Great to see you two lovebirds enjoying a trip around Manila, hope your foot feels better soon Rhea 😢 Can't wait to see the updates on the house 😁👍🇵🇭✌️
Haha yeah Roy, ya gotta roll those R's mate if ya from the province lol. Imagine carrying your Maccas drink around in a stroller??? lol And we have the same issue with 1K notes here a lot. I have a couple of local sari sari stores that can always handle em so I tend to go there first and buy something before going to get my pandesal. Glad you both enjoyed Manila but it's not for me. Too much pollution and noise lol. Ingat P.S ya forgot to turn off mirror option in settings haha :)
I’m in Singapore watching with your vlog but I can’t read Chinese😂because I’m originally a Filipina from the Philippines😂but anyway love to watch your vlog always❤
Sometimes I think writing something negative is bad because it might always be taken personal and not constructive. So Iam gonna start with something positive. I know you have a good heart and Rhea also and your madly in love plus Iam happy how your relationship. I think fastfood and so on is okay occassionally but dont overdo that. Now comes the negative part first negative experience from me. I know you have been getting to know Rhea online if I remember correctly and I also tried to do the same with a different girl. I saw her in an interview with a vlogger and there she said she had her own channel so I thought it would probably be nice to come in contact with her. When i followed her on her TH-cam Channel where she almost always made shorts I got to talk to her in a few "Lives" Streams she did on YT with about 5 viewers every time where I was one of them. I then asked her if it was possible to communicate directly and she told me about her FB . So after I added her e began chatting regularly. After a few days i manged to get her to talk to me. But before i had to send her some load bcz she had no more data. For explanation she never asked for it and was very thankful I got her that load. That would actually backfire bcz she accued me of getting her indebted to me that she has to talk to me even though she prefereed chatting.... . Actually we talked about 6 hours in a course from about 2 weeks and I realized iam falling more and more her. So i began to already make plans of meeting up, stuff like that. This feeling wasnt mutual. She then got mad at me for little things which in the end just showed her disinterest in me. "I just want to be myself!", was her ways of pointing that out. Maybe me being out of a relationship for over 10 yrs made me emotionally involved too fast. I couldnt really handle the situation. I didnt insult her or anything but she now has pushed me very far away from her life. We are only very occasionally chatting here and there. I knew I gotta stop thinking of her what I still am so I made up my mind and registered on a filipina dating side yesterday. No clue how that goes. But at least it takes my mind of her. Thats what happened to me recently and im still very much in a bad mood about it even though i try to think positive. Any Advice or tipps regarding to that? So now even though I get the cuteness and admiration you have for your gf. I also find her pretty attractive and adorable, we might even have the same taste in women, I think your overexaggerating... . It statrs when you were building the house in the province and goes further to gifts and presents and surprises not only for her but her own family. I dont know what your financial situation is but I dont want you to fall in a trap. Dont lead with your vallet is what all vloggers say. Pay attention brother, know that everything you give out may never come back to you. You cant expect any returns. Even though I actually see no signs that Rhea isnt upright with you and she really has honest feelings that there is chance that it may backfire some day. Especially when the honeymoon period is over. Still good luck to both of you and best wishes from Germany, sry if i get the grammar wrong sometimes. Best wishes, Eli
Hi Eli, thanks for sharing your story man, i really appreciate the courage that it took you to do that. Yeah i think there's all kinds of filipinas and all kinds of foreigners, mix that in with all kinds of situations and you've got all the outcomes. I know rhea and her family are genuine people, i know where their heart is. The things i do for her, i do out of love and a commitment to do the best i can as her man. In Australia we have a saying - send it! And that means to give something everything you've got. I'm sending everyday man, it's all a risk financially and with the heart, but i know she's worth it and i don't care if i fall flat on my ass, i don't have much to lose, and whatever i do have, i can't take it with me in the end. Don't listen to too many western youtubers that are trying to make money by offering advice about dating filipinas. Whatever you do, and how you do it, you have to be able to sleep well at the end of everyday feeling like you lived that day in your style. Find out what kind of guy you are again, as you've changed in the past 10 years, and then model your future goals in making that new Eli satisfied with your positive journey. I'm showing people how I'm doing things my way, i don't want to tell people how to do things, so that's my only advice to you my friend, find out who you are, and do things in a way that's congruent to you. Always welcome to comment here mate, have a good one. Roy
You be you m8 and go for it! Well replied Roy you got some balls m8 what will be will be !! Just my advice put the camera down occasionally and enjoy some moments to yourselves this early on in the relationship with your magunda..don't worry about views too much! Well done and enjoy you can't build Rome in 1 day take your time champ.
@brad6912 cheers brother yeah i feel where you're coming from there. I have got to the point now that i don't miss any moments, I'm remembering to film enough but not over doing it. It's a double edged sword though because if you're not ready to film you can miss classic moments. When we were driving in the grab car through manila, i was filming out the window and then thought of that's enough and stopped. Five minutes later we drove slowly past two large women having a scuffle, one of them had the croc shoe of the other and they were play fighting over it in the street, it was a hilarious 10 seconds and i really regretted not filming it, but I'm happy i could share that here 😀
Hi Eli, hope you don't mind my input, but reading your comment & replies, I'd just like to say sharing your story here was brave of you. I agree with Roy about finding out what kind of guy you are again after 10yrs also work on your emotional & mental wellbeing. You will find alot of scammers online dating so be careful with that. Look for women that don't ask for money and treat you like ATM that's what is meaning of don't lead with your wallet. I think in Roy's case he is sure of his relationship and is confident in his abilities to deal with what he has and his ability to handle any negative outcome. I too look at it the same way as Roy we can't take our money with us 😂 but that all depends of the person you are and your ability to live each day as it is 🤷♂️ some people can't and others worry about the negative outcomes overthinking it, Be yourself and go for what you want and just use common sense and caution when dating. Visiting the philippines if that's what you're interested in is a good way to understand the culture and will give you a better understanding of the dating culture and help understand what to avoid when it comes up
Hi guys,
Great adventure in Manila!
Have a good one
Stay Blessed❤❤
Regards, Merilyn
Hello ma'am thank you for watching our vedios,have a great day!regards, Rhea
Thats in P.Burgos St. Near Bel-Air, Makati😊
It's very nice there
I miss the Philippines. Try and go to Fort Sanitago to learn me about Jose Rizal.
Maybe next time we go to manila, it's that in manila mate? We did take some video at the statues but we can't find it now..
Safe travels
Thank you 😊
Great to see you two lovebirds enjoying a trip around Manila, hope your foot feels better soon Rhea 😢 Can't wait to see the updates on the house 😁👍🇵🇭✌️
Thanks brother! We're heading there today finally!
Haha yeah Roy, ya gotta roll those R's mate if ya from the province lol. Imagine carrying your Maccas drink around in a stroller??? lol And we have the same issue with 1K notes here a lot. I have a couple of local sari sari stores that can always handle em so I tend to go there first and buy something before going to get my pandesal. Glad you both enjoyed Manila but it's not for me. Too much pollution and noise lol. Ingat
P.S ya forgot to turn off mirror option in settings haha :)
Yeah it ad so funny bro, its such a shame that so many small stores miss out on that foreigner money
I’m in Singapore watching with your vlog but I can’t read Chinese😂because I’m originally a Filipina from the Philippines😂but anyway love to watch your vlog always❤
😅🤣😂😅🤣😂 oh my gosh haha i presumed you are Chinese 😃. Thanks for watching again 😄
Wow yuo comeback its yuor soulmate i hope yuo injoyed god bless
Thank you so much 😃
Sometimes I think writing something negative is bad because it might always be taken personal and not constructive. So Iam gonna start with something positive. I know you have a good heart and Rhea also and your madly in love plus Iam happy how your relationship. I think fastfood and so on is okay occassionally but dont overdo that. Now comes the negative part first negative experience from me. I know you have been getting to know Rhea online if I remember correctly and I also tried to do the same with a different girl. I saw her in an interview with a vlogger and there she said she had her own channel so I thought it would probably be nice to come in contact with her. When i followed her on her TH-cam Channel where she almost always made shorts I got to talk to her in a few "Lives" Streams she did on YT with about 5 viewers every time where I was one of them. I then asked her if it was possible to communicate directly and she told me about her FB . So after I added her e began chatting regularly. After a few days i manged to get her to talk to me. But before i had to send her some load bcz she had no more data. For explanation she never asked for it and was very thankful I got her that load. That would actually backfire bcz she accued me of getting her indebted to me that she has to talk to me even though she prefereed chatting.... . Actually we talked about 6 hours in a course from about 2 weeks and I realized iam falling more and more her. So i began to already make plans of meeting up, stuff like that. This feeling wasnt mutual. She then got mad at me for little things which in the end just showed her disinterest in me. "I just want to be myself!", was her ways of pointing that out. Maybe me being out of a relationship for over 10 yrs made me emotionally involved too fast. I couldnt really handle the situation. I didnt insult her or anything but she now has pushed me very far away from her life. We are only very occasionally chatting here and there. I knew I gotta stop thinking of her what I still am so I made up my mind and registered on a filipina dating side yesterday. No clue how that goes. But at least it takes my mind of her. Thats what happened to me recently and im still very much in a bad mood about it even though i try to think positive.
Any Advice or tipps regarding to that?
So now even though I get the cuteness and admiration you have for your gf. I also find her pretty attractive and adorable, we might even have the same taste in women, I think your overexaggerating... . It statrs when you were building the house in the province and goes further to gifts and presents and surprises not only for her but her own family. I dont know what your financial situation is but I dont want you to fall in a trap. Dont lead with your vallet is what all vloggers say. Pay attention brother, know that everything you give out may never come back to you. You cant expect any returns. Even though I actually see no signs that Rhea isnt upright with you and she really has honest feelings that there is chance that it may backfire some day. Especially when the honeymoon period is over.
Still good luck to both of you and best wishes from Germany, sry if i get the grammar wrong sometimes. Best wishes, Eli
Hi Eli, thanks for sharing your story man, i really appreciate the courage that it took you to do that.
Yeah i think there's all kinds of filipinas and all kinds of foreigners, mix that in with all kinds of situations and you've got all the outcomes.
I know rhea and her family are genuine people, i know where their heart is. The things i do for her, i do out of love and a commitment to do the best i can as her man.
In Australia we have a saying - send it! And that means to give something everything you've got. I'm sending everyday man, it's all a risk financially and with the heart, but i know she's worth it and i don't care if i fall flat on my ass, i don't have much to lose, and whatever i do have, i can't take it with me in the end.
Don't listen to too many western youtubers that are trying to make money by offering advice about dating filipinas. Whatever you do, and how you do it, you have to be able to sleep well at the end of everyday feeling like you lived that day in your style.
Find out what kind of guy you are again, as you've changed in the past 10 years, and then model your future goals in making that new Eli satisfied with your positive journey.
I'm showing people how I'm doing things my way, i don't want to tell people how to do things, so that's my only advice to you my friend, find out who you are, and do things in a way that's congruent to you.
Always welcome to comment here mate, have a good one.
Roy
@@Rhea_Roy❤ thx bro appreciate im gonna try following my Heart
You be you m8 and go for it! Well replied Roy you got some balls m8 what will be will be !! Just my advice put the camera down occasionally and enjoy some moments to yourselves this early on in the relationship with your magunda..don't worry about views too much! Well done and enjoy you can't build Rome in 1 day take your time champ.
@brad6912 cheers brother yeah i feel where you're coming from there. I have got to the point now that i don't miss any moments, I'm remembering to film enough but not over doing it.
It's a double edged sword though because if you're not ready to film you can miss classic moments.
When we were driving in the grab car through manila, i was filming out the window and then thought of that's enough and stopped. Five minutes later we drove slowly past two large women having a scuffle, one of them had the croc shoe of the other and they were play fighting over it in the street, it was a hilarious 10 seconds and i really regretted not filming it, but I'm happy i could share that here 😀
Hi Eli, hope you don't mind my input, but reading your comment & replies, I'd just like to say sharing your story here was brave of you. I agree with Roy about finding out what kind of guy you are again after 10yrs also work on your emotional & mental wellbeing. You will find alot of scammers online dating so be careful with that. Look for women that don't ask for money and treat you like ATM that's what is meaning of don't lead with your wallet. I think in Roy's case he is sure of his relationship and is confident in his abilities to deal with what he has and his ability to handle any negative outcome. I too look at it the same way as Roy we can't take our money with us 😂 but that all depends of the person you are and your ability to live each day as it is 🤷♂️ some people can't and others worry about the negative outcomes overthinking it, Be yourself and go for what you want and just use common sense and caution when dating. Visiting the philippines if that's what you're interested in is a good way to understand the culture and will give you a better understanding of the dating culture and help understand what to avoid when it comes up