thought at least someone is in Edmonton. Everyone goes to Ontario
Valid points agree with you
Hi Sandy Is winter is right time to come in Canada
Winter is very difficult here. Lots of snow storms.
Is better to come in Spring, Summer, or early Fall.
Good morning Sandy
Good advice.
U R DOING GREAT KEEP IT UP
V. Informative experience sandy.
Thanks for your inspiration
Really so cool ❤
Good idea
Its very simple don't keep any expectations from anyone.
Ur absolutely right. I feel everyone is demotivated me.
Helpful video 💯
Good work 👍
Hi Sandy thanks for the informative video. I want to know is there some colleagues or universities, which offer masters in medical laboratory science, and there QS ranking should be around 100
hello! please tell me does Canada accept IDP Ielts for immigaration or any job offer ?
Don’t think like that, you will be good and have a nice friend
This is my situation. I m always thinking people are good but after a long time they make me realized what they actually are 😢
Very good information a new people
Sandy, thank you for sharing ❤ You are so brave, and I thank God that He gave you the strength.
Also, thanks to Rajeev for being a true friend to you 😊
You are so welcome! Thanks 😊🙏
Stay positive sister. Hope that Aunty is listening to this video now 😊
Very good information
Good explanation. Thank you from Sri Lanka.
Thank you madam for sincerely sharing your true experiences abroad.
Wish you Good Luck always...God Bless You..
Thank you dear i am deciding to come to visit visa...how much opportunities can i get
This video made me so emotional as many things that you have just mentioned are the REALITY I am currently facing!! Thank you so much Sandy for your thought process. I am glad that I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE facing this, that makes me feel normal. Keep making such amazing content. #RELATABLE
It's very had to find full time work in Australia
The rent is very expensive thousands a month also bills food cost of living
More courage to you Sakshi you are not alone in this! Just focus on yourself and your goals! Best wishes
@@SandyTalksCanada very nice and accurate video 👍🏻
I didn't face any of these situations 🤞🏻(touch wood 🚪) but they happen quite often
Currently its worst 😣
Back in the day before 2010 it was good 😌
@@SandyTalksCanadaNobody is your relative too.
Thank you for the information didi