This made a Chinese guy fall in love with a black girl instantly😳😳

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  • @haiipeople8390
    @haiipeople8390 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12033

    Mom and dad: she’s fluent in Chinese and goes to medical uni…marry our son 😂😂

    • @okorolina
      @okorolina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +982

      BASICALLY 😂😂😂😂 he was so smitten lol

    • @jaycaspian2137
      @jaycaspian2137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +931

      They were already preparing the weddin in there heads

    • @JasmineThanai
      @JasmineThanai 2 ปีที่แล้ว +339

      I love interracial couples ! I’m one well one part or you all know what I’m saying lol 😂 ONE LOVE ❤️

    • @PrincessHarlotte
      @PrincessHarlotte 2 ปีที่แล้ว +280

      That's EXACTLY what I was thinking. Princess beauty and a doctor. He was 💯 smitten kitten they were practically visualizing the wedding and grandchildren. LEGEND 👸🏾

    • @badgyal4576
      @badgyal4576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Exactly 👌🏾

  • @missorwa3136
    @missorwa3136 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3589

    The guy instantly fell in love with you, he didn't even care that his parents were around, he just wanted to be closer to you all the time

  • @oyin3231
    @oyin3231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12725

    Honestly I still think people are more excited around you because you try to communicate in their own language and that's a beautiful thing. Well done

    • @Yoel-dr
      @Yoel-dr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +269

      There is something about your comment here that shows your beautiful soul. I dunno what it is, I feel it though.

    • @oyin3231
      @oyin3231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      @@Yoel-dr oh wow thank you 😁 that comment made me smile.

    • @mashuptitok
      @mashuptitok 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Yoel-dr upup

    • @JaejoongPrincess
      @JaejoongPrincess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Yep, I get that too when I speak Korean, Japanese and Chinese. It's true! They get super excited when you speak their language. I be getting free stuff and discounts lol. I studied Mandarin in high school and college for three years. I studied Japanese for 2 years in college and before I took classes, I was teaching myself Japanese since I was 13 years old. I taught myself basic Korean and phrases. Several years ago at the hair store, there was this one Korean guy who acted just like the guy in the video lol. My mom and dad said that he was jumping over the shelves to check me out. He was following me around and asked me a few times if I needed help. They were aware that I can speak Korean and Japanese because they spoke both languages. His mom kept taking to me about his son and how he was the same age as me. My dad said that he was interested in me because he leaned so close to me when paying for my stuff. I didn't know what was going on. I have autism...so I can't tell when people like me. I don't know until somebody tell me.

    • @oyin3231
      @oyin3231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@JaejoongPrincess wow I admire your ability to study multiple languages. It's actually common everywhere. In my country there are 3 main languages spoken besides English. When you are from another tribe and you can speak their language people get excited. 😂😂😂 especially traders. I speak mostly English but when I go to the market I speak in my native language (Yoruba)

  • @vuton7670
    @vuton7670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1261

    The highest respect you can show someone in any country is learning their language.

    • @timlorgen1971
      @timlorgen1971 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Compared to written languages, most of the oral languages in the world are pretty easy to learn, especially when you get the chance to live there. So just go for it!

    • @Elric-zz2sb
      @Elric-zz2sb ปีที่แล้ว

      agreed lol for instance even french for me is on a quite different level of difficulty when i have to write in it@@timlorgen1971

    • @missguapa
      @missguapa 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      except in america!! many americans can be soo rude to people trying to/learning english

    • @notpinterest.worthyy
      @notpinterest.worthyy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@missguapa Really?

    • @udonkey431
      @udonkey431 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@missguapasadly England too, the amount of ppl I’ve heard been mocked for not being speaking English fluently is upsetting

  • @zhi4452
    @zhi4452 ปีที่แล้ว +943

    I love how that one lady couldn’t stop saying how beautiful you are and your hair is ❤ I feel like ppl in America don’t appreciate Black beauty like this, it makes me want to go to China 😂

    • @gilnahnu
      @gilnahnu ปีที่แล้ว +24

      cause in america its normal ig ,

    • @jazminartopee7774
      @jazminartopee7774 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Exactly! And because in America it’s taught that black beauty is not as beautiful as anyone else. Black women are out at the bottom of the totem pole. Our hair our skin is frowned upon when in all actuality the ones that publicly display hate towards it secretly admires it.

    • @hedkace
      @hedkace ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@jazminartopee7774 Who exactly and where exactly in America is it being taught that black is not beautiful?
      I think black women have an amazing beauty!

    • @deniqueblack8857
      @deniqueblack8857 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It’s not just normal it’s looked down upon and villanized for a purpose. China didn’t go through that process

    • @TamaraGarrettAlpha
      @TamaraGarrettAlpha ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jazminartopee7774WE will NEVER be at the BOTTOM EVER !!!💯💙🏹👑💫

  • @wendykirby7345
    @wendykirby7345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2768

    He tripped over a chair to get your wechat name in front of his family. Lol that's my boy! Way to go! He is in love!

    • @greyprice8167
      @greyprice8167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      😂😭😭😭

    • @kycam8.q.554
      @kycam8.q.554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Aww

    • @SM-qn7sr
      @SM-qn7sr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      He seems thirsty to be honest but yeah lol

    • @jenniferzalik1521
      @jenniferzalik1521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      @@SM-qn7sr that nigga was hungry like understandable since she’s absolutely stunning

    • @ReddShyne
      @ReddShyne ปีที่แล้ว +7

      China full of people that looks the same ofc he will be fascinated

  • @QBeezy-gi2lh
    @QBeezy-gi2lh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7672

    You made his day! He was so excited, he couldn’t stop dancing around, moving, fidgety being goofy 😂😂😂. So cute.

    • @wandagaines2678
      @wandagaines2678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +184

      I think she made his week!! He will remember this for years to come. It was very nice to see the interaction. You blew the lady away who couldn't believe you Chinese and spoke it so well. It's amazing what people think of others from foreign countries. I love it! I saw him sneak and touch your hair. He couldn't resist.

    • @only1giselle
      @only1giselle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      Exactly 😅 this showed me that men get awkward and goofy in every language if they think you’re beautiful 🤣🤣🤣 you handled it with grace…I would not have sat through all those questions and hovering over me while I’m trying to eat lol

    • @lyndapknox3481
      @lyndapknox3481 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Awesome! Beautiful Sister! Impeccable Chinese. You handled it all very well.

    • @sydneydwoskin4950
      @sydneydwoskin4950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hahahaa I know! 😆 so sweet

    • @tomilola_otitoju
      @tomilola_otitoju 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very cuteeeee

  • @leratomanana917
    @leratomanana917 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4106

    Can we just take a minute to appreciate how cute the chinese guy is 😭

    • @lecesharodgers2494
      @lecesharodgers2494 2 ปีที่แล้ว +256

      HE IS REALLY A CUTIE

    • @brownnnskin1416
      @brownnnskin1416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      I know right 🥺

    • @lisawilli1834
      @lisawilli1834 2 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      He is. Kept saying, I hope they see each other again 😁

    • @bodyofhope
      @bodyofhope 2 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      He was mesmerized by her 😊

    • @latoyarenee6439
      @latoyarenee6439 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I was just saying how cute he was

  • @chrislife1101
    @chrislife1101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I've never seen such a hyper extroverted, goofy Chinese guy like him before, it's nice to see

  • @seanfenrir
    @seanfenrir 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1314

    One thing I had to learn when dealing with people from other cultures is that when they do or say something that seems like it's an invasion of personal space or offensive, often they don't even realize it. I myself have been guilty of doing this with an Arabic friend of mine and I had to apologize to him. I commend you for being open-minded and calm even when the guy touched your hair without permission, or when they asked if your hair was fake.

    • @yaohuikong
      @yaohuikong 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      China also does not touch men's heads and women's waists.

    • @rachel.shakira
      @rachel.shakira 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      this! Like the amount of patience you have to have!

    • @sola4393
      @sola4393 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      I was like omg, he touched her hair 😮😂😂 , thank god she stayed clam and maintained a good gesture and relationship. He must be so curious and excited to see her. lol I've seen a black woman touching an Asian woman's hair without her permission before. She runs her fingers through her hair and complimented her hair is so silky. Sometimes people are just too excited and curious they forget what is happening. Hope everyone can stay clam, if you don't like what happened, just kindly in a polite way let them know if they could ask for permission before touching them. 😂 By the way the Asian guy look cute too. lol

    • @Lonelyeco
      @Lonelyeco ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I would've touched his hair. 😂😂😂 Let's even it out.😅

    • @issaflo1224
      @issaflo1224 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@sola4393 I hope you aren't confused, when anyone (except in places where black issues, history, and microaggressions aren't talked about much) touches a black woman's (or really any black persons hair) hair it counts as a micro-aggression and has harmful history behind it, the other doesn't

  • @Sachistar7591
    @Sachistar7591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1449

    Homeboy was BOLD in his pink apron with flowers 😂😂😂

    • @roelidani
      @roelidani 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      🤣

    • @juniebob4420
      @juniebob4420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      And? Asians arent toxic masculine we don't care about those things

    • @OGigiBunny
      @OGigiBunny 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      This brought tears to my eyes the way I went back to look! He sure was bold! He didn't care one bit. He was like, here is my chance boiiiii!!!

    • @Crocrobon
      @Crocrobon ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@juniebob4420 he's cute with his pink apron

    • @MiyaMam948
      @MiyaMam948 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@juniebob4420 she was making a lighthearted joke, don’t worry

  • @maedthings8828
    @maedthings8828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6107

    he was obsessed with you 😭 but on a serious note, you inspire me a lot, you make me want to go to China for my studies

    • @Tiktok_Reddit
      @Tiktok_Reddit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Fascinated is the word not obsessed

    • @tashamoh2459
      @tashamoh2459 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      @spirit so true that's why we don't have to believe what ever we see in social media 💚

    • @blackwarrior7473
      @blackwarrior7473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ​@spirit So pretend to be a Chinese to tell lies about Chinese and black people? I think the Chinese are probably the kindest to the black people in the world. See how the black people are treated in the US, even those born in the US. Refer to the Floyd case. Sure enough, the Chinese are sometimes too kind to the extent of harassment, like the young boy in the video.

    • @Crisis-xw3wg
      @Crisis-xw3wg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      “Studies” yea right 😂😂😂

    • @avateraangshoe5025
      @avateraangshoe5025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@Crisis-xw3wg what is unbelievable about that? you don't go to school?

  • @Fari-100
    @Fari-100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4496

    Hey, can't blame him, every nationality can understand your Nigerian beauty 😍😊

    • @nonhlanhlanunsy9179
      @nonhlanhlanunsy9179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +235

      Nigerians girls are so beautiful ND intelligent coming from a fellow african

    • @davills_cosplay.
      @davills_cosplay. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@nonhlanhlanunsy9179 thank you

    • @dbspaceoditty
      @dbspaceoditty 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nonhlanhlanunsy9179 when white people talk like this its racist XDDD

    • @gwenbily
      @gwenbily 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@nonhlanhlanunsy9179 thank you ❤️

    • @Heartsforsummayah
      @Heartsforsummayah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      African woman in general are beautiful don’t get it twisted

  • @Citystateanonymate
    @Citystateanonymate 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    HE'S ACTUALLY SO CUTE TOO! You guys would be so cute together

  • @thegraced
    @thegraced 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    First off...the young Chinese guy is such a cutie....plus the whole family treated you with so much kindness....I enjoyed the video....you're a true inspiration...love from kenya

    • @CVGH671
      @CVGH671 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Kenya West!?

  • @serenityq26
    @serenityq26 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4266

    homie was like "im getting a blasian son"

  • @india6299
    @india6299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2179

    It seems like mom and dad was trying to find a wife for their son.

    • @beautifulafricaqueen143
      @beautifulafricaqueen143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      Say that again 🥰🥰

    • @Jolene8
      @Jolene8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      😂😂😂😂🙌🏽

    • @cassandrakemara8755
      @cassandrakemara8755 2 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      The mom looked embarrassed by him actually haha

    • @tikdoe7563
      @tikdoe7563 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cassandrakemara8755
      When?

    • @ReddShyne
      @ReddShyne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tikdoe7563 around the first 3-4 mins

  • @sunflowerzen3297
    @sunflowerzen3297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5477

    Lol that was so cute, he was definitely flirting and so interested. You really corrected stereotypes about Africans with this video. You truly opened their eyes.

    • @judeayo1806
      @judeayo1806 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      what exactly is the stereotypes about Africans? Your name suggests you are white.....do you know the stereotypes about white people JESSICA? huh?

    • @caineallen8132
      @caineallen8132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +501

      @@judeayo1806 oh lawd!! Calm down Karen.🤪🤪🤪

    • @ppjskh
      @ppjskh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +209

      @@judeayo1806 wat da faq lmaooo CALM DOWNNN

    • @Heyguhh
      @Heyguhh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      @@judeayo1806 now miss gurll…

    • @sunflowerzen3297
      @sunflowerzen3297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +199

      Actually I'm not white nor was I saying my comment in any rude way so if y'all can calm down, I will explain the stereotypes I've heard about Africans.....oh and fyi I am part African too. Anyway... the first stereotype I've heard was that they always have short hair. Completely not true cause all of my African friends have long gorgeous hair. Not weaves and wigs...not that anything is wrong with those either. It's just crazy how people keep taking my compliments and try to flip it to make it sound like I said something bad. Maybe I should change my name on TH-cam so ya'll can stop being so judgmental of it.

  • @havad3938
    @havad3938 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I love seeing how they're treating you. And he was cute and so confident, even around his parents. I'm not surprised they really liked you in every regard.

  • @korph6031
    @korph6031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    you handled the ignorant comments well! i know they dont mean harm but i can see how it can get annoying quick, amazing video!

    • @MARILANAEE
      @MARILANAEE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I honestly felt frustrated watching this 😭 i get they're curious but like she is human after all 😭😭

    • @PrincesaLunez
      @PrincesaLunez 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I thought I was the only one who felt even the slightest bit of annoyance lol Like not to hate on them as seeing something that’s not typically in your culture is fascinating, so I truly can’t hate. I would just I need more personal space lol
      Props to her for being the one to break the barrier! We love to see it being done safely

    • @annyeongyani
      @annyeongyani 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Righttt!! like girl, hats off to you 😅

  • @mishy297
    @mishy297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1396

    You eat bread
    Chinese woman: she can eat bread too
    You eat watermelon
    Chinese woman: She can eat watermelon too
    You drink water
    Chinese woman: She drinks water too
    😂😂😂

    • @gwenbily
      @gwenbily 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      🤣🤣

    • @monique_pryce
      @monique_pryce 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      😭😭🤣🤣🤣

    • @sheniquaturner595
      @sheniquaturner595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Lol

    • @slimchica1
      @slimchica1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Q.T-T
      @Q.T-T 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      She meant like how she can also eat potatoes with the chopsticks..

  • @TECHSAVI_1
    @TECHSAVI_1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1588

    Reason they ask you to eat before pay
    1)They got co comfortable with you
    2) They wanted to be nice with you since you also had a very positive vibe
    3) You where a foreigner
    4) They wanted you to stay for a while

    • @busoladeborah
      @busoladeborah  2 ปีที่แล้ว +195

      Valid points

    • @kycam8.q.554
      @kycam8.q.554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Aww

    • @TECHSAVI_1
      @TECHSAVI_1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @PhantomStranger honestly I would too
      Imagine some Asian or white guy . Came to me and started speaking my native dialect or even pidgin to me I would definitely as him or her to stay for a bit longer

    • @STUMAHA
      @STUMAHA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I agree with #4 100% !! Customers will be drawn there and buy food to get a closer look so as not to appear obviously curious. The owner is friendly, but also a smart businessman.

    • @idc_cope
      @idc_cope 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      The Real reason- They wanted to interview a possible wife for their son ✨.

  • @godofjustice
    @godofjustice 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2044

    He looked so cute haha can’t believe there are actually people that aren’t as introverted as me lol

    • @irlandaise5631
      @irlandaise5631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      yeah it's surprising as when I have random men in shops jumping around and being excited they aren't cute. The cute ones generally just look but do nothing in my experience . But then again it's china . She is lucky!

    • @nevaehlheaven
      @nevaehlheaven 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You haven't met me

  • @sleepygirl8344
    @sleepygirl8344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    I kept replaying the intro of the video so many times cause the smile when they said “let’s add each other on WeChat” just made my heart so happy 😭
    So many people are learning Korean and Japanese, and being a black woman it’s strange to others that I would wanna learn mandarin and visit China yk? And people always talk about the bad things like racism and etc making me wanna change my mind and learn a different language ( a language I don’t really wanna learn atm) but this made me feel so much better 😭

    • @manguanxu3612
      @manguanxu3612 ปีที่แล้ว

      there are shit ass people in every country, and not everyone is like that.

  • @sarahmelody9366
    @sarahmelody9366 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    It's so cool to see how people from ALL walks of life could come together if only we took the time to understand one another. Break some bread, share a laugh or a warm conversation. It's a beautiful thing to witness.

  • @katien3022
    @katien3022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1618

    I found it funny that the dad was just boasting China the whole time lol 😂

    • @gwenbily
      @gwenbily 2 ปีที่แล้ว +225

      That's typical Chinese. They're very patriotic 😅🤣

    • @esiana
      @esiana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      Tryna get her to stay!!!

    • @1tim3_JB
      @1tim3_JB 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      Honestly they’re very proud of their country which is great to see!

    • @ohsehun6470
      @ohsehun6470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      I mean, regardless of the ccp controversies, its a fact that to the chinese citizens, the gov has mostly been a good gov to them. China used to be in poverty and a third world country just half a century ago. The ccp managed to lift the country out of poverty into an economic and political powerhouse and people are living much better

    • @1tim3_JB
      @1tim3_JB 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@ohsehun6470 yeah I always notice that. The only people who talk bad about china are people who don’t live there. Usually it’s because of what type of government you guys have. But I’ve never seen a citizen have a problem with china.

  • @thatcookingdude
    @thatcookingdude 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3693

    “She can eat potatoes too” had me dying 😂😂

    • @bikingsolo9194
      @bikingsolo9194 2 ปีที่แล้ว +421

      Like what do they think she is😭 it’s cute but who can’t eat potatoes lol

    • @sharonhicks-jones5471
      @sharonhicks-jones5471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      I Screamed 😱...Just human🤦🏾‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣💃🏾

    • @thatcookingdude
      @thatcookingdude 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      @@bikingsolo9194 and the she can use chopsticks too or something like that 😂😂

    • @thatcookingdude
      @thatcookingdude 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@sharonhicks-jones5471 I don’t blame you haha 😂😂

    • @x-LUNi-x
      @x-LUNi-x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      They're just ignorant

  • @MC-vp4eg
    @MC-vp4eg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +742

    I honestly can’t blame him for being so smitten with you- you have an attractive personality, are kind, and exude humility. You are the epitome of a women. You being gorgeous is just a plus.

    • @SnippetsBB
      @SnippetsBB ปีที่แล้ว +42

      What an honorable, kind, honest, and REAL compliment. So nice

    • @Des_.
      @Des_. ปีที่แล้ว

      What is the epitome of a woman 💀

    • @YosefAmadeusC.
      @YosefAmadeusC. ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@SnippetsBByesssss

    • @someoneelse6934
      @someoneelse6934 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      simp

  • @darvoid66
    @darvoid66 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    It was cute seeing the Chinese boy crush on you. He could not contain how smitten he was for you. Thank you for sharing how nice the people are in China :)

  • @MichelMawon4982
    @MichelMawon4982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This was adorable. People blossom when you speak their language. Their fascination was so genuine and innocent that nothing they did or said was offensive, just people connecting.

  • @nounie123
    @nounie123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1049

    Imagine being stuck at the foodcart with the same ole customers and your parents and then this exiting young lady your age comes by and you can actually understand each other! Yeah i understand this kid’s excitement 🤣❤️👍🏼

    • @teetawn9454
      @teetawn9454 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Same. He was almost giddy with excitement

    • @user-eu2me4bp7j
      @user-eu2me4bp7j 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @37theEnigma
      @37theEnigma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@teetawn9454 Not almost. He was 🤣

    • @maureenwojciechowski3748
      @maureenwojciechowski3748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I had to subscribe, she made me so happy

  • @shinagi6807
    @shinagi6807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +857

    The lady that kept complementing your hair made my day lol,I think she said it 10 times in 10 diferent ways omd!!😂😂

  • @steph8842
    @steph8842 2 ปีที่แล้ว +570

    He was obviously fascinated but I still cringed when he touched her hair. Speaking from experience, black woman's hair seems to have the same effect on people as a pregnant belly. People forget about common sense personal space and just goes for it and touch.

    • @hentai7444
      @hentai7444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ur just sensitive

    • @timelizz7719
      @timelizz7719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      As a Latina growing up and going to school with mostly all black kids I also got my hair touched a lot!! Mostly probably because everyone thought I was black and was trying to figure out why my hair looked wavy. I had a lot of people thinking I was wearing weave or I had a relaxer. It was weird at 1st but I got used to it though my mom did get upset because I would always come back home from school with my hair all messed up 😂

    • @lamb4613
      @lamb4613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      It’s ok to feel it lmao y’all so extra….. it’s different textures he just tryna see

    • @zyloz88
      @zyloz88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      @@lamb4613 its defo not ok, but its not as bad as it would be if she was in america tho, he could of asked tbf

    • @Just...K
      @Just...K 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      @@lamb4613 he isn't trying to "see" He is trying to touch. I am completely understanding of curiosity but it's not okay to touch people like petting an animal you are fascinated by, like a cute kitten that has soft looking fur. We are people. One can at least ask before touching someone else.

  • @daniellathompson3173
    @daniellathompson3173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    我认为这很了不起,因为你一次将一个人团结在了世界上,你让黑人不必与其他种族分开似乎是可以的,我喜欢它。上帝保佑你💙💙🥰

    • @islamamira3910
      @islamamira3910 หลายเดือนก่อน

      كلامك صحيح، فالله وحده من خلقنا جميعا كبشر، و لا يفرق بسن ابيض و اسود، كلنا متساوون عنده، شكرا يارب 🎉

  • @g.jeniseclifton7843
    @g.jeniseclifton7843 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love to see people getting along ... best gift you could ever give the universe. Friendship

  • @keywordxo5378
    @keywordxo5378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1349

    Having been a foreigner in China, I can say that the Chinese people are endlessly kind to and curious about foreigners. The will run over to assist you if they realize that you need help. Of course, like other country, there are bad people, but i never once encountered one.

    • @alecgurney9305
      @alecgurney9305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Could a chinese person receive kindness in your country?

    • @crypticcavern4109
      @crypticcavern4109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      nah my guy there are a decent amount of racist chinese people too lmao

    • @Abena1709
      @Abena1709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      @@crypticcavern4109 but the comment wasn't about the racist people.

    • @crypticcavern4109
      @crypticcavern4109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Abena1709 Didn't ask

    • @keywordxo5378
      @keywordxo5378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @@crypticcavern4109 I'm sure there are. I even said that the are bad people

  • @luclabouche7656
    @luclabouche7656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1954

    I don't know how you've managed to stay calm and collected while the guy was invading your personal space 😄. They do seem like nice people. They were curious about you.

    • @downundabrotha
      @downundabrotha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +194

      Seemed like fascination

    • @Jolene8
      @Jolene8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      He's cute. That helps. 😂

    • @loriyang2528
      @loriyang2528 2 ปีที่แล้ว +241

      Thats culture. If they like you, they want to know everything about you. Thats their way of being friendly and wanting to be your friend. 😊

    • @oreoluwaadenrele5938
      @oreoluwaadenrele5938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      I felt he was being a pest at some point… but I can understand his excitement, but he’s a big flirt sha😂

    • @kingstonshawn2595
      @kingstonshawn2595 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No personal space in China.
      Everyone crowds round like sardines. You'd be happy if someone wasn't leaning on you.

  • @devonastearnes8603
    @devonastearnes8603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +606

    I love how you gave the compliment back to re ensure her she just as beautiful and she just giggled I’m glad you told her that

  • @Solastar
    @Solastar ปีที่แล้ว +24

    As a black girl...the title is kinda cringe but love the video its super cute

  • @EclipsetsunePlays
    @EclipsetsunePlays ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I love these kind of videos. It kind of makes me sad that more black aren't open to traveling due to stares. Ppl see stares & automatically jump to the conclusion of "racism." Ofc sometimes it actually is, but most of the time staring is just human curiosity.
    Ik it's hard for some to fathom bc most English speaking countries are melting pots, but any foreigner that visits a homogenous society will get stares. Especially if you stand out by being really tall or tiny, different facial features, different skin color, eye color, hair color or texture & so on.

  • @temidaniels6055
    @temidaniels6055 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1285

    i love how well you speak..
    i’ve been trying to learn chinese for a while.. but it’s like i’m stuck😭😭

    • @soiammagenta
      @soiammagenta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      A tip: watch a lot of Chinese TV/ listen to a lot of Chinese so you can get used to the sound of the language. Everytime when you listen to someone speak Chinese, try to match the sounds with the subtitles. I'm not an expert or anything, but I've been studying it for a while, and I try to continue by watching Chinese dramas lol. One thing that improved was pronunciation and some other things too I think hehe. Hope this helpeddd

    • @temidaniels6055
      @temidaniels6055 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@soiammagenta thank youuu☺️

    • @roguesojizukokeleiwatsontu8558
      @roguesojizukokeleiwatsontu8558 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Download the Chinese app pleco for free and hello Chinese. They have both helped me when I'm not in my class at school. And watch tons of shows and videos in Chinese with subs.

    • @dzzhang2107
      @dzzhang2107 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      It just takes time, nothing else. Make learning Chinese part of your life for the next two years and you will harvest a second language.😊

    • @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587
      @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      that's me with Korean right now. I just don't know where to start. It's so difficult 😭

  • @lulubaraa976
    @lulubaraa976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3193

    I feel so bad for everybody in the world that never met a black person in their life

    • @Toastymosty69
      @Toastymosty69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +190

      Ok? 😆 wtf

    • @esiana
      @esiana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      THIS

    • @ExtinctDiscoveries
      @ExtinctDiscoveries 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@Toastymosty69 ?

    • @lust9818
      @lust9818 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Umm ok???

    • @mrsjrenae4738
      @mrsjrenae4738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +347

      We really are a very kind hearted and fun group of people. I think the crazy idiots give us a bad name when the truth is, we're nothing like that.

  • @magnolia2
    @magnolia2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +654

    I screamed laughed SO many times. Hilarious.

  • @beholdtheman3161
    @beholdtheman3161 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've never seen a guy so smitten with a girl before, it was beautiful to watch. I'll watch it again.

  • @classifiedinfo2047
    @classifiedinfo2047 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    hes so wholesome adorable

  • @tiphneewestry3129
    @tiphneewestry3129 2 ปีที่แล้ว +446

    He’s going to make a great husband for someone one day! The way he is making sure everything is to your liking and that you are pleased is so heartwarming!

    • @DA-jw4lx
      @DA-jw4lx ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That really was so uplifting.

  • @itzzchocolatemimig1226
    @itzzchocolatemimig1226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +478

    The African drum big had me dying it was so random😂🤦🏾‍♀️ loved this vid glad ur back busola hope ur staying healthy n well🙏🏾🙏🏾💛

    • @bloodnessx
      @bloodnessx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Can't even hate, shit was so random, it's hilarious. All jokes🤣👌🙏

  • @ZoeysMusings
    @ZoeysMusings 2 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    Marry him! This was better than a romantic scene in a K-drama 😂😂Loved this!

  • @Tomisinshalewa
    @Tomisinshalewa 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Bro was definitely smitten 😂

  • @jmbt6140
    @jmbt6140 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    « Like African drums… »😂😂😂😂😂 can’t stop laughing because of this

    • @busoladeborah
      @busoladeborah  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂

    • @kysxami5328
      @kysxami5328 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fr that was not even related to the paper bag🤣

  • @MM-ManifestingMiracles
    @MM-ManifestingMiracles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Medical University! That young guy looking like, he's got to work harder to win you over! LOL. Parents: Very Impressed!

  • @universalsubliminals1174
    @universalsubliminals1174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +381

    this is so whlesome, everyone was so cute! especially the woman who kept complimenting you, so kind

    • @pokeaman1645
      @pokeaman1645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She went and got her friend aww

  • @kayhunte
    @kayhunte 2 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    Great video! When they added the extra pepper, I cackled. Hilarious! Seems like you've found your future husband, Deborah! 😂😂😂

  • @jetpaq
    @jetpaq ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He's actually really handsome! I hope y'all become a couple?!!!!!! Two beautiful young people usually make lovely babies.

  • @lisewagnac3623
    @lisewagnac3623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I miss living in China so much, I should've never left. Loved this video it made me feel very nostalgic.

    • @weilunkang
      @weilunkang 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chuck Fina

  • @pamelabustos8376
    @pamelabustos8376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    He's actually a pretty cute guy! What a sweet family and running their own business. Cute family ,cute as a button son. Some girl will snatch him up, I'm sure.

  • @AC-ih1dr
    @AC-ih1dr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +519

    You are beautiful, so it is understandable that any man with good eyes would keep looking. But I just realized at 10:11 why my boi was obsessed. He probably watches black content (music, influencers, ect). He said your hair would look really nice in braids. Girl, he is trying to turn you into his hip-hop fantasy girl hahaha. He has been waiting for this his whole young life lol
    Let us know if he actually ever says anything to you on wechat
    Also, the family was very sweet overall.

    • @jajohnson84
      @jajohnson84 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @Beyoncessister
      @Beyoncessister 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Not his hip hop fantasy 💀💀💀

    • @kycam8.q.554
      @kycam8.q.554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aww😭😭😭

    • @alecgurney9305
      @alecgurney9305 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why do you think that?

    • @idc_cope
      @idc_cope 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@alecgurney9305 take a wild guess.

  • @larryhasgonefishing1374
    @larryhasgonefishing1374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    Even for a few minutes, you made this family so happy and excited. How many people can do that as a stranger? God bless you!

  • @lunarebony6122
    @lunarebony6122 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how ur vids solve stereotypes about both Chinese and Africans! Love it!

    • @cat3052
      @cat3052 ปีที่แล้ว

      asians and africans

  • @christinaevans8700
    @christinaevans8700 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I studied abroad for a semester in Dalian China in 2013 and loved it! I was treated like a celebrity, especially when they found out I was amercian but black. I wanted to go back to teach but then the pandemic hit.

  • @samsalamander8147
    @samsalamander8147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    He was adorable and handsome. His face is so open and curious. I loved this interaction.

  • @PisceanAviationTraveler
    @PisceanAviationTraveler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    Their interacting with you is so cute! You definitely made that guy's day!

  • @storytimetv1
    @storytimetv1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    THEY WERE JUST REALLY EXCITED.

  • @AtherischPrince
    @AtherischPrince ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was smiling so much, this is how the world should be ❤️ kind and progressive

  • @divorce_s
    @divorce_s 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    youre so good at keeping your cool when they touched your hair and were all up in your personal space haha, videos like this inspire me to study abroad and learn a different language. except the education in america is such a failure, i could never compete with the countries in asia!

  • @dailywithsun2530
    @dailywithsun2530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    That lady kept saying your hair is beautiful 😂😍🔥 and the dude was deffo obsessed he deffo felt as though he made it 😂💀

  • @watermelonsugarr9958
    @watermelonsugarr9958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    I like the woman who is endlessly complimenting you

  • @deandrictv5132
    @deandrictv5132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    It was adorable watching the interactions. They were so warm-hearted and kind! 🥺🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @kevinbrathwaite1116
    @kevinbrathwaite1116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is the beautiful when people of different races and cultures appreciate each other 🇨🇳 🇳🇬

  • @smhunney8266
    @smhunney8266 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Chinese a generally intrigued and interested in foreigners. Visited there twice. If you smoke cigarettes, the best way to make friends is to exchange your foreign cigarette for a chinese one. Many times they will want to take a picture with you. it can get annoying but just oblige them..but hold your bag closely. Chinese people are generally very friendly and helpful people.

  • @ItsLahai
    @ItsLahai 2 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    "Like African drum" I was laughing at this part. I kept replaying it.

  • @SNXO
    @SNXO 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    This brother is STARVING 😭

  • @josleenlisakhanya3504
    @josleenlisakhanya3504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +409

    u are making learning Chinese so inspiring, I have been learning Chinese since in 5th grade at first it was hard because Chinese is different from my home language which is xhosa(a South African language) but watching TH-camrs like u makes me confident in learning Chinese like my pronunciation is not on point but I'm getting there

    • @busoladeborah
      @busoladeborah  2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Keep going, it gets better 🥰

    • @sange4186
      @sange4186 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Heyyy a fellow Xhosa!! Hello mntase🤍🇿🇦

    • @HangingOrchid
      @HangingOrchid 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've been learning since 7th grade but still not proficient•́ ‿ ,•̀

  • @alistairt7544
    @alistairt7544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He's adorable! 😍

  • @zelda_the_queen2096
    @zelda_the_queen2096 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am Asian in the USA and have had people come up and touch my hair (or even my face when we were kids) without asking. In some cultures, personal space is respected less, but certainly not in America! Good on you for being patient; I know most understandably don’t appreciate people doing that.

  • @carolinetaylor6757
    @carolinetaylor6757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    Oh I loved this. How lovely was this family. The young man seriously fancied you-he was so cute. I am glad you are back, I have missed you. Your videos are informative but really fun at the same time 💐💐❤️🇬🇧

  • @SessmaruKusanagiGaming
    @SessmaruKusanagiGaming 2 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    He was SOO adorably excited, omg. So wholesome. You could see the excitement sparkle in his eyes like a kid! The big ole goofy smile that can't be contained.
    He also has GORGEOUS eyes. They're like a very very light brown, almost a dark honey. I have dark brown eyes, and have always LOVED that offshoot of brown. So gorgeous.
    He's also not half bad looking. (; lol.
    Absolutely wholesome. Thank you for sharing this. ❤ Totally subbing!

  • @ChisomUtazi
    @ChisomUtazi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Not that woman asking a Yoruba girl if she can eat pepper 😭😭😭😭

    • @gwenbily
      @gwenbily 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      🤣🤣in my mind I was like they don't know she's pepper herself 😂

    • @cococow3695
      @cococow3695 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gwenbily 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @cococow3695
      @cococow3695 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same thing I saidddddd😂

    • @mahlohonololebuso741
      @mahlohonololebuso741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bruh😂😂😂

  • @candypie20201
    @candypie20201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This needs to be a drama 😭 bits a beautiful love story ☺️

  • @iMsOiNsO
    @iMsOiNsO 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i always love and appreciate people who learn other cultures and languages, and love when those people from different places get so happy to see others people speaking their language

  • @christyslif4666
    @christyslif4666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I wish every race welcomed others this way! So beautiful and heartwarming

  • @virginiabarbara4053
    @virginiabarbara4053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    It's so funny to see how mesmerized they are because you can speak perfect Chinese!! Keep doing you girl!!!

  • @kiabowens4286
    @kiabowens4286 2 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    For some reason this really warmed me.. I'm so elated in seeing their genuine awe, appreciation and interest in you.. Keep emitting your light and love... The world needs more of this universal love and respect!!!

  • @alainpierre
    @alainpierre ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really understand the chinese boy's enthusiasm, you are really very beautiful! Kisses from Brazil.

  • @marie.theartist
    @marie.theartist 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He can't stop looking at you,hahahaja❤

  • @unkiindg
    @unkiindg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    The 8:34 "how is that even related?"
    Killed me. 😂😂😂😂
    First time viewer here on this channel! You're so fluent! Its a god given gift to speak multiple languages and feel whole with the native tongue. Its beautiful. He was so excited and you opened up his personality to the fullest! So cute! 😂😂
    Keep being amazing!

  • @berthonylouis5823
    @berthonylouis5823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +287

    You should TEACH Chinese on TH-cam for a small fee on the weekend..

    • @Yoel-dr
      @Yoel-dr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Great idea

    • @berthonylouis5823
      @berthonylouis5823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      If you do I'll sign up

    • @arriibacon531
      @arriibacon531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same I'll sign up as well

    • @okorolina
      @okorolina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I would totally sign up

    • @sevaughn4
      @sevaughn4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m down to learn!

  • @bambamdiaz7477
    @bambamdiaz7477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He was so excited to be around you and let’s not lie he was sooo cute look at that big beautiful smile 🥰 that kid is a 10/10 for me.

  • @peachechild
    @peachechild 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are so beautiful! Your spirit is also calm. I love the young mans reaction and his families kindness towards you.

  • @nalya0
    @nalya0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    His reactions are funny, it's cute. They really like your hair, it's true that it's beautiful 💕

    • @delroymckoy2742
      @delroymckoy2742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I like the reception she got, I am a new TH-camr and I know I will learn something from her…

    • @delroymckoy2742
      @delroymckoy2742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I checked out your channel and realized you have no videos, didn’t know you could start a channel like that, cool 😎

    • @pokeaman1645
      @pokeaman1645 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you ever seen a Chinese person have curly or afro hair, never

    • @delroymckoy2742
      @delroymckoy2742 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pokeaman1645 lol, never for me too

  • @Amaechipov
    @Amaechipov 2 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    I enjoyed every bit of this vlog surprised that guy again he will be so pleased to meet you

  • @Soulociraptr
    @Soulociraptr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    This was really nice! Homeboy definitely had a crush! 😂
    And I love how excited people get, seeing foreigners getting immersed in their culture.

  • @steve_vice_
    @steve_vice_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As a canadian , i am very use to multiculturalism , I can understand that those people dont see foreigner often and might be curious , but the touching (hair mostly) is kinda shocking . must be shocking/frustrating for the people who get that treatment.

  • @Sk88p
    @Sk88p 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Asian people in general love it when foreigners can speak their language fluently. The way he was behaving was normal to me. He was hilarious

  • @FelThommy
    @FelThommy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    The fact that you made something so beautiful out of this is sooo creative 💥✌🏽✌🏽

  • @preettyE
    @preettyE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    The random African drums comment 😭😭🤣🤣🤣

  • @addison9829
    @addison9829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    He is so sweet!! I hope y’all talk again and get to know each other more 😁

  • @mel-b7193
    @mel-b7193 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video changed my perspective on Chinese people.And its crazy how we grew up hating our hair but others find it beautiful..watching from Namibia🇳🇦

  • @Mckenzie.danaeee
    @Mckenzie.danaeee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so cute🙌🏾🌸 he definitely was looking into the future imagining the wedding the kids the house the legacy give the brother a chance fr🧎🏾‍♀️🙌🏾

  • @bananabeetv3730
    @bananabeetv3730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    This is a bittersweet situation I know they probably don’t get a lot of blacks but my goodness you handled it very well